My Parents Tried To Screw Over My Dying Step-Mom And It All Blew Up On Them r/Relationships
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The one they're stealing the money from isn't Jane because she'll be dead but OP. They're taking the money that was meant to go to THEIR children and planning to blow through it.
Not just OP, but the twin brothers as well. Egg doner would have happily bankrupt Jane's kids.
Trash will do what trash will do. My stepmother felt it ok to financially exploit me when I was a teenage girl. I’m talking thousands of $$. They (OP’s bio parents) will screw over children (their own blended children) cos money. The higher the amount, the worse trash will do to get it. Trash will do what trash will do.
@@darkmask5933 oh most definitely!
"Jane raised me better than that." Too right, OP.
Story 1: "Jane started crying at the end but she promised me it was just because she was grateful."
Man, who's the one who brought in the bowl of onions?
Fucking Onion Ninjas!!!
"Because Jane raised me better than that."
Look, I don't want to make light of physical abuse, but I feel like that ruthless mic drop was absolutely worth a slap in the face. I'm sure getting in a good jab doesn't make any of this easier, but hot damn did OP ever win that encounter.
OP should have called the cops on her: domestic violence. 🚔
@@jgw5491in many states, since OP was 17 at the time, it would still be considered child abuse and assault. Yes, the cops should have been called!
thats a badge of honor
I cant help but wonder if op’s mom and dad poisoned Jane for her money esp bc each time she would see Jane no one would give her any explanation on why she looked sicker and sicker.
Yes, this! This was my first thought too. There are many things that could be used.
Maybe, but it doesn't sound like OPs parents are able to wipe their own asses let alone plan a murder together.
Also, cancer does act this way. This is how my late SIL's symptoms progressed after fighting breast cancer for several years. My mom's late mom suffered like this, too. Colon cancer>breast cancer >bone cancer. Even visiting every day, they each looked worse each time. The adults were wrong not to prepare Jane's kids for what was happening. I guess they just thought "we'll tell them she's improving until she dies". Not cool! For my dad's mom, we were preparing for her 95th birthday even though she was sick after breaking her hip. We should have done a Celebration as soon as the doctors said she was going down hill instead of "hoping she makes it to her birthday". She died exactly 3 weeks before her birthday. She died July 4, 2022. I like to see it as her finding her Independence from her pain. (I'm American and July 4th is our Independence Day.) I miss them all so much! We should not stop celebrating other people's birthdays just because they "are now adults". We should always show them that we love them, but everyone should be celebrated each year: their lives, accomplishments, and how much they have impacted our hearts.
I want to be surprised that your spot on about the idea that they were poisoning Jane
Not the first time I’ve heard of long term poisoning. Arsenic has been used during multiple murder cases.
For being only 17, OP is a rock solid individual. Not that all teenagers are immature, but she definitely stands out as being wise far beyond her years. It's sad that she had to grow up so fast, but with such a great head on her shoulders, she has the world at her feet. Best of luck in everything you do, OP! ❤
I genuinely don't understand why the dad is hanging around the mom still, she openly admitted she doesn't love him and was only using him for money and they're still together??
Because he's a loser, thus he behaves like one.
I hope op takes some time to ask Jane about her history and record it. those stories are invaluable for you and your bros
Part of me hopes that Jane can make it until OP is 18 and that maybe she could ask Jane to do an adult adoption. The reason I suggest it is two fold; one so Jane knows how much she means to the OP and knows she considers her as her true mom and second is so that the OP Biomother will have no legal ties to the OP meaning if something happens and dad is MIA her Biomom can’t do anything if the OP winds up in say a coma or another state where she can’t make decisions for herself.
Hey mark, I love listening to your channel while working on sewing projects or in the car. Currently I am sewing some patches onto my hiking day pack, I got some new ones from the national forest I spent the weekend hiking in. Best wishes from Kentucky!
Can't op just designate someone to be in charge of decisions if she's ill when she turns 18?
Jane's sister sounds the best option for that!
When you realize your parents are a garbage fire on fire😑 I hope this doesn't all slam down on op emotionally when she's no longer in emergency coping mode
Poor Jane got a man from a dumpster, elevated him with love and dignity only to find herself with a dumpster man. At last she glt THREE awesome children out of him
Best Step Mom, what horrible parents; no loyalty to their kids or their spouses. Prayers to the children and Jane
I feel very deeply for OP. I was in a similar situation growing up regarding having absentee parents and raising siblings. It’s a hard life and I can’t imagine how hard losing that amazing step mom must be.
Jane is an amazing woman and mother and raised OP to be the same. Good on OP for wanting to keep her brothers with her and close. Her parents, wow, just wow. Her parents are vile people. The dad, I just cannot believe was that naive and to do that to a woman that did everything for him to give him balance, peace and stability.. Horrible mother..
Jane reminded me of my stepfather, jeeezz, I miss that man. He was wonderful and caring like Jane. I named one of my sons after him, and he will always live on in my heart❤
This is a great Video. This brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
I am sorry about what you have been through. I have been through something similar and was almost depressed, till I contacted a spiritual counsellor who helped me get my ex back and hence my life back.
Interesting. Who is this counsellor, and how do I meet the person?
Thanks a lot. I just did. Impressive.
Jane is the only parent here
This makes me so sad… (step)mom doesn’t deserve to be sick and dying…
😭 OOP and Jane are amazing people. OOP had to grow up fast and took a huge massive burden on. She had Jane that taught her so much and did so well, also for the young boys.
The bio-parents of OOP, her mother is a massive POS. The father is an idiot and total pushover, especially still staying with the ex.
I so wish the best for OOP and that Jane rests when it's her time knowing that OOP has a good head on her shoulders and her boys have support, too. So much emotion, hurt, deception, manipulation, like the narcissist cookbook from the bios. I can't imagine. Just wow.
I shed tears... I'm going to go sit in my safe space and hope their situation turns to the positive while I overcome of triggers I got. ❤
Jane sounds like a wonderful person and I'm so glad she and OP got to be in each other's lives. "Jane raises me better than that" was such a perfect response to her awful bio mom ❤ I hope OP told Jane she said that
The dad is just pathetic. He cheated on his dying wife and was used by his ex that admitted to not caring for him. Then he stays with that woman and gives her all his money still. It’s kinda like he knows he fucked up big time but has to stick with it since there’s nothing else for him. There is no way that man is even close to being happy and he only has himself to blame.
I hope some day OP sees this comment -- OP you are the textbook description of a true warrior. You are remarkable, mature and have aa beautiful heart and soul! I'm sorry you had to deal with all of this; at the same time please remember you've come this far. I 💯 believe you have very many great things coming to you. Embrace them, I wish you the very best; it's well deserved. ❤
Perfect timing, Mark! Was just settling down to sew some patches onto my jacket! Well wishes from London!
OP is a strong and loving woman just like her soul momma. ❤
I can’t cry right now but I really want to.
Proof. Excellent people are raised, not born. Certainly not to two pitiful wastes.
I see this going down one of two ways, one is Dad and Bio Mom (Jane is 110% OP's actual mom) aren't going to make it too long after learning they're not getting much if anything out of Jane's death OR they'll stick together and the fact the dad has to keep leaving Bio-mom's place is already a good indication of how toxic the relationship already is, either way dad blew up for his family for a toxic gold digger who was after Jane's money (and to make matters worse it was his ex - dude already broke up with her for a reason, amazing how some people forget that when getting back with exes)
I’m not crying, my eyes are just sweating
I wouldn't be surprised if, after Jane passes away, OP would get child support for her brothers from her father. If she gets custody of them, he will be having to fork out child support for his sons.
I can't wait to hear the shot show after Jane's passing away and that OP is the new owner of the house that Jane bought before she got married with OPs father.
Oh, Mark! Your story with your dad and family brought me to tears ❤️
Op is amazing.. and she will be an inspirational influence on her younger brothers after Jane is gone. What a great kid. I can’t even imagine having such a shiny done at that age
Hi waffles! Hope you are all doing well! Have a great rest of your terrific Tuesday! Stay Safe and Stay positive waffles!
Hey to you too Waffle Squad Posse! Relaxing in bed, 6pm being lazy, lol with the cat tucked under me! I hope you have an amazing rest of your Tuesday!
Like the commenter said. I hope that, when my time comes, someone loves me as much as OP. I know I'm not always the best person, but I hope I've lived and continue to live the kind of life where people think of me fondly.
Mind, I also hope people hear of my death and breathe a sigh of relief that they never have to worry about running into me again. It's a balance.
Oh hi, Mark! Still loving the notes on the bg images. Hope you're well!
OP has already proven she's a great human being, and with this kind of maturity she will become a great personality. Jane instilled her spirit in OP. I cried listening to the story.
How did the mom find out about the change in the trust before everyone else did??
How the heck could OP take care of a house? She needs money- even if there’s no mortgage, there’s probably taxes on it. What about bills? Jane could’ve just made a different trust for OP. Or, give OP a trust and the house, since she wants OP to also take care of her brothers, and OP wants to. That would be the best thing.
OP’s dad is such a fair weather husband and father for that matter Jane literally picked him up from rock bottom and made him into a present father and then he does this to her with his awful ex too
Just call him jellyfish because that man doesn't have a spine. He couldn't even stand up for his own daughter getting bullied and assaulted. Can't even defend his wife's memory and she's not even dead yet. Nevermind cheating on her when she's on her death bed, that's disgusting enough. The pattern that I noticed was that he lets women make all his decisions for him. Not a particular woman, just whatever woman happens to be in the room at the time. His relationship with his own mother must have been a real doozy. Hope he loses the barnacle bitch and gets some therapy, but it's probably too late to rebuild his relationships with his kids.
Damn.
When Op said the Jane just hadn't realized that Op *was* their mom.
Truth Time?
That made me tear up.
Story 1: I am so proud of OP. Not only did she not betray Jane‘s trust, she admitted to what she did to her parents. That must have been hard, she’s so brave.
I’ve never been this early. Happy to be here lmaooo, I was desperately looking for something. I actually wanted to listen to!!! Thanks for all your hard work Mark!
I started crying halfway through this. I hope OP take the time to get some grief counseling.
Hi Mark! Your videos always make my lunch breaks better ❤
Hope everything goes as well as it can for OP, her brothers, and Jane🙏💖
I love how you tell the main story first. It's discouraging when I have to go through stories before I get to the one I want to hear. Thank you 🙂🦋
I can relate to this story , my mom had cancer , dad was an alcoholic, I had a job paid rent on our motel apartment , dropped out of school ,and had the only car which I paid for. I was 15 at the time .
Mark is such a wonderful person. All I know is his voice, but I'm grateful to have gotten to hear the stories about his parents. It's helped me come to terms with the fact that my parents aren't immortal and I really need to take advantage of the time I have left with them.
Op, you are amazing. Could OP talk to Jane's Lawyer about custody of your siblings as being with dad will be unsafe? Wishing the best for OP
OP really got it all from Jane. Her warrior spirit and caring nature ❤
Those poor kids! My heart goes out to all 3 of them. I truly hope they stick together as they grow & get older because they can continue the family Jane started with them. And it's soo refreshing to hear about an amazing and saint like step parent. Wish them all the best❤
I didnt give you permission to make me cry today, Mark.❤
Stories like this one are so wild to me because they sound more like a Lifetime movie than real life. I do hope that this OP finds peace and happiness moving forward from all this craziness. I also hope that OP has relatives that aren’t crazy or selfish that she can lean on for support. Just because she will be 18 soon doesn’t mean that she won’t need emotional (possibly financial) support from her family anymore.
Jane sounds like a total saint. That being said, that family was FULL of red flags from day one. Jane is definitely a better person than me, but no matter how good hearted you are, never attach yourself to a family of people who are that self-destructive. My heart hurts for Jane and OP.
When OP's siblings turn 18 and control of the home maintenance fund gets turned over to her, she'll then realize that she didn't actually sacrifice her part of the inheritance at all. She just had her father's portion given to her.
Your openness with your own past is a good example of being open with emotions as a man, well done Mark. Thank you for the videos
One thing that is getting clear to me as I get older is that for better or for worse, anyone can be a parent.
That was a sad one good for Op clapping
The scary part is that if the bio mom hadn’t started showing her true colors before Jane passed, no one would have known what was being planned until it was too late
Mark, your story made me lose it, and I have been doing so well. My dad has a rare cancer, and is experiencing an even rarer relapse that has taken almost all of his faculty away, in a very short amount of time. They are doing treatment, but he is dying. In March, he was completely normal, today, he is very weak, cannot talk, has use of only one eye, and can barely eat because he has lost his ability to swallow. No one talks about the horror of watching someone who is still alive, losing every little bit of autonomy, and freedom. He has lost everything.
Mark. Your father sees you and your family all the time, he's looking down on you, happy he helped raise someone as loving as you.
Sending hugs Mark. That got me too
Love from NYC ❤
As someone who's mom died when I was 19, I can safely say I would not be able to deal with all that
Does Jane actually have a disease/ medical issue, or is something else happening here? Or should I stop watching detective shows?
It was really interesting that she was progressing rapidly until she started the divorce process.
This young lady is on a boat in a swimsuit living her best young/ rich life. The haters always gonna hate!
"He may have been your father, but I was your daddy." -Yondu
Swap genders, then substitute Jane for Yondu
Hard day to hear about dieing Mama's today. 6 year anniversary of my Mama dieing today. But, I'm doing ok...ok as can be expected haha.
My dad lost his father when he was 9. 1965 and rheumatic fever attacked his heart. He was a wonderful man, but my Nonna was a wonderful, strong woman. She had to raise all of her children by herself during a turbulent time where women weren’t equal to men. She did such a good job. But it was still so very hard. Poverty of being an immigrant on top of it all. OP doesn’t have a wonderful mother or father to fall back on. I feel so very very sad for them and their brothers. It sounds like they have an aunt that can be their backbone. It sounds like OP lost part of her childhood however. They need therapy also. I hope that an adult in their life tells them this. 2 deadbeat bio parents and the loss of their REAL parent at such a young age. They shouldn’t need to be strong right now. I’m so heartbroken for them.
"She had to dissolve my trust fund to ensure my mom didn't get any of the money." I thought the point of a trust fund was that no one can access it except the person its intended for after a certain period of time? I'm not being critical of the step mom, I'm just confused about how trust funds work now, lol.
I'm surprised shes calling her egg donor her mum still when Jane was always her real mum
Make sure not to get custody custody but the kinship thing where your dad will have to pay child support and if he dies or ends up with a disability that prevents him from working the State will send subsidies like if you were a foster caregiver. Even if Jane's left you money, you shouldn't have to dip into that to raise your brothers. And I'm sure your brothers would agree if they understand the logistics of it as well.
Who is this gold star human named "Jane"? This is one of the few times that we didnt need to be concerenee about annonimity because Jane should be recognized. Oh well, I guess everyone wants privacy.
Jane went out knowing that she had love. OP felt pain but I bet she learned whats true. A priceless gift. And screw that spineless father and jealous egg donor.
I'm confused. there's dialysis for complete kidney failure and kidney transplants. She can afford to buy a kidney if it's legal there.
Of course bio mom had every reason to feel threatened by Jane, Jane is better than her in every conceivable way. Heck, an orange is better than bio mom at this point, that’s how much she sucks.
People who clamber for inheritance or insurance money really tick me off!
It's like you're hoping to win a prize for a person's death.
There's nothing nice about it. You're getting money from the death of a family member.
This is definitely true evil at lowest people could ever be so karma will win at some point in time
Jane is leaving OP an inheritance worth more than both of her own kid’s inheritances combined? Wtf?
Eh, op is her kid too in her eyes
Jane is leaving OP an inheritance that will see that the two young kids are taken care of by someone Jane can count on to do so. It's not always about the dollar amounts.
clarify to me what would be "irreversible kidney failure" and how that kills people; people have two kidneys, if one rots you remove it and the other works normally; if both fail, you either get a transplant or live in dialysis forever. Annoying i suppose, but doable.
Is there some other complication i'm unaware of?
Why do I have a feeling that OP's mom cheated on OP's dad and that was a big reason behind the divorce?
I wanna know how Jane got kidney failure. I hope there was no foul play involved.
1st story, the girl is super
man...gotta ask just how damn broken by the exwife is ops dad here? no way a victim but its clear years of abuse by her had shattered him given how pathetic he is now.
I've never been first before. Hi Mark 👋.
Jesus, first story is basically how both of my sh-t parents operate. My dad would sell his own family if it benefited him and my mom is a heartless cold calculating gold digger who has broken so many men emotionally and financially. She’s ruthless. They both are. When I stopped speaking to my dad-I blew up his whole life on the way out the door. I warned his sugar mama wife when they met how he was but she had blinders on because he’s hot and deceptive as hell. My parents are the type that both absolutely ooze sensuality and sex appeal. Anyway I left her with the parting gift of who exactly to watch out for in my Dad’s life, and where to watch him at. Apparently this time she listened because they are now divorced. He took her for everything that he could as the main bread winner, but she can’t say that she wasn’t warned. She just didn’t want to believe it like people around hot manipulative people never do want to believe it. Then they’d have to leave if they have a shred of self respect and it’s hard to do when you are wildly attracted to someone.
1.5 x more doesn't really sound like a big number as opposed to 2x or 3x
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Is someone cutting onions in here
When the bio parents are useless garbage. OP you are a strong soul.
Of course the one good step parent on reddit has to be dying smh
Dang it mark, why do keep letting those bloody onion ninjas into your videos
This story makes no sense to me, and I normally can enjoy even the fake ones.
Hey can you take care of yourself? Just do one small thing that will make yourself happy. And if you feel like you can do more, please stretch, drink some water, and eat something. You matter so much. I send all the virtual love. 💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗
I don't know, but this sounds very soap-operish or fanfic-ish.
"I'm not trying to take away from your situation" and then continues to take away from their situation. :|
An interesting story, I feel the author did a good job reversing the wicked stepmother trope, but over did it with bio mum announcing she didn't live him, dramatically.
I've literally experienced situations in real life like that so why do you think it's fake? People are legitimately trash and do things like this and if you haven't experienced it you haven't touched enough grass in your life. The entire world does not exist in your mom's basement where nothing ever happens.
@@impishrebel5969Especially when statistics can back up the amount of times men cheat on their terminally ill spouses
Op was an idiot for exposing herself as the snitch.
There are two kinds of people who give a shit about snitching: criminals and middle schoolers. I say it ain't snitching if there weren't no loyalty to begin with. As you can see, OP's loyalty was with Jane.
@realotiswashington you don't casually expose yourself when you're in the vulnerable position
@@madambutterfly1997
I don't think it was casual at all. I think it was intentional and, for op, a matter of conviction. You're right that hiding would be easier; I respect the open and honest person that op is becoming.
@@madambutterfly1997 I disagree. Snitching requires some level of trust and understanding between the snitch and and the perp. And going off of OP's story, there wasn't much of a relationship between her and "mommy".