Kheev Lam Yog Kuv Npau Suav. 4/29/23
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- Kheev Lam Yog Kuv Npau Suav.
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Thank you for not only sharing your learning mistake but also highlighting your daughter’s final selfless act of kindness by being an organ donor. Your family’s tragedy helped gave others a chance at life and allow your beautiful daughter to continue living through them.
I know it was upsetting for you to learn about this at first but I hope your story will inspire our Hmong community to be more open to organ donation particularly the older generation. Please change our thinking that it’s against our religion. No matter what your beliefs are, this is a kindness that makes a profound impact and difference on earth and beyond in heaven. I am glad you met your daughter’s kidney recipient and it gave you some level of comfort knowing she lives on through your hearts and memories and this individual.
I’m so sorry for your loss. My heart aches and I cried with you and your wife.
We parents need to learn to change our thinkings about race/marriage and support our children.❤
As much as parents want their children to be successful, they should remember that having happy children is equally important. One of the greatest gifts parents can give to their children as they grow up and become young adults trying to make their way in the world is SUPPORT---support the decisions their adult children make as long as it's not harming anyone and makes them happy because this is their life, not the parents'.
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To the parents of this beautiful young woman: Please forgive yourselves. Do not punish yourselves any further with blame and guilt for what you didn’t know better before. I am sure your daughter would want that for you and for you to find peace and healing in your hearts. By sharing your story, you are helping others learn from your experience. I hope it gives you comfort in knowing the difference you made in our community by speaking out on this topic.
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Parents are selfish until they lost their kids then realized it's too late to turn back
Ua tsaug rau 2tug txij nkawm uas nkawv tau share zaj neej neeg ntawm nov rau peb ua kev kawm thiab txaus tu siab heev li 😢 😢😢
I’m very sorry for your loss so sad. You said you loved your daughter but you didn’t care about her heart her loved you only cared about your satisfaction to made you happy not her happiness I have children too I would never cut my children’s love to a person that makes him or her happy you only thought of yourself not her feeling! I’m truly sorry for your loss this story should teach some of our Hmong people to try to stop your children’s who they can love.
Don’t blame them. They just wanted the best for her. I am a mom myself and completely understand them.
So sorry for your loss😢. I hope that Hmong parents and other parents understand that love doesn’t have color because we are all the same in many ways if we only give them a chance we will see and know. I married outside of my Hmong culture and I tell my kids doesn’t matter who you love or marry I just want you guys ti love each other and be good to each other because in the end it’s my life but yours.
Such a heart breaking story😢 Hais rau tus txiv tsev ntawm tus me ntxhais no tias neb txhob rau txim nyhav, nyhav rau neb ib niam txiv os mog txawm li cas los txhua yam twb lig tag lawm es zoo siab qhov neb muab qhia rau peb cov niam txiv Hmoob uas pheej txwv2 tej tub tej ntxhais rau txoj kev Xaiv txiv Xaiv nkawm es ua tsaug ntau. Nrog neb Khuv Xim neb tus me ntxhais os mog. May God continues to comfort you and your family.
As parents, we just want what best for them. The first thing is for them to be happy regardless of who they want to be or who they want to be with. Our love for them is unconditional. If it was her wish to be a donor, also honor that. Your beautiful daughter was a wonderful soul, and you should learn from her.
My family disowned me 6 years ago after my loveless and childless divorce and for being with a white man. I don’t know what tomorrow brings but it was the best decision for me. I now raise my mixed kids without my family’s approval, love and support, but that makes me work so much harder at giving my kids a better life. A life without culture controlling them and others telling them how they should live and act.
Don’t let your kids or family get to this point. We came to America for a better life. Follow what makes you happy, as life is too short.
Very sad for your loss, but glad that you learned a value life lesson concerning children's love lives this century. I have children married and/or dated other races, but I said, it's your life, if you're happy and know for sure the other person loves you, then that's all that matters. I love my grandkids just as much as they are all Hmoob grandkids! If anyone says they love their child, but if that child dates or married another race then they will cut out that child from their lives, or they don't care or love their grand children, then they are lying about loving their children!
But would you still feel the same way if they're gay?
Tus me txiv ntxawm los yog txiv hlob aw koj zaj me neej neeg tus siab heev li os nrog neb tu siab os kuv nco kuv niam ces nim nco npaum li neb nco neb tus me ntxhais thiab os vim li no es tej laus thiaj tias kub luag hauv toj ces yus zoo ntsia tab sis txog yus es yus thiaj paub no os vim peb ua neej maub dub xwb tsi muaj leej twg yuav paub tias tag kis yuav zoo li cas os ua siab loj mog tseem tshuav cov nrog neb nyob os hlub neb mog
It doesn’t matter who our children marry as long as they love each other and want a good life together. That is his/her life. As parents, our responsibility is to support them.
Thank you for sharing your story. I'm so sorry for your loss. It is a good reminder for us to be open to our kids thoughts but please know her death is not your fault. It is the drunk driver's fault.
Tu siab kawg. Peb yuav tau pauv hloov txhob coj li no lawm. Kuv cov ntxhais 4 tug lawv yeej yuav lwm haiv neeg thiab. Vim kuv paub tias lawv nyiam tus twg lawm cia lawv yuav. Txhob txwv tej menyuam nawb.
Condolences to your family. Lesson learn for hmong parents
Txoj kev ua niam thiab ua txiv ces yeej nyuaj os. Txoj kev tsis sib nkag siab los yeej ntau thiab txoj kev tsis sib to tau los peb sawvdaws yeej muaj kawm txhua hnub tsis tiav. Kuv pab nrho koj thiab koj tsev neeg tu siab tias nej txoj hmoo los zoo li no. Yeej tsis muaj ib tug niam thiab ib tug txiv twg xav txais txoj kev zoo li koj txoj. Thov kom lub sijhawm kho tau koj txoj kev tu siab thiab so tau koj lub kua muag, tiamsis thov kom koj thiab koj tus ntxhais neb txoj kev sib raug zoo thiab kev lom zem yav tag los nyob nrog nraim koj mus tsis ploj. 💞
Ua tsaug koj muab los qhia rau sawvdaws kom hos txhob raug rau lwm tus os mog. We can't change the past but we can all learn to do better. May your daughter rest in peace.
ua tsaug niam ntsuab teev hais zaj neej neeg no rau peb cov niam cov txiv ua kev kawm ntawm tej me nyuam txoj kev nkauj nraug kom tsis txhob txwv 2 .
Hlub neb tus txhais hv li o mloog es los2 kua muag kawg li o
Ua ib siab o muab liam rau txoj hmoob xb o
Tu siab heev 😭😭😭😭😭😭
Nrog neb tu siab tiag2 li os....peb ua 1 leej niam leej txiv ces peb txhua tus yeej xav ib yam nkaus, tab sis yog txog qhov ho txwv tsis tau lawm los txhob txwv2 thiab. Mloog koj txoj no mas tu2 siab hlub2 neb thiab neb tus me ntxhais kawg, kuv mas niam nrog neb quaj2, thov kom neb tus me ntxhais mus nawb mog.
Tsis yog tim neb os, yog tias mus tsoo mam thiab yog tim neb. Yog tim tus mekas qhaug cawv ntawv xwb. Tabsi qhov tu siab yog neb tsis lees txais nws tus hluas nraug es ntshe nws tuag tau tu siab nrho lawm xwb.
Kuv mloog koj zaj no mas kuv nim nrog neb khub me niam txiv mob mob siab los los kua muag li os thiab kuv kuj muaj tub yuav mes kas thiab os mog vim ntshai txoj kev ko thiaj tsis txwv tsis txiav tej me nyuam txoj kev hlub li
Reasons why I let my kids free to choose their partner.
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😭😭😭 cas hlub hlub tus me viv ncaus uas xiam no ua luaj li os..... hlub los hlub , hlub ib niam txiv laus no los hlub os... 😢💔
Tu tu siab ua luaj li no os. Kuv yuav thov mus hlub kuv cov me nyuam tsaj qhov qub. Such a strong lesson to learn from. 😢
Im sorry to hear such sad news. Condolences to you and your family. Hopefully you and your family find peace and heal from this tragedy. I believe its not because of your daughter's relationship but the accident. Things happen, even if you and your wife approved of her relationship, the accident would still happen. Dont be too hard on yourselves.
It’s true but on the other hand if she didn’t drive around just to go see their old places , old memories then the accident shouldn’t happened too
Yes, a drunk driver could hit her in the way to the mall or to school. It's not that she was stressed and that's why the drunk driver hit her. Forgive yourself..
No words.. no words but tears
Hlub neb tus me ntxhais tshaj plaws li 😭😭😭😭😭😭
Peb Hmoob lub siab yeej phem. Peb xaiv tus neeg peb nyiam rau peb tej minyuam xwb. Peb tsi paub tias tus lawv tsi nyiam ces lawv hlub tsi tau thiab nrog tsi tau ua neej. Lawv yuav los hlub thiab los hlub lawv. Tsi yog los ua qhev li peb Hmoob xav. Peb xaiv tus niam txiv muaj nyiaj, kawm ntawv siab, tus loj tus siab thiab los ua peb neeg puas pab tau peb xwb. Peb tuaj nyob lub teb chaw no ntev lawm tsim nyog yuav hloov xob coj lub siab qub puag thaum ub lawm.
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tu siab tshaj😭😭😭
You are such a good and loving father. May God comfort you and your family in this difficult time.
Cas tu siab ua luaj li, nrog neb tu siab os mog nrog neb los2 kua muag kawg li. Kuv ob tug viv ncaus ncaim kuv mus tag lawm thiab tus niam hluas tseem hluas2 mob sai heev mus lawm, kuv mob siab tshaj plaws niam hnub sau ntawv rau nws tus fb msg los tsis saib tsis teb li tu siab kawg li os😢😢😢
My condolence to your loss daughter. Listening to this story gives me heartaches. Took me to heart I cried emotionally with you and wife. God Blessed you and your family good health and wealth
Nrog koj mob siab heev li os.
Zaj neej neeg no mam zoo kaqg li os g tau hnov yuav muaj ib tus txiv tsev qhov ua zoo es yuav hlub tus ntxais npaum li no os
It's true.
I cried!
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Neb yog ib khub niam txiv siab phem tshaj plaws li Tiam sis ua tsaug uas neb muab coj tuaj piav ua kev kawm rau peb mloog peb xyaum peb hloov thiab
Cas kuv yuav nrog neb khub niam txiv no quaj quaj thiab tu tu siab kawg vim neb txwv txwv es neb tus ntxhais thiaj li tau tso neb tseg mus lawm zaum no ua 1 qhov kev kawm rau cov niam cov txiv ua txwv txwv tub ntxhais hmoob txhob ua txhob coj li zaj dab neeg no lawm mog kwv tij hmoob vim peb nyob meka teb nyob tiam tshiab tiam 21 no lawm os
😭😭😭😭tus siab kawg li os
Sorry for your loss 😢 I was once like this to my daughter too until i started to listen to all May's stores about dating other races. We just have live n learn to accept others 🙏
Listening to this in 2024 and I still cry. 😭
Omg this story is so sad 😢
Neb tus me ntxhais yeej hlub hlub neb os…. Nws thiaj li tso nws tus hluas nraug. Vim tus neeg qaug cawv xwb os mog. Hlub hlub neb tus me ntxhais thiab neb kawg nawb.❤😢
Tus me brother thiab sister pab hlub neb heev li o kuv nim ntshai2 tsam zoo li no es kuv tuaj li tias kom kuv tus txiv yuav tau ua siab loj thiab txawm tham thiab yuav leej twg los tsuav hlub nws xwb ces yeej nrog nws zoo siab xwb o.
We are the parents we very need to change our thinking who ever our children love or like we should learn to let them go it's their lives.
Peb cov muaj tub ntxhaisus tham lwm cov neeg ces tsuas hais ib lwm xwb hais tsis tau lawm ces thiaj ua ib siab ces ntshai li nov mas brother txhob tu siab thiab tej zaum yeej yog nws txoj hmoo los li ntawv
To all parents: Remember Adam and Eve and the original sin? We are all human like they were, so as soon as something or someone is forbidden, that's when the temptation becomes the greatest.
If you dont want that to happen, educate your children and let them choose. It's unfortunate that some parents have to experience extreme situations like this one to understand.
To the parents of this story, your daughter cannot change your view while alive, but in the end she change you both. She still with you even though is not in the form you both know. Forgive yourself and love the one still with you. It would mean so much for her.
I'm so sorry for your loss... I understand you're just being a old school Hmong father... 😢😢😢
mi nus aw kuv pab neb hlub thiab tu siab nrog ne khuv xim kawg li os mi nus aw ua ib siab mog kuv nyob thaib teb roob tsua ntuj os kuv hlub neb heeb os
😢 makes me cry already and it just the beginning of the story
Ive lost a child too, my 1st born, my son. And your story hits home. Im so srry for ur loss and i know it never gets better but stay strong.
I'm so sorry to hear that. How long ago did she/he passed away 😢. How old?😢
@@monicaxyooj905 he was 9mo old when he passed away. And this was back in 2009.
Good story. Hais tau zoo kawg li. Luag lwm haiv neeg los yeej muaj cov zoo zoo kawg thiab. Peb cov hmoob los yeej tsis zoo tas tus. Thov kom peb siab loj rau peb cov menyuam txoj kev xaiv nkauj nraug thiab. Thank you for sharing.
Sorry for you’re loss . This is a very important learning lesson for all parents . We need to be able to be supportive and open to our children’s to date what we race they are dating… we need to break this curse and allowed our future children’s to love and be with whoever they want to be.. Remember it’s they’re life…. We as parents are there to support which ever choices they make . ❤
I'm so sorry. The pain and regret is unbearable. But...I pray, in time, you can forgive yourself. Your intention was love, and though you didn't know better, she has forgiven you. Accidents happen, and it wasn't your fault. It could have happened even if you approved of her boyfriend. Maybe you feel guilty that her last few days were stressful, but don't feel guilty for the accident. You have to let yourself blame the drunk driver. Forgive yourself and love the children that are still here. And live life to the fullest.
That is why you don’t try stop a relationship with any other race you can tell them but don’t put too much pressure on them
Tusiab tshaj li os ! Thov hloov thiab lauj Tsi txhob txwv2 yus tej menyuam os ! Yuav neeg dad tsi los yog neeg tag nrho . Yog hmoob zoo npawm koj xav ces twb tsi sib nrauj puv Ntuj li mas
Tim neb ua Niam ua txiv xwb os, txhob txwv tej mi nyuam nawb peb tej mi nyuam CES yus ywj lawv pab txhawb lawv xwb CIA lawv xaiv Tus lawv nyiam2 lawv thiab sib hlub nawb mog 🙏🙏
😢 sorry your loss
This story makes me so sad and upset. I can relate to this story, I am a Hmong American kid born in the US. My parents had mistreated me and had wished death apon me just for loving someone that is not Hmong. Breaks my heart to listen to these kind of stories.
So sorry for your loss. I cried with you too.
Kuv nrog neb quaj2 thiab os nkawv aw hlub neb tus me ntxhais tsaj li os mog hlub2 neb kawg li os😂😂😂
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Tusiab kawg. It's all water under the bridge now. Please do allow your child to seek their own happiness. Sometimes, it's best to let them go through certain events. 😢
I’m blessed that my children decided to stay with me and their dad while in college. I’m not sure how life would be if they attended out of state university. I’m mean almost all universities have similar studies. Not only you don’t get to see them but it cost more to attend out-of-state school too .
My son graduated college snd dated an American girl and getting ready to marry her in a few months. I had no issues but my husband was sad for a while…I think now my husband realized it’s our son’s choice and his life.
Nrog ne tu siab heev li os
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Nrog neb tu2 siab os mob siab tshaj li nawb los2 kua muag os
so sorry and so sad 😭😭😭😭😭😭😢
Don't be sad that your daughter donate her organs because she save so many people lives and all those people are thankful. I am a kidney receiver and peop6like your daughter make a great difference in others live. Thank you for the kindness people like your daughter. Sorry for your loss
So sorry for your loss. This was the reason why my parents let me marry outside my race. I told them that I tried to be with Hmong and Hmong didn’t love me. I found someone who loved me for me and they let us be together and get married.
I am so sorry for the loss of your daughter. She saved lives with her unconditional love of life.
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Sorry for your loss. So sad that such a young soul was taken away too soon. I lost my brother 1.5 yrs ago. I know how you guys felt. It hurts all the way to the core of the bone.
Neb ua rau neb tus me Ntxhai nyuaj siab dhau lawm os. Nrog neb khuv Xim nws os
Ca kv g nkag siab e nw g tau tuag e nw yeej hai tias nw tuag nw yuav muab nw tej raum ntawv rau lwm tus lov
I’m so sorry about your loss. Hmong peoples never learn any thing why hampering like this! Now it’s too late.
So sad😢
As parents, we all want what's best for our kids, but we need to let them decide. Let them choose who they want to be with. The more we try to control and dictate their life, the more unhappy and miserable they will be. QUIT thinking that hmong ppl are superior!!! QUIT forcing your kids to ONLY date and marry your own race!!! Love knows no boundaries. It comes in all shapes and sizes. It sees no color. As long as our children are happy, that should be enough!!! I have PLENTY of siblings who married outside of our hmong race, and they are perfectly happy. They've been married for many years now. Quit with the stereo type that white ppl won't take care of you in your old age. Quit thinking that mekas ppl only want to use you. There are good and bad ppl EVERYWHERE!!! My own son is dating outside the hmong race. I and my husband never once restricted him. As long as he is happy, we are happy with him. Txhob ntxwv ntxwv tej mivnyuam lawm os lawv essss!!! Let them find their own happiness. We as parents can only stand by and guide them, support them.
A heart break that will never heal. 💔 😢so sorry for your loss.
Especially when your child goes study long distance you should be supportive so you can be close to your child. My husband and I are open to our children to date anyone they like and we have no problem hating or discriminating any races
My sons don’t need Hmong girls, no money for dowry and I don’t like the Hmong culture, too much work!
Sorry for your loss. It's best to let them be with whoever they want. Being a donor is very important. Just be glad that she is willing to save others with her organs. She saved many lives with her organs.
Breaks my heart as a parents it hurt so much 😢 crying while listening to this story😢
Koj hai yog tshaj li os mi viv n
Sorry for your loss. Don’t be so hard on yourself. Accident happens.
neb ua li tag neb siab yuav tsum qag vim nwg twb ua tau li neb lub siab xav lawm
Vim li cas peb hmoob pheej tos tuag lawm es mam hlub thiab mam li quaj xwb mas?????? Hlub tiag los yog nco dag xwb mas?????
Omg 😢😢😢 this is so sad 😢😢😢
Hi may aw cas koj pheej hais ib zaj lawm xwb os peb xa22 mloog koj hais kom ntau zog koj puas kam hais li ob zaj os ib zaj xwb twb tsis txaus peb mloog li os thov koj hais kom tau ob zaj nawb mog?
I don’t control my children who they chose to married or loved. You two grew up in this country you should know better.
I’m so sorry for the loss of your daughter. May she RIP.
Txoj kev mob siab no tsis Xav Kom raug leej twg kiag li os cov me txiv tsev Thiab niam tsev aw .
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