Poor Brian! I think the girls are being too kind about his fiancee, she is being controlling and manipulative! If the roles were reversed he would be called out for the controlling behaviours as she should be
I’m sorry but this whole asking your significant other to unfollow people is the most pathetic nonsense of all and the biggest red flag. If you can’t handle your partner being friends with colleagues, people of the opposite gender etc you’re not mature enough to be in a relationship. That level of insecurity needs to be worked on first. 19:47 the last thing you should want your partner to feel is isolated. And her questioning him while doing much “worse” just proves every accusation is a confession
100%!! Super unfair. It’s one thing expecting your partner to not follow ex flings/partners etc but random people/friends? She’s obviously very insecure and I’d actually be concerned about her getting up to things behind his back, where does the paranoia come from otherwise!
Completely agree. I don’t think we should shame her, but it sounds like Brian’s fiancée would benefit A LOT from some counselling to work on her insecurities
Would be keen to see a monthly ‘Brian Talk’ episode! It’s really interesting getting an insight into Brians and how their Sarahs behave, to reflect on what us girls could be doing better or to show us how little our Brians understand us hahah. However, I looove still having TGB eps that purely focus on girls’ dilemmas
I can’t believe no one said Lily Allen Not Fair. Had that album and listened to it on repeat when I was like 8 . Tried to sing it in the school talent show and was dumbfounded when my headteacher banned it . “I lie here in the wet patch in the middle of the bed I’m feeling pretty well hard done by I spend ages giving head” 😂😂😂
The only people that I wouldn’t be happy with my Brian following on social media is people he’s had a relationship with or been with previously. Apart from that I don’t care. It sounds like Sarah is a bit insecure and wants male validation - hence the saucy insta posts. But cause she’s insecure she doesn’t want anyone looking at her Brian. Defo double standards and Brian should say something because that’s not ok and it’s super controlling! I don’t even check who likes my Brian’s posts or who’s following him because I trust him. 9 years deep, fiancés should trust each other.
NO NO NO!! Telling your partner to unfollow people is purely narcissistic and insecure behaviour… can we stop with the controlling behaviours and let’s stop excusing these characteristics in relationships!!!
I agree. If you have to ask your partner to unfollow and stop engaging with half naked women or random women on instagram then that already shows his lack of respect for you, you shouldn’t have to ask or question it in the first place x
@@TillyJKM yet again another person missing the point, we’re talking about his WORK and personal friends from life, not half naked models or “random” women
First one is defo double standards she should reciprocate that with her own behaviour & her following & take accountability. He should 10000% voice it. As a girl I can understand y she may feel uncomfortable with random girls, people she’s not aware of following him & him liking pics can be abit concerning but I think society & culture around this has just heightened these emotions and has made it seem alarming if ur man follows a fair amount of females. Following half naked celebrities/ girls & ex’s & ex flings is jus a no go tho
For the girl contemplating moving in with her boyfriend’s family, do NOT do it. I did twice with my ex and his family was lovely, great house etc but it is so constricting and does put stress on the relationship that you don’t expect. We broke up after 4 years together and then I was stuck trying to scramble to find somewhere to live. Also it’s not a long time to be together to be making such a big decision to buy a house together, it’s a big decision, I’d move out together and rent first.
I have just started watching you girlies happy new year love it 😂 no one should tell who you should and shouldn’t have in your life that’s controlling. If they can’t except the people in your life they are not for you. Friends that are male that have over stepped that mark and had that lustful attraction will always have that and that’s tricky you just need to be honest and he needs to make his own choice.
52:08 this one should keep with their plan! If he's not ready and yall have been only together not quite a year yet, keep with your plan. I spent way too long on a guy trying to do things and get the ball rolling with nothing (among family things that happened for me) he didn't want to do anything and I put a lot on hold or let it draw out. Don't stay stagnant for some person especially in those early times even though you wanna be nice and please each other. Keep to your plan and if they match and follow you'll know and not waste your time. I also had a crush on my gay friend until I officially knew he was gay and it took me a while but I was still able to maintain my friendship with him. We are still friends and it's been about 15 years?? Met when I was 17/18-ish and now I'm 32!
Plzzzz the darling that saved for her own house…. I would totally agree with them and get ur own place! My thought process is 3/4 years from now if ur still together what if u have kids and want to update into a bigger home? Think about the money u would have saved during this time with Bryan towards a new place :) there’s just so much more Pros to going ahead and getting ur own place! In my opinion
I think she should just buy the house. It’s only been a year they don’t need to live together. My guess is he brought up the “let’s do it together” bc he’s insecure that he’s still at home and she’ll have a house. You never know where this will end up in another year it may not even work out. So don’t let him hold you back on what you want and are ready for. My personal opinion. And maybe if you do get to a point of living together then he can just move in with you. And like I said if it doesn’t work out, then he can leave and you still have your place.
my favourite song when I was 3 years old was don’t cha by the pussy cat dolls 💀💀 I can only imagine what my parents thought when I was singing that around the house
You do not need to tell your partner details about your sexual history before you met! If you will never go there with that guy again, why tell him? Unless there’s a risk you’ll cheat it’ll just open an unwanted can of worms
I have a clear memory of me and friend performing a dance to our family’s from the ‘satisfaction’ music video and acting out slow-motioning power tools 🤣 I think we were 9 our parents must’ve been mortified 🙈🙈
Poor Brian! I think the girls are being too kind about his fiancee, she is being controlling and manipulative! If the roles were reversed he would be called out for the controlling behaviours as she should be
The first dilemma is crazy. One of the most controlling things I have ever heard.
I’m sorry but this whole asking your significant other to unfollow people is the most pathetic nonsense of all and the biggest red flag. If you can’t handle your partner being friends with colleagues, people of the opposite gender etc you’re not mature enough to be in a relationship. That level of insecurity needs to be worked on first. 19:47 the last thing you should want your partner to feel is isolated. And her questioning him while doing much “worse” just proves every accusation is a confession
100%!! Super unfair. It’s one thing expecting your partner to not follow ex flings/partners etc but random people/friends? She’s obviously very insecure and I’d actually be concerned about her getting up to things behind his back, where does the paranoia come from otherwise!
The double standard is crazy. I’d be concerned about what she is doing
Completely agree. I don’t think we should shame her, but it sounds like Brian’s fiancée would benefit A LOT from some counselling to work on her insecurities
The random birthday shoutout got me 🤣 “happy birthday Emily” who’s Emily 👀✨
LOVE the new thumbnail!!
Would be keen to see a monthly ‘Brian Talk’ episode! It’s really interesting getting an insight into Brians and how their Sarahs behave, to reflect on what us girls could be doing better or to show us how little our Brians understand us hahah. However, I looove still having TGB eps that purely focus on girls’ dilemmas
For pride month this year can we get kane and mark on the pod answering dilemas with u girlies😂❤
I can’t believe no one said Lily Allen Not Fair. Had that album and listened to it on repeat when I was like 8 . Tried to sing it in the school talent show and was dumbfounded when my headteacher banned it . “I lie here in the wet patch in the middle of the bed I’m feeling pretty well hard done by I spend ages giving head” 😂😂😂
I said the same!! I used to belt it out in the car with my family 😭😭
Omg I’m just now realising the giving head part AAAAHAHAHAAH
@@elliehpaige 😂😂😂😂
The girl with the moving in dilemma, buy on your own first. It's not even been 1 year. He can move in with you and pay his ways there
The only people that I wouldn’t be happy with my Brian following on social media is people he’s had a relationship with or been with previously. Apart from that I don’t care. It sounds like Sarah is a bit insecure and wants male validation - hence the saucy insta posts. But cause she’s insecure she doesn’t want anyone looking at her Brian. Defo double standards and Brian should say something because that’s not ok and it’s super controlling! I don’t even check who likes my Brian’s posts or who’s following him because I trust him. 9 years deep, fiancés should trust each other.
NO NO NO!! Telling your partner to unfollow people is purely narcissistic and insecure behaviour… can we stop with the controlling behaviours and let’s stop excusing these characteristics in relationships!!!
are you kidding? It's a matter of respect. I'd never allow my partner to be following half naked women or exes or ex talking stages ??? that's insane
I agree. If you have to ask your partner to unfollow and stop engaging with half naked women or random women on instagram then that already shows his lack of respect for you, you shouldn’t have to ask or question it in the first place x
@usernameinsert4679But in this case we’re talking about his friends from WORK, not only fans models, maybe read the message before going off on one
@@TillyJKM yet again another person missing the point, we’re talking about his WORK and personal friends from life, not half naked models or “random” women
@usernameinsert4679 BIG difference between work friends and friends from his friendship group and half naked models and OF girls…
I spy some Christmas baubles still hanging out in the bubbles by the sink😂🫧
I noticed those too lol wonder how long they're going to hang on through the year 😂
First one is defo double standards she should reciprocate that with her own behaviour & her following & take accountability. He should 10000% voice it. As a girl I can understand y she may feel uncomfortable with random girls, people she’s not aware of following him & him liking pics can be abit concerning but I think society & culture around this has just heightened these emotions and has made it seem alarming if ur man follows a fair amount of females. Following half naked celebrities/ girls & ex’s & ex flings is jus a no go tho
First dilemma makes me sad! So controlling!! I understand unfollowing exes and people you’ve gotten with in the past, but friends?? Colleagues?? Wtf
For the girl contemplating moving in with her boyfriend’s family, do NOT do it. I did twice with my ex and his family was lovely, great house etc but it is so constricting and does put stress on the relationship that you don’t expect. We broke up after 4 years together and then I was stuck trying to scramble to find somewhere to live. Also it’s not a long time to be together to be making such a big decision to buy a house together, it’s a big decision, I’d move out together and rent first.
I have just started watching you girlies happy new year love it 😂 no one should tell who you should and shouldn’t have in your life that’s controlling. If they can’t except the people in your life they are not for you.
Friends that are male that have over stepped that mark and had that lustful attraction will always have that and that’s tricky you just need to be honest and he needs to make his own choice.
Can’t believe rude boy by Rihanna wasn’t mentioned 🤣
I can’t stop laughing at the question of the week answers 😂😂
52:08 this one should keep with their plan! If he's not ready and yall have been only together not quite a year yet, keep with your plan. I spent way too long on a guy trying to do things and get the ball rolling with nothing (among family things that happened for me) he didn't want to do anything and I put a lot on hold or let it draw out. Don't stay stagnant for some person especially in those early times even though you wanna be nice and please each other. Keep to your plan and if they match and follow you'll know and not waste your time.
I also had a crush on my gay friend until I officially knew he was gay and it took me a while but I was still able to maintain my friendship with him. We are still friends and it's been about 15 years?? Met when I was 17/18-ish and now I'm 32!
Another American listener here! Love from Virginia 🤍
Not me being zoned out doing work and then being shouted my name by cinz …. Was so confused hahaha 🤣
Plzzzz the darling that saved for her own house…. I would totally agree with them and get ur own place!
My thought process is 3/4 years from now if ur still together what if u have kids and want to update into a bigger home? Think about the money u would have saved during this time with Bryan towards a new place :) there’s just so much more Pros to going ahead and getting ur own place! In my opinion
I think she should just buy the house. It’s only been a year they don’t need to live together. My guess is he brought up the “let’s do it together” bc he’s insecure that he’s still at home and she’ll have a house. You never know where this will end up in another year it may not even work out. So don’t let him hold you back on what you want and are ready for. My personal opinion. And maybe if you do get to a point of living together then he can just move in with you. And like I said if it doesn’t work out, then he can leave and you still have your place.
Not Fair by Lily Allen 😳😳
You have reached Brazil girls! Love the pod ❤🇧🇷
my favourite song when I was 3 years old was don’t cha by the pussy cat dolls 💀💀 I can only imagine what my parents thought when I was singing that around the house
You do not need to tell your partner details about your sexual history before you met! If you will never go there with that guy again, why tell him? Unless there’s a risk you’ll cheat it’ll just open an unwanted can of worms
Please get some sonny angels in the studio!! 🤍
I have a clear memory of me and friend performing a dance to our family’s from the ‘satisfaction’ music video and acting out slow-motioning power tools 🤣 I think we were 9 our parents must’ve been mortified 🙈🙈
I’m 33 and I vividly remember dancing to sex on the beach at primary school discos 😂😂
I’m Emily👋🏻 unfortunately it’s not my birthday🤣🩷🩷
Ooooo thumbnail upgrade
Do not buy with a bf!! Especially if not known long
Pretty much any song from Greece lol 😂
Need the lip combos? ❤
She definitely cheating on him that’s why she’s so paranoid on what he’s doing
Is cindia single?