"My son took my snickers bar without permission so I cut both of his hands off. AITA? Edit: No, he does not pay rent" Reddit: 100% NTA. Your house, your rules.
“Showing my sister’s journal to my friends who are experts” ah yes, her friends must be those 16-years-old sociology and psychology experts you always hear about.
@@leejames929 teens have no idea what the word “expert” means. Another teen who is confident in their assertions can easily pass off as an expert. It’s the main reason why most of them are so gullible, if you sound smart enough they’ll believe you.
NL has toned way down compared to when he started. (Debatably for the better.) If you ever watched some of his really old content (Ex: Poison Mushroom) he was definitely sailing the 7 seas with that sailor mouth.
That stepdaughter getting her diary published is the sort of traumatic thing that can make someone so sensitive about privacy that they freak out when someone finds $3 hidden in her room.
My current gf went through something similar when she was young, and the effect it has had since is really clear. Terrible thing to do. Privacy is so important.
NL you GOTTA always read the comments. Sometimes it just blows my mind how highly upvoted some insane takes can be, and it makes such good content for you to riff on.
NL said "I'm too King Solomon about these issues" on the new house's bedroom swapping hands and I half expected him to be like "Just post the room online until one of your daughters relinquishes ownership of it to avoid living with a stranger"
The assholes may be real and the verdicts may be based. But I refuse to believe that some of these cases he reads are real... for the little shred of hope i still hold for humanity.
@@Mrnoob951, I believe Rob Smith was retrofitting the intro to Judge Judy for React Court and not making any claims about the legitamacy of the 'cases' presented. But yeah, some of these 'cases' have to be fake, otherwise my misanthropy is gonna reach new heights.
One time I stayed late gaming on the school computers and my parents asked about it I said I was "trying to fix them because they were a day behind." What was my infant brain thinking with that one? It might be the weakest lie I've ever told, but they never called me out on it and to be honest that hurts even more.
@@SabertoothSeal I mean, is that even a big deal, though? It's just staying a bit late at school - as long as the school is okay with it (and your parents ofc) then it shouldn't have been an issue, no?
@@SabertoothSeal Yeah that would not have worked in my family. I once was trying to wrap up a conversation when my mom rolled up to the parking lot in middle school to pick me up. She saw me not moving towards the car and legit drove away. I had to chase down the car. No shot she would have waited an hour for me if she wasn't even going to wait 15 seconds.
I started out thinking the father in the journal one was an a-hole but the more I think about it the punishment makes perfect sense. I didn’t have a journal when I was 15 but if I had all my internal thoughts and worries broadcast to the world it would’ve done some SERIOUS psychological damage and I would find it hard to trust anyone when my own sister betrays my most intimate self like that.
Now Im an Australian and admittedly I don't know what the food safety laws and standards are in Canada, but in Australia if a takeaway store gives you extra food and you try to return it they are legally obligated to throw that food out, you can't resell food that could potentially have been tampered with.
As someone who makes most of his income with doordash, I can assure you I would *never* turn around and drive back to a house, ferry unwanted food back to the restaurant, go back into the restaurant, give it to them and say "hey, get another driver in here to take this to its correct destination." (to say nothing of covid, which makes this idea even more insane) there's simply no procedure for that, much less a "MORAL OBLIGATION" lol Way better for them to just eat the food than for it to end up in a dumpster. Australia's health and safety laws have similar analogues here in the States, and in most places which have health and safety laws at all I would assume. Once they've gotten their hands on food, that food really shouldn't be going to other people. Possession is nine tenths of the law and all that.
50:20 reminded me of a video I saw. Basically, it explained that everything you do is nested inside goals. The video used the example 'tickling the baby'. Why tickle the baby? Well, that's nested inside 'play with the baby'. Why play with the baby? Well, that's nested inside 'be a good parent'. Why be a good parent? That's nested inside 'be a good person'. So if you've had a hard day, and someone says "You fucking moron, that's not how you tickle a baby," you're not just being chastised in that one layer, but that chains all the way up to "you're a terrible person" and then you cry because someone said you were tickling a baby wrong.
Hey, that's an interesting way to think about it! Thanks for sharing this. I think I'll try using that approach next time I make a mistake and feel like crumbs for it.
What a great comment. Mentally, it really is about why you did something and not just how you did. Most of us have our best intentions in mind, so being told we are wrong we jump up the nests to ask ourselves why we did something.
@@ssgoko88 so? Weddings are a beautiful event that showcases the best in humanity. It is the holy conjunction of two lives, something majestic and almost other worldly. Kids should see the ceremony that merges two almost random lives into one, distinct matrimony.
@@sweet5304 yeah. On the other hand kids will either forget it or be like “yeah I remember that couple I went to their wedding that one time and haven’t seen them since”. Not to mention how this grills this moronic ideas of “wanting this kind of wedding since I was a little girl” which really needs to stop. It’s unhealthy to walk around thinking about your wedding day before you even have a partner to plan these things with, which also often gets lost in the planning. Not to defend the cheapskate in the other post, he’s a moron. But you shouldn’t grill in ideas of having a dream wedding in a young kids head, weddings always fall short and turn some people into bridezillas.
@@kaingates good point. The focus should be on healthy relationships and their beauty, not the superficial crap that's glorified. Parents and brides/grooms should make that the point
the husband yelling at the wife with ADHD story, i can really relate to the wife in that scenario (eventho i am a man), i have missed very important deadlines, due to just simply, forgetting even with setting alarms, imagine an alarm goes off but you're in the middle of dinner, and then you decide okay, when i'm done eating, i'll go sort that out, only to find 2 minutes after deciding that, you get completely hyperfocussed on something else, and then just never getting around to it again, now i've started setting MULTIPLE alarms, and hanging post-it notes of things i ABSOLUTELY CANNOT FORGET. but even that sometimes really just isn't enough. it's a pain, and i am glad my partner really helps me in this regard. But that is not to say the reaction of the husband in this regard is unwarranted, regardless wether it's over the top or not, it is incredibly important that he has his meds as he claims, and he is in complete right to express his frustrations fears etc. sad that it is so extreme, but given the gravity of the consequences, completely understandable.
I have learned to snooze every alarm and every reminder notification until I absolutely 100% am sure I don't need it to remind me again. Helps that my phone uses the sleep button as a snooze and doesn't turn off the alarms. I hyper-focus but I'm not generally forgetful. I believe task/event management is something they should teach specifically in school. Not just as a byproduct that some get and some don't. Like tell kids to remember a number they couldn't possibly memorize and then all share different ways they were able to have the number for class in a few weeks.
Yeah my ex also have ADHD and I lost my temper some times (not the reason we broke up) and I always felt bad but it really sucks that you don’t know when you can and can’t depend on your partner. And it’s not like it’s their fault but holy hell it’s hard sometimes.
@@kaingates that's exactly what i mean yea, like i make sure my partner knows, if they hand me a task, it's best for them to make sure there's either no super hard consequences, or help remind me etc. kindof thing, ADHD is not an excuse, it only explains it a bit. and it's good to understand we hate some aspects of it as much if not more than people in our lives do.
I'm very in favor of the kid losing the room for posting the sister's journal. that's a horrible thing to do for a teenager especially. losing a room to get a different room in the same house is really not a huge deal. plus they're giving the hurt sister a nicer room.
It's not an easy situation. You want to address the daughter's behavior in a way that makes her see her actions are terrible, so she can adjust her behavior and become a better human and a better sister. However, if you fail to get this across with your chosen punishment, she might decide that her stepsister is the cause of her misery, which could turn your kid into the bully of your other kid. The opposite of what you'd want as a parent.
Late, but IMO it's fucked up because that room was already a reward for something else. It just happened to be the obvious target because it was recently coming into play. Punish her with something else rather than taking away what was supposed to be a reward for good grades and a replacement for a missed birthday gift.
@@Voidkom Yeah the part about "giving her the room" is absolutely the worst. She did something against her sister, you punish her for that if she somehow turns that into "my stepsister is at fault" well then she's just fucked up and the problem runs much deeper. But if the stepsis has the room? That's like her taking the room away, and to top that it also makes it seem like the stepsis could "give the room back". They had 4 rooms, with tho kids, and the main couple so just make her room the guest bedroom. That way she clearly understands that it's her parents standing in the way not her stepsis.
His suggestion about turning the curry situation into a little inside joke really gives me insight into the type of marriage he probably has and it’s actually so cute.
IF the last wedding guy is telling the full truth, there is no way I can see how someone can say YTA. He went into the relationship saying I don’t want a wedding and seemed to be on the same page as his fiancé, but now she wants a big wedding? If this was an issue for her she should’ve said something before. That being said I suspect that there’s a lot of information that was left out or was heavily biased.
it honestly wasnt super clear how much theyd discussed it anyways, since he delves into that so little. i do have to say though, what the op called his 'compromise' definitely wasnt a genuine compromise. this seems like the kinda thing where neither is wrong for wanting or not wanting a wedding, but they really shouldve discussed it more, or at least should be able to reach a compromise considering they both make plenty of money. it would be so easy to settle on something in the middle if the monetary aspect isnt a concern for them.
42:15, now I want to see NL react to dashcam compilations. There's a channel I'm subscribed to called Dashcam Lessons and I stg like half the time the people with the dashcams are major a holes and they just don't understand.
To be fair, on the no-child wedding the OP said they would have to buy a tux. Yes, obviously a woman could get a tux, but typically that's a piece of mens fashion. I'd say it's more likely they're a man than a woman.
yeah the one about cats even said that the daughter convinced "my husband and I" and he still referred to her as the dad. Maybe NL is just progressive and assumed it was a gay marriage. /s
I cant get over all the people who feel that any resolution or punishment has to be a creative gotcha moment that outsmarts the target gets them to duh doi.
It's surprising how little pragmatism there is. They're so obsessed about getting back at someone rather than getting closer to their desired goal. If they were faced with a choice between punishing someone knowing they're right, or say sorry and get a million dollars... they'd end up in jail with a smug smile on their face.
As someone that doesn't get onto NL's twitch very often, it's nice to see Hafu still subs to him. Those were some crazy times when she was coming on to the show regularly.
They’re also still friends on steam, you can see their names pop up sometimes in the corner of their streams. Especially in hers when NL logs into Isaac lol.
@@TheRaon75 I'm pretty sure it was due to the schedule of the NLSS and her own stream, which is truly unfortunate. There wasn't any hate drama or anything like that
I've been on both sides of the wife's healthcare fuckup. ADHD is so frustrating. Executive dysfunction means that the part of your brain that MAKES you get up and complete tasks is broken - not to mention short-term memory is fucked. Even with a whiteboard and phone alarms I manage to miss appointments all the time.
The problem with the NTA for the "giving room to the sister aita" is the way he has involved the stepsister in the punishment. He has definitely set up a situation rife with resentment and is putting even more on the stepsister to deal with. Punish, take away room, but don't give it to stepsister instead. I saw a comment that basically said this and they recommended them using that fourth bedroom for an office or guest room. Tbc, the daughter really screwed up. What she did was pretty heinous but she is also 16 so I think there's room to learn here. How he handled this is abysmal and likely to turn into something much worse in the long run. Btw, It looks like ESH is the dominating verdict at this point.
42:34 - I thought NL was going to reference The Onion's "How To Channel Your Road Rage Into Cold, Calulating Road Revenge" video. The whole thing about tailing them too close is so similar hahaha
I found it sad that the husband seems to fully understand what he did wrong (screaming at her while she cried, slammed doors, was generally rude), but instead of making the logical decision to apologize and end the story with "I took some time to clear my head and apologize to my wife so we could calmly discuss what we should do next" (which would 100% make him NTA), he went to Reddit to feel justification for his behavior. Like dude, if you're feeling guilty for what you did, just go apologize to her.
That first situation could’ve been solved with some forethought about what might happen if you tell coworkers you have OF and don’t make any efforts to obfuscate your account
I'm convinced that the "showing my sister's journal" post was a parody of r/amItheAsshole. It was someone airing out dirty laundry to strangers, and having these "experts" analyze her psychologically. That story is the perfect caricature showing how ludicrous the subreddit can be sometimes.
@@sirondium it's possible it's real, it's definitely a plausible situation. I just think it's a perfect parody of the subreddit. That might be by chance, or maybe it was intentional.
For the kid free wedding one I can't imagine how hard it would be to find a non family babysitter to watch 3 kids under the ages of 8 for like 12 hours. It's not like the neighborhood kid next door is going to be able to handle that. I don't really see how it's a reasonable expectation that he goes.
@@sehguhnai8223 it's his sister so I would assume all the mothers would be at the wedding. Also he said he had to drive 3 hours so probably they don't all live close together. Just guessing but since he posted its reasonable that he doesn't have a easy option available.
I believe it's also the responsibility of the to-be-married couple to accommodate and make sure the wedding goes as they plan it. If they want a child-free wedding and they also want people with children to be present at the wedding; they should try to fix a day care type deal for the children. Ideally close by so that the parents can check on them once in a while. Just like if you want a wedding on the other side of the globe, and you want less fortunate friends & family to be there, you might have to help with travel costs.
9/10 times i won't even call the takeaway place if they forgot a part of my order unless its someones entire meal, don't see why you would call them if they delivered and extra pizza.
When is the world going to stop being a coward and put this man in charge of parleying all inane disputes, setting wrongs right objectively every time?
I might be naive and easy to manipulate, but the moment my actions make a *loved one* cry, it at least serves as a checkpoint for me. Usually that is followed by the conclusion that to keep going at it with the shouting is just not at all an okay thing to do. It's better to gather yourself and find a way forward together. Yeah, I am right to be upset, but there's always a limit to that. It's a loved one; you should feel no impulse to get even with them when it comes to inflicting harm.
Bride and groom: “We are having a child-free wedding.” Guest: “okay, we will respect your wishes and not attend.” Bride and groom: “what the fuck is wrong with you”
I just feel so painfully bad for that 16 year old girl. She and her sister probably go to the same school and know a lot of the same people, and her private journal was published online for everyone to see. Imagine how traumatic that would be for a teenage girl. I see absolutely no problem with taking a room away that was promised to a child in my house that I'm paying for if the circumstances change. She also would not get a smartphone again for at least a year (enjoy your flip phone kid) and I would make her delete or suspend her social media accounts. Would she hate me for it? Probably. But I still have an obligation to both children to take this seriously.
My wife and I just went to court and had a nice dinner with about a dozen friends. AITA for wanting to do a wedding now, so we can fight over it, then ask NL for advice?
As someone with adhd, putting reminders to do important things in your phone is like ADHD 101. Also she should have told her husband about the deadline so he could help remind her. I have my gf remind me about important dates all the time which has saved me countless times.
"If you can't remember to do something important just have someone put a gun to your head and tell you to do it now or else" is actually some pretty legit advice, I think I'm gonna try that.
If the sister wants the brother to go to the childfree wedding, then she should find a babysitter for him. And I say this only because they're siblings, obviously I'm not saying she should find a babysitter for everyone there who has kids.
@@duskario But not enough that' she's worried and fighting with her brother about him not attending... I agree with NL. You have the right to say child-free, you have to accept the consequences that not everyone with kids will be able to make it.
@@tymmezinni I don't know the way he mentioned that he didn't want to buy a tux and drive two hours to be there at the end of the story made it seem like that was the real reason he didn't want to go and that his children were just a convenient excuse.
@@Fitz1993 Yeah, I didn't say he wasn't a dickhead for other reasons (I thought he was, and had originally said such in my comment) but was just addressing the childcare part. As a parent of three, it's quite hard to find childcare- two main resources are family (so family wedding means that person's unavailable) and a work friend (same if a coworker's wedding). Anyone I'd be close enough to be invited to a wedding, knows the situation with the kids and would understand not showing up. But I also know each situation is different, too.
I guarantee you the benefits signing didn’t cross her mind after the first day. ADHD really do be like that. I also guarantee you she realized she completely fucked it up and felt like total garbage _before_ getting yelled at.
Right the difference is she didn't sit in front of the TV thinking, "Ahh I'll do the paperwork later." Absolutely she felt the pain of what she did, immediately all at once.
In the first one there seems to be an overlooked detail. She talks about her OF, but she does not advertise her profile name publicly and she did not hand it out to him. He had to overhear her conversation with someone else to find out. This was not information that was meant for his ears. She accidently leaked it and he went for it. This information is the only power they have, the only way to decide who gets to view your content. This makes it more of a power abuse thing rather than just watching someone's OF. Don't do it. Don't go visit your stripper friend at work uninvitedly.
That is so stupid. What kind of woman is concerned about acquaintances seeing her naked but yaps that she has nudes all over the internet? If she weren't an idiot she would have just stfu about onlyfans period. If she thinks men looking at her nudes is creepy THEN SHE SHOULDN'T SELL NUDES! Much less brag about it at work and try to recruit others to join her. "This information is the only power they have" Dude obviously had very little trouble finding her OF, so I'm going to say she took 0 steps to prevent this from happening. You can make these things invite only if you aren't a complete tool. 100% her fault, she is a room temp IQ moron.
The curry post reminds me of the time we ate like 70€ worth of Papa John's for free. My friend ordered through the app and had to go to buy something while the rest of us waited for the pizzas, so he left the money on the counter. When the delivery guy came, he gave us the pizzas and left. We thought that our friend paid through the app as well and thought nothing of it. After we finished eating my friend asked us why was the money still on the counter. We explained the situation and he told us he didn't pay at all. So, free pizza.
Regarding diary girl: my parents punished my brother for violating others' privacy by taking away his bedroom door for a while. Take someone else's privacy, lose your own. Plus, you can return the door at any point if you think the punishment has run its course, and it doesn't make a sibling the enemy like this punishment would.
12:56 I like the way my cousin last year did their child free wedding. They are childfree and have no intention of ever having kids, and didn't want kids at their wedding. However they also understood that people in the family they want to be there have kids. So they basically just organised it such that if you were invited to the ceremony, you were allowed to bring your kids, but if you weren't then you were not. That way it was basically just a couple of kids in the immediate family (e.g. my niece), but if you weren't immediate family then it's basically saying "it's okay if you can't come". Sure it might've sucked for the people attending later, but if you don't want kids there it seems like a fair compromise to me!
Fist of all im not finished with the video yet but, the reaction at 44:09 saying "it is" in a way that made you THINK there was more ot come but just leaving it KILLED me XD
Calling the restaurant to tell them you have extra food is pointless. They can’t take it back and the person missing the food will call. I’ve been told to keep stuff I wrongly handed at the drive through and I was told to keep it even though the mistake was realized before I even pulled my hand back into the car.
OF case: Hes not the asshole for getting the pictures, but he shouldnt be surprised if she is weirded out by him and other workers are too. Its not an asshole move to walk around with your finger up your nose while licking your thumb, but you cant get mad when people look at you weird and dont want to come over for drinks. Teenage diary case: Not the asshole but definitely missed the correct punishment which would have been loss of access to social media/phone/internet/etc. Yelling at forgetful partner case: Not the asshole for being scared about the situation, but screaming at your partner is never the correct answer and that action makes him an asshole in that situation. Its a reaction that you can understand why it happened, but it doesnt make it right and it doesnt make him not the asshole. Humans are better than animals because we demand a higher standard than "I did what I felt like doing" in every situation.
27:56 ik she is 16 but like come on. NL kinda gives children a really easy pass on aita and I get why, especially when they are very young, but like she is technically an adult in 2 years. I am not much older than her and I think it is obvs that what she did is just fricked up man.
Bro, an 18 year old is still a kid. Just because you're legally an adult doesn't mean you're not a kid. NL is like a 35 year old man, until you're into your 20's that's baby territory, and he's not wrong
@@tezradmar4012 I do agree that younger people should be forgiven more for mistakes, but I'm saying what the daughter did obviously crosses the line and whether or not they are a child they should know that that was obviously a horrible thing to do.
@@tezradmar4012 Bruh, what? Obviously that is some nonsense. For all of history 18 and even 16 year olds have not been seen as children. To infantilise them at that age only serves to stunt them mentally and socially.
@@wolfengod8277 wow, its almost like society has changed a lot since those times! comparing it to 'all of history' makes no sense considering the differences in the world then vs now.
cars are pretty relative everywhere I feel cost-wise with smaller variance. Houses vary much more. For example, my house in a higher income state would cost like triple-quadruple the cost I'm told by everyone I know that live in like NY and CA.
yeah ADHD doesnt work like that, I literally taped signs all over my door not to forget my glasses when going to work, and would still get there without realizing i forgot them. you can intend to do something with all of your being and still lose track of it no matter how important it is
@@megalobsterface3552 ''Hello husband, I know I agreed to carry the responsibility of making sure we have health insurance, but because of my ADHD I don't trust myself to actually get it done in time, could you force me to sit down and do it somewhere in the next 3 weeks?''
My opinion on the medical deadline one: The guy said he had medication for his depression, his wife said she has ADHD I'm sure she could get medication for it as well if he's gaining benefits. She isn't handling her own issues as well as the medical rollover. But I do agree everybody's the asshole because he did go overboard, and flipped out a bit too much.
That last one sounds a lot less controversial when you say it the other way around: "Am I the asshole for trying to force my SO to pay for a wedding he really doesn't want?"
NL's reaction to the cat post: I understand, but the punishment is a little overboard. NL's reaction to the cat post if OP was the daughter instead of the dad: This punishment is kind of based.
On the wedding one if the brother is expected to intend his sisters wedding because he is in the family sphere then his children should fall there as well and the sister should have not excluded his children.
@@psychicbot9748 I don’t understand how people that say “no kids at my wedding” get upset when people with kids just say “ok have a great time, but we won’t be coming”. You can’t just ask guess to divide up their family unit then get mad when they don’t. Do whatever you want, but accept that others will make choices that are equally self serving.
@@wolfengod8277 NL when you want to give your mother in law only a single ticket to an event, so she can't bring her psychopath boyfriend who terribly wronged you, and wasn't part of her life like a year ago max: NOOO COUPLES ARE INSEPARABLE THEY ARE ONE UNIT YOU CANNOT POSSIBLY ASK THEM TO ANYTHING WITHOUT THE OTHER!!! NL when someone want you to leave you 3 young children home for an event: LOL just find a babysitter, wanting to attend with your children? Why would you want to be with the people who are literally your flesh and blood?
I don't think 200k a year is "forget how much things cost" money, at least where I live. It's not top 1% money, and it's definitely not use Bill Gates as a metaphor money. In the U.S. you need to make like 550k to be in the 1%, I think the guy might just have never researched wedding stuff because he never really wanted one.
It's certainly not the 1% but it is leagues above the average. The average yearly income in the US is around 30k so to most people 200k is an unbelievable amount of money to earn a year.
"My son took my snickers bar without permission so I cut both of his hands off. AITA?
Edit: No, he does not pay rent"
Reddit: 100% NTA. Your house, your rules.
ESH, he shouldn't have taken the Snickers bar, but you really only had to cut off one of his hands
@@Kai-K Nah he cant open it with one hand so both they go.
In the 1400s I believe that was a penalty for stealing so idk man seems like a little of an overreaction as it's been like 600 years, but who knows.
i read this comment while i was eating and it made me laugh so hard that i almost choked to death
@@ohlookaflower.5961 It's still very much in practice depending on where you live...
“Showing my sister’s journal to my friends who are experts” ah yes, her friends must be those 16-years-old sociology and psychology experts you always hear about.
That made me suspect because it was such a dumb thing to say. I know teens are dumb but man
honestly it does make the story very believeable because its absolutely the kind of thing a snotnosed 16-year old would say to get out of something
@@leejames929 teens have no idea what the word “expert” means. Another teen who is confident in their assertions can easily pass off as an expert. It’s the main reason why most of them are so gullible, if you sound smart enough they’ll believe you.
Personally, I tend to believe it was just sarcasm on OPs behalf, and not something the daughter actually said
i guess i just never would have said something like that as a teen, i said some dumb stuff but that just seems wild to me
"It's your sister's wedding, she might only have 6 or 7." MY SIDES
Sent them into fucking orbit
NL’s sparse use of the F-word always makes it so funny when he whips it out
Farse
Gotta whip that bitty out sometimes
I too find it funny when he uses homophobic slurs
@@ElephantWithAMonocle what homophobic slur does he use? Because i didnt see any
NL has toned way down compared to when he started. (Debatably for the better.)
If you ever watched some of his really old content (Ex: Poison Mushroom) he was definitely sailing the 7 seas with that sailor mouth.
That stepdaughter getting her diary published is the sort of traumatic thing that can make someone so sensitive about privacy that they freak out when someone finds $3 hidden in her room.
My current gf went through something similar when she was young, and the effect it has had since is really clear. Terrible thing to do. Privacy is so important.
"You're all gonna be making the same dumb-ass noise" NL you can't drop lines like that so casually my sides holy crap
It broke me and I can never be repaired holy crap
What time?
@@thejuanlucas2 18:37
Nasrallah is gonna win
NL you GOTTA always read the comments. Sometimes it just blows my mind how highly upvoted some insane takes can be, and it makes such good content for you to riff on.
"The Butthole of my Soul." Ship it. T-shirts, Album/song names, Netflix series.... it all writes itself.
All I know is someone's gonna be a billionaire
That's my favorite They Might Be Giants song.
@@Civilian08 wow I’ve for real never had an original thought huh
At the very least it's gotta be a playlist of some of NL's more honest moments
Slam poetry
NL said "I'm too King Solomon about these issues" on the new house's bedroom swapping hands and I half expected him to be like "Just post the room online until one of your daughters relinquishes ownership of it to avoid living with a stranger"
Girl who showed her sister's journal on IG committed a crime against humanity and should be judged accordingly.
The funniest thing about the extra curry story is that 100% of the time the restaurant would just tell you to keep it and thank for telling them.
You are now entering the courtroom of the honorable Judge Egg. The cases are real. The assholes are real. The verdicts are based.
The assholes may be real and the verdicts may be based. But I refuse to believe that some of these cases he reads are real... for the little shred of hope i still hold for humanity.
@@Mrnoob951, I believe Rob Smith was retrofitting the intro to Judge Judy for React Court and not making any claims about the legitamacy of the 'cases' presented.
But yeah, some of these 'cases' have to be fake, otherwise my misanthropy is gonna reach new heights.
Can't wait to see what absolutely insane comments and stories that will stunlock Ryan
The kids lie about posting the private journal just brings me back to my childhood and the bullshit lies I would tell.
One time I stayed late gaming on the school computers and my parents asked about it I said I was "trying to fix them because they were a day behind." What was my infant brain thinking with that one? It might be the weakest lie I've ever told, but they never called me out on it and to be honest that hurts even more.
@@SabertoothSeal I mean, is that even a big deal, though? It's just staying a bit late at school - as long as the school is okay with it (and your parents ofc) then it shouldn't have been an issue, no?
@@DONKINDONUTS Oh they waited outside for an hour to pick me up, it was definitely one of my teen a-hole moments
@@SabertoothSeal Yeah that would not have worked in my family. I once was trying to wrap up a conversation when my mom rolled up to the parking lot in middle school to pick me up. She saw me not moving towards the car and legit drove away. I had to chase down the car. No shot she would have waited an hour for me if she wasn't even going to wait 15 seconds.
@@queenofsprinkles your mom sounds like an asshole
I started out thinking the father in the journal one was an a-hole but the more I think about it the punishment makes perfect sense. I didn’t have a journal when I was 15 but if I had all my internal thoughts and worries broadcast to the world it would’ve done some SERIOUS psychological damage and I would find it hard to trust anyone when my own sister betrays my most intimate self like that.
Now Im an Australian and admittedly I don't know what the food safety laws and standards are in Canada, but in Australia if a takeaway store gives you extra food and you try to return it they are legally obligated to throw that food out, you can't resell food that could potentially have been tampered with.
Yeah, I would highly doubt that the restaurant wouldnt just let them keep it
@@ASOIAF-Henrik Yeah it would cost more to send the delivery driver back for the food than they would have lost just by letting you keep it.
As someone who makes most of his income with doordash, I can assure you I would *never* turn around and drive back to a house, ferry unwanted food back to the restaurant, go back into the restaurant, give it to them and say "hey, get another driver in here to take this to its correct destination." (to say nothing of covid, which makes this idea even more insane) there's simply no procedure for that, much less a "MORAL OBLIGATION" lol
Way better for them to just eat the food than for it to end up in a dumpster. Australia's health and safety laws have similar analogues here in the States, and in most places which have health and safety laws at all I would assume. Once they've gotten their hands on food, that food really shouldn't be going to other people. Possession is nine tenths of the law and all that.
She was just saying to call them and let them know, not return it. It's still a strange thing to suggest
50:20 reminded me of a video I saw. Basically, it explained that everything you do is nested inside goals. The video used the example 'tickling the baby'. Why tickle the baby? Well, that's nested inside 'play with the baby'. Why play with the baby? Well, that's nested inside 'be a good parent'. Why be a good parent? That's nested inside 'be a good person'.
So if you've had a hard day, and someone says "You fucking moron, that's not how you tickle a baby," you're not just being chastised in that one layer, but that chains all the way up to "you're a terrible person" and then you cry because someone said you were tickling a baby wrong.
Hey, that's an interesting way to think about it! Thanks for sharing this. I think I'll try using that approach next time I make a mistake and feel like crumbs for it.
What?
That's a great baby right there, takes a tickle like no problem.
What a great comment. Mentally, it really is about why you did something and not just how you did. Most of us have our best intentions in mind, so being told we are wrong we jump up the nests to ask ourselves why we did something.
This is actual such a good comment
Did not expect NL to start writing the screenplay for a romantic comedy in the middle of the boyfriend/girlfriend curry post.
The worst fucking alchemist killed me
Child free weddings have increased because COVID based limits on headcount. No kids means that you can invite more friends
Lame. Kids should experience weddings
@@sweet5304 kids don't care lol the only kid who cares is the girl in kindergarten with 2 boyfriends
@@ssgoko88 so? Weddings are a beautiful event that showcases the best in humanity. It is the holy conjunction of two lives, something majestic and almost other worldly. Kids should see the ceremony that merges two almost random lives into one, distinct matrimony.
@@sweet5304 yeah. On the other hand kids will either forget it or be like “yeah I remember that couple I went to their wedding that one time and haven’t seen them since”. Not to mention how this grills this moronic ideas of “wanting this kind of wedding since I was a little girl” which really needs to stop. It’s unhealthy to walk around thinking about your wedding day before you even have a partner to plan these things with, which also often gets lost in the planning. Not to defend the cheapskate in the other post, he’s a moron. But you shouldn’t grill in ideas of having a dream wedding in a young kids head, weddings always fall short and turn some people into bridezillas.
@@kaingates good point. The focus should be on healthy relationships and their beauty, not the superficial crap that's glorified. Parents and brides/grooms should make that the point
the husband yelling at the wife with ADHD story, i can really relate to the wife in that scenario (eventho i am a man), i have missed very important deadlines, due to just simply, forgetting even with setting alarms, imagine an alarm goes off but you're in the middle of dinner, and then you decide okay, when i'm done eating, i'll go sort that out, only to find 2 minutes after deciding that, you get completely hyperfocussed on something else, and then just never getting around to it again, now i've started setting MULTIPLE alarms, and hanging post-it notes of things i ABSOLUTELY CANNOT FORGET. but even that sometimes really just isn't enough. it's a pain, and i am glad my partner really helps me in this regard.
But that is not to say the reaction of the husband in this regard is unwarranted, regardless wether it's over the top or not, it is incredibly important that he has his meds as he claims, and he is in complete right to express his frustrations fears etc. sad that it is so extreme, but given the gravity of the consequences, completely understandable.
I have learned to snooze every alarm and every reminder notification until I absolutely 100% am sure I don't need it to remind me again. Helps that my phone uses the sleep button as a snooze and doesn't turn off the alarms. I hyper-focus but I'm not generally forgetful. I believe task/event management is something they should teach specifically in school. Not just as a byproduct that some get and some don't. Like tell kids to remember a number they couldn't possibly memorize and then all share different ways they were able to have the number for class in a few weeks.
Yeah my ex also have ADHD and I lost my temper some times (not the reason we broke up) and I always felt bad but it really sucks that you don’t know when you can and can’t depend on your partner. And it’s not like it’s their fault but holy hell it’s hard sometimes.
@@kaingates that's exactly what i mean yea, like i make sure my partner knows, if they hand me a task, it's best for them to make sure there's either no super hard consequences, or help remind me etc. kindof thing, ADHD is not an excuse, it only explains it a bit. and it's good to understand we hate some aspects of it as much if not more than people in our lives do.
I'm very in favor of the kid losing the room for posting the sister's journal. that's a horrible thing to do for a teenager especially. losing a room to get a different room in the same house is really not a huge deal. plus they're giving the hurt sister a nicer room.
It's not an easy situation. You want to address the daughter's behavior in a way that makes her see her actions are terrible, so she can adjust her behavior and become a better human and a better sister.
However, if you fail to get this across with your chosen punishment, she might decide that her stepsister is the cause of her misery, which could turn your kid into the bully of your other kid. The opposite of what you'd want as a parent.
Late, but IMO it's fucked up because that room was already a reward for something else. It just happened to be the obvious target because it was recently coming into play. Punish her with something else rather than taking away what was supposed to be a reward for good grades and a replacement for a missed birthday gift.
@@Voidkom Yeah the part about "giving her the room" is absolutely the worst. She did something against her sister, you punish her for that if she somehow turns that into "my stepsister is at fault" well then she's just fucked up and the problem runs much deeper. But if the stepsis has the room? That's like her taking the room away, and to top that it also makes it seem like the stepsis could "give the room back". They had 4 rooms, with tho kids, and the main couple so just make her room the guest bedroom. That way she clearly understands that it's her parents standing in the way not her stepsis.
Permanent punishment is so harsh. Also she kind of seems crazy to want to see the journal that badly.
The jigsaw bit at 58:10 was absolutely hilarious especially when I was watching it at x1.5
His suggestion about turning the curry situation into a little inside joke really gives me insight into the type of marriage he probably has and it’s actually so cute.
"I'm showing, like, the butthole of my soul..." -NL
IF the last wedding guy is telling the full truth, there is no way I can see how someone can say YTA. He went into the relationship saying I don’t want a wedding and seemed to be on the same page as his fiancé, but now she wants a big wedding? If this was an issue for her she should’ve said something before.
That being said I suspect that there’s a lot of information that was left out or was heavily biased.
it honestly wasnt super clear how much theyd discussed it anyways, since he delves into that so little. i do have to say though, what the op called his 'compromise' definitely wasnt a genuine compromise. this seems like the kinda thing where neither is wrong for wanting or not wanting a wedding, but they really shouldve discussed it more, or at least should be able to reach a compromise considering they both make plenty of money. it would be so easy to settle on something in the middle if the monetary aspect isnt a concern for them.
Alternatively they're farming reddit karma with a made up story.
42:15, now I want to see NL react to dashcam compilations. There's a channel I'm subscribed to called Dashcam Lessons and I stg like half the time the people with the dashcams are major a holes and they just don't understand.
It's interesting how NL reads all of these posts as if they're written by the dad whereas I automatically assume it's the mom typing them.
Same
To be fair, on the no-child wedding the OP said they would have to buy a tux. Yes, obviously a woman could get a tux, but typically that's a piece of mens fashion. I'd say it's more likely they're a man than a woman.
yeah the one about cats even said that the daughter convinced "my husband and I" and he still referred to her as the dad. Maybe NL is just progressive and assumed it was a gay marriage. /s
I cant get over all the people who feel that any resolution or punishment has to be a creative gotcha moment that outsmarts the target gets them to duh doi.
It's surprising how little pragmatism there is. They're so obsessed about getting back at someone rather than getting closer to their desired goal.
If they were faced with a choice between punishing someone knowing they're right, or say sorry and get a million dollars... they'd end up in jail with a smug smile on their face.
@@Voidkom I hate how right you are. Gotta teach a smart lesson like you are some anime mastermind.
The Jigsaw bit just cracked me. This is best entertainment I've had in weeks. Great job NL
As someone that doesn't get onto NL's twitch very often, it's nice to see Hafu still subs to him. Those were some crazy times when she was coming on to the show regularly.
They’re also still friends on steam, you can see their names pop up sometimes in the corner of their streams. Especially in hers when NL logs into Isaac lol.
Did something happen with her or something?
@@TheRaon75 I'm pretty sure it was due to the schedule of the NLSS and her own stream, which is truly unfortunate. There wasn't any hate drama or anything like that
@@Alylion 0
I've been on both sides of the wife's healthcare fuckup. ADHD is so frustrating. Executive dysfunction means that the part of your brain that MAKES you get up and complete tasks is broken - not to mention short-term memory is fucked. Even with a whiteboard and phone alarms I manage to miss appointments all the time.
The problem with the NTA for the "giving room to the sister aita" is the way he has involved the stepsister in the punishment. He has definitely set up a situation rife with resentment and is putting even more on the stepsister to deal with. Punish, take away room, but don't give it to stepsister instead.
I saw a comment that basically said this and they recommended them using that fourth bedroom for an office or guest room.
Tbc, the daughter really screwed up. What she did was pretty heinous but she is also 16 so I think there's room to learn here. How he handled this is abysmal and likely to turn into something much worse in the long run.
Btw, It looks like ESH is the dominating verdict at this point.
42:34 - I thought NL was going to reference The Onion's "How To Channel Your Road Rage Into Cold, Calulating Road Revenge" video. The whole thing about tailing them too close is so similar hahaha
Why is NL's description of what to do when you get cut-off in traffic so accurate
I found it sad that the husband seems to fully understand what he did wrong (screaming at her while she cried, slammed doors, was generally rude), but instead of making the logical decision to apologize and end the story with "I took some time to clear my head and apologize to my wife so we could calmly discuss what we should do next" (which would 100% make him NTA), he went to Reddit to feel justification for his behavior. Like dude, if you're feeling guilty for what you did, just go apologize to her.
That first situation could’ve been solved with some forethought about what might happen if you tell coworkers you have OF and don’t make any efforts to obfuscate your account
I'm convinced that the "showing my sister's journal" post was a parody of r/amItheAsshole. It was someone airing out dirty laundry to strangers, and having these "experts" analyze her psychologically. That story is the perfect caricature showing how ludicrous the subreddit can be sometimes.
It's modern art
People and especially kids are ludicrous what do you want
@@sirondium it's possible it's real, it's definitely a plausible situation. I just think it's a perfect parody of the subreddit. That might be by chance, or maybe it was intentional.
@@lmaonicebud People are that stupid. Especially teenage girls who think that TikTok can diagnose you with something.
For the kid free wedding one I can't imagine how hard it would be to find a non family babysitter to watch 3 kids under the ages of 8 for like 12 hours. It's not like the neighborhood kid next door is going to be able to handle that. I don't really see how it's a reasonable expectation that he goes.
Just put them in a kennel like you do with dogs obviously
I can't imagine there isn't a mother in this situation who can handle it for the night
@@sehguhnai8223 it's his sister so I would assume all the mothers would be at the wedding. Also he said he had to drive 3 hours so probably they don't all live close together. Just guessing but since he posted its reasonable that he doesn't have a easy option available.
@@rightsaidmatt2632 I meant mother as in the mother of the children, who doesn't have to come because she's not a blood relative
I believe it's also the responsibility of the to-be-married couple to accommodate and make sure the wedding goes as they plan it. If they want a child-free wedding and they also want people with children to be present at the wedding; they should try to fix a day care type deal for the children. Ideally close by so that the parents can check on them once in a while.
Just like if you want a wedding on the other side of the globe, and you want less fortunate friends & family to be there, you might have to help with travel costs.
9/10 times i won't even call the takeaway place if they forgot a part of my order unless its someones entire meal, don't see why you would call them if they delivered and extra pizza.
Litter box jigsaw is the funniest shit I’ve ever heard.
When is the world going to stop being a coward and put this man in charge of parleying all inane disputes, setting wrongs right objectively every time?
I might be naive and easy to manipulate, but the moment my actions make a *loved one* cry, it at least serves as a checkpoint for me. Usually that is followed by the conclusion that to keep going at it with the shouting is just not at all an okay thing to do. It's better to gather yourself and find a way forward together. Yeah, I am right to be upset, but there's always a limit to that.
It's a loved one; you should feel no impulse to get even with them when it comes to inflicting harm.
Bride and groom: “We are having a child-free wedding.”
Guest: “okay, we will respect your wishes and not attend.”
Bride and groom: “what the fuck is wrong with you”
Her brother, it’s different. He should go.
@@MetaLemonaide so what do you do with the kids?
@@MetaLemonaide it’s different in what way
As someone with ADHD, if my partner talked to me like NL in that segment, i would probably unalive lol I'd rather be screamed at.
for sure, ive got similar issues and mess up even when im doing my best and it hurts to hear people say things like that
the appeal to caps lock definitely needs to be included in intro to philosophy curriculum
"Am I the asshole for baiting a sexual harassment lawsuit I will definitely deserve to lose out of pure spite?"
That Charles Bukowski reference is a 10/10, I was just reading his poetry yesterday
I just feel so painfully bad for that 16 year old girl. She and her sister probably go to the same school and know a lot of the same people, and her private journal was published online for everyone to see. Imagine how traumatic that would be for a teenage girl. I see absolutely no problem with taking a room away that was promised to a child in my house that I'm paying for if the circumstances change. She also would not get a smartphone again for at least a year (enjoy your flip phone kid) and I would make her delete or suspend her social media accounts. Would she hate me for it? Probably. But I still have an obligation to both children to take this seriously.
"The worst alchemist ever" sent me, lmao
This content is so fucking good I hope this series sticks around for years to come
Less then 1k views in a 20 minutes is hearesy. This show is amazing
My wife and I just went to court and had a nice dinner with about a dozen friends. AITA for wanting to do a wedding now, so we can fight over it, then ask NL for advice?
Love hearing Teacher NL stories, great content as always!
As someone with adhd, putting reminders to do important things in your phone is like ADHD 101. Also she should have told her husband about the deadline so he could help remind her. I have my gf remind me about important dates all the time which has saved me countless times.
As someone with ADHD, that's not how it works for me
@@Lucas-gt8en you don't have the people around you help remind you of stuff?
That dude literally just learned the F word, same way a 7th grader would word it
"If you can't remember to do something important just have someone put a gun to your head and tell you to do it now or else" is actually some pretty legit advice, I think I'm gonna try that.
If the sister wants the brother to go to the childfree wedding, then she should find a babysitter for him. And I say this only because they're siblings, obviously I'm not saying she should find a babysitter for everyone there who has kids.
I think she has enough to worry about already if she marries soon
@@duskario But not enough that' she's worried and fighting with her brother about him not attending...
I agree with NL. You have the right to say child-free, you have to accept the consequences that not everyone with kids will be able to make it.
@@tymmezinni I don't know the way he mentioned that he didn't want to buy a tux and drive two hours to be there at the end of the story made it seem like that was the real reason he didn't want to go and that his children were just a convenient excuse.
@@Fitz1993 Yeah, I didn't say he wasn't a dickhead for other reasons (I thought he was, and had originally said such in my comment) but was just addressing the childcare part.
As a parent of three, it's quite hard to find childcare- two main resources are family (so family wedding means that person's unavailable) and a work friend (same if a coworker's wedding). Anyone I'd be close enough to be invited to a wedding, knows the situation with the kids and would understand not showing up. But I also know each situation is different, too.
React court is such an instant click for me... I just love to get triggered and then hear a "reasonable" man trash redditors.
For the one about the journal the father should take away the kids phone and restrict their internet access.
The daughter's worried about privacy, give her the room but take the door(s) off.
3:35 hearing NL say this has me creasing
I guarantee you the benefits signing didn’t cross her mind after the first day. ADHD really do be like that. I also guarantee you she realized she completely fucked it up and felt like total garbage _before_ getting yelled at.
Right the difference is she didn't sit in front of the TV thinking, "Ahh I'll do the paperwork later." Absolutely she felt the pain of what she did, immediately all at once.
Couldn't get yourself to do it instantly, then forget completely about it to never think of it again. That be how it be
I don't know what this series is, but I loved this.
edit: holy shit the saw joke had me rolling
A rich person not having a solid concept of the value of a dollar, what are the chances?
What kind of company doesn't automatically re-enroll for the benefits that you are already enrolled for?
The litter palace sounds like a dream come true
The room daughter one was wild, I had no idea people like that existed
meanwhile the kind owner who wanted to be nice and give the polite couple on the phone an extra curry:
In the first one there seems to be an overlooked detail. She talks about her OF, but she does not advertise her profile name publicly and she did not hand it out to him. He had to overhear her conversation with someone else to find out. This was not information that was meant for his ears. She accidently leaked it and he went for it.
This information is the only power they have, the only way to decide who gets to view your content. This makes it more of a power abuse thing rather than just watching someone's OF.
Don't do it. Don't go visit your stripper friend at work uninvitedly.
That is so stupid. What kind of woman is concerned about acquaintances seeing her naked but yaps that she has nudes all over the internet? If she weren't an idiot she would have just stfu about onlyfans period. If she thinks men looking at her nudes is creepy THEN SHE SHOULDN'T SELL NUDES! Much less brag about it at work and try to recruit others to join her.
"This information is the only power they have"
Dude obviously had very little trouble finding her OF, so I'm going to say she took 0 steps to prevent this from happening. You can make these things invite only if you aren't a complete tool. 100% her fault, she is a room temp IQ moron.
The Jigsaw bit was so funny, the Millhouse reference into the amazing jigsaw voice, killed me
NL confirming other people have seen I Think You Should Leave is the cherry on top of the already great content.
The curry post reminds me of the time we ate like 70€ worth of Papa John's for free. My friend ordered through the app and had to go to buy something while the rest of us waited for the pizzas, so he left the money on the counter. When the delivery guy came, he gave us the pizzas and left. We thought that our friend paid through the app as well and thought nothing of it. After we finished eating my friend asked us why was the money still on the counter. We explained the situation and he told us he didn't pay at all. So, free pizza.
Regarding diary girl: my parents punished my brother for violating others' privacy by taking away his bedroom door for a while. Take someone else's privacy, lose your own. Plus, you can return the door at any point if you think the punishment has run its course, and it doesn't make a sibling the enemy like this punishment would.
what'd he do?
@@narwhalguy3829 I dunno but once my brother put a CC tv camera in my room.
12:56 I like the way my cousin last year did their child free wedding. They are childfree and have no intention of ever having kids, and didn't want kids at their wedding. However they also understood that people in the family they want to be there have kids. So they basically just organised it such that if you were invited to the ceremony, you were allowed to bring your kids, but if you weren't then you were not. That way it was basically just a couple of kids in the immediate family (e.g. my niece), but if you weren't immediate family then it's basically saying "it's okay if you can't come". Sure it might've sucked for the people attending later, but if you don't want kids there it seems like a fair compromise to me!
When you read the curry guy's post, you had a lot of Jack Torrance energy.
31:53 lol the switch from "can't just" to "just can't" really puts a different spin on that sentence.
50:10 - Twitch Streamer Northernlion fails to consider the possibility OP is from Philadelphia.
"I'm showing the butthole of my soul with what I'm saying and that feels very intimate" - Northernlion
"You knew you were dating a bad boy as soon as we had that stolen curry..."
Fist of all im not finished with the video yet but, the reaction at 44:09 saying "it is" in a way that made you THINK there was more ot come but just leaving it KILLED me XD
that last wedding issue - get out my good man, and be happy for all the time and grief you saved yourself
Calling the restaurant to tell them you have extra food is pointless. They can’t take it back and the person missing the food will call. I’ve been told to keep stuff I wrongly handed at the drive through and I was told to keep it even though the mistake was realized before I even pulled my hand back into the car.
This series is High Art
OF case: Hes not the asshole for getting the pictures, but he shouldnt be surprised if she is weirded out by him and other workers are too. Its not an asshole move to walk around with your finger up your nose while licking your thumb, but you cant get mad when people look at you weird and dont want to come over for drinks.
Teenage diary case: Not the asshole but definitely missed the correct punishment which would have been loss of access to social media/phone/internet/etc.
Yelling at forgetful partner case: Not the asshole for being scared about the situation, but screaming at your partner is never the correct answer and that action makes him an asshole in that situation. Its a reaction that you can understand why it happened, but it doesnt make it right and it doesnt make him not the asshole. Humans are better than animals because we demand a higher standard than "I did what I felt like doing" in every situation.
The worst part about the expert friends lie is if the daughter actually believes it then that's even worse.
27:56 ik she is 16 but like come on. NL kinda gives children a really easy pass on aita and I get why, especially when they are very young, but like she is technically an adult in 2 years. I am not much older than her and I think it is obvs that what she did is just fricked up man.
Bro, an 18 year old is still a kid. Just because you're legally an adult doesn't mean you're not a kid. NL is like a 35 year old man, until you're into your 20's that's baby territory, and he's not wrong
@@tezradmar4012 I do agree that younger people should be forgiven more for mistakes, but I'm saying what the daughter did obviously crosses the line and whether or not they are a child they should know that that was obviously a horrible thing to do.
@@tezradmar4012 I definetly see your point though
@@tezradmar4012
Bruh, what? Obviously that is some nonsense. For all of history 18 and even 16 year olds have not been seen as children. To infantilise them at that age only serves to stunt them mentally and socially.
@@wolfengod8277 wow, its almost like society has changed a lot since those times! comparing it to 'all of history' makes no sense considering the differences in the world then vs now.
cars are pretty relative everywhere I feel cost-wise with smaller variance. Houses vary much more. For example, my house in a higher income state would cost like triple-quadruple the cost I'm told by everyone I know that live in like NY and CA.
yeah ADHD doesnt work like that, I literally taped signs all over my door not to forget my glasses when going to work, and would still get there without realizing i forgot them. you can intend to do something with all of your being and still lose track of it no matter how important it is
if your ADHD is severe to that level, then you can't take on responsibilities like that.
@@stanislav328 unfortunately, you do not get to sell your ADHD to a mental illness dealer when you become an adult and are forced to do shit
@@megalobsterface3552 ''Hello husband, I know I agreed to carry the responsibility of making sure we have health insurance, but because of my ADHD I don't trust myself to actually get it done in time, could you force me to sit down and do it somewhere in the next 3 weeks?''
@@stanislav328 you must be real fun at parties
@@megalobsterface3552 I mean they're right. I don't see your issue. Take responsibility and accountability
NL dancing around his pragmatism with agreeableness.
My opinion on the medical deadline one: The guy said he had medication for his depression, his wife said she has ADHD I'm sure she could get medication for it as well if he's gaining benefits. She isn't handling her own issues as well as the medical rollover. But I do agree everybody's the asshole because he did go overboard, and flipped out a bit too much.
Judge Egg: Justice is served sunny side up.
20:43 Mitch Hedberg joke shoehorned in? Love it so much. I used to do blank, I still do but I used to too.
50% of the stories are fake? that's very generous NL :P
That last one sounds a lot less controversial when you say it the other way around: "Am I the asshole for trying to force my SO to pay for a wedding he really doesn't want?"
React Court is some blessed content brother
NL's reaction to the cat post: I understand, but the punishment is a little overboard.
NL's reaction to the cat post if OP was the daughter instead of the dad: This punishment is kind of based.
"Do any of those fuckin curries ever pop out the fuckin bag" jesus I'm crying
On the wedding one if the brother is expected to intend his sisters wedding because he is in the family sphere then his children should fall there as well and the sister should have not excluded his children.
Then other family members should bring their children too, and boom not child free anymore.
@@psychicbot9748
I don’t understand how people that say “no kids at my wedding” get upset when people with kids just say “ok have a great time, but we won’t be coming”. You can’t just ask guess to divide up their family unit then get mad when they don’t.
Do whatever you want, but accept that others will make choices that are equally self serving.
@@wolfengod8277 NL when you want to give your mother in law only a single ticket to an event, so she can't bring her psychopath boyfriend who terribly wronged you, and wasn't part of her life like a year ago max:
NOOO COUPLES ARE INSEPARABLE THEY ARE ONE UNIT YOU CANNOT POSSIBLY ASK THEM TO ANYTHING WITHOUT THE OTHER!!!
NL when someone want you to leave you 3 young children home for an event:
LOL just find a babysitter, wanting to attend with your children? Why would you want to be with the people who are literally your flesh and blood?
Quality insight on these posts, makes me laugh every time!
You can’t just get 3 cats and be like “ew”
I don't think 200k a year is "forget how much things cost" money, at least where I live. It's not top 1% money, and it's definitely not use Bill Gates as a metaphor money.
In the U.S. you need to make like 550k to be in the 1%, I think the guy might just have never researched wedding stuff because he never really wanted one.
Okay but the guy actually said a bunch of stuff that shouldn’t all cost 70k
It's certainly not the 1% but it is leagues above the average. The average yearly income in the US is around 30k so to most people 200k is an unbelievable amount of money to earn a year.