The story of how I got bullied out of the BTS fandom

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  • @jocelynnegarcia6146
    @jocelynnegarcia6146 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Sorry this happened to you, I’ve been an army since 2017 and this never happened to me, but in my opinion the Twitter fans are just mean and toxic that’s why I try to not interact with people through Twitter they’re just something else…

    • @JonasBrotherLuver122
      @JonasBrotherLuver122 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes!! Twitter can be so toxic for ARMYs and other people!

  • @barbarag312
    @barbarag312 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    that's crazyyy, there's always one side of fandoms that just makes it bad

  • @JonasBrotherLuver122
    @JonasBrotherLuver122 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I'm a dedicated ARMY since 2017, and I'm so sorry that these "fans" called you out like that. I've been supporting you since the O2L days, and you're one of the most genuine and funny people that I'm glad to know! I hope you give BTS another try, their music is very diverse and meaningful. But if not, that's ok too! Much love and hugs 🤗

  • @renaluvsbjt
    @renaluvsbjt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    on behalf of the army, i’d like to apologize for these “fans” behavior. some of these so called supporters are so toxic. i’m so sorry Ryan! i’m glad you’re still a fan though.

  • @MinSugaCheonjae
    @MinSugaCheonjae ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God I'm sorry about that. I have never seen anything like this happen in the fandom. It's so weird. I hope you give BTS another try though. They have been putting out a lot of solo music recently and it's just on another level.

  • @strangerann3212
    @strangerann3212 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Im sorry this happened to you. I became an ARMY this year and I don’t understand why people hate on other people’s likes or interests. Its sad to see how much time people spend on putting others down.

  • @azchrosette
    @azchrosette 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I love k-pop and BTS. Me and my best friend would listen to hella k-pop in college long before BTS rose up. The old school guys like GD and T.O.P. 😆 But the BTS Army/fandom, man...
    They really can be too much. Not everyone, of course, but... it's SO crazy. I don't understand it. There's no reason to attack ANYONE, especially people genuinely wanting to learn about k-pop.

  • @sydverse127
    @sydverse127 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    twitter is crazy, man, i am fairly active on bts/kpop sides of twitter mostly just to keep up with what groups are doing and have fun with my friends, which is the best way to enjoy it in my opinion. people take things far too seriously (as seen with those people that would harass you, which i'm so sorry happened to you). you see it in any fandom in my experience, a small minority of people take things too far and end up becoming a negative stain on the perception of the fans to outsiders, it's just with bts their base is so large at this point that the small minority percentage of people who act like that is quite a big number of people, unfortunately.
    i hope if you ever decide to get into bts again you do and enjoy it! or don't if it's not something you feel is worth returning to. i've found the most joy in kpop or any interest i've ever had in just being invested in how i feel i want to be and not that anyone else online says is the right way to do it, which i hope you can do too!

    • @JonasBrotherLuver122
      @JonasBrotherLuver122 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I adore your answer!! I totally agree, as a BTS ARMY myself.

  • @crystalsnow1138
    @crystalsnow1138 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    And this is why I stay from away from twitter. I don't have the time nor the energy to deal with all that bs. I like the music I like and no toxic fans will stop me. And most BTS fans are respectful.

  • @sophialeemirandaakaprincess
    @sophialeemirandaakaprincess 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Being a fan of a lot of things ( there always someone who makes the fandom look bad sadly) always remember that most fandoms don’t mean to be mean but yeah sometimes this happens…… so sad that happened to u! Welcome to the fandom world please don’t hesitate to talk about it more u might find an expert in that kind of thing( I’m one of them I’m on ur side dude!) like u said a lot of fandoms Will welcome u with open arms as well very well done btw u did a great job being a fan ! Very well done ! Keep it up !!!

  • @MsKuminz
    @MsKuminz ปีที่แล้ว

    Getting to this video late. I just found this channel from watching videos of your friend group. I like your vibe, you are my kind of human. I am an “older” ARMY. I appreciate BTS’ music - the lyrics are so good, they have great personalities and are amazing performers. There are so many jerks on social media in general and there definitely are in fandoms - including ARMY. Usually “ARMY” latches on to male fans so it’s unfortunate that they went after you. Ridiculous really. Glad you are still a fan. They have been putting out a lot of good solo work during their break. I hope you are checking it out. I have taken a step back from most of social media. I don’t like all of the drama and negativity. Anyway, you are a good dude in my book!!

  • @amarantaperla1296
    @amarantaperla1296 ปีที่แล้ว

    stan twitter is always toxic for all fandoms, but still that does not mean they are allowed to harass you off of bts' twitter. you should keep doing what makes you happy and if thats posting silly tweets to bts then thats what you should do! I'm so sorry this happened to you but I hope you can keep doing the things that make you happy no matter who says something about it. we love you ryan

  • @beatrizletras693
    @beatrizletras693 ปีที่แล้ว

    my take on this is that if you liked them to some level then you should keep showing it however it is you feel like, even if it's just listening to a song here or there or actively answering to their posts. I've been active on armytwt for almost 2 years now and whatever you described just seems like people taking it too far and taking all the fun out of it, so definitely shouldn't be seen as the standard,a s anyone is welcomed there. Either way, thanks for giving them a chance back then and even for speaking on this 'incident' and still doing it in a respectful way. Much love!

  • @cloud9withnaomi
    @cloud9withnaomi 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    army since 2018 here and the not so supportive fans is why i never gave them a chance in the beginning because a lot of them are not so welcoming or gatekeep and even bully you out of it so i’m sorry this happen ryan :/ there are no positions it’s just some of them are really cr*zy and hope you still listen to them every once in a while and a lot of them there is both a negative and positive side to it but the negative just pushes everyone else down mind you i listen to more than 10 kpop groups so usually there is also fan wars and it sucks because at the end of the day it is just music

  • @TheMochaMixx
    @TheMochaMixx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Get back in there Ry!

  • @lydiastormberg1075
    @lydiastormberg1075 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    There was Bts war at my school during sophomore year. This group of people would make fun of other musical band. I like twenty one pilots they literally made fun the band I liked. When we did the class dance they always made someone was in charged of the dance to make sure only Bts was the dance. There were some hands thrown during that time at my school

  • @brennieswaggy
    @brennieswaggy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ryan me as a Ahgase and a Monbebe welcome you to the Got7 and monsta x fandom 💖

  • @jennifergonzalez6542
    @jennifergonzalez6542 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I actually never knew you were into them 🫶🏻 but sorry you had to bump into those “army”

  • @creese.tee.nah21
    @creese.tee.nah21 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Smooth like butter

  • @natbeeby
    @natbeeby ปีที่แล้ว

    Stan BTS for life

  • @ohyoongimin
    @ohyoongimin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I remember when you posted On the 5 by Winnetka Bowling League years ago and now I’m a huge fan of them. Same with BTS but I only became a fan this year. I don’t get why those people called you out like that when you were literally just promoting them💀

  • @Cheyenne-2023
    @Cheyenne-2023 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    There fandom has been disrespectful to me since the start. I tried becoming a fan but could because I was a fan of wdw

    • @JonasBrotherLuver122
      @JonasBrotherLuver122 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm sorry that these "fans" were disrespectful to you. As a BTS ARMY, I'm so sorry. 😔

    • @crystalsnow1138
      @crystalsnow1138 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Most BTS fans are respectful and don't care what else you listen to. Twitter is is just the worst for any fandom.

  • @taniafortes195
    @taniafortes195 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yh twitter kpop is a scary place

  • @jennifergonzalez6542
    @jennifergonzalez6542 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Twitter is a crazy place for kpop Stans

  • @MayaJeon7
    @MayaJeon7 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Omg.... look i am army the big one and trust me real army is not like that who are thay to tell you you can't learn i learn too i didn't know them befor trust me i will saport you it is soo buttyfull that you wanna learn more a bout them♡
    And when you say fandom trust me most of them is hater see like that thay want to stop you from bing a fan of bts the real fan will love to see more people saporting bts
    Just don't listn to them ok love you:)

  • @virlinehonore9767
    @virlinehonore9767 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don’t listen to bts or any K-pop groups, but I’m sorry that happened to u

  • @brennieswaggy
    @brennieswaggy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

  • @5nikoline5
    @5nikoline5 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    oh wow... twitter is... something else lol
    sorry ppl were so?? unhinged?? wtf??

  • @emillz
    @emillz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    KEEP TWEETING ABOUT BTS as someone on armytwt those people who told you to stop tweeting about them are miserable

  • @jessicayoges1875
    @jessicayoges1875 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Stan Stray Kids

  • @ansri24
    @ansri24 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    arianators wouldnt do this, sorry bout that king

  • @hannmaster
    @hannmaster 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    welp you should've stanned loona instead