1) If mentally not prepared, One must not marry under pressure 2) Financially independence is very important. 3) If education is complete, one finds a good match. 4) If u are underage, there is less of experience, less of understanding, less of maturity. It's better to wait for right time. 5) One must understand the life 's problem, ups downs, ways to handle problem before marriage. 6) Marriage gives an additional responsibility, which can be understood only once u have completed with your studies. 7) Explore things before u get married 8)
Many valid points made. Especially, when one independently faces ups and downs in one's life, lot of life lessons can be learnt which can aid in future.
My parents forcing my elder sister to marry... Everyday everynight they talk abt her marraige ( wht will society thinks , she's already 25 she needs to marry someone bcz its the ri8 age).she is 25 but she wants to achieve more big things in her life.. but i always get scolded by them for supporting my sister's will. I dont know how to make 'em understand there's nothing like ri8 age. Its jst abt understanding, maturity , one's will nd interest , goals .
Thanks ma'am , I am also right now ready to marry but with that person jo mere sath life bitane k liye ready ho. Mai Social Worker hun and Job bhi kr rhi hun. Ghar se dur hun and Higher Study bhi kr rhi. Bs ab us insan k intezar hai jo mere sath puri zindagi bitaye. Thank you Didi🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻
Mam aap toh mummy s b achhha smjhate ho.... Thank u so much...mam.. Mri b age ho gyi h... Bt.. Aapke points n.. Mje kfi relax feel krwaya... Big thanks to u.. Ksh aadhi society ki soch aapke jsi itni positive hoti.. 🥰🥰
@@MonicaGupta mam mera nam Gursimran h.. Or m 26yr ki hu.. Or Teaching ki tyri m hu.. Kfu stress m. Rhti hu.. Shadi ko leke.. Krna nhi chahti... Bt society😔😔.. Bt aapko sunkr mje bht relax feel Hua h.. 😇😇
Gursimran हैलो... आप अगर नहीं करना चाहती तो कोई वजह तो होगी.. खुल कर बात कीजिए अपने घर पर ताकि वो बार बार आप पर दबाव ना डालें और आप खुल कर टीचिंग की तैयारी कर सकें...
Namaste mam 🙏🙏 aapka bahut bahut dhanyavad mam bahut khushnaseeb hongi jinki man aap hai itni acchi acchi baten Karti Hain Jaise lagta hai aap kitni apni hai thank you mam 🙏
Maa ladai jhagda ki wajah se hum Jane anjane mein kisi ko ulta jawab de dete hn phir wo humse naraz ho jata h phir unhe manana padta h, ya car hum gusse se tej chala dete hn jisse accident ki naubat aa sakti h.... Ladai jhagda soch samajh kar karna chahiye...
Aap bilkul sahi kah rhe h dii,bahut achchha video but ab ye bhi sochiyega ki right age me shadi nhi hone k kya kya nuksan h ,jo samaj ko aur khud ko uthane pd rhe h is pr bhi search kijiye chintan kijiye
Hello mam I am around 24 and I have done my graduation & Some Courses also had a 6 months experience of JOB but now I Am preparing for gov exam For Better future & financial independent but suddenly acha rishta aaya & my papa convinced me to get married bcoz rishta acha hai and the other side family is saying that We have no issue if u want to do study or job you can do but I am Confused mam mujhe ladke se is baare me baat krni chaiye off course what to do pls give me the best Solution I always thought ki independent hoke hi shaadi krungi even not that kind of mentally prepare but my father doesn’t want me to leave this rishta he is not pressurise me but unka dil hai ki baat ho jaye suggest me some best solution
This video reminds me of my own 22nd birthday. I still remember my mother asking me on that day how old are you? I replied I'm now 22. She replied that had i been a girl, she would have married me off by now. Later in the day also she told my father in my presence that she was telling me had i been a girl she would have been hunting for a son in law by now. And my great father replied "why, had he been a girl we cud have married him by 20 itself" 😫😫😫😫😫😫😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😣😣😣😣😣😣😣😣😒😒😒😒😒😒such cruel parents hey bhagwan!!!
Mam mere group mese ek ladka mera bhot hi buraai karta hai aur mujhe pta lg jata hai... wo mere dost ko bhi dhire dhire mujhse dur kr rha hai..... Mam mujhe Uske sath kaisa react karna chahiye?
Mam abhi tk hm ghr se kbhi dur hi nhi gye due to this I am not able to take decision regarding marriage bcoz of fear that how I can live at other house and Also I am introvert girl please btaiye mam kya krey?
Mam aap hamesha bolti h mantle prepare ho jane ke bad sadi karna chahiy par mantle prepared kab hoti h ladkiya Mere ghar me kuch log meri sadi karne ke liy bolte h our kuch log bolte h itna jaldi kya h sadi karne ki main bahut confused hu mam
Mam mere mom and dad ki kal bohot ladai hui thi mumma aur papa dono bohot roye the papa ne kha ki unki zindagi khatam hogyi papa hame kheech ke lejaarhe the doosre kamre mein mam papa ne bola ki wo apna sar phodlenge mam please help me i am in depression😪😪😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Mam mai 17 saal ki hu i don't have parents' mera pass bas meri dadi hai she keeps saying 18 ki hone ke baad teri shadi karva denge or mujhe nahi karni kiu ki mai tyar nahi mentally mujhe pressure feel hora hai vo jo bolti hai vo karke rehti hai maine unko smjaya par wo bolti shadi karni hi padti hai mai unko smjak thak gai mujhe shadi naam se nafrat honi lagi hai mere dil chubhne laga jab shadi ki baat aati kabhi kabhi rona aajata mujhe independent banana hai mai kay karu mujhe kuch smjhe nahi aarha please help 😢😭
1) If mentally not prepared, One must not marry under pressure
2) Financially independence is very important.
3) If education is complete, one finds a good match.
4) If u are underage, there is less of experience, less of understanding, less of maturity. It's better to wait for right time.
5) One must understand the life 's problem, ups downs, ways to handle problem before marriage.
6) Marriage gives an additional responsibility, which can be understood only once u have completed with your studies.
7) Explore things before u get married
8)
Many valid points made. Especially, when one independently faces ups and downs in one's life, lot of life lessons can be learnt which can aid in future.
Thanks🙏
Right mam...right time Bhut important h....
Mene hmesha shaadi ko last option rkha h Mam.. Aaj tk mujhko ldke smjh me nhi aaye...
My parents forcing my elder sister to marry... Everyday everynight they talk abt her marraige ( wht will society thinks , she's already 25 she needs to marry someone bcz its the ri8 age).she is 25 but she wants to achieve more big things in her life.. but i always get scolded by them for supporting my sister's will.
I dont know how to make 'em understand there's nothing like ri8 age. Its jst abt understanding, maturity , one's will nd interest , goals .
Mam aap ne kitni tention khatam kr di right age nhi right time jaruri h ye khkr.thank you so much
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Thanks ma'am , I am also right now ready to marry but with that person jo mere sath life bitane k liye ready ho. Mai Social Worker hun and Job bhi kr rhi hun.
Ghar se dur hun and Higher Study bhi kr rhi.
Bs ab us insan k intezar hai jo mere sath puri zindagi bitaye.
Thank you Didi🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻
Bilkul shi kha mam mene aksar ghr bigdte dekhe hain jaldi shadi krne ki wjh se shi smjh na aane ki wjh se
जी🙏
Very helpful.. Thanks❤
So glad!
Mam aap toh mummy s b achhha smjhate ho.... Thank u so much...mam.. Mri b age ho gyi h... Bt.. Aapke points n.. Mje kfi relax feel krwaya... Big thanks to u.. Ksh aadhi society ki soch aapke jsi itni positive hoti.. 🥰🥰
आपका बहुत-बहुत धन्यवाद पर आपका नाम क्या है माउंटेन गर्ल
@@MonicaGupta mam mera nam Gursimran h.. Or m 26yr ki hu.. Or Teaching ki tyri m hu.. Kfu stress m. Rhti hu.. Shadi ko leke.. Krna nhi chahti... Bt society😔😔.. Bt aapko sunkr mje bht relax feel Hua h.. 😇😇
Gursimran हैलो... आप अगर नहीं करना चाहती तो कोई वजह तो होगी.. खुल कर बात कीजिए अपने घर पर ताकि वो बार बार आप पर दबाव ना डालें और आप खुल कर टीचिंग की तैयारी कर सकें...
You are absolutely right mam 😊 thanks for sharing this information 👍 it's very helpful for everyone 🙏
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Thanku so much mam itna sbb kuch samjhane k liye .
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Namaste mam 🙏🙏 aapka bahut bahut dhanyavad mam bahut khushnaseeb hongi jinki man aap hai itni acchi acchi baten Karti Hain Jaise lagta hai aap kitni apni hai thank you mam 🙏
Thank you Monika maam you are just like mother I love you❤
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बहुत अच्छी जानकारी।
Thanks 🙏🏻🙂
Maa ladai jhagda ki wajah se hum Jane anjane mein kisi ko ulta jawab de dete hn phir wo humse naraz ho jata h phir unhe manana padta h, ya car hum gusse se tej chala dete hn jisse accident ki naubat aa sakti h....
Ladai jhagda soch samajh kar karna chahiye...
जी.. बहुत सही बात समझदारी वाली बात की है आपने चरणप्रीत
Bhot khoobsurti s apne mere doubts ko clear kar dia ma'am ,meri thinking bhi bilkul apke wali hai ,thankyu so much❤❤
Aapne bhut accha samjha h mam..🥰
Thanks Swati Kumari 🙏🏻🙂
Thankyou so much 😀
You’re welcome 😊
The only bad thing about your videos is that they end🌄🌄🌄 feeling motivated thankyou Monica Ma'am 🌼
Mam You are Great
God Bless you Mam.👍👍👍
धन्यवाद💐
Thank you ☺️
The key to a successful marriage is the right time, not the right age.❤
नमस्ते मोनिका जी 🙏🙏👌👌💐💐
नमस्ते
Thankyou So Much Ma'am
Most welcome 😊
Right now ❤️
Thanks @user-kz8jb9mc6f 🙏🏻🙂
thank you ma'am ❤️❤️❤️
Aap bilkul sahi kah rhe h dii,bahut achchha video but ab ye bhi sochiyega ki right age me shadi nhi hone k kya kya nuksan h ,jo samaj ko aur khud ko uthane pd rhe h is pr bhi search kijiye chintan kijiye
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Thanks man 👍👍👌👌
Well explained...👏🏻 But few will understand this 😒 Is trh se log nhi sochte hai 😕
Bilkul yhi hota hai mam
Absolutely correct
Thanks SHITAL VAIDYA 🙏🏻🙂
Mam ....I am 35 ...But I didn't get right life partner ...I am Govt Teacher.I am not secure about relationship.
जी
Apne sahi baat batai
Thanks shashikala singh 🙏🏻🙂
App life ke reletive ache ache Chize share karte ho App Mam Thanku so much App jaiso ki jarurat Hai thanku Mam ❤🙏💐
Wonderful 🥳❤️
Hello mam I am around 24 and I have done my graduation & Some Courses also had a 6 months experience of JOB but now I Am preparing for gov exam For Better future & financial independent but suddenly acha rishta aaya & my papa convinced me to get married bcoz rishta acha hai and the other side family is saying that We have no issue if u want to do study or job you can do but I am Confused mam mujhe ladke se is baare me baat krni chaiye off course what to do pls give me the best Solution I always thought ki independent hoke hi shaadi krungi even not that kind of mentally prepare but my father doesn’t want me to leave this rishta he is not pressurise me but unka dil hai ki baat ho jaye suggest me some best solution
I have being serching since 2-3 years but facing rejection and pls let me know in relationship is physical is important in relationship
So nice mam thanks
Awesome 👍
Namastey ma'am jee.I'm balvinder kaur.ma'am main eye's wali baat se dipression main hoo.kya kru.plz help me.mere dimaag per bhojh rah ta h.
आपको अपना ध्यान किसी और बात या काम पर लगाना चाहिए।
Nice speech
Good morning mam ji. You explained every point very well. You are doing such a great work. You are looking so beautiful. Ì love you very much.
Thanks a lot
Right mam🙏👏🙏🙏
You are right mam
Very nice video ma'am 👌👌👌👍👍👍
Please 🙏🙏🙏🙏 kuch btye
Nice sharing didi ❤
So i promise to myself that i will never disrespect my parents and i will make some distance to them (to decrease distance)
Hum thik hain aap kaise ho mam..
This video reminds me of my own 22nd birthday. I still remember my mother asking me on that day how old are you? I replied I'm now 22. She replied that had i been a girl, she would have married me off by now. Later in the day also she told my father in my presence that she was telling me had i been a girl she would have been hunting for a son in law by now. And my great father replied "why, had he been a girl we cud have married him by 20 itself" 😫😫😫😫😫😫😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😣😣😣😣😣😣😣😣😒😒😒😒😒😒such cruel parents hey bhagwan!!!
Nice mam
Purane bujurg samjhna nhi chahte mam...wo aaj bhi pressure dalte hain... aaj purane rules ke Sath nhi chal sakte
Mam mere group mese ek ladka mera bhot hi buraai karta hai aur mujhe pta lg jata hai... wo mere dost ko bhi dhire dhire mujhse dur kr rha hai..... Mam mujhe Uske sath kaisa react karna chahiye?
Right
Mam abhi tk hm ghr se kbhi dur hi nhi gye due to this I am not able to take decision regarding marriage bcoz of fear that how I can live at other house and Also I am introvert girl please btaiye mam kya krey?
Good morning mam
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Sister hi behna 📡📡
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thank u ma'am
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Mam i doing job I had done master but I had speech problem and face problems h by birth se i m 31 now but shaddi nahi ho rahi h my mom is no more
I am 35 year old girl, Single. Should I get married at this age or not?
आप क्या सोचती हैं इस बारे में ???
@@MonicaGuptaMujhe Apne bare mein soch kar shaadi kar leni chahiye. Waise bhi kafi bade actress ne bhi 35 years mein shadi ki hai.
Mam aap hamesha bolti h mantle prepare ho jane ke bad sadi karna chahiy par mantle prepared kab hoti h ladkiya
Mere ghar me kuch log meri sadi karne ke liy bolte h our kuch log bolte h itna jaldi kya h sadi karne ki main bahut confused hu mam
आपकी अपनी क्या सोच है?क्या आप तैयार हैं?
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For a successful marriage it needs to be done at the right TIME not to be done at right AGE.☝️👆
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Hi didi
Hi mam
Surleen 🙏🏻🙂
a for boys ??????????????????
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Mem main apni story publicly nhi bata sakti bhut complicated hai so main aapse personal me batana chahti hun 🙏
पर और कहीं सम्भव नहीं
Meri age 32 running he ......
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Muje society Wale or relation Wale..
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Aese dekhte he jese ab meri shadi hi nhi hogi koi milegi hi nhi muje 😊
Mam mere mom and dad ki kal bohot ladai hui thi mumma aur papa dono bohot roye the papa ne kha ki unki zindagi khatam hogyi papa hame kheech ke lejaarhe the doosre kamre mein mam papa ne bola ki wo apna sar phodlenge mam please help me i am in depression😪😪😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
आप कितने साल की हैं... ?
Mam mai 17 saal ki hu i don't have parents' mera pass bas meri dadi hai she keeps saying 18 ki hone ke baad teri shadi karva denge or mujhe nahi karni kiu ki mai tyar nahi mentally mujhe pressure feel hora hai vo jo bolti hai vo karke rehti hai maine unko smjaya par wo bolti shadi karni hi padti hai mai unko smjak thak gai mujhe shadi naam se nafrat honi lagi hai mere dil chubhne laga jab shadi ki baat aati kabhi kabhi rona aajata mujhe independent banana hai mai kay karu mujhe kuch smjhe nahi aarha please help 😢😭
Purane bujurg samjhna nhi chahte mam...wo aaj bhi pressure dalte hain... aaj purane rules ke Sath nhi chal sakte
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