Cheryl Burke on Her History of Abuse, Why She Married Matthew Lawrence
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- Cheryl Burke opens up about the trauma she's faced throughout her life. On the latest episode of Facebook Watch's 'Red Table Talk,' the 38-year-old 'Dancing With the Stars' pro recounts her personal history of abuse and toxic relationships. Cheryl also reveals why she married her now ex-husband, Matthew Lawrence, after they dated on and off for a few years.
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Maybe I’m wrong but Matthew Lawrence seems like he’d be a sweetheart and I wonder if she’s still struggling with liking the nice guy.
Ted Bundy seemed nice, too.
Good question. He is a nice guy. she never once said he abused her. I assuming she felt she had alot of baggage. That isnt fare yo Matthew. " I just wanted to see if i could get married" ( Am i good enough for someone to mary me)
I don’t think she ever said it flat out, but definitely inferred that he “betrayed” her. It was all but saying he cheated.. never 100% confirmed it though. I wish people would stop with the cryptic admissions. Either say what happened or nothing at all. Truthfully, relationships, even after they’ve ended, should stay private. Social media has turned into a cruel way of putting exes on blast. Years ago, if someone cheated, only those closest to you knew about it. It wasn’t laid out there as public knowledge
@@strwbrrycrlz 🙄
He is. She’s the absolute worst celebrity I had the displeasure of being her wait staff. I feel bad for her past but to treat everyone around her deplorably is no excuse. It was a all day and all night event. It wasn’t just the waitstaff but her cast mates as well. She’s not a good person!
To the person reading this, even though I don't know you. I wish you the best of what life has to offer. 🙏 🤗❤️
Definitely sending you the same wishes ❤
Thank you!! You as well 💞🙏
Have always loved Cheryl. I went through something like she did as a child. I relate to her and I am glad that she is finally telling her story. I feel like she’s telling my story! I found my true best friend for life in 2014 and I hope you find yours soon as well. 💝
I'm so proud of you cheryl stay strong ,and be safe.
She looks unrecognizable. She had a different look and I found her so pretty.
She did a lot of surgery. She look great before but interesting now…
Omg her face. A whole different person!
She looks pretty but a totally different face. At first I didn't know who it was. I love her though.
She erased her ethnic features.
I'm definitely side-eyeing the stepfather for hiring an old MAN to babysit his little girl.
At the risk of sounding sexist (I don't really care), I'm always suspicious of adult males who want to be around children who are not their own.
Agreed. When I was 8 the neighbor behind us used to come visit my grandmother. I was that kid that always hung out with the adults and fit in better than with kids my age. We would play cards or games and listen to music. Eventually he started coming over to see her but asking if I was home and if he could take me to the store. My GMom allowed it at first, but then he started coming by and asking to see just me. Wanting to spend time with me treating me like a little sister. I loved the attention as an 8 year old, but my GMom told him one day that he needs to start hanging out with girls his own age and not to come by asking to see me anymore. And that was that. I cried because to me he was just a bigger friend. She explained that she wasn’t comfortable and that men that age, he was 21-23, something like that, shouldn’t be close friends with children my age. I’d been to his house as he lived with his mother, and he never touched me inappropriately. We were taught about that at a young age. He would hold my hand walking to the store as we crossed the street but I never thought it felt wrong. I was definitely being groomed. An uncle that visited us started taking me around town riding bikes or to hang with his friends and after it got too repetitive my GMom told him to stop coming around. I honestly believe now that in their eyes they were courting me but it was totally inappropriate because I was only 8. Granted I was mature for an 8 year old mentally and probably physically as I likely looked 9 or 10. I just thought they were cool big kids. Thankfully my GMom was watching out and on point.
Hold your head high!!!!❤❤.. your a fantastic diamond art gal🇨🇦♥️
Yeah, go on Jada's show to get info on healthy relationships!
She looks like a completely different person with a change in make up and hair color.
I was wondering if she got a nose job
She looked better before.
Cheryl got married was was basically out of the spotlight. She got bored from not getting public attention. This is why she is mentioning whatever from her personal life. Many people seeking attention will use their personal issues they experienced.
He's a great guy
She looks totally different
Why do these people keep giving Jada a platform by going on her show???? Ugh. She is just as toxic as the people they 'cry' about.
Love you Cheryl.... But not Jada's BS show, should do another platform.....jus sayin
I want to be happy but narcissists I get
Does Jada really think the shaved head look is attractive?
She doesn’t come across as truthful
Gee she doesnt look like herself!
Some stuff you just keep to yourself…..
Who tf is this girl?
She looks different in every picture.
Keeping it to yourself is why ppl stay messed up and don’t heal
Red table 🦠🦠🦠
She looks completely different
She just got older, thicker and dyed her hair
@@redbluebae4397 I'm thinking a nose job 🤷🏾♀️
@@redbluebae4397 thicker? She's noticeably skinner. And she doesn't even look the same skin tone. Isn't she half Asian. She doesn't look it anymore.
Oh gee look who’s giving advice to Cheryl. Jada.?….boo hoo for all of you
Who is this
why watch if you don’t know the person? you still bothered to comment too smh
You know she's right. Sometimes people get married just to prove to themselves that they can because in society and on some TOXIC POCASTS AND PLATFORMS they say that if you are an unmarried woman then you are not a "Good Woman" there is something wrong with you and that's not so. I love her honesty.
@mona e No offense, but I don't click on links that I'm not familiar with.
@@Cantetinza17 It is spam. This is a common thing that fake accounts do.
Spam, Fake.... Don't click & don't respond directly to them
She chose and will continue to choose badly. Podcasts had nothing to do with it. As adult women we have to choose wisely and run from the red flags. Hurt people need more therapy. She admits she fitness like the nice guy, that’s on her. Take ownership and stop looking for people to blame.
@t dow guess what? Nobody cares! We all saw the truth in that trial, those of us that watched from day 1 to the end with an UNBIASED mind! That is a snipet, a minuscule amount of what actually happened. Sooo why did she buy him a HUGE knife & give to him if he was sooo abusive to her??? You must be amber turd. Bish, this video you’re commenting on isn’t even abt you! Get outta her with that bs!!!
No judgment, but she def had work done recently. I didn’t even recognize her
I really feel sorry for what cheryl went through as a child I was sexual abused as a child
So sorry to hear that.
Poor girl. Shame on her stepfather, who hires a 60 year old man to babysit their children 🤨
Right ? Like where was mom to say absolutely not .
The mailman prob was a drinking buddy that stopped by after his route... That way after once or twice he could spot his opportunity. DISGUST
Exactly! I always find this concept so strange.
The age of the babysitter is not the problem here. The character is. There are a lot nice / trustworthy 60yr old men who are great grandfather figures who babysit.
I think they went wrong by leaving her with a strange man. Women can molest also. But, you have a higher chance of being molested and assaulted by a man.
Did she get that buccal fat removal procedure from her face? Cause she looks like an entirely different person.
Age....weight...
I was literally going to say the same thing. She looks super different.
She lost the baby fat in her face and probably veneers weight-loss also as mentioned above
@@iamreborn3463 that’s not just weight loss. She surgically removed the fat pads from her face. She was always skinny, with a toned dancer’s body but always had a chubby face.
@@aandjay nah, that’s not just from weight loss. Because she was always skinny with a toned dancer’s body but still had a chubby face. She surgically removed the fat pads from her face.
I didn't know she divorced Matthew. He is so gorgeous...
@@user-kj9ly9cw9s me too 😂😂😂
I feel so bad for her. I know what it means to think that you’re not good enough so you end up doing things to prove it to yourself. I had an abusive mother who took every opportunity to let me know that I wasn’t good enough for anyone. I had good men in my life but something inside me told me that I wasn’t good enough and that they would eventually leave me. So now I’m alone. I feel safe because I don’t have to worry about whether I’m good enough or not. I may have missed much happiness because of what my mother instilled in me.
I'm so sorry that you suffered. I hate that people, parents have this power they abuse and have children who they could choose to love, comfort and support. I only understand it because I suffered through emotional and mental abuse from a relative not my mother and father but it hurt, a lot; the constant rejection and trying to "please" which disgusted them even more. Glad it's over and they're out of my life. Thank God. 🙏🏾
Being a woman isn’t defined by marriage.
God defines who we are. God is enough for you. Being single is not a disease. Marriage is not the cure. If you desire to be married then the Lord will guide you through. If you don’t have a desire for marriage God will be enough for you.
@Truth and Beauty Co. Well I desire to be married❤and I'm waiting on the Lord to bless me with a husband , until then iii
@Truth and Beauty Co. Well I desire to be married❤and I'm waiting on the Lord to bless me with a husband , until then iii
@Truth and Beauty Co. Well I desire to be married❤and I'm waiting on the Lord to bless me with a husband , until then iii
This hits home. If she was able to let her childhood abusive grooming experience in and understands her past better now, then maybe I can too.
Looks like you are on the road to healing. Good luck.
Same but that still hits me makes me cry cause you still remember it and it will always mine I will never forget it stuff I watch trigger the past
The belt bf was an absolute narcissist bc his family watched. That’s what narcissist families do. She needs extensive therapy bc she’s like me. Early grooming set her up to repeatedly pick narcs
So funny how Jada sits there listening to somebody talk about abuse and trying to make them feel better, meanwhile, she's the epitome of emotional abuse! Seeing how she had her husband sit at that exact same table and her trying to justify her entanglement with her son's friend, making her husband look like a clown and a fool! What a joke!
Cheryl is an icon and deserves all the love and respect in the world
HOW IS SHE A ICON????....I'M A FAN ALSO BUT I WOULDN'T CONSIDER HER AN ICON, THOUGH!!!!😁
*She is NOT an icon*
ICON, she’s a ballroom dancer who got lucky and wound up on a hit show. I’m a ballroom dance teacher too, am I an ICON?
An “icon” ??? She was on dancing with the stars the heck you talking icon??? Really??? Shes a sell out filipina
I'm only here cus I looked up Matthew Lawrence. No idea who this woman is or why she's messed up.
When living around a lot of negativity brings out the worst in some people
I know. Lived it 😢
I grew up around it and went through a lot of bad things and horrible relationships and finally in my 40s and I got away from it
She got dumped because she doesn’t want kids. Now she’s going on a PR smear campaign because she’s bitter her ex is dating the singer Chilly
That’s what I heard as well- Matt really wants kids and she doesn’t . That’s okay. They both need to be true to themselves . ❤
Holy sh**! My life choices suddenly makes sense! Ugh, those subconscious decisions.
She looks very good though and she's a strong intelligent woman
She had nose plastic surgery to look less Asian. How is she strong?
I love Cheryl and she is beyond brave. I just wish we could've heard more from one interview rather than several. Let Cheryl shape her narrative, not ET. BRAVE AND BEAUTIFUL ALL THE SAME
She looks totally different😢
I was thinking the same thing. Her nose maybe?
Plastic surgery.
Jada Smith is so annoying. She can't even have a conversation that seems genuine.. she comes off fake.
I read wrong, thought it said Martin Lawrence lol
I laughed so hard at this comment 😭
I thought the same thing! 😂
An ex for a reason….. yup! Funny how she does not mention her mistakes. She cheated on him with her dancing with the stars married parten. That is why the initial break up happened. It’s sad what happened to her in her childhood, but do not act like your marriage ending was all him! We do not know his side. He is known to be private.
I get her. ❤️
I feel bad for her, imagine getting to the point where you feel like talking to Jada Pinkett is a step up from where you are… Awful just awful
Love you girl!! You rock that dance floor girl🇨🇦♥️🇨🇦♥️😘😘💎💎💎
Wow she had a lot of face work done 😅
Lets be real she was using him from jump but he wasn't able to see it. I could see it.
My abuse was my own paternal side of the family but like you said let it go cause it's in the past.
She looks different - face lift??
i clicked on the video but when I found out who is with her in this interview, i skipped. I hate the smiths
Jada you s also attractive to other men. Ask will smith
Umm didn’t recognize her but I love the blonde.
she looks so different
She looks different
I hope she gets threw this. And why does she look like millie bobby brown
Shows the average mentality of their viewers when they have to explain what chauvinistic means.
I always loved her dancing
Wow! So unfiltered. So honest
Makes sense why she never got with decent guys
She seems very harsh, he seems very sweet/pure.
She's needs to write a book
She looks so different now
So what if shes Asian .
All those people listening at the table could care less, they have this look like why am I listening to this.
Who is this
I support you.
Left a little girl with an old man. Em kay.
Sad to say tho a lot of women are attracted to smut and off put by good guys/gentlemen. I'm glad I got over that
Our stupid parents left us with our old lech great uncle. How dumb was thaT?
All they cared about was hitting the beer joint.
I lv Cheryl !!❤
Thank you for your honesty 🙏
She’s sooooo attractive 😍🔥 hate that this happened to her
I hate the washe d out lt.brown.
When i turn the sound off it's easier to watch facial expressions and see the false ones vs the legit ones. Jadas nods, eye blinks and nod look so identical they look rehearsed.
the psychologist's reaction! haha.. even gammy ang jada didn't react like she did..
Omg! I felt that.
That's because they're abusers
Jada looks AMAZING!
YAS G.I. Jane energy!
But her personality is psychotic!
Always complaining, grow up .
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Doesn’t any female have happy memories that go on RTT? I’ll never know why they wait until they’re “ famous “ to talk about it. Sorry anyone has to go through trauma but we ALL have something we have to overcome. Personally she seems like she was the selfish one in her marriage if she only married him to see if she could. She already went in knowing it wasn’t love.
Jesus u women are worse than men criticizing other women, men don’t even have to do the work to keep us down when y’all are such handmaidens
You sound like a terrible person.
The accuracy in this comment is insane 🎯💯‼️ minus the marriage part (I know nothing about that lol)
Wait until famous? You're obtuse. She testified in the court against the child rapist at 9 years old. You are truly sick in the head. Shame on you. You're disgusting and wish to silence victims of childhood abuse.
Another professional victim.
GI Jane?