Having bottom surgury is a huge decision. And it is very daunting. I had mine years ago, I did have some minor complications but I am very happy and everything looks and works as it should. And it was 100% the right decision for me
It's your body, your life, no one else but you should have an opinion. I can only tell you my choice to have bottom surgery was the best choice for me. Good luck on the choice you make for yourself, what ever you decide it's only you that gets to decide. Some people may want to influence you, but that may be what they want for not what you want.
the satisfaction statistics on vaginoplasty are very good. much better than most other elective major surgeries. so take heart! i have my orchiectomy consult next week, which is all that is available to me for the next few years while i care for my elderly parents in the midwest. look for dr jamie’s recent video covering the research on vaginoplasty. she just had her own procedure a couple of months ago. ❤
@@charlieb6210 That’s relieving to hear. Orchiectomy sounds good at least you wont have to worry about testosterone! I'll check out that video thanks :)
@MalibuBarbiieDelish I'm currently taking 3ml estrogen and 200mg progesterone daily, which has knocked my testosterone down to 0.4nmol, without any tblocker. I'm also so scared about bottom surgery, but I don't feel at this moment that I'm desperate to have it done, I would like some FFS and breast augmentation 1st. I have such little libido because of the hormones, and I worry about it affecting my relationship with my bf. You have to do what feels right for you! It's your choice and take your time! Big hugz sister ❤️🫂
@@MalibuBarbiieDelishI'm currently taking 3ml estrogen and 200mg progesterone daily and that has taken my testosterone down to 0.4nmol without any tblocker. I'm also really scared about bottom surgery, due to possible complications. I hardly have any libido and I worry how it might affect my relationship with my boyfriend. But you have to do whatever feels right for you Malibu. You are looking and sounding amazing! ❤
@@charlieb6210 I want to have an arichiectomy, but have been refused. Going private is too expensive for me. It's ridiculous because I literally paid for the same procedure to be done to my cat for less than £200, but for myself it would cost thousands.
do what makes you happy.I had it almost 2 yrs ago and love it! the first year is alot of dilating,I always knew this is what i wanted ..Couldnt say i was a woman until i had it!! But you do what is right for you!
I admire your openess and honesty about this. As a cis guy I can't offer any helpful advice, other than to be sure about what you want, and be realistic about the possible outcomes. I hope you get the result you want 🙂
Your thoughts and feelings on this seem to be quite aligned with my own. I'm looking at getting my surgery about a year from now. Very scary but also exciting and a source of hope for feeling right in my body
My wife had bottom surgery. She's happy with the results. No complications. I helped her through the surgery. That was a pretty extreme time and recovery was pretty challenging but it brought us closer together at the same time.
I just started hormones 3 months ago. I don’t think I want to douche everyday. I’m really small anyways and have a lot of cute cages. I think I got even smaller with HRT. But I’m definitely gonna get a orchiotomy after BA/FFS. I’m really excited
Hey sis, I just scheduled FFS and GRS on the same day for beginning of Nov. Im a little nervous, my social anxiety is the worst part. So, i am bringing with me someone who will stay with me at the hospital. im just hoping it will end the discomfort of not being myself down there. And thank you for talking about sexual desire. I know things work, but i just feel like a person not there when i have sex. Im hoping after this that will change and i can be present.
@@mrstudios010 omg best of luck with that! I can say FFS recovery isn't so bad, you'll be fine with that after a week. I'm sure you will feel amazing afterwards ❤️
So far, I haven’t wanted any surgery beyond a possible Orchiectomy, but while watching this video I came to the realization that I haven’t really considered getting a Zero-depth Vaginoplasty. My main motivation for getting ANY surgery would be cosmetic, to remove bulk and not for sex. This might make sense for me, since I already have grandchildren and am not looking for a romantic partner. Zero-depth with little or no external labia would definitely allow more fashion options, since I would no longer have a telltale bulge. I think that would also remove any concern about the need to dilate post surgery.
Here’s my 2 cents after having SRS 9 months ago (inversion + peritoneum). I knew I wanted it long before deciding to transition, but got nervous about it in the weeks prior to my surgery date. I just wanted it gone so badly that I honestly didn’t care if I lost sensation or ended up looking like a train wreck. Recovery was rough but also a blur because I was kinda out of it and life was just dilating, napping, and getting through the pain. At about 1.5 months I was able to stop taking pain meds, and around that same time it didn’t look so nasty down there anymore and my libido came back. I went back to work at 3 months, but really wasn’t 100% until 4 months. I did not have any complications (besides a possible infection solved with meds, and some wound dehiscence that my body fixed itself), and had no issues with dilating. As long as you fully commit to your surgeons dilating instructions without straying you should be fine, but that can be easier said than done. I had sessions that were fine and others that hurt for 30mins where it took all my willpower not to give up. Now, I’m dilating twice a day and it’s no big deal, kinda like brushing my teeth. I achieved an O at around 3 months, and let me tell you it was a relief. Despite not caring about being able to do that going in, and rarely using my old equipment beforehand, it is super frustrating when you do go for it and can’t get it. Had to totally relearn what works, and it takes a lot longer to reach now. And it feels completely different too. I have not tried anything penetrative yet though, because I’m just not interested with still having to dilate twice a day. Lastly, I’m glad I had it done. It’s really helped my confidence and dysphoria. Like, I was seriously looking at FFS before and now I’m not sure I want it because I’m so much more comfortable in my body. I can also just be in underwear and look in the mirror and feel so incredibly happy. That said, I’d give it like an 85% satisfaction rating for now because it doesn’t look great and I’d be nervous to go nude around a partner (but not like that was easy to do before anyway). I’m hopefully getting a cosmetic revision to fix that though, if insurances obliges. Oh, and I’m 28 and my surgeon “had plenty of tissue to work with” if that has any bearing.
@@Aquatendo I'm sure I will feel nervous leading up to it too, and I kind of feel the same as you did in regards to sex and orgasms after. I'd definitely be disappointed if I couldn't do it but I also think it’s more important for me to have the surgery for my dysphoria. It sounds like you're happy overall so that's given me hope 🩷
Hi Malibu I had the surgery myself, privately in the UK There are 5 surgeons in total in the UK 4 both private and nhs and 1 private only Nuffield Brighton where I went to there is 2 surgeons there, it’s both private and NHS. There is 1 surgeon that is in process of retiring. The 2 surgeons are Mr Coker and Mr Larner. Mr Coker is in the process of retiring Parkside London have 2 surgeons both private and NHS. Ms Rashid and Mr Bellringer I went with Mr Coker and I have been overall happy with my results, am 7 months post op, I was a private patient but I do know NHS patients that have been with most of these surgeons The NHS as far as am aware only offers shallow depth or full depth via penile inversion only. I don’t believe you can get PPT or colon on NHS, though I wouldn’t recommend colon as the first choice, that’s my opinion Both hospitals I know for Brighton at least you have a private room, I think same in London Note even for NHS patients the surgery is not carried out in an NHS hospital, it’s usually done in a private hospital It’s important to remember that things can go wrong and going into the process of deciding if this surgery is right for you is very important. It’s great to see the positive but it’s important to know what can go wrong. Surgeons of course will do what they can to avoid these but sometimes the control is out of their hands Feel free to reach out if you have any questions
@@xxbluechampagnexx oh that's good to know, I will be having it either in the London or Brighton clinic so hopefully I get a private room, I had my ffs at the Brighton nuffield and I had a private room which was nice. They did ask me my preference on hospital, I'm unsure if ill get to pick a surgeon but I wouldn't know what to pick anyway really. I'm having penile inversion I believe and I guess that leaves me the option of colon surgery later on if I need it but yes I am very aware of the risks and know it might not go how I want it to :/
I had GRS in 2009 best decision I have a made it saved my life i’ve had no complications. I have full sensation Dr. Christine McGinn did my surgery in new. Hope Pennsylvania in the US.
Oh dear! You have to decide for yourself about your surgery! It will take about a year before you're ready to assess the surgery.... I didn't and totally regret that decision! You are very beautiful! Love to be friends no matter!
I wanted bikini surgery originally but may now skip it myself. I hear good stores and horror stories so skip bikini surgery or grab the best surgeon on the planet sis!
@@AutumnE3 Listen, validity does not necessitate depth. Surgery is expensive and meaningless if it has no practicality. You wouldn't remove any body part that isn't live threatening. There's no reputable proof that transness is even a tangible condition, contrary to popular belief, let alone a disorder that needs surgery in order to subside.
I don't know anything about healthcare in the UK, nor hardly anything of what's happening on this side of the pond as of late. My GCS was in 2012 and I had to pay out of pocket. Since I had a well-paying job and was dedicating most of my budget on transition, I could afford the best doctor who was doing this at the time. I'm very happy today. But there are plenty of horror stories out there. In retrospect, I believe that self-knowledge is key. I had options as far as the procedure goes, and one of them was to get a type of op that wouldn't require dilation. I sometimes wish I had gotten that. But it depends on what relationships you plan to have or indeed if you plan to have any, and how sure you are of your post-op plans. Good luck.
I would actually say a private clinic doesn't guarantee anything just because they are private. you should be able to ask to get in touch with other patients they have operated on to weigh up what results could be achieved and were there any complications they went through after surgery. They're may also be reviews written by their patients after surgery but always try to verify if they are for real. meeting up with others in person who have used your surgeon before would put your mind at rest if possible. having a good mental positive attitude goes a long way to recovery. Best wishes Malibu in whatever you decide in your life journey ahead. ♥
As a middle aged cis male, I really don't have a right to give you an opinion. But thank you for talking about such a personal issue. It's interesting to learn about. What I can say is that I also have bad social anxiety and wonder how you can put yourself out in front of so many people and talk about something like this without triggering your anxiety. Anyway. Hang in there!
@@eco2geek. I'm a performer and creative at heart, whether its music or art or anything where I can be expressive I'm the most comfortable. However of course social anxiety does hold me back so doing it via youtube is actually kind of perfect as I don't have to worry about a live audience and I really love having a little following its really making me feel excited about life again and the future!
Please go with a reputable surgeon if you go for bottom surgery. Do whatever is best for you! Do as much research on the subject as you can to make the right choice for you. All your viewers wish you the very best!
its a big decision to take, its also one for me to consider later on despite knowing some of the hardship that will follow that has some stress behind it. just not having original equipment anymore would be nice. the dilation where you need to do it 3-4x a day is a full time job and you still need to find time to get a bit of sleep in between each session. dilate, clean, air dry, sleep and then a few hrs of sleep. rough time and thats not considering having to deal with your occupation whatever it may be at the time.
@@MalibuBarbiieDelish im sure it will, at the very least it will look like you had that body configuration all this time after its healed. not sure if i will do minimal depth but am leaning to full even if i dont plan on having a partner make use of that place.
I think you may have been watching a lot of the less fortunate surgery result videos out there. There are a tremendous amount of Vaginoplasty Surgery VLogs that are filled with very happy people with terrific results. It is important to be aware of all the possible risks and outcomes, but remember to vary your research. :) You have a bit of misinformation around some things I noticed. For one thing, Dialation is a lifetime thing with a big asterisk there. As you progress and after the first year your dialation schedule is cut down drastically. Typically starting out at a few times a day, but then tapering to once a day and eventually once a week. Even less if you have a partner and are in an active sex life. Also, a large number of people have reported that recovery was relatively painless and was mostly just more a matter of discomfort than pain. You mentioned you went through FFS, and from all reports I have heard, FFS is 10x more painful than Vaginoplasty. Stay strong, you are loved, and you got this!
@@AriaBelcourt it definitely did feel like I was watching negative experiences I will have to check out some more, I mean most of them seemed happy with the results but mentioned a lot of pain and complications. I didn't find my FFS that painful only the first few days so I hope you're right! I do think I have quite a high pain tolerance so that's a good sign :)
When doing your research on the Internet, there is a sampling bias you should take into account: people with complications or regret are more likely to feel compelled to tell their stories than people who had a smooth sailing. Not to mention that horror stories of regret or complications get eagerly amplified. The regret rates for gender affirming surgery are quite low across multiple studies. And the reasons for regret include things like “I never wanted bottom surgery, my boyfriend talked me into it” or “my family doesn’t accept me transitioning”. But at the end of the day, it’s your body, your life, no doctor or well-meaning friends or strangers on the Internet or partner can tell you what’s right for you. If you feel this is something you need or want, do it. If you feel you’re not ready yet and you need to mull it over some more, then it’s also okay to postpone the operation and give yourself some more time to figure yourself out. Either way, best of luck!
Recovery varies a lot. For me, no real issues at all. Only real issue was severe trapped wind for about a day and a half starting about 6 hours post surgery. For operations, the main places who do it are Brighton and Parkside, and both of these pretty much only have private rooms. Charing Cross has a mix, but not sure how much surgery they are doing at the moment. There are potential complications to all surgery. Of those I know who have had surgery (a lot), none have had surgical revisions. Silver nitrate for granulation is not that unusual, but normally just a 1 off at the post op checkup. I know 1 person who had major problems. Dilation varies. 3 times a day immediatly post surgery but reduces to once a day fairly quickly, then down to once a week or so (and plenty get away with doing it less often than that).
There are videos of trans women going to Thailand for SRS. You have to be sure you are going to a reputable clinic, but even with air fare and hotel accommodations, it's cheaper than private. Maybe not cheap enough, but you might check them out.
Wouldn't be cheap enough to be a realistic option for me, I also don't think I’d want to have it in a foreign country really, I would worry about language barrier and also would just like to be home as quickly as possible afterwards.
@@MalibuBarbiieDelish I figured as much, but I only found out about "medical tourism" by accident a few years ago, so I thought I would post in case others were unaware of this option.
If I remember correctly, Lee got her surgery from a transgender surgeon abroad and she financed it herself. So, part of her reaction may be due to being in debt for a surgery that left her with less than desirable results. The moral of the story is: Do your research first, since SRS is a very serious and life changing surgery, and as with any surgery, there are risks of complications.
@@pruttrpal that's true, I've found out that I do get to choose my surgeon so that's something ill have to look into and at least I won't have to worry about the cost with the NHS
It’s your choice and as you can choose between two cosmetic so you can’t use it for you know what or full job so you can take the boyfriend inside you front door or back door it’s up to you
For me it was, but I think that is individual. I had some hardcore complications, but thanx to medicine part of my urethra-canal was replaced with mouth tissue and now it's fine. Would do it again but I will not recommend it to anybody, everybody has to decide and know for their own.
I've heard with the NHS there's three surgeons that do SRS ... I've heard two are good where as on the otherhand the other has butchered so many other people. I would be extremely careful and do your research about that specific surgeon with the NHS.
why have a comment section if people can't comment dissenting opinions :/ they don't delete immediately, so people will see it regardless. Your mind is obviously already made and you don't want a conversation.
@@Veganarchy666 I actually am confused what comment you are referring to? It may be that others have reported it and TH-cam removed, I don’t think I removed anything of yours.
I've had a lot of issues with my weight, due to one of my ways of coping for years was eating, so I've got a huge barrier to surgery. But like I'm using that time just to be certain what feels right, so that when I get to the point where I can make the decision, I'm making the right decision for me. I have some worries just because of having had hand surgery 3 times. The first was to fix a tendon issue, the second was to fix issues from the outcome of the first, then the third was again to fix those same issues, which got worse thanks to 4 years of it getting worse during the pandemic, to the point that the surgeon couldn't fix it and my one finger is just messed up. So I'm very worried about bad outcomes because of that. On a slightly different topic, do you have any pointers on any voice stuff? I've tried a lot of online things and NHS speech therapy, but haven't really had any progress and often get misgendered over the phone at work because of it.
@@toast99bubbles its definitely good to take the time to make sure you're making the right decision anyway, so maybe that's a blessing in disguise. The hand surgeries don't sound like fun though and would probably put me off too I'm definitely worried about having to have multiple revisions 😭 Voice training can be something that doesn't feel natural at first but if you stick at it you'll find yourself just doing it naturally without thinking, I may make a video on this topic in future!
@@toast99bubbles Eryn does all her voice feminization training through live zoom meetings. I don't know if she teaches worldwide. My next lesson is tomorrow and I'll ask her than. Look up the youtube video called "DR Z PHD Interviews Eryn Gitelis. Founder & Owner of Pryde Voice Speech Therapy." It's how I found Eryn myself.
@@toast99bubbles I just had my voice lesson and I asked Eryn if she serviced outside of the US and she said "Yes" she services the whole world. I hope this helps.
15 months preop from Bangkok. First off you must have a choice of surgery. It is you body. Secondly I never had much pain at all. Even after coming out of hospital and having dilation twice every day was not an issue. Yes any surgery is a risk but you are putting yourself in the hands of skilled people. It should not be the first time they have done this type of surgery. Complications can occur but again most of these are easily fixed. I personally suffered with granulation which could have been fixed quite quickly if the medical people here in Australia had used Silver Nitrate earlier. Penile inversion is the go to and will give you about 5 inches depth (this all depends on the length of your penis). The next procedure which can give more depth is done by using a film of skin from inside your body and of course the one Lee Francis recommends as a LAST resort. Yes dilating is for life but less frequent after 2 years or so. I hope you read this and it helps.
That's great to hear I hope mine can be as smooth, it definitely sounds like penile inversion is the right option for the first surgery for me then (and hopefully last)
It's a very personal decision, I had FFS, a BA and vaginoplasty and no regrets, the FFS was more painful, numbing pain for months, my vaginoplasty wasn't as painful, just very sore and uncomfortable during recovery but the best life changing decision I ever made, I'm now complete and this year I married my boyfriend, I'm now a very happily married woman and wife to my husband in everyway as a woman can be.
Please do as much research as you can - knowing you have several months to go. AIUI using inttestine/colon can result in an unpleasant smell. It’s a last resort for kids that have had genital growth stunted by blockers. Hopefully, as you are an adult, there will be sufficient tissue for a conventional penile inversion. Best of luck to you
Hey Malibu, why not wait another year or two, think long about it, think deep, think critical, once you have have it done it is forever, unchangeable, with no turning back. Whatever you choose, I wish you well. 🌹
@@rainkidwell2467 I know someone personally who believed gender reassignment surgery was 100% the right thing to do when they had it, but they deeply, deeply regretted it a few years later. I would never ever tell anyone to have it, or not have it, it isn't my call, however, asking someone to think long and deep beforehand isn't unkind, or hateful, its the very opposite.
@@PlightOfTheInnovator so what? I know hundreds who are happy, what's your point? Something you're not considering is thst for many of us, this isn't really a choice, or something to "think" about, I genuinely don't know how you expect "thinking" about to change anything. Don't you think we've done that? Like for the first eighteen years of life, etc?
@@rainkidwell2467 My comment is purely based on my friends experience, who did think long and hard, for years and years, and still deeply regretted it several years later. I'm not applying my own experience on this topic to everyone who transitions, it would be wonderful that everyone who goes ahead with it goes on to be happy and fulfilled, but you can't deny that this isn't always the case. I'm not intending to upset you, Malibu, or anyone, I love to see people happy and enjoying life, I've had far too much unhappiness in my own life, and know it's a dark place to be. I hope you find love and happiness yourself rainkidwell. All the best.
@@PlightOfTheInnovator this feels really patronizing and creepy, to be honest. In my experience, most men who make this argument are doing so because they prefer the pre-op version of us Every single surgery has regret rates. This one has a regret rate so low it's genuinely astonishing, so your anecdote here is just.. Weird, so what? Your supposed friend is just one more piece of evidence for why universal operating and post care standards should be established for this surgery - or did you not even know this wasn't the case? If you actually cared about regret rates, you'd be pushing to establish care guidelines for this surgery. You aren't doing that, you're just fear mongering about it in a comment section, and that makes me question you
Hi malibu, you are beautiful .it is very daunting,nervous .and a huge decision for bottom surgery. Because you are so beautìful ,bottom surgery may make you complete x .i wish you all the luck and love in the world x
@@MalibuBarbiieDelish hi malibu you are welcome. Other trans girls on you tube who have their own yt channels who have had bottom surgery have said they are very happy with their bottom surgery . Amelexa has had grs and is very happy with it . Jenny Ann from embarasing bodys had grs and is happy with hers . That is 2 people I can think of ,off top of my head .I have seen other trans girls on other channels . I'm not sure if they are happy with theirs . I remember jazz jennings too .but she may of had complications with hers. Xx
I will have a vulvaplasty in hopefully about 6 to 7 years from now. Not interested in sex so a vaginal canal is not important to me. Fewer complications this way. No chance of pooh coming out from there as a result. The idea of diluting every day for up to a year doesn't exactly thrill me either. Edit: I thought the NHS only did Vulvaplasty and penile inversion Vaginoplasty? You only get colon if penile inversion fails first or something?
I was told I could have vulvaplasty or vaginoplasty and said I wanted vaginoplasty. I don't think we really spoke in detail about which vaginioplasty id be having but you might be right. Colon seems to be used mostly as a revision option.
A boy that was in the room across the hall would transition. Stanford Universityl. . It was described as a 30-30-30-10 outcome. She described the outcome. Sounded only 30% was successful.
Bottom surgery has way too many complications. If you can live happily the way you are, then stay that way. I think you are beautiful and charming just the way you are. Anyone would be lucky to have you as a girlfriend. 😊
As someone who knows VERY little about the issue, I would avoid it like the plague because the surgery is so invasive that one normally gets more complications than a new Apple Watch face.
No. Here's a different angle. I have lost four toes to amputation due to diabetes. No one should amputate anything unless there's a medical danger to life. Especially the other way where women were convinced to remove their breasts. There's no coming back from that. Look how you want, love who you want, but don't chop yourself up.
i would not personally do it. It is risky, irreversible, and surgeons are pretty much just money hungry when giving somebody this procedure. Medically or scientifically...we are not at a point where this dream is possible. I would suggest watching REAL LIFE ACCOUNTS of people that had complications! you could end up never being able to have sex again. ever!!!!. and you are what? 20? i am married to a trans wife. i love and adore trans people. But this is so f%$§"ing dangerous.... you can't ever change your mind. once it's done it's done. i think that the trans community is getting preyed on when being talked into procedures that are literally leaving one castrated. please, please, pleaseeeeee do more research and if there is doubt.....trust your gut!!!! i wish you a safe and happy life. you are so beautiful. i think everything that could be done was done for you. i honestly thought you were born female. why potentially ruin your entire mental health and everything you worked so hard for? I hope you know that YOU ARE ENOUGH!!!!! you don't need anymore surgeries beautiful!!
@@mela.christner 😭 I do worry about all of that, but it does affect my mental health negatively as I am. I would assume the nhs doctors aren't money hungry though as I doubt they get paid any more/less for doing more surgeries. Thank you for those compliments too haha but I am actually 30! 😵
@@MalibuBarbiieDelish I believe there is the nuffield hospital near Brighton. That is where amelexa went for her bottom surgery .if you have bottom surgery .it is where you may go for yours. Xxx
@@daviniarobbins9298 hi, she has asked for viewers opinion, and I gave mine. If her boyfriend engaged with her he must be ok with her body. Of course she'll do whatever is best for her.
You got to do what Will make you happy . As with any surgery there are risks. What ever you decide , i wish you the best !
Having bottom surgury is a huge decision. And it is very daunting. I had mine years ago, I did have some minor complications but I am very happy and everything looks and works as it should. And it was 100% the right decision for me
It's your body, your life, no one else but you should have an opinion. I can only tell you my choice to have bottom surgery was the best choice for me. Good luck on the choice you make for yourself, what ever you decide it's only you that gets to decide.
Some people may want to influence you, but that may be what they want for not what you want.
the satisfaction statistics on vaginoplasty are very good. much better than most other elective major surgeries. so take heart! i have my orchiectomy consult next week, which is all that is available to me for the next few years while i care for my elderly parents in the midwest. look for dr jamie’s recent video covering the research on vaginoplasty. she just had her own procedure a couple of months ago. ❤
@@charlieb6210 That’s relieving to hear. Orchiectomy sounds good at least you wont have to worry about testosterone! I'll check out that video thanks :)
@MalibuBarbiieDelish I'm currently taking 3ml estrogen and 200mg progesterone daily, which has knocked my testosterone down to 0.4nmol, without any tblocker.
I'm also so scared about bottom surgery, but I don't feel at this moment that I'm desperate to have it done, I would like some FFS and breast augmentation 1st.
I have such little libido because of the hormones, and I worry about it affecting my relationship with my bf.
You have to do what feels right for you! It's your choice and take your time!
Big hugz sister ❤️🫂
@@MalibuBarbiieDelishI'm currently taking 3ml estrogen and 200mg progesterone daily and that has taken my testosterone down to 0.4nmol without any tblocker.
I'm also really scared about bottom surgery, due to possible complications. I hardly have any libido and I worry how it might affect my relationship with my boyfriend.
But you have to do whatever feels right for you Malibu.
You are looking and sounding amazing! ❤
@@charlieb6210 I want to have an arichiectomy, but have been refused. Going private is too expensive for me. It's ridiculous because I literally paid for the same procedure to be done to my cat for less than £200, but for myself it would cost thousands.
@@JessicaAngelxx its definitely scary but I think it does feel like the right option for me and thank you love ❤️
do what makes you happy.I had it almost 2 yrs ago and love it! the first year is alot of dilating,I always knew this is what i wanted ..Couldnt say i was a woman until i had it!! But you do what is right for you!
I admire your openess and honesty about this.
As a cis guy I can't offer any helpful advice, other than to be sure about what you want, and be realistic about the possible outcomes.
I hope you get the result you want 🙂
Your thoughts and feelings on this seem to be quite aligned with my own. I'm looking at getting my surgery about a year from now. Very scary but also exciting and a source of hope for feeling right in my body
@@strawd4 it is definitely exciting too! Once all the pain and torment is over Im sure it would be great :)
My wife had bottom surgery. She's happy with the results. No complications. I helped her through the surgery. That was a pretty extreme time and recovery was pretty challenging but it brought us closer together at the same time.
Awwh I love that it brought you closer together and amazing that she had no complications, I hope I can say the same!
I’ll support you with whatever you want it’s your decision I’ll be happy
I just started hormones 3 months ago. I don’t think I want to douche everyday. I’m really small anyways and have a lot of cute cages. I think I got even smaller with HRT. But I’m definitely gonna get a orchiotomy after BA/FFS. I’m really excited
Hey sis, I just scheduled FFS and GRS on the same day for beginning of Nov. Im a little nervous, my social anxiety is the worst part. So, i am bringing with me someone who will stay with me at the hospital. im just hoping it will end the discomfort of not being myself down there.
And thank you for talking about sexual desire. I know things work, but i just feel like a person not there when i have sex. Im hoping after this that will change and i can be present.
@@mrstudios010 omg best of luck with that! I can say FFS recovery isn't so bad, you'll be fine with that after a week. I'm sure you will feel amazing afterwards ❤️
I had the surgery just over two months ago and had no major problems. I am so glad it’s done I finally feel normal.
@@jamiethompson2915 that's amazing 🩷 I hope I can say the same
So far, I haven’t wanted any surgery beyond a possible Orchiectomy, but while watching this video I came to the realization that I haven’t really considered getting a Zero-depth Vaginoplasty. My main motivation for getting ANY surgery would be cosmetic, to remove bulk and not for sex. This might make sense for me, since I already have grandchildren and am not looking for a romantic partner. Zero-depth with little or no external labia would definitely allow more fashion options, since I would no longer have a telltale bulge. I think that would also remove any concern about the need to dilate post surgery.
@@MargieRaeK definitely sounds like vulvaplasty would be something for you to consider and maybe ur best option! :)
Here’s my 2 cents after having SRS 9 months ago (inversion + peritoneum). I knew I wanted it long before deciding to transition, but got nervous about it in the weeks prior to my surgery date. I just wanted it gone so badly that I honestly didn’t care if I lost sensation or ended up looking like a train wreck. Recovery was rough but also a blur because I was kinda out of it and life was just dilating, napping, and getting through the pain. At about 1.5 months I was able to stop taking pain meds, and around that same time it didn’t look so nasty down there anymore and my libido came back. I went back to work at 3 months, but really wasn’t 100% until 4 months. I did not have any complications (besides a possible infection solved with meds, and some wound dehiscence that my body fixed itself), and had no issues with dilating. As long as you fully commit to your surgeons dilating instructions without straying you should be fine, but that can be easier said than done. I had sessions that were fine and others that hurt for 30mins where it took all my willpower not to give up. Now, I’m dilating twice a day and it’s no big deal, kinda like brushing my teeth.
I achieved an O at around 3 months, and let me tell you it was a relief. Despite not caring about being able to do that going in, and rarely using my old equipment beforehand, it is super frustrating when you do go for it and can’t get it. Had to totally relearn what works, and it takes a lot longer to reach now. And it feels completely different too. I have not tried anything penetrative yet though, because I’m just not interested with still having to dilate twice a day.
Lastly, I’m glad I had it done. It’s really helped my confidence and dysphoria. Like, I was seriously looking at FFS before and now I’m not sure I want it because I’m so much more comfortable in my body. I can also just be in underwear and look in the mirror and feel so incredibly happy. That said, I’d give it like an 85% satisfaction rating for now because it doesn’t look great and I’d be nervous to go nude around a partner (but not like that was easy to do before anyway). I’m hopefully getting a cosmetic revision to fix that though, if insurances obliges. Oh, and I’m 28 and my surgeon “had plenty of tissue to work with” if that has any bearing.
@@Aquatendo I'm sure I will feel nervous leading up to it too, and I kind of feel the same as you did in regards to sex and orgasms after. I'd definitely be disappointed if I couldn't do it but I also think it’s more important for me to have the surgery for my dysphoria. It sounds like you're happy overall so that's given me hope 🩷
Hi Malibu
I had the surgery myself, privately in the UK
There are 5 surgeons in total in the UK 4 both private and nhs and 1 private only
Nuffield Brighton where I went to there is 2 surgeons there, it’s both private and NHS. There is 1 surgeon that is in process of retiring. The 2 surgeons are Mr Coker and Mr Larner. Mr Coker is in the process of retiring
Parkside London have 2 surgeons both private and NHS. Ms Rashid and Mr Bellringer
I went with Mr Coker and I have been overall happy with my results, am 7 months post op, I was a private patient but I do know NHS patients that have been with most of these surgeons
The NHS as far as am aware only offers shallow depth or full depth via penile inversion only. I don’t believe you can get PPT or colon on NHS, though I wouldn’t recommend colon as the first choice, that’s my opinion
Both hospitals I know for Brighton at least you have a private room, I think same in London
Note even for NHS patients the surgery is not carried out in an NHS hospital, it’s usually done in a private hospital
It’s important to remember that things can go wrong and going into the process of deciding if this surgery is right for you is very important. It’s great to see the positive but it’s important to know what can go wrong. Surgeons of course will do what they can to avoid these but sometimes the control is out of their hands
Feel free to reach out if you have any questions
@@xxbluechampagnexx oh that's good to know, I will be having it either in the London or Brighton clinic so hopefully I get a private room, I had my ffs at the Brighton nuffield and I had a private room which was nice. They did ask me my preference on hospital, I'm unsure if ill get to pick a surgeon but I wouldn't know what to pick anyway really.
I'm having penile inversion I believe and I guess that leaves me the option of colon surgery later on if I need it but yes I am very aware of the risks and know it might not go how I want it to :/
I had GRS in 2009 best decision I have a made it saved my life i’ve had no complications. I have full sensation Dr. Christine McGinn did my surgery in new. Hope Pennsylvania in the US.
@@racheltgal that's amazing! I hope mine will go as smoothly 🩵
It's up to you, but I say don't do it the right man will love you for you and accept every part x
Ew wtf🤢
Oh dear! You have to decide for yourself about your surgery! It will take about a year before you're ready to assess the surgery.... I didn't and totally regret that decision! You are very beautiful! Love to be friends no matter!
I wanted bikini surgery originally but may now skip it myself. I hear good stores and horror stories so skip bikini surgery or grab the best surgeon on the planet sis!
Should never do any surgery unless it is life threatening.
Cool opinion! I by no means agree as it has zero depth and is only correct in very specific scenarios but still cool opinion!
@@AutumnE3 Listen, validity does not necessitate depth. Surgery is expensive and meaningless if it has no practicality. You wouldn't remove any body part that isn't live threatening. There's no reputable proof that transness is even a tangible condition, contrary to popular belief, let alone a disorder that needs surgery in order to subside.
I don't know anything about healthcare in the UK, nor hardly anything of what's happening on this side of the pond as of late. My GCS was in 2012 and I had to pay out of pocket. Since I had a well-paying job and was dedicating most of my budget on transition, I could afford the best doctor who was doing this at the time. I'm very happy today. But there are plenty of horror stories out there.
In retrospect, I believe that self-knowledge is key. I had options as far as the procedure goes, and one of them was to get a type of op that wouldn't require dilation. I sometimes wish I had gotten that. But it depends on what relationships you plan to have or indeed if you plan to have any, and how sure you are of your post-op plans. Good luck.
It is not reversable, you will be that way for the rest of your life.
I would actually say a private clinic doesn't guarantee anything just because they are private. you should be able to ask to get in touch with other patients they have operated on to weigh up what results could be achieved and were there any complications they went through after surgery. They're may also be reviews written by their patients after surgery but always try to verify if they are for real. meeting up with others in person who have used your surgeon before would put your mind at rest if possible. having a good mental positive attitude goes a long way to recovery. Best wishes Malibu in whatever you decide in your life journey ahead. ♥
Hey Sis you are such a good girl and I so proud of you! Ok? =)
@@girlgod7201 thank you darling 🧡
As a middle aged cis male, I really don't have a right to give you an opinion. But thank you for talking about such a personal issue. It's interesting to learn about. What I can say is that I also have bad social anxiety and wonder how you can put yourself out in front of so many people and talk about something like this without triggering your anxiety. Anyway. Hang in there!
@@eco2geek. I'm a performer and creative at heart, whether its music or art or anything where I can be expressive I'm the most comfortable. However of course social anxiety does hold me back so doing it via youtube is actually kind of perfect as I don't have to worry about a live audience and I really love having a little following its really making me feel excited about life again and the future!
Please go with a reputable surgeon if you go for bottom surgery. Do whatever is best for you! Do as much research on the subject as you can to make the right choice for you. All your viewers wish you the very best!
its a big decision to take, its also one for me to consider later on despite knowing some of the hardship that will follow that has some stress behind it. just not having original equipment anymore would be nice. the dilation where you need to do it 3-4x a day is a full time job and you still need to find time to get a bit of sleep in between each session. dilate, clean, air dry, sleep and then a few hrs of sleep. rough time and thats not considering having to deal with your occupation whatever it may be at the time.
@@Nelsea7190 yes it will be a lot of work for sure but hopefully worth it 💚
@@MalibuBarbiieDelish im sure it will, at the very least it will look like you had that body configuration all this time after its healed. not sure if i will do minimal depth but am leaning to full even if i dont plan on having a partner make use of that place.
I think you may have been watching a lot of the less fortunate surgery result videos out there. There are a tremendous amount of Vaginoplasty Surgery VLogs that are filled with very happy people with terrific results. It is important to be aware of all the possible risks and outcomes, but remember to vary your research. :) You have a bit of misinformation around some things I noticed.
For one thing, Dialation is a lifetime thing with a big asterisk there. As you progress and after the first year your dialation schedule is cut down drastically. Typically starting out at a few times a day, but then tapering to once a day and eventually once a week. Even less if you have a partner and are in an active sex life.
Also, a large number of people have reported that recovery was relatively painless and was mostly just more a matter of discomfort than pain. You mentioned you went through FFS, and from all reports I have heard, FFS is 10x more painful than Vaginoplasty.
Stay strong, you are loved, and you got this!
@@AriaBelcourt it definitely did feel like I was watching negative experiences I will have to check out some more, I mean most of them seemed happy with the results but mentioned a lot of pain and complications. I didn't find my FFS that painful only the first few days so I hope you're right! I do think I have quite a high pain tolerance so that's a good sign :)
The complication risk, recovery time and need to dilate, has made the “minimal/zero depth” option the right likely choice for me
When doing your research on the Internet, there is a sampling bias you should take into account: people with complications or regret are more likely to feel compelled to tell their stories than people who had a smooth sailing. Not to mention that horror stories of regret or complications get eagerly amplified. The regret rates for gender affirming surgery are quite low across multiple studies. And the reasons for regret include things like “I never wanted bottom surgery, my boyfriend talked me into it” or “my family doesn’t accept me transitioning”. But at the end of the day, it’s your body, your life, no doctor or well-meaning friends or strangers on the Internet or partner can tell you what’s right for you. If you feel this is something you need or want, do it. If you feel you’re not ready yet and you need to mull it over some more, then it’s also okay to postpone the operation and give yourself some more time to figure yourself out. Either way, best of luck!
That is a good point, thank you for that 🩵
Recovery varies a lot. For me, no real issues at all. Only real issue was severe trapped wind for about a day and a half starting about 6 hours post surgery.
For operations, the main places who do it are Brighton and Parkside, and both of these pretty much only have private rooms. Charing Cross has a mix, but not sure how much surgery they are doing at the moment.
There are potential complications to all surgery. Of those I know who have had surgery (a lot), none have had surgical revisions. Silver nitrate for granulation is not that unusual, but normally just a 1 off at the post op checkup. I know 1 person who had major problems.
Dilation varies. 3 times a day immediatly post surgery but reduces to once a day fairly quickly, then down to once a week or so (and plenty get away with doing it less often than that).
There are videos of trans women going to Thailand for SRS. You have to be sure you are going to a reputable clinic, but even with air fare and hotel accommodations, it's cheaper than private. Maybe not cheap enough, but you might check them out.
Wouldn't be cheap enough to be a realistic option for me, I also don't think I’d want to have it in a foreign country really, I would worry about language barrier and also would just like to be home as quickly as possible afterwards.
@@MalibuBarbiieDelish I figured as much, but I only found out about "medical tourism" by accident a few years ago, so I thought I would post in case others were unaware of this option.
If I remember correctly, Lee got her surgery from a transgender surgeon abroad and she financed it herself. So, part of her reaction may be due to being in debt for a surgery that left her with less than desirable results. The moral of the story is: Do your research first, since SRS is a very serious and life changing surgery, and as with any surgery, there are risks of complications.
@@pruttrpal that's true, I've found out that I do get to choose my surgeon so that's something ill have to look into and at least I won't have to worry about the cost with the NHS
It’s your choice and as you can choose between two cosmetic so you can’t use it for you know what or full job so you can take the boyfriend inside you front door or back door it’s up to you
@@neilchilds7555 not having the vaginal canal seems pointless to me, I get why it wouldn't matter to some people but it does to me 😳
@@MalibuBarbiieDelishhaving the vaginally canal is a must .otherwise imo. The bottom surgery is pointless. Imo. X
What the fuck
For me it was, but I think that is individual. I had some hardcore complications, but thanx to medicine part of my urethra-canal was replaced with mouth tissue and now it's fine. Would do it again but I will not recommend it to anybody, everybody has to decide and know for their own.
I am personally going with zero depth vaginoplasty aka vulvoplasty
Less risk of complications and zero dilation
I've heard with the NHS there's three surgeons that do SRS ... I've heard two are good where as on the otherhand the other has butchered so many other people. I would be extremely careful and do your research about that specific surgeon with the NHS.
@@princessbubbles9222 any idea who's the one to avoid? 😂
Hi malibu. .please can you tell me where you had your facial feminization surgery and hair transplant done too.
FFS I had at nuffield Brighton and hair transplant at Farjo Harley street London. I'm going to do a full video on the hair transplant soon
@@MalibuBarbiieDelishmalibu .thankyou for you message back ,oh wow you already been on quite a journey. Xx
@@MalibuBarbiieDelishmalibu,you are sooo beautiful .I would love to see your feet. X
why have a comment section if people can't comment dissenting opinions :/ they don't delete immediately, so people will see it regardless. Your mind is obviously already made and you don't want a conversation.
Huh? I have deleted maybe 3 comments off of my entire channel and it’s only if people are rude
@@Veganarchy666 I actually am confused what comment you are referring to? It may be that others have reported it and TH-cam removed, I don’t think I removed anything of yours.
I've had a lot of issues with my weight, due to one of my ways of coping for years was eating, so I've got a huge barrier to surgery. But like I'm using that time just to be certain what feels right, so that when I get to the point where I can make the decision, I'm making the right decision for me. I have some worries just because of having had hand surgery 3 times. The first was to fix a tendon issue, the second was to fix issues from the outcome of the first, then the third was again to fix those same issues, which got worse thanks to 4 years of it getting worse during the pandemic, to the point that the surgeon couldn't fix it and my one finger is just messed up. So I'm very worried about bad outcomes because of that.
On a slightly different topic, do you have any pointers on any voice stuff? I've tried a lot of online things and NHS speech therapy, but haven't really had any progress and often get misgendered over the phone at work because of it.
@@toast99bubbles its definitely good to take the time to make sure you're making the right decision anyway, so maybe that's a blessing in disguise. The hand surgeries don't sound like fun though and would probably put me off too I'm definitely worried about having to have multiple revisions 😭
Voice training can be something that doesn't feel natural at first but if you stick at it you'll find yourself just doing it naturally without thinking, I may make a video on this topic in future!
Try "Pryde Voice Therapy" Eryn is great.
@@zoomaheadnow That's all US based, so I'm not sure how useful it would be, but thanks for sharing.
@@toast99bubbles Eryn does all her voice feminization training through live zoom meetings. I don't know if she teaches worldwide. My next lesson is tomorrow and I'll ask her than. Look up the youtube video called "DR Z PHD Interviews Eryn Gitelis. Founder & Owner of Pryde Voice Speech Therapy." It's how I found Eryn myself.
@@toast99bubbles I just had my voice lesson and I asked Eryn if she serviced outside of the US and she said "Yes" she services the whole world. I hope this helps.
I am glad you found Lee, she tells it like it is and has dissuaded me from seeking that out.
@@MB-ub5ns she definitely freaked me out a bit 😵💫
@@MalibuBarbiieDelish She has been through a lot ☹
Would you do more cooking with Maz? Maybe making new things for the first time so we're there if it goes wrong😭😭
@@King-se2gg yes I think I'm going to do more cooking videos eventually :)
I would if I am a feminine transgender woman I want to use it ...that's why I am a her...(0)...
15 months preop from Bangkok. First off you must have a choice of surgery. It is you body. Secondly I never had much pain at all. Even after coming out of hospital and having dilation twice every day was not an issue. Yes any surgery is a risk but you are putting yourself in the hands of skilled people. It should not be the first time they have done this type of surgery. Complications can occur but again most of these are easily fixed. I personally suffered with granulation which could have been fixed quite quickly if the medical people here in Australia had used Silver Nitrate earlier.
Penile inversion is the go to and will give you about 5 inches depth (this all depends on the length of your penis). The next procedure which can give more depth is done by using a film of skin from inside your body and of course the one Lee Francis recommends as a LAST resort. Yes dilating is for life but less frequent after 2 years or so. I hope you read this and it helps.
That's great to hear I hope mine can be as smooth, it definitely sounds like penile inversion is the right option for the first surgery for me then (and hopefully last)
Is it bad I would rather be botched then have what Ive got, I just feel like I have the wrong tool and I don't like it :(
That's pretty much how I feel too
Sienna Grace.
It's a very personal decision, I had FFS, a BA and vaginoplasty and no regrets, the FFS was more painful, numbing pain for months, my vaginoplasty wasn't as painful, just very sore and uncomfortable during recovery but the best life changing decision I ever made, I'm now complete and this year I married my boyfriend, I'm now a very happily married woman and wife to my husband in everyway as a woman can be.
Please do as much research as you can - knowing you have several months to go.
AIUI using inttestine/colon can result in an unpleasant smell. It’s a last resort for kids that have had genital growth stunted by blockers.
Hopefully, as you are an adult, there will be sufficient tissue for a conventional penile inversion.
Best of luck to you
@@grieffoundation8451 I definitely will do and thank you!
Hey Malibu, why not wait another year or two, think long about it, think deep, think critical, once you have have it done it is forever, unchangeable, with no turning back. Whatever you choose, I wish you well. 🌹
That's the point, that it's permanent?
@@rainkidwell2467 I know someone personally who believed gender reassignment surgery was 100% the right thing to do when they had it, but they deeply, deeply regretted it a few years later. I would never ever tell anyone to have it, or not have it, it isn't my call, however, asking someone to think long and deep beforehand isn't unkind, or hateful, its the very opposite.
@@PlightOfTheInnovator so what? I know hundreds who are happy, what's your point?
Something you're not considering is thst for many of us, this isn't really a choice, or something to "think" about, I genuinely don't know how you expect "thinking" about to change anything. Don't you think we've done that? Like for the first eighteen years of life, etc?
@@rainkidwell2467 My comment is purely based on my friends experience, who did think long and hard, for years and years, and still deeply regretted it several years later. I'm not applying my own experience on this topic to everyone who transitions, it would be wonderful that everyone who goes ahead with it goes on to be happy and fulfilled, but you can't deny that this isn't always the case. I'm not intending to upset you, Malibu, or anyone, I love to see people happy and enjoying life, I've had far too much unhappiness in my own life, and know it's a dark place to be. I hope you find love and happiness yourself rainkidwell. All the best.
@@PlightOfTheInnovator this feels really patronizing and creepy, to be honest. In my experience, most men who make this argument are doing so because they prefer the pre-op version of us
Every single surgery has regret rates. This one has a regret rate so low it's genuinely astonishing, so your anecdote here is just.. Weird, so what? Your supposed friend is just one more piece of evidence for why universal operating and post care standards should be established for this surgery - or did you not even know this wasn't the case? If you actually cared about regret rates, you'd be pushing to establish care guidelines for this surgery. You aren't doing that, you're just fear mongering about it in a comment section, and that makes me question you
Hi malibu, you are beautiful .it is very daunting,nervous .and a huge decision for bottom surgery.
Because you are so beautìful ,bottom surgery may make you complete x .i wish you all the luck and love in the world x
@@user-kc3fn1gu6g thank you darling 🧡
@@MalibuBarbiieDelish hi malibu you are welcome.
Other trans girls on you tube who have their own yt channels who have had bottom surgery have said they are very happy with their bottom surgery .
Amelexa has had grs and is very happy with it .
Jenny Ann from embarasing bodys had grs and is happy with hers .
That is 2 people I can think of ,off top of my head .I have seen other trans girls on other channels .
I'm not sure if they are happy with theirs .
I remember jazz jennings too .but she may of had complications with hers. Xx
@@user-kc3fn1gu6g ooh I will look them up :)
@@MalibuBarbiieDelishyes please do . Your welcome. X
I will have a vulvaplasty in hopefully about 6 to 7 years from now. Not interested in sex so a vaginal canal is not important to me. Fewer complications this way. No chance of pooh coming out from there as a result. The idea of diluting every day for up to a year doesn't exactly thrill me either.
Edit: I thought the NHS only did Vulvaplasty and penile inversion Vaginoplasty? You only get colon if penile inversion fails first or something?
I was told I could have vulvaplasty or vaginoplasty and said I wanted vaginoplasty. I don't think we really spoke in detail about which vaginioplasty id be having but you might be right. Colon seems to be used mostly as a revision option.
A boy that was in the room across the hall would transition. Stanford Universityl. . It was described as a 30-30-30-10 outcome. She described the outcome. Sounded only 30% was successful.
Bottom surgery has way too many complications. If you can live happily the way you are, then stay that way. I think you are beautiful and charming just the way you are. Anyone would be lucky to have you as a girlfriend. 😊
@@QueenBee-dj4wv You could say that about any surgery really though.
I would definitely love to have her as my girlfriend . She does look like a girl. Yes. Xx
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As someone who knows VERY little about the issue, I would avoid it like the plague because the surgery is so invasive that one normally gets more complications than a new Apple Watch face.
No. Here's a different angle. I have lost four toes to amputation due to diabetes. No one should amputate anything unless there's a medical danger to life. Especially the other way where women were convinced to remove their breasts. There's no coming back from that. Look how you want, love who you want, but don't chop yourself up.
i would not personally do it. It is risky, irreversible, and surgeons are pretty much just money hungry when giving somebody this procedure. Medically or scientifically...we are not at a point where this dream is possible. I would suggest watching REAL LIFE ACCOUNTS of people that had complications! you could end up never being able to have sex again. ever!!!!. and you are what? 20? i am married to a trans wife. i love and adore trans people. But this is so f%$§"ing dangerous.... you can't ever change your mind. once it's done it's done. i think that the trans community is getting preyed on when being talked into procedures that are literally leaving one castrated. please, please, pleaseeeeee do more research and if there is doubt.....trust your gut!!!! i wish you a safe and happy life. you are so beautiful. i think everything that could be done was done for you. i honestly thought you were born female. why potentially ruin your entire mental health and everything you worked so hard for? I hope you know that YOU ARE ENOUGH!!!!! you don't need anymore surgeries beautiful!!
@@mela.christner 😭 I do worry about all of that, but it does affect my mental health negatively as I am. I would assume the nhs doctors aren't money hungry though as I doubt they get paid any more/less for doing more surgeries. Thank you for those compliments too haha but I am actually 30! 😵
@@MalibuBarbiieDelish I believe there is the nuffield hospital near Brighton. That is where amelexa went for her bottom surgery .if you have bottom surgery .it is where you may go for yours. Xxx
@@user-kc3fn1gu6g that is where I had my FFS but I've requested to have my SRS in the London one, although that one is still a possibility.
I agree.
I think that if you can you should stay as you are. You have a boyfriend, and he's certainly fine with the situation.
I think he'd be a lot happier if we had more sex 😂
How do you know? You don't know them any more than I do. If she was happy with things the way they are why bother with HRT at all or anything else?
@@daviniarobbins9298 hi, she has asked for viewers opinion, and I gave mine. If her boyfriend engaged with her he must be ok with her body. Of course she'll do whatever is best for her.
If you and your partner love you as you are then maybe it’s not necessary
Shouldn’t inferring with nature it’s not right
You ar 8:00 e stunning, Lee is beautiful. Whether you have or dont have the surgery doesn't change your womanhood
Thank you! And that is true 💙