Waiters have seen this movie 1000s of times. They know which parties are gonna be a problem. Usually the ones ordering a la carte who don’t look like they got it.
Reminds me of my bro . Mf used to always be broke but had just enough money for weed and the necessities. When we would go out eat anywhere he’d get the 2nd or 3rd most expensive thing and a few drinks . I’m the exact opposite, 2nd or 3rd cheapest thing and some water. Once the bill comes he’d always want to split it equally or say he’ll get us later. I started asking for the bill split by guests after all food was delivered. He’d get mad but he finally stopped with that childish bs.
It doesn't matter if the bill isn't split. As long as you bring cash when going out you will be fine. Give the waiter your portion of the bill along with a tip and be done.
If the friend group is not a selfish one and no one is trying to take advantage of anyone then being a non drinker won’t stop you from splitting the bill equally, they would tell you to order a second entree to bring home so your getting your moneys worth also. And if a true friend knows you don’t have money like that, then they covering your bill regardless.
I'm strictly a beer drinker. That is the only difference between yiu and I. When in a group setting, long before the ordering begins, ITELL the server I want a separate check. Learned my lesson long ago. There are just too many people who will try to skate on part of their bill by saying "lets split the check'.... And the one who says that is always the one who orders the most expensive stuff.
This happens to women as well. This is one of the reasons I don't do big birthday dinners, because there are always people there ordering beyond their means. Firstly, I only order what I can afford, I don't drink, and I tip appropriately.
The only reason I question his intelligence is that he said this didn't end his friendship with this girl. I'd have treated her like a leper from that point on.
Exact same thing happened to me. I ate with a group of my girl friend's friends. They were very condescending & thought they were a better class of person than me (me delivery guy) After many drinks & hors d'oeuvres, the bill eventually came. I paid my share (plus tip) & watched the ensuing pandemonium with amusement! These people, who were "so wealthy," were arguing about who had what. They couldn't have been as wealthy as they claimed , or paying the entire bill wouldn't have been an issue🤣🤣🤣
I used to work in food service and seen this ish all the time. Someone would invite their friend to lunch, the person paying would order something simple, and the other person would go nuts, "I want this and and that and the other." The worst I'd ever seen was one guy ordered 3 times as much food as the person paying, and this guy was a regular. he NEVER ordered that much. I was furious, and it wasn't even my money. 😂
Dude read the atmosphere long before he had his drinks/ meal respect to him, he’s the type of dude that’d help a stranger at the same time wouldn’t allow anyone to take advantage 💯✌🏾🤛🏾
This BM was only invited to this party to subsidize the dinner for everyone else. But he out maneuvered them by paying his own bill on the side. Kudos to him. Fellas take notes and move accordingly.
I will fault only one thing. He should have made it clear to the waiter when came to take the order, that his was separate. Say it, say it out loud. I guarantee you that bill would have never gotten that high to start.
His homegirl invited him to pay the bill or at least her portion of the bill and maybe the birthday girl as well. This man’s power level is over 9,000 for sure. It warms my heart to see men out here, not simping and smartly making moves silently to avoid the bullshit.
I feel him out with two of my boys who invited three female's my best friend got stuck with most of the bill it was me and my lady I new they were free loader separate check for me power to the brother
When broke women order expensive things from the menu and expected men to pay, I think it is totally disgusting and pigish! They are assuming that the man has over 3,000 dollars he can give away in a split second. We know dam well that, most if not all of the women, would not pay him back! This is now something that men have to avoid, going out to eat with a group of women. Very sad!
Have you not been living in America for the last 10+ years? Or, perhaps you've never had to take another female out for a meal, whom already believes they are above everyone else in life?
@@Sam_Iamknot This is crazy bro.. this is nuts. I’m still single and it gets lonely sometimes but shit like this just gives me peace of mind knowing I’m not dealing with it
1. He didn't know the bday girl like that 2. He was a guest of a guest, no obligation to them people at all. 3. He paid for what he ordered. 4. End of the story, he was 1000% correct in how he handled his business.
Exactly. I would've done the same thing. If I would've done anything different, I would've have paid 1/12 of the bday girls dinner. Not drinks. Just the dinner and tell her happy birthday and thank you for THIS experience. Let everyone else deal with the rest.
He did the right thing. Everyone at the table were adults. He paid for his meal and tip which was his only obligation. If you can’t afford to pay for your meal, stay the hell home.
So she wasn’t mad that he left, but was mad that he didn’t contribute to the bill even AFTER paying for his own food?? Yea, she wanted your money. Not your presence. 💯
Bruh is in the friendzone and she and her friends were trying to play him. Fellas, take heed. If a woman invites you to her friend's birthday party at a restaurant, make sure you tell the waiter and let it be known upfront that you are paying for your own food.
I wouldn't pay for everyone else's extravagant food orders either. You don't have the money ....order the soup. Don't need to assume someone else is paying your way.
I watched the video twice... this happens all the time, the restaurant can only split the bill 2 ways or 3 ways... Everybody at the table cash app their portion to the person who is using their card. However, I feel like it's very smart that he payed his portion early... that's something I need to do for future birthday dinners...
How backward it's 2024 We've been out w 9 10 people & each person gets a bill, even split items 3 ways for table Broke users are worst Always looking good & not a nickle 😅
@@BREASHONTELL as a female you're insane she tried to make him pay their bill when she's the one that invited him! He did the right thing by paying his bill and leaving they just tried to use him and he was smart enough to not fall for it I'm glad I'm not an entitled girl like most women are it's very weird and cringey stop expecting men to pay everything for u get a job and pay for things yourself!
After he said everyone was shocked! looking like 😲I'm hitting the door by now...I couldn't' stop clapping 👏🏽🤣 hats off to this brother for seeing a set up for what it is 😂
When dealing with large parties, I always ask for a separate bill. Especially with people who drink. I refuse to let anybody ball out at my expense. Salute this man
I really don’t understand this pay for groups culture. My dad did it back in the day but for his family only. Boyfriends had to pay their part cuz Dad wasn’t paying for another man and my friends better drop a tip.
He said the restaurant made it clear that they could only split the bill 3 ways. A lot of restaurants do not allow separate checks on parties that size.
Pure satisfaction on my face after he said he paid his bill and *TIPPED*! 😂 I hate greedy ass ppl ordering the most expensive shit and expecting someone else to cover their meal and drinks!
They were scammers.how can people be so disgusting to order all that food for fifteen people.35,00 hundred dollars that two hundred and seventy five dollars per person.
not for nothing i’ve had dinner cost as much as $1,500 for two people but i knew what i was getting into. Ive also been at a table where it cost $2k+ for 4 people but fortunately for me i was treated to a 4 course meal at no cost but i was prepared to put up at-least a quarter n willing to pay half. If u don’t have it, don’t go.
@@evelynscott-hawkins4115it's because the broke women try to trick and shame the men into paying especially bw and sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't
This man was invited to the Bday dinner with the intent to be a "patsy" right from the very beginning. He doesn't know the Bday girl or any of the guests. Why else do you think he was invited!!?? Funny thing, this man got the LAST LAUGH! Good for him.
I'm a female and the guy was 100% right and he didn't even need to explain himself. I used to get suckered like that back in the day when I used to get "invited" to such group parties. I never drank so, I ended up paying WAYYY more than I should have after divvying the bill. Now that I am older and wiser, I pay my own bill in every situation. If he sees this coment, BRAVO, sir. You were 100% right.
If you can’t afford it STAY AT HOME….😂 I would’ve definitely paid before everyone else. You can’t expect people to foot the bill. Remember what you ordered.( Especially if it’s an upscale establishment; there are no prices on the menu) If someone else decides to pay for your meal. Cool. Even on dates. Take ya own money….Anything can happen. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I stay ready so I don’t have to get ready. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🥰
“You could’ve paid more on the bill” means you could’ve paid my bill. He’s in the friend zone but when it comes to spending money now he’s all of a sudden her man.
Even if I knew every single person at that table since birth, I wouldn't be paying unless I invited them and explicitly said I would cover the bill. And when I've offered to take people out, they always had the decency to ask, "Can I get x?"
Thank God for Social Media because this sh has been going on for the past 20 years with women. Trying to use men to benefit them in their nonsense. Then try to shame them when they have some self respect. They was all eating and ordering like they just knew they had the money to pay for it. They just knew some sucker was gonna foot the bill and then when they found out he had self respect that's when the shaming starts. Dont invite people to your party just because you need someone to pay for you. Shame
Nah, perfectly would have consisted of him tell the server right when he ordered that he would like his food n drinks on a separate bill. This way everyone at the table hears him n knows right away that he’s only paying for his own food. I make it very clear when I go out to eat, that my bill is separate, this way no one can say 💩 when the bill comes.
His dusty home girl tried to use him as a wallet. I like how he handled the whole thing. To all the simps. You know the guys that women love? The guys who stand their ground.
Why can't everyone just pay for what they ordered. This is why I like to stay home. I just learned to make bread bowls, they were soooooo good!....dude there is no stopping me!
This poor gentleman was only responsible for his own bill not even his “HOME GIRLs” portion. She ain’t his girlfriend, she’s just a friend, unless he offered to pay for her.
As a former server of 30 yrs, I would have done separate checks from jump. And then handed them each their individual bill. He was correct with what he did.
It was mentioned on part one of this video that for some reason the restaurant only had the ability to split the bill 2 ways. Which I believe was already mentioned to the party by the waiter.
@@Torontodude20000 _"the restaurant only had the ability to split the bill two ways."_ The restaurant lied. It's easier if they only split two ways. But it is most certainly possible to issue individual checks, or split it into couples, or however the patrons wish. Servers are lazy, can't do simple math, and can't be bothered to take the time anyway.
Right on good for him. He pay for his own food and his only. But for people in the group that he didn't know order all that food and did not bring their own money and expect him to pay part of it. Plus his bill came up to $ 115.00 dollars this man wasn't no dummy. He wasn't stupid. He knew that something wasn't right. Smart man and he did the right thing by paying for his own food.
women are so used to being paid for and having zero liability that when theres a group of them, they all look around for a victim to push their problems onto. the funny thing is they are all women so they cant find a man to shit on
He should also rethink that nickname “storm”. People won’t take u serious if u still go by a nickname at his age. I mean u wanna talk properly n not use ghetto slang, yet he’s still using a nickname?🤣🤣
@@kellyperry559 The nickname won't hinder him in anyway because we live in a day and time when everyone who is anyone is a character, its his personality that people either connect with or not and he seems to be a pretty well rounded brother, he has to change the type of females that he deals with ☝️
@@Breeze-d3v im not calling another grown man "storm" day in age whatever. I'm 28. We need to be adults and use our government names unless you're an entertainer.
"I am not worried about that. I am the birthday girl!" The entitlement gets me. So she invited a bunch of people, expects them to pay, has not cleared that with them and has not organized or planned anything regarding the bill. Yep, drop that girl's number...
That’s how all birthday dinners work tho…that’s why I don’t go to them. fyi if you’re invited don’t go either, you must always pay for the celebrated guest.
@@samaraisnt "That’s how all birthday dinners work tho" Definitely not. None of birthday dinners I was invited to or hosted worked like that. NONE!!! That might be different in your crowd, but I can confidently assure you that this is less common than you think.
No way he paid for himself or his homegirls what are you talking about he doesn’t know all the other girl. They are a user. I would not pay a cent. He’s a smart man. And how do you know if he’s money or not. He’s the smart man
It is one thing if they said can you please pay for everybody s*** and he knew he was going to pay for everybody and he said all this on me that's one thing but will you send me to try to set him like that he did accordingly and pay for his bill and got on down
Nothing was rude about the way that man handled shit. He wasn’t trying to get played 😂😂😂😂. It’s the sense of entitlement for me. That homegirl is clearly the one without etiquette. I ain’t paying nobody’s bill but mine. I am curious how that bill was settled 🤣🤣🤣
He needs to understand that his so called home girl was trying to play him! She tried to set him up to sponsor the dinner! You could tell that was the case, because when the bill came they looked his way.
@rdelacruz8949 don't try to classify all blk women into 1 category u weirdo every body ain't the same and the same things happen within other ethnicities as well u goofball🤦🏾♂️
Now that I have viewed "Part II" of this video - I applaud this young brother's sense of reason and ingenuity. He smelled the planned deception and took actions to side step the 304 parasite delegation.
I hate it when people assume it's someone else's responsibility to pay for their meal. Order what you can afford, and take care of your own bill. Period. Those type of entitled people are narcissists, and should be left at the curb.
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I love the fact that the waiter immediately had his back.
He understood what they were trying to do to him.
And he left him a good tip😎
The waiters like he good he tipped out 😂🤣😭
Waiters have seen this movie 1000s of times. They know which parties are gonna be a problem. Usually the ones ordering a la carte who don’t look like they got it.
I can't even understand the birthday girl... unless they invited her out as their treat. I usually expect to pay for my own meal on my birthday.
She’s not a friend. She’s a user. That’s the only reason she invited him. Lose her number and block her!
Immediately!
She tried to clown him. Garbage “friend”.
👆🏾this!!!
You are just being racist. This is black Americans culture.
Yes please! Block her she used him as a bank account.
As a non-drinker, I don't agree to split equally in a group where other people are ordering extravagantly.
Facts and u dnt have to be a non drinker in order to feel like thr
Reminds me of my bro . Mf used to always be broke but had just enough money for weed and the necessities. When we would go out eat anywhere he’d get the 2nd or 3rd most expensive thing and a few drinks . I’m the exact opposite, 2nd or 3rd cheapest thing and some water. Once the bill comes he’d always want to split it equally or say he’ll get us later. I started asking for the bill split by guests after all food was delivered. He’d get mad but he finally stopped with that childish bs.
It doesn't matter if the bill isn't split. As long as you bring cash when going out you will be fine. Give the waiter your portion of the bill along with a tip and be done.
If the friend group is not a selfish one and no one is trying to take advantage of anyone then being a non drinker won’t stop you from splitting the bill equally, they would tell you to order a second entree to bring home so your getting your moneys worth also. And if a true friend knows you don’t have money like that, then they covering your bill regardless.
I'm strictly a beer drinker. That is the only difference between yiu and I. When in a group setting, long before the ordering begins, ITELL the server I want a separate check. Learned my lesson long ago. There are just too many people who will try to skate on part of their bill by saying "lets split the check'.... And the one who says that is always the one who orders the most expensive stuff.
This guy is smooth, aware and intelligent. He handled the situation classy and discreet.
I thought he was intelligent until he said flushtrated n not frustrated.🤣🤣
This happens to women as well. This is one of the reasons I don't do big birthday dinners, because there are always people there ordering beyond their means. Firstly, I only order what I can afford, I don't drink, and I tip appropriately.
Intelligent?? You must speak worse than he does.
The only reason I question his intelligence is that he said this didn't end his friendship with this girl. I'd have treated her like a leper from that point on.
Exact same thing happened to me. I ate with a group of my girl friend's friends. They were very condescending & thought they were a better class of person than me (me delivery guy) After many drinks & hors d'oeuvres, the bill eventually came. I paid my share (plus tip) & watched the ensuing pandemonium with amusement! These people, who were "so wealthy," were arguing about who had what. They couldn't have been as wealthy as they claimed , or paying the entire bill wouldn't have been an issue🤣🤣🤣
What gets me is how many people are comfortable trying to spend other people money.
Black people
I used to work in food service and seen this ish all the time. Someone would invite their friend to lunch, the person paying would order something simple, and the other person would go nuts, "I want this and and that and the other." The worst I'd ever seen was one guy ordered 3 times as much food as the person paying, and this guy was a regular. he NEVER ordered that much. I was furious, and it wasn't even my money. 😂
Exactly but always want to party and have fun
My dad and 7 younger siblings did this crap to me. I was pissed...
When the government bankrupts you to spend your money on stupid shit, I guess that behavior rubs off on stupid people.
"Bill comes to the table, everyone acting like they're Ray Charles" LOL
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 good one!! 😂😂😂
They all had alligator arms.
@@rmljr52 🐊LOL
😎 🐊
As I was going down , I was readin it as u was sayin it 😂
No adult should assume someone else is paying for their meal.
That's the problem they are adults but have a 10 year old mentality
💯💪🏾
unless they be poor. id kick in.
Exactly!
I assume a man is paying for my meal if he invited me to dinner...I don't bring my whole family!
Dude read the atmosphere long before he had his drinks/ meal respect to him, he’s the type of dude that’d help a stranger at the same time wouldn’t allow anyone to take advantage 💯✌🏾🤛🏾
This BM was only invited to this party to subsidize the dinner for everyone else. But he out maneuvered them by paying his own bill on the side. Kudos to him. Fellas take notes and move accordingly.
💯💪🏾 Big Facts!
I will fault only one thing. He should have made it clear to the waiter when came to take the order, that his was separate. Say it, say it out loud. I guarantee you that bill would have never gotten that high to start.
@@jaycee330 who's fault, that should be a great lesson they gotta learn... What if he decides not to pay cos he was invited
Agreed!
BM?
His homegirl invited him to pay the bill or at least her portion of the bill and maybe the birthday girl as well. This man’s power level is over 9,000 for sure. It warms my heart to see men out here, not simping and smartly making moves silently to avoid the bullshit.
Exactly. I wouldn’t be surprised if he ended their friendship after this night.
there was never a friendship she thought he was a munch😅@@gammafrost
I feel him out with two of my boys who invited three female's my best friend got stuck with most of the bill it was me and my lady I new they were free loader separate check for me power to the brother
When broke women order expensive things from the menu and expected men to pay, I think it is totally disgusting and pigish! They are assuming that the man has over 3,000 dollars he can give away in a split second. We know dam well that, most if not all of the women, would not pay him back!
This is now something that men have to avoid, going out to eat with a group of women. Very sad!
@@Bee-zb9qk even if hes got a mil laying around to expect a pay just because is crazy.
He covered himself right away.
Removed himself from the equation. Protected himself from the stupidity.
aye, that inner voice is important to listen to. Can save you from many things.
How, it wasn't a separate check.
@@jennapitts8373, he took care of it one on 1 with the server 45 min before the meal was over.
Being proactive has benefits.
@@jennapitts8373a good waiter will remember what you ordered.
He did absolutely 👍🏾 rt …..
She was in on it. She brought him to pay the bill.
Yessss!
I thought the same thing
This is why I don't befriend women they do this alor
I will never understand why people think that they are entitled to YOUR money!!!
Shameless behavior. Then they get mad at YOU?!
🤦🏾♂️ we must chose our friends wisely.
@@KingBobIsHere Agreed!!
They have a socialist mindset!
Have you not been living in America for the last 10+ years? Or, perhaps you've never had to take another female out for a meal, whom already believes they are above everyone else in life?
@@Sam_Iamknot This is crazy bro.. this is nuts. I’m still single and it gets lonely sometimes but shit like this just gives me peace of mind knowing I’m not dealing with it
Every crowd has one.
An intelligent, responsible person.
@@callmekirkland8explain why Rice is relevant here??
another well said comment
1. He didn't know the bday girl like that
2. He was a guest of a guest, no obligation to them people at all.
3. He paid for what he ordered.
4. End of the story, he was 1000% correct in how he handled his business.
Exactly. I would've done the same thing. If I would've done anything different, I would've have paid 1/12 of the bday girls dinner. Not drinks. Just the dinner and tell her happy birthday and thank you for THIS experience.
Let everyone else deal with the rest.
Plus he nice as well he gave a small gift to the bday girl and tipped
In other words, the grifters had to deal with it. LMFAO!!!
$3500 among a bunch of strangers... Congratulations. I recuse myself 😂
Craziness racking up that kind of bill.
Facts
I CAN BUY A DECENT CAR WITH THAT MUCH MONEY SMGDH
That's so much money 😢
He did the right thing. Everyone at the table were adults. He paid for his meal and tip which was his only obligation. If you can’t afford to pay for your meal, stay the hell home.
Amen!
True and fair enough but, why, if he got to pay separately don’t the others get to pay just for what they had!!
Exactly or order something u can pay for don’t expect for other people to pay it
@@Kualabear02 That’s what I’m confused about. The restaurant wanted the rest in 2 payments 🤭
Pointless comment full of nothing but common sense
I think he was the most respectful person there. She should be happy he paid his bill. He doesn’t owe anyone any explanation.
This man's actions were 💯% RESPONSIBLE and Classy. PERIOD!
I LOVE THIS STORY!!! This makes me feel proud to be a responsible black man!
Likewise
He's a homosexual. If he was an actual black man he would've caught all type of heat.
I would have done the same thing lol
The next level is to leave those kind of people alone.
She knew how her friends was
So she wasn’t mad that he left, but was mad that he didn’t contribute to the bill even AFTER paying for his own food?? Yea, she wanted your money. Not your presence. 💯
Bruh is in the friendzone and she and her friends were trying to play him. Fellas, take heed. If a woman invites you to her friend's birthday party at a restaurant, make sure you tell the waiter and let it be known upfront that you are paying for your own food.
He foolishly continued to be on the friendzone after this. Smh
SHAME ON HER GREEEDY FOR MONEY OVER FRIENDSHIP IS NOOO FRIEND
This guys treating her like she's in the friend zone.
women hate when men know the game that’s why she sent him a long text.
"I'm hitting the door by now" 😂 This dude got it right.
The first sign that he was invited to pay the bill was that everyone showed up on time.
😂That was my first thought too.
Is that really a thing?
What the fk? How was that the first sign? Some people are punctual and actually show up on time to events 😂
@@SenoritaKaosiklisto no, its a dog whistle to say white people are racist for being on time.
Right they bring him purposely so they didn't have to pay as a female women are so strange to me
HE DID CONTRIBUTE TO THE BILL. HE PAID FOR HIS OWN. THEREFORE, CONTRIBUTIONS HAVE BEEN MET✊🏾💯🇬🇧
Yes I agree
I wouldn't pay for everyone else's extravagant food orders either. You don't have the money ....order the soup. Don't need to assume someone else is paying your way.
That's right! They should be glad that he did pay his part.
@@dariakraft2542 LMAO. Order the soup indeed. 🤣😂🤣👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@@dariakraft2542 Can't afford a meal at that restaurant, don't go.
He’s smart. He should only pay for what he paid for. Not for the entire table. His home girl was lowkey plotting
I watched the video twice... this happens all the time, the restaurant can only split the bill 2 ways or 3 ways...
Everybody at the table cash app their portion to the person who is using their card.
However, I feel like it's very smart that he payed his portion early... that's something I need to do for future birthday dinners...
How backward it's 2024
We've been out w 9 10 people & each person gets a bill, even split items 3 ways for table
Broke users are worst
Always looking good & not a nickle 😅
He should of paid he’s the man
@@BREASHONTELL absolutely not.
@@BREASHONTELL as a female you're insane she tried to make him pay their bill when she's the one that invited him! He did the right thing by paying his bill and leaving they just tried to use him and he was smart enough to not fall for it I'm glad I'm not an entitled girl like most women are it's very weird and cringey stop expecting men to pay everything for u get a job and pay for things yourself!
After he said everyone was shocked! looking like 😲I'm hitting the door by now...I couldn't' stop clapping 👏🏽🤣 hats off to this brother for seeing a set up for what it is 😂
Once the waiter said that he should have stayed to see how everything played out
❤❤❤😅😅😅😅😅
I can't imagine. Sometimes it's nice to be old. Great story. Thanks for sharing.
When dealing with large parties, I always ask for a separate bill. Especially with people who drink. I refuse to let anybody ball out at my expense. Salute this man
So do I, so there are no misunderstandings.
I really don’t understand this pay for groups culture. My dad did it back in the day but for his family only. Boyfriends had to pay their part cuz Dad wasn’t paying for another man and my friends better drop a tip.
He said the restaurant made it clear that they could only split the bill 3 ways. A lot of restaurants do not allow separate checks on parties that size.
@melstarr1864 when splitting the bill, they are referring to forms of payment. They can't deny you a completely separate bill.
womens wine can be 20 bucks.. etc
He brought a stranger a gift how sweet❣🥰 He paid his bill & left. You are awesome!
another well said comment
He's a good guy
Nobody believes that he bought her a gift! Still paying the bill should have been better planned.
@@bohemienneprincesse8665 STILL PAYING HIS BILL...it wasn't his friend.💁🏽♀️ Why should he GAF?🤷🏾♀️ DONE 🆗️🖐🏾
@@MIMSQUEEN with the attitude you're expressing he should never have gone; don't bother blaming his friend who invited him.
She saw him as a trick! Plain and simple. If his homegirl was cool she wouldn’t have tried to play him. He did it right
He was right. He was right. Did I remember to say HE WAS RIGHT? 🤣🤣🤣
Say it again LOUDER 😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣
No you didn't...say it again...🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Could you say it one more time for the people on the other side of the city? 😁
Pure satisfaction on my face after he said he paid his bill and *TIPPED*! 😂 I hate greedy ass ppl ordering the most expensive shit and expecting someone else to cover their meal and drinks!
tipping is a cancer, food places should pay their employees properly.
BEST VIDEO EVER! Shout out to that young man for being responsible in trusting his gut instinct.
Yea he was smart he knew they were users and freeloaders looking too eat food at expense of someone else
I get uncomfortable agreeing to two or three people buying me a $20 birthday dinner. I can't imagine $3500!
They were scammers.how can people be so disgusting to order all that food for fifteen people.35,00 hundred dollars that two hundred and seventy five dollars per person.
@@WillieColes-wq9lc Yeah...Most of which was probably alcohol sales. IN most major metro areas, even short drinks are $12 to $15.
not for nothing i’ve had dinner cost as much as $1,500 for two people but i knew what i was getting into. Ive also been at a table where it cost $2k+ for 4 people but fortunately for me i was treated to a 4 course meal at no cost but i was prepared to put up at-least a quarter n willing to pay half. If u don’t have it, don’t go.
Communication is key! Why didn't they talk about this before hand? Ridiculous!!
@@evelynscott-hawkins4115it's because the broke women try to trick and shame the men into paying especially bw and sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't
His homegirl was pissed, because it was their plan all along to get the men to pay the bill, that's the kind of dirty games they play
Further evidence men and women can not be friends.
I'd get a new home girl. A "good home girl" would never set him up like that
Make room for singleness
She's not a real friend guys shouldn't befriend women cus they would try to use them
This man was invited to the Bday dinner with the intent to be a "patsy" right from the very beginning. He doesn't know the Bday girl or any of the guests. Why else do you think he was invited!!?? Funny thing, this man got the LAST LAUGH!
Good for him.
He was invited to pay the bill. So nice of them. You know they were telling each other that he was going to pay. That’s when you say, ok goodnight. 😂
😅😅
Right😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
He played chess....10 moves ahead sir!
The entitlement gets worse
She invited him for that reason
Premeditated.
He did EVERYTHING right. Well done Sir.👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾✊🏾
I'm a female and the guy was 100% right and he didn't even need to explain himself. I used to get suckered like that back in the day when I used to get "invited" to such group parties. I never drank so, I ended up paying WAYYY more than I should have after divvying the bill. Now that I am older and wiser, I pay my own bill in every situation. If he sees this coment, BRAVO, sir. You were 100% right.
Exactly
Why are women calling themselves "females" 🤔
@@truettadevilthat word was around a long long time before it had the meaning you’re getting at.
@@sw6118 cool story.
@@truettadevilmakes zero difference, no one else cares.
3500 for a dinner bill is outrageous.
$3500 divided among other 14 people is $250; very easy to run up with multiple appetizers and drinks.
Yeah. He paid for himself, smart call.
If you can’t afford it STAY AT HOME….😂 I would’ve definitely paid before everyone else. You can’t expect people to foot the bill. Remember what you ordered.( Especially if it’s an upscale establishment; there are no prices on the menu) If someone else decides to pay for your meal. Cool. Even on dates. Take ya own money….Anything can happen. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I stay ready so I don’t have to get ready. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🥰
115 for one person alone is crazy.😂
He did say people were ordering big T-Bone steaks with gold lmao. That's crazy
This dude is the man. He handled the situation 100% appropriately and he let his homegirl know where she stands with regard to the situation.
“ everybody acting like Ray Charles” 😂 😆 😝
Lololol yes.
Like they blind and cant see the bill is put before them😂😂😂
Oh hell naw....he did contribute to the bill.he paid his
As he should 😂😂
He's a homosexual. So he is looked at as "one of the girls". This is why he didn't catch so much heat from them. And also, no man have a "home girl".
Indeed. The end.
Hahahaha yes! This!
My Dude Earned his PhD in Game that day !🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
FACTS ❤
Maan💯💯
in game?
game means something different than you think it does.
@@adameves5970🙄
#Facts - ...and the dissertation title: IDC 😅😅😅
Shit, she was not my people and it was her friend. He did exactly right !!!! Salute to you Bro .
His quote unquote homegirl should pay for his bills because she invited him 💯 😂😂😂😂 I think you did the right thing😂😂😂😂😂
“You could’ve paid more on the bill” means you could’ve paid my bill. He’s in the friend zone but when it comes to spending money now he’s all of a sudden her man.
Exactly
He's not in the friend zone he's a fruit cake
Exactly if she’s not providing girlfriend benefits I’m not providing boyfriend financial support
that part
This guy knew what's up and took action..... BRILLIANT!!!!
She wouldn’t be my friend anymore 💯 The nerve to think you supposed to pay for people you don’t know 🤦🏾♀️
Said the same thing
The ballsdacity of some ppl... 😂😂😂
I agree
Even if I knew every single person at that table since birth, I wouldn't be paying unless I invited them and explicitly said I would cover the bill.
And when I've offered to take people out, they always had the decency to ask, "Can I get x?"
That part 👌🏽
The man is a champion. He saved me the trouble of learning a life lesson the hard way.
Women always calling men broke but be scavenging around for someone else to pay for their stuff! It’s so weird 😅
BRUH!
Theses are the type of women that claim there independent or their boss chicks but in actuality these 304's cant afford to put cheese on a Whopper
The hypocrisy is real.
#BARZ
Thank God for Social Media because this sh has been going on for the past 20 years with women. Trying to use men to benefit them in their nonsense. Then try to shame them when they have some self respect. They was all eating and ordering like they just knew they had the money to pay for it. They just knew some sucker was gonna foot the bill and then when they found out he had self respect that's when the shaming starts. Dont invite people to your party just because you need someone to pay for you. Shame
This man handled things perfectly!!! So PROUD of him!!! Let us ALL learn from his example.
Nah, perfectly would have consisted of him tell the server right when he ordered that he would like his food n drinks on a separate bill. This way everyone at the table hears him n knows right away that he’s only paying for his own food. I make it very clear when I go out to eat, that my bill is separate, this way no one can say 💩 when the bill comes.
Paid and tipped out before the drama unfolded. Genius move by dude!
@@JCizzleSoCalA man not paying for his date's meal is a genius move?
@@CathleenRandolph-ye5kmHis date? You clearly didn’t watch the entire video or are just beyond delusional. Hahaha
His dusty home girl tried to use him as a wallet. I like how he handled the whole thing. To all the simps. You know the guys that women love? The guys who stand their ground.
Good on you Brother , good on you... You saw that shit train coming a mile away and jumped out of the way...Total Chad...✌️👍
Man, don’t play yourself, never make yourself broke to please others.
Young homie, she's not a friend, she's a USER!
He had a good heads-up vibe of what was going down and acted on his intuition and saved himself a lot of grief and drama, my hats off to him
Exactly. Intuition!
NEVER WILL I LET PEOPLE EVER TAKE ADVANTAGE OF MY MONEY 💰
He was smart he wasn’t wrong at all he paid for his meal.😂😂
He was wise. I do believe that voice was God.
Friends don't mooch from friends. That simple.🤦♀️
There not real friends if they do 🤷♂️
Now THATS a MAN who knows how to handle himself.
Why can't everyone just pay for what they ordered. This is why I like to stay home. I just learned to make bread bowls, they were soooooo good!....dude there is no stopping me!
This poor gentleman was only responsible for his own bill not even his “HOME GIRLs” portion. She ain’t his girlfriend, she’s just a friend, unless he offered to pay for her.
Exactly! Plus why would he offer to pay for HER, when SHE invited HIM to someone he don’t even knows bday party! He absolutely did the right thing.
He had me till he said they’re still friends 🙄🤦♀️ she used him plain and simple.
If it were his girl, the same would apply. Don’t invite me to a party of a buncha ppl I don’t know and expect me to pay for you. Thats just as foul
Perhaps he had intentions to pay for both of them but, when he saw the food and drinks she had, he changed his mind and paid only his bill. 😏
This gentleman did the right thing! Glad he didn’t get stuck footing the bill for strangers.
I like this guys spirit. Such a nice humble man. He’s blessed for sure 😇
I like a man with common sense!
he seems like the zesty type💀
He’s smart ❤
I love this guy. He’s a hero to all men.
I'm with dude! Get up and walk out! My bill was paid! And I'd never funk with homegirl again!
That is one smart dude. He handled the situation perfectly.
As a former server of 30 yrs, I would have done separate checks from jump. And then handed them each their individual bill. He was correct with what he did.
The server should have cleared up if it would be one check or separate before taking the order.
@@andicantu6490
The guy said that was made clear before they ordered.
No explanation needed. You were 100% right.
It was mentioned on part one of this video that for some reason the restaurant only had the ability to split the bill 2 ways. Which I believe was already mentioned to the party by the waiter.
@@Torontodude20000 _"the restaurant only had the ability to split the bill two ways."_
The restaurant lied. It's easier if they only split two ways. But it is most certainly possible to issue individual checks, or split it into couples, or however the patrons wish. Servers are lazy, can't do simple math, and can't be bothered to take the time anyway.
He was absolutely right he paid his own bill before he left
Right on good for him. He pay for his own food and his only. But for people in the group that he didn't know order all that food and did not bring their own money and expect him to pay part of it. Plus his bill came up to $ 115.00 dollars this man wasn't no dummy. He wasn't stupid. He knew that something wasn't right. Smart man and he did the right thing by paying for his own food.
0 tolerance for BS 👏🏼 absolutely agree 💯
It warms my heart that men are wising up.
women are so used to being paid for and having zero liability that when theres a group of them, they all look around for a victim to push their problems onto. the funny thing is they are all women so they cant find a man to shit on
Yup. Protect yourself at all times. Boxing rule
If the Birthday Girl invited all those people she should have paid the bill.
The Fact that THIS is even being discussed & questioned, is Absolutely 💯 Ridiculous!!!🤬🤢🤮
They went into that situation planning to take advantage. Their soul dropped when they heard he already paid. 😂
Exactly 😂😂😂😂😂😂
The brother has respect and class, he should rethink his group of friends!
He should also rethink that nickname “storm”. People won’t take u serious if u still go by a nickname at his age. I mean u wanna talk properly n not use ghetto slang, yet he’s still using a nickname?🤣🤣
@@kellyperry559 The nickname won't hinder him in anyway because we live in a day and time when everyone who is anyone is a character, its his personality that people either connect with or not and he seems to be a pretty well rounded brother, he has to change the type of females that he deals with ☝️
OH Shut the hell up. go pick your nose or something . @@kellyperry559
@@kellyperry559🥱🥱 yawn
@@Breeze-d3v im not calling another grown man "storm" day in age whatever. I'm 28. We need to be adults and use our government names unless you're an entertainer.
"I am not worried about that. I am the birthday girl!" The entitlement gets me. So she invited a bunch of people, expects them to pay, has not cleared that with them and has not organized or planned anything regarding the bill. Yep, drop that girl's number...
That’s how all birthday dinners work tho…that’s why I don’t go to them. fyi if you’re invited don’t go either, you must always pay for the celebrated guest.
@@samaraisnt "That’s how all birthday dinners work tho" Definitely not. None of birthday dinners I was invited to or hosted worked like that. NONE!!! That might be different in your crowd, but I can confidently assure you that this is less common than you think.
@@samaraisntyea no, just about every birthday dinner I've been to has already had things planned out before we even showed up
He is a first class man.
Love his style.
First, she wasn't your homegirl to begin with. However, you are BEYOND SMART! BRAVO TO YOU SIR!
I would revisit the friendship with yo homegurl...
She tried to use him to foot the bill. We were through as friends after that.
Men and women can’t be friends is the lesson in this .
This man went straight up God Mode, brought a gift paid his bill tipped out and left. 👏👏👏👏
"You could have paid more" is hella crazy! 😂😂😂
If he "could've paid more" , she could have paid some
If he "could've paid more" , she could have paid some
No way he paid for himself or his homegirls what are you talking about he doesn’t know all the other girl. They are a user. I would not pay a cent. He’s a smart man. And how do you know if he’s money or not. He’s the smart man
No he did right
It is one thing if they said can you please pay for everybody s*** and he knew he was going to pay for everybody and he said all this on me that's one thing but will you send me to try to set him like that he did accordingly and pay for his bill and got on down
Brother was doin the moonwalk out that door 😂😂😂😂😂
I had a vision of that😂😂😂
Hee-Hee!!
They tried to pull the "Ratchet Restaurant Robbery Scam" and he cleverly avoided it.
Bravo.
He's absolutely right, and I would've done the same thing.
Nothing was rude about the way that man handled shit. He wasn’t trying to get played 😂😂😂😂. It’s the sense of entitlement for me. That homegirl is clearly the one without etiquette. I ain’t paying nobody’s bill but mine. I am curious how that bill was settled 🤣🤣🤣
I still wondered how that bill was settled......LOL after he left.
He needs to understand that his so called home girl was trying to play him! She tried to set him up to sponsor the dinner! You could tell that was the case, because when the bill came they looked his way.
This is just modern black women at work sweetheart. Us brothers have seen this same scenario play out before, many times smh
@rdelacruz8949 don't try to classify all blk women into 1 category u weirdo every body ain't the same and the same things happen within other ethnicities as well u goofball🤦🏾♂️
Now that I have viewed "Part II" of this video - I applaud this young brother's sense of reason and ingenuity. He smelled the planned deception and took actions to side step the 304 parasite delegation.
T-bones and truffle fries? Ima need you to name that restaurant bruh. LOL
I hate it when people assume it's someone else's responsibility to pay for their meal. Order what you can afford, and take care of your own bill. Period. Those type of entitled people are narcissists, and should be left at the curb.
I wouldn't call them narcissists.. They are just modern black women. Trifling and have zero respect for black men
What happens in some other youtube videos is that they just walk out without paying.
@@naekosl3059 That's lame. Some people just have no class. Smh
You mean women because most men don’t have the luxury to use people like this.
The majority are women
They tried to used him, and take advantage of him. They reaped what they sow. He is totally innocent. 😇
His homegirl... Was she in on trying to shaft him, I wonder?
If my bill is paid, ta ta ✌🏾 😂
Great job Brother....You handled the mess properly
I like him. He's the brightest young man with excellent etiquette. Love his vibe and wisdom.
These Western women are Terrible 😮😂
VERY TERRIBLE 🤣🤣🤣
And you know a bunch of them were probably taking pics of their food…..then expected someone else to pay for it
@@dieselhrt5492😆😭
Let's not blame Western Women.. It's mostly Westerman black women. I've been put in this exact situation before smh
@@rdelacruz8949 yeah but we don’t know that it was only black women at the dinner.
Everybody has T-Rex arms all of a sudden.
😂😂 good 1
😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 T-Rex arms LOL...🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The joke is actually alligator 🐊 arms.
This why i roll by myself
As a man NEVER be the only man at a woman's birthday party.... they are going to try to play you.... 3:29
H e wasn't the only man, there is at least one other
Come in your own car so you can leave when you want
He’s 🌈🤣