Juice l Shefali Shah & Neeraj Ghaywan | Short Film | Royal Stag Barrel Select Large Shorts Films

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  • Manju Singh ( #ShefaliShah) and her husband are hosting a get-together of families on a really warm night. Between the snacks, drinks and the laughs, something completely unexpected happens. Watch #JUICE, a powerful #shortfilm written and directed by Neeraj Ghaywan. Now playing. #theselectones
    Synopsis:
    "Juice," a short film directed by #NeerajGhaywan starring the talented Shefali Shah, is a thought-provoking short film that delves into the subtle dynamics of gender roles within Indian households. Set on a particularly warm evening, Manju Singh (played by Shefali Shah) and her husband are hosting a get-together for their friends and family. The gathering is filled with #laughter, #snacks, and #drinks, but beneath the surface, tensions simmer.
    Manju, like many women, finds herself relegated to the sweltering kitchen, managing the food and drinks while the men comfortably enjoy themselves in the living room in this short film. The contrast between the two spaces becomes a powerful visual metaphor for the gender divide. As the evening progresses, the oppressive heat in the kitchen mirrors Manju's growing frustration and sense of confinement.
    The climax of the #film is both unexpected and deeply impactful. Manju's quiet rebellion against the ingrained patriarchal norms is a moment of liberation that resonates powerfully with the #audience. "Juice" is not just a short film; it's a statement about the often-overlooked struggles and silent strength of #women portrayed by Shefali Shah.
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    Director: Neeraj Ghaywan
    Cast: Shefali Shah
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  • @divyanshgoel128
    @divyanshgoel128 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1886

    They did a really good job at playing with the sounds, from the very beginning, the background sounds of utensils and men talking loudly, it did a really good job at making me feel suffocated.
    And when she came out in front of the men, the music turned it into a very soothing and breathable environment.
    In the beginning, when the camera follows the ladies in the kitchen, took us from that narrow corridor to the women's world, like an air pocket in a cave.

  • @Beautystoriesbyjuvina
    @Beautystoriesbyjuvina 6 ปีที่แล้ว +662

    The last portion, where she just sits and gives a look. Her eyes said volumes which even words would not have justified. Thanks for leaving it silent. Such a strong message!!! Wow

    • @dhananjayjhala
      @dhananjayjhala 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Paritosh Jadhav women are capable of working .. nasa,TCs,infosys,isro all have women employees.. so if men don’t work women can do their work but can men do the work women do.. rarely yes.. sadly even no in my own case however I’m only 18 still

    • @prashantbarhanpurkar2152
      @prashantbarhanpurkar2152 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Juvina Rewari sexy

    • @lakshmi3744
      @lakshmi3744 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      +Paritosh Jadhav Actually no. In the situation; it is clearly mentioning that she was forcefully stopped by her husband from working after marriage. And even if she had refused and wait for a husband who "ALLOW" her job still all the household works like making great Indian dishes, changing napkins of children, cleaning toilets&kitchen etc will automatically reserved for the lady of the house

    • @sm0000
      @sm0000 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      my mother and father both are working... From childhood I have seen my father helping mother in kitchen..though mom is best at cooking ..but father help in other works like cutting vegetables..., washing utensils..., making dough ..etc....He cooks food whenever He gets a holiday, or mom is in office etc... Even my grandmother became a school teacher after marriage. ..so growing in this perspective.... It will be intolerable... for me to be married away to a family with this shit mentality.... better to remain unmarried...
      nice concept... nice acting....SUPERB...

    • @reeer9121
      @reeer9121 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Paritosh Jadhav вc

  • @roshniravoof7499
    @roshniravoof7499 6 ปีที่แล้ว +20906

    Did anyone notice one of the ladies calling her daughter to serve food for her brothers? That's exactly what is wrong with our culture. Teaching us since childhood that girls need to serve and boys need to be served. I could see my childhood there. and I'm sure many of you too. Please, let us promise ourselves that we wont pass on this discriminating attitude to our next generations.

    • @kalpita964
      @kalpita964 6 ปีที่แล้ว +386

      very true. we need to start raising the boys better than that.

    • @mou6182
      @mou6182 6 ปีที่แล้ว +148

      I have just mentioned that in my earlier post, though among bengalees we don’t have this attitude (generally speaking) at all

    • @Prabhjeet
      @Prabhjeet 6 ปีที่แล้ว +107

      its the story of almost every household

    • @l12al61
      @l12al61 6 ปีที่แล้ว +99

      Roshni Raoof . It was brilliant that they put it there. I could totally connect with this!

    • @SR-mv2mf
      @SR-mv2mf 6 ปีที่แล้ว +224

      Roshni Raoof when I was young I was told girls shouldn't laugh too loudly. I was 8. The world is fucking messed up.

  • @harajukubarbie368
    @harajukubarbie368 4 ปีที่แล้ว +369

    The patriarchy is soo deep rooted in the system is soo hard to even see. Its soo normalised that no one even sees what's wrong with it

    • @Anita-dg6fc
      @Anita-dg6fc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      You are absolutely right. Some men don’t even realize this is wrong, and we women have to bear the brunt of their callous attitude

    • @akankshasingh3308
      @akankshasingh3308 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      U r absolutely right.i hate this gender difference system.

  • @fathimakabeer1271
    @fathimakabeer1271 5 ปีที่แล้ว +148

    This short film is so true.....it always happens in the middle class families....even in our homes....it's realistic... Beautifully done👍👏

    • @Sameeksha2136
      @Sameeksha2136 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It happens for every other day in my house.

    • @rdrshandilya
      @rdrshandilya 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Sameeksha2136 But girls should only clean , cook and spread her legs that's what I believe....tell me If I am wrong 🤨!!

  • @FlavorQuotient
    @FlavorQuotient 6 ปีที่แล้ว +583

    Have rarely seen such strong message in any short film. Can't take my mind off it now!

    • @rahulgavel7510
      @rahulgavel7510 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Flavor Quotient watch this one also please if you have time. th-cam.com/video/1ie8d9VI1tQ/w-d-xo.html

    • @encoderrs
      @encoderrs 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      its awesome....brilliant

  • @amritakumari915
    @amritakumari915 5 ปีที่แล้ว +576

    Whenever my friend comes over my husband serve us drinks nd snacks while I sit and enjoy. He totally understands that me too have a right to sit on that sofa with friends and enjoy the drinks.
    Lucky to have him.

    • @twilight9237
      @twilight9237 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Amrita Kumari so lucky ... 👍😍🍷

    • @umavajapeyajula1305
      @umavajapeyajula1305 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Lucky girl!!

    • @atriacharya2967
      @atriacharya2967 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Nothing lucky in that. I'll be the same type of husband in a few years. So, has my father been, his entire life and a bit more.

    • @samiahasan1033
      @samiahasan1033 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amrita Kumari I hope my fiancé treats me the same. You are indeed very lucky ❤️

    • @Rimsa3306
      @Rimsa3306 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amrita Kumari you are really lucky

  • @biveksubba3206
    @biveksubba3206 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This is something beyond Bollywood and all....
    Every woman must watch this and above that man.
    "The power of silence"

  • @parimaljoshi1860
    @parimaljoshi1860 4 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    Finally, in metro cities we find equality that mens and womens are drinking and cooking together. Hope, everyone can admire the same and have a glass of juice together.

  • @shivarajput754
    @shivarajput754 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Here i am watching these short movie inside my warm blanket and my brothers cooking food for me, now i m feeling proud ❤

    • @lets_Learn_Language
      @lets_Learn_Language 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No need to feel proud. The way your brothers treat you it's the way it should have been for all women.

  • @andy8357
    @andy8357 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Did you see how the lady's husband said "ghar mei pade pade kya karegi aapka hath bata degi" even though his wife was pregnant and needed rest.

  • @vishwabihola6585
    @vishwabihola6585 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    What a great story. This is what we all have seen since our childhood. Easily relatable!! Can never imagine how ladies are still fighting for these little wars against their own partners and society. This story is a slap on those men's faces. Brilliant.

  • @ritasarkar5932
    @ritasarkar5932 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    If mother's are discriminating between son and daughter then definitely the society will never change. We should teach same lessons to our son and daughter both.

  • @Divyashreeg35
    @Divyashreeg35 6 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    Serious problems in our society is beautifully conveyed in the film
    1. where a little gal playing videogame amongst all other guys was particularly called up to serve food to herself n her brother......I got me rewind my life n got tears
    change should come from small small things which parents practice in raising children
    2. Only guys were bot videogames n not gals
    3. I have a question to which I always gets stuck finding an answer.....Is living a life dat we don't like just for the sake of family or may it be any person is called love?
    Finally a good work..keep it up

    • @anukuikel3048
      @anukuikel3048 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      divy a well said even I remember as a child when my mom used to ask me to wash my brothers cloth n till the date I do so when m 22 and my brother is 20 whenever I refuse to do so my mother insists me saying he is ur bother n all those shits

    • @Divyashreeg35
      @Divyashreeg35 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +anu kuikel ...please don't do...utilize the same time to relax or to improvise ur health, knowledge, skill anything.....we are human beings not slaves...do work for parents but not for ur brothers sisters cousins friends...noone remembers....

    • @priya9194
      @priya9194 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      till the time I was stupid I used to do now I saw he is an adult he csn do his shit if not then its his problem. but my brother is extremely nice he doesn't expect anyone else to do his stuff but family members always dull a guy's ability i feel. I mean he makes a better roti than me 😂😂

    • @torshamazumdar6198
      @torshamazumdar6198 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My mother treated my brother and me equally. Both of us were called up to serve plates to the guests. I was lucky!

    • @rupalidhotkar5604
      @rupalidhotkar5604 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ans to 3...yes....that is general mass thinks....doing household chores is the only expertise a bahu can show in sasural ...it is the thinking of less educated Indian saas...I don't understand ..what are they gaining by thinking that is the only thing of expertise ....however education brings the difference in this type of thinking....

  • @purabraut3978
    @purabraut3978 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This short powerfully and veraciously depicts the broken-conventional Indian household.
    So much is said with eyes, without the use of words. I had heard that 'the eyes do the talking' on multiple occasions before but understood it's real meaning today.
    The way in which we all discriminate against women since childhood, the different rules we apply, the type of chores we assign and expect them to do is the core point of concern, in my opinion and it should be worrying to everyone.
    I believe in equality in all aspects and try my level-best to apply it in my life and in the way I handle my siblings.
    My parents are wise, no doubt about that, but in some cases they lack clarity or can't relate to, so I try my best to explain to them in simple terms and sensitize them on various relevant topics. I bring a new perspective to the things they've been used to and they're like, "Yeah, I hadn't thought about it like that. True!"

  • @3LAYLAA
    @3LAYLAA 6 ปีที่แล้ว +273

    Thats the curse of being born as a female in a middle class.Its so evident. This was just a glimpse.

    • @MsEternalpeace
      @MsEternalpeace 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      It's in all classes. Rich class may have a maid to get the job done. But it's still the female who has to get it done. Men will not stand in the kitchen instructing the servants. They will remain on the couch!

    • @MsEternalpeace
      @MsEternalpeace 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      So it has to do with amount of education family has.. Not the money.
      And by education I don't mean degress. I have seen Doctors and PhD holders making their wives clean their shoes.. Or carry it for them.
      Education is the value system and the understanding of right and wrong.

    • @Yaadein10
      @Yaadein10 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Very true dear being a female is a curse nothing related to class in every class it is same.

    • @Yaadein10
      @Yaadein10 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Actually we need to raise this question to the creator God who created this world. He pulls the strings and make things happen.

    • @shrutikhare2795
      @shrutikhare2795 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      If you don't do it nobody can force you. You just have to realise that you need to stop doing it and learn to say no.

  • @muhammedovaisalam1620
    @muhammedovaisalam1620 4 ปีที่แล้ว +174

    I was waiting for a slap. She should've slapped everyone of them 😡😡😡

    • @muhammedovaisalam1620
      @muhammedovaisalam1620 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Dimple Sharma Agreed!

    • @Anita-dg6fc
      @Anita-dg6fc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      We don’t need to slap, we just want some understanding!

    • @shanthala1345
      @shanthala1345 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      No

    • @muhammedovaisalam1620
      @muhammedovaisalam1620 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Anita-dg6fc When they are not listening and ignoring everything. Slap them

    • @Anita-dg6fc
      @Anita-dg6fc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Muhammed Ovais Alam But remember, it’s one’s husband. And it’s not good to wash dirty linen in public. We will just become a laughing stock for everyone.
      Also I believe these are things inculcated by the mother. But if a person has grown up without this humanely thought put inside him, I feel they hardly empathize with the wife and remain aloof their entire lives.

  • @siyamzz33
    @siyamzz33 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Such a relatable film. Manju just shutting down the men was the best. Sometimes we women need to take the initiative. This happens at my home as well but not with me. I am the change which my mom couldn't be, I get shouted and insulted at for being a person like this but the question is How long should women only do the work and the men make baseless and useless ordering??? Why can't they help around and understand the women??
    A big kudos to the entire team❤ The scene where Manju and her husband didn't speak anything but their eyes spoke a lot.

    • @carly582
      @carly582 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Well done, you are amazing. You are breaming these generational curses and I know you will have a blessed life.

  • @lokeshdesai7717
    @lokeshdesai7717 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wonderfully presented and explain.

  • @saamyzaidi14
    @saamyzaidi14 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Silence is Golden no doubt...Silent treatment is alwayssss too Gud 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻✌🏻️✌🏻✌🏻💕💓💚❤️💞😍💕💃💃💃👯👯👯

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  • @divyankacharan8178
    @divyankacharan8178 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    the last scene was the explosion of suffocation. I can sense that.

  • @shashiverma5558
    @shashiverma5558 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The film is so relatable,in the last twenty years things have changed a lot for better for better half 😊

  • @shreeanand6812
    @shreeanand6812 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    My mom always told me to learn cooking I have learnt it.
    Some times she cracks a joke and told me I have trained you for your wife to cook and serve.
    My father not always but sometimes help my mother to cook I also help her.
    But the most helpful and who is very near to my mother's heart is my younger brother he can understand feelings of her very easily .
    Thanks mom for everything thing.

  • @sokalali297
    @sokalali297 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I think a lot of men like me felt the slap ,when she was sitting in front of the cooler with that glass of juice.
    Young men must watch and learn .

  • @sonali2140
    @sonali2140 ปีที่แล้ว

    She said it all with her eyes … beautiful ❤

  • @m22d889
    @m22d889 2 ปีที่แล้ว +787

    The reason I liked the ending is because Manju goes and sits next to the cooler in the end. Without saying a word to her husband or any of his male guests. She sits there, breathing heavily...drinking the cold juice and just breathing. It's a silent slap to the husband who forgot about the fan. A silent slap to all the male guests who are now forced to wonder how their wives are coping inside the kitchen.
    And perhaps it was not the audacity of Manju but the realisation of their actions which caused everything to go so silent in that room.

    • @anonymousagni2
      @anonymousagni2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      But Why didn't they purchase one more cooler ?? Flipkart Amazon par itne offer chalte rhte hai ..

    • @Rita_Arya
      @Rita_Arya ปีที่แล้ว +51

      ​@@anonymousagni2 you clearly know the cooler was not the point, and yet you're asking such a dumb question on these comments

    • @priyasachdeva5120
      @priyasachdeva5120 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      The worst was that the other ladies also didn't help her in finishing the kitchen chores. They were busy gossiping

    • @simpleart6246
      @simpleart6246 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So we'll explained, not her audacity, realization of their actions,

    • @rdrshandilya
      @rdrshandilya 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      But girls should only clean , cook and spread her legs that's what I believe....tell me If I am wrong 🤨!!

  • @prachishrivastava5868
    @prachishrivastava5868 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6042

    And this is why festivals and family gatherings are so stressful for females of the house👍

    • @kritisrivastava4690
      @kritisrivastava4690 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Exactly

    • @PoonamSingh-il6fx
      @PoonamSingh-il6fx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +114

      Aur isliy ladies gathering psnd nhi krti

    • @manishadsouza2047
      @manishadsouza2047 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yeh

    • @PuranoKalam
      @PuranoKalam 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Poor

    • @dhiral777
      @dhiral777 2 ปีที่แล้ว +118

      yup so right , I see my mom cooking and cleaning all day in every family gatherings and she barely have to time to enjoy

  • @aditiaher7
    @aditiaher7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9256

    The way Manju sat in the chair with a glass of juice near a cooler looking at all the men in the room was an invisible slap to all of them!

    • @sanveera6260
      @sanveera6260 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      Well said aditi

    • @harpreetparmar2994
      @harpreetparmar2994 4 ปีที่แล้ว +165

      Sunil Kumar what a fucking moron u must treat ur mother like a maid

    • @Straightforward786
      @Straightforward786 4 ปีที่แล้ว +226

      @@SunilKumar-hg3pc have you ever cooked atleast for yourself in your life time.. ?? if you had ever lit the stove and stood infront of it.. you will understand it..

    • @ayushjaiswal9863
      @ayushjaiswal9863 4 ปีที่แล้ว +135

      @@SunilKumar-hg3pc tum jese bhutiye yhi sochege...btw shyd isliye aurat bahar la work nhi krti so usey ghr ka nokar bn jana chahiye aur jo pese kamatey h vo malik hoty h ghr k? aesi ghtiya soch k wajah se rishton se pyaar gayab ho jata h...manju ne apna work chor diya for kids...not mean her husband got licence to show dominant nature on her wife...! aur rahi baat aese case m toh sab ko milkr apna food bnnana chahiye...!

    • @SunilKumar-hg3pc
      @SunilKumar-hg3pc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ayushjaiswal9863 sabse pahle to ladies log ye soch dimag se nikalo ki jo ghar par kaam karti h, khana banati h wo nokrani h, are pati patni ek dusre ke purak h, koi chota bada nahi , aadmi bahar morcha sambhale to patni ko juice pikar ghar me morcha sambhalna chahiye...Isme dominant wali baat hi nahi h...Agar nahi h aukat to...Phir aese comment karte raho...

  • @NirmalKumar-sc5tk
    @NirmalKumar-sc5tk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8470

    This is so relatable. When I was a child, I was told to leave plates after eating. My sisters would collect the plates of my father and mine. As a child, it never bothered me. It was the norm. But as I grew up, I began to understand that it was so wrong. Women are always treated like slaves. Now I do all my chores myself. I am learning to cook as well. And I will definitely share household chores with my future wife.

    • @pritharoychowdhury5020
      @pritharoychowdhury5020 4 ปีที่แล้ว +225

      Glad you had that realisation😊 More power to you.

    • @salonipanchal9893
      @salonipanchal9893 4 ปีที่แล้ว +122

      Yes even in my house I was told to pick my brother's plate after dinner but then later on I insisted him to pick up his own dishes and plates

    • @rajesh_banerjeee
      @rajesh_banerjeee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Great mentality..😊

    • @itsmeesomeone8984
      @itsmeesomeone8984 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Wow broo.. Your mind is as beautiful as your face💓💓

    • @jencyelias8803
      @jencyelias8803 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      That is a nice thought. May you be blessed with an equally understanding wife.

  • @lmnrao
    @lmnrao 3 ปีที่แล้ว +404

    From 12.20
    Her shiny eyes with tears.. Her facial expression..
    The way she was staring at her hubby..asking him silently... Are you treating me the right way????
    Wow... She is amazing.. 👏👏👏

    • @rdrshandilya
      @rdrshandilya 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      But girls should only clean , cook and spread her legs that's what I believe....tell me If I am wrong 🤨!!

    • @rdrshandilya
      @rdrshandilya 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      But girls should only clean , cook and spread her legs that's what I believe....tell me If I am wrong 🤨!!

    • @ABCDEFGH-qx6yn
      @ABCDEFGH-qx6yn 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      When people said women are weak and low and exhausted generally
      This is what I see, 24/7they are in front of gas stove, closed room with lack of oxygen, making them lethargic due to no fresh air, lifting heavy vessels, burning hands in hot oil and rotis, and still living with the burn wounds, having shortness of fresh breathe in a suffocation filled hot room, wet body with large stream of salt water (sweat) flowing all over body, do not have freedom to lift up the top or dress even in feont of lady mates and wipe the excess sweat amd take air, Total top to bottom, left to right thick fabric clothing in name of fake modesty to further trap that excess heat inside her body and skin making her 'Body organs' function slowly and bring her lethargy (excess heat bring weakness and lethargy and dehydration), no view in front of eyes except steams out of cooker, gas and oil pans, etc. (Makes a person's mood further depressed), women doing all these heavy works with a hidden 'Stress and fear' in minds that what if men and kids don't like our food taste , will we have to make it again, a stressed mind results in compromised physical health. After, food is cooked, she does heavy work of carrying all heavy vessels and tongs and hot jars to living room and constantly attending orders of men on table like a waiter in hotel with a hidden 'Fire in belly'. The men and kids gobble food like greedy, leaving behind less tidbits and leave to sleep or chat , women washing and cleaning men's soiled , saliva-plaited dishes with vim, and keeping back in dish racks , till that their appetit has GONE due to physical exhaustion as (digestion is internal labour), and they silently and unexpressively sit on ground taking own plates, and serving those leftover tidbits (forget abt balanced diet, its tidbits after men and kids ate) and eat alone with no GIGGLING, laughing, watching tv or not having a 'HAPPY feast'and no men or child gies to talk and entertain them or serve them and ask them 'Was your hunger fulfilled with thise tiny todbits and leftover cold meal pieces?'
      And LO ! All the tidbits unfortunately are LOST in monthly bleeding periods, again rendeeing her malnourished and anaemic and weak.
      While if its a married woman , when after the hungry and weak and tired woman returns in a bedroom in myth that she will relax at least an hour full, she is many times forced by horny husband to sleep chupchap on back while bending knees on bed, in a woman in bottom like a submiisive 'Object' , speechless, energy less and ofc with no libido with all the malnourishment of day, while full bellied, enthusiastic and empathyless husband jumps like a beast on her in name of 'Husband's need, physical relations and traditional wife's duty'.

    • @5amyak
      @5amyak 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ABCDEFGH-qx6yn Very well put.

  • @agrata7058
    @agrata7058 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3952

    The girl was told to serve the plates and the boys were left to play.. strong message, totally loved the story and the writer.

    • @worshipcreatornotcreatures4763
      @worshipcreatornotcreatures4763 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Itsagrata 55 why don’t u watch women’s cricket match, woman’s football, etc. god made both different, learn from nature learn from animals if u try to break nature’s rules divorce will be common n marriages breaks and this is what happening now a days , rest u know very well

    • @agrata7058
      @agrata7058 5 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      Worship creator not creatures use brain sorry for the late response. I don't compromise with equality and none of us should.

    • @sanapushkar4052
      @sanapushkar4052 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      @@worshipcreatornotcreatures4763 who said we don't what rubbish u r talking

    • @09kaustubh
      @09kaustubh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      @@worshipcreatornotcreatures4763 sweetheart there are no marriages and divorces in animals. 😂

    • @lala7453
      @lala7453 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Worship creator not creatures use brain which animal marries divorces , cooks and clean for husbands

  • @archana6756
    @archana6756 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6277

    The moment the maid refused tea,it clicked to the main character that even a maid had a self respect,why should she suffer.good story and well preseneted

    • @Myview246
      @Myview246 4 ปีที่แล้ว +90

      oh wow thats so true, didn't even realize this!

    • @aasthatyagi3001
      @aasthatyagi3001 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Oh that was the motto of that scene?

    • @Magictrunk
      @Magictrunk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +94

      Nice observation. These kinds of movies need good observation and artistic mind

    • @sunitidixit667
      @sunitidixit667 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      @@Magictrunk yeah ....she was also shown in a good character taking care of here didi

    • @ruteshraiker4581
      @ruteshraiker4581 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Good observation.. did not realize

  • @ravikaushik9863
    @ravikaushik9863 3 ปีที่แล้ว +172

    Manju's face at the end says it all.....men would never understand how hard they make the life for women....especially making her resign the job for a child is very common these days....BE KIND TO EACH OTHER

    • @rdrshandilya
      @rdrshandilya 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      But girls should only clean , cook and spread her legs that's what I believe....tell me If I am wrong 🤨!!

    • @rdrshandilya
      @rdrshandilya 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      But girls should only clean , cook and spread her legs that's what I believe....tell me If I am wrong 🤨!!

    • @vidhyasagarkhairwar8128
      @vidhyasagarkhairwar8128 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Tum sbko itni English kaise aati h

  • @indian3197
    @indian3197 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5417

    During my college days my papa used to force me to help my sister to put the washed plates and utensils on shelf. He also instructed me to do various household activities which i didnt liked. But somehow it became my habit to keep my house clean and tidy. Thank you papa for giving me right teachings. My wife is happy as we together are doing the household work.

    • @super15388
      @super15388 5 ปีที่แล้ว +122

      Its our sanskaar that decide our behaviour and our life in the long run. pls dont change ever. say thanks from me to uncle ji.

    • @anxiouslysuccessful9124
      @anxiouslysuccessful9124 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ♥♥♥

    • @vyanichoudhari2802
      @vyanichoudhari2802 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ❤️❤️❤️

    • @ramm8945
      @ramm8945 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Ur father would feel happy if you say this to him 😍

    • @indian3197
      @indian3197 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@ramm8945
      Yes Ram. Parents are our real teachers.

  • @rishitasoni8874
    @rishitasoni8874 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    So i made my father watch this along with my mother! And it affected his male ego so much that he kept thinking he was right for 2 days and couldn't accept a single fact of acknowledging how much his wife works in kitchen in get together! I mean seriously is your ego so fragile!! And it was debate in the house. My strong headed personality couldn't take it.

  • @medhamonga4571
    @medhamonga4571 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2428

    She isn't and not going to be appreciated or acknowledged anyway. So why not leave everything for once and have a glass of juice?

  • @SuperPratikjain
    @SuperPratikjain 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1718

    Those eyes of pain, frustration and anger in the climax is out of words. Great job shefali ma'am

    • @SonaRajgor
      @SonaRajgor 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah

    • @funtimewithbushi9160
      @funtimewithbushi9160 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      india lost semi final against newzealand😋

    • @myLove-dz7bp
      @myLove-dz7bp 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      M also feel the same

    • @rdrshandilya
      @rdrshandilya 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      But girls should only clean , cook and spread her legs that's what I believe....tell me If I am wrong 🤨!!

    • @rdrshandilya
      @rdrshandilya 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      But girls should only clean , cook and spread her legs that's what I believe....tell me If I am wrong 🤨!!

  • @chinkisarma1422
    @chinkisarma1422 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3457

    One minute silence for the dislikers.They must be persons like Manju's husband.Get well soon guys🌹

  • @luciddewseed3095
    @luciddewseed3095 2 ปีที่แล้ว +369

    The movie definitely portrays some deep themes beautifully. It starts with the sounds of clanking of utensils, which is then taken over by the laughter of men, symbolizing how the struggles of women are often walked over by the blusters of men. The men boast about having to work in strenuous conditions and we see that the women working in the kitchen are no different. Starting from handling hot contents in the kitchen to trying to repair electrical stuff themselves, the women face it all or mostly. The first few shots are of only one woman serving the men but we are soon shown the grim face of the rest of the women as well. Even the children are not spared from the faults of the patriarchal society. The caste system seeps in when we see that the hostess rubs her dirty hand off her maid's head while she climbs down the stool. Showing the maid rejecting the tea being served in a different glass reflects self-dignity of a person, I believe. Finally, the hostess realizes the flaws of the household system which even involves the children, and she decides to take a stand and face her husband. Only then do we get the sound of the cooler working as if breathing new breath into the household - men realizing their hypocrisy and women taking their stand. And not to forget all the beautiful lines, especially those comparing Hillary and Trump.

    • @debolinabhattacharya9801
      @debolinabhattacharya9801 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Can anyone tell me what is the relevance of juice here ?

    • @luciddewseed3095
      @luciddewseed3095 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@debolinabhattacharya9801 I suppose it's a symbolic representation of women taking the reins of their lives in their own hands... taking up the courage to neuter the patriarchal demands... taking control of their share of life and responsibilities.

    • @natevic1867
      @natevic1867 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Even a small detail like 1:38 has a big impact - man walks into the house first without leaving the door open for his pregnant wife. In other countries the gentleman thing to do is open the door for his wife first then walk in after

    • @SaiKumar-re2rb
      @SaiKumar-re2rb 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      12:01

    • @rdrshandilya
      @rdrshandilya 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      But girls should only clean , cook and spread her legs that's what I believe....tell me If I am wrong 🤨!!

  • @rishitakhanna2052
    @rishitakhanna2052 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3741

    I made my dad watch this with my mom sitting beside him
    He had tears.
    Thank You guys.....It wasn't just a video...it changed everything in our family❤

    • @maniqueen
      @maniqueen 5 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Oh great! Your mom must have felt proud of you👍

    • @avipriyodas6634
      @avipriyodas6634 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      I did the same. As my mother had been doing these things for our cousins for last 25 years. Though my father helped my mom as much as e could with the household but he wasn't left with any choice either

    • @rahulsukheja7805
      @rahulsukheja7805 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Rishita it takes alot of courage to do this and I am glad you could do it. I would also like to add that I come from a family where any of this doesn't happen and I will make sure that it doesn't ever happen.

    • @TheZishan2
      @TheZishan2 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @amansharan5957
      @amansharan5957 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      God blessed for ur families....

  • @sushimita
    @sushimita 3 ปีที่แล้ว +670

    The way this short film has portrayed such a real whole picture from even the smallest of actions captured is just mesmerizing. The patriarchy and casteism is so deep rooted in our society that people dont even realize it or just dont wanna admit it no matter how educated and liberal they want to portray themselves

    • @rjb9239
      @rjb9239 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      I hadnt noticed the "casteism" aspect till I saw how the maid was served in the metal glass. Very deep rooted which makes us blind to this.

    • @70newlife
      @70newlife ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's the opposite in my family mother, sister, neices neither do house work, nor earn money ,nor outside work except attend get togethers and shop for clothes. They can't do work at home nor get work done with maids can't even keep a maid for a year.

    • @Skytopia69
      @Skytopia69 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@70newlife sad life

    • @kaushikrayadurga1592
      @kaushikrayadurga1592 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@70newlife so your mom doesnt cook??

    • @sribardhanpanda2402
      @sribardhanpanda2402 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@rjb9239 another castist mindset which shows how you assumed maid to be lowered cast

  • @Aurosa..
    @Aurosa.. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1918

    *"Being a women is a terribly difficult task, since it consists principally in dealing with men."*
    _Joseph Conrad_

    • @ritusplay
      @ritusplay 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Wow

    • @swadhinsenapati1343
      @swadhinsenapati1343 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Not dear it's not true it's depend on situation have u ever saw the person who works on road , a driver who drive all the night sitting on his sit does they not feel bored overwhelmed it's totally depend on situation

    • @simpslayer7664
      @simpslayer7664 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Oh really!!!🙄

    • @AkanshaGupta
      @AkanshaGupta 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      …And with other women

  • @JyotiSingh007
    @JyotiSingh007 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1304

    men "gossiping" about big things whereas women are actually "doing" things

    • @mstalwarts5047
      @mstalwarts5047 6 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Ocean Javelin if you listen to their conversation they mention that there is a woman in the office who actually has organized the office and does things. So not true that they do things in office. Moreover nowhere in their life it’s shown that the guy does things at work and helps on other days with family, Home etc. it’s bullshit theory. Try spending 8 hours with bickering children and loads of housework etc. easy part is sitting at some desk doing some paperwork

    • @JyotiSingh007
      @JyotiSingh007 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mstalwarts hawk's eye

    • @madhurima128
      @madhurima128 6 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      And then they say that women are better at gossiping..

    • @chandanmallik2697
      @chandanmallik2697 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      ri888 😋 dii

    • @krishnaasuryawanshi
      @krishnaasuryawanshi 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@chandanmallik2697 nahi hoga kuch

  • @manjarisaxena7072
    @manjarisaxena7072 4 ปีที่แล้ว +783

    This film makes me so angry. This is the reality in almost all middle class households in India. To hell with Patriarchy.

    • @anbee8127
      @anbee8127 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Men can't operate without a support system. In my opinion most patriarchs are very insure people. Why do you think men invite guests home only when they have someone at home to put food on the table.

    • @LALITBHARTI999
      @LALITBHARTI999 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Petriarchy comes from MANUSAMRITI ..AND BHRAMINICAL SYSTERM ENCOURAGE THIS SYSTEM ..

    • @tanvirsbmc
      @tanvirsbmc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not only India, the whole Indian subcontinent

    • @012ashana4
      @012ashana4 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@LALITBHARTI999 hahaha have u ever read manusmriti or sirf boli baatein bol rhe ho

    • @012ashana4
      @012ashana4 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@LALITBHARTI999 hahaha have u ever read manusmriti or sirf boli baatein bol rhe ho

  • @sophiabhangu9305
    @sophiabhangu9305 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1226

    A man's carrier is built on grave of wife's dreams and goals

    • @internet_wanderer8316
      @internet_wanderer8316 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      It is career and not carrier

    • @sophiabhangu9305
      @sophiabhangu9305 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      That is the drawback that soon v r gona forget spellings as v depend on auto typing .Anyways it needs correction

    • @internet_wanderer8316
      @internet_wanderer8316 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@sophiabhangu9305 yes very true.

    • @ivanferns6434
      @ivanferns6434 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That's wrong. Not all men are like those morons. It's the culture that's ingrained .

    • @idontcare7165
      @idontcare7165 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Well said but it doesn't apply for everyone

  • @rubicalangstieh8982
    @rubicalangstieh8982 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4590

    I can so relate with this, my dad would bring his friends home for drinks, and mum and i would be busy in the kitchen preparing snacks for them...till one day i could not take it anymore and confronted my dad infront of all his friends....and never did my dad brought his friends again for drinks...my mum could not confront him, i did it for her....

    • @SriramNatarajan25
      @SriramNatarajan25 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      I'm not sure, if such chauvinism exists in the current age. May be it's more the other way around

    • @Anonymous-yf7lr
      @Anonymous-yf7lr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      God bless you..
      Always stay this brave and protect yourself and your mother..
      It's so imp to take stand for ourselves and for our loved ones..
      So happy that you took this step..
      Bless youuuu

    • @pritidarokar4972
      @pritidarokar4972 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Even I have seen this scene in my growing up years,but I guess today’s generation boys are quite sensitive,infact my son complains that more than didi he has to work in the house😃

    • @MrIbu0612
      @MrIbu0612 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Super

    • @animanayak2802
      @animanayak2802 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I wish I could do the same

  • @vihangadulaj1493
    @vihangadulaj1493 3 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    As men we should shame about ourselves. This is an iconic one and slap for all those men who do exactly. Shefali Sha was brilliant there with her heart touching performance.

  • @umeed79
    @umeed79 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1219

    Shefali is a gem. She didn't need to say a word but she slapped the faces of all that were there. And that look of defiance, amazing.

    • @swarnima8555
      @swarnima8555 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      What a great actress

    • @anshi2012
      @anshi2012 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      A good director can make anyone act

  • @bepositive6340
    @bepositive6340 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2275

    This is the story of almost every other house in india.....becoz people treat boys nd girls so differently in there own houses..

    • @Sadidesifamily
      @Sadidesifamily 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Man you said it. Every south asian household worldwide seriously
      ..even middleeastern households...

    • @afifaali3930
      @afifaali3930 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      In pakistan as well

    • @adityajaiswal2696
      @adityajaiswal2696 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I'm suffering from this btw IAM shefali

    • @bobbykartik
      @bobbykartik 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      By who their mom only who is also a girl

    • @SulochanaPS
      @SulochanaPS 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      I m quite lucky to have parents who believed, practised equality. I did always have a good support from them in following my decisions of life n i always lived upto it. I don't like such people who either place girls on head n boys as fools or boys r kings n girls as servants.... lets live n let live

  • @Jyoti-ud6kg
    @Jyoti-ud6kg 4 ปีที่แล้ว +456

    She called her husband for fixing that fan but he didn't even remember..

    • @aasthatyagi3001
      @aasthatyagi3001 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      That's why she came with a juice at the end and sat in front of cooler , she indirectly said "I'm not a robot, I'm a human "

  • @rnnr2127
    @rnnr2127 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1544

    The way the little boy was so confident in talking with superiority to the girl is evident of the fact that boys are trained to feel superior right from their childhood. This is the reflection of the society that we live in, where the difference in the rules for girls and boys is inculcated right from the childhood. Also women accepting and supporting the unacceptable behavior of men boosts their unnecessary ego, some women do it by choice to look "gharlelu" (couldn't think of another word) while some do it out of fear for facing the consequences should they take a stand. As is rightly said, be the change you want to see, the female protagonist took a stand finally starting a new change for herself. I have lost so many friends, because they still believe in this old school behaviour and me taking a stand did not go down well with them accusing my spouse and myself being unethical. I strongly believe they are definitely among the current 4.1K dislikes and I want to say thank you for making room for practical people in my life.

    • @ritikagupta89
      @ritikagupta89 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Your comment is the story of my life. Giving words to my thoughts.

    • @kkk66969
      @kkk66969 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I don't think it was with that attitude the boy spoke. It was rather a "jiski laathi,uski bhaiss" type attitude

    • @the_explorer11121
      @the_explorer11121 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      same as me....some girls thought they look eligent and portray themselves as bechari

    • @anju04aa
      @anju04aa ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes I so agree rn…

    • @psychokiller9824
      @psychokiller9824 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thats bullshit... Go to any house and see the sisters dont take shit from brothers. Dont bring this bs into brother sister relationships

  • @Quickresponse
    @Quickresponse 5 ปีที่แล้ว +628

    They: But she didn't speak anything even after so much.🤔
    Me: I heard her loud. 🙂🙁

    • @SunilKumar-hg3pc
      @SunilKumar-hg3pc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I also here loud that she is expecting her husband that it is not big deal to work in office whole day. You should help wife at home in cooking. I can't understand why these ladies in kitchen..For gossiping instead of helping each other.

    • @lioness9025
      @lioness9025 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Prophet Muhammad cooked, cleaned and took the trash out, your wives arent your maid, they are your partners, be like prophet Muhammad

    • @sonalshukla9447
      @sonalshukla9447 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So true!!!

  • @sumedhwavhal431
    @sumedhwavhal431 3 ปีที่แล้ว +568

    Did anyone notice that the woman served tea to the maid in another "special" cup? That's the nature of India. Castiest at every step.

    • @Timepass-cx1do
      @Timepass-cx1do 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes

    • @aim-er3452
      @aim-er3452 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Me also wondering.. if those women can't give respect to the maid.. how can they expect gender equality..

    • @Rayis4444
      @Rayis4444 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You don’t have to notice it, it’s evident

    • @drvivekb.1678
      @drvivekb.1678 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Utterly sad.

    • @maansitamang
      @maansitamang 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      My aunt also does so... we children were innocent n surprise to see that n by time we also learned but I'm not gonna follow it..

  • @mohannarayanan9649
    @mohannarayanan9649 4 ปีที่แล้ว +485

    I only wish the other ladies had also come and sat there with a glass of juice in their hands. The impact would have been manifold. Male Chauvinism, class/caste discrimination (the way the maid is given the steel glass) all covered in 13m without too much foo faa...

    • @PiyaliSenguptaSings
      @PiyaliSenguptaSings 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      That would have been an even better ending

    • @666arindam
      @666arindam 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      They were also chit chatting only.

    • @gold8780
      @gold8780 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Actually they never realised it the way she did.. They were in the same state of mind as their male counterparts, as far as discrimination was concerned.

    • @cynical2796
      @cynical2796 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      Actually this was the perfect ending because those women represent the majority of women who just stay behind and allow the patriarchy to rule over them. Only very few would unfortunately dare to do what manju was able to do. This ending keeps it realistic without giving it that films feel of all of them did the same thing as well imo.

    • @abhishrutikataky4371
      @abhishrutikataky4371 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes that way the ending would have been even better

  • @rubyrose1399
    @rubyrose1399 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1901

    The only person who was actually helping the leading lady is her servant. But when asked for a cup to offer a tea to the servant, the pregnant woman is giving a steel glass... The eyes of that servant at that time was the most painful one, I think, in this whole film...
    Then obviously, the climax, brilliant...

    • @yousufuddin8956
      @yousufuddin8956 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Ruby Rose pregnant women ko aise Nahi kerna chahiye na

    • @samansiddiquie129
      @samansiddiquie129 5 ปีที่แล้ว +115

      I think there was a massage behind, that even women is not supporting a woman. ( Tho maid was helping women only ).

    • @s.sagarpatra4532
      @s.sagarpatra4532 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      So all the time ,its not about any gender... Samay ane par sab apna rang dikha dete hain

    • @sufyanmiran9277
      @sufyanmiran9277 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It was not good she is same like other ladies

    • @NormalPerson053
      @NormalPerson053 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Sabse bada gyan aurat hi aurat ki sabse badi dushman hai .1st 2 Ladies that countered pregnant women.2nd how small girl was treated .3rd how the maid was treated.

  • @DhruvShah003
    @DhruvShah003 6 ปีที่แล้ว +973

    What a powerful work Neeraj Ghaywan!
    Few things I admired the most:
    1. The dark theme for a "supposed to be" happy get-together. The starting sequence in the beginning conveyed the main message of the film
    2. But it was the small scenes in the film said the larger picture and problems in the society. We all have seen this in our families where woman get cooked up in the kitchen and men enjoy the "time-off" in the living room.
    3. Shefali Shah is par excellence. Manju's character is so well etched, she is not just furious by her husband who ignored the fan-fixing and other man, but she is furious at the other women too who continue to teach other women to be like them. The steel cup for maid and the lady asking her daughter to feed her brother/s (notice she calls them "bhaiya" so the son is older than the daughter).
    4. It not only reflects how men treat woman, but it shows what woman teach other woman/girls when they know it's not right. It also shows the deep casteism and classism in the society, the behavior towards our servants.
    5. The music in the end gave me goosebumps
    Kudos and utmost respect to all the homemakers!

    • @pratyashi191
      @pratyashi191 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Dhruv Shah perfectly written. You my mate, stole my words.

    • @arushimaheshwari5336
      @arushimaheshwari5336 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Also when the daughter was called to help in serving and the boys were still busy playing

    • @rabindrasubhash18
      @rabindrasubhash18 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Very well put, Dhruv

    • @desisaheb8300
      @desisaheb8300 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well said, that’s the dark reality of our society.

    • @vivekodhi
      @vivekodhi 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dhruv Shah well written

  • @ameeagrawal7329
    @ameeagrawal7329 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1657

    The video is something else. Honestly. With barely 4-5 dialogues of Shefali how the society badly treats a woman is shown
    Firstly after marriage she is the maid of the house.
    She has to cook clean and take care of every little thing while the so called "man of the house" enjoys drinking alcohol and smoking cigarette
    Secondly when all the women are traeted the same in their respective households , still instead of supporting each other they make sure to bring each other down.
    They just are standing in the kitchen in the name of helping the host lady. They are obviously seeing her struggle with the chicken dish , even then no comes forward to help her. On the top of that 2 of them are watching videos.
    These socalled friends even want to damage your relationships and dynamics with anyone for eg. Here the maid.
    It is obvious that the househelp lady and the protagonist have more connection than the boss-servent relationship still that pregnant lady interferes in their dynamics.
    And sadly the protagonist lets her do it coz after pregnant lady is her so called friend and the househelp lady.
    Moreover the mothers are forcing their own children to such toxic patriarchy.
    And that husband? The talks about Emperor Akbars dysentery are so important to him that he cant even help his wife.
    The effect of men being superior than women has also been embedded in the innocent minds of those children.
    Only fighting for Hindus and Muslims is not the only problem in our society.
    If you open your eyes and are more receptive in your daily life , you will find so many things that you can stop and correct. Just to make our community our society a better place

    • @deepatiwari545
      @deepatiwari545 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So true

    • @theserialbunny424
      @theserialbunny424 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Amee Agrawal men are sitting and bitching out their boss cause she’s a woman

    • @manishkumar-oo9jd
      @manishkumar-oo9jd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wel said

    • @nidaayaz9425
      @nidaayaz9425 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Superb sir ..u give good msg

    • @anngeorge467
      @anngeorge467 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wooow thank you for pointing out some of the more subtle details! Wonderfully done!

  • @pranjalisingh438
    @pranjalisingh438 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1031

    To all the men who have shown realisation, empathy and understanding after watching this video, you are what we need more of. As i scrolled through the comments i expected positive comments from women and negative feedback from men because that's what we commonly witness, and when i saw all these men being supportive and understanding, it felt like like hope. Share your awareness with others too. Change starts with ypu

    • @yatishchandra7082
      @yatishchandra7082 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      In the last decade india has changed manifold in middle urban class
      Rural remains the same, no idea of ultra high segment, they are on a diffeent altitude, but india is rapidly changing

    • @raghav_11aug
      @raghav_11aug 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      कभी कभी मैं यह सोचता हूं की सभी नारियां विद्रोह कर दे तो हम आदमी लोगो को अपनी औकात याद आ जाए। ये किसने तय किया की औरते ही घर का सारा काम करेंगी चाहे वो आदमी के बराबर कमाती हो। यदि औरत बाहर का काम कर सकती है तो पुरुषो को भी घर का काम करना ही चाइए। औरते कोई नौकरानी थोड़ी है। 80 प्रतिशत आदमी आज भी औरत को अपना गुलाम ही समझते है। गुस्सा और भी अधिक तब आता है जब देखते हे की औरत ही औरत की सबसे बड़ी दुश्मन है।

    • @anonymousagni2
      @anonymousagni2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why didn't they purchase one more cooler ?? Flipkart Amazon par itne offer chalte rhte hai ..

    • @rv264
      @rv264 ปีที่แล้ว

      When will women start being supportive to men ?

    • @samiksharaj-sf3dc
      @samiksharaj-sf3dc ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@anonymousagni2 are u joking or u really did not understand a single thing???

  • @drawwithfun2335
    @drawwithfun2335 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Is video me hi dekho sare k sare aadmi kitni faltu ki jaruri baaten kar rahe hai unke to hatho me mehndi jo lagi Hui hua bethe bethe roti todna hai bs

  • @just_vaib
    @just_vaib 6 ปีที่แล้ว +800

    that tear,anger,resistance n pain in her eyes omg shefali ma'am is a gem to bollywood

    • @ruchikapaul1106
      @ruchikapaul1106 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Actually she is a gem to Bollywood...wat an actress.... excellent !!!

    • @anjanaarora8775
      @anjanaarora8775 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Vaibhav Singh very true
      Shefali is a marvellous performer but she is less active since years

    • @akashrai3397
      @akashrai3397 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      She is superb,but not recognize

    • @rdrshandilya
      @rdrshandilya 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@anjanaarora8775 But girls should only clean , cook and spread her legs that's what I believe....tell me If I am wrong 🤨!!

  • @neverghost4507
    @neverghost4507 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3081

    Love when the message is portrayed through silences.. it's impactful.

    • @MrJabedking
      @MrJabedking 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I didn’t get the ending

    • @AhadAlex
      @AhadAlex 6 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      She opposed the patriarchy by sitting among men instead of being confined to kitchen. Vive le resistance!

    • @vmeitvyas5256
      @vmeitvyas5256 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Kavika Singhal yes

    • @amitkumar-zi4mb
      @amitkumar-zi4mb 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yeah they didn't have budget for dialogues

    • @amanshaikhsk4637
      @amanshaikhsk4637 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Kavika Singhal nice

  • @reach2anisha
    @reach2anisha 6 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    I think JUICE in the film is an antithesis to everything around. it is an antithesis to the dryness around, the dryness in the chicken served, the chicken in the kadhayi which got stuck, the hot and roasted baingan which she was struggling to peel, the spicy ghughni demanded, the humidity and compactness in the set up and especially the juice that had gone from her life and which she was in dire need of. When in the hall, the juice was an antithesis to the alcoholic drinks with men. And the entire sequence of her gulping down the juice (with a sound and an expression of relief) in front of men with their empty and half empty glasses of drink and the half eaten chicken pieces (very masculine set up), was an act of reinforcing her existence, an act of breaking the compactness in the woman's life and a rebel against the men and their fairy land world of "Trump trumped Hillary" and irrelevant topics of interest (which is already obvious).

    • @saeedsincere6465
      @saeedsincere6465 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You are such genius & good school of thought

    • @adhurasa
      @adhurasa 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Wow... excellent observation and explanation

    • @RAHULk-gd2tz
      @RAHULk-gd2tz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Finally found a deep analysis of the story,
      after scrolling a lot...

    • @dhaivatyagnik284
      @dhaivatyagnik284 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow! That's perfect. Amazing analysis.🙏🙏💯💯

    • @kirthicarajamanickam5240
      @kirthicarajamanickam5240 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Unique, real observation 💐💐💐

  • @kgirishchandra
    @kgirishchandra 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2092

    I am guilty of a similar behavior with my wife. I am guilty of not being sensitive enough to understand what she goes through. Guilty of blaming her for not being vocal enough. Men like me need to bring this insensitivity towards their wives to their awareness. This video helps me realize I am like these men in the video. This video helps me see me through my wives lens. Thank you!

    • @vitragshah956
      @vitragshah956 4 ปีที่แล้ว +151

      salute to you..you have guts to say about your behaviour..not everyone have this guts

    • @anngeorge467
      @anngeorge467 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Good for you man.... Its lovely that you can say this out loud! Cheers!

    • @beautifulyou2815
      @beautifulyou2815 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      It's not too late...

    • @ruchis2687
      @ruchis2687 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Good for you

    • @coffin3050
      @coffin3050 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      You better mend your ways dude

  • @dristisikha1
    @dristisikha1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +613

    The scene where the mother comes and calls her daughter to serve her brothers, that is when the patriarchy pervaded. Irony but a women herself promotes patriarchy subconsciously. Excellent performance by the whole cast.

    • @pavikacuteness4879
      @pavikacuteness4879 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Gud

    • @kshitijs6422
      @kshitijs6422 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hmm so woman see patriarchy curse patriarchy comment on social media against patriarchy but still allow oneself to fall prey to patriarchy.... ridiculous

    • @jinendragupta5289
      @jinendragupta5289 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Spot on !

    • @Rhea390
      @Rhea390 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Women have gotten so comfortable with patriarchy​ that they'll complain about it but won't try to find a way out. It's this "it sucks but I have to do it" type of mentality. Unfortunately they don't realise that there is another way.

    • @NehaMishra-zz1yp
      @NehaMishra-zz1yp 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dristisikha Baruah so true...

  • @victordutta798
    @victordutta798 3 ปีที่แล้ว +158

    I always tell my mom not to serve anyone, everyone got hands, they can to it themselves. I ask my cousins not to call their mom just to serve them a spoon of food, when you can easily do it yourself. These are all 'bout upbringing. You can just be independent and teach these basic habits to everyone around you.

    • @deekk2995
      @deekk2995 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Absolutely and this shit annoys me.. After long working hours in the heat and even serving food to children who got two healthy hands is really disturbing and makes me angry ...

    • @victordutta798
      @victordutta798 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@deekk2995 absolutely... We don't need to spoon feed anybody.. Let everyone be at their own
      💯

    • @sykbot
      @sykbot 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Are you asking a mother not to feed her children? Just a thought don't take it as offense .

    • @victordutta798
      @victordutta798 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@sykbot feed and serve food? You know the meaning?

    • @sykbot
      @sykbot 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@victordutta798 got it Thank you

  • @sameersekhar1539
    @sameersekhar1539 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +65

    this is probably the 20th time I am watching this short film. Never gets old and such a simple yet powerful piece of art.

    • @prachisharma5619
      @prachisharma5619 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Absolutely! I am here for the second time but this short film stays in my mind rent free.

    • @rdrshandilya
      @rdrshandilya 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think you are out of work

    • @rdrshandilya
      @rdrshandilya 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hey tmkc

  • @Sunny_srivastava109
    @Sunny_srivastava109 6 ปีที่แล้ว +608

    I know cooking (as I am studying away from my home I know cooking, dish cleaning etc I mean everything)
    but whenever I thought about my life after marriage I feel like I will not do all these works after my marriage!!
    This short movie makes me realise their situation... I will not leave her alone to face all this
    Well done guys that was eye opening stuff for me!! Seriously hats off

    • @Vini-xf8zq
      @Vini-xf8zq 6 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      sunny Srivastava wow you'd make a good husband... A good father and you're definitely a good son

    • @Sunny_srivastava109
      @Sunny_srivastava109 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Bhavini V well I can't say I can become wat u mentioned there... But ya definitely.. I will try to be one 😊😊😊

    • @tanujchauhan5513
      @tanujchauhan5513 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      glad to know ur mindset ..sir be kind to ur wife ..we r olso humans we nve hesitate to wrk our assess off for the family but in return we want admirations for the wrk we r doing no mttr u hlp or not ur commanding wrds if replaced by a simple gesture of love can mk us n boost us to do alot more..in the end be kind n considerate

    • @navamisatish7591
      @navamisatish7591 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Great!

    • @premanjaliprasad7183
      @premanjaliprasad7183 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Awesome, man... hope you keep this in your mind till and after your marriage.... All the best.

  • @rahimlashari1562
    @rahimlashari1562 5 ปีที่แล้ว +212

    My heart cried when the maid was given the chai in the spared steel cup, and what a silent but yet so powerfull ending. Brillient work

  • @kobitagulo
    @kobitagulo 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    'women' bolne wala boys kidhar gayi?!

  • @mathewshama4906
    @mathewshama4906 5 ปีที่แล้ว +436

    The Only person who can put Emotions into acting without saying a word is Shifalli shah... one of my favourite actress..👍🏼👍🏼

    • @mihirnath6946
      @mihirnath6946 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      yor mom aslo

    • @lioness9025
      @lioness9025 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Prophet Muhammad cooked, cleaned and took the trash out, your wives arent your maid, they are your partners, be like prophet Muhammad

    • @ringwratih
      @ringwratih 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      👎

    • @abhinav4change
      @abhinav4change 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/EJkYigkxYXg/w-d-xo.html

    • @lioness9025
      @lioness9025 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@abhinav4change Please watch these videos on youtube( the throne of Allah by merciful servant), (4 stories that tell us who prophet Muhammad really was by One Islam production), (crying for the prophet emotional by the daily reminder), (tears of our prophet in dua by ILovUAllah), (daimonds of Islam by ILovUAllah)

  • @soodhag2412
    @soodhag2412 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1668

    Those who disliked this video are those who are use to sit on sofa n keep ordering to their wife..same as the men in this video..such a fool they needed a maid not a life partner😡😡😠..

    • @shivangijain7325
      @shivangijain7325 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      You are right dear
      Shameless !!!!!

    • @yousufuddin8956
      @yousufuddin8956 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Bilkul Sahen kaha apne they should keep maid

    • @NormalPerson053
      @NormalPerson053 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Mam they are called drawing room intellectuals.Who knows all shit in world but can't see efforts and hard work of their own wife ,mother,sister and daughters .

    • @siyaverma
      @siyaverma 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      right

    • @shubhasmitapradhan635
      @shubhasmitapradhan635 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Exactly they are also not able to a life partner of anyone

  • @shreya8443
    @shreya8443 3 ปีที่แล้ว +548

    We appreciate boys for washing their own plate(or even we appreciate them for picking it up) so why can't we appreciate women for keeping the whole house clean, taking care of kids, making food for everyone, handling relatives' dramas?

    • @AkanshaGupta
      @AkanshaGupta 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Because women are taken for granted to do this as part of their dna

    • @Mashup_meals
      @Mashup_meals 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes my mom nvr appreciate me just orders.. Bt say thank you beta to my brother.. Whenever he just picks the plate n put it to basin

    • @krsna9623
      @krsna9623 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Why can't boys handle relatives and take care of kids. Both should help

    • @Chaitanya_Bhorkar
      @Chaitanya_Bhorkar 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Mashup_meals well its the opposite in my house I do everything and my sister just sits and barks orders at me.But I'm okay with it as she's young. But both men and women need to be self dependent.

    • @m22d889
      @m22d889 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That is where the problem is. Boys should not be appreciated for doing something as simple as that. The more we dramatise the household chores and how big a deal it is for a man/boy to do it, the harder it is going to be to break this mold of patriarchy in our society.
      It's not a big deal if a boy or girl pick up their plates or even wash it after eating. It's your plate after all.

  • @shivangipandey9176
    @shivangipandey9176 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This happens always...... No matter how tired women is.... She have to do all the chores. It's fixed. Unsaid compulsion. If u deny it pdh likhi h feminists bn rhi h this is straight reply u get....... Accept everything keep smiling obey everyone don't laugh don't talk don't show ur anger be polite... And then too when finally u say something they say she's just trying to play victim card

  • @dhrubajyotighosh7674
    @dhrubajyotighosh7674 4 ปีที่แล้ว +539

    Now I am pursuing medical career (studying MBBS) and I promise that when I would be married, I would prove myself to be the best husband in this world.

    • @lyba411
      @lyba411 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      I sincerely hope that ur words are true cause even a single man can bring a huge change.. If u mean it then at least your wife and daughters won't have to suffer.. Thanks

    • @pinkcreation171
      @pinkcreation171 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Kya soch h !!!!!!

    • @dhrubajyotighosh7674
      @dhrubajyotighosh7674 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@pinkcreation171 🤣🤣

    • @dhrubajyotighosh7674
      @dhrubajyotighosh7674 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @indian lad Lmao🤣🤣🤣🤣 yeah may be

    • @anweshaganguly9904
      @anweshaganguly9904 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nice

  • @siddharthsharma5749
    @siddharthsharma5749 6 ปีที่แล้ว +156

    Thank god my father is not like this when he comes from office he helps my mother in kitchen and is very caring i love him i will never argue with him

    • @anupmankame
      @anupmankame 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      God bless you

    • @mariabasit908
      @mariabasit908 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      reepika sharma Iam very proud of you. I also don't do this my father is not also like this and I don't argue with him

    • @okay...boomer.
      @okay...boomer. 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      reepika sharma you're a lucky human, I'm happy for you and your family

    • @soniyakhadke1424
      @soniyakhadke1424 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      reepika sharma ☺☺

  • @badalpandey
    @badalpandey 6 ปีที่แล้ว +191

    If you are angry and choose not to speak, this is how you breathe. Awesome acting by Shefali (y)

    • @radhikapasricha1880
      @radhikapasricha1880 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bipin Pandey on point

    • @mecss8910
      @mecss8910 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bilkul sahi farmaaya Pandey ji..... Bit off topic, I used to refer people with Pandey surname as Pandey.... but then "OFFICE OFFICE" taught me its always Pandey Ji.... :P

  • @narendragupta6880
    @narendragupta6880 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    A perfect example of "ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS"

  • @paglils1990
    @paglils1990 6 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    The little girl who carries the dishes for her brother reminded me of myself. I am the most pampered one in the house after two brothers. But these little things always showed up. They could sit and chat and play while carrying the tea tray was girls' job. And it seemed like natural selection. This has been persistent over the years. It doesn't make a difference whether you do a job or not, you are young or old, women are treated in same way across cultures. Sometimes women themselves glorify it. It is the worst part. And in a family setup, you can't ask questions to your mum. Like the little girl was shut up and made to carry the plates, trust me the scene is so original, I could see myself in her.
    Thanks for the film.

    • @yousufuddin8956
      @yousufuddin8956 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      arunima sengupta Abhi change aya life mein ya app bhi apne Bache se plates outhate ho

    • @rdrshandilya
      @rdrshandilya 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@yousufuddin8956 But girls should only clean , cook and spread her legs that's what I believe....tell me If I am wrong 🤨!!

  • @rispiraj6667
    @rispiraj6667 5 ปีที่แล้ว +137

    It should have been JUstICE instead of JUICE.

    • @somyajain4545
      @somyajain4545 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      This comment is highly underrated!!

    • @super15388
      @super15388 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      he removed ST... nahi to racist ho jata

    • @somyajain4545
      @somyajain4545 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@super15388 what??!!!

    • @FilmiSeriesAdventures
      @FilmiSeriesAdventures 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@super15388 u are racist , who dont even know the difference between casteism or racism ... stop giving stupid ideas ..keep it with urself .. either appreciate or just go away ..some men like u do this what is shown up there .

    • @super15388
      @super15388 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@FilmiSeriesAdventures U totally misunderstood the irony... Most people do... And talk in ironies... Mostly...

  • @triptisadana3609
    @triptisadana3609 6 ปีที่แล้ว +230

    Mostly comments r done by females. nd men don't have d time to watch n understand such a great msg

    • @yousufuddin8956
      @yousufuddin8956 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Tripti Sadana Maine dekha hai Yeh video bohat he acha msg hai time to be change

    • @jatinrokde7101
      @jatinrokde7101 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      No, it's not true.. In fact I'd love to pamper my wife in future.. Getting up early than her and cooking breakfast for both of us, I mean it would be great 😍😍

    • @saneenmustafa8339
      @saneenmustafa8339 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      No madam. We do respect women.

    • @ashish4165
      @ashish4165 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think male feels shame himself

    • @ashishpnaik3383
      @ashishpnaik3383 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Not true mam. Those who have seen the difficulty faced by their mom and sisters can understand the pain of women.

  • @NS__
    @NS__ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Did you noticed how the men were complaining about women not being able to handle difficult tasks and responsibilities while their women were doing all the kitchen work, working like hell in the hot environment.

  • @ayeshaali6483
    @ayeshaali6483 4 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    Ohhh my God! Those eyes of Shefali... her expressions.... her demeanour... less dialogues but 200% expressions!!! Hats off to her and the director of this video!!!! Standing ovations 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @Feel_Dont_watch
    @Feel_Dont_watch 4 ปีที่แล้ว +151

    Equality begins from home!!
    And we need to understand this

  • @mypackmypower1996
    @mypackmypower1996 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    i use be like this when i was a kid sitting with my father and everything was done my mother and i was started to become like my father but as i crossed 18 slowly i started to realize and started to cook for myself and now i cook for my mother and do everything even tho my father still the same even threatened my father if you keep enslaving my mother then it will have a very bad consequence from my side.

  • @peaceandcalm698
    @peaceandcalm698 5 ปีที่แล้ว +820

    Another thing people missed here is how some people treat maids! 6:10 the other lady pulled out a broken glass for the maid! Why? How would we feel if in our work place boss drinking tea in a cup and given the employee a broken glass... Things we should think about!!

    • @deepaklegaldeepak
      @deepaklegaldeepak 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Yes. A lot of feminazis are out here hitting on men, that is okay but they should look also how they treat the other women.

    • @Vidya_Menon
      @Vidya_Menon 5 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Yes, that was a very subtle yet powerful bit. We should treat the didi like a human being. She works for you, but she is no slave and deserves as much dignity and respect as you would expect for urself.

    • @muskanmankani7105
      @muskanmankani7105 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      👍🏽

    • @handsomeheart2000
      @handsomeheart2000 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      This was a great observation, even women arent saints, if they treat the help with such prejudice. I loved the movie, it shows inequality to deep levels.

    • @ichigoalexi5458
      @ichigoalexi5458 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This is so true.

  • @Straightforward786
    @Straightforward786 4 ปีที่แล้ว +694

    when her hand is burnt none of the lady's cared to show concern except for the housemaid... but when it comes to serving one cup of tea.. they want to give her in some small glass.. that is the same thing happened to them from their husbands.. whatever care you show.. you will get the same on how you treated others..

    • @surajmaurya2553
      @surajmaurya2553 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      👌👌👌Good observation. But both are different things you can't compare both wrong doings while both are wrongs

    • @Straightforward786
      @Straightforward786 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@surajmaurya2553 its almost the same..the maid is working her skin off morning and night and daily..and she is still treated badly as if they don't care...the wives are working badly to make all arrangements...husbands are treating as if they are not doing anything...its just on how we see as things are taken for granted..like a maid is being paid and in house to do all the work and no need to give credit or Respect for her... similarly husband is feeling...a wife is there to cook for him..to take of the guest and make arrangements..as he is earning and bringing food for her and its her duty to do these things...no need to be credited or respected....

    • @petraalbatra9898
      @petraalbatra9898 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      But manju asked for a cup for the maid. The pregnant woman was the one who gave her that broken glass for the maid

    • @Straightforward786
      @Straightforward786 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@petraalbatra9898 when she gave old broken glass.. she cud have objected and asked for a cup only..after all its her house.. but she felt she will go down infront of her friends if she gives respect to her maid..

    • @petraalbatra9898
      @petraalbatra9898 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@Straightforward786 I totally agree with you. But that is what the film is trying to show. In the whole movie she is trying to please others according to the priorities but in the end she gets frustrated and does whatever she wants to do

  • @the24thintrovert
    @the24thintrovert 5 ปีที่แล้ว +661

    I will never treat my future wife like this.
    A wife is not a maid.

    • @shomnadutta
      @shomnadutta 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      That is such great thoughts.may god bless you with all the happiness in life

    • @Vidya_Menon
      @Vidya_Menon 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Appreciate the thought. And never let other bigots ever make you change your mind brother.

    • @harshitajaiswal555
      @harshitajaiswal555 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Bless you. .. only flowers of love n positivity blossoms on soil made of love. . Don't worry you'll get the most loving wife

    • @PrinceMandal
      @PrinceMandal 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      That doesn't mean you will treat your maid like that way.

    • @harshitajaiswal555
      @harshitajaiswal555 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@PrinceMandal true ...one should only ask for what they pay n nothing more or less than that from a maid

  • @abhijeetankush7142
    @abhijeetankush7142 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Unpopular Fact :-
    We see this almost everywhere happens to our Moms, sisters, Wife, friend but the sad part is We don't realise until some brilliant director makes short film on it

  • @ABHISHEKKUMAR-ou1bd
    @ABHISHEKKUMAR-ou1bd 5 ปีที่แล้ว +302

    My mother and Manju both are same, apart from that scene when Manju took a glass of juice. Mother didn't able to do this till now since 25 years of her marriage.
    Love you mummy ❤️

    • @brendanadar4588
      @brendanadar4588 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      So you are saying that u are proud abt it?

    • @ABHISHEKKUMAR-ou1bd
      @ABHISHEKKUMAR-ou1bd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@brendanadar4588 No I was telling my mom didn't able to do so.. but still tolerating so many shit so that's why I wrote at last "love u Mum" it's related to all mum there.. love and respect.

    • @ABHISHEKKUMAR-ou1bd
      @ABHISHEKKUMAR-ou1bd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@brendanadar4588 what my mom didn't do in 25yrs which she(the character) did.. I am regretting on behind of my mom. 🙏✌️
      Thanks 4 writing dear on my comment by the way. ❤️

    • @brendanadar4588
      @brendanadar4588 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @abhishek kumar thats awesome❤

    • @drishtiagrawal8344
      @drishtiagrawal8344 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      But why didn't you help her to do this ?? If you are proud of her , you should make sure that she too should too be proud of you by making her comfortable .

  • @SaumyaBharati
    @SaumyaBharati 5 ปีที่แล้ว +363

    So many small subtle details and perfect ending. Kudos to the writer!

  • @sanskritidwivedi4757
    @sanskritidwivedi4757 6 ปีที่แล้ว +559

    Oh...good.....the reality of our society has been protrayed in such a nice way......loved it guys...great work

    • @LargeShortFilms
      @LargeShortFilms  6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you Sanskriti. We keep trying:-)

  • @NehemiahTudu
    @NehemiahTudu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    When I was child, I was asked to do some household works like brooming floors and courtyard, mopping, washing my own dishes, washing my own clothes. I used to get angry, why I am asked to do such feminist works. Because I used to feel embarrassed that I am treating as girl. This is how my friends and neighbours used to tease me. But as I entered in my graduation, which is a residential institute, there I had to do my stuff ownself and I never felt difficulties in adjusting because I was used to with the household works. Then I realised that actually I was never treated as girl rather I was trained to be independent and was taught lesson of equality.
    So, I feel proud of my parent's thought and feel pity on my neighbours and friends whose thinking is still stereotype.

  • @monicasharma3023
    @monicasharma3023 5 ปีที่แล้ว +227

    Ye jo culture ha na when men get together for drinks and wives are serving them this is so damn irritating....plz women don't treat them like lords have some self respect

    • @SunilKumar-hg3pc
      @SunilKumar-hg3pc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ye jo culture h na, a man should work in office in whole day and wife stay at home doing some house work 3,4 hours end than expecting her husband to help in washing utencil after come from office.
      Its simple mam man work outside and woman inside.

    • @monicasharma3023
      @monicasharma3023 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@SunilKumar-hg3pc sharabi husbands ki sewa Ko u can't call work slavery Bolte ha isse..and yes women should also earn husband ka hi farz nahi ha earn krna..men should do household work so that women can move out and do some productive work

    • @kritinandarai7038
      @kritinandarai7038 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@SunilKumar-hg3pc and those children..those boys who were only playing video games nd what was girls fault that she had to serve food to the boys haan..and btw even a women is working or non working she has to treat everyone above herself...and men working or non working they behave like they r god...! And we know the reality how frustrating is that when u r chilling with everyone but suddenly u have to get up and bring food for everyone bcz u r the only one responsible for that..!

    • @SunilKumar-hg3pc
      @SunilKumar-hg3pc 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@monicasharma3023 yadi pati sharabi h to gar kaise chal raha h, kon paise la raha h... Serving food for husband is not called slavery it's called called cheap mentally with ful of feminism. If both are working than it is good to do household work together.

    • @SunilKumar-hg3pc
      @SunilKumar-hg3pc 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kritinandarai7038 it's wrong to tell girl child to serve food for boys it's mother responsibility to serve food for children. If she is not working as working partner has finished his by earning food. Working or non working Husband as a god mentality is a thing of past. It is lost due to feminism culture followed.

  • @biokart
    @biokart 6 ปีที่แล้ว +518

    I remembered my mother and wife while watching this! I have been so insensitive! Shame on me! Has been an eye opener this film! ☹️😪

    • @weirdverma
      @weirdverma 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Karthik Natarajan And this is what this short film intends to do. If everyone realizes this then we don't need such shorts.

    • @CoronaVirus-fu3zl
      @CoronaVirus-fu3zl 6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      you are south indian and have the courage to see your faults. most north indians commenting here dont even want to admit it let alone try to correct it. and they are 1000 times more exploitative than south indians.

    • @aruniljaiswal7093
      @aruniljaiswal7093 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      So now u help them?

    • @biokart
      @biokart 6 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Arunil Jaiswal I do....I clean the utensils after dinner, I iron the clothes for the week, dry the clothes and fold them and sort them post drying, mop the house during weekends. Still these chores are way too less compared to what the ladies do, but I still make it a point to do these religiously

    • @mandeepk6440
      @mandeepk6440 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      +Karthik Natarajan good bhai aese hi koshish karte rho. . . aek dusre ka sath dete dete hi to zindagi jine ka maza hai. ....good luck your family. ...

  • @ellytam1185
    @ellytam1185 6 ปีที่แล้ว +226

    this is what feminism and gender equality about. mentality and so called tradition.
    it is an unhealthy tradition to pass on, the little girl experience and the way the little boy threatened her, the husbands and the male relatives (the conversation context), the husband and wife treatment, the women with the tradition and belief practices (which she didn't explain to her daughter), the way the maid was treated (just because she was a lower class labor), and social expectation and judgment (married or not married, have children or no children).
    India or not India, Chinese, western and other Asian countries. Women, Men, Children.
    such a powerful short film! i look forward for more film like this

    • @abhishekramkumar8875
      @abhishekramkumar8875 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Elly Tam this indeed is what feminism is, we support your cause fully

    • @subhratmoran
      @subhratmoran 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Elly Tam ....my dad too

  • @nusratansari1081
    @nusratansari1081 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Main ne 12 saal tak aisi hi zindagi ji hai. Job bhi kiya, bachchon ko sambhala, sasural walaun ki khidmat ki. ۔. ۔. ۔. ۔

  • @sumitpandey9009
    @sumitpandey9009 6 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    That final glare by Shefali Shah. Damn! Goosebumps!

  • @Vens8
    @Vens8 3 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    Just goosebumps as the woman sat on the chair with the juice in her hand staring at the men in disappointment...

  • @meenakshiagarwal4830
    @meenakshiagarwal4830 6 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    that maid scene was also impactful...

    • @vyshali6340
      @vyshali6340 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      meenakshi agarwal what was that about? I don't think I understood..

    • @riyayadav5367
      @riyayadav5367 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      vyshali chowdary she was a dalit . This is why she was being served tea in a separate iron cup and others had crockery cup.

    • @vyshali6340
      @vyshali6340 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ritu Yadav damnnnn. Thank you :) ☀

    • @sagarbro
      @sagarbro 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      meenakshi agarwal indeed :)

    • @mahekchetiwal3500
      @mahekchetiwal3500 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yup, but that was mainly about that she wanted the maid to stay and help her at such a hectic time. She would have been of great help to her and the chai was the sign that "I am offering something to you and in return, you should help me". And the other was caste discrimination as she was also offering the tea in a different type of cup.

  • @mohammedsufiyan8400
    @mohammedsufiyan8400 5 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    There are few moments from this short movie that shows the patriarchal world sadly still exists in our society
    1) It is unacceptable to have a competent working women in the corporate life
    2) A girl child is to serve the food to her brothers because they are boys!
    3) The women can adjust with everything such as a broken fan while the men needs cooler that should be set right by a woman

    • @swati.a.chandan5126
      @swati.a.chandan5126 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Also the fact that while she is toiling in the kitchen, man calls her to serve food to everybody by howling "jaldi aao bhai".

    • @gold8780
      @gold8780 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      But the good part is that Our Generation can make a difference! :)

    • @anusreet9006
      @anusreet9006 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@gold8780 yes

    • @sarcastichum
      @sarcastichum 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      And leave their jobs also bczz at the end diaper toh aurton ko hi badalna h..I really felt that