Sorry things didn’t work out. It’s good you recognised early that it wasn’t going to work. Once you’ve processed things you can look forward to more future dates and fun!!!
You have an amazing friend. Keep her, she’s so cool and fun. And she can cook. Sorry about date guy, you looked a bit sad. Remember it’s a bad day not a bad life. We learn from what we live. And your dresses were amazing💕
Thank you Linda for such a sweet message 💗 Ashanti is amazing! Very grateful for our friendship. People come and go! It’s part of life… learnt a lot about myself & things I need to work on because of this experience
You mentioned anxiety. I would encourage you to move your desk near a window. The light and stimuli help, especially when I work from home also. I had my desk in our guest bedroom and moved to the front living room where there is a lot of light and windows and it has helped.
I wish my apartment layout was a bit different. I get natural light in my bedroom but not my living room (I wish it was the opposite). I don’t want to move my work desk to bedroom because I want distinction of space between work versus rest.. in my old apartment both my bed and office were in the same room and it didn’t work out. Hoping my next apartment willl get ton of natural light 💗
Loved all three dresses, such beautiful colours. My favourite was the second one, the dark green really suits you (plus it is one of my favourite colours)!
First of all thank you for being open about your dating life. I’m sorry that things do not work out for you but you can be very happy about yourself. You are very aware of yourself and an amazing woman. If one door close, an other door will open! Much love💕You have a super kind friend, her name is amazing. Ashanti, is the tribe/ethnicity where I’m from. What food did she brought you? Was it African or Caribbean food? It sounded very delicious. PS: I like the 2nd dress the most. Xoxo, Cherry 🍒
Thank you so so much Cherry 💗. People come and go and this is part of the dating experience. Learnt a lot about myself and things I need to work on! Ashanti is amazing. Very grateful for our friendship. She is from Belize. Thats beautiful! Where is your tribe from? These were leftover from their work family dinner (they cook after end of the shift). Her coworker made plantain and pork stew with coconut milk (Ecuadorian) and lentil stew. Food was really good! Ended up going with the first one… it helps to complete the bridesmaid ombré look for the wedding :)
Tisha! im sorry to hear that, i thought things were going well! This kinda stuff builds character so its a good sign :). And for the dress i reeeaaaalllly liked the second one
I hope you're okay Tisha. Have some 'me' time to gather yourself together for a while. I see a very beautiful, stylish young lady who has a full life, and that's great. Oh, and I thought the dark green dress looked lovely. Hugs, and take care x
It's always a delight watching your videos. I've been watching your videos for some time now and it's so lovely to see you move forward in life and take care of yourself. I hope you are doing okay after that.. sending you warm hugs from Kathmandu❤
If it doesn't work out then its not meant to be. There is a fabulous young man out there just waiting to meet you. You're such a beautiful woman and you just got to find him or he has to find you. But dont rush it, take your time be picky, have fun. It will happen ❤ Just move on, its nothing but a thang! And your hair is so pretty 😍 just letting you know!
I feel you about work. We sometimes have to remind ourselves about the gratitude for the job and means to care for our lives. I was on holiday this week and had work contact me on my days off....sigh. at least they need me...? I am a fan of Ashanti. She is a good friend and I agree with her picks. She isn't fronting with her critiques of the try ons. Chape is doing so well!! He is settling into life in NY too... You are surrounded by peoples who love you!
Thank you so much!!! Finding a good balance between work and life is so challenging!! Hope you didn’t have to work too long during your vacation. Ashanti is amazing! I appreciate her honesty and I am very grateful for our friendship 💗. Jhaape is doing amazing! So proud of him 🙌🏽🐶
Sorry to hear that things didn’t work out for you and date guy, but you have to go with your instincts and make the decisions that are best for you. Hope your stress levels lessen and the upcoming week isn’t too busy - take care of yourself Tisha❣️
So sorry that things didn't quite work out and it was a little sad to hear your voice at the end but you always shine and all will happen when the time is right. Jhaape will feel your heart and he'll shower you with even more love and cuddles.
The best friends are the ones you can do nothing with and still have a great time. Your chef friend is funny too! 😊 Also I liked the first dress best! And after the wedding you could have it hemmed it to midi or mini length so you can wear it more than once. 🤗 Lastly, life is short. Buy the sunnies. ❤
Ashanti is amazing! Her and I can just do random mundane things and still have a great time. Love how real she is ♥️. That is such a great idea! I think most likely I’ll do midi length. Not ready to make a plunge yet for the sunnies… maybe next year :))
Hey! Tisha your vlogs are so so beautiful and I really love your vlogs so so much you're looking too beautiful and I wish you have a beautiful weekend💫🙂💕
I'm sorry to hear things didn't work out.The right person will come along, it's just a matter of time. Hopefully, the time you spent with him brought something to your life. Now onward and upward.🥰🤗🥰🤗.
Thank you! Yeah it happens.. people come and go from our life. Learnt a lot from about myself & things I need to work on. Always onward and upward ♥️♥️♥️
I like the second darker green gown!I know I was really in love once..........I just cant find another man that I have that same feeling with and I wont settle.I actually love being single..... then with a guy that bores me.
AHH bless you hope you're not too sad,thank you for still putting up content when times are tough. I look forward to seeing it every week,as I've said before its like the real sex in the city lol.UK.x
Thank you Sharon 💗. I am doing good! i don’t take our community for granted and try my best to keep up with the commitment of showing up :)) Hahaha! I like to think it that way as well!
jhaape was looking so darn cute on the bed & when he was getting his harness on. I didn't think the 2nd dress or lighter green one were as flattering on you as the others. Ashanti is the friend everyone needs in their life, a true friend indeed. Sorry the date guy pairing didn't work out but I do have to say your face never really lit up when you talked about him or were on your way to see him. Just my unasked for 2 cents worth of opinion. Hoping the week ahead goes smoothly for you & you get some much needed sleep.
Thank you for the well wishes Bonnie 💗. Jhaape is doing so well!! He is adorable. For the bridesmaid dress, I ended up doing the 1st one. It will help to complete the ombré green look for the wedding :). Ashanti is amazing! She is honest & straightforward… love that about her. Hoping you have a great week ahead
Great video! What was the restaurant you were at in the beginning of this video? What was the name of that fish dish with the creamy dish you were stiring up afterward?
Thank you 💗. First restaurant is AriAri (www.yelp.com/biz/ariari-new-york?). Fish dish - Mackerel Jorim (I thought this dish was ok) Creamy dish - Dolsot Al-Bap (it was good!)
Thank you for sharing about your dating experience! I believe people come and go from your life for a reason and 2 months is a good amount of time to know whether it's going to work. Imagine if you stayed with him for years and then ended things, so it's so much better that you can move on now. Curious, are you meeting guys on dating apps or mainly through friends in the city?
Good Afternoon, I don’t see a difference but I will continue drinking it. It’s just nice to have it as part of my night routine but I don’t think it helps with my insomnia.
The way I thought you were pouring yourself a margarita first thing in the morning. Sorry to hear things didn't work out. Sounds like you are looking at it positively though :)
who is Dhavai? i haven't seen any other video when you speak about him. is that the guy that put up your curtains and air conditioner n helps you pack? he seems to do a lot of work for you!!!! very nice person. some day in future when timing is right, i wish you would do a red flags video. so many of us don't acknowledge them and keep trying in a relationship way too long. lots of us had no role model for a healthy relationship but you seem to know your boundaries and have great perception on past experience and future goals.
Maybe you're struggling soo much because you're doing too much and not really focusing on what's important for a peaceful life. I don't know.... however; you're a lovely, vibrant young woman and I do enjoy watching your vlog. I hope you find what you are looking for.
Thank you for the kind words! Truly appreciate it 💗. I definitely need to focus on things that truly matters… it’s hard when you are so used to always being in a constant state of overwhelm.. it’s a work in progress 🤗
6:35 woooow that was hoooot girl,amazing 😄 If you aks me as a man you look beautiful with every dresses you wear, so choose the one you want 🫣 You are rellay beautiful woman Man, gastronomy in New York is really the best in the world, it really has everything your heart desires, impressive Date and guy and you......Very nice thoughts at the end, you concluded it really yeah LIFE It changed our lives a lot. Happy dateing in future ,you will find what you are looking for for sure.Don't rush and don't force it Video nice as always Like 👍 Bye from very hoooot Europe
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Sorry things didn’t work out. It’s good you recognised early that it wasn’t going to work. Once you’ve processed things you can look forward to more future dates and fun!!!
Awee thank you! People come and go… it’s part of our life 💗. Being on the same page is important
You have an amazing friend. Keep her, she’s so cool and fun. And she can cook. Sorry about date guy, you looked a bit sad. Remember it’s a bad day not a bad life. We learn from what we live. And your dresses were amazing💕
Thank you Linda for such a sweet message 💗 Ashanti is amazing! Very grateful for our friendship. People come and go! It’s part of life… learnt a lot about myself & things I need to work on because of this experience
You mentioned anxiety. I would encourage you to move your desk near a window. The light and stimuli help, especially when I work from home also. I had my desk in our guest bedroom and moved to the front living room where there is a lot of light and windows and it has helped.
I wish my apartment layout was a bit different. I get natural light in my bedroom but not my living room (I wish it was the opposite). I don’t want to move my work desk to bedroom because I want distinction of space between work versus rest.. in my old apartment both my bed and office were in the same room and it didn’t work out. Hoping my next apartment willl get ton of natural light 💗
Loved all three dresses, such beautiful colours. My favourite was the second one, the dark green really suits you (plus it is one of my favourite colours)!
Thank you Tina 💗. Ended up going with the 1st option. It will help to complete the ombré look for the bridesmaid dresses :)
Lovely video, thanks for sharing 👍 🥰
Thank you 💗
First of all thank you for being open about your dating life. I’m sorry that things do not work out for you but you can be very happy about yourself. You are very aware of yourself and an amazing woman. If one door close, an other door will open! Much love💕You have a super kind friend, her name is amazing. Ashanti, is the tribe/ethnicity where I’m from. What food did she brought you? Was it African or Caribbean food? It sounded very delicious. PS: I like the 2nd dress the most. Xoxo, Cherry 🍒
Thank you so so much Cherry 💗. People come and go and this is part of the dating experience. Learnt a lot about myself and things I need to work on!
Ashanti is amazing. Very grateful for our friendship. She is from Belize. Thats beautiful! Where is your tribe from?
These were leftover from their work family dinner (they cook after end of the shift). Her coworker made plantain and pork stew with coconut milk (Ecuadorian) and lentil stew. Food was really good!
Ended up going with the first one… it helps to complete the bridesmaid ombré look for the wedding :)
The right time will come for you with the right guy. I hope for everything good to come your way, and for your friends to be there for you.
Aweee thank you ❤️. Wishing you the best as well ✨✨✨
Tisha! im sorry to hear that, i thought things were going well! This kinda stuff builds character so its a good sign :). And for the dress i reeeaaaalllly liked the second one
Thank you 💗. It was but sometimes it is not meant to be. It’s part of the dating experience & learning about ourselves. True!! It’s build character 😊
As sad as it is, you're one person closer to the right relationship!
Yesss so true!!
I love that!Great way to reframe it, the right way to reframe it, lets all reframe this kind of stuff like that!!
So true ❤
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Not how reality works
1st milky jade dress. A light sagey sweep of shadow would look gorgeous too. Love that the 2nd has pockets tho
Ended up getting the 1st one :). All dresses should have pockets!!
I hope you're okay Tisha. Have some 'me' time to gather yourself together for a while. I see a very beautiful, stylish young lady who has a full life, and that's great. Oh, and I thought the dark green dress looked lovely. Hugs, and take care x
Thank you for your kind words and well wishes 💗🤗
I agree that we’re not the same person we were from the past .
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I love your Kehlani t-shirt
Thank you! I recently discovered her music 🫶🏻
It's always a delight watching your videos. I've been watching your videos for some time now and it's so lovely to see you move forward in life and take care of yourself. I hope you are doing okay after that.. sending you warm hugs from Kathmandu❤
Dhanyabad Deepali ♥️. So excited to go back home in October!
And wishing you all the best in your music endeavors!
If it doesn't work out then its not meant to be. There is a fabulous young man out there just waiting to meet you. You're such a beautiful woman and you just got to find him or he has to find you. But dont rush it, take your time be picky, have fun. It will happen ❤ Just move on, its nothing but a thang! And your hair is so pretty 😍 just letting you know!
Loll, delusional
Thank you so much for such a thoughtful message! All of this is part of the dating experience ♥️
I feel you about work. We sometimes have to remind ourselves about the gratitude for the job and means to care for our lives. I was on holiday this week and had work contact me on my days off....sigh. at least they need me...?
I am a fan of Ashanti. She is a good friend and I agree with her picks. She isn't fronting with her critiques of the try ons.
Chape is doing so well!! He is settling into life in NY too...
You are surrounded by peoples who love you!
Thank you so much!!! Finding a good balance between work and life is so challenging!! Hope you didn’t have to work too long during your vacation.
Ashanti is amazing! I appreciate her honesty and I am very grateful for our friendship 💗.
Jhaape is doing amazing! So proud of him 🙌🏽🐶
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@@choochalah ♥️♥️♥️
Also...those Wine glasses with the soft color, Targét has them for $5/pair of 2 here. It's in their entryway season bargains area
OHHH!! Thank you 💗
Sorry to hear that things didn’t work out for you and date guy, but you have to go with your instincts and make the decisions that are best for you. Hope your stress levels lessen and the upcoming week isn’t too busy - take care of yourself Tisha❣️
Thank you Tina 💗. It’s good to be on the same page.. learnt a lot from the experience! Work has been better this weekend. Take care 🤗
So sorry that things didn't quite work out and it was a little sad to hear your voice at the end but you always shine and all will happen when the time is right. Jhaape will feel your heart and he'll shower you with even more love and cuddles.
Aweeee thank you so much 💗🐶
Your friend reminds me very much of my friend from the Virgin Islands. I love her honesty.
Love her honesty & how straightforward she is 💗
I also feel the sunday scaries tonight and also life is piling up with things to do. You inspired me to get up earlier and work ahead tomorrow! 🎉❤
It’s never-ending!! Hope you had a productive week. Don’t forget to set aside some time to rest and recharge as well ♥️
Awww... sorry to hear it didn't work out. You're an amazing person. Things will fall into place. Better to wait for what's right for you.
Thank you Connie 💗
So sorry things didn't work out for you with person, you will find your person one day.the dresses i like the second one,that dark green one.
thank you 💗🤗
The best friends are the ones you can do nothing with and still have a great time. Your chef friend is funny too! 😊 Also I liked the first dress best! And after the wedding you could have it hemmed it to midi or mini length so you can wear it more than once. 🤗 Lastly, life is short. Buy the sunnies. ❤
Ashanti is amazing! Her and I can just do random mundane things and still have a great time. Love how real she is ♥️. That is such a great idea! I think most likely I’ll do midi length. Not ready to make a plunge yet for the sunnies… maybe next year :))
Hey! Tisha your vlogs are so so beautiful and I really love your vlogs so so much you're looking too beautiful and I wish you have a beautiful weekend💫🙂💕
Hey Mansoor! Thank you so much for the support. Hope you had a great weekend 🙏🏽💗✨
I'm sorry to hear things didn't work out.The right person will come along, it's just a matter of time. Hopefully, the time you spent with him brought something to your life. Now onward and upward.🥰🤗🥰🤗.
Thank you! Yeah it happens.. people come and go from our life. Learnt a lot from about myself & things I need to work on. Always onward and upward ♥️♥️♥️
I like the second darker green gown!I know I was really in love once..........I just cant find another man that I have that same feeling with and I wont settle.I actually love being single..... then with a guy that bores me.
You do you 💗
AHH bless you hope you're not too sad,thank you for still putting up content when times are tough. I look forward to seeing it every week,as I've said before its like the real sex in the city lol.UK.x
Thank you Sharon 💗. I am doing good! i don’t take our community for granted and try my best to keep up with the commitment of showing up :)) Hahaha! I like to think it that way as well!
jhaape was looking so darn cute on the bed & when he was getting his harness on. I didn't think the 2nd dress or lighter green one were as flattering on you as the others. Ashanti is the friend everyone needs in their life, a true friend indeed. Sorry the date guy pairing didn't work out but I do have to say your face never really lit up when you talked about him or were on your way to see him. Just my unasked for 2 cents worth of opinion. Hoping the week ahead goes smoothly for you & you get some much needed sleep.
Thank you for the well wishes Bonnie 💗. Jhaape is doing so well!! He is adorable. For the bridesmaid dress, I ended up doing the 1st one. It will help to complete the ombré green look for the wedding :). Ashanti is amazing! She is honest & straightforward… love that about her. Hoping you have a great week ahead
I see nothing but growth in your personal growth with people helping along the way. What a wonderful perk to have a Michelin star chef as a friend! 🎉❤
So true!! So proud of her ♥️
Great video! What was the restaurant you were at in the beginning of this video? What was the name of that fish dish with the creamy dish you were stiring up afterward?
Thank you 💗. First restaurant is AriAri (www.yelp.com/biz/ariari-new-york?).
Fish dish - Mackerel Jorim (I thought this dish was ok)
Creamy dish - Dolsot Al-Bap (it was good!)
Thanks! @@TishaShrestha
Great day with Ashanti. Sorry about the date guy.
we can literally just do mundane things and it’s still so much fun :) Thank you! It’s ok.. part of life 💗
Thank you for sharing about your dating experience! I believe people come and go from your life for a reason and 2 months is a good amount of time to know whether it's going to work. Imagine if you stayed with him for years and then ended things, so it's so much better that you can move on now. Curious, are you meeting guys on dating apps or mainly through friends in the city?
Thank you!! People come and go… it’s part of life 💗. It’s thru dating apps (hinge or bumble)
@@TishaShrestha Thank you!!!
I'm so sorry things didn't work out with the relationship, I def know the feeling too well 🖤
Part of the dating experience 🫶🏻
Good morning Tisha happy Monday morning and I loved your vlogs and you are amazing Supporter and I'm proud of you
Good Morning Edward, Happy Friday!! Thank you 🙏🏽
@@TishaShresthagood morning happy Sunday morning and you enjoy your weekend ❤️
First dress for ur friends wedding
That’s the one I ended up picking
She's a one of kind beauty
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Good afternoon how was the sleepy 🍵 tea does it work for you ?
Good Afternoon, I don’t see a difference but I will continue drinking it. It’s just nice to have it as part of my night routine but I don’t think it helps with my insomnia.
@@TishaShrestha ahhhhh ok
The way I thought you were pouring yourself a margarita first thing in the morning.
Sorry to hear things didn't work out. Sounds like you are looking at it positively though :)
Hahahahah 🙃
Yes!!! Always… Everything happens for a reason and learnt things that I need to work on from this experience :)
I lost my sweet dog a few weeks ago and the clips of Jhaape give me so much joy.
I am so so sorry! :(
I am so so sorry 😢. I can’t imagine my life without jhaape. Sending you loads of hugs and good vibes ♥️
My deepest condolences during this challenging time. If you need someone to talk to or any support, I am here for you!!
1st green dress is great
I love your friend humour 😂she is so real
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Sorry things didn’t work out. Just go with the flow and the universe will bring the right guy to you and take you to him.
It happens :))) thank youuu 💗
So proud of you ❤❤. You do you 🤜🤛
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So sorry it didn’t work out with date guy. Sending you lots of hugs 💕
Thank you Danielle 💗
Queen, please continue to slay. You are a bright light in our world, and you deserve the best in life. : )
So do you!
@@droma2366 Aww Thank you, this made my day : )
You too!! SLAYYYYY ❤
@@droma2366love our community ❤
@@TishaShrestha Thanks Tisha! 🥹🫶🏻
New sub. Binging your videos 😍. Your dog is adorable.
YAYAY! thank you for being part of the community ♥️
Wow you step back for your self
As my very wise Gran used to say 'whats for you will not go by you' ❤
So true!! Gran knows the best!! Thank you ♥️
who is Dhavai? i haven't seen any other video when you speak about him. is that the guy that put up your curtains and air conditioner n helps you pack? he seems to do a lot of work for you!!!! very nice person. some day in future when timing is right, i wish you would do a red flags video. so many of us don't acknowledge them and keep trying in a relationship way too long. lots of us had no role model for a healthy relationship but you seem to know your boundaries and have great perception on past experience and future goals.
I believe anything happens for a reason. I’m sure you start dating some other person and you’ll be the best match together ❤
Part of the dating experience ♥️
Maybe you're struggling soo much because you're doing too much and not really focusing on what's important for a peaceful life. I don't know.... however; you're a lovely, vibrant young woman and I do enjoy watching your vlog. I hope you find what you are looking for.
Thank you for the kind words! Truly appreciate it 💗. I definitely need to focus on things that truly matters… it’s hard when you are so used to always being in a constant state of overwhelm.. it’s a work in progress 🤗
Sad it didn’t work out. Dress 2
its ok.. it happens 💗
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I'm sorry it didn't work out with the guy Tisha, you will find someone right :( wishing you the best always!
Thank you so Nelly! It’s ok… it happens :). Appreciate your support always 💗
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Hi, if you are not married, i am ready to marry you?...is that ok 😊
6:35 woooow that was hoooot girl,amazing 😄
If you aks me as a man you look beautiful with every dresses you wear, so choose the one you want 🫣
You are rellay beautiful woman
Man, gastronomy in New York is really the best in the world, it really has everything your heart desires, impressive
Date and guy and you......Very nice thoughts at the end, you concluded it really yeah LIFE It changed our lives a lot. Happy dateing in future ,you will find what you are looking for for sure.Don't rush and don't force it
Video nice as always
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Bye from very hoooot Europe
Thank you! I truly think people come into your life for a reason and I have learnt a lot about myself thru this experience