Women Takes in Daughter’s "Deadbeat" Friend? | Part 1
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 16 ต.ค. 2024
- Kathleen took in her daughter’s friend after her parents kicked her out -- and claims she trashed her room and more!
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I love it when JJ breaks the fourth wall!
She speaks to our hearts, doesn’t she? 🫶
Don't take in strangers if you ever EVER want payment.
She was very kind to open her home, but...
I myself, would NEVER open my home to a stranger no matter the age of the person! It's difficult in many cases to open your home to blood relatives!!!
My mom took in my sister's friend when she got kicked out at 16. Was it a risk, absolutely, but she is now doing wonderfully in life and just needed some guidance. She was never expected to pay any rent or bills, and my mom fed her the same as us. It's a big responsibility that requires selflessness and compassion.
It’s really sad that a 17 year old was kicked out smh
How is a 17 year old suppose to financially contribute to a household?
JJ would have you believe that a teen student should work full time while going to school 🙄
By getting a job
Getting a part-time job while studying or a full time job not studying?
A job, what a goofy thing to say. She had one, but quit.
@@Jade_902 my dad worked 2 jobs while in collage kids today are weak and so are you
When the parent kicks a child out that’s still in school, I wonder if they really care about their education 🤔.
Usually it is because they refuse to abide by the house rules. That's a CHOICE
whoo hooo , single mom empowered and independant
@@stevemerritt2721cope. 😒
@@Wayniesgirl or abuse at home
"Education" has been replaced with indoctrination.
It's pretty bad being kicked out of the house before you're even legally an adult. Wish I knew the back story to that.
I think the book can be judged by the cover on this one.
@@mojo3067 she could have been abused stfu
I'm not believing the mom that she hasn't seen her son since he moved out. The defendant doesn't appear to be lying about that. She may still wind up liable for the damages though.
Idk the young lady’s situation, but how can you expect a teen fresh out of high school who was kicked out recently to navigate adulthood that quickly? When taking in young people like that, you shouldn’t expect them to conduct themselves like a more mature adult. I blame the defendants mother first and foremost and i don’t have sympathy for the plaintiff either.
If she is giving her parents enough grief to get kicked out, who cares if she "navigates adulthood". She should learn respect and reconcile with her parents or live under a bridge. Life is difficult.
GIVE me a break! My sons were all working and making their ways by 18. And BTW, they had the option to stay and pay a minimal rent yet abide by house rules, or move out and live by their own
because she doesn't have a FATHER
How in the world is HE to blame !?
Sink or swim ! Some people just try to dogpaddle and wait for someone else to figure it out for them !
I spent 2 days of minus 60 degrees in Minnesota.it’s absolutely miserable
After one winter, I told my future husband, NO WAY am I living here. I moved, he followed, now we're married somewhere a lot warmer.
minnesota here ...
Minnesota is always miserable. It’s why they keep voting for Democrats.
@@sunnystormy4973
It’s a beautiful state, but on the plains in winter - I wouldn’t wish that on my pet rock! Brrrrrrrrrr!
The fact that she’s wearing a crop top in court
Can't believe she wore that top to court. Omg
@@debdee9663I also can’t believe Judge Judy didn’t say anything lol
The minimum wage for Minnesota as of January 2025 is $11.13 per hour. This episode was approximately 3-4 years ago which means it was lower. How in the heck is a 17 year old supposed to live off of that? Especially when a two person household can't. That's without children.
Parents don't need a reason to kick a child out. My sister kicked her daughter out because she didn't want to be a "parent" anymore once she turned 18. Her daughter did nothing wrong, she just aged out of her mom's house. She struggles still at age 26.
You learn to manage your money right? The living wage will always increase but so will the cost of living so you learn to budget and prioritise your bills even at 17.
Why does it say women? It's singular, woman. Sorry, my new pet peeve, noticed it alot lately, anyway, great episode as always. Love this version of judy
I love your comment- people don’t speak correct English anymore
My pet peeve too, and ''your'' nice- instead of ''you're''
I agree, but sometimes it is a typo because my phone will change it to plural when I typed singular.
@@HayleysComet3
Proofreading is a lost art.
Omg, women like you!
I'm thinking the son was the problem. I'm guessing
Agreed. Mom hasn’t seen in like a year and a half if I understood the timeline at the end correctly. And they’re all in the same state.
To be fair, she quit her job because she was walking to work. Minnesota winters can be brutal and it's not unheard of for teens to quit during those months. Especially if they're walking to work.
yet people did it way before cars were invented, you just need the right clothing
@@neonwired4978 no one cares about 800 years ago
@@darkmercury_19 I'm from Canada and nobody here quits their job because of cold walks to work. Everyone does it if they don't have a car.
@@darkmercury_19 How about 20 years ago? 50 years ago?
Lunch crew on HUMP DAY.
praise jesus!
Frozen mac and cheese today ❤
Scrambled eggs with the last of leftover Thanskgiving turkey.
Tomato soup here 😊
I missed spending lunch with y’all, but I had a cheese, lettuce and tomato sammitch on raisin bread again! 😊
I’m only like less than a minute in but I’ve taken in so many teens throughout my children’s life. Parents who kick out their minor child are the jerks here. I’m so sick of crappy parents who think just having the kid makes them special. Kids need to be raised, they need the most help in their dang teen years! You don’t get well adjusted mentally sound kids when they grow up in chaos. These poor kids have no decent role models to emulate.
There are some crappy parents, and there are some crappy kids, you live in my house, you will respect my rules, or GET OUT!
unless the states says by law at a certain age a child is consider and adult 17 or 18 im not sure if it varies from state..I wish kids knew they could call the police on their parents for trying to kick them out. Child abandonment would be the charge. You cant just take ur child somewhere and leave them so what makes u think u can just throw them out on the streets ..
17 in Texas. I wouldn’t kick my kids out. Something horrendous would have to happen
Maybe it’s better to not be with their parents. They might be the problem, not the other way around.
@@ImOnAJourney if the child has somewhere to go i understand that, but if your child has no where to go, the parent should be held accountable , the kid/teen didn't ask to be in this world.
@@xoangelicaf0523 what would prompt you to do it, what's consider horrendous to you ? if you don't mind me asking
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Green eggs 🍳 & Ham 🍖
PB & J sandwich 😊🥰 with my daughter
@@starralina0224 a klazzik sammich 💯
@@jeromebass7878 *he does like them here and there, he would love them anywhere, he does love green eggs and ham, he does love them, Sam I Am lmao 😂😭🤣
Frozen Mac and cheese
3:03 3:07 - 3:13 we got another Ummm hmmm. Lol lmao XD #hahahaha 😭😂💀
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IMO the plaintiffs kids are a problem.........
The defendant needs her own family
I don't know why but there's something off with the plaintiff's daughter to me.
She has the same hairstyle as her mother, just a different color, but she gives off a bad vibe to me as well.
The defendant doesn't understand how life actually works
She probably wasn't taught about it.
She is a child though 🤷🏾♀️… with parents that gave up
@@lakeofalltradesthat’s nobody’s problem
she's 17
@@Lenasevilla-yb4ei white culture
The defendant's vocal fry is killing me.
Waddup lunch crew!?!
Heyyy JJLC!! 🥳
surviving
I'm sorry the mom kicked her out she was a minor what could she do for her mother to kick her out this lady played momma now she's suing
How do u take a 17 year to court shameful
4:26 that is a huge problem in America. The kids leave the home and almost never come back. I can’t tell you how many elderly people I have taken care of that were just abandoned by their kids.
I have friends who haven’t seen or heard from their kids or their grandkids since Christmas Day … and they all live within 15 miles of each other. My friends are elderly and they don’t go anywhere anymore. Their neighbor lady gets their groceries and takes them to the doctor if the roads are bad. Horrible way to treat your parents.
@@ImOnAJourney this is a symptom of post WW2. After WW2 the idea of the suburban nuclear family took over. The concept is that son goes out and starts a family. The kids grow up and leave the nest and repeat the cycle over again. Unfortunately when they leave the nest the birds don’t come back. It happens to everyone that comes to this country and lives here generational enough. I have taken care of people of all different ethnicities and everyone eventually abandons their parents. Even American influence in Japanese culture like capitalism has caused the same thing. Right now every 3 mins an elderly Japanese person dies alone. It’s a fact. I do hospice so I’m very familiar with the study of it.
"never take in somebody whose own parents kicked them out"
Excuse me? How's a 17 year old in high school supposed to survive by herself? Should they die on the street because their parents were heartless a-holes?
As a judge she ought to say "let's jail the parents for not supporting their minor daughter", and make THEM pay for any damages caused by said daughter while she should have been in their home but wasn't.
I've always found it strange that people get to the point where they kick their own kids out
So they supposed to stay forever
@@budlight6665 no but until they have a GAMEPLAN. Especially if the child is not been disrespectful ..Therefore, it come down to how the parents raise the child and guild their child into the world.
@@budlight6665 i used to work with someone who her parents kicked out once she turned 18, she struggled so much. There is nothing wrong with supporting your kids to become successful.
Your generation is cooked. You gotta fly the coop eventually little bird. Can’t stay in the nest your whole life, you need to learn how to survive and get your own food. When we were kids, we couldn’t wait to leave the house. This generation has been coddled to hard. Soft people make hard times.
Very true I been working since 16 bought my own car at 16 moved out at 18 it was hard at first but it teaches you to work harder and be responsible at the same time
Maaaan hell naw. I’ve been drilling good credit score, saving money, financial literacy, and earning habits into my now 15 year old daughter since she was in 4th grade. I wish someone would have told me. I see now that my daughter doesn’t like to spend her own money and will rather spend ours lmfao!!! I hope she continues to be responsible. God bless all you parents out there!!!❤
I'm soooooo confused already.
JJ was extra nice in this episode:
1) she didn't correct the defendant's mmhmms;
2) she didn't mention the defendant's midriff top
Kicking your kid out for being very disruptive
2:52 - when it comes to dressing inappropriately for court, it's mainly women who pick the worst possible outfits.
They not giving her a fair chance I hope the best for her she sounds very smart
She was saying the young lady was disrespectful, well how about her son and gf
Is it illegal to kick out minor children?
Of course
She is 18
@@MaryleeUSAshe was 17. The mother was still responsible
17 and still in school.
She may have been emancipated by the courts, I am not saying that is what happened here been teens can be on their own by court order at 16 in many states.
maybe the two have scissors
What month did your parents to kick you out? I don't know. What month did you quit work? I don't know? Did you ever pay any rent? I don't know. I mean, sheesh, why doesn''t she know anything?
A very dull start so is this about a trashed room?? 🥴
Look at the size of those diamonds on Judge Judy's ears! They're huge!
The plaintiff looks like older phoebe
Plaintiff looks scary
Ah Judy if only that were true....I am genx yep old as dirt. My father kicked me out of my and my dead mothers home because he newest girlfriend of the week didn't believe I was his 15 year old daughter as he told her he was 30 instead of 39...so of course I had to go. He still collected my survivors benefits for 4 more years while I starved, was kidnapped, held hostage and assaulted for days, and got not a penny of it or my inheritance from my mother...oh no he used those checks to pay for his murderous side pieces' and his spawn(they planned and carried out my mothers murder, crippled me for life(staged "accident). I had friends who also got kicked out of the family home for stupid reasons(how dare a teenager be a smart ass, once) or the parents were just garbage people who didn't want to play mommy or daddy anymore. I lived/had lived in a very rich area of a big city(my mom made what today would have been $10,000 not counting overtime(she worked 60-80 hours a week) so we/they were all "upper middle class/millionaires kids....and they(the cops and such) called us "throwaway kids". No one cared. No services were given. Reported it all numerous time to the cops/and social security and again no one cared. So they didn't only steal everything from me but also stole literally the potential for my life. Yep I worked because if I did not I would have starved to death. Crap jobs/hard to get a good job with no education/and disabled.
In my life I have met many other women/young women who also lost their mothers young and the fathers stole from them as well and kicked them out way too young as well. So Judge Judy maybe use some of your power/fame to right some wrongs/get justice for murdered mothers and their financially/physically/socially abused children. My mother would be horrified to know what her husband/my father did. She foolishly trusted him.
It’s probably the parents fault. Parents always blame children for being bad instead of taking responsibility for being a deadbeat parent.
And stupid strangers blame the parents, when the parents are not at fault how the child changes when they hit the teen years. I be your kids blamed you for not getting them the latest video game for the computer. LOL!
@@trekgirl65you sound like a bad parent
Your answer makes no sense. It is the patents' fault. Parents always blame the children... Which is it?
This defendant is the most incoherent, lazy storyteller. Good luck making it through an interview for a real job.
The people in these comments are not passing the vibe check. They throw these kids out to the wolves but then act shocked when they aren’t shining society members.
The color and the hairstyle of the Plaintiff's daughter is sooo pretty!
I understand the intent behind Judy saying "never take in a kid whose own parents kicked them out" but frankly, it's a terrible take. Bloody good kids get kicked out by their fucking terrible parents all the time for terrible reasons.
A young dog. She’ll become a bigger dog in life. Guarantee
Your obviously sheltered. You get a work permit and go work at McDonald's inn and out or Walmart duh
Be careful because there is always a dark side i 0:42 n giving 😢😢😢
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grifter
Stop judging. We don't know why she was kicked out
Why not take the day off instead of quitting?
There’s more to the story, I bet
y’all saying how can a teen do this, if you’re gonna live with someone else get and keep a job, teens can work and balance high school she isn’t even in school anymore she can work and help out
Babysit, do odd chores, dog walk, How many more do you want?
Why couldn't she walk to work in the winter? If you wear clothes, you do not get frost bites after walking for 20 minutes. She didn't want to work, but live rent free.
20 minute walk in freezing temps is not just a 20 minute walk. I can why she quit but she should have saved up for a car or Uber
Apparently you’ve never lived in MN 😮
Yes you can. My SIL's toes got frostbit walking a mile into town, when her car got a flat. This was before cell phones, she didn't have snow boots and everything was frozen together so the tire couldn't be changed. Fun times!
You can
Depending on the temperature and wind chill, you can get frostbite in far less than 20 minutes.
Ugh, I love Judge Judy, but sometimes she says really cringey things. Saying that people shouldn't take in kids that have been thrown out is gross. I know she acknowledged that she only sees one side, but it doesn't take a huge imagination to know that some kids are thrown out because they have terrible, abusive parents. Or they're thrown out because they're gay or something along those lines. I feel like she should have known better.
She's coming at this from a legal perspective. Taking in another parent's "problem" child (especially a minor) has risks.
Nope she’s right
liar
Your own family kicked you out before you were a legal adult? Anyone else get drug use or something
It’s probably the parents fault. Parents always blame children for being bad instead of taking responsibility for being a deadbeat parent.
The response would be to get your child help. Not kick them out.
@@8213apice yep
No? But even if my child was struggling how is the response to kick them out?
My mom kicked me out when I was still in high school and I wasn’t on drugs and was in all honors classes. She’d always remind me ever since I was a child, that she couldn’t wait until she could kick me out because she never wanted me. 🙄
Parents can legally kick out minors?? That sounds like it should be illegal.
I think most states see 17 as being a legal age to put out a child 🥺
mgtow
I have a stepson turning 18 on October 25th and he has ADHD. I've been in his life since he was 8 years old and it is hard getting him to understand comprehension skills and have common sense about being responsible in this world. He's definitely extremely selfish most times and constantly need to be talked to like he's 8 years old. Smh. That's just the short story. Don't get me started on his twins sisters who are 23 years old. Lazy most times and prioritizes video games over getting their life together. One has an interview for Publix this Friday and she better not EFF this up!
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She looks so sweet. And having shit parents like that. She’ll have trauma forever.
Looks can be deceiving
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