we didn't break up. we never started. [+6.5k]

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    This edit, as well as the previous one, was born from a very personal place within me, so quite a few quotes that I used here were taken out of context in order to create a wholesome story.
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  • @jumaguzman
    @jumaguzman 3 ปีที่แล้ว +638

    There's a different kind of heartbreak when someone you love can never love you back

    • @kathycusentino8782
      @kathycusentino8782 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's me 📬😭

    • @TCnParadise
      @TCnParadise 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Life rewards kind hearts with second chances. It's not necessary to be miserable for loyalties sake. Nevertheless, those kind hearts often end up being miserably and loyal. 20 yr veteran.

    • @edomshimeles1375
      @edomshimeles1375 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah
      Exactly

    • @jumaguzman
      @jumaguzman 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@TCnParadise THIS

    • @jumaguzman
      @jumaguzman 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @ianthe' / Tay It is. thanks for reminding us to look for a brighter side

  • @RuhulAmin-xq3bh
    @RuhulAmin-xq3bh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +665

    “No man ever steps in the same river twice, for it’s not the same river and he’s not the same man.”
    -Heraclitus

    • @kawafahra
      @kawafahra 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Heard this saying some weeks ago first, gave me some good direction for another perspective on a past i cannot change, but a future i wanna embrace with open eyes

    • @nsbhater
      @nsbhater 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Lovely quote ❤️

    • @thendebele
      @thendebele 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Goosebumps ♥️♥️♥️♥️

    • @Abby-yj9zh
      @Abby-yj9zh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      a guy I know stepped in the same river twice. the river was me.

    • @RuhulAmin-xq3bh
      @RuhulAmin-xq3bh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Abby-yj9zh he wasn’t the same guy 2nd time! Physically/mentally/ emotionally he changed definately 😉

  • @rye4616
    @rye4616 3 ปีที่แล้ว +222

    Its hard to forget someone who you never dated..cause you never get a closure😞

    • @rye4616
      @rye4616 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @A thats deep🤐

    • @j.m1928
      @j.m1928 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Closure? You don't get anything, but your memory....and even that changes everytime you look back

  • @ForeverKeiko
    @ForeverKeiko 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1040

    I needed this. It’s nice to know I’m not the only person who feels like this.

    • @sassyxmolassy
      @sassyxmolassy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      ❤️

    • @DavidGonzalez-pj3zi
      @DavidGonzalez-pj3zi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      You're not the only one. I'm gulit of this as well

    • @angelmorales1609
      @angelmorales1609 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Indeed, same here brutally honest, years ago and I still remember..

    • @lini4865
      @lini4865 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Feel the same way 😔

    • @tenshimoon
      @tenshimoon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ditto 💔

  • @lizzard743
    @lizzard743 3 ปีที่แล้ว +468

    We worked... he just wasn’t ready. He was broken and he didn’t want to hurt me like he hurt someone in the past. This video is actually helping me move on though...

    • @TheSoundofTanay
      @TheSoundofTanay 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      holy shit... holy... this is me. I'm the hurt/broken one right now and so afraid to give my heart out to this lovely woman I know.

    • @charliekgorden4390
      @charliekgorden4390 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@TheSoundofTanay Please give your heart. I'm in this situation right now where he needs to heal and be perfect and whole for me. Bullshit- I'd take his broken perfect self any moment rather than this crap break up.

    • @TheSoundofTanay
      @TheSoundofTanay 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@charliekgorden4390 yep, im giving my heart. No matter what I tell myself, even in my broken times I keep going back to her and I give my best - whatever it is. I know we’ll make it work somehow.

    • @Sarah-zt5fc
      @Sarah-zt5fc 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheSoundofTanay yes yes yess

    • @Sarah-zt5fc
      @Sarah-zt5fc 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheSoundofTanay I’m glad you did I did not and I think it was so much pain for both of us

  • @mebavandrame
    @mebavandrame 3 ปีที่แล้ว +236

    Being the person who loves them no matter what hurts.

  • @Avdheshkumar-kv5fz
    @Avdheshkumar-kv5fz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    "stop, if you are coming any closer, I'll not let you go"

    • @NjorunsDream
      @NjorunsDream 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same.

    • @beatsg
      @beatsg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What film was this?

    • @sassyxmolassy
      @sassyxmolassy  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      No Strings Attached.

  • @yanaroy5499
    @yanaroy5499 3 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    We do not talk anymore but I still keep him in my Prayers. I found my home in him. I never got a chance to say, "I love you." Say, "I love you" before it is too late. I have no idea where he is right now but I hope he is happy.

    • @winifridalukansola
      @winifridalukansola ปีที่แล้ว

      I feel you sis, I'm going through the exact same thing.

  • @MiaWinchester794
    @MiaWinchester794 4 ปีที่แล้ว +312

    THE PARALLELS OMG
    this is absolutely perfect, the way you connected every scene
    I'm speechless ♥

    • @sassyxmolassy
      @sassyxmolassy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Aw, thank you so much, my dear ❤️

  • @greencatsarecute
    @greencatsarecute 3 ปีที่แล้ว +159

    This video makes me wanna confess to him before its too late

    • @cosmin12365
      @cosmin12365 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      do it before is too late

    • @charliekgorden4390
      @charliekgorden4390 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      DO IT !!!! Did you do it yet? Go now, right this moment. Don't waste time missing out on life.

    • @mariangelamariangela4199
      @mariangelamariangela4199 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Did you do it? 💪🏻

    • @RA-ze5fj
      @RA-ze5fj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      i believe in you. you have nothing to lose, do it!

    • @Avdheshkumar-kv5fz
      @Avdheshkumar-kv5fz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Do it. But not if your self respect comes in between.
      You may get her back, but you might feel something missing!

  • @belmont2168
    @belmont2168 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    “We never started”... there is peace within the pain, “letting Go”. My heart broke again ..

  • @addisonbonin813
    @addisonbonin813 3 ปีที่แล้ว +171

    i was ready. he wasn’t. he knew moving on with me was only going to hurt one of us. either he would hurt me or i would hurt him. little did he know how in love i was with him. i still am. i could never hurt him. i cant even think about that. but he was right. in the end, one of us was going to end up hurt and it was me. he left before i got too attached. he did me a favor.

    • @16ourmusic
      @16ourmusic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same story here💖 sending you tons of love✨

    • @ginamilan1481
      @ginamilan1481 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      wow, i completely understand how this feels more than you'll know. thank you for you comment.

    • @Sebastian-yn9qg
      @Sebastian-yn9qg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Happened to me one year ago, still loving her, although she is so far away. Now I am on the other side, I met a girl and she really likes me. She is beautiful way more than the one before, she is nicer and she really cares about me. But I somehow dont feel enough. When I am together with her, i always have to think about this woman I fell in love with on year ago.

    • @InshasChoice
      @InshasChoice 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Please let go. If you can't give this girl your all, then don't lead her on

    • @mahdaww2685
      @mahdaww2685 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Sebastian-yn9qg please let her go. Don’t be with her if u don’t love her properly, don’t play with her feelings. It‘s so painful to know that ur bf feeling’s towards u is fake

  • @Magnus2753
    @Magnus2753 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    "If you're in love with someone, you wont be interested in someone else.
    If you're then you aren't in love"
    Some of us need to hear this
    I was in the first part of this quote and still am. Nothing we went through in that time or said was damning to our relationship. The true test would be when we decide to live together, and face, real,true, and raw hardships together. She said this one night to her friends "We are gona prove you all wrong, fuck you," and then hit one of them😁. This was the exact moment I knew I was gona give this woman my whole world. Forever in my heart R.D.L😘

  • @moonstar9101
    @moonstar9101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    Yep. I’m right here in this special kind of hell. I’m not heartbroken. I’m heart annihilated.

    • @SonyaKhanOfficial
      @SonyaKhanOfficial 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Right there with you. You’re never alone😭

    • @dampnickers
      @dampnickers 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The annihilation seems complete and real. It isn't.
      When she said she was going, I disnt argue. I didn't fight. I just let her go. It was the hardest thing I have ever done. All I wanted to do was fight, beg, plead, make it work.
      But, the caged nightingale never sings. If I loved her, she had to be free to fly. To sing. So, I threw open the cage and let her go. The last day I saw her, I told her how I felt, that we would never be friends because my feelings are too great to settle for anything less than what we had.
      The silence, the emptiness in what was our home was dreadful. My heart had been obliterated.
      Or, so I thought.
      She is gone, but I am not. I built this home, she came later. I survived before, I will be ever more successful. My heart is healing and wont be hard, but ever greater and love with a depth that is far greater than before.
      Keep the faith. You are beautiful. You will survive and you will love again.
      All the best to you.

    • @abhijeetkumarrath3758
      @abhijeetkumarrath3758 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@dampnickers Your words are soothing. Thank you Nick. Hope you find someone who is as much thoughtful.

  • @BamBam-js6zf
    @BamBam-js6zf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    He never knew how much I truly loved him cause to him it was just a game

    • @thendebele
      @thendebele 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      To some people it always is...
      This stuff hurts... Like really bad

  • @heffthehecked
    @heffthehecked 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    look i only wanted to watch a chill youtube video today and here i am crying

  • @shaibidhar5737
    @shaibidhar5737 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Sometimes the small distance is so comfortable that you don't want to cross it. Coz once you do there's no turning back and things will never be the same again. That's why a lot of us are afraid.
    But I will cross the distance someday with someone towards someone ❤️

  • @ashiftch
    @ashiftch ปีที่แล้ว +4

    In my relationship, I just learned that nothing stays forever

  • @hhhoneycomb
    @hhhoneycomb ปีที่แล้ว +2

    some heartbreaks you just can’t get over 😢

  • @inaudiblechaos246
    @inaudiblechaos246 3 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    Ever caught feelings for the wrong person that you already knew, was just not right for you but you did anyway? Then they decide to leave even after you let them know how u actually feel because they knew they wouldn't be able to feel the same way, ever.
    And then, you struggle to get them out of your head, to forget about them for good?
    It's hard isn't it? Clearing up the mess of your own thoughts? Dealing with your feelings and constantly asking yourself to move on?
    Sometimes a slightest connection can lead to all this, it's okay, you can't blame yourself for it. You just need some time, that's all ♡
    Sometimes, things don't work out the way you thought they would (and it's probably for the best) so learn how to let go..
    Again, it's gonna be hard, but it's definitely gonna bring you peace

    • @Metal-oi6wp
      @Metal-oi6wp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I needed this message more than the video

    • @diminishedgtr
      @diminishedgtr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you for this comment...I needed to read something like this.

    • @inaudiblechaos246
      @inaudiblechaos246 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Glad it could help ♡

    • @sahilbhateja3058
      @sahilbhateja3058 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hate the fact; that love is not given back... and hate the fact that why did u meet them after all !!! Don’t want to learn any lessons....and fuck universe who does what it wants !!!

    • @inaudiblechaos246
      @inaudiblechaos246 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@sahilbhateja3058 yeah i know it sucks, but everything that doesn't work out turns into a lesson. It only clears your vision and makes you realize what's not meant for you. It does hurt intially but once you're past that phase, you're just gonna be grateful for it

  • @mobileradiofitter
    @mobileradiofitter 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The hardest part is when someone discovers you then they put you back down. I have literally had my heart shattered for allowing someone to consume it and am dealing with the pain every day. Some say to remember the relationship and consider it as a gift. I don't want to remember it because when I think about yesterday i can't focus on today.

  • @shadabdullah1141
    @shadabdullah1141 3 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    I wish he could see how much i love him how much i care it’s been 2 years and I’m still waiting for him i miss him a lot he ruined me

    • @DavidGonzalez-pj3zi
      @DavidGonzalez-pj3zi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I feel your pain. Currently going through it myself, it's been 2 months since I've seen her

    • @anushkaa28
      @anushkaa28 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Nobody can ruin you if you don't let them. You basically handed him/her the power to do it. Nevermind, it will get better with time 🌻.

    • @desprinkhaan641
      @desprinkhaan641 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Checklist for the people you care about:
      1. Do you feel like you could put a piece of your heart in their hands, and they will keep it safe and cherish it... but will then look you in the eye and give it back, because your heart needs to stay whole and yours and you shouldn't lose it to anyone (doesn't matter how much you care about the person and how much you love them, your heart is yours or you'll forget yourself in the relationship.
      2. Do they have your back, can you count on them, no matter what? But without them taking over everything, they are there, present, supporting, just in case, but only if you need it.
      3. Do they support you evolving, you growing, you becoming more and more you, more interdependant, more strong, more fierce more confident more gentle, as the shaping of the diamond you are. And they'll stand at your side, supporting you without holding you back. But also warn you for danger, but without then locking you up, warn and then let you do your own life.
      4. Are you are great team together? Is it fluid, is it fun, can you do something together whether it's fun, or chores, or building, or complicated, and it still works between you?
      And then, you have point 5: Do you feel like your trying your best to be all those 4 points to them too? And want to be all that for them?
      And the 6 point: what kind of attraction do you feel? Because that'll determine if you'll want this person to be a friend or a lover or a future partner.

    • @billyloomisotherdaughter
      @billyloomisotherdaughter 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Mine was 4.5 years of me being in love with him. After all.thst time of dancing around each other he finally gave me a shot. I was so in love. Unconditional. I fell in love with his soul before ever touching his skin. I wish i was making this up. He wss finally ready. Best day of my life. We dated for 3 months and January 3rd he ripped my heart out of my chest. Worst time of my life. My good god i loved that man. I would have done anything for him. It's heartbreaking when someone cant receive your love and look for ways to destroy it. 3 months later and no contact. Im.doing better. But I know we are soul mates. Love at first sight on both ends. We recognized each others soul. It was a feeling i can't describe. It didn't work in this life but im praying we meet again in the next life and can make it work

    • @HM-pv4yb
      @HM-pv4yb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You don’t ruin people you love.
      Which means, he is not right for you.

  • @MeAnINFP
    @MeAnINFP 3 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    Yeah...although unfortunately real life doesn’t end happily with them waiting for you and receiving you with open arms when you realize you love them. They’ve moved on and you’re not even friends anymore.

    • @candacehearn1771
      @candacehearn1771 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's exactly how I feel

    • @hgzmatt
      @hgzmatt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Yeah but maybe you did wait.. for weeks, months and years. Some people do. You can't expect us to wait forever. We deserve to be happy too.

    • @candacehearn1771
      @candacehearn1771 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was looking through rose colored lenses. He confused me and then he said he didn't want a relationship. Plus when I finally put everything together I realized he was leading me on. I told him that I fall for him it was in a text prob not a good idea. I said don't even text back if u didn't feel the same and that I would get over him, but he texted back? And said thanks for telling me. At that point I thought he felt the same way, but he never told me. Later on he said we can be friends and see where it goes. So I finally started acting like friends and he was still confusing. So at one point he said I'll introduce to some of his friends. I think I called his bluff when I was planning and reserving a spot to virtually skydive. I asked him if he knew anyone that would want to go get back to me. Then the only thing he talked about was he already went skydiving? I wasn't asking him to go because he has no time to do anything or that's what he told me. Puzzled. I don't even see him and I know he's not making an effort to text back anything. So I'm figuring he deleted me out. Of his contexts and I'm moving on??????

    • @hgzmatt
      @hgzmatt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@candacehearn1771 Please let it go.. you are setting yourself up for more pain, confusion and second guessing his actions. I couldn't stay friends with someone I care about like that, chances are you can't either.
      He's either coming back around or you are free.

    • @candacehearn1771
      @candacehearn1771 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@hgzmatt thanks ur right I'm cutting him loose
      Thanks for ur help

  • @The13thSword
    @The13thSword 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    There really are no "fails" in life & love. Only opportunities to learn & grow, and become more than we ever thought we could be. Don't get in your own way. The choice is always yours to make. Just the perspective of someone who has been there, many, many times before.

  • @Mike-me6mi
    @Mike-me6mi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    If you love someone truly and you know you may hurt them, you have to let them go. Love is a great connection between two people making you care for your partner more than you care about yourself. All you want is just making them happy and helping them to grow. If you think you're giving them fake hope, pull away and let them be happy.

  • @Hipppogrifff
    @Hipppogrifff 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    But sometimes you run away because you know you can’t return their love and you don’t want to cause more pain by constantly reminding them of that by your presence...
    I’ve been on both sides of this painful situation..

  • @sasha5294
    @sasha5294 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    humans are so raw and real and complicated 🥺

  • @tryingtonotprocrastinate2485
    @tryingtonotprocrastinate2485 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    hearing the person saying I love you to u after he give up on the relationship fk hurts.

  • @JAML1875
    @JAML1875 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This almost made me cry. But I held on. Went through this with someone twice. Yet, I still love him. Always will. He’s just to damn afraid, but now I’m trying my best to let everything regarding him go.

  • @NightChick22
    @NightChick22 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    The bellarke clips hit the hardest because it was there, always hinted at but just the hope.... the writers really said fuck you to us at the end

  • @lxciana
    @lxciana 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    this is a masterpiece

  • @alliesedits8935
    @alliesedits8935 4 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    Oh my goodness, all of your hard work truly paid off with this one! I absolutely loved it, from beginning to end. ❤ I think it makes a video even more special when an editor adds their own interpretations into their work. You are so full of talent, it's incredible. Congratulations on 6.5k+!

    • @sassyxmolassy
      @sassyxmolassy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I'm so glad to read this! Finishing this edit was one hell of a task. Thank you a lot for your kind words and for your support in general, I really appreciate it ❤️

  • @trojan5876
    @trojan5876 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    She never really cared about me but she meant the world to me. It hurts that we aren’t friends anymore because I couldn’t bottle up my feelings but I guess it’s time to move on. Even though I’ll probably end up alone, I hope she finds happiness and someone she can finally love.

    • @filipyanev
      @filipyanev ปีที่แล้ว

      same us bro us

  • @GlowingAprilSky
    @GlowingAprilSky 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    This was hell of a painful. A real and raw emotion, so personal, insanely well put together. I love how it all connects, i've recently did a video with 'terrible love'and 'drivers license' trying to connect all the voiceovers to make it sound as they are all just one long conversation. I failed, but you nailed it !!! Loved every second of this ❤️

    • @sassyxmolassy
      @sassyxmolassy  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You've no idea how much it means to me! Thank you a lot ❤

    • @soulaimenezzoiaoui6030
      @soulaimenezzoiaoui6030 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sassyxmolassy maybe ❣️ yes maybe ❣️ no

  • @miachan4277
    @miachan4277 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I wish I told him clearly how I felt that day; been confused for two years now, but its fine, we will forget

  • @larajeansong-covey9594
    @larajeansong-covey9594 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Seeing Alyssa and James in a single place makes me cry.

  • @SonyaKhanOfficial
    @SonyaKhanOfficial 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Perfect timing after I broke up with someone who drained my heart

  • @agenensist8799
    @agenensist8799 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Why am I watching this at past 2am and about to cry?!

  • @luciferfrank9401
    @luciferfrank9401 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This whole video is like a goosebumpy ride

  • @madisonn4421
    @madisonn4421 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    So glad you put Beauty and the Beast in here. This is the first multifandoms edit that I saw that has that show. And I've watched a lot of multifandoms.

  • @GlamourStar0x
    @GlamourStar0x 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Absolutely loved every second of this! You really told a story! xxx

    • @sassyxmolassy
      @sassyxmolassy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you!

    • @GlamourStar0x
      @GlamourStar0x 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Diana Nekrasova i made a video quite similar to this years ago actually (similar in theme) if you wanted to see it?:) th-cam.com/video/enXUzUZqaNc/w-d-xo.html

  • @orenda3696
    @orenda3696 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Wow. Punched in the gut. This hit way too close to home. And I'm grateful that I feel seen and heard. Thank you.

  • @serunaitoni2388
    @serunaitoni2388 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Makes me think of the twin flames connection😩

  • @nabasharma4929
    @nabasharma4929 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The one who edited this .
    I Love You !!!
    Been so many years , never cried enough, like this.

  • @tenshimoon
    @tenshimoon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Oh hello you've basically described my whole love life with every single one of them. The last one is the one that hurts the most tho, because with this one there's no closure 💔

  • @thendebele
    @thendebele 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You never know when you meet the wrong love, that may take you a lifetime to get over...

  • @k1773ns
    @k1773ns 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My guy loved me. And I love him tremendously. He has wounds. Deep pains from the past. Trauma, death, mental illness. It took so long for him to open up and show me his soul. And when he finally did, he ran away. He thinks love will save him, save his soul and make him whole. but then he threw my love away because he's scared. I came closer than anyone before. He's convinced himself to not let me in anymore.
    We had love. I had a love. And he shut me out.
    It hurts.

  • @fizzlock
    @fizzlock 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The shot with Quentin and Eliot killed me all over again...

  • @jongseong3086
    @jongseong3086 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    he kept saying he didn't want to hurt mebut everything he said was already hurting

  • @riveragoo6564
    @riveragoo6564 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I felt like a shit, but I love her... I don't want to runaway or end this thing without me reach her and simply hold her, just for seconds. But all what happened this time hurt my heart, I'm exhausted... My God I'm so exhausted

  • @meganslonesings
    @meganslonesings 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    “You have to let people know you love them.”GOD Bless You All. Jesus Loves You. You aren’t alone.

  • @burntcream5875
    @burntcream5875 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I was feeling this deeply and then at 0:59 I saw hannibal and graham...And i just.. died.

  • @kaizen3039
    @kaizen3039 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I keep pulling back because I don't Want to hurt you...

  • @wendybijellberg
    @wendybijellberg 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    omg i felt all of the emotions, i loved how you put everything together 😭😭💗

  • @lena.9591
    @lena.9591 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I'm letting you go, if we meant to be together we will meet again.

  • @SweetButtercupbliss
    @SweetButtercupbliss 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    He never wanted me, we never started

  • @hellojuneau8917
    @hellojuneau8917 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    We never had the title. But we supported and loved one another.. he wasn’t ready, too broken from his last relationship. And the moment he began to have feelings for me, he was too scared to accept it and chose to cut me out of his life. It hurt so much. All I did was give and be there for that person and he couldn’t be there for me, even if it meant not being romantically involved. What hurt the most was he chose to not have me in any part of his life anymore. And because of that, I feel I’m traumatized for being vulnerable and trusting someone who couldn’t do the same.

  • @mariangelamariangela4199
    @mariangelamariangela4199 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    To you who are reading this: please, do it. Confess to that person. Tell them you are in love with them.
    Rejection is temporary.
    The things you didn't say... the what ifs... will haunt you.

    • @hgzmatt
      @hgzmatt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Very true. That's why I said it right when she broke up. Better to let her know just in case than to wonder what if.. The ball is in her court.

    • @martaolivia5213
      @martaolivia5213 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He was in love with me when I wasnt and now when I am ... he isnt ..

    • @mariangelamariangela4199
      @mariangelamariangela4199 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@martaolivia5213 I am sorry!
      Tell him, confess to him.
      Maybe he is still in love with you, who knows? Are you sure?
      And if he isn't in love with you anymore you can move on.
      You will get closure either way. No regrets.

    • @martaolivia5213
      @martaolivia5213 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mariangelamariangela4199 thank you very much . Oh yes I did , I told him how I'm feeling .. he said to me that he is really sorry, he also said that he still fancy me and thinks I'm amazing, but he wants to be by himself as for now .. I dont know what does that mean .. he also said that if its meant to be , then it will be ... but .. it just hurts , as I see that he doesnt want me anymore :(

    • @Feber2001
      @Feber2001 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I wish I never confessed. It was a mistake

  • @user-xy6gk6vi5j
    @user-xy6gk6vi5j 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    i needed this and it’s hurts. cuz i’m still naive about our situationship. he still disappointing me, and I'm looking for excuses every single time. i think he is the one for me, but guess what? he don’t even believe in scenario of “one and only”.
    now i’m 20, he is 25. i know maybe i'll move on but at that exact moment i'm so fucking in love with him. he treating me right, kinda duplicitous right? he drives me for work and home sometimes. pay for my meals and etc. i grasp that it is a bare minimum. and it’s eating me.
    on thursday we have first deep conversation about all of this and our feelings. we ended with “i dare you and you know i’m scared of this. i’m taking a huge risk believing/trusting you again. if this ends I will remember you as my first love for the rest of my life” that’s was my words. he replied “I will try to make sure that you are not disappointed in me again. cuz the last thing I want is to hurt you or your feelings”.
    and i fell for his words “i can’t stop smiling”, “right now I'm obsessed with you” he kissed my hand while holding our arms together. we spent a wonderful night driving around the city together. i believe that both of us don’t want to end this night.
    hope everything gets better with him or one day I will meet someone who will appreciate me.

    • @user-xy6gk6vi5j
      @user-xy6gk6vi5j 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      just a little remark: english is my fourth language so i’m apologising if you get triggered by grammar mistakes or something

  • @AutumnRose1397
    @AutumnRose1397 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love this video. So heart wrenching and beautiful! I can relate, especially with people pulling away cause they don't want to hurt the other person they've grown close to. Sadly, the distancing is what actually hurts the other person.
    I had an insane connection with someone & they pulled away. It was my first heartbreak. Now I can't even think about letting any guy close to me. My walls are too high. Trying to break them down is gonna take a while.

    • @sassyxmolassy
      @sassyxmolassy  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks a lot ❤
      Yeah, I totally get that. I can't help but pull away every time things get too serious because I'm too scared. Like, I'm so fucking tired of being alone but I just can't. The fear is too strong.

  • @CamillaZahn
    @CamillaZahn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Everything was fine with me until Hannigram showed up, that broke my heart before everything

  • @Bri-sx9vs
    @Bri-sx9vs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I loved the point behind this edit but the Society scenes really broke me

  • @lasalsa111
    @lasalsa111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is a masterpiece!! i can even express how I am feeling but this video explains it all too well.

  • @ditris69
    @ditris69 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sometimes love just isn't enough. When people get near me they eventually get hurt. I'm a walking curse that doesn't....

  • @lover5012
    @lover5012 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It's not fair. Situations like these are not fair. Life is not fair. But you just do it, you just have to go with it. There is not living a life completely surrounded by a bulletproof Glass. We give in, we get hurt, we learn, we heal, we give in, we get hurt, we learn, we heal. Life is life.
    You wouln't say anything if you were to hit you knee on May, and then on August re-hit the same knee. Your joint hurts all the time, your muscles tear up every time you train them and so you get stronger and so you exhaust yourself. But your heart still beatin right, no? Feelings sould be no different. Let's just give in, love, get hurt, and learn the outcome of our story. Life, is life.

  • @anayume__
    @anayume__ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is so sad, beautiful, tragic and real. This edit deserve so much more viewers! ❤❤❤

  • @madnesspalace
    @madnesspalace 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    this is very beautiful - the message and the editing itself - all of it

  • @justshutupandlistenn
    @justshutupandlistenn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Broo it's actually fantastic how you connect it. I mean I myself have watched some of these and while watching out of nowhere you happen to relate/connect a scene from another show and you know it would be a great edit but you're too lazy to find the clips. Haha. Thank you for this. It's PERFECT in my 👀

  • @lost729
    @lost729 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yup I know how this feels. I love these shows.

  • @pattycrozier2886
    @pattycrozier2886 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you. I needed to see this. My heart goes out to everyone that’s going through this. So not fair. Big hugs.

  • @Sriram-wn9ot
    @Sriram-wn9ot 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This heartbreak made me a religious person... And not to love someone again

    • @thendebele
      @thendebele 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too... Sent me straight to church

  • @tryingtonotprocrastinate2485
    @tryingtonotprocrastinate2485 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "thats why I avoid relationships".

  • @olgahays6739
    @olgahays6739 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Don't leave anything unsaid. Saying how you really feel will set you free...No matter the outcome.

  • @helenpalomo6461
    @helenpalomo6461 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    For 11 years, I was loving him from a far. He used to be my HS friend until one day, he confessed to me that he's still in love with his ex while being in a relationship with another woman. That's the last straw for me. I decided to let go my feelings for him without him knowing how much I genuinely loved him for years. I still do include him in my prayers. He deserves to be happy even that happiness doesn't include me.

  • @meep3185
    @meep3185 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The fact that you gave us this video yet alone these high quality clips like that’s talent itself you did a good job 🤧🙌

  • @idapetersen827
    @idapetersen827 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    the amount of times I've watched this is concerning

  • @rueclouds1156
    @rueclouds1156 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    this edit is just so beautiful, thank you for making it.

  • @resnielmaano9578
    @resnielmaano9578 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Damn I felt this, thanks for making this, brings chills.. I needed this

  • @orange_lime
    @orange_lime 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why nobody needed this? I needed this as hell right now.

  • @pryda001
    @pryda001 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened

  • @hermesnoelthefourthway
    @hermesnoelthefourthway 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "some make others happy wherever they go, others when they go". Oscar Wilde

  • @user-gq1ou2to1e
    @user-gq1ou2to1e 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My date said exactly the same it's not a breakup, we were just dating. But it always felt more and more and more.

  • @tomcat9761
    @tomcat9761 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ahh... Unrequited Love. A feeling that I wouldn't wish it even to my worst enemies. It's hell.

  • @Carla-br9vp
    @Carla-br9vp 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    this is one of the best edit i have ever seen

  • @geese.with.knives
    @geese.with.knives 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    TH-cam, why bring this into my feed when I've finally found the love I manifested for?...

  • @koorect2572
    @koorect2572 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This just shows how every relationship is the same in tv shows 💀

  • @alexkemboi7175
    @alexkemboi7175 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is just me. It doesn't work with me and i don't know why i don't deserve someone. They say I'm a good man

    • @sassy7434
      @sassy7434 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I hope you find someone who appreciates you💙

  • @GlamourStar0x
    @GlamourStar0x 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just watched this again and wow, just blown away

  • @sharanya8008
    @sharanya8008 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is beautiful!

  • @chiqui1006
    @chiqui1006 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i always end up like this. i gave up.

  • @suranda.
    @suranda. 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    this is incredible omg

  • @lajoteriadelosangeles4873
    @lajoteriadelosangeles4873 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Damn this edit made my night

  • @stephanieocran122
    @stephanieocran122 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I want to have someone who would love me and never breakup with me

  • @robertgriffiths1724
    @robertgriffiths1724 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Change happens all the time. They should go for it. Everyone deserves love

    • @Feber2001
      @Feber2001 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don't. It's been proven to me many times

  • @discoverthepositivity8970
    @discoverthepositivity8970 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Well, this feeling impact badly in a personality

  • @vinaysharma1340
    @vinaysharma1340 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Looks like I am over that I do not feel like left out

  • @crEativE85zEn
    @crEativE85zEn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    we can work.. but she just push me away, we not even started yet. I just respect and dont wanna hurt her, so we being strangers again

  • @calliemohler
    @calliemohler 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    this is so powerful.

  • @Lena-zn8mx
    @Lena-zn8mx 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    THIS IS ART

  • @madelynthompson4361
    @madelynthompson4361 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    this is so beautiful!