I was the wife in the dark and I wish one of the plenty that knew would have had the balls this woman has. Kudos to this lady. You are helping the woman that is being wronged have the information to get out of this if they choose.
I was too, and I wish someone had told me much sooner because I wasted a lot of time, not knowing and not being able to make appropriate changes as a result.
When you’ve been the wife in this situation, you aren’t mad at this girl. The wife deserves to know. And people say the wife should find out another way, how?? From who?? She deserves to know period.
If our society really valued marriage, this type of “meddling” would be normalized instead of infidelity being normalized. Props to caller. I wish someone would have told me. ❤❤❤
I would want SOMEONE to tell ME too!! It may not be anyone's business in today's societal-norm, but the moment the infraction happened is when I would have the RIGHT to know, through ANY means necessary.💖
I just dont agree with keeping the qife in the dark. I would be LIVID if i found out peiple knew my husband was having an affair and didnt tell me. Id never talk to those peopl ever again. Morally i think you should tell the perosn being cheated on.
The wife is always the last to know!! Everyone around her knows but don’t say anything 😢 It happened to me until my neighbor friend was brave enough to tell me ❤
I don’t get it…. Just allow the cheating to go on KNOWING she’s being cheated on ….. she tried to go through her best friend and her friend didn’t want to.
Who’s place is it to tell the wife? “Meddling,” Bert is another woman’s “Girl Code” Real Women don’t get involved with married men - because of girl code.
The fact that these people on The Bert show, don't really want cheaters to be found out, that says a lot about them. It is always your place to let someone know if their significant other is cheating on them. No matter what. Deception is never the answer. Holding onto deceit is never the answer. Someone in this show cheats on their spouse if that is their sentiment. There is no situation where it's not okay to tell someone they are being cheated on. Get Real
I have to say I'm surprised you don't support her decision to reach out to the wife. It is absolutely her responsibility to tell the wife. Wow guys. I am a wife. If someone is screwing my husband, I want to know right now. And we are responsible to hold our friends to a higher standard. If we are not falling them out, what are we doing. This was decent. I respect her enormously. This came at a sacrifice for her to explode a friendship and further more there will be fall out when the wife does find out. My goodness, what if there is a court case, the wife needs the caller to there. Shocked with the panel today. Weird weird responses from yall.
I googled this situation cause my best friend is doing the same thing for a year now….i spend hours upon hours on the phone with her telling her how wrong this is, how he’s using her and hurting his wife….she agrees and once their “fight” is over….shes back to acting like nothing happened. It’s aggravating to say the least but also sad for my BF and his wife: I wanna tell the wife so bad and almost ok with losing my BF over it. Because what is happening is gross on so many levels and we aren’t spring chickens - we been those wives! I’m happy this caller notified the wife
These people really bother me sometimes. What’s ICKY is cheating on your wife and destroying your family. It’s not ICKY to tell people if they’re being cheated on. God. Stop steering people away from morality.
This lady is obsessed, she’s turning it into a situation where she feels she has to win against her friend. Stop meddling, you are not being a good friend. The friendship is done. You cannot control other people.
BS, PLEEEEASE KEEP US UPDATED?!?!🙏 Ok, so I was kinda hoping the WIFE would have been an undercover BS listener, and had listened to both prior segments and recognized both women's voices and figured it all out. Thus calling in to the BS to update us.
I was the wife in the dark and I wish one of the plenty that knew would have had the balls this woman has. Kudos to this lady. You are helping the woman that is being wronged have the information to get out of this if they choose.
I was too, and I wish someone had told me much sooner because I wasted a lot of time, not knowing and not being able to make appropriate changes as a result.
Team caller! Wife deserves to know the truth 👏.
When you’ve been the wife in this situation, you aren’t mad at this girl. The wife deserves to know. And people say the wife should find out another way, how?? From who?? She deserves to know period.
EXACTLY!! It ain't like we get to pick and choose HOW we get our World turned upside-down! Nothing shoulda taken place to begin with to turn it.❤
Thank you they are just counting on a mystical "another way" like ok how long do you want his wife to be in the dark then?! Years
100%
I will always support calling out cheaters
Moe when should the wife find out? After she tested positive for an STD when she thought she was in a faithful monogamous marriage
She wasn't updating The Bert Show. She called to update Michelle.
@@gregmadison556 I’m sure Michelle was notified before she called in.
Oh shoot, you're totally right!!!
The wife deserves to know the truth. Cheaters should be called out and dealt with.
The wife deserves to know...period
Doesn’t matter how the wife finds out, she should know. Let’s not protect the sneaky selfish people.
If our society really valued marriage, this type of “meddling” would be normalized instead of infidelity being normalized. Props to caller. I wish someone would have told me. ❤❤❤
Why prop to the caller? It’s not her business and she is just doing this to make herself feel good.
The wife should know so she can make and informed decision @anthonyb6578
@@anthonyb6578would you want to find out your wife cheated when you raised and kid and found out years later it wasn’t yours
I would want SOMEONE to tell ME too!! It may not be anyone's business in today's societal-norm, but the moment the infraction happened is when I would have the RIGHT to know, through ANY means necessary.💖
Same!!
I just dont agree with keeping the qife in the dark. I would be LIVID if i found out peiple knew my husband was having an affair and didnt tell me. Id never talk to those peopl ever again. Morally i think you should tell the perosn being cheated on.
The wife is always the last to know!! Everyone around her knows but don’t say anything 😢
It happened to me until my neighbor friend was brave enough to tell me ❤
I don’t get it…. Just allow the cheating to go on KNOWING she’s being cheated on ….. she tried to go through her best friend and her friend didn’t want to.
Who’s place is it to tell the wife? “Meddling,” Bert is another woman’s “Girl Code” Real Women don’t get involved with married men - because of girl code.
The fact that these people on The Bert show, don't really want cheaters to be found out, that says a lot about them. It is always your place to let someone know if their significant other is cheating on them. No matter what. Deception is never the answer. Holding onto deceit is never the answer. Someone in this show cheats on their spouse if that is their sentiment. There is no situation where it's not okay to tell someone they are being cheated on. Get Real
Girl…MIND YOUR BUSINESS!!! The truth will always come out and let Karma handle itself.
She didn't tell her for the right reasons. I think it was more so to hurt her ex friend than to help the wife, and that does seem dirty on her part.
📌📌 this!!! I’m all for telling the truth and the wife deserves to know , but she only did it to get back at her friend . That is wrong !
I have to say I'm surprised you don't support her decision to reach out to the wife. It is absolutely her responsibility to tell the wife. Wow guys. I am a wife. If someone is screwing my husband, I want to know right now. And we are responsible to hold our friends to a higher standard. If we are not falling them out, what are we doing. This was decent. I respect her enormously. This came at a sacrifice for her to explode a friendship and further more there will be fall out when the wife does find out. My goodness, what if there is a court case, the wife needs the caller to there. Shocked with the panel today. Weird weird responses from yall.
STOP CHIDING PEOPLE FOR HELPING VICTIMS OF CHEATING. Everyone deserves to know the truth when they are being taken advantage of.
I googled this situation cause my best friend is doing the same thing for a year now….i spend hours upon hours on the phone with her telling her how wrong this is, how he’s using her and hurting his wife….she agrees and once their “fight” is over….shes back to acting like nothing happened. It’s aggravating to say the least but also sad for my BF and his wife: I wanna tell the wife so bad and almost ok with losing my BF over it. Because what is happening is gross on so many levels and we aren’t spring chickens - we been those wives! I’m happy this caller notified the wife
These people really bother me sometimes. What’s ICKY is cheating on your wife and destroying your family. It’s not ICKY to tell people if they’re being cheated on. God. Stop steering people away from morality.
I want to know what the wife says. My bet is she already knows.
Let's be honest she was never her friend to begin with...she got herself to involved in her friend business
Caller could have gone this message route in the first go but somehow her hatred for her "friend" pushed her to make a spectacle out of it.
This lady is obsessed, she’s turning it into a situation where she feels she has to win against her friend. Stop meddling, you are not being a good friend. The friendship is done. You cannot control other people.
BS, PLEEEEASE KEEP US UPDATED?!?!🙏
Ok, so I was kinda hoping the WIFE would have been an undercover BS listener, and had listened to both prior segments and recognized both women's voices and figured it all out. Thus calling in to the BS to update us.
Part 4?
Sounds like the same person that calls for different segments… 🥴
They should stop these segments I see people.getting hurt
Shes insane. Shes gonna wreck kids lives and multiple families.
No she didn't do anything
The husband reck the marriage and is kids life
No, the cheating friend and cheating husband are the ones that wrecked their families lives! Better now than a year from now
Y’all blame everyone but the man
Umm the husband decided to wreck his family.
Wait a third party who isn't the husband or his mistress ruined the family - ooo she truly is magical!
Caller has a serious boundary issue.
Find something else to do with your time and mind your biz.