Here's what Jesus really meant by 'Turn the Other Cheek'

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  • @BecomeNew
    @BecomeNew  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    QUESTION FOR THE COMMENTS:
    Of the four illustrations: Turn the cheek, give more than required, go the extra mile, don't turn from the one who asks) which one is most difficult for you?

    • @beanfeld
      @beanfeld 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Turn the other cheek.

    • @ericacollingwood8264
      @ericacollingwood8264 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yup me too, turn the other cheek. Thanks for this great question.

    • @billlottman7339
      @billlottman7339 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same, turn the other cheek. Especially when I am behind the wheel

  • @susansagun7077
    @susansagun7077 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Because we live in the kingdom, we have many more responses available to us. We are rich in possibilities because of how much we’ve been given. I’ll not soon forget this great teaching.

  • @marymartorana2136
    @marymartorana2136 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Giving more than required, going the extra mile is something I have been able to do under God's grace and only that. I have been able to love and generously care for loved ones I have held deep resentments towards, that without God's grace, I know I wouldn't have been able to do otherwise.

  • @lhutcheson9854
    @lhutcheson9854 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Thanks John for helping us see these NOT as new laws but creative alternatives that help us get to the heart motives ❤ Looking people in the eye is so powerful...most people are so trained to screens now... Looking people in the eyes with compassion and curiosity - powerful for the Kingdom of God ❤

  • @georgemckamey1688
    @georgemckamey1688 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    To will the good for the other. So grateful for Dallas Willard’s clarification of love! Now, with the help of God’s Spirit in both understanding and applying this definition of love, I am helped so much to see these Jesus statements not as laws but as a different, alternative, more effective ways to approach difficult encounters - no longer needing to be ultimately concerned about *me* (the bedrock general prevailing assumption) but can now, realizing God’s care for me, think more creatively about how can I respond that will better express the desire for the good of the other. Tough to live, but far, far more restorative and redemptive for everyone concerned.

  • @beanfeld
    @beanfeld 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    So helpful. Jesus wanted us to LOVE everyone and sometimes love says no. Jesus said no to people. He always did and said what was best for the person, even if they didn’t like it. ❤

  • @rayfowler9765
    @rayfowler9765 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thanks, John, for bringing clarity to turning the other cheek, getting sued, carrying others' burdens, and giving to others when asked. Applying the Golden Rule and creative alternatives to those situations has to come from the heart. That is the only way to live in the Kingdom.

  • @crankbait1984
    @crankbait1984 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Turn the cheek is the challenging one. Some people go for the jugular. Some do it very passive. The outcome is the same. Your dinged and hurt. This is where the practice of forgiveness takes over. Still a work in progress here.

    • @lovinggod1298
      @lovinggod1298 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Great teachings

  • @darinsloan1454
    @darinsloan1454 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    In some ways, it would be easier to follow these rules, then to see the truth of my heart, and it’s constant need of guarding

  • @jwwarner28
    @jwwarner28 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    From Numbers 6:24-26 - "The Lord bless you and keep you; the Lord make his face shine on you and be gracious to you; the Lord turn his face toward you and give you peace." This Priestly Prayer was given by the Lord to Moses to teach to all of Aaron's sons. The most wonderful part of the above prayer and hardest one to do (for me) is to look into a person's eyes. The eyes are the light of the Soul, the most personal and private area to be shared... but the most powerful (I think).

  • @lukasrowlinhelcky5731
    @lukasrowlinhelcky5731 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good to see a strong faithfull brother, whos not afraid to defend Yeshuas name! AVE CRISTO REY brother, the weak Christians will say you are wrong, but don’t like being mocked. DEUS VULT🛐✝️☝🏼

  • @keithmcleod3045
    @keithmcleod3045 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Jesus IS the smartest man that ever lived and I really should heed His advice. John, thank you for looking me straight in the eyes and lovingly compel me to deeply consider the words of Christ and live the Golden Rule out daily. Your talks are so helpful to me!

  • @joanncampbell5839
    @joanncampbell5839 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    When I have extra time, what if I asked Jesus : is there anyone that You want me to contact now? By text , phone, etc.
    I feel that is an example He gives me of “to go the extra mile.”
    It is difficult for me to do that when I would rather do solitaire on my IPad. 😒

  • @coletteparker9982
    @coletteparker9982 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great message!

  • @KevinHousman
    @KevinHousman 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I loved your teaching on this!Thank you!

  • @johnmcmannus
    @johnmcmannus 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Such a thought provoking and challenging devotional Thank you!

  • @philliphumble1
    @philliphumble1 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Great insights

  • @coletteparker9982
    @coletteparker9982 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Such a great message. Thank you.

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for watching, Colette!
      Rob

  • @Julie-gv9xe
    @Julie-gv9xe 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Another great message❤

  • @sarahdavies7795
    @sarahdavies7795 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I tend to be quite protective of my resources - time, energy, money etc - so giving more than required and going the extra mile are both quite challenging for me.

  • @rapidpackaging8511
    @rapidpackaging8511 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Love this reminder that connection is true to eye

  • @slimpickens5658
    @slimpickens5658 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you, John, for explaining these because I never fully understood what they meant. I love learning from you!

  • @jhanmole8717
    @jhanmole8717 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you John. A beautiful,clear explanation of these somewhat confusing scriptures. A love the phrase "a creative alternative" as it forces me to think and process differently these words as I apply them to my life. With gratitude.

  • @candyboyer
    @candyboyer 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow, I find all 4 of these points equally difficult! Thank you for giving us a new way to consider them.

  • @RoseExieDavis
    @RoseExieDavis 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks John for clarifying these points. I've not been very clear on their meaning before.

  • @jakechacko3005
    @jakechacko3005 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I remember the “church” situation when John suggested we put this passage to use. Made a profound impact on me.

  • @objtwd
    @objtwd 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Awesome!

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for sharing we are grateful you are part of our Become New community Bucky

  • @kimhill1254
    @kimhill1254 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love that book’ How Green was my Valley’

  • @sueeby8795
    @sueeby8795 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So helpful. Always wondered about this passage.

  • @jlheidbreder
    @jlheidbreder 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    God blessed my momma with generosity from the heart. God also blessed me as her child with that same heart. Much to my husband's dismay 😂. 🙏🏻🕊

  • @MoAmani-r7r
    @MoAmani-r7r 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    As Bible reminds us that the road to the kingdom is narrow and not a broadway. Going the extra mile takes place on that narrow road where there is less traffic. Jesus is reminding us although the world is enticing you to go the broadway, chose the opposite and take that extra mile on the narrow way. John, thanks as always for the clarity on this wonderful passage.

  • @deannpype8882
    @deannpype8882 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Definitely the hardest one for me is to give more than required. Perhaps that's an artifact of barely having enough for most of my life, but that would make me think I'd be MORE willing to give extra as I know how beneficial it is. My husband does an excellent job of showing me what generosity looks like.

  • @melissaroberts9163
    @melissaroberts9163 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was quite interesting. I liked the explanation. 😊

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  หลายเดือนก่อน

      So glad you liked it, Melissa. - Brad

  • @eliacuomo490
    @eliacuomo490 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    A while ago a priest friend of mine told me that the saying, “ Turn the other cheek,” meant that in those days people only used their RIGHT hand to slap someone. The Left hand was used for unclean things/reasons. Therefore, if you turned the other cheek, it would be very difficult for that person to slap you again. Try it and you’ll see how difficult it is. Now that is just one possibility. It has helped me throughout the years.🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @stangierhan4453
    @stangierhan4453 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Living in the kingdom, not an easy way, but so rewarding.

  • @achildofthelight4725
    @achildofthelight4725 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Mutual respect for each other. Tooth for tooth, digesting (chew the cud) each others spoken words coming to mutual agreement, seeing eye to eye.
    Turn the other cheek.
    A dominant right handed man will stap you against the left cheek, whereas the upper hand will strike you with the knuckles across your right cheek (back slap). By turning the other cheek, they no longer have the upper hand.... they have already committed the crime, disrespect.

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you for sharing - we are grateful you are with us Bucky

    • @achildofthelight4725
      @achildofthelight4725 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@BecomeNew everything comes and goes, everything has a reason ❤

  • @paulkick7870
    @paulkick7870 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm convicted of the not looking when someone wants to cut in front of me.

  • @AlvenaNelson
    @AlvenaNelson 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Being treated with complete contempt..
    And more contempt if I m sad about the cruelty..

  • @kristineopsommer
    @kristineopsommer 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have another take that turning the other cheek is to "declare yourself, defiantly, to be your striker's equal." Is there any merit to that? How could it be verified? Thanks so much, and God bless you!

  • @daniellemeadows8291
    @daniellemeadows8291 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

  • @viz8746
    @viz8746 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Mohammad Ali turned the other cheek plenty of times in the ring... to avoid a punch to the face... until he could get in that perfect hook himself! 😄

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Interesting analogy Bucky

  • @tracykamemoto4602
    @tracykamemoto4602 11 หลายเดือนก่อน