I'm a dive master, so this is a nice story of how the fear of the unknown and lack of experience can be overcome with the right mindset and determination to embrace challenges, rather than letting these experiences prevent us from growing or developing. We can apply the same mindset to future challenges by remembering that when we choose to make the unknown, the known, the irrational fear we may have initially will often dissolve. This situation wasn't just about dive training, it was about mindset training too.
Marco is a terrific scuba diving teacher, and it's a great shared experience that Matt understood that his fear was irrational, but instead of just that macho nonsense of 'man up' and trying to ignore it, or giving up, he told his instructor, who helped him over come it. Brilliant. The vast majority of times someone I've known who's had any resistance at all to a new experience, has just given up, avoided the experience, refused to discuss it or do anything about it. A lot of those people have expressed to me, or to others who've told me later, their resentment towards how easy things are to me. It's not. My first kayaking lesson I think the other students thought I was going to drown because I flipped over so many times: I was first, last and most upside down. My basic premise in life, and experience has supported that I am a complete disaster, but if I keep learning I can eventually figure out just about anything.
(Baz) As an SSI certified dive master with close to 350 logged dives I can tell you that it took me about 20 dives before I thought I had it figured out. Each dive is a learning curve. Even with that many dives there are still times when a part of my brain shouts "We've got to get out of here. Get to the surface" and I have a conversation with myself in my head that everything is OK, just breath nice and steady. Eventually the thoughts pass and I enjoy the rest of the dive. Stick with it, the rewards are more than worth it.
I’m really happy you both enjoyed diving. As a PADI instructor who has trained hundreds of divers, I have mixed feelings about the introduction dives, also known as resort dives and discover scuba diving. I’ve met many people who have been turned on to diving this way, but also many who have been turned off. Buoyancy and equalization are usually the two main reasons for negative experiences. If you took the full certification class, you now know that the class is designed to break down these and other skills and ensure you gain proficiency and comfort. The resort courses are often too abbreviated for many people to work through these problems, and some people walk away thinking scuba is not for them. Kudos for you for being honest with Marco, and kudos to him for taking the time to guide you through your areas of discomfort. I hope you have (had?) fun getting certified and enjoy diving as a lifelong pursuit. In case you are interested, here are some pics I took a couple years ago in Indonesia. www.flickr.com/photos/scubagerry359/albums/72157706411092831. Cheers!
I haven't been diving in more than 40 years. I've thought about doing it again since I enjoyed doing it. A lot about my life changed changing coasts to California and one of them was my relationship with the sea. I grew up around boats, surfed, fished, skiied...moved to California 46 years ago and I've been on a boat twice, never surfed or dived or fished again. I exchanged the water for mountains, forests, and deserts. But I still love the sea. Matt, I'm happy you kept at diving.
One of the things that make this work for you and for us is your raw honesty, thank you we feel like family. This is one of the best of your filming, the emotions spoken work well with the cinematography and music. The two of you are an inspiration, a pleasure to watch you grow. Thanks.
"Scuba diving lets you stand and stare" My kind of diver. Nothing better than letting the undersea world come to you rather than chase it away by swimming, swimming and swimming.
From someone with over 1,500 dives in conditions ranging from under thick ice to the wonders of tropical reefs, Welcome to the marvellous experience and enjoyment under the sea! 🙌🏻. Good luck & enjoy!
I agree with Stuart Brown. I was smitten and touched by Matt’s description of his difficulties on the first dive. I could see myself saying, “yes I’ve got this,” thinking I’d taken it all in and then finding myself in trouble. As Matt has told the story I now will know to make sure I’ve mastered the breathing before moving on with the adventure.
To see you face your fears and overcome them, had shed a manly tear. As a man and a diver i understand what you went through. Good on ya for sharing this story.
As a rather aged diving instructor, I recognised immediately what your discomfort was, a lack of training. It warms my heart to learn that you stuck with it and now feel more comfortable under the water. The best time to be around divers is when they pull the DV out of their mouths, to tell anyone to cares to listen, all about the dive they have just done. Safe Diving to you both, Barnacle Bern BSAC Instructor
Loved seeing that experience and the improvements on your second dive. What a cool thing to do and great Marco could guide you to enjoying it. Can’t get over how many fish can be found so close to each other, reefs seem like amazing breeding grounds for wildlife.
Congratulations on taking the plunge (literally!) into scuba diving. I am claustrophobic and understand the fear of being under the water, so kudos to Matt for overcoming that natural resistance to being in an alien environment. Being able to film your prolonged time under the water will add a new dimension to your already excellent video production. If there were TH-cam awards you would win all the gold medals!
Takes a brave man to admit he's scared, braver still to go back and face what scares him. Well done Matt, won't be long and you'll be using any excuse to dive! It's very much like flying, and you just learned how thrilling it is to take off!
The full PADI diving training is vital for safety. The buddy diving system will save your life in time. I fully appreciated this the first time I ran out of air at depth. This does not happen gradually, you breathe out then when you attempt to breathe in there is nothing there,....... Panic. The discipline to swim to your buddy to share their air and go up together is what practice and safe diving is all about. Good on you for having a second go. I’m keen to hear your excitement at your first night dive.
Matt, as a diver for forty years and an instructor of hundreds of students I can tell you that your initial fears and difficulties are very common indeed. The physical forces acting on you underwater are completely different to those on land. It's almost like learning to walk all over again. You have to learn to sense and anticipate your movement in a totally new way. I would say that the average person feels they've really "got the hang of it" after 20-30 dives. Kudos to you for sticking with it and realising it's a learning process. But once you're there, there's nothing like it. Hovering above a reef, completely relaxed and weightless, free to move in three dimensions and controlling your depth to within inches with your breathing. The physical sensation is half the fun of diving!
2 minute chat with the instructor is always a good idea, they know their stuff and have been through all if these issues before. Sometimes turning on your back and making sure your BC is fully purged is worthwhile. Also adding a weight helps. Once you wear a wetsuit you will need more weight to overcome the suit anyway. Not all dives are fun, and finally cuttlefish can be a nuisance during mating season.
Scuba diving makes you very aware of your breathing, something that we rarely consciously think about...that’s why it feels so alien for some people at first. “Feel the fear and do it anyway!” Well done to you 👍🏻
I LOVE scuba diving. I feel so calm and serene afterwards. Sleep amazing after four tanks too. It’s extremely expensive in the Caribbean but I have done it a few times and love it. Wish I could do it in these amazing spots these guys go to! Congratulations!
As a SCUBA diver in southern California I can relate to your experience. Buoyancy control takes practice to master and can be even more difficult if you're underweighted. Great job presenting the story, though! Enjoy your certification experience and many dive adventures to come!
Well done Matt for facing the fear and being brave enough to admit it - and well done Amy for supporting and encouraging Matt the way you did. Thank you for sharing all of that emotional roller coaster. I'm a PADI Dive Master and for me, SCUBA and being underwater is like being in a state of bliss but I've also seen a lot of students face what you did. I would feel bad if you had left it at the first dive. You've found a good instructor and I wish you many more wonderful dive adventures.
So glad to hear your more relaxed on that 2nd dive.. I got Padi certified back in 75 ... One thing you will learn right at the beginning is... PLAN YOUR DIVE AND DIVE YOUR PLAN... Words i have never forgotten .. Good luck to you both.. I look forward to your journey..
Glad you worked past the fears you were having. Many. many have issues with controlling buoyancy the first few dives. Learning to scuba and getting my open water certification actually help me get over my tremendous fear of being in deep open water. I've never had a fear of being out on the water on a boat or being in a swimming pool but I did have a genuine fear of deep open water! Welcome to a new wonderful expensive love...
Thanks for this vid guys. As avid followers of your channel, my partner and I look forward to each vid release from you. For Matt, I completely relate to what you experienced and am very impressed with how you dealt with your fears. Fear is a natural instinct to aid survival. Uncontrolled, it has the opposite effect. The best way to deal with it is to 'get back on the horse' as soon as possible in a less stressful situation than what triggered the fear and then work back to the original conditions whilst reflecting carefully on each step. The progression may not be linear, but by making that first hard step to go back to the activity (diving in this case), you are also creating transferrable experiences that will help you deal with other stressful unrelated situations. One of my great passions for decades has been paragliding, I stepped away from it for a while and lost my nerve as well as motivation to fly, you have just reinspired me to get back into it! Keep up the great vids, in my opinion you two have the best sailing channel on TH-cam.
I agree with Stuart Brown’s comments below. Thanks to both of you for sharing the story, emotions and that communication and trust can result in great experiences for both partners. :)
Good on you, Matt, being afraid, facing that and proceeding anyway is the very definition of courage. Do it enough and eventually, you’re not afraid. You’ll have to explore other areas of possible fear to concur...smiling. Well done, man. Texas
love you honesty Matt - I learned in the UK (BSAC trained) - its a more extreme environment than warm / clear water for sure but you won't find anyone who done a lot of diving who hasn't overcome fear or the spooks as we used to call it. In fact we used to prefer to buddy up with people who knew what this was as they were more likely to stay calm if things went astray. You got back on the horse and I'm sure that took a lot of courage but you will now get the benefit. Getting the right amount of weights on your belt is always a problem when you start out, seems you didn't have enough weight OR you had air in your jacket taking you up - you have to be negatively buoyant, (but not massively so or you sink very quick and speed up as you do), and then add air to the stability jacket to stabilise.
Congratulations Matt on over-coming your fears. As a retired PADI Instructor your concerns are very real. After around 5,000 some dives ironically my greatest fear is that of cold water. It just isn’t enjoyable unless I stay warm. Cheers Matt and Amy. It’s a whole new world to discover!
I really enjoyed this episode! I have a fear of the water but I race my sailboat! Well done Amy and Matt. Amy for helping Matt face his fear and Matt for facing it! An inspiration, indeed.
Bravo Matt! Well done for subduing your fears, however rational they seem at the time and well done Marco, for your skills and abilities (And your calm professional and non-judgemental demeanour) in helping Matt overcome his fears of buoyancy control (Or rather lack thereof!)..... May you both share a lifetime of enjoyment of your new passion and we hope to reap the vicarious rewards! Thanks for posting another great episode!
Scuba diving is a life changing experience, there is nothing like it. Watching my friend try to equalize his suit on the first day was so hilarious that I wanted to laugh underwater. Wasted a lot of air. But after that it was amazing, the colours, the fish, the corals, Breathtaking. Seeing it on camera doesn't do it justice.
As the saying goes, courage isn't a lack of fear, but facing your fear. Absolutely amazing job, with the honesty and facing your fear. So much respect from me, not that it matters, but great job!
What a wonderful, honest, heartwarming story. Bravo Zulu to Matt for facing and conquering his fears. Keep the videos coming. From Baton Rouge, Louisiana
Very vulnerable and real. I to have had a horrible scuba experience. I've never been back, but after seeing you go back, I'll try again. Thanks for taking me along.
I'm glad you gave it another try. I haven't dived in years but I'm a SSI Assistant Dive Instructor. It's often tricky for noobies to catch on to proper breathing and buoyancy control. If you're nervous, it causes you to breath shallow and be more buoyant. Practice makes perfect!
A very strong and honest video. When I first learned to dive and for the first few dives, I would get very anxious at about 10 ft. and had to stop and relax my breathing for just a few minutes. Thank you and I really enjoy your channel.
Learning to overcome rational fear is what makes human beings advance in this world. That you could admit these fears and overcome them is testament to you and your teacher.
no worries about scuba diving, you will learn!!! i was the same on my first dive and now finished my scuba open water certification and feel sooo much more confident and relaxed
The photography and editing in this video are really very excellent. Especially the sequence leading up to the second dive, and the start of the second dive, are very well put together, cinematic and dramatic story telling.
Your first dive is always difficult, but with practice and a good teacher it becomes awesome, I have been diving for about 30 years and got up to my dive master rating, and now that medical reasons have stopped me, I miss it greatly, keep going you will not regret it
Way to go, guys. Scuba is truly a mad experience, if you think about it, it would be odd if something so outlandlish was just as easy as popping a reg in your gob and jumping off a pier. Small point....I would not be taking someone for a try-dive straight into water out of their depth. Horse around in the shallows first until you are comfortable with the kit. Your in-built instincts do not immediately accept that it is possible to breath under water... don't rush them. Secondly, especially for Matt, do the courses. The more you understand the physics of diving the more in control and therefore safer your will be. Both of you please stay safe and don't rush this. There are wonderful experiences to be had but please do your homework and prep first. Enough of my waffle though, thanks for a great movie xx.
Next to learning how to fly, scuba diving is the greatest experience I have ever had. Once you are competent and comfortable with it you can literally go to sleep on the bottom. I once read a NavySeal’s explanation that he had more than 20,000 hours underwater, days on end. Anything you can do on land, can be done underwater . Learn, be safe, and enjoy !
Well done, Matt. You're both inspiring individuals and more so as a couple. Here's a lad who wanted to explore the world in a sailboat, put it all together, and topped it off with a beautiful and capable partner in Amy. Cheers from the Pacific shores of Vancouver, BC, Canada.
What a wonderful video. You both worked together to overcome your fears which really reminded me of agrophobia. You did well to go back and Marco was amazing with those exercises. We loved the vertical fish! What are they? Your videos are truly special. Thank you.🌬⛵⚓😎🦘🙏
Wow. Superb account, and I hope your confidence continues to grow, Matt, and you can genuinely enjoy the dives ahead without having to keep that fear-layer on a leash all the time. Well done, and thank you for your honesty, and especially for being able to talk about it. I love sea swimming, but I'm not a strong swimmer and get to panic stations if there's anything near me in the water - kick out and thrash for the shore - so I'm pretty certain I could not do what you're doing, and my only experience of scuba is going to be what you show us; so thank you again.
Awesome video. I have trouble equalising past 5 metres. I now have a 12v battery hooker compressor, lets me scrub the bottom of the boat left on deck or floats along with me to dive less than 8 metres for abalone and lobster and I don't need a BC. Best bit of kit I've ever purchased.
Thank you so much for telling us honestly how you felt on your first dive. I have wanted to dive for years but my first dive was like yours only I never said anything. I never tried again either. When we can travel again, I’ll give it another try and tell the dive master about my first experience. Thanks again.
Hi Carol, I am so glad that I tried again and very lucky to have all the time in the world with Marco so there was no pressure other than from myself. Now I absolutely love it and over the next 2 videos we'll share our experience of the Padi Open Water course. We are very lucky to have Marco as friend and instructor with no time limits or other people in the class so we have had an amazing experience. We hope you have a better experience when you get to try again.
Yay. You learned to sprint and do backflips and twists before you knew how to crawl ?! I found your channel whilst looking for a boat I could buy to go diving. Then, I fell in love with sailing. Oh, this lovely unpredictable life !
Great Story 👍 So glad you nailed it Matt. It's magical. NOW - As for not telling your instructor (the underwater 'Captain of that diving ship') you put lives at risk out of 'polite pride'. I'm sure that lesson has now been learned. Looking forward to seeing you Enjoy the underwater world. It's amazing.
Oh wow!!!! What a great video! Fear, excitement, courage, beauty. All in one show!!! Can’t wait to see your underwater footages. Well done for embracing fear the way you did. That is what courage is all about. 👍👍👍 Reminds me when I did my first skydive. I became a skydive cameraman after conquering the fear. 😊😊
Well done Matt for giving it another go. Glad it was a better experience second time around. Like you, I was put off learning by the perception that UK waters were cold and gloomy. But with the improvements in kit, particularly dry suits and dive lights , I have really enjoyed diving in the UK. Definitely recommend giving it a go if and when you make it back here,
It's understandable you'd feel that way. Typically, you learn and practice those skills many times before you take your first dive. Glad you were able to work through it as scuba is magical.
Learned to fly many years ago and never had a fear and did well with it even aerobatics. Now scuba may be a different issue as a 7 year old I nearly drowned and had to resuscitated. Years later as an EMT did white water rescue in very rapid rivers. Still would like to learn to scuba dive. Even sky dived into lakes.
As a new subscriber I really enjoyed your videos of exploring the islands and waters of the Indonesia area. Keep up the fine filming and allowing us to experience your relationship as you do so.
I would like to thank you for this video - Having been 5 times to Cubadak Resort, it allows me to see the place again since with the pandemic, impossible to go there ... Took with my wife our Discovery Dive there, and also got hooked immediately, so we took our PADI Open Water course with Marco ... Can't go wrong with Marco, he is patient, takes the necessary time to make sure that every is right and is demanding (for obvious security reasons) and taking the course in Cubadak in a smaller resort is a completely different experience (more like a private class) than the PADI factories in more touristic places, where you are just a number ... Good luck with the Open Water Course and don't forget to enjoy and disconnect from the world above the surface - That is what diving is all about ... Please do say hi to all the Cubadak crew ;-)
Thanks Matthieu We will say hi to Marco and Dominique from you, we have become very good friends with them over the last few months, they still have some local and expat guests visiting but with the closed borders it is very difficult for all the tourist resorts.
hi both I've been diving since the 90s in a lot of places including the uk and mainly the east coast like st abbs so matt glad you got there but remember to relax above all when you do you become a safer diver try taking some food for the fish to take your mind off what you are doing everything will follow with ease if your relaxed. oh I forgot to say I've been around the sea diving and sailing for years and its healthy to be scared I am even now use it.
In the past, I did a lot of scuba diving for lobsters at night. I always used a lot of weight and offset this with air in my BC. Glad to hear you gave it a second chance.
That was beautiful Matt, thank you for sharing! I am so happy that you were able to try it again and overcome your fear. We are looking so forward to seeing footage of your future dives💖
Amazing video. When I learned to Scuba, I found myself being so relaxed underwater that the air volume I used was much less than a lot of the other guys I trained with, meaning I would have half a tank of air left when other guys were running empty and we had to end the dive. From there, my dive instructor would buddy me up with girls (his belief was that females were more relaxed underwater/and in general had smaller lungs, therefore we could stay under longer). Buoyancy control is always difficult to get correct the first time, especially if you've been weighted incorrectly. After a handful of dives you'll know exactly what weights suit you best. You will be surprised how well you can control your bouyancy and when that happens, it's amazing what sealife occurs right in front of you when you're just hovering somewhere.
Great timing! Myself, my husband and our son will be completing a PADI course very soon. It’s our family goal this year. Can’t wait to see through your eyes what your experience has been like. Well done Matt for overcoming your fear. Often great things lie beyond it. Love your work guys. I’m always excited when your vids drop. My absolute fav sailing channel amongst the many out there.
Well done friend. Glad you worked through it with support. I would need help too. I would rather dance on the roof of a highrise than dive into the deep blue. Gives me the chills just thinking about it...
I'm a dive master, so this is a nice story of how the fear of the unknown and lack of experience can be overcome with the right mindset and determination to embrace challenges, rather than letting these experiences prevent us from growing or developing. We can apply the same mindset to future challenges by remembering that when we choose to make the unknown, the known, the irrational fear we may have initially will often dissolve. This situation wasn't just about dive training, it was about mindset training too.
Marco is a terrific scuba diving teacher, and it's a great shared experience that Matt understood that his fear was irrational, but instead of just that macho nonsense of 'man up' and trying to ignore it, or giving up, he told his instructor, who helped him over come it. Brilliant. The vast majority of times someone I've known who's had any resistance at all to a new experience, has just given up, avoided the experience, refused to discuss it or do anything about it. A lot of those people have expressed to me, or to others who've told me later, their resentment towards how easy things are to me. It's not. My first kayaking lesson I think the other students thought I was going to drown because I flipped over so many times: I was first, last and most upside down. My basic premise in life, and experience has supported that I am a complete disaster, but if I keep learning I can eventually figure out just about anything.
(Baz) As an SSI certified dive master with close to 350 logged dives I can tell you that it took me about 20 dives before I thought I had it figured out. Each dive is a learning curve.
Even with that many dives there are still times when a part of my brain shouts "We've got to get out of here. Get to the surface" and I have a conversation with myself in my head that everything is OK, just breath nice and steady. Eventually the thoughts pass and I enjoy the rest of the dive.
Stick with it, the rewards are more than worth it.
You two are fast becoming my new favourite channel. You both are inspirational.
One Life, One Search,
Peace Out,
Shane
I’m really happy you both enjoyed diving. As a PADI instructor who has trained hundreds of divers, I have mixed feelings about the introduction dives, also known as resort dives and discover scuba diving. I’ve met many people who have been turned on to diving this way, but also many who have been turned off. Buoyancy and equalization are usually the two main reasons for negative experiences. If you took the full certification class, you now know that the class is designed to break down these and other skills and ensure you gain proficiency and comfort. The resort courses are often too abbreviated for many people to work through these problems, and some people walk away thinking scuba is not for them. Kudos for you for being honest with Marco, and kudos to him for taking the time to guide you through your areas of discomfort. I hope you have (had?) fun getting certified and enjoy diving as a lifelong pursuit. In case you are interested, here are some pics I took a couple years ago in Indonesia. www.flickr.com/photos/scubagerry359/albums/72157706411092831. Cheers!
I haven't been diving in more than 40 years. I've thought about doing it again since I enjoyed doing it. A lot about my life changed changing coasts to California and one of them was my relationship with the sea. I grew up around boats, surfed, fished, skiied...moved to California 46 years ago and I've been on a boat twice, never surfed or dived or fished again. I exchanged the water for mountains, forests, and deserts. But I still love the sea. Matt, I'm happy you kept at diving.
One of the things that make this work for you and for us is your raw honesty, thank you we feel like family. This is one of the best of your filming, the emotions spoken work well with the cinematography and music. The two of you are an inspiration, a pleasure to watch you grow.
Thanks.
"Scuba diving lets you stand and stare" My kind of diver. Nothing better than letting the undersea world come to you rather than chase it away by swimming, swimming and swimming.
One of the best things about this vlog is your complete honesty in reporting your daily encounters.
well done Matt, takes a brave guy to admit he's scared and ask for help, glad you beat it!
From someone with over 1,500 dives in conditions ranging from under thick ice to the wonders of tropical reefs, Welcome to the marvellous experience and enjoyment under the sea! 🙌🏻. Good luck & enjoy!
I agree with Stuart Brown. I was smitten and touched by Matt’s description of his difficulties on the first dive. I could see myself saying, “yes I’ve got this,” thinking I’d taken it all in and then finding myself in trouble. As Matt has told the story I now will know to make sure I’ve mastered the breathing before moving on with the adventure.
To see you face your fears and overcome them, had shed a manly tear. As a man and a diver i understand what you went through. Good on ya for sharing this story.
Hi Matt, it takes courage to admit fear, and even more to face it. Well done, you should be proud of yourself.
As a rather aged diving instructor, I recognised immediately what your discomfort was, a lack of training. It warms my heart to learn that you stuck with it and now feel more comfortable under the water. The best time to be around divers is when they pull the DV out of their mouths, to tell anyone to cares to listen, all about the dive they have just done. Safe Diving to you both, Barnacle Bern BSAC Instructor
Loved seeing that experience and the improvements on your second dive. What a cool thing to do and great Marco could guide you to enjoying it. Can’t get over how many fish can be found so close to each other, reefs seem like amazing breeding grounds for wildlife.
Congratulations on taking the plunge (literally!) into scuba diving. I am claustrophobic and understand the fear of being under the water, so kudos to Matt for overcoming that natural resistance to being in an alien environment. Being able to film your prolonged time under the water will add a new dimension to your already excellent video production. If there were TH-cam awards you would win all the gold medals!
Takes a brave man to admit he's scared, braver still to go back and face what scares him. Well done Matt, won't be long and you'll be using any excuse to dive! It's very much like flying, and you just learned how thrilling it is to take off!
The full PADI diving training is vital for safety. The buddy diving system will save your life in time. I fully appreciated this the first time I ran out of air at depth. This does not happen gradually, you breathe out then when you attempt to breathe in there is nothing there,....... Panic. The discipline to swim to your buddy to share their air and go up together is what practice and safe diving is all about. Good on you for having a second go. I’m keen to hear your excitement at your first night dive.
Matt, as a diver for forty years and an instructor of hundreds of students I can tell you that your initial fears and difficulties are very common indeed. The physical forces acting on you underwater are completely different to those on land. It's almost like learning to walk all over again. You have to learn to sense and anticipate your movement in a totally new way.
I would say that the average person feels they've really "got the hang of it" after 20-30 dives. Kudos to you for sticking with it and realising it's a learning process.
But once you're there, there's nothing like it. Hovering above a reef, completely relaxed and weightless, free to move in three dimensions and controlling your depth to within inches with your breathing. The physical sensation is half the fun of diving!
Well said, and agreed! I also think he needed more weights…
2 minute chat with the instructor is always a good idea, they know their stuff and have been through all if these issues before. Sometimes turning on your back and making sure your BC is fully purged is worthwhile. Also adding a weight helps. Once you wear a wetsuit you will need more weight to overcome the suit anyway. Not all dives are fun, and finally cuttlefish can be a nuisance during mating season.
A video about diving? Or a video about relationships, communication and feelings? That was quite profound. Thank you very much. :-)
Scuba diving makes you very aware of your breathing, something that we rarely consciously think about...that’s why it feels so alien for some people at first. “Feel the fear and do it anyway!” Well done to you 👍🏻
I LOVE scuba diving. I feel so calm and serene afterwards. Sleep amazing after four tanks too. It’s extremely expensive in the Caribbean but I have done it a few times and love it. Wish I could do it in these amazing spots these guys go to! Congratulations!
Concentrate on all the beauty around you then there is no room for fear. Well done.
As a SCUBA diver in southern California I can relate to your experience. Buoyancy control takes practice to master and can be even more difficult if you're underweighted. Great job presenting the story, though! Enjoy your certification experience and many dive adventures to come!
What an excellent teacher Marko is
Well done Matt for facing the fear and being brave enough to admit it - and well done Amy for supporting and encouraging Matt the way you did. Thank you for sharing all of that emotional roller coaster. I'm a PADI Dive Master and for me, SCUBA and being underwater is like being in a state of bliss but I've also seen a lot of students face what you did. I would feel bad if you had left it at the first dive. You've found a good instructor and I wish you many more wonderful dive adventures.
So glad to hear your more relaxed on that 2nd dive.. I got Padi certified back in 75 ... One thing you will learn right at the beginning is... PLAN YOUR DIVE AND DIVE YOUR PLAN... Words i have never forgotten .. Good luck to you both.. I look forward to your journey..
Glad you worked past the fears you were having. Many. many have issues with controlling buoyancy the first few dives. Learning to scuba and getting my open water certification actually help me get over my tremendous fear of being in deep open water. I've never had a fear of being out on the water on a boat or being in a swimming pool but I did have a genuine fear of deep open water! Welcome to a new wonderful expensive love...
Yuppie .. finally you both doing scuba diving and seeing you both in the water was like wow ....❤️❤️❤️❤️
A great American cowboy once said, "Courage isn't the absence of fear but recognition of fear and saddling up anyways!" Enjoy the dive
It was the blue power ranger that said that
@@shadesofpurple7283 lol.. John Wayne rode herd on all the power rangers.. at the same time.. and only needed one rope, sister!
It was Will Rodgers.
Thanks for this vid guys. As avid followers of your channel, my partner and I look forward to each vid release from you. For Matt, I completely relate to what you experienced and am very impressed with how you dealt with your fears. Fear is a natural instinct to aid survival. Uncontrolled, it has the opposite effect. The best way to deal with it is to 'get back on the horse' as soon as possible in a less stressful situation than what triggered the fear and then work back to the original conditions whilst reflecting carefully on each step. The progression may not be linear, but by making that first hard step to go back to the activity (diving in this case), you are also creating transferrable experiences that will help you deal with other stressful unrelated situations. One of my great passions for decades has been paragliding, I stepped away from it for a while and lost my nerve as well as motivation to fly, you have just reinspired me to get back into it! Keep up the great vids, in my opinion you two have the best sailing channel on TH-cam.
What a great guy Marco for giving you a second chance super well done Matt and Amy joyful and beautiful to watch
I agree with Stuart Brown’s comments below. Thanks to both of you for sharing the story, emotions and that communication and trust can result in great experiences for both partners. :)
Good on you, Matt, being afraid, facing that and proceeding anyway is the very definition of courage. Do it enough and eventually, you’re not afraid. You’ll have to explore other areas of possible fear to concur...smiling. Well done, man. Texas
love you honesty Matt - I learned in the UK (BSAC trained) - its a more extreme environment than warm / clear water for sure but you won't find anyone who done a lot of diving who hasn't overcome fear or the spooks as we used to call it. In fact we used to prefer to buddy up with people who knew what this was as they were more likely to stay calm if things went astray. You got back on the horse and I'm sure that took a lot of courage but you will now get the benefit. Getting the right amount of weights on your belt is always a problem when you start out, seems you didn't have enough weight OR you had air in your jacket taking you up - you have to be negatively buoyant, (but not massively so or you sink very quick and speed up as you do), and then add air to the stability jacket to stabilise.
Congratulations Matt on over-coming your fears. As a retired PADI Instructor your concerns are very real. After around 5,000 some dives ironically my greatest fear is that of cold water. It just isn’t enjoyable unless I stay warm. Cheers Matt and Amy. It’s a whole new world to discover!
Neutral buoyancy takes some practice, when it clicks, it’s a game changer, really glad you persevered! And well done for opening up about your fears.
I really enjoyed this episode! I have a fear of the water but I race my sailboat! Well done Amy and Matt. Amy for helping Matt face his fear and Matt for facing it! An inspiration, indeed.
Bravo Matt! Well done for subduing your fears, however rational they seem at the time and well done Marco, for your skills and abilities (And your calm professional and non-judgemental demeanour) in helping Matt overcome his fears of buoyancy control (Or rather lack thereof!)..... May you both share a lifetime of enjoyment of your new passion and we hope to reap the vicarious rewards! Thanks for posting another great episode!
👍🏼for your honesty. Thank you
Scuba diving is a life changing experience, there is nothing like it. Watching my friend try to equalize his suit on the first day was so hilarious that I wanted to laugh underwater. Wasted a lot of air. But after that it was amazing, the colours, the fish, the corals, Breathtaking. Seeing it on camera doesn't do it justice.
As the saying goes, courage isn't a lack of fear, but facing your fear. Absolutely amazing job, with the honesty and facing your fear. So much respect from me, not that it matters, but great job!
Thank you for sharing, brave of you// Pierre (Sweden)
Great honesty here. Very unique TH-camrs here. A refreshing change. Bravo!!!!
What a wonderful, honest, heartwarming story. Bravo Zulu to Matt for facing and conquering his fears. Keep the videos coming. From Baton Rouge, Louisiana
Very vulnerable and real. I to have had a horrible scuba experience. I've never been back, but after seeing you go back, I'll try again. Thanks for taking me along.
I'm glad you gave it another try. I haven't dived in years but I'm a SSI Assistant Dive Instructor. It's often tricky for noobies to catch on to proper breathing and buoyancy control. If you're nervous, it causes you to breath shallow and be more buoyant. Practice makes perfect!
A very strong and honest video. When I first learned to dive and for the first few dives, I would get very anxious at about 10 ft. and had to stop and relax my breathing for just a few minutes. Thank you and I really enjoy your channel.
Nice! Sailing around the world is pretty brave in itself. Nice job sticking with the scuba.
Such magnificent story telling. Thank you so much for sharing. I will remember this in my future when I learn to dive.
I appreciate you being honest about the experience. I believe I’d feel the same way even though I’m very interested in doing it.
Learning to overcome rational fear is what makes human beings advance in this world. That you could admit these fears and overcome them is testament to you and your teacher.
no worries about scuba diving, you will learn!!! i was the same on my first dive and now finished my scuba open water certification and feel sooo much more confident and relaxed
Bravo Matt! This was a surprisingly touching episode. Your vulnerability and honesty were BRAVE of you to share. So glad you gave it another try.
Amazing. Well done. And well done to Marco for helping you to deal with the problem. A good teacher is worth his weight in gold!
The photography and editing in this video are really very excellent. Especially the sequence leading up to the second dive, and the start of the second dive, are very well put together, cinematic and dramatic story telling.
Your first dive is always difficult, but with practice and a good teacher it becomes awesome, I have been diving for about 30 years and got up to my dive master rating, and now that medical reasons have stopped me, I miss it greatly, keep going you will not regret it
Good on ya mate . That smile when you surfaced was so cool.
Way to go, guys. Scuba is truly a mad experience, if you think about it, it would be odd if something so outlandlish was just as easy as popping a reg in your gob and jumping off a pier. Small point....I would not be taking someone for a try-dive straight into water out of their depth. Horse around in the shallows first until you are comfortable with the kit. Your in-built instincts do not immediately accept that it is possible to breath under water... don't rush them. Secondly, especially for Matt, do the courses. The more you understand the physics of diving the more in control and therefore safer your will be. Both of you please stay safe and don't rush this. There are wonderful experiences to be had but please do your homework and prep first. Enough of my waffle though, thanks for a great movie xx.
Next to learning how to fly, scuba diving is the greatest experience I have ever had. Once you are competent and comfortable with it you can literally go to sleep on the bottom. I once read a NavySeal’s explanation that he had more than 20,000 hours underwater, days on end. Anything you can do on land, can be done underwater . Learn, be safe, and enjoy !
I'm pretty sure that at least 19,000 of those hours were while in a submarine enroute to a drop off point.
Fantastic storytelling in this video. Enjoy the diving!
Well done, Matt. You're both inspiring individuals and more so as a couple. Here's a lad who wanted to explore the world in a sailboat, put it all together, and topped it off with a beautiful and capable partner in Amy. Cheers from the Pacific shores of Vancouver, BC, Canada.
Every Saturday I look forward to your video. Amazing young couple. Keep enjoying your experience.
What a wonderful video. You both worked together to overcome your fears which really reminded me of agrophobia. You did well to go back and Marco was amazing with those exercises. We loved the vertical fish! What are they? Your videos are truly special. Thank you.🌬⛵⚓😎🦘🙏
Thanks, those are razorfish.
Wow. Superb account, and I hope your confidence continues to grow, Matt, and you can genuinely enjoy the dives ahead without having to keep that fear-layer on a leash all the time. Well done, and thank you for your honesty, and especially for being able to talk about it. I love sea swimming, but I'm not a strong swimmer and get to panic stations if there's anything near me in the water - kick out and thrash for the shore - so I'm pretty certain I could not do what you're doing, and my only experience of scuba is going to be what you show us; so thank you again.
Awesome video. I have trouble equalising past 5 metres. I now have a 12v battery hooker compressor, lets me scrub the bottom of the boat left on deck or floats along with me to dive less than 8 metres for abalone and lobster and I don't need a BC. Best bit of kit I've ever purchased.
Good for you to face this and to try again. Thanks for sharing. Shows us that things can be overcome. Fantastic.
Well done fella. Really brave of you.
Appreciate you being real
Thank you so much for telling us honestly how you felt on your first dive. I have wanted to dive for years but my first dive was like yours only I never said anything. I never tried again either. When we can travel again, I’ll give it another try and tell the dive master about my first experience. Thanks again.
Hi Carol, I am so glad that I tried again and very lucky to have all the time in the world with Marco so there was no pressure other than from myself. Now I absolutely love it and over the next 2 videos we'll share our experience of the Padi Open Water course. We are very lucky to have Marco as friend and instructor with no time limits or other people in the class so we have had an amazing experience. We hope you have a better experience when you get to try again.
You kept at it. Way to go. You two got some great footage.
Wonderful to be at peace with the sea.
Brilliant! Relax and go forward your own fear, on better self controled and confident side; what a great lesson!
Enjoy the diving it is amazing especially in the areas you get to .Remember it is good to be nervios and cautious .as this keeps you safe.
Was the reef healthy?
Great vlog, Matt love the honesty but more admire you facing your fear & beating the gremlins, onwards & upwards, enjoy the diving 👍👍
Yay. You learned to sprint and do backflips and twists before you knew how to crawl ?! I found your channel whilst looking for a boat I could buy to go diving. Then, I fell in love with sailing. Oh, this lovely unpredictable life !
Good job Matt.
Great Story 👍 So glad you nailed it Matt. It's magical.
NOW - As for not telling your instructor (the underwater 'Captain of that diving ship') you put lives at risk out of 'polite pride'. I'm sure that lesson has now been learned. Looking forward to seeing you Enjoy the underwater world. It's amazing.
What a way to face your fears! Good job buddy!!
Oh wow!!!! What a great video! Fear, excitement, courage, beauty. All in one show!!! Can’t wait to see your underwater footages.
Well done for embracing fear the way you did. That is what courage is all about. 👍👍👍
Reminds me when I did my first skydive. I became a skydive cameraman after conquering the fear. 😊😊
Absolutely fantastic video, insightful, honest, empathatic relationships, just just fantastic thank you
Wow what an inspiring video of facing your fears!
Well done Matt for giving it another go. Glad it was a better experience second time around. Like you, I was put off learning by the perception that UK waters were cold and gloomy. But with the improvements in kit, particularly dry suits and dive lights , I have really enjoyed diving in the UK. Definitely recommend giving it a go if and when you make it back here,
It's understandable you'd feel that way. Typically, you learn and practice those skills many times before you take your first dive. Glad you were able to work through it as scuba is magical.
how do you practice under water buoyancy without going underwater (= diving)?
Learned to fly many years ago and never had a fear and did well with it even aerobatics. Now scuba may be a different issue as a 7 year old I nearly drowned and had to resuscitated. Years later as an EMT did white water rescue in very rapid rivers. Still would like to learn to scuba dive. Even sky dived into lakes.
Wow, Marco is one awesome man. And well done on facing your fears. Beautiful video guys.
As a new subscriber I really enjoyed your videos of exploring the islands and waters of the Indonesia area. Keep up the fine filming and allowing us to experience your relationship as you do so.
Great lessons for all of us in anything we do that is new and risky. Thank you Matt and Amy.
I would like to thank you for this video - Having been 5 times to Cubadak Resort, it allows me to see the place again since with the pandemic, impossible to go there ...
Took with my wife our Discovery Dive there, and also got hooked immediately, so we took our PADI Open Water course with Marco ...
Can't go wrong with Marco, he is patient, takes the necessary time to make sure that every is right and is demanding (for obvious security reasons) and taking the course in Cubadak in a smaller resort is a completely different experience (more like a private class) than the PADI factories in more touristic places, where you are just a number ...
Good luck with the Open Water Course and don't forget to enjoy and disconnect from the world above the surface - That is what diving is all about ...
Please do say hi to all the Cubadak crew ;-)
Thanks Matthieu We will say hi to Marco and Dominique from you, we have become very good friends with them over the last few months, they still have some local and expat guests visiting but with the closed borders it is very difficult for all the tourist resorts.
hi both I've been diving since the 90s in a lot of places including the uk and mainly the east coast like st abbs so matt glad you got there but remember to relax above all when you do you become a safer diver try taking some food for the fish to take your mind off what you are doing everything will follow with ease if your relaxed. oh I forgot to say I've been around the sea diving and sailing for years and its healthy to be scared I am even now use it.
In the past, I did a lot of scuba diving for lobsters at night. I always used a lot of weight and offset this with air in my BC. Glad to hear you gave it a second chance.
That was beautiful Matt, thank you for sharing! I am so happy that you were able to try it again and overcome your fear. We are looking so forward to seeing footage of your future dives💖
Amazing video.
When I learned to Scuba, I found myself being so relaxed underwater that the air volume I used was much less than a lot of the other guys I trained with, meaning I would have half a tank of air left when other guys were running empty and we had to end the dive. From there, my dive instructor would buddy me up with girls (his belief was that females were more relaxed underwater/and in general had smaller lungs, therefore we could stay under longer).
Buoyancy control is always difficult to get correct the first time, especially if you've been weighted incorrectly. After a handful of dives you'll know exactly what weights suit you best. You will be surprised how well you can control your bouyancy and when that happens, it's amazing what sealife occurs right in front of you when you're just hovering somewhere.
Great timing! Myself, my husband and our son will be completing a PADI course very soon. It’s our family goal this year. Can’t wait to see through your eyes what your experience has been like. Well done Matt for overcoming your fear. Often great things lie beyond it. Love your work guys. I’m always excited when your vids drop. My absolute fav sailing channel amongst the many out there.
Matt I am glad it worked out for you anxiety is no fun.. I am looking forward to seeing more underwater photos in the future.
well done for persevering.....
Well done friend. Glad you worked through it with support. I would need help too. I would rather dance on the roof of a highrise than dive into the deep blue. Gives me the chills just thinking about it...
Great video guys, well done Matt for sharing your fears and then pushing through them. Amy is a natural underwater. Really enjoyed the video. Cheers
Fantastic video ! A great lesson of not being afraid to push the limits! Well done!