If IN-LAWS were 100% Honest

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  • @iretiola8614
    @iretiola8614 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1088

    When he told his daughter in law to care for herself, that really touched me. She’s very lucky

    • @Szamoblack
      @Szamoblack 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Can I care for you too? 😊😊

    • @biancaihua6290
      @biancaihua6290 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      Me, too❤. Like I almost cried😢😫😍😭. He's a good man, I tell you ❤.

    • @flakkie6711
      @flakkie6711 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I teared up ☺️

    • @evaglamifedayo2864
      @evaglamifedayo2864 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Those duo were the best for me ❤

    • @asaahprecious07
      @asaahprecious07 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Says so much about him and his family and how he raised his kids 👏🏾👏🏾

  • @eniolaibikunle
    @eniolaibikunle 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +611

    It was so nice coming on the show
    My father in law is my gee
    Thanks for the beautiful comments ❤

    • @jointhecruise
      @jointhecruise  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽, You're welcome!!!

    • @akumagbairene4287
      @akumagbairene4287 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Love it for you, honestly.

    • @queenekanem5117
      @queenekanem5117 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Yes darling we saw pure and honest love between you and your father in love 🥰

    • @chinemeremugagu4650
      @chinemeremugagu4650 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      No doubt you are blessed ❤

    • @ucheagbogwu3093
      @ucheagbogwu3093 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      when he said you should take care of yourself. I started bawling. He is so the best. He is clearly a great father and great father in-law.

  • @bold_african
    @bold_african 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1125

    Ajibola's wife looks tensed. It feels like she's holding back alot

    • @czas4
      @czas4 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +74

      Or maybe she's just not comfortable in front of cameras and not holding back anything.

    • @oluwatolachristianahdeblev4923
      @oluwatolachristianahdeblev4923 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +54

      I feel she is not so good at spoken communication

    • @Celestial_Expressions
      @Celestial_Expressions 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      Yes she is tensed. You read it right. She's holding back alot

    • @HeyMe75
      @HeyMe75 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +85

      Even the director was begging her to speak her mind. The mom is controlling her house. Its evident because when the daughter in law asked her if she could help her issue with the daughter she said no. The family is not treating her right.

    • @Is_tosaino
      @Is_tosaino 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      @@HeyMe75 I guess there is nothing like that because by looking at the lady eyes she is rather shy than scared.

  • @Being_Dammy
    @Being_Dammy 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +672

    Eniola and her father-in-law….goals tbh

  • @AjiboyeSharon
    @AjiboyeSharon 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +72

    That father and son in-law relationship 🥺
    The wife is actually lucky

  • @erphyahboatema4765
    @erphyahboatema4765 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +328

    These father in laws are the real GOATS!
    Small education and common sense 💯

    • @yomide_naturals
      @yomide_naturals 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      Father in-laws are always cool, na mothers dey always get problem

    • @vivianonyia9505
      @vivianonyia9505 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Education
      Exposure

    • @VictoriaOnyeje
      @VictoriaOnyeje 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Seriously o

    • @kashindikilozo9208
      @kashindikilozo9208 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@yomide_naturalsfr they be competing with theirs son’s wives.

  • @ellasabras1699
    @ellasabras1699 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1962

    This thing that mother in laws do to subject the daughter in laws to unnecessary chores on the first day of meeting her, has to stop. She is your guest, treat her as a human being not a maid. The first day you met her you’re already expecting her to wash plate and clean your house, why?

    • @kareemopeyemi4407
      @kareemopeyemi4407 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +145

      When it’s your turn to visit,sit down and let your mother in law do the chores

    • @lawalsonfaith5284
      @lawalsonfaith5284 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      @kareemopeyemi4407 abi 😅😅😅😂

    • @bongshimedward7065
      @bongshimedward7065 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@kareemopeyemi4407 🤣🤣🤣

    • @elbulk
      @elbulk 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      Thank you, the measure is warped

    • @Freddybeatsz
      @Freddybeatsz 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

      The problem is you don't understand the game of first impression. She has to do it on the first day even if its all in the name of pretense. (there's already a narrative of in-laws out there, you don't want to experience that do you?)

  • @sharrismwofoh251
    @sharrismwofoh251 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +272

    That father and daughter in law relationship, the kind I wish for. Such a special bond

  • @enne2106
    @enne2106 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +468

    Eniola's father-in-law telling her to get better at taking care of herself made me teary😭
    So wholesome ❤

    • @Arvelskincarecorner
      @Arvelskincarecorner 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Aswrrr…. That’s the nicest thing said on this episode

    • @Olamidebrownstitches
      @Olamidebrownstitches 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

      Awww thats my dad and eniola is my sister in-love

    • @stacymoses4138
      @stacymoses4138 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      ​@@OlamidebrownstitchesYour dad is an absolutely amazing man

    • @Knowing-jesus-yourself
      @Knowing-jesus-yourself 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      This man without been told is a good man❤

  • @CharlesRozay
    @CharlesRozay 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +199

    That lady standing with her mother-in-law looks like she's going through a lot and a lot is going through her💔

    • @Ttw221
      @Ttw221 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      She is

    • @maampeeb.c3948
      @maampeeb.c3948 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      😂😂😂😂😂 looks like??

    • @CharlesRozay
      @CharlesRozay 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@maampeeb.c3948 yes nau. One can easily notice that she's extremely terrified of the old woman.
      She clearly looks like she has freedom before speech but bondage after speech

    • @PreciousOjajuni
      @PreciousOjajuni 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ​@@CharlesRozay it's more like she has freedom of speech but no freedom after speech 😩😩

  • @harrym-b6l
    @harrym-b6l 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +104

    No one is talking about the dad in-law and the son in-law❤goals

  • @wynniefredugo3430
    @wynniefredugo3430 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1094

    THE GIRL'S MOTHER IN LAW SEEMS VERY CONTROLLING AND THE DAUGHTER IN LAW SEEMS LIKE SHE'S HOLDING BACK ALL SHE REALLY HAS IN HER IN MIND TO SAY

    • @wakasukku
      @wakasukku 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

      I dnt think so . She's just seems shy towards her which is normal for some people

    • @ucheiwuajoku1037
      @ucheiwuajoku1037 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I agree. Like she knows they will flog her if she talks anyhow 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @czas4
      @czas4 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      ​@@wakasukkuexactly! I don't get why some people don't just understand not everyone is comfortable in front of cameras.

    • @OlatundeO1
      @OlatundeO1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @wynniefredugo3430 the mother in law seems to be supporting the sister in law financially 16:25 you can't bite the hand that feeds you.

    • @thexvault
      @thexvault 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@OlatundeO1 its like you guys wanted her to disrespect the woman??

  • @kiniudokang1809
    @kiniudokang1809 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +493

    Deborah if you are reading this,i pray God gives you strength because this your mother in-law is not it!!
    That woman is very controlling and loves only her son.
    That’s where her sister in-law took her character from.
    All the best sis.

  • @YalaMan01
    @YalaMan01 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +258

    The younger husband has great word choice. He speaks like a wise man.

    • @sophiatsaka5596
      @sophiatsaka5596 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I see it too

    • @joeadeleke
      @joeadeleke 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      He get sweet mouth too. He was just whining the father....
      He said, I promise to never raise my hands on her or my voice except I'm singing for her. Mad oooo😂

    • @AbdulrahmanTemitope
      @AbdulrahmanTemitope 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      That guy Sabi pick words

    • @anonnona6433
      @anonnona6433 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      As in ❤❤❤❤

  • @faithdogara9843
    @faithdogara9843 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +188

    Even Director noticed the tension from Deborah, omoooo

  • @tayomi1703
    @tayomi1703 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +229

    This mother-in-law is lowkey wicked even the director noticed she wasn’t comfortable
    The mother-in-law is only concerned about obedient and submission indeeed “obinrin lota obinrin”😢

    • @zikoraHub
      @zikoraHub 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      And she was saying if she decides not to support her with money anymore...omo

    • @adetolaarinade1744
      @adetolaarinade1744 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      You can even see the part where the mother in law said whenever her son and his wife had issues,she always supported the husband that's her son in the presence of both the son and his wife and later begged the wife and told her it's because she wants her to stay long/last in her husband's house

    • @adetolaarinade1744
      @adetolaarinade1744 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly

  • @Obianuju_O
    @Obianuju_O 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +571

    Debby made herself a slave to the family from the first day😢😢😢

    • @kiniudokang1809
      @kiniudokang1809 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      I feel so too 😢

    • @queenekanem5117
      @queenekanem5117 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

      You getttt like don't start what you can't keep up😢

    • @lemondropzs
      @lemondropzs 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      But she was fearful from what her friends experienced with their in laws

    • @Obianuju_O
      @Obianuju_O 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

      @@lemondropzs better single than a slave...because now is she happy? We've been made to feel like being single after a certain age is a curse, so we willingly end up in bad situations. It's sad

  • @sophiatsaka5596
    @sophiatsaka5596 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +179

    The guy who is a teacher is obviously growing... Love it. I see why the father in law is confident about making him his son-in-law

  • @lolojack5109
    @lolojack5109 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +569

    That “what did she do to you” sounded somehow. Like the MIL is ready to defend her daughter no matter what…

    • @gorgeousenergy6269
      @gorgeousenergy6269 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      Exactly!!

    • @silvermistdaniel4335
      @silvermistdaniel4335 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

      Passive aggressive.

    • @osuyibaba
      @osuyibaba 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

      thank you for saying this joor, i felt it too, i knew from the start the kind of person she is, she is really strict and also passing that strictness to her daughter inlaw which is not totally okay but the moment she asked "what did she do to you (with her body language)" omo i just felt pity for the lady. with the look of things, it shows that the girl is holding back too much, she wouldn't want to say what's really in her mind for peace to reign.

    • @Melb321
      @Melb321 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      And she defended her too

    • @urhiedeedah7832
      @urhiedeedah7832 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Realllll

  • @adesewa_rita
    @adesewa_rita 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +284

    14:59 "take care of my child, my son and your baby"
    Oh wow, best of luck to Deborah.

    • @enyaofficial
      @enyaofficial 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

      She scares me oh 🤣

    • @Obianuju_O
      @Obianuju_O 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

      Do you gettt....not even a mention of the caretaker😢

    • @lemondropzs
      @lemondropzs 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      Crazy! That statement made me legitimately uneasy

    • @ezeoruruth3887
      @ezeoruruth3887 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Omo I shock o. I feel for her😢

    • @frankmimi9853
      @frankmimi9853 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      She did nt add, that she should take care of her self ohh

  • @phish2947
    @phish2947 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +455

    Deborah is definitely holding back a lot in regards to her mother in law. The MIL seems very rigid , strict and comes across as someone who you have to walk on eggshells with.

    • @Sinachisays
      @Sinachisays 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      But I still feel like it's because she's camera shy😂😂😂...

    • @OlatundeO1
      @OlatundeO1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      the mother in law seems to be supporting the sister in law financially 16:25 you can't bite the hand that feeds you.

    • @karoenajemo
      @karoenajemo 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      And she takes the advice personally to stay in her marriage no matter what. Even this show nor go spoil her marriage.

    • @zweij
      @zweij หลายเดือนก่อน

      poor Deborah I felt the same

    • @fiy4747
      @fiy4747 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      she is growing through alot. May God help her

  • @iamomotolah9176
    @iamomotolah9176 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +392

    Omo!!! “Submit your self to the family and to your husband” somebody help me spell SUFFER!!!😭😭 I reject this in the mighty name of Jesus

    • @ArabicwithAmin
      @ArabicwithAmin 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      your mentality won't kill you

    • @Ttw221
      @Ttw221 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      You spoke my mind the only person she needs to submit to is her husband . The day that girl goes against her mother-in-law the relationship will go left . God help her

    • @Korede12344
      @Korede12344 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      I cringed she kept saying obedient… She’s looking for househelp not daughter in law

    • @iamomotolah9176
      @iamomotolah9176 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@ArabicwithAmin amen!!!!

    • @iamomotolah9176
      @iamomotolah9176 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      @@Ttw221 amen. The part where she made everyone know that is she is helping her daughter in law sent chills down my spine.

  • @enyaofficial
    @enyaofficial 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +348

    If your daughter in-law is obedient and you keep threatening her to b obedient or else there’ll be trouble, it’s scary.😂 I understand that she’s a fierce woman but if her daughter in-law becomes free and really say her mind even in the most respectful way, she will take it like the girl has started growing Wings or being stubborn.

    • @amir_official2007
      @amir_official2007 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Women will be women.

    • @lemondropzs
      @lemondropzs 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      Agreed! Although, that statement growing wings is crazy and reveals the mentality of people who think being free is a bad thing.

    • @loved984
      @loved984 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly

    • @Knowing-jesus-yourself
      @Knowing-jesus-yourself 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not all women is bad this one experience bad mother in-law na make her be bad mother inlaw

    • @chelseaxoxo784
      @chelseaxoxo784 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      See her son here​@@amir_official2007

  • @julietspeace8186
    @julietspeace8186 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    I wish me and my mother-in-law can come here. She’s the sweetest person ever that woman really shows all her daughter-in-law‘s love. She really cares about all of us.

    • @Exquisite11
      @Exquisite11 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I receive this in Jesus name. To be loved by my whole husband’s family

    • @JuliaPedro
      @JuliaPedro 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Please do. There are women with fantastic MIL and we need watch such videos abeg.

  • @ohwell7344
    @ohwell7344 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +419

    I don’t trust that mother in law… I feel like the girl is faking happiness and the way the mother in law is speaking sounds like she probably is a bully

    • @dinojnr001
      @dinojnr001 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

      The girl probably have anxiety, you could see she couldn’t express herself well in good English.

    • @wynniefredugo3430
      @wynniefredugo3430 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      i SENSED THE SAME THING, VERY TRUE

    • @sandraogbusi248
      @sandraogbusi248 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@dinojnr001 more like it

    • @deserieoware7055
      @deserieoware7055 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      Exactly, I don’t believe her when she says she’s been a good mother in law

    • @rambeatz_maydit
      @rambeatz_maydit 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Don't just jump into conclusion

  • @benitamulsanne8496
    @benitamulsanne8496 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +300

    I can’t count how many times she told her to be obedient 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @favourratiti
      @favourratiti 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      I dey fear on the girls behave

    • @Only1Coda
      @Only1Coda 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Likeee

    • @Korede12344
      @Korede12344 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I cringed😂 she Dey find househelp …not daughter in law

    • @21Bammy
      @21Bammy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Could just be her choice of words, they seem cool tho

  • @jolaoluwaoyinlola8461
    @jolaoluwaoyinlola8461 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +323

    Ajibola’s mother wants to walk on everyone 😅😭every sentence has “submission” abeg

    • @farfalles2665
      @farfalles2665 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      she's so old-fashioned, my goodness.

  • @abdulbasit4854
    @abdulbasit4854 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

    The two Father in laws are so chill. I love them, cant say same about Debbie's mil

    • @ZainabPholly
      @ZainabPholly 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I really love them both❤

    • @Fatimah-t5b
      @Fatimah-t5b หลายเดือนก่อน

      Father in-laws rarely have issues. It's always the mothers

  • @natachaadjakly4020
    @natachaadjakly4020 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +110

    I’m so proud of our fellow Africans brothers and sisters for starting to really open up on this kind of topic. Even though we still got a lot of work to do, it’s refreshing to see we’re in the progress.

  • @rachaelnwankwo6978
    @rachaelnwankwo6978 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +675

    Submitting herself to the family is crazy, omo 😭

    • @kiniudokang1809
      @kiniudokang1809 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

      Do you get 😂, omo that’s wild

    • @amir_official2007
      @amir_official2007 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It's not really a bad thing.
      🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃

    • @Ms.Baidoo199
      @Ms.Baidoo199 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

      😂😂😂😂some of these inlaws erhh😂😂😂😂😂😂. They should thank God for the inlaws they have cos some people won't take this nonsense. Because of marriage????😂

    • @lemondropzs
      @lemondropzs 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      Where in the bible did it say that? She’s needs to chill

    • @tamiausten873
      @tamiausten873 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Very crazy

  • @abubakarunoiza5986
    @abubakarunoiza5986 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +137

    Bruh ... The day Deborah decides to speak up, they'll she has changed. That lady is holding back!
    Her MIL is a red and orange flag in one.

    • @marvyyy
      @marvyyy 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Say na orange😭😂
      But I really feel for her. Feels like a bondage

    • @fiy4747
      @fiy4747 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      the mother in law is a Rainbow flag!! she is red, green yellow, everything. I feel sorry for the girl

  • @Va-WaBwanaYesu
    @Va-WaBwanaYesu 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +92

    I feel so bad for Ajibola’s wife/Deborah!! It seems like there's something off! I pray for her peace and joy.

  • @SB-qr6lk
    @SB-qr6lk 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +60

    I hope Jibola watched this. How does he feel watching his wife tremble before his mother and that his sister should get a grip

    • @livetodaybrown5846
      @livetodaybrown5846 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I hope he protect her seriously

    • @Ada-vc8jp
      @Ada-vc8jp 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      It’s so unfortunate but the truth is that he’s probably worse so he may not give a damn

    • @vykn1142
      @vykn1142 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      He sees this live. He knows

  • @biancaihua6290
    @biancaihua6290 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +93

    Eniola's father-in-law's statement on her loving herself touched me❤🔥. I almost cried 😭😭😭😭😍. He really loves his daughter-in-law ❤🎉. Shey I'll not marry into their family bayi?😂❤

  • @samuelshina7557
    @samuelshina7557 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +198

    Ajibola’s wife has something to say aside this….. she’s going through alot

    • @may_beeharuno2195
      @may_beeharuno2195 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      I know some wives can be annoying, but some mother inlaws are too much, huh

    • @samuelshina7557
      @samuelshina7557 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@may_beeharuno2195 very serious.

    • @akoredeakeroro3064
      @akoredeakeroro3064 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      It's easy for you to notice that SHE'S ONE OF THOSE CRAZY WOMEN THAT WILL FIGHT FOR YOU IN A WAY THAT WILL SHOCK YOU.
      She said she learned not to interfere in marriage from experience, but if you objectively listen to her... You'd know she's a sweetheart inside all of that HARD WOMAN HARD WOMAN.

    • @mawannomiseunfunmi8841
      @mawannomiseunfunmi8841 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      ⁠@@akoredeakeroro3064😂na lie, dey play. She says she doesn't interfere but still proudly states that her son tells her everything that goes on, like him washing his wife’s cloth.(if she isn't interested in interfering she’ll advice her son to stop bringing all their family talks and not her making such statement)
      Plus if she was a bad person or interferes would she say it.

    • @akoredeakeroro3064
      @akoredeakeroro3064 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@mawannomiseunfunmi8841 and did she interfere? NO!!!! The son said it and she's even smiling about it that it's none of her business.
      Towards the end, the wife even said she does more than her step-mom.... If you've encountered these kind of women, you'd understand that they're tough and this lady seem to know her mumu button(RESPECT) so they'll always fight for her.
      Believe me, if someone talks bad about her behind her, she'd stand for her and most likely not tell her...

  • @VuyelwaRoyaltyy
    @VuyelwaRoyaltyy หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    "it's none of my business. I don't get involved in their issues"
    But proceed to say she knows everything 20:57

  • @sarahreviewsinasmr
    @sarahreviewsinasmr 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +94

    Deborah and her mother-in-law are a case study😂. She seems so scared of her mother-in-law. As for the mother in law she is too blunt and that can hurt someone's feelings.
    The best relationship is Eniola and her father in law.

  • @FolashadeAdekunle-n1y
    @FolashadeAdekunle-n1y 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +116

    That Ajibola's wife has so much more to say but she is probably scared 😢

    • @joymathew9906
      @joymathew9906 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Scared of after effect of her words so she's being mindful

  • @ani_ndokwa1244
    @ani_ndokwa1244 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +108

    Simeon and his son-in-law is a goal😂😂... If I were the daughter or sibling I do be jealous of there relationship

  • @Sweediepie
    @Sweediepie 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    I come against every mama ajibola in form of a mother in-law in Jesus name.
    By God's grace, I get reminded almost on a daily basis that I am nice to my bones and I pray everyday that nothing makes me change so I will remain righteous in the eyes of my heavenly father but at the same time, my mama born me well. I am also wired to resist any form of bullying and oppression no matter what.
    Any mother in-law that wants to misbehave will see the benin girl in me
    I sha don't know why these types of mother inlaws do not meet their match in their daughter in-laws, instead they see the ones that walk on egg shells to please them.
    That's why i pray to God to bless the works of our ladies' hands coz when you have your own money and are doing well, no anyhow ruffian mother in-law will dare you.
    Mama ajibola is using the word 'Submit' as disguise to the words 'Suffer and don't forget to always swallow our nonsense'.

    • @TheChibuogwu
      @TheChibuogwu หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      AMENNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN

  • @hannahmbunabor9073
    @hannahmbunabor9073 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +342

    Ajibola wife de suffer 😂😂😂😂nothing you wan tell me

  • @sparklyxD
    @sparklyxD 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +142

    17:13 “he loves to be among ladies even when he was young” that doesn’t make him a lover boy that makes him a player😭😂😂

  • @Ephraimmakuo
    @Ephraimmakuo 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    It's apparent that Ajibola's family are showing that girl pepper

  • @Obianuju_O
    @Obianuju_O 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +96

    If they were asked these questions separately I wonder if Debby's answers would change...seems tense and her mother in law's look😢

  • @heyitzame
    @heyitzame 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    The thing is, moms-in-law expect a girl visiting with their son for the first time to do chores depends entirely on how the son talked about her prior to the meeting.
    If he has talked about her with respect and hyped her up when explaining to them, they would never ever try or expect her to collect broom and sweep or wash plates.
    There’s a difference between, “I’ve found a woman i want to marry, she’s a beautiful ekiti woman, runs her own successful fashion business and is everything i prayed to God for,”
    and
    “I’ve seen the girl i want to marry, she’s a tailor, from ekiti but doesn’t behave like them, she can cook and clean and wash clothes, and she’s okay sha.”
    Men, introduce your woman in a way that she seems untouchable, and nobody would dare to disrespect her.

  • @amawoobey
    @amawoobey 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +60

    I luv the educationist , the first thing he said was he gave the man the first yes

  • @mhobabs
    @mhobabs 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +130

    This Ajibola's mother is the kind of mother-in-law you pray against.

  • @Adenike_Bekah
    @Adenike_Bekah 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    11:50 This Father-in-law and son-in-law relationship is cute too.😊

  • @Blessing8113
    @Blessing8113 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +118

    Deborah blink twice if you need help 😭😭😭😭

  • @DM-wo7cw
    @DM-wo7cw 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    The father in laws and their in laws are so sweet. The relationships are so wholesome and I’m very very here for it. I love beautiful in law stories ❤

  • @viviannarh1230
    @viviannarh1230 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +608

    Godforbid this ajibola’s mother😂

    • @Everinny
      @Everinny 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      That is your opinion it works for them so I guess it may not work for you

    • @Your_Fave_Critic
      @Your_Fave_Critic 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +82

      Likee. That woman is not a good mother in law. There’s nothing you fit tell me

    • @Odimbu
      @Odimbu 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      Ajibola's mother is too possessive. God help their marriage 😢

    • @mawannomiseunfunmi8841
      @mawannomiseunfunmi8841 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      @@Everinnywhat makes you think it works for “them” it definitely doesn't work for that wife.😢

    • @Everinny
      @Everinny 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@mawannomiseunfunmi8841 I guess but she could state that to her husband or to the mother-in-law if she can’t that’s her cross to bear

  • @sylviemoses
    @sylviemoses 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    "I promised myself never to raise my hands, but i thank God more that i don't even have a reason to raise my voice, except I'm singing for her..." Love ittttttt😍😍🔥😅

  • @mawuenabenedictaaborchie8421
    @mawuenabenedictaaborchie8421 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    “Not everyone in your husband’s family will embrace you” wow, what a beautiful statement 😊

  • @folasadesubomi
    @folasadesubomi 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Eniola and her father in law and Sowemimo and his father in law's relationship is everything to be honest 😭❤️

  • @OmolaraN
    @OmolaraN 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +162

    You picked up broom the first day your daughter in law to be came to your house?? 🤣🤣🤣 Orisirisi
    The way I go fail all these useless tests ehn, God keep me way from such local people and their kids

    • @Cynthajames131
      @Cynthajames131 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Amen

    • @floralartey1171
      @floralartey1171 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Me to oooh 😂

    • @wonderwoman3512
      @wonderwoman3512 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Amen o

    • @Enkaybe
      @Enkaybe 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Amen!

    • @EvolvingOreoluwa
      @EvolvingOreoluwa 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Likeeeee
      If she like make she sweep tarred road I go just dey look am😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @OkoegualeFaith
    @OkoegualeFaith 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    "you do more than my mother" there's more pain on that than truth from Deborah

  • @MM-dj7tn
    @MM-dj7tn 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +73

    These in-laws are all nice to each other. what a miracle😂

    • @YothEFuck
      @YothEFuck 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      let's say not the mother in law 😬

    • @adekanmbioluyemi4871
      @adekanmbioluyemi4871 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      An irony though.
      Mot all of 'em.
      You too you know. Lool

  • @olamideogunbayo5496
    @olamideogunbayo5496 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +106

    Imagine supporting her son when hes wrong,tufiakwa

    • @kosisolucy9150
      @kosisolucy9150 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      There's something you didn't get.... She will support him in the wife's presence but later will let him know he was wrong. In her words, the reason she does that was for the daughter in law not to be quick to leave the marriage

    • @olamideogunbayo5496
      @olamideogunbayo5496 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      ​@@kosisolucy9150that will even push the wife to leave faster and make her feel like they are ganging up on her

    • @vykn1142
      @vykn1142 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@kosisolucy9150there's something you didn't get. That's terrible behavior. You wouldn't like it if it happened to you.

  • @queenekanem5117
    @queenekanem5117 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +137

    Deborah looks and sounds traumatised 😢she withholding alot of things

  • @preciousdominics8433
    @preciousdominics8433 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    The lady that’s with her mother Inlaw sounds so scared

  • @Zeezazoi
    @Zeezazoi 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    As a South African this show just made me love this nation even more.... There's nothing as beautiful as humility and humbleness. ❤

  • @kossynifemigold
    @kossynifemigold 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I like Lekan and his father inlaw relationship. He married well😊he's so happy.

  • @samuelshina7557
    @samuelshina7557 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +164

    This teacher just dey give him father in law rizz😂😂

    • @joeadeleke
      @joeadeleke 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

      abi o😂 He said, I promise to never raise my hands on her or my voice unless I'm singing for her. Mad oooo😂

    • @Beautyonitsown
      @Beautyonitsown 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@joeadeleke😂😂😂 love that for him

    • @estheruko-abasi1889
      @estheruko-abasi1889 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The father inlaw said you’re special to me 😭❤️❤️

    • @eddyking1666
      @eddyking1666 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I love their relationship.. very beautiful

  • @diekooladimeji645
    @diekooladimeji645 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Eniola and her father in law are goals😩😩😩

  • @sitirasworld1537
    @sitirasworld1537 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    About the question that asked “there’s a member of your family I’ve still not fully gotten along with” and what the father in-law said to the teacher about his younger sister being indoors when ever he’s around. I can attest to that, it’s isn’t because the girl doesn’t like him but because she’s an introvert and that’s how introvert behaves not because she doesn’t like you but that’s how she is.

    • @benoitsonia2054
      @benoitsonia2054 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I felt like he was referring to me 😂, that’s exactly how I behave when my sister’s in-laws visit, and I really like them but too quick to run to my room after serving them

  • @niechaihassan5357
    @niechaihassan5357 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I cried while watching this. My MIL died two years ago, she was the best MIL in the world. I regret no spending as much time with her, i just thought we still time on our side to do all the things we wanted to do.

  • @KellysTv
    @KellysTv 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +85

    Debby simply doesn't want trouble after the show😢

    • @talktimewithb1760
      @talktimewithb1760 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Exactly, she was just walking around eggshells throughout

    • @esthersolarin
      @esthersolarin 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly what I just commented!

  • @Asher4920FoodServices
    @Asher4920FoodServices 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    Oh.. Debby married a man that doesn't know where to draw the line with His Mum. I feel so sad for her. For someone who went through this nonsense before My Husband put his feet down and said a resounding NO, I recognize the signs toooo well!
    Ajibola's Mum is a NO NO 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @livetodaybrown5846
      @livetodaybrown5846 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Exactly

    • @marvyyy
      @marvyyy 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Mummy’s boy😭

  • @christolulope5915
    @christolulope5915 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +80

    God forbid Ajibola’s mother ooo. What’s this? 😂😂😂

  • @ezeoruruth3887
    @ezeoruruth3887 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    Your mother in law doesn’t love you period! Look at her body language and turn of her voice😏. The lady with her Father in law won in life😍

  • @PreciousTosin-tu2mk
    @PreciousTosin-tu2mk 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +90

    😂’’you need endurance 😂’’ for sis-in-law wey Dey do anyhw😂😂

  • @adjoagadesseh1109
    @adjoagadesseh1109 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    In my husband family, his father and grandmother are the only one who welcomed, treated me like their own. Eespecially the grandmother, till today, noone knows that I've heard a conversation and she didnt accept them to criticise me. Unfornately, she passed this year.
    It was like she can see through you, to the depth of a person. Hum!!! May God grant her a peaceful continuation.

    • @kallmekoko6277
      @kallmekoko6277 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Amen🙏🏾

    • @Enkaybe
      @Enkaybe 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You Ghanaian??❤

  • @ibikunletemitayo3053
    @ibikunletemitayo3053 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    This video is so sweet to watch. Thank you Daddy Ajoje for loving my sister genuinely ❤❤❤❤

  • @mpihadassah1775
    @mpihadassah1775 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Simeon and Lekan, I love their relationship 🥹❤️
    And the Ajoje’s are so beautiful to watch❤️❤️😭😭

  • @Sommee_007
    @Sommee_007 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +79

    God please I need the type of father-in-law you gave to Eniola🙏

    • @Olamidebrownstitches
      @Olamidebrownstitches 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      😁 thats a good prayer, he is the best daddy in the world

  • @thubelihlencube2264
    @thubelihlencube2264 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is nice to see the father in law and son-in-law are goals , Deborah I hope she is really happy

  • @lemondropzs
    @lemondropzs 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +57

    The way Ajibolas wife stays excessively praising the mother in law is telling… Sad

    • @TheChibuogwu
      @TheChibuogwu หลายเดือนก่อน

      If she no praise am, she fit sleep outside that night. 😂😂

  • @kashifibr4606
    @kashifibr4606 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    To summarize the mom inlaw is telling her daughter in-law to be slave to the family and if she stopped submitting her self to the family they will fight, i can't even imagine how the daughter in-law is feeling from the inside 😢😢

  • @Hirhyel-b3b
    @Hirhyel-b3b 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    “Respect”, “test”, “obey”, “endure”
    Hmm😢

  • @salomeakpor7153
    @salomeakpor7153 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    We can see from this video why mother in-laws always have issues with their children's spouses, the love and bond with the father-in-laws in this video just says everything.

  • @Raetalkss
    @Raetalkss 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    The father in law are so sweet!

  • @deborahakhimie3144
    @deborahakhimie3144 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Can you please send special hugs and thank you to the daddy's. They are awesome!!

  • @HIREX-r2n
    @HIREX-r2n 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    I really hope Deborah is okay😢. She does not look happy

  • @aretharemilekun
    @aretharemilekun 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The father-daughter in law relationship is top notch

  • @uredoadamusa4955
    @uredoadamusa4955 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Wow. Deborah. The Lord is your strength o. This your Mother-in-law is something else

    • @arinzeokika2263
      @arinzeokika2263 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How'd you know? You just judged her whole personality from these short clips... Omo ehn

  • @Eyeluvjess
    @Eyeluvjess 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This is why it’s always best to know yourself and have a backbone.

  • @sophiakingsley2890
    @sophiakingsley2890 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Great show. Though, I would have love to see a mother-in-law talk with her son-in-law.
    Secondly, the comments about the mother-in-law…😂 one thing we should know is that some of our elders are quick to see being REAL as being RUDE. Most of us know this, especially when you are from a particular tribe that doesn’t joke with respect. As much as Deborah doesn’t look happy, I understand that she is being diplomatic, and it is for her own good. It is well with her.

  • @Is_tosaino
    @Is_tosaino 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Being your in law fav is a blessing because they will value you alot and respect you.

  • @evalsamelemi9930
    @evalsamelemi9930 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    She just dy do blah blah blah got me 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @preciousuwaheren9013
    @preciousuwaheren9013 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    When someone is tensed like this and you are smiling casually like everything is fine. There's a deep thing behind

  • @galacticos2678
    @galacticos2678 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    That mother in-law interfer's in her daughter inlaws relationship well. you can tell the young lady dones't wanna talk too much.

  • @Adenike_Bekah
    @Adenike_Bekah 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    12:34 They are my favourite duo here. Eniola has an amazing relationship with her father-in-law.

  • @_d.395
    @_d.395 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    Ajibola's Mother and wife should sign up for Nollywood

    • @houseofblacktv4073
      @houseofblacktv4073 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Ajibola mother is an actor in the Yoruba movie industry

    • @Enkaybe
      @Enkaybe 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂

  • @onyeogocephas3832
    @onyeogocephas3832 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love the way Lekan speaks. he is well educated and loves to play with words. He is indeed a fun to be with

  • @OmolaraN
    @OmolaraN 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    Deborah has a lot she’s holding in clearly.

  • @madewithlovebyb1824
    @madewithlovebyb1824 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Simeon and his son in law made me smile too.

  • @PreciousKofoworola
    @PreciousKofoworola 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I feel like soon-to-be married couples should come on this show with their families to know if it’s worth going ahead

  • @fa6534
    @fa6534 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Eniola’s FIL is great. Reminds me of my sister’s FIL

  • @FolashadeAdekunle-n1y
    @FolashadeAdekunle-n1y 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    That submit yourself to the family statement dey vex me abeg

  • @ayomideanitanejo7857
    @ayomideanitanejo7857 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    I feel like Ajibola's wife is on eggshells with his mum😢.
    She looks tensed.