Reality, remember the case you tried to settled before of the man who was keeping the wife for five years, will leave her for that long. this is all rubbish. He just wants to frustrate that girl
Personally haven't heard of many cases, the wife follow abroad that the husband doesn't end up in prison, while they and their family sell and abuse all they have worked for...she just the first that jumped the gun and flipped out before they secure the wife position, bad guidance from the greedy family members or whomever given her the advice to USE this guy...GOOD FOR HIM, KEEP 🏃♂️ 🏃♂️ 🏃♂️ 🏃♂️ GUY!
This Michael should be grateful to God for giving him the wisdom for making the right decisions. I strongly support this decision of not taking Sarah with him abroad. This is the best decision ever. I live abroad, and I know the drill. God bless this man.
Thank God for that man if not he could have been deported and lose everything. Mc the man made the right decision am leaving in abroad , if that guy try to bring the girl come abroad he will be deported and lose everything for the girl and her family.
He never planned to take the wife aboard because He has a wife in YANKI and he can only be legally married once or face bigamy and jail time. This is just a lame excuse. If I was Sarah, I will marry him but I will get all Belle from someone else since he left him in Nigeria.
She has just displayed exactly what she would do when she gets there, and her family will support her just like they are displaying now. God has just saved you from that family……
Brother do not marry this family, they will never like you. All they want is court marriage, in six months or after collecting everything from you and divorce you is the next step. After all the problems, nobody really wants you anymore. Get yourself another lady. From USA
Oga u r more than smart man I ever see,u made decision nd stand for it oga u have to thank ur friend for serving u from this gold digger family for what am seeing here if u take her to abroad u will regret it... Thank God for ur friend God use ur friend to serve you
Man am here in Europe, my wife over here is a living hell, if they come here, things will change and she will do what ever she want and will be controlling you and reap you over here.
This two people are the ones in charge of Sarah's decision & even while married in his house, the three, Aunty, wife & brother will finish Michael within & outside Nigeria.
Oga it's because of the shop and car that is why they are now accepting you to marry her. They are after material things and that is big red flag . Oga is better not to go into this marriage than to cry had I know. The family come with the idea that you should marry her so that she can go and scam big time then cause trouble and aboundone you.
This Guy is smart and God loves you he showed you before you enter marriage what kind of a woman and family your getting into .Taking her there is risky cause she change on you eeee
Micheal your wisdom will never perished in your life and your heart will never be shattered, your cleverness is what am always behind you bro , gold digger family now realise there mistake Bcs of all the property they collect from them . Micheal 💯 respect for you bro
MC Reality i support this guy, because what Nigeria's women are doing in abroad to men you don't need to question this guy decision. The lady will destroy this guy in overseas.
Michael, God bless you more with abundant wisdom. Uncle you will not understand. I am seeing alot here. If she could do this because of court wedding, omo, here will be hell for you. What is their business where you want your wife to live. As Igbo culture, once you marry your daughter, you carry your wife and go, parents can only come in when you maltreat their child.
Thank God for the kind of somebody you are you learn from what happened to another person to be careful if not you could have harm yourself by doing good are getting married
Guy if you marry Sarah and take her with you, she will rubbish you over there because women have power over there than men so better be careful for that family, because they will do so deal with you if you dear take her there period
This guy is from Uganda not Nigeria who believe me.Good decision court marriage o more again period but marrying her with condition.I salute you bro come for hug❤🇩🇪💃💪👍🤜🤛🗣️ wololololo
👏👏👏👏👍👍👍👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 A woman who hasn’t yet been abroad with the husband, look the character she can show. Many men leave wive and children back home and and visit them often. MY BROTHER,YOU ARE RIGHT OH WHAT WE SEE HERE ABROAD IS NIGHTMARE. She can put you in prison there😢😢😢👎🏻👎🏻👎🏻
I have lived in Thailand before and I know what most of our guys do there, This guy is into business I can’t say here and if he travels with his wife to Thailand and the lady finds out what he does there she will jail him for life… and take over his properties…. As his legally married wife…
I am sure the man realized that it will require court marriage to take her to Thailand. One of the reasons he doesn't want her to join him in Thailand. I believe the man doesn't love this lady enough. He is more concerned about his properties. We all watched how a man married his wife here in Nigeria traditionally and went abroad to marry another Nigerian legally. He told his children to be calling him uncle.
He's a good actor though, I'll give him that. Underneath all that boisterousness he wants her back. I won't be surprised if he extends an olive branch to Sarah
@@DZubi-rl2ieWhat's the essence of marring her then, to stage her here like, his property. Think well and place her in your shoes if she is your sister.
If you behave well, you partner will see reasons for taking you abroad, but if you behave like this one, my sister no chance. This lady and her family are gold diggers
@@DZubi-rl2ie what if the man has other plans. Check out the recent case online, a guy married with 2 kids and when to marry a lady abroad with 2 kids too only to start cooking up excuses to be given 5yrs to plan himself on how to take them. MEN UNA TOO DEY DO. I will try by any means to assist my daughter's marital protection. Likewise my sons moving towards right direction period. Ejiro ife eji aghu nti agba na anya.
Man I understand what you're saying because when your pockets get dry nobody will give you you you will see that all your friend will run away from you Susan on your ground and know what you want she and her family must come down they will never they are not the one to detect for your family you are the one to detect and stand by it and that goes it
I understand this guy bcoz am here in d USA 🇺🇸 I me an my wife came here till now we r together if na naija girl she for done run follow another man this woman go mess this guy up. He knows
Smart guy Mike, This family thinks they have seen ATM Shameless family , guy you saved yourself a heart ATTACK Take your time and look for a various woman there are still few nice women in Naija......... Don't forget to Thank your friend that didn't allow you to work that path of pain he walked through..... PEACE
He makes sense. What if he's a business man that travels back and forth once every month. Will Sarah have to be traveling with him, instead of focusing on her shop?
WISEMAN!! TAKE HER ABROAD YOU WILL NOT SEE THE END OF IT. THE HANDWRITING IS ON THE WALL. THE FAMILY WANTS TO CONTROL U AND YOUR MARRIAGE. Her brother did not do COURT marriage yet he was bent on you getting one. What a hypocris
Any man who insists on winning an argument with a woman is neither smart nor wise. Ask the elders how they navigated it. You choose your battles. Court marriage or no court marriage this is something that a prenup agreement would have solved but NO, he wants to huff and puff, flex his muscles and hear the echo of his own voice! byeeee! don't let the door hit you on your way out. Sarah will be just fine.
@@anselsolomon6270only visited Europe but I haven't live in naija for over a decade either so I UNDERSTAND the fears that men have concerning taking their wives overseas to live with them. BUT there are Nigerian couples overseas successfully raising families. How are they doing it? If you are afraid, have a signed prenuptial agreement so that everyone is protected. It is like insurance. Don't shout and scream about court marriage. He looks like a bully to me.
@@anselsolomon6270I live overseas but not in Europe. I've been to Europe though. I UNDERSTAND the fears the guy has BUT there are Nigerian families living peacefully abroad. What is their secret ..? Not every marriage ends in divorce once they go to live overseas. In fact it is the ones where the man had been like a tyrant, treating her like a 2nd class citizen in nigeria, that run into trouble when they relocate overseas. The laws overseas recognize equal rights for both man and wife. A prenuptial agreement could have put everyone's fears to rest BUT it is not really 'court marriage' that is the issue for the guy. To him, it is as though Sarah wants to call the shots in their marriage and he won't have it. He wants to stamp it all over her that he is the boss. There will be more battles in life so you choose the ones that are really worth your time. If he wants to protect his property, have her sign a prenup first and then give her her court wedding. Obviously he still has a lot to learn when it comes to women.
I am british born in london, i am not Nigerian I agree with this man this family has a plan please brother do not let anyone to persuade you otherwise you will regret for the rest of your life. I have seen alot of men crying after they bring their wives, men from my country majority have stopped bringing their wives because as soon as they come they change. But they make sure they have a comfortable life, and the man goes us often as he can depending on his circumstances. All of this is agreed before they get married You are a reasonable man by telling them you will becoming every month.this lady and her family especially her mum they have a anger towards you. Please think had before you do anything.
This family is up to something. Sarah brother knows how loaded his friend is. What is the difference for traditional marriage and leaving her behind and court marriage leaving her behind. If not bc she want property.
This guy's uncle is a bad person Bc of what the guy is giving him , he's selling his integrity as an elder How can you marry her and keep her separate Why not tell her the truth and she will decide if she wants to go into such marriage or not.... And Sarah's brother God bless you for standing for your sister,the guy is too proud and selfish
I'm seeing a plan here she want to bring her brother to the Thailand then she won't after this Court wedding and when she met mention of it if the husband refuse he will now broke up with him and with the resources she have she will bring her brother and her family and they might become even richer than the husband to shame the man man this guy you are very very smart this guy this ogechi husband you are very very smart I like the way you are in fact that is the kind of person I am
Michael if truly, you really loved serah your decision is wrong. If truly serah wanted to pretend Michael she would have pretend and agreed with your conditions at first and estored money from you and abandon you even without having a child with you. Serah don't waste your time
Sarah 🙏pls no fall inside trap think well b4 u go on with dis guy if u think is all about money Abeg think of wetin go b d out come , if u stay here nd he’s in another country,dis guy na red flag imagine what is he’s saying I kuku trust those girl outside ,good girl no reach 10 again na till he fall into another girl trap he go no say he loose valuable thing
This family is too strong to handle They have turned their dota/brother/sister etc into ab a beit"ITS AS IF HER MARRIAGE IS AFAMILY PROJECT" where they all stand to gain
This man is too proud, intransigent and too selfish and too negative and bad attitude to sustain a long term marriage. Very difficult to negotiate Strategic decisions and goals which is a RED FLAG. A good sign for future marriage and eventual Divorce and Breakup. All parties should go their separate ways.
I'm watching from the U.S.A. If you live abroad in the Western World, you will understand why our guys are apprehensive in bringing our girls overseas. Our girls that you think that are mild, submissive and cooperative as soon as the leaves the Nigerian soil they turn to something else. Guys be warned. ....
That's not 100% true There are still many good women and good men out here . Most men too do such Just pray that God blessed you with someone that loves and care for you truly..
Guy u are wise me I will not advise u to marry her. And secondly not give them back the shops I beg u. Michael please do not marry her ooo hmm. From Ghana 🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭
My brother I live in usa ,don't get married to that girl you will digging your own grave, do not do court wedding, it's liability dear, she and her family just want to ruin your life
The issue of Nigerian women abroad, the lies that you guys are using to destroy the image of Nigerian women is on fair. I have been married for 26 yrs abroad and my husband doesn’t have any problems with me. The only people who have problems with their wife are doe’s who want to treat women like slaves bro stop the lies please.
Michael, if you know, you wouldn't told them your plan self. If Sarah has sense she should follow her husband. After all the aunt was begging because of her shop. She must have told them she will bring them over. Michael, you are truly a Man. And good Igbo man for that matter. But my advice is tell Sarah if she did not agree, move on with another woman.
@@Zaynarb_1 Will you want your daughter to be married and abandoned here? He is married there it is obvious. Why can't he stick to that one? He is looking for a baby machine not a human being
@@basiliauzoahia7197 you don't have common sense, you saw what Nigeria women are doing to Nigeria men in abroad they will lie against them send them to prison and deport them back to Nigeria with nothing, and collect everything they work for many years, you knows everything and you're here talking Nonsense. You better get some sense inside your score.
If he marries her and takes her with him. She will remember this day. She will leave him. She will get her paperwork and provide for her own family. The same family that is speaking up for her..
Brother I don’t know what business you do in Malaysia but for me I would be watchful of the way you are displaying your financial capabilities. This girl should listen to her instincts and keep away from this man because I sense that the business he is in not legitimate. If the Nigerian women are so bad when they go abroad why do you bother at all in marrying them? This man looks funky. Better return his goods to him.
@@lawrencebuchi8871He is right. He is married there and wants a baby machine to keep in Nigeria Many guys from my state did it. It doesn't always go well to leave a woman here and be talking about money
Yes , Michael also has an agenda..let's be honest..this is what Sarah is afraid of..how can you marry someone and leave her behind when you have opportunity to take her along ....Forget this marriage
Michael don't go with her pls, Nigerian women in Europe don't have respect for their husband, my brother u may not understand, Michael is saying the truth. Just forget about her if she doesn't want to stay in Nigerian. Look for someone else please, ur friend and he family have a mission.
MC Reality. You have just finished the case of the guy that left his wife here and went over to US to marry legally with children. He was telling his Naija wife to stay celibate for another five years while claiming to provide money. The question is Why are these men not satisfied with their OYIBO wife and children? In the case of Michael ( whoever he is) his Thai wife who helped him with papers will never agree to come back to Nigeria so they always want Nigerian girls to keep here as baby machine. Sarah was going to be the most foolish person to marry Michael. It is now clear why he was afraid of court marriage.
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Sarah is not going with me.
Reality, remember the case you tried to settled before of the man who was keeping the wife for five years, will leave her for that long. this is all rubbish. He just wants to frustrate that girl
Reality your support to know the angle this guy is coming from
The guy is just being very careful……. Because what ladies are doing over here is awful
Personally haven't heard of many cases, the wife follow abroad that the husband doesn't end up in prison, while they and their family sell and abuse all they have worked for...she just the first that jumped the gun and flipped out before they secure the wife position, bad guidance from the greedy family members or whomever given her the advice to USE this guy...GOOD FOR HIM, KEEP 🏃♂️ 🏃♂️ 🏃♂️ 🏃♂️ GUY!
This Michael should be grateful to God for giving him the wisdom for making the right decisions. I strongly support this decision of not taking Sarah with him abroad. This is the best decision ever. I live abroad, and I know the drill. God bless this man.
Me too I live abroad and the guy is spot on and am.a woman
@@lydisnnaudu3831 God bless you infinitely 🙏🏿
Thank God for that man if not he could have been deported and lose everything. Mc the man made the right decision am leaving in abroad , if that guy try to bring the girl come abroad he will be deported and lose everything for the girl and her family.
He never planned to take the wife aboard because He has a wife in YANKI and he can only be legally married once or face bigamy and jail time. This is just a lame excuse. If I was Sarah, I will marry him but I will get all Belle from someone else since he left him in Nigeria.
@@nkolika271 Ignorant comment.
This guy is seriously very smart. Thank his friend for saving him from these gold diggers family.
He has street OT.
This man is very smart o.
He has scattered some plans, which are more important than the ma”marriage”
I saw this from the onset that they better go their separate ways. That is the best option here.
You are very right 💯
She has just displayed exactly what she would do when she gets there, and her family will support her just like they are displaying now. God has just saved you from that family……
Michael, you are a very wise man.Best decision.This girl and her family are up to no good
This guy is very smart, thank God for his life.
Brother do not marry this family, they will never like you. All they want is court marriage, in six months or after collecting everything from you and divorce you is the next step. After all the problems, nobody really wants you anymore. Get yourself another lady. From USA
Please leave this girl and family. Go back without her and move on with your life. If you marry from this family, you will be endangering your life.
I so much like this guy he is a real man i can understand him perfectly he knows how this women works courage Bro
Oga u r more than smart man I ever see,u made decision nd stand for it oga u have to thank ur friend for serving u from this gold digger family for what am seeing here if u take her to abroad u will regret it... Thank God for ur friend God use ur friend to serve you
Man am here in Europe, my wife over here is a living hell, if they come here, things will change and she will do what ever she want and will be controlling you and reap you over here.
My man I like de way you take your decision okay.. God bless you
I knew it he never intended to take her abroad that is why he refused court marriage. Sarah please move on.
Why must it be the lady that will demand for court marriage.. you're a thief...
This two people are the ones in charge of Sarah's decision & even while married in his house, the three, Aunty, wife & brother will finish Michael within & outside Nigeria.
Exactly
My dear this family is trouble. Just imagine if you were married to her. Guy run real fast and don’t look back. Fan from the US
Oga it's because of the shop and car that is why they are now accepting you to marry her. They are after material things and that is big red flag . Oga is better not to go into this marriage than to cry had I know. The family come with the idea that you should marry her so that she can go and scam big time then cause trouble and aboundone you.
This Guy is smart and God loves you he showed you before you enter marriage what kind of a woman and family your getting into .Taking her there is risky cause she change on you eeee
Guy Wallahi I support your actions my brother
Oga I agree with you don't take her anywhere oh or else she go show you pepper if you take her with you, she go deal with you oh very well
This man is on point...I agree with him 💯
He his taking d right decisions
I support u my brother
Micheal your wisdom will never perished in your life and your heart will never be shattered, your cleverness is what am always behind you bro , gold digger family now realise there mistake Bcs of all the property they collect from them . Micheal 💯 respect for you bro
MC Reality i support this guy, because what Nigeria's women are doing in abroad to men you don't need to question this guy decision. The lady will destroy this guy in overseas.
Michael, God bless you more with abundant wisdom. Uncle you will not understand. I am seeing alot here. If she could do this because of court wedding, omo, here will be hell for you. What is their business where you want your wife to live. As Igbo culture, once you marry your daughter, you carry your wife and go, parents can only come in when you maltreat their child.
Why don't you people understand the guy? He is the one over there and he knows what he is talking.
Fear women for Europe oooh ,Den no go tell you with two mouth ooh,who no go non no😂😂😂😂
Oga! Your conditions is on point 📌
Forget about this family brotherman
Don't take your Nigeria wife to abroad she will disappoint you
That's the truth
It is very obvious this man has a family over there,he just want a wife that will be here in Nigeria.This man is wicked with his plans.
He is not wicked. He is been smart, they want use court marriage to take his property
He has a family over there They always do. The good ones divorce before coming to marry Naija wife.
This man has a legal wife over there, but using money and pride to cover it up so Sarah will not understand
@@edithjakpor2878 Your comment is clear evidence of your ignorance.
Thank God for the kind of somebody you are you learn from what happened to another person to be careful if not you could have harm yourself by doing good are getting married
Guy if you marry Sarah and take her with you, she will rubbish you over there because women have power over there than men so better be careful for that family, because they will do so deal with you if you dear take her there period
Mr Michael is saying the truth
This guy is from Uganda not Nigeria who believe me.Good decision court marriage o more again period but marrying her with condition.I salute you bro come for hug❤🇩🇪💃💪👍🤜🤛🗣️ wololololo
Your decision is spot-on my brother. They're hell fire here in UK 🇬🇧.
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A woman who hasn’t yet been abroad with the husband, look the character she can show. Many men leave wive and children back home and and visit them often. MY BROTHER,YOU ARE RIGHT OH WHAT WE SEE HERE ABROAD IS NIGHTMARE. She can put you in prison there😢😢😢👎🏻👎🏻👎🏻
I have lived in Thailand before and I know what most of our guys do there, This guy is into business I can’t say here and if he travels with his wife to Thailand and the lady finds out what he does there she will jail him for life… and take over his properties…. As his legally married wife…
Thanks for sharing, people in Nigeria have no clue how life is in.abroad
I am sure the man realized that it will require court marriage to take her to Thailand. One of the reasons he doesn't want her to join him in Thailand. I believe the man doesn't love this lady enough. He is more concerned about his properties.
We all watched how a man married his wife here in Nigeria traditionally and went abroad to marry another Nigerian legally. He told his children to be calling him uncle.
Regardless she's not going
Exactly, without Court marriage he cannot take her anywhere.
He said she is not going to anywhere like Thailand with him
My guy may God bless you
He's a good actor though, I'll give him that. Underneath all that boisterousness he wants her back. I won't be surprised if he extends an olive branch to Sarah
Well said. If he didn't he won't have wasted his breath.
I said it that he will never agree to take the girl with him
He has set a trap for them to refuse the marriage themselves
I never see a smart man like this in Nigeria 🇳🇬
Reality, to be honest with you, this young man is talking from experience. I can understand his own side of the discussion.
Now the truth is coming out from the Michael mouth... He never intend to take Sarah along
Take this type of woman abroad at your own risk, she'll cripple you and take everything dam thing you have worked in your life. DANGER!! DANCER!!!
@@DZubi-rl2ieWhat's the essence of marring her then, to stage her here like, his property. Think well and place her in your shoes if she is your sister.
@@DZubi-rl2ie your will dump in Nigeria , because they will never taken to abroad mtcheeeewwww
If you behave well, you partner will see reasons for taking you abroad, but if you behave like this one, my sister no chance. This lady and her family are gold diggers
@@DZubi-rl2ie what if the man has other plans. Check out the recent case online, a guy married with 2 kids and when to marry a lady abroad with 2 kids too only to start cooking up excuses to be given 5yrs to plan himself on how to take them. MEN UNA TOO DEY DO. I will try by any means to assist my daughter's marital protection. Likewise my sons moving towards right direction period. Ejiro ife eji aghu nti agba na anya.
From court to Traveling hahahaha no gree bro
Man I understand what you're saying because when your pockets get dry nobody will give you you you will see that all your friend will run away from you Susan on your ground and know what you want she and her family must come down they will never they are not the one to detect for your family you are the one to detect and stand by it and that goes it
I understand this guy bcoz am here in d USA 🇺🇸 I me an my wife came here till now we r together if na naija girl she for done run follow another man this woman go mess this guy up. He knows
I agree live in UK
Smart guy Mike, This family thinks they have seen ATM
Shameless family , guy you saved yourself a heart ATTACK
Take your time and look for a various woman there are still few nice women in Naija......... Don't forget to Thank your friend that didn't allow you to work that path of pain he walked through..... PEACE
He makes sense. What if he's a business man that travels back and forth once every month. Will Sarah have to be traveling with him, instead of focusing on her shop?
Michael you’re wise and smart. Just maintain it ooo. Sometimes I don’t understand MC Reality.
WISEMAN!! TAKE HER ABROAD YOU WILL NOT SEE THE END OF IT. THE HANDWRITING IS ON THE WALL. THE FAMILY WANTS TO CONTROL U AND YOUR MARRIAGE. Her brother did not do COURT marriage yet he was bent on you getting one. What a hypocris
Exactly
It is very clear now. This guy has a wife in Thailand. Sarah should not marry this guy. It is not marriage but prison because of money.
He has no wife. A lot of Nigeria lady's are deporting their husbands. He is just being careful
He has a wife there They always do. Asian women will never agree to come to Africa with their children so they want to build another family in Nigeria
That's a good decision bro. Never tried it to take her abroad ooooo.
Mike still want to marry her in Tradition and white,juju dey worry,very soon court,belive you me
Any man who insists on winning an argument with a woman is neither smart nor wise. Ask the elders how they navigated it. You choose your battles. Court marriage or no court marriage this is something that a prenup agreement would have solved but NO, he wants to huff and puff, flex his muscles and hear the echo of his own voice!
byeeee! don't let the door hit you on your way out. Sarah will be just fine.
Have you stayed in Europe before?
@@anselsolomon6270only visited Europe but I haven't live in naija for over a decade either so I UNDERSTAND the fears that men have concerning taking their wives overseas to live with them. BUT there are Nigerian couples overseas successfully raising families. How are they doing it?
If you are afraid, have a signed prenuptial agreement so that everyone is protected. It is like insurance. Don't shout and scream about court marriage. He looks like a bully to me.
@@anselsolomon6270I live overseas but not in Europe. I've been to Europe though. I UNDERSTAND the fears the guy has BUT there are Nigerian families living peacefully abroad. What is their secret ..? Not every marriage ends in divorce once they go to live overseas. In fact it is the ones where the man had been like a tyrant, treating her like a 2nd class citizen in nigeria, that run into trouble when they relocate overseas. The laws overseas recognize equal rights for both man and wife.
A prenuptial agreement could have put everyone's fears to rest BUT it is not really 'court marriage' that is the issue for the guy. To him, it is as though Sarah wants to call the shots in their marriage and he won't have it. He wants to stamp it all over her that he is the boss. There will be more battles in life so you choose the ones that are really worth your time. If he wants to protect his property, have her sign a prenup first and then give her her court wedding. Obviously he still has a lot to learn when it comes to women.
I am british born in london, i am not Nigerian I agree with this man this family has a plan please brother do not let anyone to persuade you otherwise you will regret for the rest of your life. I have seen alot of men crying after they bring their wives, men from my country majority have stopped bringing their wives because as soon as they come they change. But they make sure they have a comfortable life, and the man goes us often as he can depending on his circumstances. All of this is agreed before they get married You are a reasonable man by telling them you will becoming every month.this lady and her family especially her mum they have a anger towards you. Please think had before you do anything.
Ha ha ha. You are British, born in London. Men from your country. Which one is it abeg. This your English be like naija English 😂😂😂
Is it this man the only man in the world that Sarah will take all these insults and still Marty this man
Bro you are very smart. This family is after your wealth.
Exactly. Golddiggers
Please my brother Don't marry this lady if not this lady is going to bring you down she and our family I am so glad to support your decision 🙏🙏🙏🙏
This family is up to something. Sarah brother knows how loaded his friend is. What is the difference for traditional marriage and leaving her behind and court marriage leaving her behind. If not bc she want property.
I pity the marriage. Oga, leave the marriage.
This guy's uncle is a bad person
Bc of what the guy is giving him , he's selling his integrity as an elder
How can you marry her and keep her separate
Why not tell her the truth and she will decide if she wants to go into such marriage or not....
And Sarah's brother God bless you for standing for your sister,the guy is too proud and selfish
This guy should thank God for what he done for him,God save him honestly.
I'm proud of you for ur smartness, don't take her ohhh
Watching from Jamaica
he doesn't want the wife to know the business he is doing in Thailand. ummmn gbana guy..
Sarah pleure let this guy you will find someone better who’ll love you and cherish you this this guy is too arrogant toward you and your family
Don't stress this issues. Let her leave in Nigeria. After 6 months the guy will change her mind. Accept Accept what that guy is saying.
I'm seeing a plan here she want to bring her brother to the Thailand then she won't after this Court wedding and when she met mention of it if the husband refuse he will now broke up with him and with the resources she have she will bring her brother and her family and they might become even richer than the husband to shame the man man this guy you are very very smart this guy this ogechi husband you are very very smart I like the way you are in fact that is the kind of person I am
Michael if truly, you really loved serah your decision is wrong. If truly serah wanted to pretend Michael she would have pretend and agreed with your conditions at first and estored money from you and abandon you even without having a child with you. Serah don't waste your time
Sarah 🙏pls no fall inside trap think well b4 u go on with dis guy if u think is all about money Abeg think of wetin go b d out come , if u stay here nd he’s in another country,dis guy na red flag imagine what is he’s saying I kuku trust those girl outside ,good girl no reach 10 again na till he fall into another girl trap he go no say he loose valuable thing
This family is too strong to handle They have turned their dota/brother/sister etc into ab a beit"ITS AS IF HER MARRIAGE IS AFAMILY PROJECT" where they all stand to gain
This man is too proud, intransigent and too selfish and too negative and bad attitude to sustain a long term marriage. Very difficult to negotiate Strategic decisions and goals which is a RED FLAG. A good sign for future marriage and eventual Divorce and Breakup. All parties should go their separate ways.
You're a wise man my brother
Madam how market, 😮
I'm watching from the U.S.A.
If you live abroad in the Western World, you will understand why our guys are apprehensive in bringing our girls overseas.
Our girls that you think that are mild, submissive and cooperative as soon as the leaves the Nigerian soil they turn to something else.
Guys be warned.
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That's not 100% true
There are still many good women and good men out here .
Most men too do such
Just pray that God blessed you with someone that loves and care for you truly..
Yes many Nigerian ladies are paying our dear good brothers in bad coins but not all ...
Guy u are wise me I will not advise u to marry her. And secondly not give them back the shops I beg u. Michael please do not marry her ooo hmm. From Ghana 🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭
My brother I live in usa ,don't get married to that girl you will digging your own grave, do not do court wedding, it's liability dear, she and her family just want to ruin your life
He take her abroad ,THE PLAN IS TO ARREST HIM WHEN THEY GET THERE, AND RID ALL HIS THINGS AND SCATTER HIS MONEY😢😢😢, THEY PLANS ARE FOILED😅😅
Hope you know that she doesn't need to travel before setting him up, she can do that from naija here.
The issue of Nigerian women abroad, the lies that you guys are using to destroy the image of Nigerian women is on fair. I have been married for 26 yrs abroad and my husband doesn’t have any problems with me. The only people who have problems with their wife are doe’s who want to treat women like slaves bro stop the lies please.
Is Sarah a small kid that she can not make her decisions on this matter, why is she allowed her family to force this guy this way
Michael, if you know, you wouldn't told them your plan self. If Sarah has sense she should follow her husband. After all the aunt was begging because of her shop. She must have told them she will bring them over. Michael, you are truly a Man. And good Igbo man for that matter. But my advice is tell Sarah if she did not agree, move on with another woman.
Thailand is not the UK or USA. The situation is different in Thailand
Regardless the woman have more power
This guy is married in Thailand that is why he does not want court marriage
Ogaa can u do court wedding
Can’t u see the family is a goodiger
And can’t u see how some of we girls does dis days 😢
@@Zaynarb_1 Will you want your daughter to be married and abandoned here? He is married there it is obvious. Why can't he stick to that one? He is looking for a baby machine not a human being
@@basiliauzoahia7197 you don't have common sense, you saw what Nigeria women are doing to Nigeria men in abroad they will lie against them send them to prison and deport them back to Nigeria with nothing, and collect everything they work for many years, you knows everything and you're here talking Nonsense.
You better get some sense inside your score.
If he marries her and takes her with him. She will remember this day. She will leave him. She will get her paperwork and provide for her own family. The same family that is speaking up for her..
Brother I don’t know what business you do in Malaysia but for me I would be watchful of the way you are displaying your financial capabilities.
This girl should listen to her instincts and keep away from this man because I sense that the business he is in not legitimate.
If the Nigerian women are so bad when they go abroad why do you bother at all in marrying them?
This man looks funky. Better return his goods to him.
@barclay1214 your talking nonsense
@@lawrencebuchi8871He is right. He is married there and wants a baby machine to keep in Nigeria Many guys from my state did it. It doesn't always go well to leave a woman here and be talking about money
Oga run this family na big scam
I agree
The flag is too red for them to get married, considering all that have happened.
If you are afraid that she will betray you after you married her; When she is pregnant you can carry her with you.
Yes , Michael also has an agenda..let's be honest..this is what Sarah is afraid of..how can you marry someone and leave her behind when you have opportunity to take her along ....Forget this marriage
My guy you too wise
MC this man has a family already and he wants another family in Niagara he is wicked
Michael don't go with her pls, Nigerian women in Europe don't have respect for their husband, my brother u may not understand, Michael is saying the truth. Just forget about her if she doesn't want to stay in Nigerian. Look for someone else please, ur friend and he family have a mission.
MC Reality. You have just finished the case of the guy that left his wife here and went over to US to marry legally with children. He was telling his Naija wife to stay celibate for another five years while claiming to provide money. The question is Why are these men not satisfied with their OYIBO wife and children?
In the case of Michael ( whoever he is) his Thai wife who helped him with papers will never agree to come back to Nigeria so they always want Nigerian girls to keep here as baby machine. Sarah was going to be the most foolish person to marry Michael. It is now clear why he was afraid of court marriage.
You are a Wiseman
MC ask men who have bring their wives from home 😅then u will understand what that guy is trying to prevent
From court wedding to Taiwan...😂
Michael please go and find a very strong man of God , because this girl people would not let it go like that so easily for you taking things from her.