Knowing Your Partners Needs Ft Deyemi

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  • On this episode Toke is joined by Deyemi, they discuss how and why it is important to know your partners needs The conversation is very interesting. ENJOY!
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  • @okonkwotina2172
    @okonkwotina2172 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Deyemi is such a realist and embodies emotional intelligence. I love that he’s so expressive and will surely make a good relationship coach. Kudos to queen T who wears her heart on her sleeves. Is her transparency for me. Thanks for always making this podcast such an interesting place where we learn and unlearn. We are all work in progress. Love u all❤️

  • @nthabisengmoseki2759
    @nthabisengmoseki2759 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    This brother got depth and wisdom. He's authentique.....enjoyed this episode very much.

  • @kikelomosodunke6785
    @kikelomosodunke6785 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    this guy is so brilliant and real, kudos to you.

  • @adejojo8823
    @adejojo8823 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    An A start actor. Deyemi the GOAT🙌🏾👌🏾

  • @igojihannah
    @igojihannah ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Deyemi’s approach to things are deep.. man got depth

  • @kemimajekodunmi6247
    @kemimajekodunmi6247 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Toke, you have a new fan!! There’s more of you than what is portrayed on SM!! You are the MVP. Thanks for these nuggets. BTW, your last 3 guests have been the real deal.

  • @tovkeljames9430
    @tovkeljames9430 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Deyemi just hit the nail on the head. Women want someone they can rely on

  • @chichie.3074
    @chichie.3074 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Deyemi has so much value. I love how he thinks before he talks. Such an amazing man. I learnt so much from him and Toke you are doing an amazing work. Good outfit as always.

  • @odigiechristina6351
    @odigiechristina6351 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Deyemi the love Doctor... he's so wise and keeps it real. My favourite episode

  • @franka7230
    @franka7230 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I love this episode . Thank you Deyemi for your perspective and so much insight to relationship and marriage . Appreciate your honesty and positive energy.

  • @nanaaeesha9818
    @nanaaeesha9818 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    This is one of my favorite episodes, Deyemi is soo intelligent, I like how he took his time to think before answering every question.

    • @tealhappy5045
      @tealhappy5045 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Exactly, you'd see that he thought for a sec bfr opening his mouth.... Such a man >>>>>>>> ... He's amazing.

    • @israelsolomon1531
      @israelsolomon1531 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeahh…very true! Really smart Man

    • @joanterry2446
      @joanterry2446 ปีที่แล้ว

      So true

  • @gistwithann588
    @gistwithann588 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Toke’s glasses game>>>>

  • @ameleisedu
    @ameleisedu ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When Toke said this gym matter is really really showing o
    I lost it 😂😂😂

  • @reginasamson6590
    @reginasamson6590 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was so wholesome , it’s amazing to see people celebrating and loving on their spouses so Openly. We need to make it a norm to celebrate love and those in genuine relationships and Marriages rather than over enhancing negativity in Marriages.
    Thanks Toke & Deyemi for this lovely episode 💯👌🏾

  • @emillypromise3014
    @emillypromise3014 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Back to watch this amazing interview ❤❤❤❤

  • @angelchijioke9286
    @angelchijioke9286 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Please 😢 Toke I want you to talk about the current gay issues 😢most of our male partners turning out to be gays

  • @minab122
    @minab122 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Girl! how do you churn out topics and flow with conversations? Also your guest selection is so good. Welldone!

  • @rekhae1
    @rekhae1 ปีที่แล้ว

    YESSSSSS! Finally someone who gets it. You cheated YOURSELF out of this, this & that.

  • @aminaagboola382
    @aminaagboola382 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is good he is great ❤

  • @bimboajayi
    @bimboajayi ปีที่แล้ว

    I loved this episode. Deyemi is so full of wisdom and depth. Thanks Toke!

  • @beautybyladykay1107
    @beautybyladykay1107 ปีที่แล้ว

    Another Favorite podcast yet again!! Deyemi is simply amazing. This was really insightful

  • @JessicaMikang-r2h
    @JessicaMikang-r2h ปีที่แล้ว

    I don’t know but I found myself so allergic to podcasts this days ,I mean Good podcast and am happy I am learning something new everyday ❤.

  • @Tinkam.
    @Tinkam. ปีที่แล้ว

    Two smart and realistic people I have seen 💓

  • @lauraadoghe9366
    @lauraadoghe9366 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this episode

  • @jesselle28
    @jesselle28 ปีที่แล้ว

    Interesting Convo❤️

  • @joycelinedjangmah2889
    @joycelinedjangmah2889 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @MarieTere500
    @MarieTere500 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤️

  • @JadeOregano
    @JadeOregano ปีที่แล้ว

    😂😂😂Toke

  • @acefully4703
    @acefully4703 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    4x a week 😳no wonder Toke has been single 😂

  • @ethelosamgbi
    @ethelosamgbi ปีที่แล้ว

    FIRSTTTTT!!!!!!!

  • @adelewaakinbami
    @adelewaakinbami ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Why are you always on sunshade TOKE! Getting really uncomfortable, most of the new tokemoments you and the guest are always in shade. You cant interact with us no more without having to cover your eyes? Or are you timid of your guest? Please diversify 😐

  • @chisomokafor7839
    @chisomokafor7839 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Men are not used to getting anything. I felt that and will change henceforth towards a trying Man. Deyemi is soft in words and real ASF!

  • @modupeboboe6444
    @modupeboboe6444 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Toke is going a great job , kudos 👏🏼👏🏼
    But I find wearing sunglasses really really awkward .
    How do you connect with your guest with sunglasses on ? Just wondering .
    .

  • @khaleesib7846
    @khaleesib7846 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I love the gym analogy Deyemi used… you want a good body or marriage.. you gotta work hardddd for it. Loved this episode.. such a wise man.

  • @bimbolaolumoba8846
    @bimbolaolumoba8846 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I am always shocked when I hear "women don't apologize". I must be from another planet. I applogize all the time even when it's not needed. Apology is normal

    • @eseokpalefe1720
      @eseokpalefe1720 ปีที่แล้ว

      same same

    • @10cutia
      @10cutia ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too babe

    • @chiamakaeke7978
      @chiamakaeke7978 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think that it’s not just apologizing, it’s the easier thing to do, it’s the actions after, it’s the making sure that what you’re apologizing about doesn’t happen again, so that you don’t just live your life apologizing, because after a while, it stops pulling the weight that it should, it be becomes just random words and next thing you’ll hear is “you’re always apologizing” and blah blah blah

  • @Waa_nne
    @Waa_nne ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Deyemi please take your flowers 💐 you deserve it, TM you are it like I always say TOKE MOMENTS is the best podcast there’s no way you can’t learn anything no way

  • @damilolaoluwasanmi6294
    @damilolaoluwasanmi6294 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Such an amazing conversation! Deyemi effortlessly spewing wealth of well grounded knowledge👌. Has to be my best episode yet

  • @chideratrinitas217
    @chideratrinitas217 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Uncle Deyemi is such an intelligent man! I really love this episode

  • @sibesomofya5997
    @sibesomofya5997 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Toke is a free spirit and such a vibe, I love it 😂 Deyemi! Mahn, a soft spoken wise guy, atleast he’s figuring out and being real at it! 👍🏽

  • @zulikhatanifowoshe9980
    @zulikhatanifowoshe9980 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This is legit my favorite episode, Deyemi is indeed really intelligent

  • @faithibiang7527
    @faithibiang7527 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I see deyemi in a different light now. Power packed with wisdom

  • @taiwooluwanifemi2968
    @taiwooluwanifemi2968 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Mehnnn Deyemi is so intelligent. I love how he answered those questions intelligently.

  • @omoprettyenny8074
    @omoprettyenny8074 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love this episode, I’m not married but I’m going to be a better friend , girlfriend also wife. ❤

  • @apoloniuskemahs9394
    @apoloniuskemahs9394 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Deyemi,his voice,his looks, his intellect. Well done man. Tokstarr, lovely as always.

  • @mipoadeniyi
    @mipoadeniyi ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This has to be my favorite one yet. I loved this episode.

  • @Olubums27
    @Olubums27 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Deyemi’s wisdom…… he’s super intelligent.

  • @tresiashinana7931
    @tresiashinana7931 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Deyemi 's voice for me love love from Namibia ♥️♥️

  • @daughterofelohim7
    @daughterofelohim7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sex in marriage shouldn't have timetable. Just go with flow. Sometimes it's epic sometimes it good and sometimes it's aight. But from my experience Happy couples tend to have sex quite often. Except for those with health, age, distance or other issues. Great sex is an indicator of great marriage.

  • @LineLine6766
    @LineLine6766 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wow...
    His words were so profound. 👏

  • @eniolaodugbesan866
    @eniolaodugbesan866 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It’s really an amazing conversation. Thank you Adeyemi and Toks

  • @gladysmtoto2963
    @gladysmtoto2963 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Toke's laugh always get me all the time 😆😆😆🤣🤣🤣

  • @JadeOregano
    @JadeOregano ปีที่แล้ว +4

    That’s right he got a great radio voice.

  • @osemwegienkem6095
    @osemwegienkem6095 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If he writes a book i will buy😮

  • @ifeomangene6148
    @ifeomangene6148 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Such a smart man.....A man with depth. I completely enjoyed this.

  • @Girlthat
    @Girlthat ปีที่แล้ว +3

    He’s so deep makes sense now why I love him. ❤❤

  • @Mysuperstorypodcast
    @Mysuperstorypodcast ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Deyemiiiii listen to Toke, that radio or TH-cam Will make sense. You’re so good

  • @MoJo-ng5ot
    @MoJo-ng5ot ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I cried watching this!! Wow. Relationships are truly work. Even beyond cheating… He answered the questions so well. It went 0-100% real quick. Cheating to sex everyday 😂😂😂

  • @eseeigbadon97
    @eseeigbadon97 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love is what you do….act in love helps heal

  • @kemkiezfeyikemi5016
    @kemkiezfeyikemi5016 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉
    I can’t wait to physically meet you @toke moment

  • @shiningstar80
    @shiningstar80 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Such a thoughtful conversation. A lot of respect on both sides, I love it.

  • @kuteallets
    @kuteallets ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Toke, u are on ur own ooo, 4 times a week is small for some of us ooo. That's why it's good to get a partner that matches ur energy.

    • @bafemiplus1999
      @bafemiplus1999 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      In that case, I like to refer you to Uncut With Ada and Nelo channel on TH-cam on the topic of Matching Your Husband's energy !!

  • @toluakande6870
    @toluakande6870 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I disagree with women don't apologise tho, I apologise when I'm wrong

  • @Mudianiel
    @Mudianiel ปีที่แล้ว +3

    loving ur glasses

  • @titilayoola-oluwa7485
    @titilayoola-oluwa7485 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    A very inspiring and amazing session, so much wisdom

  • @fidelistassah2707
    @fidelistassah2707 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very insightful episode. Thank you Toke and Deyemi

  • @jennifernnoli8240
    @jennifernnoli8240 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love isn't just a feeling, Love is Actions. ... don't just say it..DO IT

  • @Chidiogo-Maduakor.2011
    @Chidiogo-Maduakor.2011 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Deyemi is 🔥🔥🔥
    Thank you Toke 🙌🙌

  • @JadeOregano
    @JadeOregano ปีที่แล้ว +7

    When men cheats , women cry and kiss them back; but when women cheats , men gets a stroke 😂 funny how what makes women cry …can kill a man 🤦‍♀️

  • @OkekeDeborah-x7m
    @OkekeDeborah-x7m 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I knew Deyemi was a bad , sharp guy☺

  • @Duci215
    @Duci215 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    First time watching toke moments and I’m so impressed. Deyemi is so insightful, movies don’t even show the half of it. Great episode ❤

  • @anjidetheresawado5868
    @anjidetheresawado5868 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm definitely watching this again...so insightful 👌

  • @penieljay
    @penieljay ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow! I love this episode!!! Deyemi is so intelligent!!!

  • @bellamay4703
    @bellamay4703 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yayyyy Deyemi

  • @swimsandlingeries6776
    @swimsandlingeries6776 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Loving this convo 😂😂❤

  • @gopreghadiepreye8853
    @gopreghadiepreye8853 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Wow.... The most matured and fav conversation, I enjoyed every bit. Thanks TM & Deyemi

  • @OmoAyoVaughan
    @OmoAyoVaughan ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow! Deyemi 👏👏👏👏 you're deep. Awesome job at expressing yourself ❤
    Thanks Toke, I love you!

  • @keriafeblessing5149
    @keriafeblessing5149 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Deyemi🥹❤️

  • @pfanomukhodobwane1666
    @pfanomukhodobwane1666 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Rewatching the episode after 8 months. Deyemi is intelligent ❤

  • @ZeeSese
    @ZeeSese ปีที่แล้ว

    I agree Deyemi will be fantastic on the radio. It is great to listen to people who actually put in the work to be better people, better spouses. Growth in any direction requires work

  • @kelechinelson8907
    @kelechinelson8907 ปีที่แล้ว

    Worth every minute. Deyemi's opinions are very wise and interesting.

  • @lets_eat_n_talk
    @lets_eat_n_talk ปีที่แล้ว

    TM please make your thumbnails brighter.

  • @clarkebitimi1566
    @clarkebitimi1566 ปีที่แล้ว

    I enjoyed this episode and I learnt from it, I will definitely recommend this for hubby

  • @RM-ou7wi
    @RM-ou7wi ปีที่แล้ว

    Deyemi for President! His thought process is refreshing!

  • @BlessingAdachukwu
    @BlessingAdachukwu ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My Respect for Deyemi is increased. He needs to host the love shows

  • @lloydzarmon2907
    @lloydzarmon2907 ปีที่แล้ว

    Deyemi has depth shaaaa❤🙌🏼

  • @chelseamengwi7778
    @chelseamengwi7778 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tôke i love these moments. Please don’t stop

  • @sirizihindula
    @sirizihindula ปีที่แล้ว +4

    am i blessed or lucky listening to such meaningful conversation as a single lady? my future husband better be watching because this wisdom no pass pesin i beg🤩
    ps. i am not a medium but when it comes to zodiac signs some behaviours are unique. have someone behaved somehow then you ask what sign are you? once they tell you you just like oh, i understand.

  • @EverHopeful555
    @EverHopeful555 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We IN here!!!

  • @btandbrands
    @btandbrands ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so insightful😍😍😍😍😍

  • @shalewabenson3730
    @shalewabenson3730 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dude has got depth. Love his perspective.

  • @antecomfort5279
    @antecomfort5279 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was amazing 🤩. One of my best episode

  • @chukwudumebimordi772
    @chukwudumebimordi772 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such a brilliant conversation 👏🏼

  • @Jeweltiya
    @Jeweltiya ปีที่แล้ว

    Marry someone you want to be

  • @olatounadewumi4035
    @olatounadewumi4035 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is one of my favourite episodes

  • @estheragbamutv
    @estheragbamutv ปีที่แล้ว

    I love the maturity and all that Weldon

  • @estheragbamutv
    @estheragbamutv ปีที่แล้ว

    I love the maturity and all that Weldon

  • @adongo8226
    @adongo8226 ปีที่แล้ว

    I loved this episode.

  • @florencejolade1104
    @florencejolade1104 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mehnnn…Deyemi is so intelligent…

  • @theodiorokaka
    @theodiorokaka ปีที่แล้ว

    My favourite actor

  • @ganiyusadiku2217
    @ganiyusadiku2217 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this