😭😭😭😭😭lub neej luag g hlub yus cas yuav tu siab ua luaj li os hmoob yus los ua luag nyab tub qaug luag tag ib sim neej yus los ua ib tug pos chob luag niam luag txiv lub siab muab txog hnub tuag tab sis luag tsim yus tu siab ncus ruj rawv rau lub siab chim tag tiam no txog hnub tuag los ntshe yuav zam g tau txim rau qhov luag tsim yus os ib tsoom me hmoob
Tu hluas yuav nyob ntev zog tu laus tabsis tam sim no lub ntuj nyob qi qi tu laus nyob tsis ntev npaum tu hluas tabsis txoj kev siab phem yus yeej tsis dim yooj yim. Txhob lam tau lam ntxub luag. Luag yog neeg muaj siab muaj ntsw thiab.
Cas yuav tu siab ua luaj li os zoo li ko tsis thas mus saib nws li mas cov muam ko ces lawv nim ua heev npaum ko lawv twb tsis paub lawv lub neej yav tom ntej Xyov yuav zoo los phem li thiab os
This is so sad and I understand her. I went through a similar situation and like she said don't wait for that koob hmoov from someone who does not like you. I didn't and I don't care for it. She is very lucky to have a loving and supportive husband who defend her when they say things to her.
Koj siab loj kawg tus niam laus. Tos koj pheej rov mus pem koj niam pog lawv twb yog vim koj lub siab loj siab dav thiab koj hlub koj tus txiv. Zoo heev. Koj tus txiv los zoo kawg thiab vim nws Pom qhov lawv ua phem rau koj. Endurance is the most powerful revenge we can give someone.
Tus niam tsev koj yog tus muaj hmoo zoo tshaj plaws li lwm tus qhau koj kom koj vau tab sis koj muaj tus zoo txij nkawm txheem koj nres koj tsis pub kom koj vau tau tsim nyog koj yuav tsum zoo siab thiab hlub koj tus txuj nkawm os mog luag ntxub yus los yus tus txij nkawm hlub yus zoo dua nawb mog yog luag hlub yus es yus tus txij nkawm ntxub thiab tsis hlub yus mas haj yam tu siab tsis paub ua neeg nyob os tus niam tsev
Mloog koj tus nyab zaj neej neeg no tas mas nrog tus nyab poj nrauj no tu siab kawg. Tos thaum kawg es koj niam pheej tsis tu siav es tos koj tuaj txog, koj hais lus tas nws mam li tuag los, vim twb yog nws muaj txoj kev txhaum loj thiab tau ua tsim mob koj los tau 10 lub xyoo diam. Qhov tos nws tuag tsis taus los vim nws mus hla tsis tau ntawm lub taw rooj tuag, vim luag cov zov lub rooj tuag ntawd yuam kom nws rov qab los rau koj ntau cim rau nws, es thaum nws tau lub cim tas lawm lub rooj tuag thiaj li kam qheb rau nws mus tom lub Ntuj sab tod xwb os. Koj lub cim , yog koj lub Kuam thaum ntws ntawm koj los mus poob rau saum koj niam lub taub hau, qhov ntawd qhia tau hais tias yog lub cim luag yuam kom koj niam rov qab los thov kom koj ntau cim rau es thiaj li mus tau, no nawb. Txhob tu siab nawb mog. Hos ua tsaug rau nyab Ntsuab Teev, nyab Ntsuab Teev tham rau koj Zaj neej neeg zoo mloog kawg nkaus. Bye...
Ca koj zaj neej neeg no hai tau lub neej zooli kv kiag o yog leej twg lub neej zoo li no ma tu siab heev li o vim yu yog tu nyab niam pog g nyiam o lawv yu g yuav lo lawv tu tub ho yog tu hlub2 yu g kam nrauj yu thb yog zoo li no lawv ho g hlub nw lm thb e xyov lub neej no yuav mu xau li ca o
Yog leej twg tsis tau pom cov niam pog phem li no .no ces txhob maj tuag nawb xab maim no ntuj nyob qis 22222 lawm tsis yog hais Tias yog tus nyab ces txawm yuav npam tas li no os nws yog leej niam pog los yog tsis ncaj lawm ces yeej npam tau ib yam thiab nawb
Tsis care txog koj tus niam pog thiab cov niag musm li os. Vim muaj ib hnub lawv niam lawv txiv yuav tuag tas. Thaum no lawv tsis muaj kev mus lawv mam xav txog ces lig lawm os.
Niam tsuab teev cas kuv lub neej kuv miam pog txub kuv tau 30 xyoo niam pog tsau tswv yim rau tus tub hlob tso dab tsau kuv tab sis kuv tsis txaum ces tsaug kiag kuv tus txiv tam sim no kuv tus txiv ces tsis paub hnub nyob tsis paub hnub tuag nawj
Tau niam pog thiab cov muam heev heev li kos ces laj ua neej nrog lawv tus neeg li os. Sister, zoo siab koj tus txiv hlub hlub koj. Keep your distance from people like that because the sisters will leave the family but you will stay. They will need you more than you'll need them. Txhob tu siab os mog.
Sister, txhob tu tu siab. The only thing that matters is that your husband love and support you. My situation is similar to yours. When you are not the Nyab they love, there’s nothing you can do to make them like you. I’ve learn to accept it for what it is and move on.
Tus viv ncaus aw cas koj lub neej yuav zoo ib yam li kuv thiab os. Cas yus niam ua lub neej tsis muaj neeg nyiam yus li os. Niam pog thiab tej nkauj tej muam tej niam hlob yeej ntxub yus. Tu siab tshaj li os tus viv ncaus.
Tus neeg tsis nyiam thiab tsis hlub koj tseev koj ua zoo los yeej tsis muaj nqi mog. Koj txawm yuav hlub lawv npaum li cas los lawv yeej tsis muaj nqi mog. Yus hlub tus kheej ua ntej Txhob muaj lub sij hawm nkim rau lawv. You’ve done all you can for this family. As long as your husband loves you, stay away from them. They are not all that. They’re probably jealous because you’re better then them. Move on with your life. Koj cov muam ntshe yuav tsis txawj ua poj nrauj kiag. Ntsia mus mas, cov neeg thuam2 lwm tus ces nws lub neej yeej yuav raws nraim luag lub ib hnub xwb. Koj thiaj tseem xav tias lwm tiam yuav rov los ua ib tug ntxhais hluas nkauj tso mam rov los ua lawv tus Nyab lawv thiaj hlub. Kuv ces Thov lub ntuj kom lwm tiam tsis txhob los ntsib pab niam ntxhais no lawm!
Wow tus sister Aws txhob tu siab os mog lawv Tsis hlub yus los xij nawb ua li no yus thiaj Tsis tshuav lawv nqis os nawb txhob tshaws lawv txoj kev hlub yog zoo li no xwb kev hlub iab siab xwb Yeej Tsis muaj ib tug neeg perfect li os cias lawv ntxhub lawv os mog ua siab Loj mog . Kuv ntsib lawm Kuv Yeej Tsis tos Leej twg kev hlub.
Peb cov poj niam los yog viv ncaus hmong aw,, yog vim lis cas es pheej yuav lub uas muaj menyuam lawm ces xav tias tus txiv neej ntawv yuav hlub yus es pheej yuav ua kom muaj tus mi nyuam ntawd los yuam los yog si ua kom yus tus kheej nyuaj siab rau yus tus hkeej ne yom..cas kuv tsis to taub li lawm tiag kuv cov viv ncaus hmong aw,,,,,,thov tham xwb txhob cia,muaj mi nyuam thiaj tsis ua kev lwj siab rau yus mas lov......,,kuv xav thov kom peb cov poj niam hmoob tsis txhob pheej xav rau qhov ua yug mi nyuam nkaus2 xwb li yog yug tsis muaj mas yug los tau mas tiam sis yug twb muaj ib co lawm yuav yug tag zog ntxiv ces ntshe yog nrhia kev nyuab siab xwb na hmong,,,,,😤😭😢😭😫😫😫😩
You married your husband not his family. As long as your husband love you, that’s all that matters. Give some credit your your husband for loving and standing by you.
I agree. If they don’t like you, don’t waste your time on them. Don’t beg for anyone’s love. Just love those that love you back and accept that those don’t love you will never accept you no matter what you do.
Who care about the in-laws as long as your husband loves you. Don't let others behaviors' influence your life. Be yourself and continue to love your family.
Sister, as long as your husband loves you. In case, do it like other nyab does it the other mother inlaw, just go and love and care about your side of family, not his. That's the best and don't care too much for the in laws.
If they don’t love you, then they will never love you. Don’t live to cater to them. No matter how much you do, they don’t care about you. Love your little family first.
Cas teb chaw mekas tseem muaj tej tug niam plog phem ua luaj li thiab ...lub neej mus ua luag nyab niam plog tej nkauj tej muam gis nyiam yus mas tu siab tshaj
I get why MILs can be cruel (i don’t agree with, but understand how cruel and selfish they can get). But What i don’t understand is why would the sisters be so obsessed with hating their brothers wife. What is it to them?
Your husband loves you thats all that matters!. Yes! We want to impress our in-laws and have equal love in return, but it is what it is!. We try to be the best nyab we can but we can only do so much sis!.
Why do u care so much about your sister in laws and mother in laws? As long as your husband love u, who cares about what they think. If they have time to hate u then let them.
Haters will always be haters. Pay no attention to them. Some people will hate you for no reason of your own but due to their own jealousy of you and insecurities when you are around. I have an evil sister in law who flat out said that I could give two shits what she thinks of me. They don’t make or break your life, it does make gatherings more awkward but screw them. You do you.
I think she met GOD. GOD gave his judgment and gave her 2 choices. Suffer eternally for her hateful way or suffer on earth til the person she mentally abuse FORGIVE HER.
I can relate. My husband mom doesn't like me ever since I started dating my husband. It has been 8 years. Once in awhile I would hear his mom call me Nyab, but it's unlikely.
Gaogee Lor lol, I never heard my mother in law call me Nyab. The only time she called me that is when she happy. She would tell my sister in law to tell me that she hates me. My mother in law likes to judge people.
Gosh sister I am in the same shoes as you. This is my second marriage and I have the same issue with the SIL and MIL. My god I now know I am not alone.
A sad story sister. Thank you for sharing. I thought in this world, I am the only one with a sad life like this story. Some are blessed with mother -in'-law who love them but some people are not so lucky like you and me. Next life, we will find in-laws that love us as we love them.😰😭
Qhov tseeb koj tus txiv tsis yog txiv neej ua tsis taus txiv,tus txiv zoo li no tsis txog twg poj niam yuav txiv lawm cias siab kom tus txiv tiv thaiv tus niam.
I thought my in-laws are bad but your story makes me so sad too. No matter what happen, hold to your marriage because your life is with your husband not his family. The day you married him, you are his family...not those people who torture you.
Qhov koj niam pog pheej tos koj yog nws tshuav kev npam tau ua rau koj NWS tos koj tuaj zam txim rau nws txawm nws tsi Lees los dab paub dab thiaj muab nws khuam cia TOS koj os
Nco ntsoov lwm hnub koj ob tug muam yuav tuag los yeej yuav tos koj puag los yog lo lus kawg nkawv mam tuag thiab, qhov koj niam tos koj mam tuag vim nws yog niam nws tsis hlub koj es yawm saub txiav txim rau nws vim nws muaj kev khaum
Kuv tus niam pog mas tseem hais Tias nws tuag hnub twg mas tsis pub kuv mus Tim nws lub ntees yog mus mas yuav tsuag ntshav rau kuv no hos . Kuv tseem cia siab tias muaj ib hnub twg yuav tuag tsis tu siab li zam no thiab no os
Sister aw...lawv tsis nyiam Los xij os mog kuv kiag kuv qhia rau koj paub tias cov niam pog txiv yawg no na...yog thaum ob leeg tseem muaj txoj sia nyob lawv yeej tsis hlub yus tsis nyiam yus li os. Nyob nyob yog ob niag laus no ib tug tuag kiag es tshuav ib tug nyob es tus me tub me nyab yau uas nws nrog nyob ntawv tsis hlub nws mas thaum ntawv nws mam pom yus txoj Kev hlub thaum ntawv lawv pom yus zoo os me sister UA siab ntev nawb
Cov niam hmoob phem ces ua li cas los yeej phem. Yus ua zoo npaum twg los yeej tsis nyiam yus. Tu siab tshaj plawv tau lub neej niam pog txiv yawg tsis nyiam.
Tus me viv ncaug aws, ua cas koj tseem yuav rov xav rov los rau tsev neeg li ko lwm tiam thiab na... luag tsuas muaj hais tias thov kom txhob sib ntsib lawm xwb no na. Cov neeg phem com viab li koj niam pog thiab nkauj muam lawv ces tsawg tiam los ntshe yeej tsi hloov li os. Kav tsij khiav kom deb ntshe zoo dua.
Thanks for sharing your story. You can only do the best you can. You had me crying with you. I'm in a similar situation but not as bad. I understand that it was hard for you to try and understand why she wouldn't leave without seeing you. I believe she couldn't pass because the other world wouldn't let her pass due to the torment she put you through. She could only go with your forgiveness. Whether you forgave her or not you were there to bless her to move on. May your SILs realize they will only be in the same situation and learn to undo their wrongs before their time.
Tus niam hluas aws... tsis tim leej twg lis os. Peb txhuas tus muaj feem txiav txim rau peb lub neej os. Lawv tsis nyob koj lub neej koj ib leeg yog yus txiav txim tau xwb. Tseev lwm tus yuav ntxias dag los yog koj thiab koj tus txiv neb tsis ntab ntws ces yeej tsis muaj dab tsi lis. Peb yog neeg laus lawm txhob uab lub txim rau lwm tus.
Those who have always hated/ disliked you being "nice" to you is a sign that you should stay further away. People who never value you will never all of a sudden like you. The only time they are "nice" to you is when they have a motive & want to hurt you.
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😭😭😭😭😭lub neej luag g hlub yus cas yuav tu siab ua luaj li os hmoob yus los ua luag nyab tub qaug luag tag ib sim neej yus los ua ib tug pos chob luag niam luag txiv lub siab muab txog hnub tuag tab sis luag tsim yus tu siab ncus ruj rawv rau lub siab chim tag tiam no txog hnub tuag los ntshe yuav zam g tau txim rau qhov luag tsim yus os ib tsoom me hmoob
Sister koj niam pog txoj kev npam ntag mas tseem tshuav koj cov muam cov kev npam thiab ov lwm hnub txog koj cov muam li kev npam ces rov hais dua rau peb mloog mog, sister yus yog neeg zoo ces ua qhov zoo xwb nawv mog
Tsis txhob tu siab os. Koj tus txiv twb hlub hlub koj ne.
Tu hluas yuav nyob ntev zog tu laus tabsis tam sim no lub ntuj nyob qi qi tu laus nyob tsis ntev npaum tu hluas tabsis txoj kev siab phem yus yeej tsis dim yooj yim. Txhob lam tau lam ntxub luag. Luag yog neeg muaj siab muaj ntsw thiab.
Cas yuav tu siab ua luaj li os zoo li ko tsis thas mus saib nws li mas cov muam ko ces lawv nim ua heev npaum ko lawv twb tsis paub lawv lub neej yav tom ntej Xyov yuav zoo los phem li thiab os
This is so sad and I understand her. I went through a similar situation and like she said don't wait for that koob hmoov from someone who does not like you. I didn't and I don't care for it. She is very lucky to have a loving and supportive husband who defend her when they say things to her.
Koj siab loj kawg tus niam laus. Tos koj pheej rov mus pem koj niam pog lawv twb yog vim koj lub siab loj siab dav thiab koj hlub koj tus txiv. Zoo heev. Koj tus txiv los zoo kawg thiab vim nws Pom qhov lawv ua phem rau koj.
Endurance is the most powerful revenge we can give someone.
Tus niam tsev koj yog tus muaj hmoo zoo tshaj plaws li lwm tus qhau koj kom koj vau tab sis koj muaj tus zoo txij nkawm txheem koj nres koj tsis pub kom koj vau tau tsim nyog koj yuav tsum zoo siab thiab hlub koj tus txuj nkawm os mog luag ntxub yus los yus tus txij nkawm hlub yus zoo dua nawb mog yog luag hlub yus es yus tus txij nkawm ntxub thiab tsis hlub yus mas haj yam tu siab tsis paub ua neeg nyob os tus niam tsev
Phem npaum li mas, lawb dab kiag tsam rov Los ua phem rau yus os. Niam pog phem!
Yog lawm os leej twg tsis ntsib tsis paub os
Tus niam tsev aw, pab koj tu siab tias koj tau koj tus txiv zoo los nws tsev neeg ntxub koj. Txawm koj niam pog ntxub koj los nws yog tus yug koj tus txiv lawm, Tab sis ces yus lam uv, ntawm koj cov niag ntshej muam siab phem ntawv ces txij no mus txhob quav ntsej txog zoo dua. Lawv ntxub koj npaum li koj hais ces muaj lawv nyob hauv lub neej haj yam yuav ua rau koj nyuaj siab xwb. Kav tsij hlub koj tus txiv thiab hlub koj tus kheej xwb ces that’s all it matters!
Mloog koj tus nyab zaj neej neeg no tas mas nrog tus nyab poj nrauj no tu siab kawg.
Tos thaum kawg es koj niam pheej tsis tu siav es tos koj tuaj txog, koj hais lus tas nws mam li tuag los, vim twb yog nws muaj txoj kev txhaum loj thiab tau ua tsim mob koj los tau 10 lub xyoo diam.
Qhov tos nws tuag tsis taus los vim nws mus hla tsis tau ntawm lub taw rooj tuag, vim luag cov zov lub rooj tuag ntawd yuam kom nws rov qab los rau koj ntau cim rau nws, es thaum nws tau lub cim tas lawm lub rooj tuag thiaj li kam qheb rau nws mus tom lub Ntuj sab tod xwb os.
Koj lub cim , yog koj lub Kuam thaum ntws ntawm koj los mus poob rau saum koj niam lub taub hau, qhov ntawd qhia tau hais tias yog lub cim luag yuam kom koj niam rov qab los thov kom koj ntau cim rau es thiaj li mus tau, no nawb.
Txhob tu siab nawb mog.
Hos ua tsaug rau nyab Ntsuab Teev, nyab Ntsuab Teev tham rau koj Zaj neej neeg zoo mloog kawg nkaus.
Bye...
yog lm nawb
Yog kawg os txoj kev Niam pog Tsis nyiam nyab no kuv twb taug txoj kev no los lawm tu siab kawg kuv Niam pog Tsis nyiam kuv vim kuv yog hmoob dawb ces lawv yog hmoob leeg nws ntxub ntxub kuv tab sis thaum kawg nws los tuag rau kuv ib leeg pom siav thiab xwb yus Tsis tau ua phem ces nws ua rov Npam nws xwb nawb mog cov Niam pog ciav nyab nej ua phem2 rau cov nyab thaum kawg nej tuag Tsis tu siav mog kuv twb raug lub neej zoo li no lawm tam sim no kuv cov nyab kuv nyiam ib yam kuv hlub ib yam nkaus li nawb mog
Ca koj zaj neej neeg no hai tau lub neej zooli kv kiag o yog leej twg lub neej zoo li no ma tu siab heev li o vim yu yog tu nyab niam pog g nyiam o lawv yu g yuav lo lawv tu tub ho yog tu hlub2 yu g kam nrauj yu thb yog zoo li no lawv ho g hlub nw lm thb e xyov lub neej no yuav mu xau li ca o
Yog leej twg tsis tau pom cov niam pog phem li no .no ces txhob maj tuag nawb xab maim no ntuj nyob qis 22222 lawm tsis yog hais Tias yog tus nyab ces txawm yuav npam tas li no os nws yog leej niam pog los yog tsis ncaj lawm ces yeej npam tau ib yam thiab nawb
Tsis care txog koj tus niam pog thiab cov niag musm li os. Vim muaj ib hnub lawv niam lawv txiv yuav tuag tas. Thaum no lawv tsis muaj kev mus lawv mam xav txog ces lig lawm os.
Niam tsuab teev cas kuv lub neej kuv miam pog txub kuv tau 30 xyoo niam pog tsau tswv yim rau tus tub hlob tso dab tsau kuv tab sis kuv tsis txaum ces tsaug kiag kuv tus txiv tam sim no kuv tus txiv ces tsis paub hnub nyob tsis paub hnub tuag nawj
Tsi txhob tu siab os vim lawv tsi yog tu nrog koj nyob na.
Ntuj aw! Tus nyab luag tsis nyiam ces koj phua paj hlwb rau lawv noj los lawv yeej tsis hlub koj.....vim yog ib tug nyab lawv tsis nyiam......tiamsis kuv distance kuv tus kheej.........tiamsis yus paub qhov txawv
The nyab that they dont like, then they will never like. You can do all you can for them but it will never be enough.
Tau niam pog thiab cov muam heev heev li kos ces laj ua neej nrog lawv tus neeg li os. Sister, zoo siab koj tus txiv hlub hlub koj. Keep your distance from people like that because the sisters will leave the family but you will stay. They will need you more than you'll need them. Txhob tu siab os mog.
Sister, txhob tu tu siab. The only thing that matters is that your husband love and support you. My situation is similar to yours. When you are not the Nyab they love, there’s nothing you can do to make them like you. I’ve learn to accept it for what it is and move on.
Hai tau zoo kawg os kv caum kj lawm e kj pab caum kv thiab nawb
Tus viv ncaus aw cas koj lub neej yuav zoo ib yam li kuv thiab os. Cas yus niam ua lub neej tsis muaj neeg nyiam yus li os. Niam pog thiab tej nkauj tej muam tej niam hlob yeej ntxub yus. Tu siab tshaj li os tus viv ncaus.
Zoo koj tus txiv nyiam thiab hlub koj xwb zoo lawm ov niam pog cov muam xwb g muaj quav dab tsi os
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Tus neeg tsis nyiam thiab tsis hlub koj tseev koj ua zoo los yeej tsis muaj nqi mog. Koj txawm yuav hlub lawv npaum li cas los lawv yeej tsis muaj nqi mog. Yus hlub tus kheej ua ntej Txhob muaj lub sij hawm nkim rau lawv. You’ve done all you can for this family. As long as your husband loves you, stay away from them. They are not all that. They’re probably jealous because you’re better then them. Move on with your life.
Koj cov muam ntshe yuav tsis txawj ua poj nrauj kiag. Ntsia mus mas, cov neeg thuam2 lwm tus ces nws lub neej yeej yuav raws nraim luag lub ib hnub xwb.
Koj thiaj tseem xav tias lwm tiam yuav rov los ua ib tug ntxhais hluas nkauj tso mam rov los ua lawv tus Nyab lawv thiaj hlub. Kuv ces Thov lub ntuj kom lwm tiam tsis txhob los ntsib pab niam ntxhais no lawm!
Wow tus sister Aws txhob tu siab os mog lawv Tsis hlub yus los xij nawb ua li no yus thiaj Tsis tshuav lawv nqis os nawb txhob tshaws lawv txoj kev hlub yog zoo li no xwb kev hlub iab siab xwb Yeej Tsis muaj ib tug neeg perfect li os cias lawv ntxhub lawv os mog ua siab Loj mog . Kuv ntsib lawm Kuv Yeej Tsis tos Leej twg kev hlub.
Peb cov poj niam los yog viv ncaus hmong aw,, yog vim lis cas es pheej yuav lub uas muaj menyuam lawm ces xav tias tus txiv neej ntawv yuav hlub yus es pheej yuav ua kom muaj tus mi nyuam ntawd los yuam los yog si ua kom yus tus kheej nyuaj siab rau yus tus hkeej ne yom..cas kuv tsis to taub li lawm tiag kuv cov viv ncaus hmong aw,,,,,,thov tham xwb txhob cia,muaj mi nyuam thiaj tsis ua kev lwj siab rau yus mas lov......,,kuv xav thov kom peb cov poj niam hmoob tsis txhob pheej xav rau qhov ua yug mi nyuam nkaus2 xwb li yog yug tsis muaj mas yug los tau mas tiam sis yug twb muaj ib co lawm yuav yug tag zog ntxiv ces ntshe yog nrhia kev nyuab siab xwb na hmong,,,,,😤😭😢😭😫😫😫😩
You married your husband not his family. As long as your husband love you, that’s all that matters. Give some credit your your husband for loving and standing by you.
Cas es zaj no yuav yog kuv li ib feem thiab tu siab kawg niam pog tsis nyiam ces tas kwv tas tij yeej tsis nyiam yus tiag2 li nawb
Yog lm o
Just wow..that g-ma is the monster in law fo sho..
Txawm tub ntxhais los txivneej yeej siab phem thiab limhiam os. Hmoob tus cwjpwm los liam kawg kiag nawb.
Tu siab heev os yog koj tsis tau raug txoj kev neeg ntxub ntxaug ces yeej tsis muaj hnub koj yuav nkag siab.
Txhob tu siab mog viv ncaus
Koj hais yog tshaj plaws! Kuv raug txoj kev lwj siab niam pog tsis nyiam os!!
I agree. If they don’t like you, don’t waste your time on them. Don’t beg for anyone’s love. Just love those that love you back and accept that those don’t love you will never accept you no matter what you do.
Who care about the in-laws as long as your husband loves you. Don't let others behaviors' influence your life. Be yourself and continue to love your family.
Nej cov hmoob mekas tsi txawj sib hlub ib tug tsi hwm ib tug li
Sister, as long as your husband loves you. In case, do it like other nyab does it the other mother inlaw, just go and love and care about your side of family, not his. That's the best and don't care too much for the in laws.
Me niam laus thxob tus siab mog
Txaus tu siab ua luaj li
If they don’t love you, then they will never love you. Don’t live to cater to them. No matter how much you do, they don’t care about you. Love your little family first.
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I couldn't agree with you more.
Cas teb chaw mekas tseem muaj tej tug niam plog phem ua luaj li thiab
...lub neej mus ua luag nyab niam plog tej nkauj tej muam gis nyiam yus mas tu siab tshaj
Yog kawg os tus viv ncaus aw cas wb yuav muaj txoj kev tu siab sib xws os
We wearing the same shoes
Zoo heev li od
You forgot to love yourself first.
Why care so much what they think, my gosh. Give them too much power over your life 🙄🙄
Unicorn hearts very true.. once you don’t care, that’s when they no longer have power over you. That’s when you are truly free. Best advice!
I’m sorry to see that you got some horrible in laws. I was once in your shoes too.
Funny
Muaj tseeb
I get why MILs can be cruel (i don’t agree with, but understand how cruel and selfish they can get). But What i don’t understand is why would the sisters be so obsessed with hating their brothers wife. What is it to them?
Niam npam lawm.lub ntuj tsis kam txais yog koj tsis tuaj daws nws txoj sia.ob niag muam ruam ntaw ces txhob quav ntsej lawv os.lawv yeej phem li lawv niam.qub dev ces qub ntxhiab xwb.av tsij hlub koj tus txiv thiab cov me nyuam xwb.
Kuv twb yog 1tug me nyuam ntxhai 16 xyoo xwb los kuv twb nrog koj taug 1 txoj kev tsaus ntuj 1 yam tsis txawv li os tus viv ncaus aw
Tus muam koj yeej hais yog thiab ua yog lawn mog qhia koj tiam hmoob yeej muaj ntau2 tsev neeg coj thiab ua li qhov tau Raug.
Kj tsi paub xwb os...kj niam pog ntxub22 kj nws pom kj tuaj tshwm plaws nws thiaj tuag tsa taw hlo xwb os...
Your husband loves you thats all that matters!. Yes! We want to impress our in-laws and have equal love in return, but it is what it is!. We try to be the best nyab we can but we can only do so much sis!.
Why do u care so much about your sister in laws and mother in laws? As long as your husband love u, who cares about what they think. If they have time to hate u then let them.
Ntuj aw cov niam pog phem ces zoo li no ma thaum kawg g tau kev khiav chaw tuag
Haters will always be haters. Pay no attention to them. Some people will hate you for no reason of your own but due to their own jealousy of you and insecurities when you are around. I have an evil sister in law who flat out said that I could give two shits what she thinks of me. They don’t make or break your life, it does make gatherings more awkward but screw them. You do you.
I think she met GOD. GOD gave his judgment and gave her 2 choices. Suffer eternally for her hateful way or suffer on earth til the person she mentally abuse FORGIVE HER.
I can relate. My husband mom doesn't like me ever since I started dating my husband. It has been 8 years. Once in awhile I would hear his mom call me Nyab, but it's unlikely.
Gaogee Lor lol, I never heard my mother in law call me Nyab. The only time she called me that is when she happy. She would tell my sister in law to tell me that she hates me. My mother in law likes to judge people.
Zaj neej neeg no kuv tu siab heev kawg vim kuv yg ib tug ntxhais ntsuag los yuav Tau kuv tus txiv lawv tsev neeg tsi nyiam kuv ib yam .😭😭😭😭
You have a nice husband who tries to stand up for you. You need to stand up for yourself and stand your ground.
Cov niag niam pog uas cem cemmmmm cov nyab nas...mloog zoo zoo nawb...txhob cem cem thiab ntxub ntxubbbb cov nyab nawb...
Tus viv ncaus kuv twb rau kpj nkawm khaus thiab hos
Nws tos koj tuaj zam txim rau nws .... es nws thiaj tuag taus.
Gosh sister I am in the same shoes as you. This is my second marriage and I have the same issue with the SIL and MIL. My god I now know I am not alone.
Muaj tseeb nawb luag tsi hlub yu lawm txawm kj yuav ua zoo lo yeej tsi pom yu zoo li o tu me niam tsev aw
I’ve already listened to this twice and I still love the story. Not because if her misery but because the haters feel salty.
Yog leej twg tsis tau lub neej zoo li no yeej tsis paub. Cov niam pog thiab cov muam zoo li no ces kuv nyob ntsia xwb. 😢
A sad story sister. Thank you for sharing. I thought in this world, I am the only one with a sad life like this story. Some are blessed with mother -in'-law who love them but some people are not so lucky like you and me. Next life, we will find in-laws that love us as we love them.😰😭
Qhov tseeb koj tus txiv tsis yog txiv neej ua tsis taus txiv,tus txiv zoo li no tsis txog twg poj niam yuav txiv lawm cias siab kom tus txiv tiv thaiv tus niam.
Yog yog hais yog lawm
I thought my in-laws are bad but your story makes me so sad too. No matter what happen, hold to your marriage because your life is with your husband not his family. The day you married him, you are his family...not those people who torture you.
Yog lawm..
Yus ua ib lub neej luag tsis nyiaj yus ma tu siab heev li os
Qhov koj niam pog pheej tos koj yog nws tshuav kev npam tau ua rau koj NWS tos koj tuaj zam txim rau nws txawm nws tsi Lees los dab paub dab thiaj muab nws khuam cia TOS koj os
Nco ntsoov lwm hnub koj ob tug muam yuav tuag los yeej yuav tos koj puag los yog lo lus kawg nkawv mam tuag thiab, qhov koj niam tos koj mam tuag vim nws yog niam nws tsis hlub koj es yawm saub txiav txim rau nws vim nws muaj kev khaum
Tsis kk, tsuav yog yus tus txiv hlub yus ces nyob twj ywm tsis txhob quav ntsej mog, kuv lub neej zoo ib yam li koj thiab os. Kuv yeej paub tias tusiab npaum li cas mog. Tos nws tso nws txoj sia rau koj los yeeb vim nws owed koj rau qhov nws ntxub koj dhau lawm yog nws tsis tso koob hmoov rau koj ces lub ntuj tsis cia nws mus mog.
What evil mother-in-law if my mother in-law like that she never got nothing from me
Kuv tus niam pog mas tseem hais Tias nws tuag hnub twg mas tsis pub kuv mus Tim nws lub ntees yog mus mas yuav tsuag ntshav rau kuv no hos . Kuv tseem cia siab tias muaj ib hnub twg yuav tuag tsis tu siab li zam no thiab no os
Twb yog koj niam pog npam loj heev lawm es lub ntuj thiaj yuam nws tos koj os tus muam aw!
You don't need to care about mother law..if even if they love you or not....you need .think about you futures...
Sister aw...lawv tsis nyiam Los xij os mog kuv kiag kuv qhia rau koj paub tias cov niam pog txiv yawg no na...yog thaum ob leeg tseem muaj txoj sia nyob lawv yeej tsis hlub yus tsis nyiam yus li os. Nyob nyob yog ob niag laus no ib tug tuag kiag es tshuav ib tug nyob es tus me tub me nyab yau uas nws nrog nyob ntawv tsis hlub nws mas thaum ntawv nws mam pom yus txoj Kev hlub thaum ntawv lawv pom yus zoo os me sister UA siab ntev nawb
Txhob tu siab koj cov niag muam kav tsij ua phem tiag rau koj lawv tsis ntshai tsam lwm hnub es tos koj mus puag lawv siav thiaj li yuav tu
Story of my life.....😢
Cov niam hmoob phem ces ua li cas los yeej phem. Yus ua zoo npaum twg los yeej tsis nyiam yus. Tu siab tshaj plawv tau lub neej niam pog txiv yawg tsis nyiam.
Vidncaus, kuv totaub koj zoo qhov cov muam ntxub koj. Kuv cov muam los yeej ntxub kuv txw kuv tus txiv mus tham hluas nkauj yuav dua tus tshiab, tabsis lawv hais tsis tau nws ces ntxub kuv dua. Cov muam siab phem li cia lawv cov txiv muab lawv nrauj kom tau ua pojnrauj thiaj paub txoj kev ntsim siab.
Yog
Txhob tus siab os, tu sister tsi yog koj ib leeg xwb cov niam pog thiaj tsi nyiam os, coob2 leej tug cov niam pog thiaj tej muam los yeej tsi nyiam ib yam thiab os.
I feel so sad listening to this story😭😭
If it was that bad, your husband should have taken you and moved alway from them a long time ago. Why let you go thru all that for that long.
Tus me viv ncaug aws, ua cas koj tseem yuav rov xav rov los rau tsev neeg li ko lwm tiam thiab na... luag tsuas muaj hais tias thov kom txhob sib ntsib lawm xwb no na. Cov neeg phem com viab li koj niam pog thiab nkauj muam lawv ces tsawg tiam los ntshe yeej tsi hloov li os. Kav tsij khiav kom deb ntshe zoo dua.
Thanks for sharing your story. You can only do the best you can. You had me crying with you. I'm in a similar situation but not as bad. I understand that it was hard for you to try and understand why she wouldn't leave without seeing you. I believe she couldn't pass because the other world wouldn't let her pass due to the torment she put you through. She could only go with your forgiveness. Whether you forgave her or not you were there to bless her to move on. May your SILs realize they will only be in the same situation and learn to undo their wrongs before their time.
Koj cov muam lawv lam muaj muaj plhus xwb lawv yeej hlub tsis tau lawv tu txiv tsev neeg li os....xyov nws tu txiv tsev neeg puas nyiam koj cov niag muam thiab vim coj phem ua luaj
Tus niam hluas aws... tsis tim leej twg lis os. Peb txhuas tus muaj feem txiav txim rau peb lub neej os. Lawv tsis nyob koj lub neej koj ib leeg yog yus txiav txim tau xwb. Tseev lwm tus yuav ntxias dag los yog koj thiab koj tus txiv neb tsis ntab ntws ces yeej tsis muaj dab tsi lis. Peb yog neeg laus lawm txhob uab lub txim rau lwm tus.
Those who have always hated/ disliked you being "nice" to you is a sign that you should stay further away. People who never value you will never all of a sudden like you. The only time they are "nice" to you is when they have a motive & want to hurt you.