How To Speak Softly and Elegantly: 10 Tips for Attractive Voice | Jamila Musayeva

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    How to speak softly and elegantly: 10 Tips To Make You A Better Speaker|
    In this video, I share 10 tips that will improve your speaking skills. You will learn how to have a more soothing and calmer voice and which exercises to do to soften your vocal cords. Speaking softer and more elegantly is a skill that you can acquire but it takes time and practice to do so.
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  • @kartikg.kartikg
    @kartikg.kartikg 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    I have to say, her voice just gives massage to my soul.. and it's beyond verbal explanation how it feels!

  • @maneliaayesha365
    @maneliaayesha365 ปีที่แล้ว +1253

    Im 100% the opposite of what she's talking about
    I talk loud,fast,and blunt 😂
    Oh well

    • @Waniakz
      @Waniakz ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Same end of funniest thing is that I want to talk like her but the people I met who talk so slowly I literally tell them all on face to be honest that please talk fast it's annoying me be fast 😂

    • @gbobble
      @gbobble ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Noise gets attention.
      Soft-speakers, how do you avoid new acquaintances telling you you’re timid, unconfident or lacking energy (which is not such a compliment)
      Because a lot of people mistake reserve soft speaking and discretion for timidity ..but really it’s good breeding which is clearly alien to them and they want to give it a negative label.

    • @mercymwanza9691
      @mercymwanza9691 ปีที่แล้ว

      same here, I am not sure I would manage soft slow talking...I would seriously be bored🙈🙈

    • @Sissi1830
      @Sissi1830 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You can still be blunt and speak slower and softer ;)

    • @nadineh4767
      @nadineh4767 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same lolll

  • @Waniakz
    @Waniakz ปีที่แล้ว +663

    How many people want to talk like her but when they meet people who talk slowly they annoy you because they talk slowly😂

    • @laurakeenan2668
      @laurakeenan2668 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      I always feel weird if I try to speak slowly, it makes me feel like I sound like I've had some kind of head injury...😏

    • @zoya7091
      @zoya7091 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@laurakeenan2668 😂😂

    • @jaagruthisharma
      @jaagruthisharma ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And my parents are forcing me to learn it bro! That's traumatic because I'm completely opposite! 😐😐😐🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @aizazoie
      @aizazoie ปีที่แล้ว +15

      My brain categorizes these slow and soft-spoken people as insecure and lacking in leadership and mastery skills.... It's as if they are afraid to speak normally.

    • @reneecrotty6910
      @reneecrotty6910 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I agree!!!! It's so irritating hahahaa it's not something I aspire to be. I was shy as a kid and forced myself to become louder because I saw it was way more attractive

  • @KatrinaConnors-qu3jp
    @KatrinaConnors-qu3jp 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    When my son was little he could not pronounce the letter s or sound sh I took him to speech therapy this was well before he started school now he is a beautiful speaker it was totally worth it a lot of the suggestions you have made the speech therapist used simplified so much to be understood by a child and made into games so that it was fun fast forward 15 years he is in the top English class at school and loves language words pronunciation and grammar and loves learning other languages too. Thank you for making this video speaking is very important because it is the first impression when you meet someone

  • @avanesspelaez971
    @avanesspelaez971 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love ur manner of moves jamila the way you carry yourself confidently but modest move i love that becos ur so feminine u became my idol becos i want to be more feminine like you and i love ur speaking so kind and gentle becos proverbs 15:1 said that a soft answer turneth away wrath but grievous words stir up anger..nobody can get angry becos u speak so soft at all times, it amazes me i just hope i can practice this way of speaking becos its an underrated asset..woman should be modest in all manner of life...we. Are not man we are just secondly created by God next to Adam we must kinda have a tone of submissiveness.may God bless u even more jamila ❤ create more contents and inspire us....from Philippines

  • @mikalynn1136
    @mikalynn1136 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I love this, thank you ever so much!
    Not enough people care!!!

  • @PrincessRising
    @PrincessRising ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I need this right now in my life 💕

  • @phish_1
    @phish_1 ปีที่แล้ว +162

    I love watching her but this doesn’t work in a remote areas 😅
    In a very quiet community sometimes you need someone who will break the ice! This is for formal purposes only and not for fun 😅

    • @stellajillan
      @stellajillan 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Don't try this at home 😂

  • @charmaine8512
    @charmaine8512 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I recall saying "She sells sea shells by the sea shore". This was way back 60 years ago in India. Hearing it for the 1st time since then! Thank you.

  • @blue_berrie
    @blue_berrie 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very helpful! On my way to elegance with your videos, ma'am!❤

  • @anantafp
    @anantafp 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I like the way you talk..so soft😊

  • @ErikaBardere
    @ErikaBardere ปีที่แล้ว +50

    In theater growing up, we would always say, "red leather yellow leather" as one of our vocal warm-ups, but we would try to say it faster & louder each time.... so not exactly quiet nor elegant 😅😅

  • @tasnimniim8948
    @tasnimniim8948 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Pls want more videos like this one

  • @katherine123_
    @katherine123_ ปีที่แล้ว +23

    No wonder why your voice is nice 💯

  • @aussiemeditation28268
    @aussiemeditation28268 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Two Pastels ❤
    “Sometimes resting in the shade,
    Sometimes resting in the sunshine.
    Meet two pastels, one sun, one moon,
    We all become the light source.
    Observing the two together,
    Hold the Earth closer, Hayren!
    How are they in this paradise?
    Love, your bright face, your dark hair.”

    • @aussiemeditation28268
      @aussiemeditation28268 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      - Amyan, Razmik. “Pashtelis” (2018).
      - The Armenian Hayren

  • @jujuba9277
    @jujuba9277 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Oh!😮
    This is to slowly!
    If someone talk to me like that, I think the person are insecure, and, automatically I try to help her find her words. Im in between quickly and slowly.

  • @-._Itz.Yuki_.-
    @-._Itz.Yuki_.- ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ✨💮I needed headphones and used full Volume to Hear your Beautiful Voice☆✧💗

  • @tracywilliams7929
    @tracywilliams7929 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    My dear, your elocution is exemplary. However the sound system you used defeated the purpose of communicating clearly and pleasantly. I could hardly hear your doubtless lovely voice.

  • @thetradingyogagirl786
    @thetradingyogagirl786 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thank you beautiful!

  • @mayfly9319
    @mayfly9319 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks

  • @RoseAsubonteng-k6u
    @RoseAsubonteng-k6u ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love it

  • @annspirit24
    @annspirit24 ปีที่แล้ว

    I learn this to me at myself

  • @eljablo22
    @eljablo22 ปีที่แล้ว

    Saw similar ones from an encyclopedia but it goes red lory yellow lory, and she sells seashells by the seashore

  • @Doll-Angel
    @Doll-Angel ปีที่แล้ว

    Can you make video on healthy diet from morning to evening especially we eat in lunch & dinner rice lot + meat ... I love ur video i try but can't continue due to my health & emotions soft heart & im young not that old still feeling im old

  • @communityhealthclinic
    @communityhealthclinic 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ver nice

  • @Juliangotknockedlol
    @Juliangotknockedlol ปีที่แล้ว

    I need this for a future yt channel

  • @Clarity-rq8tt
    @Clarity-rq8tt หลายเดือนก่อน

    the Lucy Torres Gomez of Philippines 😊

  • @DaddyScarlettC
    @DaddyScarlettC 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Link to full vid

  • @zenith15496
    @zenith15496 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    As an Asian I can confirm that we speak English in enunciate word, but we think blunt English is more elegant. Thank you for correct our mistake ☺️

    • @noralle
      @noralle 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Well she is also asian actually. She is just etiquette teacher

  • @FayziyevFirdavs
    @FayziyevFirdavs 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How about the other tips ? You've mentioned only tip 4. Am I right?

  • @busahere
    @busahere ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Soft

  • @khushijain238
    @khushijain238 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you but How can this works on voice

  • @indubhaipatel3945
    @indubhaipatel3945 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love watching your video
    You are looking so beautiful

  • @creative_aayat1111
    @creative_aayat1111 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mam, my voice is to louder whenever i talk with anyone or over the call people laughed at me .... suggest me something how i cantrol..

  • @Sustainablysustainable
    @Sustainablysustainable 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    And me being a doctor should speak as loud and clear as possible to be taken seriously 😳
    But trust me in home I’m all lalala

  • @supriyasuthar
    @supriyasuthar ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am the only one who is thinking she is uncomfortable inside..toi much hard work

  • @BroAiman8888
    @BroAiman8888 ปีที่แล้ว

    wowwww take care beautiful...😍😍😍😍

  • @carmenfilip1068
    @carmenfilip1068 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I wish she was my therapist

  • @No-Name-f8p
    @No-Name-f8p 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sally sells “seashells” by the seashore.

  • @iana_editz
    @iana_editz ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It takes me a long time to speak clearly and if I talk to slow people stop listening to me

  • @nk1645
    @nk1645 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This worksfor YT great but in business environments where you have 10 male sharks in a meeting with you this won't work. They are louds and talk over each other and you need to keep up somehow.

  • @nelly1094
    @nelly1094 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    sally sells SEAshells by the seashore

  • @hazel_hehe
    @hazel_hehe ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm sleepy now

  • @jasminetaylor1206
    @jasminetaylor1206 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    it's: She sells sea shells by the sea shore

  • @XO_mehal
    @XO_mehal ปีที่แล้ว +9

    How to be slowed + reverb 😂

  • @highaltitude787
    @highaltitude787 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Unintentional ASMR

  • @Gamesmaster613
    @Gamesmaster613 ปีที่แล้ว

    👍🕍🕍🕍🕍🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏💐💐💐💐💐💐🌹👍👍👍

  • @shannongundy6889
    @shannongundy6889 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    She sounds annoying though. Like I love her but it feels like she’s trying too hard. I’m not tryna creepy whisper to everyone lol

  • @sylviagregory3585
    @sylviagregory3585 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    It’s eloquent, not elegant

  • @heartlyintruder
    @heartlyintruder ปีที่แล้ว

    I wonder if she have those balloons I was thinking if they are there or taken away😅

  • @HeavenlyShorts1
    @HeavenlyShorts1 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Fact:- 99percent girls are here!!!!

  • @yousafjutt9979
    @yousafjutt9979 ปีที่แล้ว

    What's happened to your Instagram?

  • @prateiksharma2864
    @prateiksharma2864 ปีที่แล้ว

    I WOULD LOVE TO HEAR YOU ASMR

  • @P1stachi04life
    @P1stachi04life ปีที่แล้ว

    Next video:
    How to breathe soft and elegantly 💖💖💋💋💅💅👄👄💝💝

    • @ambassadorofpixiedust
      @ambassadorofpixiedust ปีที่แล้ว

      the most underrated comment

    • @P1stachi04life
      @P1stachi04life 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​Thanks for the compliment bro .😀
      *Breathes elegantly and drinks my uwu girl water 🌹✨🥰💞

  • @aastha1723
    @aastha1723 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I speak like her and people talk over me bruh

  • @ParamjeetKaur-h2u
    @ParamjeetKaur-h2u 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are really like that cute 🥰

  • @blubblub777
    @blubblub777 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have voice like this, but I want to learn to speak american loud and dominant way, like a boss, so everyone around me would feel a bit insecure and small. 😏 Because with my soft voice the other people let me feel small and insecure 😞

  • @Nidakhatun0123
    @Nidakhatun0123 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She Sells sea shell on the sea shore

  • @babytiger5798
    @babytiger5798 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just noticed how louder i am

  • @SvobodovaEva
    @SvobodovaEva 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You just speak slowly and whisper. It might be elegant but it’s also super boring with no charisma.

  • @hautedoctor2738
    @hautedoctor2738 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    No offence, but it sounds like you are speaking to a baby. It doesn't sound like a voice for adults.

  • @lavi1839
    @lavi1839 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sorry but it sounds fake ...and kinda unauthentic

  • @world_breaker86
    @world_breaker86 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That ain't it.

  • @Mansibisht11
    @Mansibisht11 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Esko dekh ke aaisa lag rha hn ki yeh ganzi hn

  • @ArmandeepKaur-il2rq
    @ArmandeepKaur-il2rq ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Her voice irritate me 😅

    • @JamilaMusayeva
      @JamilaMusayeva  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Then dont watch

    • @elacrystal2510
      @elacrystal2510 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Same lol😂 thought it was just me

  • @aizazoie
    @aizazoie ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Beautiful voice, but definitely not appropriate for talking to clients or if you are in a position to give information to an audience.
    Clients in our office used to complain when secretaries spoke softly and slowly to them, some with hearing problems could not hear them and the solution was to fire them or move them. We should not change our tone of voice to sound "elegant", because if I am honest, this conversation with you did not seem elegant to me, but rather forced and without eloquence.

  • @gabsl1552
    @gabsl1552 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is VERY slow.

  • @watchlater6244
    @watchlater6244 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If you speak like this in India then you even buy a vegetable here.
    And if you live in India only few weeks you automatically speak rudely and loudly 📢 here. If not then 😂😂😂

  • @Memi-cp4yc
    @Memi-cp4yc 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You sound sick

  • @TheRealPurpleGuyRobloxianKing
    @TheRealPurpleGuyRobloxianKing 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am god angels

  • @Veende_
    @Veende_ ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Too much

  • @yasminkarim7405
    @yasminkarim7405 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    How does saying red leather yellow leather make you sound more elegant 😂

    • @Grapefruit000
      @Grapefruit000 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      As she said in the video, tongue twisters help you learn how to enunciate your words, allowing you to speak clearly. This can prevent you from having to repeat yourself or raise your voice to compensate. It gives the impression that you know what you are talking about as well, demonstrating confidence. It's not easy or enjoyable to listen to someone mumble or jumble all their words together. Thus, by using tongue twisters, you can learn the first step in engaging your audience: making sure they can hear you properly.

  • @waltergonzalez4890
    @waltergonzalez4890 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sound like french.🙇

  • @hibanaja5248
    @hibanaja5248 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How to be annoying

  • @jadhavbalasaheb2370
    @jadhavbalasaheb2370 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nonsense 🤬

  • @kingnothing007
    @kingnothing007 ปีที่แล้ว

    the ASMR voice

  • @orgnmer5070
    @orgnmer5070 ปีที่แล้ว

    . . . oo- :) - XXX DDX xD