why 'the iron claw' makes you emotional

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  • @azzu12
    @azzu12 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +601

    Absolutely maddening how this film got no awards buzz given it’s better than 95% of the movies that won last year

    • @bajorekjon
      @bajorekjon 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Too many straight yt guys to win an award. Awards are given out for diversity, not merit or artistic achievement

    • @badaxtion1878
      @badaxtion1878 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@bajorekjonoh BROTHER. Oppenheimer Won best Actor, picture and Emma stone won best actress. Stop it with the victim mentality, snowflake

    • @ericandbeethoven
      @ericandbeethoven 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      unfortunately, that is the fault of A24. For some reason, they did not meet the requirements to be nominated. They grossly underestimated the quality of the film to the detriment of the excellent story and acting. It was in my Top 5 films of the year and 2023 brought some exceptionally great films.

    • @ImnotMattMurdock
      @ImnotMattMurdock 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      ​@@bajorekjonGood God, you're sensitive.

    • @errantnomad
      @errantnomad 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      ​@@bajorekjongot a real snowflake over here lmfaooooooo

  • @sarahhenry564
    @sarahhenry564 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1119

    This movie made me go through a very physical grieving process for…a family of 80s wrestlers??? I’ve never been more surprised and devastated in my life. Great video!

    • @beefy45
      @beefy45 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      I highly recommend watching the dark side of thr ring episode about the von erich family. It’s a good watch

    • @khaldub
      @khaldub 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Yes, the world of pro wrestling has some fairly devastating tales.

    • @itsangbruh
      @itsangbruh 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      the true story is even worse. They didn't even talk about their other brother who also ended his own life.

    • @MrMoles01
      @MrMoles01 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      honestly the adventures of milo and otis was more emotional. this was just corny

    • @waynepolo6193
      @waynepolo6193 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@MrMoles01 And yet, compelling enough for you to be watching TH-cam videos about it even now. Why spend your time watching a video whose premise you, ostensibly, already disagree with?

  • @BatLanterns439
    @BatLanterns439 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +72

    You can tell when Kevin's kids tell him that everyone cries how relieved he feels. He was probably waiting his entire life for someone to tell him that its okay to be vulnerable. It's okay to be human.

    • @Mr.Helper.
      @Mr.Helper. 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Don’t do it in front of your wife/girlfriend

  • @Shay416
    @Shay416 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +152

    Picked this movie because it was the only movie playing with seats available. Left speechless. Not the first date kinda movie lol.

    • @michelloons
      @michelloons 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      any movie can be a first date movie if you're brave enough lol 😄

    • @w.iraheta3769
      @w.iraheta3769 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      If this would have been a first date movie she would have seen me cry like a baby at end. 😅

    • @InMyOpinion005
      @InMyOpinion005 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@michelloonswhat point do u make a move 😭

    • @Mr.Helper.
      @Mr.Helper. 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@w.iraheta3769cry in front of a girl …. It’s the wrap

    • @claudeyaz
      @claudeyaz 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@@Mr.Helper. nah.
      You were crying for the characters..any girl who dumps you for that. Is a girl who would rob ya in divorce anyways

  • @makaylamitchell9240
    @makaylamitchell9240 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +83

    i think the ending made cry so much because i honestly picture heaven this angelic place where it’s so beautiful and you have true joy. and the way they portrayed the brothers meeting again broke me in the best way possible.

  • @chadtate6580
    @chadtate6580 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    As someone who had the "men don't cry" mindset drilled into me at a young age, I couldn't agree more and this film hit me hard. I didn't shed a single tear at my mom's funeral for fear of appearing weak, so that "everyone cries" had me balling like a baby.

    • @Atomsk0192
      @Atomsk0192 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It was beautiful. It was like his Dad didn't really let him mourn his brothers and his kids just set him free

  • @brianwalsh1339
    @brianwalsh1339 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +287

    As someone who does know the full context behind the “Von Erich curse” I can sort of understand why the filmmakers cut out some things.
    This story’s sad enough without Fritz’s eventual slide into madness due to brain cancer, Kevin’s mother leaving Fritz, and the suicide of the youngest brother, Chris (who isn’t even featured in the movie)

    • @stoneloitfellner
      @stoneloitfellner 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      I haven't been able to talk with many people about it. I felt the timeline and pacing was pretty far off from the real timeline and inturn got a little confusing. I also feel not touching on some of these things impacts the movie in a bad way. If you are telling this story tell the story. I actually feel for a 2 hour movie it felt somewhat rushed. Maybe I just need to rewatch it? Curious how you feel about these things

    • @michaelplz9069
      @michaelplz9069 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      ​@stoneloitfellner so if the movie felt rushed why would the film makers try and shove more tragedy into it. I feel it would cheapen these moments a bit and make it so sad it becomes less impactful. That's just how I see it

    • @stoneloitfellner
      @stoneloitfellner 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@michaelplz9069 it felt rushed because the timelines were all wrong including the motorcycle crash. They framed it as if it was the same night he won the belt. Things happened in rapid pace and it was jarring that’s what I mean by rushed. They didn’t take the time to properly tell the story and leaving out major events I just don’t see how that’s a plus

    • @contentm3893
      @contentm3893 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      How long did Fritz fall into madness? I think they messed up the timeline and could have told a better story if the timeline was correct. Jerry Jarret didn't buy the company until 1989 and they had been cross promoting up in Memphis for a while. They didn't really show Kerry falling apart very well and missed story arch's that could have shed light on what really happened and how the family was really dealing the issues that lead to Kerry's suicide.

    • @stoneloitfellner
      @stoneloitfellner 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@contentm3893I agree with this completely.

  • @summerrose791
    @summerrose791 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    I hated that most of the interviews people were only asking questions about their body transformations instead of the story itself

  • @mattkenney3359
    @mattkenney3359 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +93

    I definitely have felt the pressure to not cry as a man or show excessive displays of emotion. I went to see this movie with my fiancé and at the climax when Kevin finds his dead brother and imagines them all reuniting, I broke out into sobbing tears. Even though this movie wrecked me, I thought it was so beautiful and recommended it to everyone I talked to, proudly telling them how it made me weep.

  • @tariqjohnson9421
    @tariqjohnson9421 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    “Feeling pain makes them feel weak and feeling weak brings them pain”. That’s a bar and facts.

  • @zhanehenderson24
    @zhanehenderson24 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +75

    This movie should have gotten a Oscar or been in the nominations. Great movie. I was in the movies trying so hard to hold my tears in 😂😂😂

  • @maxp2305
    @maxp2305 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This movie made me appreciate my dad even more than i already did. Man was never afraid to show his emotions, good or bad. He'd cry like a baby to music and movies and wasn't ashamed to. He always taught me that it's okay to cry

  • @KEEIITTHH
    @KEEIITTHH 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Iron claw reminded me of my dead uncle who was a wrestler and that is probably one of the reason why it almost got me crying

  • @thatsthamove
    @thatsthamove 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    The end where he’s like, “I “was” a brother, but not anymore” got me. Made me think about all of my generation going before me and how I don’t think I could handle that

  • @saljbe
    @saljbe 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Wow. What a wonderful job dissecting this movie. Makes complete and total sense, I was wondering why this movie felt so different. The movie wouldn’t let you grieve bc they didn’t grieve.

  • @wT_Nomad
    @wT_Nomad หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Cried my eyes out. As the oldest of 4 siblings, my heart strings were pulled. This movie is so intense.

  • @abby-py1wf
    @abby-py1wf 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    this movie didn’t get talked about nearly enough, amazing video u really made some points I didn’t think about before!!!

  • @ShinyHunterSolyu
    @ShinyHunterSolyu 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    This movie makes me emotional cause it brings back memories of my older cousin who was more my older brother than anything. Him and my other cousin were big wrestling fans. So when my older cousin died almost 5 years ago, we put over his grave a WWE champion belt. He died at age 33… he didn’t get to meet my kids. I still have my other cousin whom I love just as much, but losing my cousin was the closest to losing a brother. Zach Efron deserved more for this and well the movie in general.

  • @Gabriel_Oliver
    @Gabriel_Oliver 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

    The Iron Claw was my favorite 2023 film, even though I watched tons, and you expertly put into words why I related to so much off this film so strongly I cried in a cinema for the first time ever. The restraint it shows somehow making the film more grounded and real feeling, putting you uncomfortably close to the situations Eric is in but still far enough away that you feel like you're dissociating with him. The funeral scenes in particular hit home for feeling dead on to some personal experiences and the way I remember those days. As someone with horrendous family luck (not this bad but so bad that we do get joked about being cursed), it really hit home. Thanks for this video essay the 20 minutes flew by. Gonna be re-watching this tons.

    • @makingmediamatter
      @makingmediamatter  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Such kind words, thank you for watching and I really appreciate the insight you provided here.

  • @adrianr87
    @adrianr87 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    This essay takes me back to your Nope essay. Beautifully put together. love love love

    • @makingmediamatter
      @makingmediamatter  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Really appreciate that compliment! So happy you enjoyed it

    • @crico314
      @crico314 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      off topic, but I love your profile pic

    • @adrianr87
      @adrianr87 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@crico314 likewise!

  • @chocolate_chipp_00
    @chocolate_chipp_00 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    This film had me and the boys in tears.

  • @jazmynnv5831
    @jazmynnv5831 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I am crying again just watching this video essay and reliving the movie. It’s funny because I held back my tears in the theatre for the most part and sobbed in the car after. You’ve perfectly illustrated here what watching the movie is like and it makes me appreciate the craft of it so much more.

    • @makingmediamatter
      @makingmediamatter  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So happy you found something special in my video and the film

    • @sophia_col
      @sophia_col 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I held back tears all the way up until kerry died. I didn't stop crying after that. This video made me want to cry again.

  • @koernerkomedy
    @koernerkomedy 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    When I saw The Iron Claw, I ducked out to use the bathroom right after the scene with David throwing up in the bathroom, made a joking tweet about how the things seem to be looking up for these Von Ericks, and came back to find David had died offscreen in the few minutes I was gone, and that just about sums up the emotional pacing of this movie.

  • @Sc19869
    @Sc19869 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    The ending when he’s crying seeing his kids play football made me shed some tears and actually felt his pain.

  • @itssosarahh
    @itssosarahh 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    So excited that you talked about Iron Claw. I loved that movie - so heartbreaking and beautifully wrought, as is your essay!

  • @jessenunez7205
    @jessenunez7205 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Me, my little brother, and my gf went to watch this movie. We were all crying and many of the audience members cried too. I haven’t cried in who knows how many years and this movie taught me it’s okay. Crazy the impact films can have

  • @janiceferdinand8612
    @janiceferdinand8612 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I didn’t understand the magical realism moment.I didn’t think of it as Kevin hoping for that for all his brothers.
    Thank you for allowing me to look at this scene differently.

  • @djgaben6187
    @djgaben6187 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Knowing a good majority about the family and their tragic past, I was still caught off guard with the emotional moments. Everyone was fantastic

  • @jackedwards3069
    @jackedwards3069 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    It felt like I was watching the family and not a story about the family, the performances and tone set like you said about restraint feels very real human reactions

  • @annjay2581
    @annjay2581 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My dad really wanted to watch this movie, so I put it on, expecting nothing special and then he left half way through to do something else and I ended up watching it till the end. Made me feel all the feels. Efron deserves more recognition.

  • @kickflipking06
    @kickflipking06 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    That scene hurt my heart, when he said I use to be a brother and they told them they can be his brothers 😢

  • @alexsajen
    @alexsajen 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This should have been the highlight of 2023, has all the making of a Oscar winning picture❤

  • @greyfirewolf1228
    @greyfirewolf1228 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I had the amazing experience of watching this on a Tuesday afternoon following the opening weekend. The theater was empty and I was all by myself, and when I heard the gunshot with KerryI just broke down sobbing uncontrollably in the theater and continued sobbing up until the end of the credits. For reference, the last time I cried from a place of intense emotion was like a year and half before this film came out, but this film had that profound of an impact on me. I wanted to thank you for helping me put a finger on just what led up to that release of emotion both in the film and in myself. I think I’m going to be thinking about the impact of “restraint” for a while. Amazing video!!

  • @shizzymcreepy52
    @shizzymcreepy52 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    just commenting something cause I love this channel and wish it was bigger - ur killing it girl

    • @makingmediamatter
      @makingmediamatter  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you, that’s so kind of you to say!!! Appreciate the support

  • @KobyMathews
    @KobyMathews หลายเดือนก่อน

    If you have brothers youd do anything for and grew up with an emotionally absent father this movie hits especially hard. Probably the most a movie has ever made me cry

  • @iankaiser4421
    @iankaiser4421 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Truly excellent video! You should be proud of this one. Perfectly laid out why this movie has such an effective story. Thank you

  • @jermainerucker2027
    @jermainerucker2027 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This film made you restrain yourself just like the characters did. So when you see Kevin finally release at the end. It’s the films way of telling you it’s ok to release to.
    Than how they rehashed the song the brother played at the party
    So good

  • @shaunsanborn7840
    @shaunsanborn7840 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The Von Erich's, through every tragedy and every blow that life dealt them, did their best to just trudge forward. I really felt that on the way the story was told. No matter how sad how heartbreaking, the scenes trudged forward.

  • @nero3k
    @nero3k 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This movie emotionally wrecked me in a way I wasn’t expecting. I watched it with my wife and daughter. They both know that I’m a crier with any movie that focuses on family. I knew the story going in, but the scene at the end with Jack Jr pushed me to a place I never expected. I’ve never dealt where tragedy like that, but it hit me so hard I had to leave the room. I don’t know that’ll I’ll watch it again, but it is a great movie.

  • @domferretti
    @domferretti 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Probably rhe biggest snub job since The Dark Knight. Efron was incredible. Direction and cinematography was top notch. Damn shame but everybody involved with this film should be incredibly proud.

  • @Thathorrorguy12FU
    @Thathorrorguy12FU 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The guy who played Dave Von Erich was unreal. And he's got an English accent. Incredible.

  • @kameronbasseri1953
    @kameronbasseri1953 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Incredibly insightful analysis , masculinity in this film was hard to watch for me because of what the father did to his family psychologically and emotionally, well done keep it up’ !

  • @pokesNTexans
    @pokesNTexans 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This movie made me cry so much. Hits different as a man and a brother

  • @CorkyRosebud
    @CorkyRosebud หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is a clever and thoughtful critique. Nice!

  • @jordanwlkr1
    @jordanwlkr1 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Man when Kerry turned that corner and saw his brothers I lost it. And then when Kevin’s sons said they would be his brothers 😭😭😭

  • @dogman6687
    @dogman6687 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I also missed a lot of movies in 2023, but im glad i saw this one in theaters

  • @hannahbray7065
    @hannahbray7065 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I really loved your analysis on this! Especially the great visualization/explanation of the differences between the typical biopic and Iron Claw.

  • @reezyfbaby
    @reezyfbaby 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This was amazing to watch.

  • @zacleng7805
    @zacleng7805 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I was watching this movie in the cinema with my girlfriend.
    I was trying so hard not to cry, but the ending got me, and I was crying like a baby.

  • @maotero98
    @maotero98 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This was such an intelligent and well articulated analysis of this film. Thank you for this

  • @mourndogs
    @mourndogs 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    First of all, I don't know how the algorithm hasn't scooped you up and thrown a few hundred thousand subs at you yet, your videos are so well crafted and thoughtful.
    And secondly, as a big crier myself, I have to admit that I broke down at the brother's reunion scene with Jacky, but the final scene had my best friend and I both ugly crying.

  • @Yorsem
    @Yorsem 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I saw this one in theaters, I cried hard and the first thing I did after leaving the theater was call my dad on the way home.

  • @juancuellar6361
    @juancuellar6361 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    this is so quality, how is this creator not more popular

    • @makingmediamatter
      @makingmediamatter  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So kind of you to say!!! The grind don’t stop so I hope to get there one day!

  • @manyourcoolchris
    @manyourcoolchris หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Such a great review

  • @beefy45
    @beefy45 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I took my parents, younger brother and my gf. The truck ride home was really quiet as we processed our emotions. My dad has a 5 brothers and i have 2. It really hit us in the feels

  • @geronimus4288
    @geronimus4288 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I watched this movie last night, I wish I could have seen it in theatres, and I wish there were more movies providing commentary on men's mental health in such a realistic way. Writing this, I am noticing the ways my own thoughts jump through hoops in order to prevent myself from tearing up. Its been less than 24 hours and I'm genuinely considering if this is one of my favorite movies of all time.
    Also want to say this video is spot on, your analysis just put into words everything that movie made me feel.

  • @user-gm3ld4vm1l
    @user-gm3ld4vm1l 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Really well made review - I felt this movie in my bones.

  • @Hot_Dog_Jones
    @Hot_Dog_Jones หลายเดือนก่อน

    I watched this movie at home with my chronically ill brother because he wouldn't physically be able to sit through the entire movie and it destroyed me
    I already knew what to expect but the "I used to be a brother" scene got me and I couldn't hold it back anymore, which is funny because that's the bit of the movie
    Awesome video!

  • @mbe102
    @mbe102 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm not sure I could watch this movie... but I'm grateful you took the time to analyze it and share your thoughts.

  • @EJD339
    @EJD339 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I find most biopics boring but this was one of the few that had me interested the entire time. The chemistry between the actors was so cool to see. It legit felt like these people were a family.

  • @Marelynn.
    @Marelynn. 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Great commentary, I haven’t seen the film but even watching this video makes me heartbroken, I didn’t know any about the real story but see the topics in the film been managed in a very introspective manner without missing any context about the real story makes me feel like this would be the best biopic

  • @camisnotokay6623
    @camisnotokay6623 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    this video is amazing!!! your writing and editing is superb!! thank you for making such a great video about this film, it feels like you were able to perfectly articulate the beauty in this film

  • @cammyNpammy
    @cammyNpammy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I knew the movie was gonna be a tragedy, I knew there was gonna be death but I found myself crying intensly atleast 4-5 times. I was immediately attached to Michael and after seeing his end was glad I watched the movie alone. Having lost a very dear friend to suicide and almost myself seeing him pass and the moments before left me grieving intensly enough when I watched the movie with my mother I teared up everytime he was on screen and crying when he was performing at the party and happy. Haven't had a movie leave an impact on me like this in many many years. Truly a tragedy this movie didn't include even a single nomination

  • @toddsigvertsen29
    @toddsigvertsen29 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is a fucking great break down of this film. It felt different and i couldnt really figure out why until i listened to this

  • @developingtank
    @developingtank 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Awesome breakdown. This is the first video I’ve seen of yours and I look forward to checking out others.

  • @RumneyRock
    @RumneyRock 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I've watched the ironclaw twice once in the movies and once at home with my wife. Both times I've ended up breaking down and crying. I love wrestling I'm 35 years old I've been watching it pretty much my entire life. Needless to say I've got some personal baggage tied up into this somehow that connects right in my feels. But when Kevin's sons go up to him at the end and say we'll be your brother's dad gets me every single time. Really is a great movie but a depressing movie I don't think I'll watch anytime soon again

  • @Corpo_Recruiter
    @Corpo_Recruiter 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What a beautiful analysis.

  • @ViciousPancakes
    @ViciousPancakes 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Such a good dissection of this film, really made me want to rewatch it once it comes out on streaming. This video is so well put together btw, you make me wish I actually knew how to do motion graphics 😭

    • @makingmediamatter
      @makingmediamatter  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I really appreciate the compliment and I’m so happy to hear you enjoyed this one! The motion graphics were definitely something I tried to focus on with this one

  • @HaussVonHorne
    @HaussVonHorne 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    So glad you're highlighting this one. It probably went under the radar for general audiences with such a stacked movie year and people likely thinking it's a standard sports biopic. I enjoy how eclectic your interests are!
    The greatest flaw is the casting for Ric Flair. I'm sure the guy was doing his best, but, for how well they nail so much else in the film, he stands out pointedly as a flop. Hard to portray someone so larger-than-life so kind of a bad beat for the actor.

    • @makingmediamatter
      @makingmediamatter  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you!!! And I can agree on the Ric Flair bit, the guy didn’t quite hit the mark but he did fine enough, definitely didn’t take me out the movie or anything so I can’t complain

    • @poindextertunes
      @poindextertunes 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I remember thinking “this guy doesnt remind me of Ric Flair at all” lol

  • @jamiea.m.3037
    @jamiea.m.3037 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This was a great analysis. Thanks!

  • @p.e.t.e.r.u5919
    @p.e.t.e.r.u5919 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My God. I love this analysis.

  • @AtticusTheDeathMetaller
    @AtticusTheDeathMetaller หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I knew what I was getting into knowing of the Von Erich’s, and goddamn the end quote made me loose it.

  • @Heartcuttermusicbypeach
    @Heartcuttermusicbypeach 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    NO FRRR!!!! Tremendously well done movie that displays male mental health in an authentic and gracious light

  • @VanHalenDrummer
    @VanHalenDrummer 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    And the song “Wanna Live that Way Forever” just drives EVERYTHING home.🥹

  • @willowisnotweeping
    @willowisnotweeping 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i haven't even seen the film and just watching your explanation of the end and at the the end there; I cried my eyes out xD

  • @Mattyp24
    @Mattyp24 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Excellent video. Informative concise and interpretative

  • @valeriebeauchamp2263
    @valeriebeauchamp2263 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    *trigger warning* After the passing of my aunt by her own unaliving, and before that the passing of my dad by cancer.. I found myself unable to cry or feel anything, when thinking of it.. then it became in general with my emotions (like I'm blocked.. but it feels more like an adrupt cut, there's the build up but no release) like I can't be present with the reality.. At first I felt shame and disgust with myself, to not feel anything, like how can you say that you loved them, shouldn't I be crying?.. when I first heard the news of my aunt I was at work .. and my boss wanted me to continue working (this is patriarchy).. don't know why, but I tried first.. then i took the day off after a minute.. but I feel like this fucked me up.. I didn't have a safe space to express my emotion.. and at that point didn't have a lot of friends I could trust because I kept putting an emotional barrier to portecting me from getting hurt I guess, but the result is I didn't have nobody, not even a safe space at home because of a living condition with my roomates.. I remember one time after showering I burst into ugly tears, this was months after her passing, and even there I restrained myself because I didn't want my roomates to hear me.. but as work on myself, go to therapy, face the darker parts of myself, I connect more and more with my emotion, found better solution for myself.. I cry a bit more day by day as I creating the safe space my emotion deserve to be released and felt. take care of yourselves y'all.

    • @makingmediamatter
      @makingmediamatter  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you for sharing that experience, it’s something I can certainly relate to in some ways. Emotional repression can really affect anyone and it’s such a tough thing to dispel, happy to hear you’re taking steps to heal from those experiences and moving into a brighter space.

    • @ms3801
      @ms3801 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I am so sorry for your loss. Grief is such a strange process I hope you’ll be very gentle with yourself.

  • @frederickcarter1974
    @frederickcarter1974 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    high school movie hits dif

  • @johstark
    @johstark 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is a beautiful analysis and I admit I cried a bit 😂 Its exactly how I felt during my first watching of the Iron Claw « you can’t let go now » it was sad but tears wouldn’t fall. It’s only when Kevin let himself be overflow with his emotions that I cried like a baby. I love this movie so much!!!

  • @coryray
    @coryray 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    growing up in east texas, ive been told tales of these dudes deaths, especially david's. i have piles of newspapers and clippings of articles about how devastated it left the wrestling community as a whole

  • @goody82az
    @goody82az 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This movie is so excellant, I expect to see it get some nominations for the talented actors and filmmakers who made it.

  • @damo2597
    @damo2597 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This movie hits home

  • @Dr_1212
    @Dr_1212 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Good review 👍
    Rip Von Erichs 🙏

  • @nothingelse1520
    @nothingelse1520 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I remember being a little kid in the late 80s/early 90s. I used to watch The Texas Tornado wrestle............had no idea his family was so messed up or he would die so young.

  • @oydkart6823
    @oydkart6823 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You definitely gained a fan today🎉

  • @hbkslazyeye8865
    @hbkslazyeye8865 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love your vids, keep up the good work

  • @michaelboyer7253
    @michaelboyer7253 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Massive thanks

  • @epcotman32
    @epcotman32 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Zac Efron should have at least won best actor.

  • @robbyf5522
    @robbyf5522 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    One of the best films I’ve ever seen, still can’t believe it got Oscar snubbed!

  • @mordaciousfilms
    @mordaciousfilms 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I had no idea who these dudes were IRL as far as who it's based on, but damn, I had to step out. I've been grieiving, feeling very alone - this shit just hit me way too hard, but I fucking broke seeing the boys reuniting on the shore in the afterlife - like that was gut-wrenching and beautiful.

  • @khaldub
    @khaldub 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    14:42 thank you for pointing this out

  • @darklinaendgame
    @darklinaendgame 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This video made me cry!! Subscribed. About to watch your video about Nope, one of my favorite movies.

    • @makingmediamatter
      @makingmediamatter  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wow, it means a lot to hear you got so much from the video, thank you for the support!

  • @spectre1004
    @spectre1004 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Fantastic video. This is one of the only films that have made me cried.

  • @elluchadork
    @elluchadork 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Just as a lot of toxic males don’t allow themselves to fully feel their emotions this movie doesn’t allow you to see the male characters truly feel their emotions until the very end

  • @islamkhalil2243
    @islamkhalil2243 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I watched on the plane and didn’t expect those outcomes… definitely had me depressed

  • @benweiseguitar
    @benweiseguitar 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    It’s messed up that Chris Von Erich (the youngest of the brothers, took his own life in 1991) isn’t even MENTIONED in this movie…

  • @adang9948
    @adang9948 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I came to this movie not knowing a thing about the Von Erich’s. I thought I biopic was just going to have your average wrestler crazy star life style. I was surprised like you that the scenes weren’t hitting me all while being a brother of 3. But when the last scene came my god did the waterworks hit. I stayed until the end credit head down because I didn’t want people seeing me that messed up. As soon as I got in my car I called my oldest brother and just told him how much I loved him and appreciated all he’s done.

  • @tjtg00
    @tjtg00 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    great analysis of a great movie! excellent work

  • @danielaguizar
    @danielaguizar 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    this was an excellent review 👏 following

  • @wu-bear8045
    @wu-bear8045 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    WOW AWESOME JOB