Cathy, I feel you. I decided from the very beginning to be a fool, zero engaging, closed my ears and my eyes if I had to. The only bag I need to secure is my peace. 13 years of zero drama and going strong. Love yah Cathy!!
@@FashionableStepMum It is perfectly okey and personally I understand. I envy your courage juu being Vulnerable is no joke. Weeehh!!! Can't wait for Episode 3😁🍾
Hahaha Ive laughed at "kama huku ni kubaya si wakuchukue basi" lol. I totally understand that feeling and kuna some days you just immediately say what's at the top of your mind. But generally you have handled your blended family very maturely. Good job Cathy, keep up the good job!
Listened to this podcast and its soo insightful, but for i prefered the kids to stay with the mum and the dad to take care of them but they can come over over the weekends and holidays .
Bravo! You're very beautiful, wise with very high level of emotional intelligence! A very difficult topic discussed with such grace! I have learnt a lot!
Wah!Well put!That awkward moment during PTC woi!🤦🏽♀️Glad I've been doing it right!Good idea on the wedding part.Wacha I also prepare🤭 Thanks Cathy for the insight.
Hello this is amazing very insightful thank you for sharing your life experiences I really appreciate it mental health is very important sometimes we get lost wanting acceptance and validation and we do things which as you stated are none of our concern we take all the baggage .God bless you abundantly ameeen.Have a lovely amazing blessful Sunday ameen.
Hehe. If you're African then you know some phrases/good ol emphasis, cannot quite be translated into English. 😁 So, hope Cathy can indeed talk in as much English as possible but when the soul speaks, may it be allowed a bit of room to just speak in its first tongue, as those bits are the funniest for those that understand the language. 😁 PS: Africa could do with one language, as our languages have much more oomph. English can be so bland.
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Cathy, I feel you. I decided from the very beginning to be a fool, zero engaging, closed my ears and my eyes if I had to. The only bag I need to secure is my peace. 13 years of zero drama and going strong. Love yah Cathy!!
I love how you’re leaving emotions out and sticking to logic and peace.
Do not engage..I repeat do not engage! Awesome Cathy..Awesome!
This is the most honest feedback with tools to handle! Truth is not easy... Thank you for sharing Cathy!
The way you have handled the blended family shows resilience, experience, knowledge, and critical thinking. Looking forward to the next one.💌💌💌
All this while thought it was 1 mom 4 kids...kumbe, it's 2 baby mamas😊 well done mama👏
it's 2 🤔I thought its one. That must be draining
We need more of this and when I grow up I want to be like you Cathy 😊
Thank you for the lovely feedback 🙏🏿
I love how peaceful you sound!!! Love your honesty. So funny also. 😂😂😂😂😂
Wueh.... just watching this video made me realise that being in a blended family is no joke. You must be strong, Cathy.
I have been on both sides and bloody difficult. I agree with you 💯
You give people access to you, and they will disrespect you.
This! I loved.. the unsweetened truth presented with kindness and grace. You’re doing great mama.
My new favourite podcast for sure. You can never really be ready to be a step mum, but we do our best as we move along. 💯💯
I am getting addicted with these podcasts following the episodes 💯💯
Am glad you are liking it.. still a bit nervous .
@@FashionableStepMum It is perfectly okey and personally I understand. I envy your courage juu being Vulnerable is no joke. Weeehh!!!
Can't wait for Episode 3😁🍾
Blended family is no joke.... I tried it but the toxicity of broken relationship require more than love
Wueh!!! Cathy spitting lots of wisdom there. 👍
Setting boundaries is very important. Thank you for this
Thank you .As i start this blended family journey, i believe i have learnt and will continue learning 🙏. Share more as time goes by❤
Will definitely be sharing more.
Hahaha Ive laughed at "kama huku ni kubaya si wakuchukue basi" lol. I totally understand that feeling and kuna some days you just immediately say what's at the top of your mind. But generally you have handled your blended family very maturely. Good job Cathy, keep up the good job!
THANK YOU CATHY 1000000000000000000 PERCENT ! THANK YOU THIS IS GOLD!
Great content Cathy. Eagerly waiting for the next episode
You are doing an amazing job sharing
Your courage is remarkable ❤. You are giving me many perspectives to consider.
Listened to this podcast and its soo insightful, but for i prefered the kids to stay with the mum and the dad to take care of them but they can come over over the weekends and holidays .
Cathy you're so informative
Bravo! You're very beautiful, wise with very high level of emotional intelligence! A very difficult topic discussed with such grace! I have learnt a lot!
Wah!Well put!That awkward moment during PTC woi!🤦🏽♀️Glad I've been doing it right!Good idea on the wedding part.Wacha I also prepare🤭 Thanks Cathy for the insight.
Wisdom❤ ,learning alot
Hello this is amazing very insightful thank you for sharing your life experiences I really appreciate it mental health is very important sometimes we get lost wanting acceptance and validation and we do things which as you stated are none of our concern we take all the baggage .God bless you abundantly ameeen.Have a lovely amazing blessful Sunday ameen.
Very true. Am glad to be of impact. Thank you for watching
Amazing Content,great lessons
Translation subtitles please ☺️ love this! ❤Thank you so much!
🇿🇼 watching from 🇨🇳
Hio yankujituma wueee learned the hard way mine ni in-laws
Brilliant!!!!
Thankyou very much coz weuh its never easy but only God's grace
Lots of wisdom here🤗... Looking forward to more episodes ❤️
insightful
Love such conversations do more good job cathy
Every time l feel myself into people's nonsense, l should say this words:not my circus,not my monkey😂😂😂
Brilliant episode thank you 😊
Awesome tips! Love this!
Cathy is the Kenyan Sprinkle Sprinkle 🤭🤭🥹😂❤️
I agree😅
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good and authentic content!
Good job Cathy
I wish divorce didnt exist. Kids go through so soooooo much. I always feel for the kids....😢
Sadly such is life…
Just watched a mum who buried 2 of her kids after her divorce..
Kids are affected big time
😢😢😢
👏🏽👏🏽loved this!!
Don't engage is the key, close your ears 👂
Love the content Cathy. Got a bit lost when you switch to your local language 😅 . Hoping for captions in future episodes .
Yeah, same
My apologies. Will take note of that in the next one
@@FashionableStepMum Thank you for this . Love from Zimbabwe
Hehe. If you're African then you know some phrases/good ol emphasis, cannot quite be translated into English. 😁 So, hope Cathy can indeed talk in as much English as possible but when the soul speaks, may it be allowed a bit of room to just speak in its first tongue, as those bits are the funniest for those that understand the language. 😁 PS: Africa could do with one language, as our languages have much more oomph. English can be so bland.
Loving this, good job!
Awesome I have learnt alot from this 😊😊thank you🎉
Great content👌
Thanks for this, hapo kwa pick ups, I was put into a fight I didn't expect some weeks ago. Have learnt something
Most welcome!
You live and learn
hehe it's the "usijitume" for me
Do not be caught …
Wow you’re such a wonderful woman 😊
Nice loved this i related to this soo much😭
True wisdom right there...
Great content.😊
I hope my ex’s new wife is just like you! Knowing her place. #sigh
cathy...you are wise
Thank you
Your experience is just like mine.been a stepmum for 25yrs.not easy
Sending you hugs
It’s clearly not. Congratulations for pushing on.
Calling a spade a spade. Great conversation
Awesome advice
This is great content....
Blended family love
Good content ❤
I understand you Cathy. Than you so much for sharing
This is soo mature
Sprinkle sprinkle ladies😂😂
Usijitume!!!! Love it!
Hy leave with Michael in a graduation??
Love u cathy
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Not easy aye?
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love❤❤❤❤ you auntie Cathy😂
Sorry not sorry mmmmm.....hope it's worth it.
🤣🤣🤣 I was with you until you said at our own risk
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