Woow I thought I was the only one who cried...she kinda always was my favorite and it's so heartbreaking to see her having a hard time ...i don't know but like she is such a great kid and she's so mature even though she's so young🤧❤️❤️
It's broke my heart hearing Seola thought.. even she's appear to be the happiest one.. she's tend to keep her feelings aside.. on that age. Poor Seola..
I felt bad for Sua because she's shy and can't interact easily with others without her twin. On the other side, Seola's feeling teared me up because all this time, she just held it in to herself. In that early age, being the eldest of the three 😭 HOWEVER, Sian cracked me up at 8:22. HAHAHAHA you will observe the size of his bite was HUGE because he learned his lesson at home, sharing foods with his siblings HAHAHAHA
The fact that Dongook was concerned about Sua and Sian first meant that Seola was really good at keeping up with her ‘good girl’ mask. And it’s amazing and sad at the same time. Not saying that Dongook is a bad dad. It’s just cultural hazard. Almost all elder/eldest siblings went through this just because we are older. XD
"I get angry.. but I hold it in." "I should do it because Im a nice girl" damn.. its so sad that i cried.. I can totally relate Seola.. being the elder or the eldest is pretty tough. Adults tend to expect the older ones to give way to rhe younger ones.. its just sad. tbh, i cry in the comfort room or in my bedroom sometimes due to these kind of reasons too. i bet a lot can relate?? whoever is reading this.. stay strong and have a good day 😊
I’ve learned from class today that there’s a theory on self saying that what you are today is a product of your childhood/past and honestly after watching this, it couldnt be more true. I’m happy that their father is really out there taking care of his kids cause honestly how they treat their kids will be a big factor in the future
I love this family and tears me up to know how Seola feel because i have witness how she dealt with her younger siblings and its true. She is very patient towards them, protective, smart, funny at the same time loving sister she always have to give up for the younger one's so they won't cry or so they wont get in trouble. Its great to see dongook finally notice this and know that he shoudnt put her as a leader or pressure her to do things. I love u guys!! A number 1 fan from Australia. (Literally cried) 😢
Seola I feel you bc I’ve heard the same thing growing up. Be good to your siblings, set a good example for your siblings, mistakes are not welcomed, you’re the leader, don’t be a disappointment! I’ve heard all these & it’s always good to love & take care of your younger siblings but it’s also important to also have time just for you to express your feelings. Keep growing little ones. Hwaiting little sis & hwaiting five siblings! 😘😘
Sua is definitely me. Even though, I’m already 20+ y/o, im still having hard time interacting with others. I get anxiety. Its much better that you leave me alone and dont talk to me lol Ughhh Introvert problem. 🙄
hearing the comments about seola really just shattered my heart into pieces ): she's so small to be feeling that way and she's maturing way too fast. i hope that she expresses her feelings more often and that her father, mother and siblings will be there to help her with that ): i love you, seola!!
I feel so sorry for Seola. I even remember an episode where they were racing together, and she's halfway when she told herself that she refused to let her tears fall. And that episode where she argued with Sua, and Sua hit her first but Donggook scolded her because he didn’t know.
Seorayaaaa, you're cute and kindhearted girl. I love the way you show your love with your siblings. I cry when you said that you should hold your feeling bcs didnt want your siblings hurt. Love u my kindhearted little girl💜🙆
They each have different personalities. Poor Sian...when he was hiding and no one looking after him.and then he came back playing and still smiling like nothing happened, that kinda breaks my heart. I love him so much, all of them actually!
I feel like I can really relate to Sua. As being the younger twin myself, I always found it quite difficult and awkward for me socialise with others since me and my sister were inseparable and so my sister would always speak on behalf of both of us whenever we talked to people which made me a lot quieter and shy growing up as she became more vocal and confident. I hope when Sua grows up, she will able to find her own identity rather than being branded as "one of the twins" so she can become more independent and confident when socialising with others. (I guess I have a soft spot for Sua, such a lil blessing to have on the show
I really love this 5kids family!! Have been their fans from their first episode, I've learned that even as twins, each of them have their own character While Jaesi is the oldest, it is Jaea who is more extrovert between the older twin. Jaea looks more energetic, playful and brave, taking her father blood..while Jaesi (my fav), I think, is taking her mother side, caring, supportive (okay if not being in the spotlight) and leading all the 5 with her own way! Then in the younger twin case, seola (also my fav), the oldest, is more more far extrovert away rather than sua. Despite her sneaky idea and sometime looks like a little witch, I already feel about seola is being pressured as the eldest of the trio. It is already on her mind, that she has to be a nice kid. She has to lead, she has to makes an example, she has to think about others before herself. She has to blaa and bla.. I really relate to her. In the other side, having a leader like Seola, sua will growing up as a supportive member for her leader. The positive side are, she will become a woman who looks like "a lady" (great manner) who is calm, have a soft heart, helpful and also loyal. But there is also the negative side of being a supportive role, which usually are tend to be passive, not letting out her feeling, and having a kind of habit as a stress release way. last but not least, there is the maknae, Sian! we all know that he has been almost everyone's fav since their first episode! Despite being the youngest in this family, whom receiving full love from all the family members, He is growing old perfectly! (at least from my point of view). Well..rather than becoming a spoiled kiddo, He becomes an obedient kid, determined and often trying hard! He receive a lot of love and he gives, a lot of love to every one! I really thank this family for joining this show! I hope you guys will be blessed more and become a greater blessing for everyone! PS. Sorry for my long..long..long..comment, it just I really love them 😂😂🙈❤
In the first part of the video... "Seola's so cute!!!" I am very happy :) But then at the end, I felt a lump in my throat :( I understand her (And you might also do). It's not that we're being force to meet the expectations... but it's hard to break the chains that we already put up... Gradually, we may.
seola is way too relatable, i'm now 15 but being born as the eldest, i have to give up to the younger. being the eldest, "you're older, you should be a good example" "give it to your lil sis, she's younger than you" those words never left my ears, the pressure i felt until now still couldn't speak up. it is my responsibilities because i am the oldest. i am happy donggook pay attention to these and even go to a psychologist, my parents didn't and till now i live with the 'eldest child burden' fighting seola! unnie know how hard it can be not able to speak up because you're the oldest!
Bruh, this is the first time I cried because of a consultation here in RTOS. Seola really broke my heart because I knew how it feels to have that pressure that I should always be a nice kid.
I noticed that Seola rarely gets mad at her siblings. I even read comments on other videos praising her for not getting mad with Sian or Sua. But now I realize that she should be allowed to get mad. I want to tell Seola that it's ok to not always be the "good daughter".
I relate to seola a lot. I know that feeling of having to hold everything in even if your not in the wrong. It’s actually really tiring to keep doing that because you’re just going to explode one day.
I can see myself in Seola and I just want to comfort her and tell her how proud and sad i am for her because she dealt with that at such a young age. Because of this show, I want my parents - Dad - to join this show to let them know how I felt when I was younger until now. I LOVE YOU SEOLA! I'M ROOTING FOR YOU
O gosh am crying hard after listening soela. I wish she will be happy n the pain she was enduring turned out to be her happiness and charm. Soela hawtting❤
I watched recent epsidoes after this and you can see how seola feels bad. Her dad keeps saying you should let him win, you are older or why are two fight each other and her dad's making angry face first her even she isn't be guilty. Happy for them and us cause of understand her (Sorry for my bad english)
Seola, you made unnie cry... 😭😭😭 I can totally relate to trying to be the good girl and show what is expected of you... But we have to admit that we all have our bad days... And when we feel like we do need the attention, too... Sometimes, when you give so much of yourself and end up losing yourself in the process, it isn't good. So it is always to have love for yourself and be able to express yourself to others... both the good and bad. But I have to say, Seola, you are doing such a good job being strong as a twin to Sua and a noona to Sian. Much love to all of you. 😍😘💕
The return of superman is such an eye opener for a lot of parents on how to understand and react to their children....i grew up being favored by my parents for a lot of circumstances and my elder sister suffered a lot because of being the eldest. Our parents always said that she had to give up and prior us her sibling since shes the eldest and can already understand...i also experienced the same thing when i became an elder sister of two of my young siblings.....and watching this show teach me that its not a good thing to do cause it will give a lot of pressure....i will use the information i learned when i become a parent too...thanks to this show💜
I feel so much for my bby Sua. She’s the middle child and by her being introverted she gets overlooked by everyone. Who knows how she feels inside. They need to lift her up, build her confidence so she won’t end up feeling like the black sheep of the family. She is my favorite 💜
Never thought she had felt this way! It’s a good thing Donggook consulted an expert and hopefully this will be address because I badly know how hard it is to be under pressure. :(
Uhmm, ohh I can relate to the three of them...each small part of them. As introvert, I am mostly like Sua. I am taking time to adjust in new environment so it's hard to expert myself and I observe first before lowering my guard little by little. I also tend to keep my feelings inside while putting a happy smiley mask as if I am okay like Seola. Like Sian, when I meet new friends and I want to know them, but it's awkward so I want to show them things I love or games I love to play so I can warm up with them first (because at the end I am mostly like Sua) but I got ignored when I tried. Now I know why I love these siblings so much....at least they're still children and their parents try their best to improve themselves for the children.
Seola will do well bcoz shes smart, confident and sociable. It's SUA i felt worried and sad about bcoz shes to shy and she hardly opens up to others aside from her siblings bcoz of her shyness. If it wouldnt be given earnest attention by her family it might cause her to all d more lose confidence in everything she'll do thinking she can never do well like her twin or her unnies. Sua-yaaa, you're very beautiful baby girl..watching you grew up, you are a very kind-hearted and loving sister to all ur siblings. never ever think that you cant be enough or you cant do well in most things.Just like your unnis and Seola and Sian, YOU CAN DO IT ALL ALSO. ❤ FIGHTING SUA❤❤❤❤
I understand Seola and when she said that, I almost cried. You see I have an older brother who is autistic and I'm younger than him by 3 and a half years, despite that I have to give things up and do stuff that older kids do, but it's hard that I can't tell him what to do cause he's older and my mom always says to listen to my brother and obey him, but he doesn't even know how to blow his nose properly! So it's frustrating I can understand Seola
I honestly cried when she talked about the pressure Seola had to endure. I am also under pressure and it really is not a good feeling. Being able to feel that at such a young age is truly saddening. For Sua, I truly hope that she can be able to break out of her comfort zone. As she gets older, she will encounter more people with different personalities and I truly wish that she can learn how to interact with each of them. Not being able to express her feelings would really be bad for her mentally and emotionally. For Sian, I am happy with how he interacts with other people, but I also wish that he wouldn’t take what his father keeps telling him to heart - that men shouldn’t cry. At such a young age, he has been trained to be tough, but even tough people cry. All in all, I hope these kids would grow as kind and caring people. I watched them for a long time and seeing how each of them grew up really makes me proud. SEOLSUDAE FIGHTING!
I feel for Sua the most, she hardly ever expresses her feelings. Who knows what she feels inside? She shouldn't bottle up her emotions. At least Seola can express what upsets her but Sua doesn't even mention what upsets her.
Meya Adara In general Sua doesn't talk much, hence the psychologist mentioned Sua needs to learn to express herself verbally @4:24 Sorry I'm not much bothered with Seola, she has enough fans to comment for her and worry for her.
Sometimes, people with bigger smiles doesn’t mean they’re the happiest people, it’s actually a lot harder because you may not notice how hurt they were because they kept on smiling. I cried a lot when Seola said that she always have to be the nice kid so she just holds her emotions in. 😭🤧
I relate to Seola for being the eldest and also relate to Sua's introvert personality. Just with a different childhood where I have a special need sibling.
I was raised as the oldest. Being told to take care of everyone and help them took a toll on me; I can't put myself first...sure I can speak my opinion to those I'm close to, but new social situations stress me out when theres no one i can "take care of."
donggook appa is really admirable. when his first appearance in 2015, he was still clumsy yet know nothing bout their child. but now he becoming such an reliable appa for the kids. i hope i can get a husband like donggok appa; funny, caring, easygoing, and lovable. so much love for your family 💖💖
I was the one who was tagged "tha good girl" and I gave up to show my anger, my frustration, insatisfation and so on. Sometimes I was just the miserable one.😩
This is why I love this show I get to understand different behavior of a child. Can mostly relate to Seola too, being the eldest is close to being the "Little Miss Perfect". Upon Growing up I would also make "paraya" to my younger sibling too.
I feel sad for Seola because I am in that situation where I have to give up what I want, be kind, be nice to my siblings since I'm the eldest. It's hard to keep yourself together esp when your siblings are getting on your nerves, it's hard to keep hold of what you want esp when your sibling wants it too, but just like Seola, I just stand there and keep telling myself "I have to be nice because I'm the eldest". I'm cryingg 😢
You can totally see Seola as the eldest when playing with the other little girls her age. She actively volunteered as the first to play, but when the other two also wanted the same role, she gave way (even if she looks frustrated) and even gave a solution so the other two won’t fight. I’m the older sister, and yes, it’s sometimes frustrating to give way for your younger sibling when you also want it too. It’s just in the role, I guess. XD
This episode just made me so sad to see these little kiddos grow up so fast and already having hardships...i guess we also all kinda relate to the problems that they're having...why are they already so mature omg I can't imma go cry real quick--
Soela’s part was very heartbreaking to me because I completely relate 100% I always think I’m the eldest I should let them do their thing and I’ll take care of them I have to meet the expectations of my parents of they’ll be disappointed a have to let my friends do their thing first and I’ll go last and I sometimes have to hold my tears in because I don’t I want to look weak and hold my anger in because i hav ego be the better person and sua is kind of like me too it’s hard for ,y to adjust with new people or people I don’t talk to a lot but I don’t eat the pat much lol
i relate to you seola. im 14 and my brother is older than me but i have to be the mature one, and everyone looks up to me. i hold in alot for my age and think about adulthood, which i shouldnt be doing. im trying to figure it all out. FIGHTING
Woah.. Ι never thought Seola was feeling that way😿💔 either way she'll be such a great person as an adult and I'm sure she will be successful too..I hope that she will also be happy and the whole family too. Donggook is a considerable and good father and is so nice how all of his children is different in their own way!❤❤❤
I felt Seola's sadness😭😭 I feel that she is just like me😭 that we need to maintain what we are I mean the image where we are well known😭 just like holding our anger back because we need to be kind and act like a leader because there is no one who you can lean your back on😭😭
Wow i learned so much. Im also the oldest sibling, my parents often tell me to be nice and giving to my younger siblings but thankfully i grew up to be someone that still wants to have my own opinions and thinking instead of always giving in.
This made me sad.I am the eldest among my 7 siblings growing up as the eldest is hard.But I think I am nothing compare to Seola.😢😢😢 I admire these kids.
Omg I cried... I always thought Seola was the "strongest" out of the three in terms of personality but I didn't know that she was holding so much back ;( I also feel bad for Sua, haven't watched the show in for 1 year or so but I have to say she looks "rounder" a bit (not trying to be rude). I can really relate to that ;( Daebak/Sian it was sad to see that they weren't interested in playing hide and seek but in the end it worked out. Oh man but Seola really made me cry
I worry a bit about Sua, too. I think she may end up literally swallowing her feelings. I'm certain that a family as athletic as the Lees will stay active enough to remain healthy, though.
When im with my close friend im like seoula,and when im with new/strangers im like sua...and when im with my boyfriend im like sian... and when im with my family,i mix everything...😂this is such a nice episode..
I am definitely Sua in terms of personality. We're introverts and we need time to adjust to new things, new people, and places. But we're ok, we're not anti-social or whatever. We just need the time to adjust. 😉 But I also have the Seola situation. I mean, I am the middle kid and I am always told to yield to my elder sibling because she's the unnie and the first born, and I also have to give way to my younger sister because I am the "more mature" one. It's tough when you're still a kid because you're still trying to figure out reasons. But it gets better in time. Being in the middle lets you understand and see both sides of the field. 😉
this revealed more about my own childhood. wow. I'm timid and reserved at first like Sua and it takes time for me to interact with others. Also similarly to Seola I was always placed as the older sister and had to yield to my little sister and even my older brother cause I'm the oldest girl and I was always expected to sacrifice my comfort for them and others. (which is total bs especially since I'm not the oldest but only because I'm a girl ugh early sexism) but it makes me wonder how much of my giving and sacrificial personality is my own and how much was condition because Im already 20 so its extremely hard to distinguish the 2 at this point.
I can relate to Seola. People put so much pressure to you because you’re the eldest. Sometimes it’s hard to express how you truly feel because you have to maintain that brave and giving personality. Sad..
Naeun is cute, but I just can't stand the family for some reason. I just feel like the dad is babying the son way too much, and people are babying that entire family way too much.
@@adara4635 ikr. i didn't hate naeun but i can't stand her dad. her dad was clueless all the time. there was one time his son show tantrum but he didn't try to understand the situation at all instead he tried to bribe him with his favorite toys and when it doesn't work, he just let his daughter scold her brother. he never question her daughter and let her do what she wants because she is adorable. that's when i had enough watching naeun's family.
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I cried when seola said "I get angry but I hold it in. I just stand there. It's very hard" and aww the sadness in her voice 😭
I felt the same way when I heard it and It broke my heart 😭😭💔💔
Woow I thought I was the only one who cried...she kinda always was my favorite and it's so heartbreaking to see her having a hard time ...i don't know but like she is such a great kid and she's so mature even though she's so young🤧❤️❤️
iam drowning in tears
Me too 😢
i ended up being teary eyed. how hard it must be for seola.
It's broke my heart hearing Seola thought.. even she's appear to be the happiest one.. she's tend to keep her feelings aside.. on that age. Poor Seola..
Always The happiest person has a worse life... Cuz they tend to be happy to other and.. Not for own self... They always have a mask to put on..
Sua alleviating her shyness by eating is a mood but Seola is super relatable from an older sibling's perspective.
Same as being oldest.
DG is so admirable because he always takes steps to improve himself on and off the pitch.
I'm so glad he is taking steps to be an even better father.
I felt bad for Sua because she's shy and can't interact easily with others without her twin. On the other side, Seola's feeling teared me up because all this time, she just held it in to herself. In that early age, being the eldest of the three 😭
HOWEVER, Sian cracked me up at 8:22. HAHAHAHA you will observe the size of his bite was HUGE because he learned his lesson at home, sharing foods with his siblings HAHAHAHA
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SIAN LOOKS SO HANDSOME AND SISTERS ARE BEAUTIFULLY
The fact that Dongook was concerned about Sua and Sian first meant that Seola was really good at keeping up with her ‘good girl’ mask. And it’s amazing and sad at the same time. Not saying that Dongook is a bad dad. It’s just cultural hazard. Almost all elder/eldest siblings went through this just because we are older. XD
"I get angry.. but I hold it in." "I should do it because Im a nice girl"
damn.. its so sad that i cried.. I can totally relate Seola.. being the elder or the eldest is pretty tough. Adults tend to expect the older ones to give way to rhe younger ones.. its just sad. tbh, i cry in the comfort room or in my bedroom sometimes due to these kind of reasons too. i bet a lot can relate??
whoever is reading this.. stay strong and have a good day 😊
I'm not the older.I'm the youngest.But i can relate to seola. :"
I can relate with you.
As the oldest, I can confirm.
*Seola is so mature. And she has leadership too. I love it.*
I’ve learned from class today that there’s a theory on self saying that what you are today is a product of your childhood/past and honestly after watching this, it couldnt be more true. I’m happy that their father is really out there taking care of his kids cause honestly how they treat their kids will be a big factor in the future
13:07 “I have to because I’m a nice kid” the way I burst into tears 😭
I love this family and tears me up to know how Seola feel because i have witness how she dealt with her younger siblings and its true. She is very patient towards them, protective, smart, funny at the same time loving sister she always have to give up for the younger one's so they won't cry or so they wont get in trouble. Its great to see dongook finally notice this and know that he shoudnt put her as a leader or pressure her to do things. I love u guys!! A number 1 fan from Australia.
(Literally cried) 😢
Seola I feel you bc I’ve heard the same thing growing up. Be good to your siblings, set a good example for your siblings, mistakes are not welcomed, you’re the leader, don’t be a disappointment! I’ve heard all these & it’s always good to love & take care of your younger siblings but it’s also important to also have time just for you to express your feelings. Keep growing little ones. Hwaiting little sis & hwaiting five siblings! 😘😘
Sua is definitely me. Even though, I’m already 20+ y/o, im still having hard time interacting with others. I get anxiety. Its much better that you leave me alone and dont talk to me lol Ughhh Introvert problem. 🙄
Super棣棣 yeah right , I can relate 😊 introvert problems
I'm like you also. Lol 😂 Introvert.
I can totally relate introvert problem
Super棣棣 MOOOD
Same irl at school
hearing the comments about seola really just shattered my heart into pieces ): she's so small to be feeling that way and she's maturing way too fast. i hope that she expresses her feelings more often and that her father, mother and siblings will be there to help her with that ): i love you, seola!!
My heart broke for seola. She's so mature despite a very young age. Even I, myself would never thought of doing that.
I feel so sorry for Seola. I even remember an episode where they were racing together, and she's halfway when she told herself that she refused to let her tears fall. And that episode where she argued with Sua, and Sua hit her first but Donggook scolded her because he didn’t know.
Seorayaaaa, you're cute and kindhearted girl. I love the way you show your love with your siblings. I cry when you said that you should hold your feeling bcs didnt want your siblings hurt. Love u my kindhearted little girl💜🙆
i totally can understand sua bc of the introvert personality that she she has inside of her is just like me 😢😢
They each have different personalities.
Poor Sian...when he was hiding and no one looking after him.and then he came back playing and still smiling like nothing happened, that kinda breaks my heart. I love him so much, all of them actually!
I feel like I can really relate to Sua. As being the younger twin myself, I always found it quite difficult and awkward for me socialise with others since me and my sister were inseparable and so my sister would always speak on behalf of both of us whenever we talked to people which made me a lot quieter and shy growing up as she became more vocal and confident.
I hope when Sua grows up, she will able to find her own identity rather than being branded as "one of the twins" so she can become more independent and confident when socialising with others.
(I guess I have a soft spot for Sua, such a lil blessing to have on the show
Awww 😞 I hope so too, Sua's a great kid but so overlooked at times because she's grown so timid next to her twin.
But dont forget. You might feel like Sua, but your sister might feel like seola. You two can share your thoughts about it
You are such a blessing too, for being beautiful for ur own, and for having a twin 💛
I really love this 5kids family!! Have been their fans from their first episode, I've learned that even as twins, each of them have their own character
While Jaesi is the oldest, it is Jaea who is more extrovert between the older twin. Jaea looks more energetic, playful and brave, taking her father blood..while Jaesi (my fav), I think, is taking her mother side, caring, supportive (okay if not being in the spotlight) and leading all the 5 with her own way!
Then in the younger twin case, seola (also my fav), the oldest, is more more far extrovert away rather than sua. Despite her sneaky idea and sometime looks like a little witch, I already feel about seola is being pressured as the eldest of the trio. It is already on her mind, that she has to be a nice kid. She has to lead, she has to makes an example, she has to think about others before herself. She has to blaa and bla.. I really relate to her.
In the other side, having a leader like Seola, sua will growing up as a supportive member for her leader.
The positive side are, she will become a woman who looks like "a lady" (great manner) who is calm, have a soft heart, helpful and also loyal. But there is also the negative side of being a supportive role, which usually are tend to be passive, not letting out her feeling, and having a kind of habit as a stress release way.
last but not least, there is the maknae, Sian! we all know that he has been almost everyone's fav since their first episode! Despite being the youngest in this family, whom receiving full love from all the family members, He is growing old perfectly! (at least from my point of view). Well..rather than becoming a spoiled kiddo, He becomes an obedient kid, determined and often trying hard!
He receive a lot of love and he gives, a lot of love to every one!
I really thank this family for joining this show! I hope you guys will be blessed more and become a greater blessing for everyone!
PS. Sorry for my long..long..long..comment, it just I really love them 😂😂🙈❤
I enjoy reading your thoughts 👌👍👍😄😄😂
In the first part of the video...
"Seola's so cute!!!" I am very happy :)
But then at the end, I felt a lump in my throat :( I understand her (And you might also do).
It's not that we're being force to meet the expectations... but it's hard to break the chains that we already put up... Gradually, we may.
seola is way too relatable, i'm now 15 but being born as the eldest, i have to give up to the younger. being the eldest, "you're older, you should be a good example" "give it to your lil sis, she's younger than you" those words never left my ears, the pressure i felt until now still couldn't speak up. it is my responsibilities because i am the oldest. i am happy donggook pay attention to these and even go to a psychologist, my parents didn't and till now i live with the 'eldest child burden' fighting seola! unnie know how hard it can be not able to speak up because you're the oldest!
Bruh, this is the first time I cried because of a consultation here in RTOS. Seola really broke my heart because I knew how it feels to have that pressure that I should always be a nice kid.
I feel bad for Sua. She can't express herself even if she wants to because she's shy.
She's me when I was growing up
I wonder how he can redirect her energies from self-soothing by eating to interacting with others?
That's me growing up and sometimes me now sadly😅😫
@@puddlemini Well let just say eating is one of best way of making yourself happy.
@@iamki0309 I think most of us experience, way back in our childhood days
Sua is my fav, eats well, super cute, and shy
I noticed that Seola rarely gets mad at her siblings. I even read comments on other videos praising her for not getting mad with Sian or Sua. But now I realize that she should be allowed to get mad. I want to tell Seola that it's ok to not always be the "good daughter".
I relate to seola a lot. I know that feeling of having to hold everything in even if your not in the wrong. It’s actually really tiring to keep doing that because you’re just going to explode one day.
Seolaaaa
It really breaks my heart when she have to give way for her siblings 😢
I can see myself in Seola and I just want to comfort her and tell her how proud and sad i am for her because she dealt with that at such a young age. Because of this show, I want my parents - Dad - to join this show to let them know how I felt when I was younger until now.
I LOVE YOU SEOLA! I'M ROOTING FOR YOU
Seola, u make me crying😭
O gosh am crying hard after listening soela. I wish she will be happy n the pain she was enduring turned out to be her happiness and charm. Soela hawtting❤
I watched recent epsidoes after this and you can see how seola feels bad. Her dad keeps saying you should let him win, you are older or why are two fight each other and her dad's making angry face first her even she isn't be guilty. Happy for them and us cause of understand her (Sorry for my bad english)
11:40 “he seemed very independent” LMAO that’s probably because his dad plays so many jokes on him that Sian just trusts himself to do it right 😂
Seola, you made unnie cry... 😭😭😭 I can totally relate to trying to be the good girl and show what is expected of you... But we have to admit that we all have our bad days... And when we feel like we do need the attention, too... Sometimes, when you give so much of yourself and end up losing yourself in the process, it isn't good. So it is always to have love for yourself and be able to express yourself to others... both the good and bad. But I have to say, Seola, you are doing such a good job being strong as a twin to Sua and a noona to Sian. Much love to all of you. 😍😘💕
The return of superman is such an eye opener for a lot of parents on how to understand and react to their children....i grew up being favored by my parents for a lot of circumstances and my elder sister suffered a lot because of being the eldest. Our parents always said that she had to give up and prior us her sibling since shes the eldest and can already understand...i also experienced the same thing when i became an elder sister of two of my young siblings.....and watching this show teach me that its not a good thing to do cause it will give a lot of pressure....i will use the information i learned when i become a parent too...thanks to this show💜
I feel so much for my bby Sua. She’s the middle child and by her being introverted she gets overlooked by everyone. Who knows how she feels inside. They need to lift her up, build her confidence so she won’t end up feeling like the black sheep of the family. She is my favorite 💜
My heart is breaking for Seola 💔 I cried when she said that she usually do not express her anger because she’s a nice kid. I want to hug her 😩
omg i actually cried when they started talking about seola
Seola is such an role model😭😭 even I can’t be like her
Never thought she had felt this way! It’s a good thing Donggook consulted an expert and hopefully this will be address because I badly know how hard it is to be under pressure. :(
My heart is aching for seola :(
12:32 idk why i start to cry, maybe because i feel what she feel :')
Thank you this episode teach me how to take care a kids :)
Uhmm, ohh I can relate to the three of them...each small part of them.
As introvert, I am mostly like Sua. I am taking time to adjust in new environment so it's hard to expert myself and I observe first before lowering my guard little by little.
I also tend to keep my feelings inside while putting a happy smiley mask as if I am okay like Seola.
Like Sian, when I meet new friends and I want to know them, but it's awkward so I want to show them things I love or games I love to play so I can warm up with them first (because at the end I am mostly like Sua) but I got ignored when I tried.
Now I know why I love these siblings so much....at least they're still children and their parents try their best to improve themselves for the children.
Seola will do well bcoz shes smart, confident and sociable. It's SUA i felt worried and sad about bcoz shes to shy and she hardly opens up to others aside from her siblings bcoz of her shyness. If it wouldnt be given earnest attention by her family it might cause her to all d more lose confidence in everything she'll do thinking she can never do well like her twin or her unnies. Sua-yaaa, you're very beautiful baby girl..watching you grew up, you are a very kind-hearted and loving sister to all ur siblings. never ever think that you cant be enough or you cant do well in most things.Just like your unnis and Seola and Sian, YOU CAN DO IT ALL ALSO. ❤ FIGHTING SUA❤❤❤❤
Because Seola is middle of child . For me also same how i feel
Same with me😥
Same..
SAME!! that's what i thought too when she talked about seola.
I understand Seola and when she said that, I almost cried. You see I have an older brother who is autistic and I'm younger than him by 3 and a half years, despite that I have to give things up and do stuff that older kids do, but it's hard that I can't tell him what to do cause he's older and my mom always says to listen to my brother and obey him, but he doesn't even know how to blow his nose properly! So it's frustrating I can understand Seola
I honestly cried when she talked about the pressure Seola had to endure. I am also under pressure and it really is not a good feeling. Being able to feel that at such a young age is truly saddening.
For Sua, I truly hope that she can be able to break out of her comfort zone. As she gets older, she will encounter more people with different personalities and I truly wish that she can learn how to interact with each of them. Not being able to express her feelings would really be bad for her mentally and emotionally.
For Sian, I am happy with how he interacts with other people, but I also wish that he wouldn’t take what his father keeps telling him to heart - that men shouldn’t cry. At such a young age, he has been trained to be tough, but even tough people cry.
All in all, I hope these kids would grow as kind and caring people. I watched them for a long time and seeing how each of them grew up really makes me proud. SEOLSUDAE FIGHTING!
8:22 Sian's bite size is extraordinary HAHAHA. I thought he wouldn't share his food anymore.😂🤣😂🤣😂
He's been traumatized so he takes his fill first 😂
@@musiclover162702 HAHAHAHA Indeed!
He isn't Donggook's son for nothing. Hahaha.
I feel for Sua the most, she hardly ever expresses her feelings. Who knows what she feels inside? She shouldn't bottle up her emotions. At least Seola can express what upsets her but Sua doesn't even mention what upsets her.
They just said in the end that Seola holds everything in? Idk what video you were watching
Meya Adara In general Sua doesn't talk much, hence the psychologist mentioned Sua needs to learn to express herself verbally @4:24 Sorry I'm not much bothered with Seola, she has enough fans to comment for her and worry for her.
cinthiya Is that your business what my age is? My opinions and perspectives are my own and it remains the same, don't like it? That's not my problem.
Sometimes, people with bigger smiles doesn’t mean they’re the happiest people, it’s actually a lot harder because you may not notice how hurt they were because they kept on smiling. I cried a lot when Seola said that she always have to be the nice kid so she just holds her emotions in. 😭🤧
Seola you really a big sister, thumbs up (y) I am very proud of you :)
I was genuinely proud when Sian slid the sausage bread over after his bite
I relate to Seola for being the eldest and also relate to Sua's introvert personality. Just with a different childhood where I have a special need sibling.
I was raised as the oldest. Being told to take care of everyone and help them took a toll on me; I can't put myself first...sure I can speak my opinion to those I'm close to, but new social situations stress me out when theres no one i can "take care of."
Sua is just like me. Introvert and need a more time to adjust with new environment. Seeing her reminds me of my childhood.
It's so nice to see that their dad takes time to check on not only their physical health but also their psychological health as they grow. 😃
donggook appa is really admirable. when his first appearance in 2015, he was still clumsy yet know nothing bout their child. but now he becoming such an reliable appa for the kids. i hope i can get a husband like donggok appa; funny, caring, easygoing, and lovable. so much love for your family 💖💖
I was the one who was tagged "tha good girl" and I gave up to show my anger, my frustration, insatisfation and so on. Sometimes I was just the miserable one.😩
This is why I love this show I get to understand different behavior of a child. Can mostly relate to Seola too, being the eldest is close to being the "Little Miss Perfect". Upon Growing up I would also make "paraya" to my younger sibling too.
I feel sad for Seola because I am in that situation where I have to give up what I want, be kind, be nice to my siblings since I'm the eldest. It's hard to keep yourself together esp when your siblings are getting on your nerves, it's hard to keep hold of what you want esp when your sibling wants it too, but just like Seola, I just stand there and keep telling myself "I have to be nice because I'm the eldest".
I'm cryingg 😢
The expression of Seola and donggook really made me emotional:(
You can totally see Seola as the eldest when playing with the other little girls her age. She actively volunteered as the first to play, but when the other two also wanted the same role, she gave way (even if she looks frustrated) and even gave a solution so the other two won’t fight. I’m the older sister, and yes, it’s sometimes frustrating to give way for your younger sibling when you also want it too. It’s just in the role, I guess. XD
These kids are so sweet! Love them for their uniqueness.
I'm cryinggg my poor seolaaa😭
This episode just made me so sad to see these little kiddos grow up so fast and already having hardships...i guess we also all kinda relate to the problems that they're having...why are they already so mature omg I can't imma go cry real quick--
Soela’s part was very heartbreaking to me because I completely relate 100% I always think I’m the eldest I should let them do their thing and I’ll take care of them I have to meet the expectations of my parents of they’ll be disappointed a have to let my friends do their thing first and I’ll go last and I sometimes have to hold my tears in because I don’t I want to look weak and hold my anger in because i hav ego be the better person and sua is kind of like me too it’s hard for ,y to adjust with new people or people I don’t talk to a lot but I don’t eat the pat much lol
i relate to you seola. im 14 and my brother is older than me but i have to be the mature one, and everyone looks up to me. i hold in alot for my age and think about adulthood, which i shouldnt be doing. im trying to figure it all out. FIGHTING
Seolaaa yaaaa, send virtual hug
Woah.. Ι never thought Seola was feeling that way😿💔 either way she'll be such a great person as an adult and I'm sure she will be successful too..I hope that she will also be happy and the whole family too. Donggook is a considerable and good father and is so nice how all of his children is different in their own way!❤❤❤
I felt Seola's sadness😭😭 I feel that she is just like me😭 that we need to maintain what we are I mean the image where we are well known😭 just like holding our anger back because we need to be kind and act like a leader because there is no one who you can lean your back on😭😭
Wow i learned so much. Im also the oldest sibling, my parents often tell me to be nice and giving to my younger siblings but thankfully i grew up to be someone that still wants to have my own opinions and thinking instead of always giving in.
I can feel you Sua.. hang on there dear ❤
This made me sad.I am the eldest among my 7 siblings growing up as the eldest is hard.But I think I am nothing compare to Seola.😢😢😢 I admire these kids.
This family always make me happy
But this ep so emotional,but im still happy see them smile again💓💓💓
I can relate to Seola so much to the point that I immediately cried when I heard what the doctor had to say
Why i crying for soela😢😭
This man loves his kids so much. I love this show so much.
If I do a retrospective of my childhood I can understand Seola & Sua , be what supposedly I need to be, and be shy in front of others
What Seola said makes me burst into tears
i hope he will be a great father for his children:)
He is a great father. He's just getting better and greater...it's part of learning to be parents
@@janewow77 that was i mean
I love this family so much!
I feel bad for Seola and Sua 😭
Omg I cried... I always thought Seola was the "strongest" out of the three in terms of personality
but I didn't know that she was holding so much back ;(
I also feel bad for Sua, haven't watched the show in for 1 year or so but I have to say she looks "rounder" a bit (not trying to be rude).
I can really relate to that ;(
Daebak/Sian it was sad to see that they weren't interested in playing hide and seek but in the end it worked out.
Oh man but Seola really made me cry
I worry a bit about Sua, too. I think she may end up literally swallowing her feelings. I'm certain that a family as athletic as the Lees will stay active enough to remain healthy, though.
Honestly I can relate to seola as being the older sibling..jhahha..😂
That "There's 3 meals a day, not 3 meals in one sitting". I feel so attacked. 🤣🤣
When im with my close friend im like seoula,and when im with new/strangers im like sua...and when im with my boyfriend im like sian... and when im with my family,i mix everything...😂this is such a nice episode..
To begin i worry to sua but in the Last part i CRY for SoeLa because what SOELa to do., i do too.,
(sorry if my English bad)
T.T
Your english is fine but its seola and not soela
@@Loriani93 ehehe thank u very much for incorrect
For (it's soeLa or not seoLa) for where the part Ehehehe sorry iam so stupid for English
BigHit Nunnay
You don’t have to feel like bad, Seola isn’t even a English name so it will be hard to get right.
i somehow can relate to what seola is feeling.. holding your self gor the sake of others
I am definitely Sua in terms of personality. We're introverts and we need time to adjust to new things, new people, and places. But we're ok, we're not anti-social or whatever. We just need the time to adjust. 😉
But I also have the Seola situation. I mean, I am the middle kid and I am always told to yield to my elder sibling because she's the unnie and the first born, and I also have to give way to my younger sister because I am the "more mature" one. It's tough when you're still a kid because you're still trying to figure out reasons. But it gets better in time. Being in the middle lets you understand and see both sides of the field. 😉
I really love this family.
i dont know why but i cried at seola situation..😢
Seola part made me cry 😭. She is so pretty she shouldn’t feel that way at a young age❤️
Please take naeun and aciel also to a psychologist. Would be interesting
kbs don't let sian leave the show please !!!
sian is the best in the show
this revealed more about my own childhood. wow. I'm timid and reserved at first like Sua and it takes time for me to interact with others. Also similarly to Seola I was always placed as the older sister and had to yield to my little sister and even my older brother cause I'm the oldest girl and I was always expected to sacrifice my comfort for them and others. (which is total bs especially since I'm not the oldest but only because I'm a girl ugh early sexism) but it makes me wonder how much of my giving and sacrificial personality is my own and how much was condition because Im already 20 so its extremely hard to distinguish the 2 at this point.
This episode is an eye-opener. First-born kids tend to be like Seola. It's great to know this advice from a professional.
I can relate to Seola. People put so much pressure to you because you’re the eldest. Sometimes it’s hard to express how you truly feel because you have to maintain that brave and giving personality. Sad..
I love this family so much. it's why I love this show still. the fawning over naen is too much for. I just skip over that segment. it's just too much.
Naeun is a beautiful child, however I feel that she gets sooo much airtime. However, it seem as ROS does this a lot with the kids
i prefer watching her brother than naeun. she's pretty but that's it. i got bored watching her segment.
Naeun is cute, but I just can't stand the family for some reason. I just feel like the dad is babying the son way too much, and people are babying that entire family way too much.
@@adara4635 ikr. i didn't hate naeun but i can't stand her dad. her dad was clueless all the time. there was one time his son show tantrum but he didn't try to understand the situation at all instead he tried to bribe him with his favorite toys and when it doesn't work, he just let his daughter scold her brother. he never question her daughter and let her do what she wants because she is adorable. that's when i had enough watching naeun's family.