Ladies, after being married to someone for so long, you should know their character best. Do not jump to conclusion and assumed the worst. Sometimes you've got to give your significant other the benefit of a doubt. Take this as a lesson learned and move on with your life. Good luck to you.
That's your mistake believing the ex-girlfriend, but don't worry, karma will get her too. It's a sin to purpose breaking someone else's marriage. Move on and learn from it.
If a woman has and keeps calling my husband's phone number, it is over. Your husband should have used hmoob kevcai to sue the ex for money to "wash your face". That's how your husband can prove his innocence.
Tus viv ncaus aww txhob tu siab mog. Lub neej txij nkawm ces yeej mob siab os. Tabsis twb tag lawm ces npaj lub neej mus pem hauv ntej lawm xwb nawd. Sijhawm tsis tos . Peb ua neej raws Sijhawm thiab vuag txojsia sib tw nrog huab cua xwb. Hlub koj tus kheej. Nco ntsoov ua neeg zoo thiaj tau ntuj ntoo tiag2 nawd. Tus dej nro yeej swb tus dej ntshiab os. Es nrhiav dua tus tshiab. Koj twb tseem hluas tsis tau lig os mog. Tseem muaj Sijhawm rau koj mus npaj ib lub neej. Forget the past and moved on with your life. Wish you the best and hope you finds true love.
Txhob tu siab os tsi yog Tim koj tag2 yeej Tim koj tus txiv nw tsi hlub koj lawm xwb koj niam pog lawv txw2 nw es nw hloov siab lawm xwb os yog nw tseem hlub koj nw yeej zam tau txim vim qhov teeb meem twb yog Tim koj tus txiv os.
I don’t think your ex-husband fought hard enough for your marriage. It looks a little suspicious. Txob tu siab heev heev thiab os mog tus sister. Tej zaum nws yeej tsis yog yus tus thiag. I hope you find true love.
@puasntseegthiab1051 no he shouldve confronted the ex right away and block her. He expect his wife to trust him without blocking the ex and confronted the ex
This is a true story. Thanks for tell the truth. It's not your fault, Jealousy can break everything. But will pray for you to be a better person/life in the future 🙏
The only winner is the evil ex girlfriend. Your ex husband also lost because the ex girlfriend got him to divorce you. It's not just your fault. She had a lot of proof. It's also the husband's fault for not giving you another chance. He could have come back to show you that he was telling you the truth. Don't feel bad, let him go. He doesn't love you enough to fight for you either.
Peb ua neeg nyob mas tus poj niam luag yuav hlub mas luag yeej ua txhua yam rau Txawm tus poj niam ruam ruam los luag yeej hlub Koj yuav tsum tu siab hais tias luag twb tsis hlub koj lawm os viv ncaus aw!!!
It was an honest mistake. Don't blame yourself. He was probably in on it too. You were just the escape goat to get him out of the marriage without feeling guilty. He already had intentions to leave you.
txhob tu siab os mog me viv ncaus vim yus tus txiv ib txwm hlub2 yus ces yus thiaj li ruam thiab ua siab kub2 thaum pom ib qho zoo li ntawv ces yus lub neej thiaj yuam kev tsis ua li cas mam pib dua os mog
Why are you doing it to them like someone that did to you?? Don’t be that person… You are being double stupid. Leave them be and move on, learn from your mistake and hope for a better future.
When people are more upset she called the cops on him one time then him cheating on her for literal years is wild. The double standards on how little it takes for a women to do wrong compared to years of lies, betrayal, amd abuse done by the man is palpable. I'm with HER.
Plot twist, maybe your husband and his families conspired with his ex so he can marry the Hmong Laos lady. Because it seemed like he doesnt even want to fight to keep the marriage. Your ex husband moved on pretty fast with that Hmong Lao lady, so he must have been cheating with her.
Oh stop it. Stop making assumptions when clearly there's none. U guys just don't ever think a woman could be evil or wrong at all don't u? If a woman is slightly to be blame, u guys will always find excuses to still put the blame on the guy and his family.
@@maryly09hey my husband is a man and he agree that the husband here is at fault. He shouldve blocked that ex girlfriend of his. If this would to happen to my husband, he would've call that ex out in front of his wife and block her. You dont throw away 20 years of marriage just because your wife is jealous. It wasn't like she was evil and mean towards him all their life. I seen many evil women out there too but those women are mean and evil all their life, it's their personality. But not in this case.
@@maryly09 what did the ex wife do wrong here? Besides being manipulated/jealous and putting her husband in jail? His parents is saying it like she's the only one at fault. Typical Hmong parents 🙄. Her ex husband is also at fault for not calling his ex gf out infront of his wife and blocking her. His cousin gave his ex gf his contact number, when that cousin knew that he's married and it's not a good idea. And why didn't he fight for their 20 years of marriage? Why did he moved on so fast? You're saying it like the husband is a Saint. Lol. And I can make all these assumptions I want. Stop being butt hurt. 😒
Sister txhob tu siab os mog tej zaum koj tus qub txiv ko tsi yog tus txiv neej nyob hauv koj lub neej os, tej zaum nws yeej xav mus ntawm koj mus dua tus tshiab lawm thiab xwb os mog nrhiav dua tus tshiab xwb mas
Wow... such double standards coming from all these women. How is it his fault? He told her, and she fought with him and called the cops. I'm not sure if any of you would be willing to spend a night in county jail and have a felony domestic violence on your record.
@@maryly09this man is not innocent. If he wasn't interested in his ex, he would've blocked her or called her in front of his wife and tell her off. But he allow the ex to keep texting him. Unless he already have an agenda to divorce his wife but needed an excuse. So he and the ex did this to the wife!?! Who knows but any loving husband who truly love his would never do what the husband did here. Any good husband would have blocked her and confronted the ex. You dont divorce and then married someone 2 months later.
Txhob ua siab kub2 yog yus ua siab kub2 yus yuav..yuam kev nawb mog...koj ua siab kub es ua phem li ub li no lawv haj yam zoo siab lawv haj yam muaj txoj kev lo txeeb tau yus tus txiv ho..coj tus2 ua zoo2 hlub2 yus tus txiv es txhob xav ua qhov phem rau tej hluas nkauj yog koj ua phem ces yog koj qhib txoj kev rau lawv xwb nawb
Niam tais, koj tsis txhob tus Siab os. Txawm lis cas los koj yog koj tus txiv qrhov second choice xwb vim thaum ub nws tsis tau nws tus tub hluas nkauj es nws thiaj lis yuav koj xwb. Xav mus seem Nov es koj thiaj lis move on nawb
When men feel betrayed by the person they love the most, their mind will be shut and only have one way out that they will let their wives learn the hard way. That’s how men think.
Can u say the same thing if a man accused his wife of cheating? Can u tell the woman to listen and really make the man believe her too? Or r u gonna tell her to divorce him since he accused her of cheating? Double standards much.
she brought up the ex everyday, relationship was getting too toxic. he's sick and tired of it. he wanted out. kicking and locking him up was the last straw. no husband wanna go back to his wife after locking him up, that was it.
Sister, don't be too sad. You and your husband's marriage was only meant to last this long only. His true wife is his current wife now. Noticed how they connected so well, but you automatically blame, push, and shove? Don't dwell too long what's done is done, move on so you don't waste time on living your full life.
@@pkcyang2910 if so why did they broke up so unnecessary without finding the truth? You know hmong men once you called the cop and they're not at fault, you're out.
@junemoua7667 if he was innocent he would called the ex and confronted her when she text or call him the first time, in front of his wife and then block her. But he didn't. So what does that tells you?! Any man who loves his wife would've put a stop on that issue the first time she call or texted him.
Your ex husband just wants a way out of the relationship and he used you to do it so he gets the good name and you are stupid enough to fall for it. But it’s okay you learned your lesson.
Tus sister ua tsaug rau koj zaj dab neeg qhia rau peb cov niam tsev paub ua siab ntev. Ua qhov twg Maj mam ua zoo xav mam ua os. Txhob tu siab os. Qhia rau yus ntse mam pib dua tshiab os mog
Tus txiv neej tiag tiag yuav tsum coj li tus txiv neej no poj niam thiaj li ntshai txhob hais tias nrauj tag es rov nyiag mus tham yus niag qub poj niam tus neeg coj li no ces yog txiv dev xwb no mog
Tim nws tus txiv. Yog tsis muaj tseeb ces nws tus txiv yeej block tus qub hluas nkauj lawm yeej tsis cia tus qub hluas nkauj pheej sau ntawv tas zog tuaj rau nws.
Sometimes, as wives, we need to weigh our options. Xav tag los xav dua. Don't go believing other's lies. We don't know what their intentions are. If we are smart, we can figure it out as soon as they start their game. You and your hubby should've changed your numbers, moved, do whatever it took to save your marriage. In the end, you know him best. Whether you believe him or not is your prerogative. Just don't go doing something that you will regret the rest of your life.
Peb ua neeg mas cov neeg siab luv yeej tsuas muaj swb xwb ov txhob xyaum coj lub siab luv2 thiaj tsis pham yam yus muaj os lawv aw.. lub siab luv ces tshuas muaj plam li plam xwb os viv ncaus pab koj khuv xim koj lub neej kawg li os yog koj siab ntev ces lub neej tseem yog koj lub os koj lub siab luv zog lawm koj thiaj plam koj lub neej zoo2 mus rau lwm tu lawm os viv ncaus .
He won from the beginning.. the truth you have short tempered.. koj siab me heev..so sorry for your loss but life goes on forgive your self, love your self and move on!!
Txhawm tsis tau pom koj los thaum mloog koj zaj zeej neeg xwb ces yeej paub hais tias koj tus character yog ib tug txiav txim tsis tau rau koj txoj kev ua neej. Coob tus txiv raug poj niam kick out es luag become better txiv tsev, better lover, ntse dua tuaj thiab muaj nyiaj dua tuaj vim muaj cov poj niam zoo li koj rhuav. Lawv hloov vim lawv broken heart thiab faced struggle. Txoj kev chim thiab ua pauj ces yog ib tug mob uas mob tshaj plaws. It was not the stable on his back killed him, it was when he turned around and saw you hold the knife. Qhov tseeb, koj yog ib tug poj niam uas yus yog lub cev xwb tabsis xav ua taub hau, yus yog ib tug plis xwb npaj tom nyuj tom twm noj. Yog li thaum kawg thiaj ua ib tug yoov ntxuav tsov qhov muag thiab qhov ncauj. Be humble and start with what you have and experience. Your past is a place to learn and grow, not a place to live. Big dreams require healthy habits and heathy habits require self-discipline.
Vuag tus niam tsev aw !!!! Cas kj yuav ruam tshaj ruam li na cas yuav ntxim hlub ua luaj li os, thov vajtswv yawm saub foom mi ntsis koob hmoov pub kom tom ntej no kj 1 nyuam ntse mi ntsi nawb mog.
Koj tus txiv twb tsis hlub tiag Yog nws hlub koj tiag nws yeej zam tau txim kawg Lwm tus txiv luag yog neeg siab zoo txawm lawv tus poj niam tseem ua phem tshaj koj ua Los lawv twb zam txim tau Nws yeej xav xav tau tshiab tab tom koj ua li ko ces nws nrauj kiag xwb.
Yav tas ces twb tas lawm os..txhob ua siab phem nawb! Vim yus yog tus ruam yus thiaj plam lawm. Cia ua ib qhov kev kawm es mus nrhiav tu tshiab kom hlub hlub yus tiag. Nrhiav tsis tau txiv los yus yeej tsis tuag li os.
Well, she let her 20 yrs marriage fall due to some lies too. U can't use the excuse that he didn't care to understand her when she was the one who didn't care to understand him or listen to him and instead call the cops on him.
she probably brings up the ex constantly everyday, he's sick and tired of it. locking him up was the breaking point. good thing he got out of this toxic relationship.
Tseem yog qhov kuv cem kuv cov ntxhais ntag nawb peb yuav tsum ntse me ntsis ua neeg siab Loj txhob ua heev2 tsam yuam kev ces xav txog Lig no Tus neeg ruam ces yog koj Tus niam tsev ko ntag ua ntej koj yuav ntes nws kaw mas koj yuav tau coj mus rau kwv tij neej tsa hais kom tag yog tsis yeej lawm mas mam ua heev li koj pob nej cov hluas ua siab heev dhau Lawm ne,
Cia ua kev kawm rau koj. Twb tsis tim koj tag2 thiab vim yog yus tus txiv ces mob2 kib2 yus es koj thiaj yusm kev me2 xwb. Yog koj tus txiv hlub koj ntiag2 nws yeej zam txim tau rau koj.
Kav Liam os. Koj tus txiv yeej hlub koj tsis tag thiab os. Tos nws tsis khes koj Los nws twb xub nrog nws tus poj niam tham lawm es nws thiaj tsis zam txim. Koj tus txiv siab yeej tsis ncaj rau koj tag tag thiab os. Kav tsij ua ib siab es ua zoo nrhiav yus lub neej tshiab os.
Sister, i want to share with you what my husband think and feel about your story. If your is innocent in his involvement with the ex girlfriend, he would've confronted her in your presence via phone call that there will be nothing between them and tell her to stop the lies or else he would let her clan know about her. Then block her number. Block her from any social media when she tries to contact him. So therefore, it is your husband's fault. He shouldve done all this to prove that he is no longer interested or did not meet with her. Truly he let her keep contacting him and watch your reactions then blame you for everything. A good loving husband would never let this happen.
Wow. I feel so bad for you. I think your husband should've given you another chance. Don't blame yourself. You were wrong to believe the ex-girlfriend, but your husband didn't love you enough to fight for you.
Zaj no tsis phim lub npe os, vim kj rhuav koj lub neej xwb, kj yog 1 tug poj niam tsi paub tab os, koj xav tias lub neej zoo li movie es pom kiag xwb ces nrauj kiag, zoo li ko yuav tsawg tus los yeej tsis zoo.
Abbbbbbbb kuv xav tias thawj zaug xwb es nws tseem tsis kam zam txim thiab. Twb tias txiv neej ua mas txhua tus mas kom yus uv, uv tag los yus twb tseem zam txim rau nws tab sis cas poj niam hais los vim txoj kev mob siab xwb lub neej thiaj puas lawm xwb nws tseem tsis zam txim thiab!
twb g nug kom tau qho tseeb e law twb xa ua kom kj mob siab e kj ua phem rau kj tu txiv xwb na e kj g yog tu neeg coj kom tog hno law hai xwb kj cia li npau lwj npau liam kj tab tom ua qho phem kom kj tu txiv tu siab rau kj kj tab tom ua kom kj tu txiv chim rau kj ntxub kj lawm xwb o thaum kho tseem yua sib hlyb kj twb g yua ne tsam no kj tu txiv twb txia siab rau kj lawm na txiv neej ma kj txhob lam ua phem rau nawb thaum law tau mu lawm ce law yeej g tig ro qsb li lawm ho
Txiv neej hmoob mas sim neej no txawm sib cav sib ceg npaum cas los koj txhob hu police thiab coj mus kaw li nawb yog koj tseem xav yuav nws ua txiv ov..yog nws muab koj ntaus nqaij ntuag ntshav nrog es koj yeej yuav tsis taus uv tsis taus ces mam hu nawb lawv siab tawv heev yog koj ua yuam kev li no ces tag tiam no yeej tsis tau nws li lawm.. kawg koj mus pauj kev chim rhuav tus poj nrauj rhuav koj lub neej xwb tiag..😂
I feel like, he is already cheating on her, but just don't want to own up to her. So sad. Cause if he love her like he said, he wouldn't of had made a big issues out of it. Smh. He knows he is not pure faithful that is why he move on so fast. Stop blaming yourself girl. He is just trying to give you the guilt trip for what he had done behind your back...😂
There's got to be more than this in the story. You must've done more than just the one time of putting him in jail, I believe if he really love you he can forgive you these couple times but you must have cheated or really abused him for him to not be able to forgive you. Too bad you both have no trust not enough love.
Pab Tsis tau lau yog li nas… koj puas paub tias txog txij koj muab nws mus kaw lawm ces lawv yuav tsis kam yuav koj li os txiv neeg hmoob no yeej phem2 hos…
Ladies, after being married to someone for so long, you should know their character best. Do not jump to conclusion and assumed the worst. Sometimes you've got to give your significant other the benefit of a doubt. Take this as a lesson learned and move on with your life. Good luck to you.
He allowed it to happen. He communicated with his ex. He didn’t block her. He didn’t fight for his wife.
Yes that's what my husband said. My husband said if he's truly innocent he would confronted the ex and block her. But he didn't so it means it's true.
That's your mistake believing the ex-girlfriend, but don't worry, karma will get her too. It's a sin to purpose breaking someone else's marriage. Move on and learn from it.
If a woman has and keeps calling my husband's phone number, it is over. Your husband should have used hmoob kevcai to sue the ex for money to "wash your face". That's how your husband can prove his innocence.
@nalaher3022 finally someone with common sense. My husband said the same thing.
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Tus viv ncaus aww txhob tu siab mog. Lub neej txij nkawm ces yeej mob siab os. Tabsis twb tag lawm ces npaj lub neej mus pem hauv ntej lawm xwb nawd. Sijhawm tsis tos . Peb ua neej raws Sijhawm thiab vuag txojsia sib tw nrog huab cua xwb. Hlub koj tus kheej. Nco ntsoov ua neeg zoo thiaj tau ntuj ntoo tiag2 nawd. Tus dej nro yeej swb tus dej ntshiab os. Es nrhiav dua tus tshiab. Koj twb tseem hluas tsis tau lig os mog. Tseem muaj Sijhawm rau koj mus npaj ib lub neej. Forget the past and moved on with your life. Wish you the best and hope you finds true love.
Vim yog koj siab Kub heev koj thiaj plam koj lub neej lawm os tus sister pab koj tu siab heev
Txhob tu siab os tsi yog Tim koj tag2 yeej Tim koj tus txiv nw tsi hlub koj lawm xwb koj niam pog lawv txw2 nw es nw hloov siab lawm xwb os yog nw tseem hlub koj nw yeej zam tau txim vim qhov teeb meem twb yog Tim koj tus txiv os.
I don’t think your ex-husband fought hard enough for your marriage. It looks a little suspicious. Txob tu siab heev heev thiab os mog tus sister. Tej zaum nws yeej tsis yog yus tus thiag. I hope you find true love.
It is not entirely your fault. Your husband didn't protect your marriage so stop blaming yourself.
not entirely her fault, but it is mainly her fault. why locked up her husband? most would not go back if they didn't do anything wrong.
I must have missed the part where the husband didn't protect the marriage... But yeah, let's throw some blame his way anyways. 🤕
It’s her fault….lol
@puasntseegthiab1051 no he shouldve confronted the ex right away and block her. He expect his wife to trust him without blocking the ex and confronted the ex
If my wife calls the authorities to put me away without any probable cause, that's the end of it.
Yog kawg os kuv yeej ntxub police tshaj plaws li thiab os ua niam txiv yog txog thaum hu police lawm ces yeej ntxub thiab tu siab tshaj os nawv 😭
This is a true story. Thanks for tell the truth. It's not your fault, Jealousy can break everything.
But will pray for you to be a better person/life in the future 🙏
The only winner is the evil ex girlfriend. Your ex husband also lost because the ex girlfriend got him to divorce you. It's not just your fault. She had a lot of proof. It's also the husband's fault for not giving you another chance. He could have come back to show you that he was telling you the truth. Don't feel bad, let him go. He doesn't love you enough to fight for you either.
It is a good story for the Hmong women to learn from.
Peb ua neeg nyob mas tus poj niam luag yuav hlub mas luag yeej ua txhua yam rau
Txawm tus poj niam ruam ruam los luag yeej hlub
Koj yuav tsum tu siab hais tias luag twb tsis hlub koj lawm os viv ncaus aw!!!
It was an honest mistake. Don't blame yourself. He was probably in on it too. You were just the escape goat to get him out of the marriage without feeling guilty. He already had intentions to leave you.
People never appreciated the light until they lived through darkness
Yes! And don't run to the other side of green grass because those green grass are plastic.
txhob tu siab os mog me viv ncaus vim yus tus txiv ib txwm hlub2 yus ces yus thiaj li ruam thiab ua siab kub2 thaum pom ib qho zoo li ntawv ces yus lub neej thiaj yuam kev tsis ua li cas mam pib dua os mog
Viv ncaus aw!!! Koj txhob thov nws os
Koj ua li ko mas lawv haj yam muaj plus muaj ntsej muag
Xum mus tus tshiab zoo dua.
Why are you doing it to them like someone that did to you?? Don’t be that person… You are being double stupid. Leave them be and move on, learn from your mistake and hope for a better future.
Thanks u
When people are more upset she called the cops on him one time then him cheating on her for literal years is wild. The double standards on how little it takes for a women to do wrong compared to years of lies, betrayal, amd abuse done by the man is palpable. I'm with HER.
Plot twist, maybe your husband and his families conspired with his ex so he can marry the Hmong Laos lady. Because it seemed like he doesnt even want to fight to keep the marriage. Your ex husband moved on pretty fast with that Hmong Lao lady, so he must have been cheating with her.
Oh stop it. Stop making assumptions when clearly there's none. U guys just don't ever think a woman could be evil or wrong at all don't u? If a woman is slightly to be blame, u guys will always find excuses to still put the blame on the guy and his family.
@@maryly09hey my husband is a man and he agree that the husband here is at fault. He shouldve blocked that ex girlfriend of his. If this would to happen to my husband, he would've call that ex out in front of his wife and block her. You dont throw away 20 years of marriage just because your wife is jealous. It wasn't like she was evil and mean towards him all their life. I seen many evil women out there too but those women are mean and evil all their life, it's their personality. But not in this case.
@@maryly09 what did the ex wife do wrong here? Besides being manipulated/jealous and putting her husband in jail? His parents is saying it like she's the only one at fault. Typical Hmong parents 🙄. Her ex husband is also at fault for not calling his ex gf out infront of his wife and blocking her. His cousin gave his ex gf his contact number, when that cousin knew that he's married and it's not a good idea. And why didn't he fight for their 20 years of marriage? Why did he moved on so fast? You're saying it like the husband is a Saint. Lol. And I can make all these assumptions I want. Stop being butt hurt. 😒
Aww..tus viv ncaus txhob tus siab mog
Thank you for sharing your story ua ib txoj kev kawm rau kv thiab os viv ncaus.
Sister txhob tu siab os mog tej zaum koj tus qub txiv ko tsi yog tus txiv neej nyob hauv koj lub neej os, tej zaum nws yeej xav mus ntawm koj mus dua tus tshiab lawm thiab xwb os mog nrhiav dua tus tshiab xwb mas
When women's hearts are smaller than men's 😊
Poj niam siab ceev2 thiab siab luv2 ces zoo li koj tiag..
Sister, koj dag koj tus kheej loj dhau. Very good lesson in many aspects.
There are a lot of mean people these days. Thanks for sharing your story and your life lessons. Love yourself and move on.
Wow... such double standards coming from all these women. How is it his fault? He told her, and she fought with him and called the cops. I'm not sure if any of you would be willing to spend a night in county jail and have a felony domestic violence on your record.
As a woman, i agree. So much double standards here. I side with him. I don't take the woman's side just bc I'm a woman.
@@maryly09You must be sleeping with the hubby in this story. 😂 You're working OT by responding to every comment that doubts his innocence. Lmao 🤣
@@maryly09this man is not innocent. If he wasn't interested in his ex, he would've blocked her or called her in front of his wife and tell her off. But he allow the ex to keep texting him. Unless he already have an agenda to divorce his wife but needed an excuse. So he and the ex did this to the wife!?! Who knows but any loving husband who truly love his would never do what the husband did here. Any good husband would have blocked her and confronted the ex. You dont divorce and then married someone 2 months later.
Txhob ua siab kub2 yog yus ua siab kub2 yus yuav..yuam kev nawb mog...koj ua siab kub es ua phem li ub li no lawv haj yam zoo siab lawv haj yam muaj txoj kev lo txeeb tau yus tus txiv ho..coj tus2 ua zoo2 hlub2 yus tus txiv es txhob xav ua qhov phem rau tej hluas nkauj yog koj ua phem ces yog koj qhib txoj kev rau lawv xwb nawb
Then how come his wife saw texting from her husband to GF phone to her? IT'S DEFINITELY HIS FAULT
Txhob tus siab mog, kuv ntseeg tias yog koj tus txiv hlub koj tiag nws yeej zam txim tau kawg os mog, muab xav tias yog ib tug txiv neej tuaj dag nws li ntawv los nws yeej mob siab ib yam koj thiab, tiamsis twb yuam kev lawm ces move on mog.
Niam tais, koj tsis txhob tus Siab os. Txawm lis cas los koj yog koj tus txiv qrhov second choice xwb vim thaum ub nws tsis tau nws tus tub hluas nkauj es nws thiaj lis yuav koj xwb. Xav mus seem Nov es koj thiaj lis move on nawb
It’s ok sister! You learned your lesson and you have regrets, but it’s time to move on and live your life too.
I mean if he didn’t do it then he should learn to really make you believe him. He really wanted a way out anyways
Wrong. The accused does not have the burden of proof.
When men feel betrayed by the person they love the most, their mind will be shut and only have one way out that they will let their wives learn the hard way. That’s how men think.
Can u say the same thing if a man accused his wife of cheating? Can u tell the woman to listen and really make the man believe her too? Or r u gonna tell her to divorce him since he accused her of cheating? Double standards much.
she brought up the ex everyday, relationship was getting too toxic. he's sick and tired of it. he wanted out. kicking and locking him up was the last straw. no husband wanna go back to his wife after locking him up, that was it.
Sister, don't be too sad. You and your husband's marriage was only meant to last this long only. His true wife is his current wife now. Noticed how they connected so well, but you automatically blame, push, and shove? Don't dwell too long what's done is done, move on so you don't waste time on living your full life.
No his true wife is the first wife.
@@pkcyang2910 if so why did they broke up so unnecessary without finding the truth? You know hmong men once you called the cop and they're not at fault, you're out.
@junemoua7667 if he was innocent he would called the ex and confronted her when she text or call him the first time, in front of his wife and then block her. But he didn't. So what does that tells you?! Any man who loves his wife would've put a stop on that issue the first time she call or texted him.
Overly jealousy will cause you a life time
Your ex husband just wants a way out of the relationship and he used you to do it so he gets the good name and you are stupid enough to fall for it. But it’s okay you learned your lesson.
Excuses excuses. She messed up and we all know it. Stop trying to painy him as the bad one when she herself already admitted that she was wrong.
Tus sister ua tsaug rau koj zaj dab neeg qhia rau peb cov niam tsev paub ua siab ntev. Ua qhov twg Maj mam ua zoo xav mam ua os. Txhob tu siab os. Qhia rau yus ntse mam pib dua tshiab os mog
Tus txiv neej tiag tiag yuav tsum coj li tus txiv neej no poj niam thiaj li ntshai txhob hais tias nrauj tag es rov nyiag mus tham yus niag qub poj niam tus neeg coj li no ces yog txiv dev xwb no mog
Zoo kawg li poj niam siab phem ha ha ha.
Tim nws tus txiv. Yog tsis muaj tseeb ces nws tus txiv yeej block tus qub hluas nkauj lawm yeej tsis cia tus qub hluas nkauj pheej sau ntawv tas zog tuaj rau nws.
Take your anger on that lady who messed up yiur life.
Kuv nyiam mloog niam ntsuab tee cov dab xyoo 2017 los txog tav no koj yog txhawj tug poj niam hlwb tsawg tshaj koj ce kav tsij khuv xim koj tu txiv ib sim xwb
Lub neej niam tog, txiv nta- ces neej zoo li ko los mas😂😂😂tu siab ntau
Sometimes, as wives, we need to weigh our options. Xav tag los xav dua. Don't go believing other's lies. We don't know what their intentions are. If we are smart, we can figure it out as soon as they start their game. You and your hubby should've changed your numbers, moved, do whatever it took to save your marriage. In the end, you know him best. Whether you believe him or not is your prerogative. Just don't go doing something that you will regret the rest of your life.
Vim koj siab tsis ntev rau koj tus txiv nes
Peb ua neeg mas cov neeg siab luv yeej tsuas muaj swb xwb ov txhob xyaum coj lub siab luv2 thiaj tsis pham yam yus muaj os lawv aw.. lub siab luv ces tshuas muaj plam li plam xwb os viv ncaus pab koj khuv xim koj lub neej kawg li os yog koj siab ntev ces lub neej tseem yog koj lub os koj lub siab luv zog lawm koj thiaj plam koj lub neej zoo2 mus rau lwm tu lawm os viv ncaus .
Vim kj siab luv zog lm
He won from the beginning.. the truth you have short tempered.. koj siab me heev..so sorry for your loss but life goes on forgive your self, love your self and move on!!
There are a lot of women out there waiting to marry your husband and want your life. 😅
If you have a good husband hold him close and love him dearly.
Hmoob mus Ka’s ruam2 es hmoob nplog thiaj kaus Hmoob mikas Nyiaj tag lawm mam los
Koj siab kub heev dhau lawm pab koj siab nawb
Tim koj rhuav koj lub neej xwb ces xav txog lig lawm lauj
1 txhia poj hmoob mas muaj plhu tiag tiag
Karma has a funny way of creeping up! Lol
Lub neej yuav puas ces tib ntsais muag xwb os.
Shouldn’t have call the cops 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Txhawm tsis tau pom koj los thaum mloog koj zaj zeej neeg xwb ces yeej paub hais tias koj tus character yog ib tug txiav txim tsis tau rau koj txoj kev ua neej. Coob tus txiv raug poj niam kick out es luag become better txiv tsev, better lover, ntse dua tuaj thiab muaj nyiaj dua tuaj vim muaj cov poj niam zoo li koj rhuav. Lawv hloov vim lawv broken heart thiab faced struggle. Txoj kev chim thiab ua pauj ces yog ib tug mob uas mob tshaj plaws. It was not the stable on his back killed him, it was when he turned around and saw you hold the knife. Qhov tseeb, koj yog ib tug poj niam uas yus yog lub cev xwb tabsis xav ua taub hau, yus yog ib tug plis xwb npaj tom nyuj tom twm noj. Yog li thaum kawg thiaj ua ib tug yoov ntxuav tsov qhov muag thiab qhov ncauj. Be humble and start with what you have and experience. Your past is a place to learn and grow, not a place to live. Big dreams require healthy habits and heathy habits require self-discipline.
Mloog ua kev kawm nawb nej cov uas khib2 txiv es tsis mloog qabtog hauv lus kom zoo2 na. Tuag tsis tuag li os
Funny ua luaj li😁
Vuag tus niam tsev aw !!!! Cas kj yuav ruam tshaj ruam li na cas yuav ntxim hlub ua luaj li os, thov vajtswv yawm saub foom mi ntsis koob hmoov pub kom tom ntej no kj 1 nyuam ntse mi ntsi nawb mog.
Nrog koj mob siab thiab os
There are people who want to ruin your marriage.
LAwm tias ntawv txij nkawm tag li ntawv lawm xwb os mog
Ib tug maum DEV coj li koj tsis tas khuv xim li koj tus txiv twb ncaj ncees los Liam tias luag tsis ncaj haum kawg duj sum 😅😅😅😅😅
Koj tus txiv twb tsis hlub tiag
Yog nws hlub koj tiag nws yeej zam tau txim kawg
Lwm tus txiv luag yog neeg siab zoo txawm lawv tus poj niam tseem ua phem tshaj koj ua Los lawv twb zam txim tau
Nws yeej xav xav tau tshiab tab tom koj ua li ko ces nws nrauj kiag xwb.
Yav tas ces twb tas lawm os..txhob ua siab phem nawb! Vim yus yog tus ruam yus thiaj plam lawm. Cia ua ib qhov kev kawm es mus nrhiav tu tshiab kom hlub hlub yus tiag. Nrhiav tsis tau txiv los yus yeej tsis tuag li os.
It doesn't seem like he cares for or seeks to understand your side, letting 20 yrs of marriage down the drain due to some lies.
Well, she let her 20 yrs marriage fall due to some lies too. U can't use the excuse that he didn't care to understand her when she was the one who didn't care to understand him or listen to him and instead call the cops on him.
she probably brings up the ex constantly everyday, he's sick and tired of it. locking him up was the breaking point. good thing he got out of this toxic relationship.
This Maumdev
Tseem yog qhov kuv cem kuv cov ntxhais ntag nawb peb yuav tsum ntse me ntsis ua neeg siab Loj txhob ua heev2 tsam yuam kev ces xav txog Lig no Tus neeg ruam ces yog koj Tus niam tsev ko ntag ua ntej koj yuav ntes nws kaw mas koj yuav tau coj mus rau kwv tij neej tsa hais kom tag yog tsis yeej lawm mas mam ua heev li koj pob nej cov hluas ua siab heev dhau Lawm ne,
Pab g tau od sister Ua sb loj txhb khib2 txiv li koj thiaj li g yuam kev
His love for you was not strong enough. Time to move on, live with no regrets.
Kuv ntseeg tias koj tus txiv thiab nws tsev neeg yeej tsis nyiam koj. Txhob chim rau tus poj nrauj. Tej zaum twb yog koj tus txiv lub tswv yim, koj ntse tsis txaus koj tus kheej.
Txhob khuv xim lub neej qub vim twb dhau lawm es yuav tsum ua ib siab txhob nco lawm thiab rau siab ua lub neej lawm tom ntej xwb
If your husband really did love you, he would be able to forgive you for that reason.
Mloog nawb peb cov poj niam na tsis txhob ruam li tus poj niam no nawb
Cia ua kev kawm rau koj. Twb tsis tim koj tag2 thiab vim yog yus tus txiv ces mob2 kib2 yus es koj thiaj yusm kev me2 xwb. Yog koj tus txiv hlub koj ntiag2 nws yeej zam txim tau rau koj.
niam ntsuab teev cas ntsuab teev neb txu meej muas poj niam kom khiav txhob yuav meej muas puas yog nawj
Txhua yam tim koj xwb os tus viv ncaus
Neeg qub lub siab qub ne..koj twb ua ua ua..neb sib nrauj tag..tsam no koj tseem ua rau koj tus qub txiv thiab nws tus poj niam dua thiab ne..
Kav Liam os. Koj tus txiv yeej hlub koj tsis tag thiab os. Tos nws tsis khes koj Los nws twb xub nrog nws tus poj niam tham lawm es nws thiaj tsis zam txim. Koj tus txiv siab yeej tsis ncaj rau koj tag tag thiab os. Kav tsij ua ib siab es ua zoo nrhiav yus lub neej tshiab os.
1-2 los 911 ces kawg zoo li no xwb mas
Sister, i want to share with you what my husband think and feel about your story. If your is innocent in his involvement with the ex girlfriend, he would've confronted her in your presence via phone call that there will be nothing between them and tell her to stop the lies or else he would let her clan know about her. Then block her number. Block her from any social media when she tries to contact him. So therefore, it is your husband's fault. He shouldve done all this to prove that he is no longer interested or did not meet with her. Truly he let her keep contacting him and watch your reactions then blame you for everything. A good loving husband would never let this happen.
Cov neeg khib2 txiv khib poj niam ce yeej yuam kev li ko os
Hmoob ua li cas es ,nej yuav muaj nyiaj ua luaj li os..qhiav seb kv yuav tau ua li es thaij muaj nyiaj li nej os lawv aw.
Wow… your action is no different from his ex-girlfriend. A good person will eventually meet another good person.
Wow. I feel so bad for you. I think your husband should've given you another chance. Don't blame yourself. You were wrong to believe the ex-girlfriend, but your husband didn't love you enough to fight for you.
Agreed
Zaj no tsis phim lub npe os, vim kj rhuav koj lub neej xwb, kj yog 1 tug poj niam tsi paub tab os, koj xav tias lub neej zoo li movie es pom kiag xwb ces nrauj kiag, zoo li ko yuav tsawg tus los yeej tsis zoo.
Abbbbbbbb kuv xav tias thawj zaug xwb es nws tseem tsis kam zam txim thiab. Twb tias txiv neej ua mas txhua tus mas kom yus uv, uv tag los yus twb tseem zam txim rau nws tab sis cas poj niam hais los vim txoj kev mob siab xwb lub neej thiaj puas lawm xwb nws tseem tsis zam txim thiab!
Koj mas Ruam tshaj plaws....coj phem npaum li koj ces lub neej yeej kawg Tawg xwb poj hmoob ...
Koj pheej tusiab abtsi nas. Koj niag txiv yeej tsis xav yuav koj lawm thiab ces tabtom koj muab nws mus hlob kav hlau ces nws muab qhov ntawd keb kiag kom dim koj xwb mas.
twb g nug kom tau qho tseeb e law twb xa ua kom kj mob siab e kj ua phem rau kj tu txiv xwb na e kj g yog tu neeg coj kom tog hno law hai xwb kj cia li npau lwj npau liam kj tab tom ua qho phem kom kj tu txiv tu siab rau kj kj tab tom ua kom kj tu txiv chim rau kj ntxub kj lawm xwb o thaum kho tseem yua sib hlyb kj twb g yua ne tsam no kj tu txiv twb txia siab rau kj lawm na txiv neej ma kj txhob lam ua phem rau nawb thaum law tau mu lawm ce law yeej g tig ro qsb li lawm ho
It’s your fault for not believing your ex husband.
Txiv neej hmoob mas sim neej no txawm sib cav sib ceg npaum cas los koj txhob hu police thiab coj mus kaw li nawb yog koj tseem xav yuav nws ua txiv ov..yog nws muab koj ntaus nqaij ntuag ntshav nrog es koj yeej yuav tsis taus uv tsis taus ces mam hu nawb lawv siab tawv heev yog koj ua yuam kev li no ces tag tiam no yeej tsis tau nws li lawm.. kawg koj mus pauj kev chim rhuav tus poj nrauj rhuav koj lub neej xwb tiag..😂
I feel like, he is already cheating on her, but just don't want to own up to her. So sad. Cause if he love her like he said, he wouldn't of had made a big issues out of it. Smh. He knows he is not pure faithful that is why he move on so fast. Stop blaming yourself girl. He is just trying to give you the guilt trip for what he had done behind your back...😂
There's got to be more than this in the story. You must've done more than just the one time of putting him in jail, I believe if he really love you he can forgive you these couple times but you must have cheated or really abused him for him to not be able to forgive you. Too bad you both have no trust not enough love.
Vim koj lub siab loj tsis txaus koj tsis saib qhov tseb muab txoj Kev khib los ua teeb meem xb
To late for u girl
Pab Tsis tau lau yog li nas… koj puas paub tias txog txij koj muab nws mus kaw lawm ces lawv yuav tsis kam yuav koj li os txiv neeg hmoob no yeej phem2 hos…