【Apple】Ungrateful mother tells factory worker son he's an embarrassment. He stops sending money and?

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  • @einyv
    @einyv ปีที่แล้ว +143

    Why anyone would send money to an ungrateful parent in the first place is beyond me.

    • @bernedettekuteyi3843
      @bernedettekuteyi3843 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Unfortunately if this ungrateful woman does not appreciate her ATM, then it's about time that ATM is blocked permanently.

    • @randykincy7954
      @randykincy7954 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      For the same reason that parents send money to ungrateful children

    • @takohamoolsen2486
      @takohamoolsen2486 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Maybe she wasn't like that in the beginning, but seeing OP stayed with the 'factory job' she became elitist and snobbish.

    • @verityv5284
      @verityv5284 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same

    • @einyv
      @einyv ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@takohamoolsen2486 possible but it sounds like she has been this way for a long time.

  • @einyv
    @einyv ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Can't believe he would even ask if Carlos was ok with money for the wedding after Carlos put him down. Some people are gluttons for punishment.

    • @KCohere33
      @KCohere33 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Well, he was giving his abusive mother $1000 a month plus helped pay her bills. He is a masochist.

    • @SifGreyfang
      @SifGreyfang ปีที่แล้ว +12

      ​@@KCohere33 its not that he's a masochist. Its that he cares to much about his crap family when he shouldn't

    • @Mrstigger747
      @Mrstigger747 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He was raised by a narcissist! THAT explains everything 👋🇨🇦

  • @irenecunningham9782
    @irenecunningham9782 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    I think having a child who helped support both his mother and younger brother, helped put his brother through college and worked his ass off is more to be proud of than a child who bagged a rich wife.👍

  • @sarahader8118
    @sarahader8118 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Ungrateful indeed. Basically biting the hand that feeds you or better yet, gives you money

  • @hwannietessier797
    @hwannietessier797 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I would have stopped the money right away. Shameless mom. She should have appreciated him at least he's working unlike her who expect a handout.

  • @KCohere33
    @KCohere33 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    As bad as his mother is, it makes me mad that Manuel allowed himself to be taken advantage of for ten years. He gave his ungrateful mother $120,000.

    • @jyvben1520
      @jyvben1520 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      maybe it was not that much in the beginning, but still a lot of money in total

    • @velvety2006
      @velvety2006 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      family conditioning is really hard to break, especially if you do not have someone on the outside to point out how bad the situation is.

  • @ladyofthemasque
    @ladyofthemasque ปีที่แล้ว +11

    That little brother is so focused on getting money, without having any money to pay for the wedding... I'd back off from them at that point.

    • @velvety2006
      @velvety2006 ปีที่แล้ว

      don't send him gift money, send him the bill you paid for college lol

  • @jonborchardt5548
    @jonborchardt5548 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    The moral of this story is: Careful what you wish for. There's no guarantee it'll turn out EXACTLY as you want.

  • @Sbart117
    @Sbart117 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Mom's not even label "mom" in op's phone. That's pretty telling of what he thinks about her

    • @straightblackgirl
      @straightblackgirl ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Exactly. ☝🏾💯

    • @warrirornunluv801
      @warrirornunluv801 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Foreshadowing!

    • @SkateLinerPalit
      @SkateLinerPalit ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I just realize that too

    • @Momof5grannytomany
      @Momof5grannytomany ปีที่แล้ว

      I swear this mom is so stupid she thinks one son is useless when he's done everything to help them but yet mom sais her second son is everything is the best wth just cause one son goes to college n the other one is low class when he's the best one of them all.

    • @lyndatuttle
      @lyndatuttle ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Before I went no contact with my mother, I change the label to her name. It made a big difference.

  • @shaynellmesadieu
    @shaynellmesadieu ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Never bites the hands that feed you

    • @sarahader8118
      @sarahader8118 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      And don't play favoritism. It'll bite you too

  • @journijones3253
    @journijones3253 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    A job is STILL a job, no matter where you work at, the position or the type

    • @priscillaromero2305
      @priscillaromero2305 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My mother, always told me an honest days work for an honest job was all that matters.

  • @susanhansen1290
    @susanhansen1290 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Asking brother for "a lot" of gift money and asking relatives for money for the wedding is not a good idea and will proably come back to bite him.

    • @lyndatuttle
      @lyndatuttle ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That is all he went on about. Gift money. Gift money. Gift money.

  • @debbyallen8325
    @debbyallen8325 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Manuel was just an ATM to his mother and brother. They didn't appreciate him at all. His mother is stone cold and selfish, his brother is careless with money and with Manuel's feelings. I think his family got what they deserved.

  • @nancysternberg
    @nancysternberg ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I would be ashamed to have this kind of woman as a mother. You, young man, are much better than her!

  • @essiealmond8040
    @essiealmond8040 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I wish I had a child to send me a $1000 a month and help pay bills.

  • @dorothylloyd1804
    @dorothylloyd1804 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    If the money means nothing, then it wont be missed.

  • @slayermoon666
    @slayermoon666 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    If I were op. I’d put her in my contacts as ‘Incubator’

  • @GeorgieB1965
    @GeorgieB1965 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Hey, some factory jobs actually pay relatively well.
    Wait...wut? $1000 a month isn't enough for groceries? Damn, I spend about $350-$400 a month for groceries on myself.

    • @jenthamslonnar9311
      @jenthamslonnar9311 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, that's a crazy amount of money for groceries. I survived for 3 years on 100 Euro (roughly 110 Dollars) a MONTH. Nowadays I'm financially stable and spend around 200 Euros per month. 1000?? I couldn't eat so much even when I tried 🤣🤣🤣

  • @baffledanderanged2101
    @baffledanderanged2101 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    This is a description of a very ungrateful mother.

  • @bridgetdebourgh5698
    @bridgetdebourgh5698 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Enjoy the rest of your day everyone 👋🤗
    From Louisiana 🐊

    • @markmcelroy8722
      @markmcelroy8722 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Good Evening Miss Bridget from Georgia 🍑

    • @bridgetdebourgh5698
      @bridgetdebourgh5698 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@markmcelroy8722 Good evening 👋 hope you had a good weekend and enjoy the rest of your day 🤗

    • @lorannamoody7011
      @lorannamoody7011 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🏝️🦎

    • @bridgetdebourgh5698
      @bridgetdebourgh5698 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lorannamoody7011 🐊👋🤗

  • @AcerNitroFive
    @AcerNitroFive ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Karma: "One more time.. NEVER insult the person that supports you!"
    Narrator: "You reap what you sow. There's no way around that."
    Karma: "Errr.. actually I wanted to say that too.. But never mind."

  • @rebeccamccann8710
    @rebeccamccann8710 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    $1000 per month for over 10 years, to a mother who hates your very existence? That ship should have sailed about 9 and a half years ago lol

  • @ChillingCrimeCases
    @ChillingCrimeCases ปีที่แล้ว +3

    he is not an unfilial son, because his ungrateful mother is so bad

  • @lindahill7315
    @lindahill7315 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Good evening, everyone . Don't bite the hand that feeds you

  • @noxiouschocolate9644
    @noxiouschocolate9644 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It’s nice to have some of the shorter videos again

    • @riley6740
      @riley6740 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I am a person who doesn’t get out of the house but two times a month. I look forward to these stories. Not much to watch on the television these days. I’ve run out of things to watch on Netflix and Prime. The drama on these stories have entertainment for me and possibly others. I’m especially excited to find the ones that have two stories at in the same post.

  • @Andrea.S.Alvey12
    @Andrea.S.Alvey12 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    In the course of ten years, he sent $120,000 to his egg donor! He sent who knows how much to his ungrateful leeching ''brother?'' It's sad that it took Manuel 10 years to come to grips with how alone he truly was. I hope he gets into therapy, to help ease some of the loss/bitterness caused by his ''family.''

    • @wendigos_eat_people7177
      @wendigos_eat_people7177 ปีที่แล้ว

      Must have been one heck of a factory he works for where he makes enough to send $1000 to the egg donor every month and money to his brother and still live comfortably yet barely.

  • @deborahwright8031
    @deborahwright8031 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    $1000 is a lot if you don't work for it !

  • @southernsal3113
    @southernsal3113 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    These people, tho!
    "You didn't go to college"
    "You work in a factory"
    But, without factory workers, manufacturing will be at a standstill!
    Do these people actually KNOW anything!

  • @debrajean9432
    @debrajean9432 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Seventeen minutes is a perfect amount of time to tell a story like this.

    • @Mrstigger747
      @Mrstigger747 ปีที่แล้ว

      👏👏👏👏👋🇨🇦

  • @lyndatuttle
    @lyndatuttle ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My father worked as an electrician in a factory. I would give anything to see him and smell his scent of sweat and cigerette smoke again. He died when I was 18.

    • @tinyvanuffelen7918
      @tinyvanuffelen7918 ปีที่แล้ว

      Remember the good times with him ! Your father is always right by your side ❤

  • @jasminaldea2671
    @jasminaldea2671 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Why do I can relate too much to the situation? I have been sending money to my mom yet she brag to neighbors about how good my sister and I'm nothing but an ungrateful child who don't help her. My sister also wasted a lot time in college not attending many classes and failed. She graduated late and pregnant. Mom never see wrong with all her actions yet nothing good with me when I graduated with honors.
    I only stop sending when I got pregnant at the age of 36. My mom didn't understand why I can't send anymore. I was so sick to the point of being bedridden as my baby was in difficult situation. I became the pariah of the whole family as all my aunts and cousins berate me just because I can't send money. Nobody cares I almost lost my life for my baby. So I decided to cut contact with them all.
    Now my mom is trying to get my attention by commenting on my posts on social media. She thought I am still the old me who would say sorry even it was her who was in the wrong. She wants me to say sorry coz I'm the child. Nope.
    I'm done being a doormat and scapegoat.

  • @zakariyajama8004
    @zakariyajama8004 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank the lord all mighty my mother is nothing like this one

  • @dymonddavis7847
    @dymonddavis7847 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Jennifer should be embarrassed 😞 herself for being so ungrateful and their is nothing wrong with being a factory 🏭 worker, a job is still a job.

    • @essiealmond8040
      @essiealmond8040 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly, I worked in retail for over 20 years, now I work in a warehouse, guess which one gives me the better salary, benefits and every weekend off

  • @WolfeSaber
    @WolfeSaber ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Been a while since we got much shorter videos.

  • @HaesslichG
    @HaesslichG ปีที่แล้ว +3

    10:58 - cutting ties means cutting all relationships, including financial. Did she get dropped on her head as a child?

  • @karenlommler6473
    @karenlommler6473 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What he needs to do is to move out of the house, stop paying his mother's bills, don't attend his brothers wedding and definitely don't give his brother any gift money. Both the mother and younger brother are gold diggers.

  • @steveroe6771
    @steveroe6771 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I would send a bill to his mother for all the money Manuel sent his mother, payable in full in 30 days, non-negotiable.

  • @annnichols3091
    @annnichols3091 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm glad that Manuel didn't turn out to have a position or wealth that his family didn't know about.

    • @KCohere33
      @KCohere33 ปีที่แล้ว

      No Secret CEO? Lol

  • @CarieAlbers
    @CarieAlbers ปีที่แล้ว

    I enjoy listening to these stories. I enjoy your narrations ❤

  • @shadowki5687
    @shadowki5687 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I know people who've cut ties with toxic family that either took advantage of them or refused to understand their job and why they have it, so this isn't hard to believe for me

  • @williamhinkle8113
    @williamhinkle8113 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Mom needs to do some math.

  • @kentjensen4939
    @kentjensen4939 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Many men, especially sigmas, let the women find them and don't do any looking.

  • @poohbear4515
    @poohbear4515 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love and I’m very happy that he has “Jennifer” instead of “mom” in his text. I know I said this before that I hate people who still call their parents “mom/dad”, and it is a tough thing to not say them after years of living with them.

    • @KCohere33
      @KCohere33 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You hate that people call their parents mom and dad?

    • @poohbear4515
      @poohbear4515 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@KCohere33 Only those that are disowned but still call them by mom and dad, probably out of habit. I have no relationship with my sperm donor and call him by his birth name, not “dad”. It makes me sick just typing that word out.

    • @prakashholla7331
      @prakashholla7331 ปีที่แล้ว

      There would have been nothing wrong with labeling her mom on his phone if she really behaved like a loving mom who appreciated the 1k he sent her monthly, and said so

    • @tishabyte
      @tishabyte ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@Poohbear45 I'm glad you cleared that up because I still call my mom mom. Lol

  • @ForsakenWolf1
    @ForsakenWolf1 ปีที่แล้ว

    My kind of wedding, letting it crash on impact by themselves

  • @elizabethhuie563
    @elizabethhuie563 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Just because you go to college and get a degree does not guarantee a successful life/career.

  • @barbiegirl-gc3ds
    @barbiegirl-gc3ds ปีที่แล้ว +3

    1000 is more than I get. I get around 600 and I help with the utilities because they went up after I moved in. I have a few bills and I'm allowed to spend 30 dollars on lego. My once a month treat. That only buys a few sets. I buy from the sale page and try to stay under budget because of tax. I would kill for 1000 dollars.

  • @prakashholla7331
    @prakashholla7331 ปีที่แล้ว

    The son feels grateful even to that witch for giving birth to him. At the least she could be grateful that he regularly sends him money. And desist from hurting his feelings.

  • @manxkin
    @manxkin ปีที่แล้ว

    Again with the “don’t come to the wedding”, no college, but takes all his money. How creative.

  • @tammywheetley2384
    @tammywheetley2384 ปีที่แล้ว

    A thousand dollars is a lot of money!!!!!

  • @mariatolich4056
    @mariatolich4056 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Working in a factory and gross.
    O.k where does all your stuff come from?

  • @liznemeskery4321
    @liznemeskery4321 ปีที่แล้ว

    WOW very ungrateful mom. I wish I had more children. I was blessed with one. But would have loved to have at least one more. But life did not go this way. I love the daughter I have. My word, talking so down about your own child just saddens me.

  • @dorderre
    @dorderre ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's quite telling that the mom values marrying into a rich family higher than actually working for the money.

  • @jonelfilipek7848
    @jonelfilipek7848 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    If I could have $1000 extra a month, it would improve so many things in my life.

  • @silverhammer7779
    @silverhammer7779 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jennifer was not only counting chickens before they're hatched, but she was also counting them even before she had any hens and roosters to provide the eggs. This is what happens when you think that reality somehow doesn't apply to you. Karma, of course, has other ideas 😁

  • @jeanbatchelor7007
    @jeanbatchelor7007 ปีที่แล้ว

    These people have no concept of the value of money

  • @mrsdinosaur1009
    @mrsdinosaur1009 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If Jennifer was my mum I would have left home the minute I turned 16.

  • @wowplayer00
    @wowplayer00 ปีที่แล้ว

    and this kids is what we all call karma be good too people and good things happend too you. do bad things too othere's and bad things happend too you. you reap what you sow.

  • @mariefish9535
    @mariefish9535 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    11:00 if it was a measly £1000 and she didn't need it why is she getting so upset Manuel isn't sending it anymore wow what kind of mother treats there son in such a way then expect them to put there hand in there pocket and support them now she is all upset coz Carlos isn't the golden child she thinks he is haha how the mighty fall

  • @keithhart9827
    @keithhart9827 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If the wedding was cancelled how was he able to DIVORCE his WIFE? Didn't make any sense!!!

    • @danyellevstephenson
      @danyellevstephenson ปีที่แล้ว

      @keith hart you can get married at a court house and/or city hall and then have a ceremony/ church wedding later.

  • @arthapend
    @arthapend ปีที่แล้ว

    Expecting to be supported by the DIL's family after her fav son married her... Don't count your chickens before they hatch...

  • @shadowflame2247
    @shadowflame2247 ปีที่แล้ว

    the moment someone talks to me like this regardless of my relationship with them, family, friend, or not, I'm cutting off all contact, support, and or financial help.

  • @bigglypuff0420
    @bigglypuff0420 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Not to be rude, but why do they make the main characters seems so slow.

  • @diannewilliams3768
    @diannewilliams3768 ปีที่แล้ว

    I thought the brides family pays for wedding at keast the first one

  • @johnkirkman2849
    @johnkirkman2849 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    In a 10 year period at 1k a month that's 120k. That's quite a bit of money.

  • @melaniebishop480
    @melaniebishop480 ปีที่แล้ว

    I say you can't come. Well I say you will never get another cent from me.

  • @helenworley5903
    @helenworley5903 ปีที่แล้ว

    When your family doesn't like you, why would you pay for their kindness and love, and still don't get it.

  • @laustpeternielsen-norman9569
    @laustpeternielsen-norman9569 ปีที่แล้ว

    If she sees him as useless, why would she needs his money 😊it's 120.000 in total

  • @pagee7452
    @pagee7452 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow that was my mom I would stop sending her money and then go no contact with her people like them or toxic and don't need them in your life

  • @blender4464
    @blender4464 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why do all these characters keep sending 1000+ dollars to their parents? Especially when those parents openly declare how much they despise their daughter/son all the time. Then with the wedding, cancelling it the day of doesn't get him out of paying.

    • @reiniernn9071
      @reiniernn9071 ปีที่แล้ว

      There are a lot of countries which do not give any money for elderly people. They are dependent on their children . And I'm not sure in which country the people this story are living.

  • @onespoiledpup2019
    @onespoiledpup2019 ปีที่แล้ว

    I truly despise the mother in this story. How could anyone be so horrible to their own child. She needs a big punch in the face.

  • @snidecommenter7117
    @snidecommenter7117 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jennifer: Okay fine! I'll forgive you. You can come to the wedding, okay?
    Manuel: Oh? YOU'LL forgive ME for YOU being an arrogant b*tch? I see. Umm.. Yeah, no, I'll pass on that 'forgiveness'.

  • @Icyangel10
    @Icyangel10 ปีที่แล้ว

    Looks like the mom screwed over her & her favorite son, now she's alone & has to work for once which likely makes her realize just how grateful she should have been that OP worked in a factory given her new struggles. Meanwhile the favorite son is also all alone thanks to cutting ties with her over this & divorcing his wife over issues, thanks to his actions he's unprepared for this world & has to probably take on more part time work. I'm guessing the now ex-wife also has to find a job & knows that she can't ask her family for money with it being a mystery how reconnecting with her family is going.
    I hope OP is able to live a nice life away from these train wrecks & maybe find love if he chooses to one day. Be funny if his mom manages to see him one day walk by(likely where she's working obviously) with who is likely his wife. He's likely still at the factory but thanks to hard work has raised up the levels & earns more so he & his wife are doing at the very least comfortably when it comes to money.(Wife likely works too) OP is living a nice life away from the terrible people that use to be in his life & his mom seeing him reminds her of her mistakes & that she'll never get to watch him be happy even if he wasn't the favorite child. Had she treated him better she could have seen him get married & have a life of his own with her getting to be a grandma even if her favorite kid's life plans didn't work.

  • @markkay6646
    @markkay6646 ปีที่แล้ว

    If Carlos couldn't have the wedding then what wife and what divorce,?

  • @kinasakuraba
    @kinasakuraba ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm starting to get sick of hearing "you reap what you sow" every other day. God I listen to too many of these 😅

  • @deborahsavrnoch7055
    @deborahsavrnoch7055 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey what's wrong with factory work u did that while going to college and back then i got paid 22.00 an hour that was 20 some odd years ago

  • @clarissagafoor5222
    @clarissagafoor5222 ปีที่แล้ว

    none of this makes sense: either Carlos didn`t marry Jennifer - took all her savings as `compensation`, (for what?) or they married and then divorced! The computer who wrote this seems to have gone slightly amoke! There are other weired things here too - these content creators need a better proofreader!

  • @McBruce999
    @McBruce999 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why would anyone keep supporting and enabling other's bad behavior. The main scum and idiot in this story is the protagonist himself. He enabled them and then felt bad for, them treating like him like trash.

  • @RR-bt5xv
    @RR-bt5xv ปีที่แล้ว

    why Carlos and Manuel should be biff and James

  • @stoopingfalcon891
    @stoopingfalcon891 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That is one of the worst written 'stories' of this kind I have ever seen.

  • @rhondafarmer1163
    @rhondafarmer1163 ปีที่แล้ว

    Where I'm from,(USA,
    Mississippi), the family of the bride, usually pays for the wedding.