10 Reasons Why I Have Never Been Kissed...and I am 31 Years Old lol

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  • @psychostranger2097
    @psychostranger2097 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I am 37 years old virgin male. Never had been in relationship. Never kissed a woman. Never pressed boobs.

  • @bezagebremedhine5102
    @bezagebremedhine5102 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I am 31 too. Never been in any relationship, never drink and similar like you😊❤ Glory be to God for His sustainable peace and protection😊 Glad to find ypur channal. Be blessed.

    • @jenme2390
      @jenme2390  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh! That’s so nice to hear. ☺️Are we twins?!😃😂So glad you are here, Beza. Have a wonderful day!

  • @KonADLER
    @KonADLER 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I think we all should normalize this. Relationship is not LIFE.

    • @marijajanicijevic8211
      @marijajanicijevic8211 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I know.You can be perfectly fulfilled by just having friends.Not everyone finds hapiness in love life after all.

  • @deea192
    @deea192 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I/m 28 and I have basically the same story, except the track team and that extremely busy life😂. I am more of an introvert, I don't need to be doing a lot of things to feel busy, my mind never feels bored 😂 It's one of the things that annoy me when people say things like oh you don't go to parties, you don't go on dates, you never had a relationship , what a boring life. While yes I agree those are aspects of life, experiences that can bring you insights of who you are and about life, I find myself being wiser than people with a lot more "life experience" than me, just being honest even if it sounds arrogant. I find it refreshing to discover people like you that I can relate tp, and just being unapologetically yourself.
    It''s crazy how much I can relate. I grew up in a christian home, but it was always more than that, I always put first my relationship with God, and the idea that people take dating as just some fun activity doesn't make sense to me, I think it's something special, with a serious intent behind it and a purpose.
    You should post another videos, you are an interesting person :)
    Love from Romania💕

    • @jenme2390
      @jenme2390  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Interesting☺️Yes I like that on TH-cam you can find people that you can relate to from all over the world that you wouldn’t necessarily come across in real life. None of my friends are like me, yet I still do have friends. Lol
      As an introvert what types of hobbies do you enjoy doing?💁🏾‍♀️
      I don’t think it’s arrogant at all.🙂I think it’s just self-aware and a sign of emotional intelligence. We all should recognize the things that we do well more often. It’s “in” for people to make fun of themselves and to be self-deprecating.
      Yes. Absolutely. Relationships are definitely NOT the only types of “life experiences”. But I’m happy for those people who can lead emotional healthy lives and do the dating thing. We are all different. I do think there needs to be more space for people to lead other types of lives though where marriage and kids aren’t the only archetypes of a “happy life”.
      Romania🇷🇴 How cool!😄What is the weather like there at this time of year?

  • @Maxi-sr9ez
    @Maxi-sr9ez หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    youtubes algo recommended your channel to me. you're very pretty!

  • @ennvee1989
    @ennvee1989 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Same. Im turning 32 in september. Thank you for sharing your story! I know God has someone for me 💕I trust him 🙏🏾

  • @LKelz
    @LKelz ปีที่แล้ว +4

    28 year old woman never been kissed here . I am just like you . We exists

  • @chikbomgarden
    @chikbomgarden 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I had my first kiss at 25…almost 26! And we got married a year after 😂 I just wanted a special first kiss and it never was the right guy bevor. They ether saw it as a price to get or were overwhelmed and didn’t wanna take the responsibility i guess! But girl my stomach almost exploded so full of butterflies 😵‍💫

  • @CESmith
    @CESmith 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Thank you sharing such a personal portion of your life. As a person who's yet to date myself also over the age of 30, I know the anxiety the thought of dating brings.
    At some point, I'll have to allow messy and awkward hello/I'm interested in yous to get the ball rolling. Probably, will fall flat in my face the first hundred times 😁I hope you are able to do the same.

    • @jenme2390
      @jenme2390  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Awwww.☺️Thank you so much for taking the time to watch my video.
      I actually don’t feel the same way that you do about all of this, but thank you for sharing. And I wish you well on your search. You sound like a very caring and empathetic individual.😊

  • @c.norbertneumann4986
    @c.norbertneumann4986 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    If you haven't been yet in a relationship at the age of 31, it just shows that you're smart. (By the way, you look younger than 31.)

    • @jenme2390
      @jenme2390  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Awwww.☺️Thanks. I turned 32 in January lol…and it’s all still the same, nothing’s changed. Which is fine!😄
      Yeah. I get that a lot. It’s a lot of fun because people/strangers still call me “honey, baby, darling, mama…”. All the things that sometimes imply that I’m really young, and half the time I know I’m actually older than the person saying it. It’s a lot of fun!😃…But sometimes I have to remind myself that I am a grown adult.😂😂😂

  • @kendallx1213
    @kendallx1213 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Im really glad you exist. MGTOWs say women hit the wall etc etc. so when a woman is 30 and older shes too old, like a used car, etc. and not dating material and ew and such and Im glad Im not the only one who was too busy early on and didnt have 70 boyfriends before i was out of high school. I feel like woman like you should be celebrated more bc all men see in us are sl--s and nothing more and its so important though to find a person who you feel comfortable with and can develop a relationship. Thanks for your video!

    • @jenme2390
      @jenme2390  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awwww.☺️Kendall! That’s such a nice thing for you to say.🥰 Thank you.

    • @IzzyInTheCity
      @IzzyInTheCity 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Please ignore and block those channels. Those men exist solely to make you insecure, lower your tolerance, and settle with abuse from men like them. That's the entire purpose.

    • @destinychild4659
      @destinychild4659 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well, those men are assholes and only care what they can get from women. We shouldn't care at all what those 'dudes' think! 😏😂😴

  • @willwingfield435
    @willwingfield435 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hello! My name is Will B. Wingfield. It's a pleasure to virtually meet you 😎
    As a father of two baby girls (and a young son), this video was remarkable -- on multiple levels. You give me hope!
    I haven't left a comment on TH-cam in close to 10 years, however my wife and I would like to meet with you. If you're interested, we would want to learn more about you, your career and any visions you don't mind sharing about your future. It's an exciting time right now and I believe it was no accident I came across your comment on TH-cam (after not seeing that video in over 6 years).
    Thank you for sharing + RESPECT 🙏

    • @jenme2390
      @jenme2390  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hi, Will.☺️Well, I am honored that you took the time to share this with me after not leaving a comment on TH-cam for almost 10 years.
      Well, I’m pretty simple… and complicated at the same time. 😂I go wherever I feel like God is directing me to go at any given point.

  • @Rufus-LucaBrasi
    @Rufus-LucaBrasi 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    If there are any women that haven't been kissed, and would like to talk to a genuine man who wants a real connection. I would greatly appreciate the chance to talk with you. I don't find it weird, I actually value it highly and respect that you waited. I'm a 26 year old security guard in Oregon working on my helicopter pilots license and I own a small home here. Ever since I was a kid I've wanted a woman like this a real serious loving relationship. It is definitely my greatest need in life next to air and water but I'd be willing to give those up to lol. Lets just chat if it goes well we can figure out how to go on a date even if you're far. (Distance isn't an issue) If that goes well lets keep seeing each other maybe it turns into something beautiful. I man can dream right. :)

  • @NickvonZ
    @NickvonZ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just checked your channel based on a comment you had left on a channel.
    You are adorable! So take the time you need to meet the RIGHT guy! Be a bit open to other human guys. But you are a lovely person. So better for you to be safe than sorry.
    Take your time, but don't let your whole life slip by without sharing love.
    Kissing can be wonderful. And I am certain myriad guys would be be really happy to kiss you.
    So, know that it is YOUR choice.
    You are adorable. So you be you!

  • @yzma6142
    @yzma6142 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    you're so inspiring!! beautiful inside and out

    • @jenme2390
      @jenme2390  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awww. Thank you so much, Yzma!☺️

  • @mattsbeamer
    @mattsbeamer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It's great that you are true to yourself, and I believe it's very important. Keep going with your youtube channel, it can be rewarding in some ways :)Maybe you should review your BMW 1 Series in another video. Take care

    • @jenme2390
      @jenme2390  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks. ☺️Yeah, I was making plans to do that…especially since I feel that I am nearing the end with my current BMW, at least as my daily driver, so I have a conclusive assessment of my experience. I would want to definitely give a picture of the ACTUAL costs. Many people hypothesize about the cost to own and maintain a BMW. I wanna pull out my invoices and tell people exactly what it cost me….good or bad. What types of things broke when. etc. Half of my invoices are across the country right now though so I was trying to see when I would be able to go get them. A BMW isn’t just about cost though…I can tell people work really hard not to hit me.😂😂😂Safety points!💁🏾‍♀️😁
      I have the 328i…in Orion silver metallic…I love it.🥰😂😂😂…clearly that’s why it has so many miles on it.🤦🏾‍♀️…I drove it across the country…another video idea…so many ideas. So little time.😔

    • @mattsbeamer
      @mattsbeamer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@jenme2390 it will be very interesting. I will certainly watch it. I am lucky that I can repair a lot of the stuff on the car myself, so my running costs are probably less than a Ford owner :) Sorry in forgot it’s a 328i lol, I’m used to everyone on my wall having a 1 series. Take care and have fun

  • @temis6639
    @temis6639 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    How old are you now? Has anything changed? Are you in a relationship now? You said that you've never been on a date but do you interact with guys romantically? Like talking to get to know them more than friends

    • @jenme2390
      @jenme2390  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You ask all the good questions don’t you? My birthday is a week from today. I will be 34.

  • @DrPamelaPaul
    @DrPamelaPaul 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Courageous and beautiful!

  • @shaanhashmi5836
    @shaanhashmi5836 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are a treasure for the man of your choosing. Very admirable

  • @orianogiorgetti6459
    @orianogiorgetti6459 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi, the real question is this: have you ever fallen in love with a man you met?

    • @jenme2390
      @jenme2390  หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@orianogiorgetti6459 lol Is that the real question? I have been “in love” multiple times. I was also a less evolved version of myself where I was more naive and still running my life in a lower boundaried fashion. Now, l LOVE boundaries. My friend told me this quote “boundaries are the distance at which I can love you and me simultaneously”. I disagree. Boundaries, to me, are not about distance. They are an invitation. They are inviting someone to the table to learn how to exist in your world in a respectful and loving manner that is specific to you.☺️

  • @maharaflabib3892
    @maharaflabib3892 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Can you please tell me the name of the background music of your video 😊

    • @jenme2390
      @jenme2390  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Blue Dream-Cheel from the TH-cam Library ☺️

    • @maharaflabib3892
      @maharaflabib3892 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@jenme2390 thank you ❤️

  • @arthurlombardozzi5162
    @arthurlombardozzi5162 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I send you a big kiss!! 😁

  • @tenouttaten
    @tenouttaten 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    lol you're not missing out on a thing, trust me

  • @polina6463
    @polina6463 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I came here from buzzfeed

    • @jenme2390
      @jenme2390  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      👏👏Can’t believe you found it.😂Welcome. Have a wonderful day or night.☺️

  • @Datavideolar
    @Datavideolar 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    do you have dc?

    • @jenme2390
      @jenme2390  2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      What's that? Discord?

    • @Datavideolar
      @Datavideolar 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@jenme2390yeah it's discord do you have?

    • @jenme2390
      @jenme2390  2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@DatavideolarNo.

    • @Datavideolar
      @Datavideolar 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@jenme2390 are you using Whatsapp?

    • @Datavideolar
      @Datavideolar 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@jenme2390 what are you using lmao?

  • @sybillovemore
    @sybillovemore 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You haven't made yourself available that's the truth if you want it you can have it I mean there is Christian mingle 😉 if you want to date your too beautiful to be sat waiting 😉

    • @jenme2390
      @jenme2390  3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Hi Sybil☺️Appreciate your feedback. But as I’ve told someone in a previous comment that’s actually not the case. Although I know it’s hard for everyone to get to know 31 years of me in less than 8 minutes. 😔I don’t necessarily ascribe to “dating culture” either as that is actually not how everyone meets their spouse. I’m happy for the folks who are successful with that approach though. I’m honestly not “sat waiting”. There are so many other things to life that I definitely enjoy, and I actually believe it makes someone a better partner when they have developed interests outside of their partner.
      Thinking on it now, I would also mention, as far as the kissing specifically, no one has ever asked, but I believe there was opportunity. I just operate differently in that it’ not something I am interested in just experiencing to experience. These things mean things to me, and I am perfectly fine with the path God has me on right now. I genuinely would not do anything differently in this area if I could do it again.💁🏾‍♀️No regrets.
      It’s very interesting to see how people feel about this. Thanks for the input again, Sybil. 🙂

  • @kingmajor765
    @kingmajor765 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    U cute😍

  • @PVmelllo01
    @PVmelllo01 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    😶😶😶😑😑😑....you should very carefully make your self more available in life...ijs

    • @jenme2390
      @jenme2390  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😂😂😂Interesting. Thanks, Tory. 😊 Well, I am pretty content with my current level of availability. Anyone who has my phone number in my personal life can call me at any time and will receive a call back by the end of that day if not sooner...video calls too. What would be your ideal vision of a new level of "availability" that you could foresee me stepping in to? 💁🏾‍♀️ I am intrigued by this suggestion.🙂

    • @PVmelllo01
      @PVmelllo01 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jenme2390 I just meant in terms of meeting new people over time. From your video it seems like the reasons you haven't had experiences is just from naturally not being available to new people. (To see you or approach you)
      It doesn't have to be in a club or party necessarily. I'm also not talking about people who you already know.
      Again I'm just going off what you said. I don't actually know you of course.

    • @jenme2390
      @jenme2390  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@PVmelllo01 Oh. Okay. I understand. 😊Well I am not opposed to meeting new people, so thank you for giving me the opportunity to clear that up.

    • @jenme2390
      @jenme2390  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      For a few reasons, I've also probably met more new people than the average person meets in a typical year over the last few years and even in college...I don't have any regrets about this by the way, if that is at all what it sounds like. I would do things the same way over again. I am very happy that I have reserved this part of my life the way that it is up until this point. As I was saying in another comment on this video, there are so many things I did not know before now that were pretty essential. You don't know what you don't know. lol
      Thank you so much again for watching though the video, Tory, and for your helpful feedback. :)

  • @Datavideolar
    @Datavideolar 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Do you have a boyfriend right now? just marry me :)

    • @jenme2390
      @jenme2390  2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Datavideolar No. I do not. lol And thanks but no thanks. Have a wonderful day though.☺️

    • @Datavideolar
      @Datavideolar 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@jenme2390 are you introverter person?

    • @jenme2390
      @jenme2390  2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Datavideolar No. I am not.

    • @Datavideolar
      @Datavideolar 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@jenme2390 i think you are. You are looks like clever person.Can i ask what is your job?Are you engineer?

    • @jenme2390
      @jenme2390  2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Datavideolar I have a degree in Economics. That is how "undecided" worked out for me. lol But I did actually work as an economic analyst for some time.
      Why do I seem like an engineer?