Living a life with selfish and stingy people is exhausting. Living a life with nice people that spend money like leaf's on tree is also stressful. Finding a balance between the two is key to building friendship and family without going broke or lonely during old age.
Sister, just do you. Don't change to make someone happy. In life, we have choices to do good, bad and evil. Always choose good...be humble, respect, kind, and giving. Life will be much happier and rewarding. Don't worry about what they do.
I can totally related to this story. Living a life with greedy, selfish, and ungrateful people are very toxic. They’re family member too; and if you are being honest and point a finger out then boom!!!! problems and hatred will come out. If you just keep it quiet and let them being greedy and use you then they’ll be happy. But if you say anything then suddenly my you’ll become the bad person and they’ll will act like they’re the victims. I’m glad I was able to let them go and now my life is very peaceful. Im glad this Hmong lady was able to open her heart and love her husband’s side of family like her own.
I learned in life that there are more happiness in giving then receiving. God create everything for us, He make the sun shine and the rain for the good people and bad people. The Creators is very generous to use.
People out there, please share more stories like this. It's quite entertaining. I'm proud of this sister for not being like the rest of the in-laws and for standing up to the mom-in-law.
It depends. People are very unpredictable. Siab dawb los raug cem qia dub los raug cem ces nyias peem nyias, nyias ua nyias xwb. Lub ntuj nim no tsis muaj kev vam rau leej twg.
Kuv nyiam cov neeg siab dawb xwb. This is a recycle xwb koj muaj phooj ywg coob ces lawv tuaj noj ntawm koj ib pluag koj ho mus koom lawv ces ces ib week koj mus koom ib tug ces koj koom thoob ces twb tag ib hli lawm ne ces kuj ib yam li ib hli koj ua noj ib zaug thiab xwb
Cov niam pog laus lawm los pheej yuav ua niam tsev los control cov nyab mas tsis haum nawb, yus laus lawm ces yus ua me yaus luag luag yog luag lub neej lawm os peb cov niam pog aw.
Cuaj khaum dhau kuj tsis zoo ib zaug thiab , noj luam taw lug los kuj tsis zoo ib zaug thiab vim nyiaj tsis txi ntawm ntoo, ua li yus lub zog ua tau xwb
I like Fuji C. Vang's Hmong Bedtimes two stories called 1) "Ib Leej Txiv Ruam Ruam" 2) "Pojniam Tiam 21". Americans and Chinese etc...were greedy and selfish too. Balance is fair. 2 nice isn't good and 2 selfish isn't good either.
Cov neeg qia dub mas kuv ntxhub tshaj plaws tiam neej no os ntuj aws!!! Qia npaum ko los twb tsis muaj thiab os! Tu siab tshaj plaws ces ua noj es neeg tsis tuaj yog yus tsis pab tsis hlub lwm tus os!!
Ua neeg nyob txhob nplaum2 mas.. tau ua siab loj, siab zoo siab dawb .. yus pub rau luag noj 10 zaus los luag yeej yus noj 10 pluas thiab.. yus muab mus $1 thaum los ces los $100.. pub luag noj yeej tsi pluag li os
You can be selfish and stingy to certain extend. Still frustrating and annoying! 🙃😢 Left over Foods- You rather threw away than gave it away! Beyond stingy! Wow! Don't you understand that other places around the world are shortage of food and starving and dying...??
Kuv niag txiv tsev neeg mas zoo kiag li tsev neeg no kuv niag txiv los cuaj khaum tsaj plaws li lawv muab lawv niag tub lawb kiag nrog kuv tsis hlub tsis saib tsis xyuas tsis tsob zeem wb ib niam txiv nrog rau kuv ob tug tub tib si ua neej nrog ib yim hmoob zoo li no mas nyuaj siab kawg li os ib tsoom hmoob
neeg qia dub thiab siab phem, yeej muaj tsis taus. txojkev muaj nov tsi yog nyiaj nkaus xwb. tus sister, you did the right thing. kuv yeej qhuas koj. koj yeej tiv kawg nkaus rau txojkev ua zoo. tus neeg ua phem yeej swb tus neeg ua zoo thiab coj zoo. tus dej nro yeej swb tus dej ntshiab. txojkev phem yeej kov tsis yeej txojkev zoo.
Luav tej laus twb ib txwm piv tias tus yuav muaj ces tseem qhib rooj lug noj los yeej muaj hos tus yuav pluag ces tseem kaw rooj nti noj los nws yeej yuav pluag tsuas ua tau li yus qhov peev xwm xwb os mog
Zaj no txhai tau hai tia tu nyab twg los yeej phem phem vim luag tej tia taw khau tsiv rauv neeg lau tsiv lus yu yeej txawj lau ib yam ib tug ua phem xws ib tug xwb os
If you come from a not stingy, good, and just basically any kind of family all your life it is very hard to change. It is true when a family like your in-laws no one wants to come that is their karma which they deserve.
Koj tus niam pog nplaum li ko yuav tau qhia cai me ntsis rau kom nws tsis tau chaw nkaum zaum puav mas nws thiaj li paub nyab lub maib tias tiam tshiab no nyab tsis need niam pog txojkev qhuab qhia.
Koj niam hlub neb 2 tug niam hlob dua vim nws tias niam Tij Hlob ua zoo nkauj heev ces nws hlubtus yau los nws hlub nws xav kom tau so nws tsis hlub koj tiag tiag li
I can't stand people like that, it's so annoying. I came from a family whose not stingy, my ex husband is a stingy person he only want to go eat at people's house especially my side of the family my ex husband never want to share anything with them just go over and eat won't even help cook foods.
Tus niam tsev aws koj tsuav koj tus niam pog ko nqe es koj thiaj li txais 1 pog nyaum li ko lo nrog koj nyob thaum luag taus taus luag twb tsis khes yus as cas koj ho yuav na tau 1 tug niam pog phem npaum ko ces cia nyias nypb nyias cas koj ho txais lo nyob meka teb nyob tsis tau 1 lub tsev hom niam pog phem li koj tus ko ces cia mus nyob taev laus cia mus nrog cov tij laug nyob cov niam pog coj li ko ces cia mus nyob tsev laus tsis tim cov nyab yog tim tus niam pog siab phem no xwb txhob nyob ua ke zoo dua cia mus nyob tsev laus zoo dua
I agree with you. Why should greedy people who throw away food rather than give it to others deserve sympathy just because they’re old? No way, they lived their entire life greedy, they should not depend on others to help them.
Sister. Do/care more about ur life than others. She does not like u, she will keep telling bad things about u till she die. All u say happen 2 many daughter in law life
Tus niam tsev no khav khav hais tias nws yog ib tus neeg siab dawb siab zoo tabsis ho yuav tsis tau nws tus niam pog. Tus niam tsev ua siab ntev os mog phem thiab zoo los nws yog koj niam pog es yuav tau hlub thiaj li tsis npam nawb. Koj zaj neej neeg no ces kuv tsis tshua ntseeg heev vim koj khav khav koj tus kheej tabsis ho siab tsis ntev rau koj niam pog. Koj yog ib tug nyab phem heev es koj thiaj li tuaj cem koj niam pog li no, cov nyab qhua koj ces phem li ko thiaj li qhua koj xwb os. Tsis muaj leej twg qhua koj li os. Koj cov niag Kwj tij los yog phem es thiaj li ua phem ib yam li koj. Laj mloog dhau lawm khav li khav xwb, niam pog twb yuav tsis tau. Pab koj txaj muag.
Living a life with selfish and stingy people is exhausting. Living a life with nice people that spend money like leaf's on tree is also stressful. Finding a balance between the two is key to building friendship and family without going broke or lonely during old age.
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So true. I didn't know which side to stand with while listening to this story. You said it perfectly, both sides here are extremes.
Sister, just do you. Don't change to make someone happy. In life, we have choices to do good, bad and evil. Always choose good...be humble, respect, kind, and giving. Life will be much happier and rewarding. Don't worry about what they do.
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I can totally related to this story. Living a life with greedy, selfish, and ungrateful people are very toxic. They’re family member too; and if you are being honest and point a finger out then boom!!!! problems and hatred will come out. If you just keep it quiet and let them being greedy and use you then they’ll be happy. But if you say anything then suddenly my you’ll become the bad person and they’ll will act like they’re the victims. I’m glad I was able to let them go and now my life is very peaceful. Im glad this Hmong lady was able to open her heart and love her husband’s side of family like her own.
Niam pog mas txawj ntuas nyab kawg muab xav kuj zoo Ua zoo xav kuj ntxim ntxub tshaj plaws li thiab Thov Vajtswv foom koob hmoov rau koj o tus muam uas koj muaj lub siab zoo heev
I learned in life that there are more happiness in giving then receiving. God create everything for us, He make the sun shine and the rain for the good people and bad people. The Creators is very generous to use.
People out there, please share more stories like this. It's quite entertaining. I'm proud of this sister for not being like the rest of the in-laws and for standing up to the mom-in-law.
Agree 👏
Wow that’s extreme when you even got a lock on your freezer! 🤣
😄😄😄😄I know right!! I have never heard of it either. Not sure what planet earth they are living in!!
@@tweetiebird100 they living in American with the stingy mama.
Frfr!!! Wtf! A chain?? Never have I ever heard anyone doing this.
I rather have alot of friends than be selfish died and live alone this world.
Phab ej me aw Cas zoo nraug cuag li os
I laughed so hard when I heard that the mil locked the freezer with a chain and lock.😂
My mom (bio) is pretty greedy and selfish, it drives me nuts growing up. I choose not to be greedy like her.
Glad you didn’t turn out like her.
It depends. People are very unpredictable. Siab dawb los raug cem qia dub los raug cem ces nyias peem nyias, nyias ua nyias xwb. Lub ntuj nim no tsis muaj kev vam rau leej twg.
Kuv nyiam cov neeg siab dawb xwb. This is a recycle xwb koj muaj phooj ywg coob ces lawv tuaj noj ntawm koj ib pluag koj ho mus koom lawv ces ces ib week koj mus koom ib tug ces koj koom thoob ces twb tag ib hli lawm ne ces kuj ib yam li ib hli koj ua noj ib zaug thiab xwb
Cov niam pog laus lawm los pheej yuav ua niam tsev los control cov nyab mas tsis haum nawb, yus laus lawm ces yus ua me yaus luag luag yog luag lub neej lawm os peb cov niam pog aw.
Yog kawg li o
It’s more then super glue no such a words for it
Lub npe neej neeg no mas yog tshaj plaws neeg qia dub ces yum qia yim pluag !!!
Yog kawg kuv yog ib tug uas raug niam pog haus thiab vim kuv suab dav li koj thiab mas viv ncaus
Right! My mom always taught us to never be stingy or greedy.
Me nyuam phab ej me aw koj mas ua li cas los yeej yog phab kawg li os !
I’m glad she stood her ground!
Tu me nyab lo yeej heev phim kiag niam pog li thiab os yia hu yia kwj tse xb hehe
Hias tau nraug siaheev os
Nyab thiab niam pog ces phem sibphim. Yeej tsis qhuas tus twg kiag, hais me xwb paub ntau.
Leej twg tsis ntsib ces tsis paub li os . Koj thiab kuv ces taug ib txoj lw kiag os
I can't imagine living like that. Kudos to you for living your life the way you want.
Chains on the freezer just cracks me up. This is hilarious. This story should be named blaum lwj nplaum liam. Hehehe
Nrog tsev neeg super glue ma nyuab siab mob hlwb tshaj li zoo qhov Koj tus txiv siab loj hlub Koj ua raws li koj xav..
Koj ma hai yg lawm os
Cuaj khaum dhau kuj tsis zoo ib zaug thiab , noj luam taw lug los kuj tsis zoo ib zaug thiab vim nyiaj tsis txi ntawm ntoo, ua li yus lub zog ua tau xwb
Vim koj yuav tau tsev neeg nplaum...
I like Fuji C. Vang's Hmong Bedtimes two stories called 1) "Ib Leej Txiv Ruam Ruam" 2) "Pojniam Tiam 21". Americans and Chinese etc...were greedy and selfish too. Balance is fair. 2 nice isn't good and 2 selfish isn't good either.
Cov neeg qia dub mas kuv ntxhub tshaj plaws tiam neej no os ntuj aws!!! Qia npaum ko los twb tsis muaj thiab os! Tu siab tshaj plaws ces ua noj es neeg tsis tuaj yog yus tsis pab tsis hlub lwm tus os!!
Ua neeg nyob txhob ua neeg qia dub, wow nej niam pog tsev neeg mas qia dub tiag2
nyab yeej phem thiab tsi yog niam pog xwb
Sound just like my hubby family
Zoo ib yam pheem sib xws
Glad you remain yourself throughout this ordeal.
Koj siab me here lawm.
Ua neeg nyob txhob nplaum2 mas.. tau ua siab loj, siab zoo siab dawb .. yus pub rau luag noj 10 zaus los luag yeej yus noj 10 pluas thiab.. yus muab mus $1 thaum los ces los $100.. pub luag noj yeej tsi pluag li os
Tis sister aw kj tseem muaj hmoo qhov kj tis txiv caum kj es kj ho muaj neeg tuaj txhawb kj os
Some my law too
I know people like this mother-in-law who locks her freezer, and people who locks their TV and DVD player. 🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂😂
😱😩omg !!!
Such a super glues family! Glad you’re not like them or else y’all family will have no visitors this life time.
Peb hmoob cov neeg laus mas cas yuav phem ua luaj thiab
Niam pog los dia dub dhau ho nyab lo tsab siab dawb dhau teb dhau chaw lawm g haum ib zaug
Do not take her in !!!!!!
I can relate to this story. So touchy.
Do not take your Mother in Law in!!!! 😢😢😭😭
Wow! I have never ever seen or heard a family that stingy my whole life!! Nplaum nplaum tuag kiag ces yog nej tsev neeg laus tus niam tsev!!!
I'm so glad you are not like your in laws.....and your hubby is more like you..
You can be selfish and stingy to certain extend. Still frustrating and annoying! 🙃😢
Left over Foods- You rather threw away than gave it away! Beyond stingy! Wow! Don't you understand that other places around the world are shortage of food and starving and dying...??
Kuv niag txiv tsev neeg mas zoo kiag li tsev neeg no kuv niag txiv los cuaj khaum tsaj plaws li lawv muab lawv niag tub lawb kiag nrog kuv tsis hlub tsis saib tsis xyuas tsis tsob zeem wb ib niam txiv nrog rau kuv ob tug tub tib si ua neej nrog ib yim hmoob zoo li no mas nyuaj siab kawg li os ib tsoom hmoob
Cov neeg qia qia dub li ko mas kev tws sai sai os.....
Yog kawg
neeg qia dub thiab siab phem, yeej muaj tsis taus. txojkev muaj nov tsi yog nyiaj nkaus xwb. tus sister, you did the right thing. kuv yeej qhuas koj. koj yeej tiv kawg nkaus rau txojkev ua zoo. tus neeg ua phem yeej swb tus neeg ua zoo thiab coj zoo. tus dej nro yeej swb tus dej ntshiab. txojkev phem yeej kov tsis yeej txojkev zoo.
Koj qhov neej neeg no yog tshaj tiam yog tshaj zoo kaw
Luav tej laus twb ib txwm piv tias tus yuav muaj ces tseem qhib rooj lug noj los yeej muaj hos tus yuav pluag ces tseem kaw rooj nti noj los nws yeej yuav pluag tsuas ua tau li yus qhov peev xwm xwb os mog
People who greedy like this never succeed they did it to themselves.
That it true sisters
555 zoo kawg .
This is why niam pog will never be rich!. In order to recieve, yoy have to give also not just TAKE2 for your SAKE!!)
Yem xuam yem huam os mi niam tsev aw koj zoo txaus lawd !
Kuv los yeej los yuav tau ib tsev neeg qia qia dub thiab siab phem tshaj plaws
Tsum thiab lau no yog neej neeg mloog koom kev lom zem xwb txhob rhuav koj tsev neeg ma phoojywg
Yog ua neeg nyob thaum luag tuag yus tsi nrog luag tuag ces zoo lis ntawm los mas.
Koj tsis tas hloov mus qia dub li koj tus niam pog qia dub os koj kav tsij ua zoo qhov koj ua zoo nws zoo rau koj os mog.
It’s the lock on the freezer for me 😂😂
I have a Sister-in-law like this mother-in-law.
Some Hmoob only help because they expect help back.
Zaj no txhai tau hai tia tu nyab twg los yeej phem phem vim luag tej tia taw khau tsiv rauv neeg lau tsiv lus yu yeej txawj lau ib yam ib tug ua phem xws ib tug xwb os
Koj yog tus neeg phem ces hnub no koj thiaj tuaj hais nthuav tawm thiab pov lub txim phem rau koj niam pog txiv yawg ua tus ris.
The pull person they do what they deserve can’t complain but the rich people they never stick
This wife is a good wife, i like your open heart and open mind. Your husband is a lucky man. To a healthy and loving life.
Ua cas yuav muaj ib cov niam pog phem ua lauj li no thiab
Yus laus lawm ces kawg yus ua miv quaj xwb nawj...... yus yuav ua tsis tau tsov nyooj 6 tej tub ki li nawj.
Cov neeg nplaum ces tsis muaj luaj twg cov no ces tuag Los tsis muaj tus tuaj saib nyob Los tsis muaj phooj ywh
That's embarrassing for the mnl.
If you come from a not stingy, good, and just basically any kind of family all your life it is very hard to change. It is true when a family like your in-laws no one wants to come that is their karma which they deserve.
Tus neeg nplua nuj phooj ywg zoo tshaj tus neeg nplua nuj nyiaj. Nyiaj txawj tag phooj ywg tsis txawj tag.
Peb tej no noj nchuav ntws haus nchuav ntws qhib rooj lug tab sis yeej tsis pluag li os
Tsuas muaj vam zuj zus kev neej kev tsav kev kwv kev tij kev phooj kev ywg loj hlob nchuav ntws xwb
Omg this story is ridiculous.. who locks a fridge!.. I guess this mother in law does...😂😂🤣
Some people like a lot of guest some people just don’t like it.
Tus no puas yog peb tus niam ntxawm ne? Hahaha. Peb niam ntxawm se qiiiiiia qiiia dub tabsis muaj txog $100-200k nyiaj nyob hauv nws lub safe nyob hauv tsev tabsis tsis muaj neeg k li.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣muaj nyiaj lo yog quav qiag dub tsis muaj neeg xav nrog li. Lwm hnub pais kaws laws nqa tsis tau nyiaj mus nqa tau qhov kev zoo xwb.
Koj tus niam pog nplaum li ko yuav tau qhia cai me ntsis rau kom nws tsis tau chaw nkaum zaum puav mas nws thiaj li paub nyab lub maib tias tiam tshiab no nyab tsis need niam pog txojkev qhuab qhia.
Koj niam hlub neb 2 tug niam hlob dua vim nws tias niam Tij Hlob ua zoo nkauj heev ces nws hlubtus yau los nws hlub nws xav kom tau so nws tsis hlub koj tiag tiag li
I can't stand people like that, it's so annoying. I came from a family whose not stingy, my ex husband is a stingy person he only want to go eat at people's house especially my side of the family my ex husband never want to share anything with them just go over and eat won't even help cook foods.
Wow nplaum tshaj nplaum tabsis yog nplaum npaud cas ho hais tias zaub mocv mas tshuav ntau22 tsis muaj neeg noj thiab? Yog nplaum npaud ces kuj txhob npaj ntau2 zaub mov mas los
Tus niag pog laus ntawm ko tsis yog nplaum me me tsis yog nplaum thas mab Das nawb. Tseem tseem yog super glue tiag tiag hos.
Txhob rawm ntxub niam pog heev thiab ov koj xyuas seb koj lub peev xwm muaj npaum li cas ces ua li ntawv xwb nawb ua dhau 2 heev thaum koj txom nyuam tsis muaj neeg qhuas tias yog koj siab dawb mog luag cem hais tias yus tsis txawj txuag nyiaj yus thiaj tsis muaj no nawb txhob khav tias koj siab loj ov muaj ib hnub koj yuav mag cem li kuv thian ov
Dag xwb pob zaj neej neeg no na tam sim no tseem muaj cov coj li no thiab lo teb chaw no twb tsi tshaw noj lawm ne
Tus niam tsev aws koj tsuav koj tus niam pog ko nqe es koj thiaj li txais 1 pog nyaum li ko lo nrog koj nyob thaum luag taus taus luag twb tsis khes yus as cas koj ho yuav na tau 1 tug niam pog phem npaum ko ces cia nyias nypb nyias cas koj ho txais lo nyob meka teb nyob tsis tau 1 lub tsev hom niam pog phem li koj tus ko ces cia mus nyob taev laus cia mus nrog cov tij laug nyob cov niam pog coj li ko ces cia mus nyob tsev laus tsis tim cov nyab yog tim tus niam pog siab phem no xwb txhob nyob ua ke zoo dua cia mus nyob tsev laus zoo dua
You marry to the wrong family
That’s what happens when the mother n law are greedy asf they deserve more karma coming greedy people’s do not deserve good but shit neej siab me me
I agree with you. Why should greedy people who throw away food rather than give it to others deserve sympathy just because they’re old? No way, they lived their entire life greedy, they should not depend on others to help them.
Old story I heard already
Can't understand how you can be that greedy.
Sister. Do/care more about ur life than others. She does not like u, she will keep telling bad things about u till she die. All u say happen 2 many daughter in law life
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The reason they locked their freezer because they hide their cash in there a lot old people do that lol
Phem2 rau koj ua lauj ua cas Tseem yuav los nrog koj nyob thiab os don't talk too much to your daughter in law
Ntuj aw! Tej chaws no nqaij ntau li ntau es cas yuav cuaj nkaum ua luaj os niag poj hmoob no na
Lol I know...my freezer have no space n I need to cook all that's in my frig before it expires lol
@@nkaujhmoobvwj lol....are you sure you don’t need to lock your freezer?
@@yl7495 nope..its open..u can come get anything u need but some might be expires lol
@@nkaujhmoobvwj lol....I’ll be over soon!
Cia koj niam pog noj ob 2 3 xyoo los
Tus niam tsev no khav khav hais tias nws yog ib tus neeg siab dawb siab zoo tabsis ho yuav tsis tau nws tus niam pog. Tus niam tsev ua siab ntev os mog phem thiab zoo los nws yog koj niam pog es yuav tau hlub thiaj li tsis npam nawb. Koj zaj neej neeg no ces kuv tsis tshua ntseeg heev vim koj khav khav koj tus kheej tabsis ho siab tsis ntev rau koj niam pog. Koj yog ib tug nyab phem heev es koj thiaj li tuaj cem koj niam pog li no, cov nyab qhua koj ces phem li ko thiaj li qhua koj xwb os. Tsis muaj leej twg qhua koj li os. Koj cov niag Kwj tij los yog phem es thiaj li ua phem ib yam li koj. Laj mloog dhau lawm khav li khav xwb, niam pog twb yuav tsis tau. Pab koj txaj muag.
Koj ho zoo npaum twg thiab, qhia peb seb? Peb xav xyaum ua neeg zoo li koj thiab na?
She didn’t know how to be a good MIL. But you three nyab are not good at being nyab too.
Tus nyab no phem kawg thiab nawb tsis tau hnov dua ib tug nyab zoo li no. Cov niam pog mas yeej phem li no tsis hais leej twg Tus niam pog li
Tsis paub ua nyab zoo zoo li koj ne.