How to Become an Orthodox Nun or Monk

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  • @OrthodoxInsights
    @OrthodoxInsights 2 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    Long time, no hands Bojan.

    • @BanterWithBojan
      @BanterWithBojan  2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      I'm back ;-)

    • @OrthodoxInsights
      @OrthodoxInsights 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@BanterWithBojan in black no less.

    • @RealPJ
      @RealPJ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@BanterWithBojan Happy to see

  • @robertwaguespack9414
    @robertwaguespack9414 2 ปีที่แล้ว +205

    My one desire in this life is to become a monk. Please pray for me that I do the will of God.

    • @alexandrosderavena
      @alexandrosderavena ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Amin

    • @zippoamerika8794
      @zippoamerika8794 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      HE is waiting

    • @jamiestwrt
      @jamiestwrt 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I will.

    • @coleburns5497
      @coleburns5497 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You will, because you believe and desire this, God will bless you Amen.

    • @OQUINN83
      @OQUINN83 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      God desires you come to repentance and Trust in Jesus Christ.
      He became flesh IN Christ
      To die for the sins of those who repent and trust in Him.
      Not to become a Monk

  • @01ombladon
    @01ombladon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    Glad to see that your ghost came back too

    • @LoT-r4s
      @LoT-r4s 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🤣

  • @Primordial_Synapse
    @Primordial_Synapse 2 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    Apparently, several years ago in the country of Georgia, they had a problem with overcrowded prisons so they made a deal with the church where those convicted of minor offenses had the option of serving the rest of their sentences in a local monastery if they were well-behaved. I'm hazy on the details but to the best of my knowledge, this actually worked and many of those inmates actually enjoyed the time they spent there. It wouldn't surprise me if some of them stayed and went on to become fully tonsured monks.

    • @RachelLovelace
      @RachelLovelace ปีที่แล้ว

      Only in Eastern Europe. I love this as crazy as it sounds. So much better than the US releasing thousands of inmates back on to the streets due to being overcrowded only to rack up reoffences, assaults, larcenies, and murders. :(

  • @millier.206
    @millier.206 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    I always joke with my husband that if he passed away I’d become a nun, but the truth is, it’s not a joke 😅😂

    • @eddiedelisio
      @eddiedelisio 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He married a very good woman and must be quite worthy of you

    • @ms.rainh20teachesart
      @ms.rainh20teachesart 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same.

  • @justaway29
    @justaway29 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Ever since early of age, very often I seek God with love for truth. Though a Roman Catholic, my heart's more inclined to become Orthodox somedayand day by day of reading church history, life of saints,and the inspired word of God,the more I deny the world and its passions. I hope to become a Monk someday as a limp from stroke and have my heart full of love for truth grows stronger.

    • @Mountain_Storm
      @Mountain_Storm หลายเดือนก่อน

      If your heart pull you towards orthodoxy dont wait, check it out. There is no reason for waiting for that «someday» that is not how it works.

  • @crazycaiden1591
    @crazycaiden1591 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Discerning monastic life please pray for me that if it is Gods will, I will serve the Church truthfully ☦️

  • @PrairieMuffin
    @PrairieMuffin 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Please pray for me, my husband wants to leave me and if he does so, I think I might consider dedicating the rest of my life in constant service, prayer, and repentance.

  • @யேசுநேசன்
    @யேசுநேசன் 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    ☦️ my wish is to serve God in an Orthodox Monastery, I am visiting a monastery in the end of this month. Please pray for me to get accepted as a novice in this monastery, thank you! ☦️☦️☦️☦️☦️☦️☦️

  • @PhoebeK
    @PhoebeK 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Thanks for this, I am currently in the process of discerning which Monastic community to approach to test if it is a match and this video came at the right moment to help me understand the process. It is good to hear how it happens from a point of view other than the Orthodox Church in North America.

    • @juliaboon9741
      @juliaboon9741 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same but (nothing against Bojan) but I read pretty much exactly this on a Wiki. My real questions are more about daily tasks like how one bathes or eats. I know I could just approach a monastery but I’m shy and like to be prepared. Bojan sure did add some humour though.

    • @RachelLovelace
      @RachelLovelace ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@juliaboon9741 Don't worry about being prepared. You'll never go if that's the case. Just go. They are the most humble people. Also, go there to work and help if you have a chance. You'll develop relationships with them very quickly and they'll be happy to answer. Just know that most monastics practice silence out of humility. So, there is usually a monastic who receives visitors at larger monasteries as to keep the rest of the monastics in prayerful silence. So, don't just walk up to any monastic. Call before you go and let them know you're coming so they can receive you properly. There are nuns who by choice decide to never clean their hair again out of humility. They keep the fasts and do not nibble through the day although in some of the monasteries I've visited, they drink copious amounts of expresso (Shout out St. Siluoan's in Sonora, Ca.). Just realize that whatever the practice is, monasticism is humble acceptance and obedience and prayerful silence and dutifulness.

    • @juliaboon9741
      @juliaboon9741 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@RachelLovelace my nearest is very far away (a whole state away) and being prepared is kind of something you have to do and I can't just start helping out because of it

    • @elenichristou7738
      @elenichristou7738 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      If you follow your spiritual fathers guidance, you have nothing to worry about. First of all, tell him your thoughts and desire and he will help you with anything. Monasticism is all about obedience, so the first one that you must obey, is your father in God. If you have not yet have one, then try to find. All the other things, will come naturally. Don’t be afraid, neither anxious. If you want to ask anything, I will answer (if I know, of course!) I am getting ready to become a novice, so maybe I can help you.

  • @danielgr.6197
    @danielgr.6197 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    0:05 Bible Dimension Shift 😳
    I have considered monasticism too. But I'm torn back and forth. Sometimes I doubt that it is my vocation. So I'm still living in the world, praying. Thank you for the video, Bojane!

    • @fmayer1507
      @fmayer1507 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It takes time and you must have a real determination to do it by actually staying in a monastery for some time, a week and even more is correct as Bojan says. My son is a monk so I know it takes time and my son has been a monk for over 20 years so I have some insight into this process. Each monastery has differences so you need to work closely work with the elders so that you understand what is expected from you so you can honestly comit.

    • @danielgr.6197
      @danielgr.6197 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@fmayer1507 Thank you for your reply! Yes, I plan to visit a monastery as a pilgrim first and I am going to approach my bishop for recommendations as well.

  • @siegeheavenly3601
    @siegeheavenly3601 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Are you threatening to cut my monastic beard with those scissors in the thumbnail?

  • @misha.2077
    @misha.2077 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Good to have you back, Bojan.
    Been waiting for new video to ask a question.
    Recently my spiritual father was transferred to a different parish over 4 hours away and I'm having a very difficult time connecting with the other priest (we had 2 priests until recently). He is much older than my spiritual father and uses rather archaic language. The older parishioners love him but the younger folks, myself included, have been having a hard time understanding him, especially his homilies.
    It has been difficult staying in contact with my spiritual father via digital communication as he's been extremely busy attending to his new parish. You had mentioned that your spiritual father lived in another country. So I thought I would ask if you happen to have any advice on this issue or have encountered a similar problem.
    Thanks.

  • @marcohernandez5322
    @marcohernandez5322 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am Catholic and i love your videos. They are very informative. And explain very well the ortodox faith. Please continue your wonderful work. And God bless you my sibling in Christ.

  • @RachelLovelace
    @RachelLovelace ปีที่แล้ว +2

    GREAT video and excellent advice! This is what I have found as well. :) For converts considering monasticism, make sure you are visiting monasteries and getting to know them. You also may want to travel and visit other monasteries. If you find one that feels right, visit with them as often as possible and develop that relationship. - Again, thank you for making this quick video. Perhaps the most concise guidance I've heard on the subject on TH-cam.

  • @fmayer1507
    @fmayer1507 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Good video on this topic. This is a simple and honest outline of how the process basically works.

  • @RealPJ
    @RealPJ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love to see a new video

  • @oj6919
    @oj6919 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Very helpful thank you Bojan! 😇
    I have a question: why are there so much more male saints in the orthodox church? I know that there are also many female saints but it seems that much more men become saints. In the prayers we also just mention "holy fathers" and in the synaxarion most saints we read about are male as well.
    I hope you can answer my question, may our Lord Jesus Christ bless you and your family 🙏🏻❤️☦️

  • @jesusacuna309
    @jesusacuna309 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    There's a ghost speaking into your ear

  • @GeorgeK2812
    @GeorgeK2812 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    8:49 Patriarch Demetrios retained his secular name although changing of the name is mandatory. So the rule isn't universal apparently.

  • @yankaufmann9715
    @yankaufmann9715 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you

  • @dj393
    @dj393 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A young woman at my parish told me she could not wait to become a nun so she would not have the problems she is having. 😮😮

  • @carolflower9672
    @carolflower9672 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Bojan: Thank you for this. Is it possible to join a monastery when you are in your 60's ? Please & Thank You

    • @BanterWithBojan
      @BanterWithBojan  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Absolutely, no upper age limit :)

  • @carlrosenbaum3754
    @carlrosenbaum3754 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesomeness

  • @gabemoog3332
    @gabemoog3332 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I heard my friend got his name changed in Mt.Athos. Does it mean he's a lifetime rasophore and I'll never see him again? Ever?

  • @hannahs1683
    @hannahs1683 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for this

  • @Flammenhagel
    @Flammenhagel 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    lol bojan sometimes turns into an andy kaufman character

  • @noahlindgren1014
    @noahlindgren1014 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When the sneaky bishop gives you a quick haircut

  • @Mexicta
    @Mexicta 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    iam a teen but iam seeking to become a monk when i become a Adult and i hope to even go to one located in Georgia or Russia

  • @randallgoulet1550
    @randallgoulet1550 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Is this guy that does the voice overs for Bible Illustrated?

    • @BanterWithBojan
      @BanterWithBojan  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Don't watch Bible Illustrated

    • @randallgoulet1550
      @randallgoulet1550 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@BanterWithBojan why not?

    • @BibleIllustrated
      @BibleIllustrated 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@randallgoulet1550bad channel, horrible art, headed by people of suspect character

  • @driftaway2806
    @driftaway2806 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I can't find anything online about your scissor reference

  • @danwilliams8230
    @danwilliams8230 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    On a tangent. I am being received into the Orthodox church on the feast of the Dormition 28 August. I am so very much struggling to chose a saints name. Please could you help? I am Welsh, but like the welsh saints celtic Britain Patrick (Padrig in welsh) or St nicholas the wonderworker. Or st seraphim because of his teaching on praying the lestovka to the Mother of God.

    • @joer9156
      @joer9156 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What name did you end up taking?

    • @kaidenhall2718
      @kaidenhall2718 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      What did you choose

  • @bgail7669
    @bgail7669 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you ~

  • @brettdavidson1140
    @brettdavidson1140 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Do they require monetary arrangements? $

  • @TheDavidRickeychan
    @TheDavidRickeychan 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Do you know if you become a monk are you allowed to leave to attend a family funeral etc or if you are an executor for a family member to deal with that etc

  • @elliotdavies1418
    @elliotdavies1418 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I want to live in a Orthodox religious that lives according to the rule of Saint Augustine.

    • @joer9156
      @joer9156 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I don't think there are any Orthodox Augustinian monasteries. I imagine the closest you'd get are the Orthodox Western Rite Benedictine monasteries.

    • @thekatarnalchemist
      @thekatarnalchemist 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Orthodoxy doesn't have monastic orders like the Catholic Church does. It's just monasticism.

  • @Sheepythemanz2021
    @Sheepythemanz2021 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    One of my principles was a Greek orthodox monk!

    • @J..P..
      @J..P.. 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Huh?

  • @carsonbaird3904
    @carsonbaird3904 ปีที่แล้ว

    could make one on how to become a priest?

  • @ARTHUR-kz8uy
    @ARTHUR-kz8uy 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I wish to become one

  • @Panagia120
    @Panagia120 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow that's really interesting.

  • @Jiggelmeister
    @Jiggelmeister ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Bojan what is this reflection Im seeing on your left 😂

    • @BanterWithBojan
      @BanterWithBojan  ปีที่แล้ว +7

      That is my fourth channel, Bible Illustrated Ghost
      (Also, cracked glass on the phone :)

  • @gabinepotu1739
    @gabinepotu1739 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can you make a video defendinh the use of icons?

  • @bobies480
    @bobies480 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I want to become a monk so badly but I live in Iran and there's no monastery lol (:

  • @robertwaguespack9414
    @robertwaguespack9414 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Do the monks take the same vows that they do in the West? Poverty Chastity Obedience?

  • @lejterfritz3352
    @lejterfritz3352 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    If you are a convert can you join the monastery to become monk inmediately after chrismation without hesitating?

    • @mariorizkallah5383
      @mariorizkallah5383 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Immediately upon being received into the Church? That’s probably not recommended and depends on your own spiritual maturity

  • @zephyrr108
    @zephyrr108 ปีที่แล้ว

    whats with the scissors on the thumbnail?

  • @robertwaguespack9414
    @robertwaguespack9414 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is there any monastery that would allow me to go to them and pray with them?

    • @PhoebeK
      @PhoebeK ปีที่แล้ว

      Most monestries are welcoming to guests for visits and services, just look up any local to you and contact them to organises a visit.

  • @Officialvrax
    @Officialvrax 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My one dream is to become a orthodox monk

  • @nyssian7264
    @nyssian7264 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bojan have you ever considered becoming a monk if not why not?

  • @u-shanks4915
    @u-shanks4915 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What are the penalties

  • @JaythePandaren
    @JaythePandaren 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Bojan I hope you're keeping well. I wanted to ask. How did you feel about the Calf worship that went on at the 2022 Common wealth games? I thought it was cringe and very odd ceremony and it reminded me so much of when moses witnessed his people worship the golden calf. I like one part though. The bull I think the bull was Cool and the metal music kicked in as if a massive boss battle was about to take place was pretty cool.

  • @emsdiy6857
    @emsdiy6857 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Could you please explain how having icans are different from the 2 ed commandment ?please,Thank you.

    • @HomoEucharistica
      @HomoEucharistica ปีที่แล้ว

      Didn't there be images of cherubim, bulls etc. in the Tabernacle and in Solomon's temple? So the 2nd commandment is not about forbidding images, but the point was that they were not allowed to do images of God. Why? Because God was not incarnated at that time! When God appeared to the Israelites at the Mount Sinai, they didn't see any form, and therefore they were not allowed to make images of God - images of angels and animals and plants and humans were not banned in themselves. But when Jesus Christ came in flesh, God got a visible form in Him, and therefore Christians have depicted Christ in many images from very beginning. Making images of God the Father or the Holy Spirit is still heretical (and that's where Roman Catholics and some Protestants have gone astray).
      The 2nd commandment can be understood also in other way, but that's enough "storytelling" for now.

    • @streamcake3493
      @streamcake3493 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Icons ? We do not worship a picture,we worship the one who is on picture

  • @chipcole4817
    @chipcole4817 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lol at the thumbnail

  • @VienasKunasIrVienaDvaisa
    @VienasKunasIrVienaDvaisa 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is there an age limit? Can someone being 30-40 years old enter?

    • @dimitrap5615
      @dimitrap5615 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I know of nuns that entered the monastery at the age of 80. So no, ideally there is not :)

  • @CaribouDataScience
    @CaribouDataScience หลายเดือนก่อน

    Can a Tran become a nun?

  • @valorantandbg
    @valorantandbg 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey, Can i be a Monk if im 15 years old ?

    • @J..P..
      @J..P.. 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      No, they will expect you to wait until you come of age. You can begin preparing today though. Speak with your spiritual father about it, go on pilgrimages with your parents and begin living the aesthetical life in preparation for the monastic life.

    • @Melancholian
      @Melancholian 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Generally no but visit the monastery you want to join a lot then when you are 18 join

  • @ENFPerspectives
    @ENFPerspectives 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How come nuns are mean to children in schools?

    • @user-vv1do1wg1j
      @user-vv1do1wg1j 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      we arent papists bro

  • @locutorest
    @locutorest 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Do the Orthodox have Postulants?

    • @PhoebeK
      @PhoebeK 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      There is not normally a distinction between a novice and a Postulant in most communities, some communities do make a distinction but it is normally just considered part of the novitiate. If it is spoken about it is a way of helping Westerners understand the process.

  • @whitecloud-so1gk
    @whitecloud-so1gk 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Извини, а на чему је тај одраз поред тебе? 😁

    • @orthodoxy6470
      @orthodoxy6470 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      His phone is broken or it's his ghost

    • @whitecloud-so1gk
      @whitecloud-so1gk 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@orthodoxy6470 the second one is more likely

  • @thomasflaswinkel8819
    @thomasflaswinkel8819 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Docker Débuter.

  • @KE4VVF
    @KE4VVF 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    They need to have a Professional Nun Wrestling Television Show. I envision one Nun choking another with a Prayer Rope. It would make lots of money for the Nunnery.
    Christ is Risen!

    • @Bellg
      @Bellg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      delete this

    • @Luka-lw5tl
      @Luka-lw5tl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Really untasteful and unfunny

  • @MrPodvig
    @MrPodvig 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can I bring my wife?

    • @porteal8986
      @porteal8986 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      only if you are christ and your wife is the church

    • @juliaboon9741
      @juliaboon9741 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      No. Actually there is a great story of Saint Peter and Saint Febronia of Murom who were married. Later in life both become monks and were separated but requested that when they died they’d be buried together. Monks aren’t allowed to be buried together so they didn’t do that when they died. But after they were buried they found that the bodies had been moved and both were found in the same grave! They removed them and put them back but it happened again! So they left them in the same grave!

    • @MrPodvig
      @MrPodvig 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow!

  • @sandro9237
    @sandro9237 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dunno man, orthodoxy? Sounds quite heretic.

    • @joer9156
      @joer9156 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Are you joking?

    • @jamiestwrt
      @jamiestwrt 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Really? Hahaha

    • @jetjaguar4285
      @jetjaguar4285 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Are you catholic?