Learning how to be good parents! [The Return of Superman/2020.05.17]
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▶The Return of Superman | 슈퍼맨이 돌아왔다 - Ep.329
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I think both parents are too soft and scared to hurt jamjam feel if they say no to her, but it's nice to see them getting a help from the expert to correct it
@Debora Egha I read a story from somewhere I couldn't remember where, a mom was with her kid at the supermarket. The kid wanted something but the mom didn't allow. So the kid was about to get on the floor and throw a tantrum but instead the mom threw a tantrum first and rolled about on the floor. The kid was embarrassed and never dared to throw a tantrum again. lol.
@qυιηтεssεηтιαl qυεεη lmaooo
@@anonymoushue
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@@anonymoushue This sounds hilarious and just about right! I once saw a video of a child who was wailing really loudly, yet when their father joined in, they immediately stopped crying and just stared at him. It's funny how when grown ups replicate their behaviour, they realise how disturbing it is.
Maybe it's because they're young parents? Don't we younger generations always feel like our parents being overly strict that's why we promise to ourselves instead of being a dictator we want to be our children's friend. However a lot of people do not know where to draw the line.
Did anyone else get shocked and think Jam Jam and her dad were swearing when they bleeped out the words HAHA
I thought so too😂😂 I was like WHAT
Me too, especially because kids that age in my country already know curse words
It is like unnecessary censorship 🤣
yeahh LOL
Me too 😂
But props to mom and dad for being humble in inviting this expert into their home and on television to call out what they were doing wrong. They acted very calm and patient. I was feeling defensive for them 😂 but it shows their humility and real love for jamjam that they want to become better parents for her. Role models.
exactly. a lot of older parents nowadays won't even be able to set aside their pride so that they can learn better as a parent. i was feeling defensive for them too but the expert clearly knows their explanation even before they say it! 😄
If something isn’t adding up and doesn’t making sense clearly you’re doing it wrong or not enough. Sometimes we have to listen, being taught to understand, and learn to not repeat mistakes. Just because we’re an adult doesn’t mean we’re right or knows better than experts who are educated in this field. It’s ok to get correct it is part of learning. What the parents did asking for help and learning from it was a great things. They will learn and even be a better parent than they are already.
The one thing I notice about her. She runs the parents specially the dad . He gives in too easily . So it's good they decided to bring that child expert in
Shirley Jones I do agree. Her dad dotes her a lot
@@ttl02 *dotes on her
That's very true. But I think it's because she's the first and only child 😅
Shay Bee and fathers tends to be soft towards daughters
@@user-dv9xi1sp5x not all though
Dr. Oh :
"She's more developed than kids her age"
"She has great linguistic skills"
"She's very good at expressing herself"
"She understands fast"
These are true, even in the earlier episodes i was amazed at how she can communicate clearly with everyone even when she wasn't yet fluent at talking. She also understand quickly when her parents told her to do or not to do something.
And it made me smile as she tidy up her toy when her parents refused to turn on the toy. Many other kids would probably slam it down instead lol
I think most kids who tidy up their stuff are taught by their parents. They usually dont start on their own and I love those type of parents who teach their kids basic manners from young age instead of thinking they will learn on their own once they grow up.
@@hafsasheikh3729 yes
I think constantly talking to them at a young age will result to this.
@@ayssu3796 yes
The thing about jam is that she reads the situation and adapts and improves quickly...she also corrected her mistakes ..I was shocked because kids arent that smart ... And don't do that often ..they insist on getting their own way and sometimes don't eat for hours so parents give up
Yah, I think she has a high EQ
This is true, and from that first meeting with hao whenever her dad tells her that this is something that she shouldn’t do (pulling his hair, pulling him to her) she listens and applies it instantly. Her dad also uses different strategies to teach her things, which is a good thing in addition to consulting an expert.
Actually children are very smart. I guess you didn't get anything from the video but children are very smart. It's just that parents try to control them without thinking, while giving in to them at the same time.
I was surprised to see her clean up after herself after understanding her parents wouldn't open it for her. Most kids her age I know would have started bawling and causing a tantrum and the parents would just give in.
I was so chocked she put the video game back in the box, usually kids just leave it when it doesn't work.
i enjoy watching the return of superman for various reasons, and this is one of them. being able to see not only the child but the parent grow and learn makes me feel a sense of proudness. through this show, i'm also learning how to be able to be a good parent when the day comes.
I agree with you, this show is all that and more.
I just wanna comment this haha.
@@jme4567 agree love the pic btw army forever
sorry but do you mind me asking who's in your pfp? 🤗
@@laur-unstagenameactuallyca1587 he's hwang hyunjin from stray kids
i know it's a show, but i really appreciate parents who really seek help in parenting. most parents (mostly from boomer gen) would just think they can do anything because they're the parent and the child is just their child. they have this mindset of "meh my parents did it to me so it's ok if i do it to my child too because i turned out ok" without even actually communicating to the child. it's like that in our household, and now all 4 of us siblings have strained relationships with both our parents.
Yea, its like a hole in the society. Once in my country, a dad beaten his child (less than 10yo) until they bleeds. When the netizen bashed him, he said his dad did the same he just copy the same parenting he had. Which looking back at it, id say the dad had a sad and tough childhood.
@@adylaar6708 that's terrible but I'm glad he learned.
SO VERY TRUE! I'm so glad the generation after is learning that that is a horrible and childish approach. Why have a child or children for that matter if you're just going to repeat bad parenting skills just because you had to endure it to? How immature 🙄
@@Cindy99765 He didn't learn.. he killed his child.
@@adylaar6708 That is a father who blames his childhood and his father for an act he has committed and to which he knows it is wrong. Way to not own up to our actions. That is immaturity at best.
This woman is like the Korean super nanny
TheSparkleina my thoughts exactly
literally what i was thinking ahahah supernanny of koreaa
Shes like nanny mcphee hahaha
exactlyyyy
Omg you remind me of my childhood, it's my fav tv programme
I hope the same expert assess hao. I'm really curious how is he so advanced for his age
Yeahhhhh..... Id love that too...i love him so much
What does seeing the expert have to do with how advanced hao is? The expert dosent study how a kid is so advanced or things like that
Hao too good and too cute 😂😂
mr hands thats true but the expert is a child psychologist which means she can assess the external stimuli which led hao to be advanced in some way
Hao is already eating by himself gary know how things work
I suddenly remember the triplets. Ilkook and his wife must've a hard time raising them especially they're all boys but they did great. They don't have lot of toys in their house because their mom wanted them to use their body and play together instead and when they did something wrong ilkook always correct them by something like facing the wall (thinking chair), the 10 second rule, hugs and kisses after a fight and other stuff. Their way of raising them is so on point look how kind the triplets are.
Think about donguk's children there were 5 with two sets of twins. Must have been harder that the triplets
narcissa malfoy Oh yes! Dongguk too. But he's lucky enough that the twins are all girls and the first twin are old enough to know what's right from wrong and they even help taking care of their dongsaengs. But yeah, dongguk did a great job too!
I absolutely started missing song illkook and his triplets because of how well he and his wife trained them by making sure they played with each other rather than play with toys and ate food only in the kitchen and washed their own dishes as they got older. They were my fav family to watch
Triplets are my all time fave in TROS. i miss them 😭😭😭
this comment made me miss the triplets 😭😭
Being softspoken/gentle isn't same with spoiling. Her parents are gentle and always softspoken doesn't mean they are spoiling her. We can see the difference with how she assess the situation after being told not to do something. She was clearly thinking why she wasn't get what she wants and react accordingly after that. Spoiled kid would probably crying harder, slammed the toys, or even throwing tantrum. Her parents are already doing good job bringing her up and provide her full of love with how kind, sweet, and thoughtful she acted as we can see in her previous episodes.
And i am a bit baffled about the honorific parts. Isn't is a good thing to teach kids how to speak politely? And polite doesn't equal authority. Parents can still be friends and close with their children even with polite speech. Even the best parents according to tros viewer, song il kook, were using honorifics when converse with his triplets.
i think the difference is that with ilkook and the triplets, the triplets also speak in honorofic towards ilkook. while in jamjam's case, the expert probably find it concerning that it's just the parents talking to her in honorific so probably, it isn't working. idk, it's just my observation though.
@@zh6474 actually, jamjam also speak in honorifics with her parents, sometimes mixed with casual speech same with her parents too when speak with her. But, of course, that's only what we viewers can see on screen. We don't know at what degree they communication status with each other.
@@qeia5644 it's actually common for koreans to mix informal and formal speech. same goes for the expert. she was there for just a couple of hours so it's understandable that she would only comment on the things she observed during that specific time.
i think the context here is important. in my opinion, the expert was solely focusing on the part wherein the parents need to be assertive in the context of let's say, making her eat or telling her that this or that is dangerous. the dropping of honorifics would then be to show authority, that their words should be listened to and followed, rather than having a begging or pleading tone which usually comes with using honorifics. not to mention, the voice the parents use isn't very assertive and almost always yielding, which the expert also pointed out.
@@zh6474 I love your interpretation of the situation and I completely agree 👍
Who will not love little angel.. her smile and her little dance move makes my heart jump😍
I think actually JamJam can eat well by herself considering how she can use the spoon and chopsticks. I even remember we marvel at how deliciously she enjoyed her meals In the previous episodes 🤔 Maybe as HeeJun stated in the lasted episode, she’ve just become a little stubborn lately. However children aren’t robots so we can’t expect them all nice and obedient
now its look like super nanny.
but better
OMG I remember that show
Anna Lara the nanny in super nanny?? Her name is Jo Frost and this doctors name is Oh Eunyoung if u were asking about her
but the kids are less bratty and annoying lol
I know right
When jamjam becomes an idol I will be her fan.
Edit: Thank you for the likes. I never had this much likes before thank you... ❤️
Me too.. we'll run a fan club 👍
@@sleepysnail5502 how old will you be by then? Hahhahahahhahahahhhhahaah
@@bijouruby1075 We'll all be an Ajumma fan club. 😆 lol 👵🙌
They'll have to put a special section for the elderly at her concerts for all the fans who've loved her since TROS 😂👵
@@ericaalvarado8592 Hahahahahahahaha hahahahahahahahaha.....
Jam Jam is so smart.. and yes, she might rebels once in a while. She's a KID. that is normal. At some point, they WILL try to push the boundary a bit just to see how much they can get away with. That doesnt mean they are spoiled or a brat, it just means they are human. That is normal behavior as they are growing up and learning their ways in this world. Even adults do that in our every day life: e.g: when you are bargaining for deals, when you are negotiating business deals, when you bend the rules a bit at work~..
What is more important is how she reacts when it is clear she won't be getting her way. Here we can see how quickly she adapted, bounced back, and make the best of the situation. Yes, she DID express that she was upset at first (this is normal!! same as when we complain if we have to stay for overtime at work)but she didn't throw any unnecessary temper tantrum.
To those who complain her parents dote on her too much. There's a DIFFERENCE between spoiling your kid and LOVING them.
Her parents are gentle with her. But that doesn't mean they let her do whatever she wants regardless if it was wrong or not.
Last time when she was wasting tissues and littering everywhere because she was bored, her dad patiently explained to her why that was wrong and tried, again and again, to make sure she understands.
I really admire Jam Jam parents for their gentle way of communicating with their child.
While there is nothing wrong in getting an expert pov and advice - as ofc it's good to learn new things, imho Hee Jun and Soyul are already amazing parents.
Children are little humans NOT little robots. You can't expect them to instantly know whats right and wrong, instantly obey everything you told them to do, be docile and polite and perfect angels 24/7. Are you yourselves like that even now when you are all grown up?
I think that it's a good move that they asked for expert help. I also observed that the expert seemed to be in a hurry after she knew what was wrong with what the parents are doing. She is not spoiled yes and she receives a lot of attention but it could go wrong even if you say she is too young. The most important stage to discipline a person is when they are a child (at least that's what from what I've read). They learn a lot and what adults say that is right or wrong instills in their brain. I believe in the saying "teach your child in the way he should go, and when he's old he will not depart from it"(not the exact words maybe, but the thought is there).
thank you
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When Dr. Oh stops smiling parents are dead inside 😂😂
Am really glad they brought the child psychologist back seriously, i've learnt alot today on how to relate with children's tantrum. ( learning for the future) waowwwwww.....She also needs to visit the Hammington family, William is on the "leave the house mode" lately, we need to know what stage of puberty he's operating on. Hahhahahahahahahahahahahahahhahaahahhahhaha.....
Agree
Thank you Dr. Oh Eun Young! Salute to Heejun appa and Soyul eomma for being humble. It is not easy to have someone observing and giving critique to your parenting style.
Imagine her parents must had a hard time choosing this life but seeing her is just worth it uwuuu imagine that this awaits so many kpop idols
It's nice to see an expert come in to help the parents. I've noticed in a few other episodes JamJam fake crying to get what she wants. Parenting is hard and there is no manual to teach you everything so having a expert there to guide you is so helpful.
I have never seen the parents being strict to Jam Jam and were always cute, I have seen many parents like this in real life too, so this is a good reminder.
Lol.. it also doesn't help because jam jam is such a cutie that want to give her anything she asks for
the child expert is good at reading the kid’s behavior and jamjam is such a kind girl, she’s a quick learner too. anyway can jamjam meet hwang hyunjin from stray kids? they really look alike imo it would be a very fun episode both are drama queens 😂😂
I'm so glad Dr. Oh showed up for this family. I think they really needed her guidance. I never wanted to say much about this, especially since I love Jam Jam so much, but since it's the focus of this segment I will. I noticed that Jam Jam's parents are very soft with her. Just last week with the whole trash fiasco, Heejun played games with her to coerce her into picking up her mess. He could have just said, "clean it up, now", and if she refused give her the appropriate consequences, but he seemed to be fearful of just laying down the law. Jam Jam isn't a baby anymore, or barely even a toddler, she's a growing child. She needs rules and guidance. I'm glad Dr. Oh told them to be direct and upfront with her, and not give her options and choices to do whatever she wants. I hope to see much greatness from this lovely family.
song ilkook and sam is a good parents too i like the way how they teach thier child in a good manners
I strongly agree with youu! (Missing those days of triplets in TROS 🤗).
the triplets' dad and the twins' dad are good parents. they both can be strict and be fun too
Dongguk appa tooo
johoo too!
@@19_a1_keisyaameliaartanti3 park jooho more like clumsy and lovely dad
While me: single for 19 years
And watch: "how to be a good parents"
Such an ironic :')
Dr. Oh: "When they get hungry, let them feel hunger"
Jam Jam: "I'm hungryyy!!!"
What a perfect timing!
I really love Dr. Oh when it comes to parental advices or counselling. 💙
Uwah I'm waiting for Hao and Gary to do this.
This contrast is so interesting for me, in the same episode here is Jam Jam not having enough boundaries set for her by her parents and there's William complaining to Sam that he keeps telling the boys "Don't do this." (though I still think Sam gives Bentley a lot more leeway compared to William...)
I understand most dad's treat their first child (especially daughters) like a precious gem and always give in to their whims... But kids really do need their parents to help them set a disciplined routine for their activities. Shower time, dinner time, play time, sleep time. At 2-3 years old they have to start learning boundaries and control as part of their social development.
Did the Psychiatrist go to Sam’s house? What episode?
I noticed that Song Il Kook was doing this with the triplets a long time ago, i think he already consulted a child psychologist knowing he'd be taking care of 3 children all at once. 😂😅
I do agree
I remembered the days when the Song triplets climbing their high chairs waiting for their dad to serve them food and they eat on their own. Jamjam can do things on her own, just like that ep.on her first day at daycare. But because her parents let her do what she wants, like the doctor said, she gets fussy when she doesn't have it her way. Good training 👍
Jamjam is a good girl, she is polite and have a good education, she just need to know that she can’t have everything that she want.
Bruh I'm young... Don't have kids yet but I'm learning so much 😂😂😂. It looks so hard gosh. I can feel the torture for them
Same
I love how Song Ilkook is still being mentioned here. This is just my opinion but he really is the gold standard of parenting. There's just a perfect balance of discipline and affection. I mean, it's different for every parent because not all children are the same so as long as it works, do you, parents. 😁 Also I miss the triplets so much! T^T
Same 😭
@@sweetlies8384 They're all grown up nooow. ❤️❤️
@@crymealiver5078 i know i regretted so much i watch them just this year 😭
@@crymealiver5078 you're an exol 😍
@@sweetlies8384 That's okay!! This is why Song Ilkook decided to do the show. He wanted to make memories with the boys and it's immortalized now through the show so it can reach everyone no matter how many years have passed. The triplets are still gaining popularity even after all these years and it makes me sooo happy. ❤️
Tros is not only entertaining, but also educational 👍
In Jamjam's mind, this woman is hipnotizing her parents from sweet to being a lil bit strict.
Jamjam has a loving family nearly getting her spoiled in everything. But sometimes parenting is not always giving what the child wants. It might be her habit while she is growing.
I remembered when I was a child, I get a smack on the butt if I wont obey my parents or any bad deeds ive done. But that doesnt mean they dont care for me.
I am a new viewer of this show. I am not a parent yet, but this shows helped me to know more about parenting. I really love this show ❤
This was a really insight episode. I was not expecting to see this perspective 👍
Heejun and soyul are doing well as a parents they teach her with full of love and always support whatever she gonna do as long as they're not dangerous for her, they're just need to improve a little bit to tell her what is must to do and not to do even though she want it. Jam jam is quick learner she's smart, cheerful, considerate, and pure adorable cute lil baby everyone are whipped for her including those psychologist😂
they are young first time parents and even though they literally love jamjam A LOT and you can see it in their eyes and family dynamic, it was still very smart of them to call on an expert for the very fact that they are first timers. it is good to be soft but not to soft with kids, but especially at her age since she's ready for discipline. I was getting a bit defensive on behalf of the parents hahaha but obviously the expert knows what she's doing.
I hope she gets over with the fake crying. You will instantly know everytime she do it.
When I was little even when I truly cried my parents said," Crying wont get you out of trouble/Crying won't make us say yes(if something didnt go the way I wanted it to)"
@@galendezantonette5149 damn ur parents have a great manner 👏
@@onsi789 same thing with my brother..
@@galendezantonette5149 my parents will cane me if I do it...
@@galendezantonette5149 i don’t think that’s right.
Finally. She is definitely being treated to “casually/fairly”. That is an amazing child expert, I’m glad they got her help.
"Thank you for giving birth to me" that surprised me whoa, where did she learn to talk like that? Is that normal in South Korea? How beautiful that she knows gratitude and appreciation on that level at her age :o
I remember a TROS Episode where Seol-Su also said that
My heart melted on that “thank you for giving birth to me” ❤️
I’m learning a lot from this show because I have many younger cousins and it’s sort of hard to discipline them when I babysit them so this video tremendously helped me to know how I should treat them correctly. Kids always gets fussy and fake a cry when things don’t go their way and it’s our job as the caretaker to notice these behavior and react accordingly. I never want to raise my voice or pretend to be mad but sternly reminding them instead of scolding them is better so I’m definitely going to keep this in mind. Her parents are really great in trying to become better parents, impressive! 👏🏼
Me realizing this girl is quite smart for her age when she started to talk about feeding the dinosaur👁👄👁
"Thank you for giving birth to me" OMG what a grateful little kid 😂
oh wow this was a good episode!! ive noticed that they're very light hearted towards jamjam and i understand it's hard to scold your child when you love them so much. this will help the parents have more authority over her and furthermore help her develop a sense of "respect" for her parents and "fear" of getting scolded or hurt when she's doing something wrong!! kuddos to the parent's for showing this on live television!
If we don’t discipline our children they will not turn for the better but at the same time we still need to show them love because if we are to streaks to them they’re not going to turn the way we wanted them to be but of course discipline is a must to every parent ☺️
I think JamJam is a smart kid. She learns and adapts quickly to the situation. The fact that she didn't throw a tantrum like most kids I know would, and actually packed up the game back into the box without anyone telling her to makes me proud for some reason lol.
Watching this made me reflect on myself too. Before, I also used to say things like Heejun saying "If you fall, you might bleed here" because I thought that I had to explain to make the kid understand the consequences that might happen...
this is the first time i’ve watched a full video in a while but i feel like i trust this doctor with my life
I'm not surprised by this change at all. I think it's just a transition thing with growing up, I don't have any kids but i was a baby sitter and i cared for this little boy who was a little under a year a half old, he was the sweetest and alway listened, but by the time he was too he didn't anymore and he cried for everything, i think it's important to know when to stop treating your child like a baby. This doctor lady had some great advice. Jam Jam just needs to become used to the fact that she isn't a baby anymore:3
I need this expert woman in my life. Not to teach kids but my husband. 😆
this three family is so lovely and cute
She is full of energy in that tiny little body .... super cute baby!
What a great episode!! Looks like she came just in the nick of time to help these young, first-time parents out!
kbs really needs to invite hwang hyunjin. they look so much alike and are even both overly dramatic so cute
Woah, now i remembered, my mom used to do this when i was a child, she will let me cried and screamed til i tired myself 😂😂
What the expert is saying is exactly the same way how Ilkook (Daehan, Minguk, and Mansae's father) was doing. He is a great model superman.
Agreed!!!!!! Best ever
I hope one day Jam Jam can be a kpop idol like her parents. But yes, it's her choice
Jam Jam is such a clever girl oh my god. It's incredible to hear the expressions she already uses from that young age. I see she will be a big person in the future and that she will always live surrounded by love. She is so caring, cute and thankful
Im just 18 but Im learning a lot about parenting in this show omg HAHAHA. I hope William would have checked by expert too, He acts and think matured from his age. He even thinks on running away.
i love the way soyul starring at her husband. beautiful family 💞❤️
For the food thing my parents too did what the counselor adviced...I would sometimes cry and throw a tantrum but they didn't get angry ..even if I did it for hours they would just sit and fed me later silently !!😊😊😊...and kudos to these parents, it takes courage to actually show up what's done wrong and how they are corrected
I used to hate that my parents do their parenting that way cause I thought they we're really strict, but now I realized it was the right way
It's Feb. 2021 and I miss JAMJAMMMII
Jam jam's mom is so pretty, I really like it when she shows up from time to time ❤️
The fact that Ilkook- the triplets father already used all these methods himself- the triplets used to eat by themselves, he was stern when required, gave kids time to think 😊
oh my god i thought jamjam and heejun cursed when they censored what they were saying earlier in the video.
One of the reasons why I watched this show.👍👏 Educational
1:16 she's a natural performer artist! like born to be one. i love how she enjoyed that by herself and nobody is pushing her to be one. she just acts the way she feels. i love her innocent heart
14:09 That hand gesture thou.. *WIFEY HELP* 😅😂
Exactly. You can love your kids and praise them but when they’re being bad, you have to be firm with them. Sugarcoated words will only make them not take you seriously. I understand that you want to coddle them but you have to know when to be firm and when to be nice. Especially at that age, that’s when they’re learning right from wrong and whining to get what they want.
in that age i was so stubborn to the point my mom told me that i choose to starving than agreeing to my parents command... jamjam is so smart
I think a lot parents may be afraid of their child being angry at them or hating them and saying those dreaded words, "I hate you" so they might be afraid to discipline. But to tell the truth, as long as you treated them right and gave them a lot of love there's no need to be afraid of that.
As a parent, you are your child's entire _world_ . You are their guardian, their protector, the person they depend on the most. Even if they do say, "I hate you" they don't really mean it. It's more like they just don't like you at the very moment and was just really angry.
There were a lot of times I just didn't like my mom because of silly reasons but that didn't mean I stopped loving her. I've seen some of kids yell, "I hate you" and after they calmed down they come back and apologize because they didn't really mean it. Of course it does vary not all kids will act the same and it depends on how they were raised.
It's even sadder when you see families with the most abusive parents yet there are people who say "even though they hit me and hurt me I can't help but still love my parents."
Yes, you should love and protect your child but you should also discipline them. The job isn't to protect your child from everything, it's to make sure they grow up into an adult and be able to take care of themselves when you're not around.
Don't doubt your child's love for you. You are quite literally all that they have. A parent is definitely one of the hardest jobs especially if you have a stubborn child.
My younger sister is a little spoiled. Even at 8 years old she gets spoonfed by my parents because it's just easier to feed her than to make her do it herself and my parents got tired. It was alright in the beginning because she was a toddler but now that she's going to school it became a problem, she doesn't eat lunch at school because there's nobody to feed her. She actually can feed herself its just that she was used to someone else doing it for her while she plays and doesn't want to do it.
I made it clear to her, "I'm not going to spoonfeed you. It doesn't mean I stopped loving you but I refuse to do it when you are capable to doing it yourself. You are a big girl."
It took a while. Like the psychologist said I gave her choices to pick. Also there was always my parents who fed her so there wasn't a fear of her going hungry. I never said anything like " I won't love you if you don't do ___" I only stayed firm that she shouldn't expect me to spoonfeed. Besides that I treated her all the same.
At first I would nudge her to feed herself. I made a deal with a lot of begging and convincing 😅
I would feed her half of the bowl and she could eat the last half herself. She agrees. This worked sometimes.
Soon, I gave her a choice (this was during lunch/dinner) if she wanted to eat with me she had to feed herself. Sometimes I would sit at a different area away from the family for alone time and this didn't mean I was threatening to never spend time with her ever. It was exclusively during meal times.
If she does not want to feed herself, that's okay. She can be with mommy and daddy. The choice was entirely up to her. To my surprise she accepted the deal and tried her best to eat. It took an hour for her to finish eating but she ate all her dinner and I praised her "Good job! You did it."
Sometimes my parents still spoonfeed her but nowadays she feeds herself pretty well.
this child psychologist is very good! she has this aura of being stern but polite with the parents while still showing her authority as a psychologist, and does her job well! I like her
This makes me even more curious how Ollie (JOLLLY and Koreng Englishman) and his wife educate their daughter. she is smart and well manner too. She mentions ‘time out’ in one of the shows, so I guess her parents use ‘time out’ as a way of discipline for her.
May I know where can I watch the family?
@@drunkoncaffeine9915 Jolly on YT have videos with her. There's also Korean Englishman with a new series with her in.
Thankyou so much for this information
I love the way the expert speaks, she's so classy
Finally, a show that normalize parent counseling. I mean at this generation, a lot of parents struggles in raising kids bcoz it's unwanted, unexpected, wanted or whatever reason that is. Parent counseling has this misconceptions that if u go to consultations u are considered as "bad parent". Again, it's so encouraging that parenting has lot of ways and seeking help in finding your own is not a bad way too. So yas, let's normalize parent counseling yaayyy!!!
I'm not having any kid yet, but I think it's good to me to learn it before having one. Thank you so much for this information!
im 20, im so focused about what Dr.oh say. I'm feel like being father who curious about teaching kids in the right way. lol
This showed up in my recommendations when Moon family announced that Jamjam will have a sibling! I wish they can appear to TROS again. I want to see how Jamjam will become a good sister
i hope TROS Editing Team will back to their old value, the show is about how hard it is to take care of kids especially by a father, instead of just showing Kids' cuteness
The now narrator praise their cuteness to much, I prefer the old narrator when Haru - Triplets era.
Omg!! Sooooo trueeee.
This one I really agree!
@@yeleeys Yeah at Haru-Triplets era, i enjoyed their cuteness but I also got alots parental knowledge.
@@sweetlies8384 Yeah, i think this opinion will work if K-netizen make it as headline on news
She's like the super nanny .only supernanny deals more with childcare and discipline while this one is psychological behaviour..
Jamjam is a pure soul...
Jam Jam's Cuteness Is On Another Level....
OMG! The Way She Dance Is Dammn Cute....
She Is Pretty, Kind, Caring & Learn From Her Mistakes Upom Correcting....
This Family Is Cute....
I Wish More Love, Care, Success & Good Health For This Cute Family.....
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Jam Jam is such good girl and cute I love her
It is so true .. parents always follow/ made kids do what ever the kids want, so this is the right way to teach parents to be firm n teach their kids according to parents will too for the kids sake on their way of growing up in the right path
1:20 this pose just cure my loneliness, she looks like a fairy 🧚🏻♀️ too beautiful too adorable 💕💗
This is like super nanny, but happier and cute.
I can tell that Soyul was having a hard time based on her facial expressions, but she was trying to be strong for Jam Jam to grow. 👏👏👏
I work with kids and I’m studying to be a teacher. It’s really difficult not to like instantly comfort a child when they are crying because they were told to do something by a parent or a teacher. It is not easy to be the one in charge and not have the kids run all over you. But I think they really truly did an amazing job with the expert and not only did Jam Jam improve but her parents did as well! One of the reasons people love this show is because you can watch them grow as parents and as children!
Waitinggg for this😆❤❤❤
Jamjam so cute❤❤❤
loved this!
good job and keep up the good work, jamjam's mom and dad!❤❤❤i love to watch this little family more❤❤❤❤
I agree with what the expert said, I did notice how jamjam always had her way, no matter what she wanted. I am not saying she’s a spoiled brat or anything like that, she is adorable and very smart for her age! I love her, and so do her parents, but it feels like they are doting her too much. However, there was one thing I disagree with the Dr is that I honestly don’t see anything wrong with her dad explaining things like “the machine has to eat too”, jamjam is still a kid and it could be a good way for persuading her to eat. It might not work later on, but for now she is really young and this method seems adequate.. I actually really appreciate this side of him when I watched their previous episodes
I’m only here because these kids are super super cute and adorable! I enjoy seeing them interact with their parents and this is so heartwarming
Jamjam Born 2017 but she knows 1999's song 😂
Aiyoo!so much love for jamjam!😍😍😊Godbless your family
it's great for jamjam and her parents👍👍 indeed communication is important