🔴What Happens When You 'Abandon' The Narcissist First | Narcissism | NPD

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Hello everyone, welcome back to our channel. Today we are discussing the outcomes that happen when you decide to leave, discard, or abandon a narcissist.
To begin, I want to share that I have extensive experience in this matter, having personally discarded my malignant narcissistic ex-partner. Therefore, if you are contemplating leaving a narcissist and have some concerns or questions, this discussion is designed specifically for you.
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Now, let’s delve deeper into what happens when you discard, leave, or abandon a narcissist. First and foremost, it is essential to clarify that this situation is fundamentally different from leaving a partner in a normal, loving relationship. When you are dealing with a narcissist, their interpretation of your departure is entirely distinct from how a typical person would perceive it.
One key point to understand is that the narcissist will not see your decision to leave coming. It does not matter if you have communicated your intentions to them for years, stating that you would eventually leave if they did not change their behavior. Regardless of how many warnings you have given, they remain oblivious to the seriousness of your words. From my experience, it often takes a significant amount of time for a narcissist to truly grasp that this time, you are genuinely finished, and there is nothing they can do or say to alter your decision.
There are several reasons why this lack of understanding occurs. Firstly, narcissists often get away with treating their partners poorly for an extended period, which leads them to underestimate the validity of your threats to leave. Their own narcissistic tendencies create a barrier that prevents them from accepting the reality that you might actually be serious about leaving.
Moreover, even after you have left or filed for divorce, many narcissists continue to believe that they have damaged your self-esteem to such an extent that you will not be able to follow through with your decision. They might think that they hold too much power over you, whether it be financial resources or emotional manipulation, to ever allow you to leave them permanently. Additionally, they may resort to tactics such as pressure, coercion, harassment, or continuous badgering, believing that these methods will deter you from pursuing the final dissolution of your relationship.
So, just because you might physically leave the narcissist does not mean that they have accepted this reality. The process of the narcissist coming to the conclusion that you are truly done is often gradual and complicated. This realization does not happen overnight, especially if you have been in a relationship with them for a long period of time. It is important to understand that narcissists do not view other people as living, breathing individuals with their own thoughts, feelings, and desires that exist independently of the narcissist's life. Instead, they see others, including their spouses and children, as possessions, property, or extensions of themselves.
"Disclaimer: The information provided in this video is for educational purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you suspect you or someone you know may be involved with a narcissist, or are dealing with any psychological issues, please consult a qualified healthcare professional. This content is shared to offer insights and perspectives and should not be considered as professional or medical counsel."
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[@erichoben4125]

I needed to hear this. Another piece of the puzzle that explains what Ive went through with a narcissist 100% true
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[@NarcPedia]

I'm so glad to hear that this resonated with you! Understanding these dynamics can be a crucial step in healing. Thank you for sharing your thoughts, and I wish you all the best on your journey!

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Laughter can be a great way to cope and find joy after difficult experiences! It's important to focus on the positive and your own healing. Thank you for sharing your thoughts!

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Thank you for this video. I’ve been confused about my situation in part because I left him first, filed for and received a restraining order, and then he pretty quickly filed for divorce from me. We had been married for 19 years, and we’re both in our 70’s. The worst part was that I knew nothing about narcissistic behaviors, so nearly the entire situation unfolded quickly without me understanding and being able to strategize for myself. I wish I could speak with you personally to gain your insights about the reality of my situation now, nearly 8 months post divorce. For a while I felt somewhat safer, but I’m beginning to sense physical danger again now, and fear for my possessions. It’s just a sense at this point, so I can’t yet file for another Order of Protection, but I’m fearful.

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I'm really sorry to hear about your situation, and it's completely understandable to feel confused and fearful after such a long marriage. It's great that you've taken steps to protect yourself, but it's important to ensure your safety first and foremost. I encourage you to reach out to a local support group or a professional who can provide guidance tailored to your situation. Take care of yourself, and remember that you deserve to feel safe and supported.

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What is their reaction if they’re sent to jail for the abuse

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That's an interesting question! Narcissists often struggle with accountability, so their reaction could vary widely. Some may deny their actions or shift blame, while others might portray themselves as victims. It's important to understand that their lack of empathy makes it difficult for them to fully grasp the impact of their behavior. Thank you for bringing up this thought-provoking topic!