Eboni K. Williams is a BOSS and y'all aren't even on her intellectual level to understand what she said bc here y'all are, making videos about what she said BUT failed to actually hear the msg. Y'all just mad she and the rest of us aren't settling for the bs. And I wanna point out the hypocrisy and double standards of bm. They have all these videos out here about how they don't want to date a women with kids, y'all are ok with his preferences, but have a problem with Eboni...?!? The level of hypocrisy in this country is alarming and THAT'S why Eboni said what she said...💯💯💯 ... 😂😂😂
Nothing is wrong with Eboni having preferences. She’s obviously no one else’s preference anyway, that’s why she’s mad. No one is trying to change Eboni. She’s done. She’s a perfect example to young women how not to end up jaded. And you’re right. Taking care of another man’s child is still not men’s preference. Just like the bus driver isn’t Eboni’s preference.
She works for that company so she's a worker herself...that's exactly what the 80/20 rule describes, women overlook the average man for the small percent of men who don't even want them
Yes. I intentionally do the opposite of my parents, because they both divorced, my father twice now. So when I talk about my marriage, they give me the worst advice. I joked with my husband that I could likely work as a dating coach with a better success rate than these “dating experts” as a married woman. He looked at me from across the room and said “Honey, you’ll tell them what they need to hear. They don’t want to hear the truth.”
My son's Father is a Bus driver. He has been for 18 years,his paycheck being that has allowed my son to go to a private school since he was 4. So Shout out to all blue collar workers.
I have a master’s of management degree and my husband has a welding certificate. We have been married for 26 years and still going strong! He is a wonderful husband and father. Degrees mean nothing when it comes to love. I made the first move because I had heard from a friend that he liked me but thought he wasn’t good enough for me. Money wasn’t even a consideration for me. He had/has so many good qualities that are more important that money.
@@strafer8764 not at all, am I bragging. I’m simply referring to the woman in the video who thinks she is above hard working men that make less money. My degree doesn’t make me better than my husband. Was simply saying that not all women with degrees think like her. If I did, I wouldn’t be married to the most wonderful man in the world right now! Now THAT I will brag about!!
As a fellow blue collar worker, that makes more money than most people with degrees, let me say thank you to the other blue collar workers. Just know that without us... the world collapses. Without women like Eboni... the world grows.
Shes really mad at the millionaires 😅who will spend Adult time with her and Play around in the dark. But for some reason, they all seem to avoid, forget or need to be reminded of her existence and None have married her. She's crazy , I'm a white collar worker and I wouldn't care, if a good man was manager at Panera , I would date him
I am an electrician for my local utility company. I bought my home in the mid 90’s, paid it off by 2000 and have been stacking the cash ever since. I am one year away from retiring with a full pension on top of what I have saved. I bet my blue collar finances are way better than Eboni K Williams’. The great thing about my essential job is that there are 3 things that will put me out of work: Retirement, death and societal collapse.
I am with u on the part of making more money than white collar workers. Ima truck driver and make more than 90% of the ppl I know that got degrees that went to college. But even if blue collor workers don’t make bank they still making decent money and if they save and invest they will be ok. Not everyone can make 6figures. I got only a high school degree. AI won’t take some blue collar workers job.
Simone Biles and Eboni K Willams are exacts opposites in every possible, Simone represents a young black women who didn’t allow her success to blind her from the necessity of becoming a wife younger, Eboni is basically the archetype of the exact women in the black community that end up alone forever because of their avarice and inability to pair bond because of her arrogance and misandry.
they educate in social study or crap diploma like that ... and that why BW are the groupe with the most dept AND lower salary ( and the most fat/baby out of wedlock ... )
“Professing to be wise, they became fools, and exchanged the glory of the incorruptible God for an image in the form of corruptible man… therefore God gave them over in the lusts of their hearts to impurity, so that their bodies would be dishonored among them. For they exchanged the truth of God for a lie, and worshiped and served the creature rather than the Creator…” Romans 1:22-25 (slightly abridged)
I’m a Black Eligible Bachelor. Y’all ladies break my heart. And yes, guys like me, we’re smarter. We’re watching all this from the cut, and thanks to the TH-cam era, avoiding hella traps. That’s why you can’t find us.
We’re staying low key for real. I want to be chosen by a black woman but these in this hemisphere are just volatile. I’ll look on and stay healthy mentally and spiritually.
@@SpiritChild0980 you want to be chosen by a woman , I think you got your priorities all wrong ? What the fck. Log off log off. Go get your balls and come back What the actual fck..
S/O to my pops who laid concrete for 37 years. Sent 3 kids to college and contributed to sending 4 grandkids to college for free. All his children are married and their spouses are black. From him, we now have Education Administrator, Biochemist, 20 year Army veteran, Forensic Accountant, Veterinarian, LPN, and Truck Driver who owns his own company.This is not average…This is Black Excellence! There are many men who are considered average but produced amazing results.
@@stevenbrown9212 The father may have not wanted his children to become brick masons. Masonry is very hard physical work. He may have wanted his kids to experience the physical breakdown like he did, and take advantage of higher education.
@@mariajones9102 that's the same reason Eboni is on, she wants a man with higher education, just like that man wanted his children to get higher education for a better life
@@stevenbrown9212 I worked with my father for four years doing concrete. He loved it. I didn’t. It was his passion and found a way to make good money from it.
@@stevenbrown9212 my dad didn’t care if either of his children went to college. He wanted us to find something we genuinely cared about and do that. He philosophy was find your passion and see what you need to invest in it. 8 years college, jr college, technical certification, etc..pay the price to do what you love.
@@CookWhenIWant you realize eboni k Williams also talked down on blue collar women too cause women also do those jobs I listed in my original comment...
Its a lot of C and D students signing checks to A and B students. Big ups to the people who truly do the important jobs of the country to keep us safe, connected and able to allow us to go home flip the lights on, turn on the firestick, run bathwater, protect us etc.. You Men and Women are the true MVP'S
Exactly. My brother didn’t do well in school. Didn’t attend college, but owns his own business and a million dollar home. I did great in school, became a biochemist, but no million dollar home…yet 😊 Our dad was a bus driver.
That isn’t what she’s saying tho. She said many times…maximizing your skill sets. She’s not talking about a failing student who decided to OWN a business. She’s not talking about a bus driver that had good money management and went into real estate on the side. Now if the C and D students settled on working as a cashier at the local grocery store…that would be a person she’s referring to. Yal are listening to respond. Not listening to understand.
@@rouxsinatra5393 it’s funny that y’all don’t even realize what she said or what she’s doing!! She just reached down to the middle class and below, started some mess and ran off 😂😂😂
My man is a Longshore man. Drives a Crane everyday. Great Father. I've been a stay at home mom since 2006. He bought us a house. Takes care of us and protects us. I live a soft life and I'm grateful for him and his love. I'm very fortunate to always have good black men in my life. The problem is you Eboni. You need to do some work on yourself.
@Zay did ai build the house or the parts? Who assembled the parts? and again who installed the plumbing? who wired the home for electricity? Smh. Think beyond a TH-cam video u once saw.
@@mactheman3810 hi Mac. Shoutout to you. My dad is a retired truck driver. Retired at 50, traveled to Hawaii and abroad. We surely don’t know how much $$ y’all make cus he definitely didn’t tell me! He just sends me photos from all his trips. 😅
Graduated college with a 2.5 GPA in Computer Engineering and I make more then people that graduated with 4.0s. It's not about what you know it's about what you can do that will get you far in this world.
For engineering that's good lol. STEM GPA's are on a curve 😂. I graduated college in 09 with a bachelor's in Business IT, after switching from computere engineering myself. My degree alone couldn't even get me a job. I didn't start getting significant job offers until I got my certs. Turns out that I didn't even need college for this shit smh. I know ppl with GED's making $90K+.
I finally graduated from college at the age of 35, with a similar GPA, and make more money than a lot of 4.0 students at my day job and I have a business at the age 44. I was told several times I had no ambition in my 20s.
She said she's totally unfazed by the backlash and it doesn't bother her, but strangely needed to go back on-air to tell the world that she's unfazed by the comments that she's receiving . If you're unfazed or unbothered by something then you're just that, you don't get back on TV to tell everybody, you wouldn't feel the need to, but for some reason she felt the need to do so .🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭
I’m an EMT. I start Firefighter academy soon. I guess I’m not good enough for Eboni, even though she expects me to save her life smh. Sistas get it together
The more she talks, the more she tells on herself. As far as Ms. Williams' dating/marriage preferences, her results and everyone's results ultimately speaks for itself. There are nearly 8 billion people in the world. If you can find what you are looking for, then you have realistic standards. If you can't find what you are looking for, then you don't have realistic standards. That being the case, look inward instead of being mad at the world. Lastly BW don't own the most homes, married black couples (a cohort which includes myself) owns the most homes in the Black community.
No doubt. Eboni is loosely using “Homeownership” to refer to condo ownership, not single family. All women need most of the time is to earn $60k/yr to afford a 1bd condo for them and their dog.
@@usmanvcx she quoted the stats wrong which makes her a idiot. The stats don’t say black women own the most homes the stats say black women that bought their homes did so in the last 2 years (20%) which is horrible decision to do so!!! I believe the media let’s black women speak to show just how dumb they are!!!
Every one can’t be a white collar worker. The bus operators, train conductors, linemen, gas techs, every utility worker, cashier, cable workers, plumbers, police, fire fighters, fast food workers, waiters, Chefs, cooks, custodians, etc… I appreciate everything you all do. Without you the wheel would not turn.
The white collar workers depend on fast food workers and bud drivers for their services. Eboni is not a boss. Real bosses own companies and employees. People need to get their mind right. Men and women need to stop calling themselves bosses if they don't own a company. Live up to the boss word you claim.
These days there are plenty of blue collar workers who are making as much or more than the white collar jobs. That’s because we pushed college down everyone’s throats for the past 40-50 years that we neglected the trades.
Her: "I'm a professional disrupter, so backlash is my business" Translation: "I use my job as an excuse to be as messy, wrong, and unapologetic as I want to be, so there" 🤣🤣🤣
Agreed. Seems disrespectful to put bus drivers on blast like they’re losers. Not everyone can be “the owner.” Bus drivers do alright, last I heard. I’m tired of all the arrogance/entitlement in the world right now.
I got a degree in Electromechanical Engineering and still working a manufacturing job and doing electrical work on the side. I'm glad I don't qualify for women like her.
I’m a white guy, I love this channel. Well thought out opinions, spends the time to really look into things and gets multiple sources, and doesn’t let people off on their bad behavior. Props to the creator, I think you’d be a really good journalist but having you on TH-cam is better because you can be you.
I served a number years in the military and I drove Greyhound bus until retirement. And I still drive school buses part-time and I'm doing quite well for myself.
The pill that is so hard for Eboni to swallow is that she has a preference, but she is no one's Preference. She cannot get a hug from her bank account.
Eboni took a simple question and tried to make it about Black Men and Black People. Iyanla NEVER mentioned race. And given that Eboni has been in interracial relationships, it’s funny how she defaulted to assuming that the bus driver was a Black man lacking ambition in her eyes as the ONLY possibility. Shows what she really thinks of us.
Exactly that what I said …she never mentioned race ….but you know how they love to bring us down …they gotta find any means possible even if we are not in the conversation
I’m a 32 year old single mother and I just realized how much I’ve fed into this “toxic ambition culture”unconsciously. I’m a teacher and I do make enough to take care of me but I’m constantly trying to live up to expectations that I didn’t even set for myself🤯🤯
I am a married man. Before I was married. I was single, partying, living life. My goal/dream was to compete in bodybuilding and be pro! I sacrifice 7+ years to train and get there. Being big isn't enough. Moral of the story. To be content, you first have to accept we are where we are. Nothing less or more. Now much more mature. My content is seeing my daughter smile. And my wife happy and herself. All those expectations is to feed something we don't have or want. Once we have it. Then what. I believe expectations is self serving. Like the world owes you something. If we take expectations away. We get "What is" with out meaning or definition.
Your honesty is much respected. In fact, as I like to say, a single mom who is self aware has a way better shot at getting a man than a single mom with a huge, misplaced ego
THANK YOU to all the bus drivers, sanitation workers, plumbers, electricians and other blue collar working men. My father was a school janitor. He and my mother were married for 60 years before he passed away in 2014. They put me AND my brother through college and today we are both doing extremely well by the grace of God. I am so grateful for my father who was a strong black man that took care of his family in every way. So Ms. Eboni is not a BOSS or someone to even give attention to in this matter. She is a mean-spirited, self absorbed, chameleon and yes a STRONG black woman trying to act as if she cares for men. Not impressed with anything about her. See, this is what is wrong when you get TOO strong as a woman. You don't care about anything or anyone. Her loathing, condescending attitude is nothing to be applauded in my opinion. Thank you Pink Book Lessons for this.
@Dιᥲmoᥒd Gᥣᥲzᥱd Cᥱrᥲmιᥴs I certainly would if it was brought on as the same conversation. Oh yes, I would say the EXACT SAME THING, if the white woman moved the same way. I am all about holding ALL women accountable. And yes, it would be best for Eboni to move in silence and work on herself. We all need to work on ourselves.
‘Trust me i’ve done them all’.....that is not a flex😂That facial expression she did after that ‘own the bus’ spoke VOLUMES!! They disregard the dudes that would LITERALLY bring them HAPPINESS and chase the dudes that will devastate them & DGAF. To be 1000%....That is one of MANY issues when someone doesn’t have a relationship with the LORD💯 Hope that EVERYONE has a blessed week🙏Appreciate you, PBL....so very much!!
@imm85-yi4zp RIGHT!! 😂I ALMOST added that one too but I had finished the comment already but best believe it made me do a double take and think about adding that...HILARIOUS 😂Hope you and yours have a blessed one🙏
@@taharqa332 I didn’t say ANYTHING about ‘church’. I said a relationship with the LORD💯You know the saying....the family that prays together, stays together🤔When I look at TRUELY happy couples that have been together for over 25yrs an overwhelming number of them have a base in the LORD. ‘A peace beyond understanding’ is 1000% real and ONLY the LORD has that gift. Hope that you and yours have a blessed one🙏
Yeah we all were so proud to witness a man behave in an overly charged emotional manner towards a woman. He's such a man. Maybe he found manhood after dogging his wife out by cheating on her.
@@SunRiseEast365 youre right next time he should sit there and keep his opinion to himself. or if he has a different perspective swallow it and just agree with the WOMAN... true equality right?
A lawyer on another channel said, this is how lawyers are trained to respond when they perceive they are losing an argument. He said he has the same training. She is entitled to have her preference but what she is not entitled to do is to look down and talk down on other people’s honest professions. She don’t give a damn about the ascension of black men.
Thank you Pink, for bringing sensibility to the community with the work you’re doing. I’m so sick of the “toxic ambition” in our culture driving millennials and Gen Z (honestly, probably even a bit of Gen X) to depression, NEVER feeling content in life, always comparing ourselves to someone else and more often, to what someone else HAS. Our community is where it is, not because of lack of degrees or education, but misplaced priorities and materialism.
DJ Envy was on point. My friend's father was a teacher, and he owned several rental properties. My friend said he would work as a bartender on the weekends, too. Because of his hard work, her mother, my friend, and her sister benefited after his death. Plus, he was a military veteran.
No one is denying their work ethic or what they do, she simply said it’s not for her and she’s allowed to have that preference without being ostracized
@@juliusdv6657ebony is no different than the other group of so-called over educated professional women that used to call him to Kevin Samuels show. The fact is the men that ebony want do not want her plain and simple
@@juliusdv6657 It's the condescending and disrespectful way that she presents herself, and obviously her preference doesn't want her because she's single, childless and 40 is around the corner. Young girls need to listen to people who are successful in what they are selling. As in the words of Nelly, "why would I take business advice from a bum on the corner?'"
When i met my wife, I was a truck driver with a g.e.d, she have a master's degree. Now married for 9 years, I'm still a truck driver with two degrees and she now have a doctorate, We both grew together. Just because i didn't have a degree didn't mean i wasn't intelligent and couldn't hold intellectual conversation, it just meant i haven't chosen that path as yet.
I'm an african american male who started out as a blue collar work after the military and pushed my way into white collar society. Blue collar workers possess a level of integrity, humility and intellectualism that many corporates have never usurped. It is their efficiency that allows both them and white collar workers to maintain their careers. My brothers are excelling in ALL fields. And im proud of every single one of them thats holding the culture and workforce on their shoulders. I hope they all find wives who love them for who they are and not what they make.
We already know what happened to Eboni's law degree. She graduated went to work,them student loan payments hit and she figured out that after all that college education she still brought home exactly what a bus driver brings home and then proceeded to pursue a career in entertainment to offset the difference.
The emotion because a woman said her preference and now you think you know her whole life. There hasn't been one attractive man bothered by this I noticed, rather than worrying about her degree you should be in the gym.
*”There hasn't been one attractive man bothered by this I noticed”* Attractive men don’t give a crap because they are doing the pumping and dumping. Woman like Eboni will continue to bitch moan about wanting commitment from them and casually talk down on blue collar guys. We already check out the game because it’s rigged.
@@tnago916 “Attractive” men aren’t bothered because they don’t want a almost 40 something feminist who blames men (black men) for her decisions. Also that gym comment was interesting. I guess body shaming is only bad when it’s applied to women. I hope you don’t end up sad and lonely like Eboni K Williams.
DJ Envy was on point!! I work for a airline I know people who load bags in planes traveled the world for free making 100k and still in there 30s... yet women won't give them a 2nd look..... Never judge a person's job...
The problem with her and women that think like her is, EVERYONE can't be a owner of something. That's like wanting everyone in the NBA to average 30 points per game
she truly meant what she said about the bus driver. As soon as she got backlash she brought race into it, thinking she can play black people to be dummies and actually believe her excuses. it's nice to see people calling her out instead of allowing her to cause division and go about her arrogant ways.
Why would she get backlash over a preference? Think about how insane that is. If a woman/man do not want to date a bus driver they can have that preference.
@@tnago916lol you say tht but if a man say he don't want to date a chick who is fat or slept around he accused of fat or slut shaming. At end of day she can have whatever preferences she wants but ppl tht think like her are often habitually single 😂🤷🏽♂️
I wish I could thanos snap blue collar workers and men overall away for 6 months and let women see how important we all are when they need their car fixed, electricity for their wifi etc..
If ALL BLUE COLLAR workers Stopped working for a month her life would be in shambles. Women like her acquire the money and status and FORGET who rather keeps the economy going But that's her preference than the only thing we can do is leave her alone. Let her bed, money and status keep her warm an safe at night.
I’m laughing at Ebony because she gave a monologue about how she is unfazed by the criticisms against her because backlash is her business, and “the gag is” her Twitter is on private and protected. 😂
Why would someone be bothered by this? Most people are on her side, because it is her right as a human to have a preference. The usual angry unaccomplished people cried about it and it will happen to someone else next month.
@@tnago916 unacomplished?? A certificate from zaddy does not make you accomplished. Yall have adopted European standards of success and its really sad bc aint yall getting evicted and paid less than everyone else?? Even with your 6 degrees yall still can't catch up. Women lie men lie numbers DONT.
@eeesss23 obviously she got enough negative responses to warrant a silly monologue as well as a terrible showing following that on the radio show. Doesn't matter if 90% of the ppl agree with her; the right people being the 10% caught enough of her attention regardless.
Im a City Employee my husband is a Mailman and we both accomplished alot. My Mailman husband is a kind loving and dedicated man. I get gourmet dinners and my laundry done. We are both hardworking individuals doing things together ❤ Women like you don't give men a chance you look down on them and yet you don't have what i have im a simple blessed woman with accomplishments. Recently closed past January on our Second Property. Education people is not the Trophy its a Status to say i went to College. Some died while there trying to fit in drug addiction and alcoholics. They program them to look down on people. It's not what you make it's what you do with your money. I live in both homes no Rentals.
I don't think she has much CLASS , DIGNITY , MORALS nor INTEGRITY I DO KNOW SHE'S CLUELESS TO THE REAL WORLD OF PEOPLE'S INSIDE SHE'S LONELY , CRYING 😢 LOST AND CONFUSED FROM HER DISOBEDIENCE GOD MAY HAVE SET HER HUSBAND IN HER FACE 😔 AND SHE DECIDED TO WALK AWAY FROM HER OWN BLESSING'S BECAUSE OF HER OWN SELFISHNESS OF WHAT SHE WANTS AND NOT WHAT'S BEST FOR HER 😢 I do agree she will live a life of regrets , sorrows a lonely life she will have desperately seeking whatever she's looking for 😢 sad but true
AI isn't going to take away manual labor. I'm a Computer Engineer, that is the biggest myth of them all. AI is going to take away the small time tech jobs. AI can't fix an AC, AI can't fix a pipe, AI can't fix a rode, AI can't build buildings. AI can code, can tell the news, can make art, can make music, etc. The real people that should be scared of AI is the entertainment industry.
Especially Hollywood, a celebrity that passed away a while ago will be 100% back on TV or Movies in no time flat... Think Mahalia Jackson or Michael Jackson or even more... Or even singers like Whitney Houston for that matter, it's simple. All you need to do, is vocal and human AI and it's GAME OVER.
I hate the fact that people misuse and misunderstand what being "equally yoked" means. It has nothing to do with finances. Being equally yoked means having similar upbringing, values, desires, motivations, lifestyles, etc. Equally yoked is a mindset.
Ebony: it’s 2:1 black women graduating college over men Meanwhile: my brother has no college degree but owns a high earning business with 0 college debt😅 😂😂😂
@@tnago916 “Most people agree with her…” that’s cap and the women (cause no man respects what she’s saying) listening will have a better chance of getting struck by lighting twice in the same exact place than marrying “the man who owns the bus”
This was a GREAT breakdown. She's the type if you let her into your life she'd wreak havoc on your finances. Not once did she mention love or friendship. I can hear the sour buttermilk in her voice. Her ex fiance dodged a scud missile. Stay focused out here.
' Have any of you women ever considered that those men you are going for would be settling for you?' That's gold right there. I'll be remembering that 1 thank you.
We have 2 ears and 1 mouth for a reason.... We're supposed to listen more than talk...... But many refuse to grasp that concept. No man wants to come home to another battle to deal with.
Imagine putting yourself on a pedestal yet trying to convince everyone that the reason why you can’t find a man is because none of em are good enough for you 🤦🏾♀️ she’s speaking as if she just popped out with the titles and accolades and she didn’t start from somewhere. women like her are not looking for a partner. Nobody is saying black women need to date pookies and Ray rays. She definitely kept moving the goal post, as if a man having money means he won’t dog a woman out. Dj envy definitely said what needed to be said.
If Eboni lost her platform/job tomorrow the world would keep spinning. If the people she's putting down lost their jobs tomorrow, lives would be turned upside down. This is insanity.
My husband is a duel licensed water operator. He makes enough money for me to stay home and homeschool our son. Also, he makes more money than some people with degrees and he has no student loan debt. These women need to keep being loud and opinionated so the good working men can avoid them and get good women that will love and support them for who they are!
The way Eboni lowered her eyes when she said, “If he owns the bus 🚌” shows you how she’s ashamed of her response because she knows that she looks down on working class men who don’t approach her income level. 🤷🏻♂️🙄🤦🏻♂️
When PBL said the women that were saying, "ya telling black women to settle, have you ever stopped to realize for a lot of you, these men you want, when they get with you they will be settling!" Boy, I felt that one in my soul and was sipping slooowwwlllyyy😂👀🍵
I was an essential warehouse worker during the pandemic. We had all the supplies the world was dying to get their handswe on. Working 60 hrs a week. Meanwhile the 100k per year folks were in full panic mode.
The very same people she looks down upon are the reason society is functioning. They do the necessary jobs that aren't "pretty" that others don't want to do.
My cousin is a multi millionaire doing real estate. He worked as a bus driver until he retired in his 40’s because his real estate business was doing so well. Now he’s flipping office buildings.
My last two GF had Bachelor Degrees I barely have a GED And out earned both of them And still do I completely ignore women like this now The disrespect because they’re educated is so annoying to deal with smh
I married the man that use to ride the bus, who now owns the bus... There's level to this. You never know, that "bus driver" may very well receive a blessing and become the CEO of the bus company the next day...never underestimate the everyday hardworking man. Shallow people like her can never understand this, unless they change . She needs prayer 🤲🏾
Facts Nia! She will never know how to keep a man talking like this. No matter what she says she always have to be right! I hope all of the other single ladies that see right through her BS.🤦🏽♂️
You're saying the same old thing. You are talkin about a woman investing in a man because he has potential. Please tell me how often that has worked for the black woman?! Please stop with these exceptions to the rule!
@@gisellekateerteatime no, I was fine with him riding the bus...didn't know he will one day own it...all I'm saying is ...there's nothing wrong with your average everyday harding working man. Mine just leveled up is all and I stuck it out with him through it all. I'm not saying what you're implying
@@gisellekateerteatime i works pretty often. Just like men marry to potentionally have a wife that can make a home a home. The gaslight is saying it " never" works. Thats negative thinking. And not everyone has to think like u do on that. But this is common sense. U vet to see who is ambitious enough to follow through, with what they say they are gonna follow through. This happens all the time. Some chick in school, makes fun of the nerd who says he will be something, and ends up supprised when he actually does? Yeah We love to prove those people wrong. Men opperate under one philosiphy. "If someone says u cant do it, prove them wrong." U just happen to be replying to this woman, who understands it. And she understands the potential of an ambitious man. Just because u think 90% of us arent that ambitious dosent disprove it. U have light bulb, u have technology, u have the world u live in, all built by men, and men who "potentially" ended up doing so. Building worth is a process, u dont just end up being successful over night. And u cant expect to share in a success, u were never apart of.
As a woman raised in the city they pushed college on us for a better life. Now as a mom in the suburbs these suburban schools pushing trades and town jobs in my kids school. That way when they’re 20-22 they will have a job and a mortgage while their counterparts are paying off student loans and paying high rents
That’s because those b*llshit degrees people are getting don’t actually teach you to do anything. Business, marketing, and history degrees (just to name a few) are useless. It’s funny how us plumbers, electricians, and welders are called ignorant white trash (not saying you said this) yet people love to move to our neighborhoods, go to our schools, and be around us in general first chance they get.
I didn’t finish secondary school/high school here in Scotland and I got in to a trade doing asphalt/tarmac at 19 and I’m now making over 190k a year and I’m not at the top level yet.. Trades are amazing and the way to go.
Educated and intelligence are two different things. Someone that knows less than you can possess more intelligence, the great combo is having fuel to ignite the intelligence, education.
She changed the subject to race, mentioned a few good talking points based on the alternate subject and ran with it without addressing the issue at hand and without most people noticing. Typical lawyer move
I am a black man i have been a burger flipper. I am a vet. I have been a plumber l have been a bus driver, I have been homeless and currently an Uber driver and currently working on becoming a real estate business owner. Everything above is was my titles it is no reflection on my character I never cheated never beat my girl and am super loyal to my friends. No baby mama and a decent credit score and I can cook clean and do my own laundry. I am many things but interest in a chick like her or have her mentally is not one of them. Any person who talk like her is super basic and willing never be happy
Real Talk .shout out to you, Pink Book Lessons . Excellent delivery on your commentary in this video. You are spot on with everything you said about This toxic eboni k. This lady is not setting any examples at all for anyone to follow. All She doing is putting out gold digger vibes. She was very disrespectful not only to a bus driver, but to all of us working class citizens in general. I'm glad Dj Envy and Dr Umar Johnson checked her. Now she trying to backtrack and trying to save face saying she didn't mean it like that. These gold diggers are gonna learn the hard way. Because they don't realize a tornado can come and blow their house down at anytime. what you got today can be gone tommorow . So you better learn how to appreciate what you have right now, and not take it for granite.
What's funny is DJ Envy and the Breakfast Club didn't like Kevin Samuels but now they're seeing what Kevin Samuels and all of us saw and heard with modern women.
What's funny is everyone was okay with kevin samuels calling women and men "average at best" based on very shallow things such as jobs and looks. But when a woman like eboni has a preference and critiques things that are average at best (education) she has people in their feels.
@@tnago916 I didn’t care for Kevin but let’s not act like he wasn’t dragged through life and death. When he died women were celebrating. Comparing Kevin to this makes no sense because Kevin Samuel was not left untouched. He called that women average at best because she acted like she was too good.
She's a cancer to men who hate to hear about themselves but love when kevin samuels calls women (and men) average. She has her preferences and you have yours.
Eboni K. Williams is a BOSS and y'all aren't even on her intellectual level to understand what she said bc here y'all are, making videos about what she said BUT failed to actually hear the msg. Y'all just mad she and the rest of us aren't settling for the bs.
And I wanna point out the hypocrisy and double standards of bm. They have all these videos out here about how they don't want to date a women with kids, y'all are ok with his preferences, but have a problem with Eboni...?!? The level of hypocrisy in this country is alarming and THAT'S why Eboni said what she said...💯💯💯 ... 😂😂😂
Nothing is wrong with Eboni having preferences. She’s obviously no one else’s preference anyway, that’s why she’s mad. No one is trying to change Eboni. She’s done. She’s a perfect example to young women how not to end up jaded. And you’re right. Taking care of another man’s child is still not men’s preference. Just like the bus driver isn’t Eboni’s preference.
@@pinkbooklessons I'm sure the OP understands what you're saying but she will pretend like she doesn't and say that you're missing the point 😂😂😂
She works for that company so she's a worker herself...that's exactly what the 80/20 rule describes, women overlook the average man for the small percent of men who don't even want them
Your argument is embarrassing 🤦🏿♂️
You obviously have a personal issue with bm.
Shoutout to the “bus drivers”, “blue-collar workers” and all the frontline workers who are keep the nation moving.
#Team Blue-Collar aka overworked and underpaid💯💯💯💯. Appreciate the shout out💯
I second this. Shout out to all the workers who maintain our society.
Drop the mic
Both my parents were BLUE-COLLAR workers who loved each other and gave me more LOVE then I could get in a life time ( I'm an only child) ❤🙏♥️🙏
LETS GET IT👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
My Mom always said never ever take marriage advice from someone who isn’t married. Ebony is proving the point right now.
You can take advice from a person who has been divorced as well.
Your mother has great wisdom for real ..and I'm taking that advise from your mom for real ...thanks for putting the info out thier
So true, shout out to your mom 🙌🏾
Yes. I intentionally do the opposite of my parents, because they both divorced, my father twice now. So when I talk about my marriage, they give me the worst advice.
I joked with my husband that I could likely work as a dating coach with a better success rate than these “dating experts” as a married woman.
He looked at me from across the room and said “Honey, you’ll tell them what they need to hear. They don’t want to hear the truth.”
Meh, I've seen functional and nonfunctional marriages.
My son's Father is a Bus driver. He has been for 18 years,his paycheck being that has allowed my son to go to a private school since he was 4. So Shout out to all blue collar workers.
What do you mean your sons father? You mean the man you have a son with ..
God bless him!
@@coldhardtruth333 I’m glad you caught that
May God bless your son's father, a man who takes care of his responsibilities. May he see his son prosper in his lifetime.
Why didnt you marry the bus driver?
I have a master’s of management degree and my husband has a welding certificate. We have been married for 26 years and still going strong! He is a wonderful husband and father. Degrees mean nothing when it comes to love. I made the first move because I had heard from a friend that he liked me but thought he wasn’t good enough for me. Money wasn’t even a consideration for me. He had/has so many good qualities that are more important that money.
Salute
Amen Sister 🙏
Welders also do pretty well for themselves tbh
Bless you ma’am he’s a hard working good man. Does every women need to marry a lawyer?
@@strafer8764 not at all, am I bragging. I’m simply referring to the woman in the video who thinks she is above hard working men that make less money. My degree doesn’t make me better than my husband. Was simply saying that not all women with degrees think like her. If I did, I wouldn’t be married to the most wonderful man in the world right now! Now THAT I will brag about!!
As a fellow blue collar worker, that makes more money than most people with degrees, let me say thank you to the other blue collar workers. Just know that without us... the world collapses. Without women like Eboni... the world grows.
Shes really mad at the millionaires 😅who will spend Adult time with her and Play around in the dark. But for some reason, they all seem to avoid, forget or need to be reminded of her existence and None have married her. She's crazy , I'm a white collar worker and I wouldn't care, if a good man was manager at Panera , I would date him
Thank you for what you do!
I am an electrician for my local utility company. I bought my home in the mid 90’s, paid it off by 2000 and have been stacking the cash ever since. I am one year away from retiring with a full pension on top of what I have saved. I bet my blue collar finances are way better than Eboni K Williams’.
The great thing about my essential job is that there are 3 things that will put me out of work: Retirement, death and societal collapse.
@@davester1970 Eboni is clueless.
I am with u on the part of making more money than white collar workers. Ima truck driver and make more than 90% of the ppl I know that got degrees that went to college. But even if blue collor workers don’t make bank they still making decent money and if they save and invest they will be ok. Not everyone can make 6figures. I got only a high school degree. AI won’t take some blue collar workers job.
Simone Biles and Eboni K Willams are exacts opposites in every possible, Simone represents a young black women who didn’t allow her success to blind her from the necessity of becoming a wife younger, Eboni is basically the archetype of the exact women in the black community that end up alone forever because of their avarice and inability to pair bond because of her arrogance and misandry.
Exactly!
FACTS!!!💯👏🏾
@Imm85 they’re actually misogynists 🤦🏾♂️
This 🙌🏾
Facts 👏🏽.
“We are the most educated demographic…” and yet we’re here, looking/talking/acting dumb as hell. 🤦🏾♀️
Bingo. Bingo. BINGO! 😁
Education vs Common Sense - I'll take common sense
they educate in social study or crap diploma like that ...
and that why BW are the groupe with the most dept AND lower salary ( and the most fat/baby out of wedlock ... )
“Professing to be wise, they became fools, and exchanged the glory of the incorruptible God for an image in the form of corruptible man… therefore God gave them over in the lusts of their hearts to impurity, so that their bodies would be dishonored among them. For they exchanged the truth of God for a lie, and worshiped and served the creature rather than the Creator…” Romans 1:22-25 (slightly abridged)
Just because you're educated doesn't mean that have wisdom
I’m a Black Eligible Bachelor. Y’all ladies break my heart. And yes, guys like me, we’re smarter. We’re watching all this from the cut, and thanks to the TH-cam era, avoiding hella traps. That’s why you can’t find us.
We’re staying low key for real. I want to be chosen by a black woman but these in this hemisphere are just volatile. I’ll look on and stay healthy mentally and spiritually.
@@SpiritChild0980 bruh wha?? YOU have to do the picking…
@@angelface101ful Naa…. Not over here G…. If I’m picking then I need a positive environment…. Not in this one😎
@@SpiritChild0980 you want to be chosen by a woman , I think you got your priorities all wrong ? What the fck. Log off log off. Go get your balls and come back What the actual fck..
Good for you!
S/O to my pops who laid concrete for 37 years. Sent 3 kids to college and contributed to sending 4 grandkids to college for free. All his children are married and their spouses are black. From him, we now have Education Administrator, Biochemist, 20 year Army veteran, Forensic Accountant, Veterinarian, LPN, and Truck Driver who owns his own company.This is not average…This is Black Excellence! There are many men who are considered average but produced amazing results.
No one followed him to be a brick layer?
Y'all look down on brick laying?
@@stevenbrown9212 The father may have not wanted his children to become brick masons. Masonry is very hard physical work. He may have wanted his kids to experience the physical breakdown like he did, and take advantage of higher education.
@@mariajones9102 that's the same reason Eboni is on, she wants a man with higher education, just like that man wanted his children to get higher education for a better life
@@stevenbrown9212 I worked with my father for four years doing concrete. He loved it. I didn’t. It was his passion and found a way to make good money from it.
@@stevenbrown9212 my dad didn’t care if either of his children went to college. He wanted us to find something we genuinely cared about and do that. He philosophy was find your passion and see what you need to invest in it. 8 years college, jr college, technical certification, etc..pay the price to do what you love.
Much love to bus drivers truckers electricians hvac techs plumbers mechanics and construction workers y'all keep this country running
Before I retired I ran peanut warehouse, And I am proud of what I did!!!
And a 3 million dollar attorney still doesn’t have to date them just to say she has a man 😂
@@CookWhenIWant you realize eboni k Williams also talked down on blue collar women too cause women also do those jobs I listed in my original comment...
@@charlesjones5451 and sir that's what it's all about doing a job you love and makes you happy
Doesn't mean she needs to date them lol.
Its a lot of C and D students signing checks to A and B students. Big ups to the people who truly do the important jobs of the country to keep us safe, connected and able to allow us to go home flip the lights on, turn on the firestick, run bathwater, protect us etc.. You Men and Women are the true MVP'S
Exactly. My brother didn’t do well in school. Didn’t attend college, but owns his own business and a million dollar home.
I did great in school, became a biochemist, but no million dollar home…yet 😊
Our dad was a bus driver.
That isn’t what she’s saying tho. She said many times…maximizing your skill sets. She’s not talking about a failing student who decided to OWN a business. She’s not talking about a bus driver that had good money management and went into real estate on the side. Now if the C and D students settled on working as a cashier at the local grocery store…that would be a person she’s referring to. Yal are listening to respond. Not listening to understand.
@@rouxsinatra5393 wtf are you talking about
@@MrRoe42 well…whatever it was, it wasn’t to you lol
@@rouxsinatra5393 it’s funny that y’all don’t even realize what she said or what she’s doing!! She just reached down to the middle class and below, started some mess and ran off 😂😂😂
My man is a Longshore man. Drives a Crane everyday. Great Father. I've been a stay at home mom since 2006. He bought us a house. Takes care of us and protects us. I live a soft life and I'm grateful for him and his love. I'm very fortunate to always have good black men in my life. The problem is you Eboni. You need to do some work on yourself.
Blue collar jobs are the most protected
Ai won't fix your plumbing or build your house or wire your home for electricity. She's ridiculous.
Ai won’t build your house? You never heard of 3D printing? Google “3D printed house in Germany”.
An don’t forget about the car mechanics workers
@Zay did ai build the house or the parts? Who assembled the parts? and again who installed the plumbing? who wired the home for electricity? Smh. Think beyond a TH-cam video u once saw.
Thank you.
Dam Right!!!
As a six figure blue collar worker, thank you to all the women like her! If we want a clown we go to the circus, we don't bring them home!
That's what I'm talkin about I'm a truck driver they actually don't know how much money we make😂
@@mactheman3810 hi Mac. Shoutout to you.
My dad is a retired truck driver. Retired at 50, traveled to Hawaii and abroad. We surely don’t know how much $$ y’all make cus he definitely didn’t tell me! He just sends me photos from all his trips. 😅
@@mactheman3810 how much money u make ? School me so I can join too
🤣💦🎉
CHURCH!!!!
Graduated college with a 2.5 GPA in Computer Engineering and I make more then people that graduated with 4.0s. It's not about what you know it's about what you can do that will get you far in this world.
As someone who graduated with a similar GPA in EE, and is killing it, I concur.
For engineering that's good lol. STEM GPA's are on a curve 😂.
I graduated college in 09 with a bachelor's in Business IT, after switching from computere engineering myself. My degree alone couldn't even get me a job. I didn't start getting significant job offers until I got my certs. Turns out that I didn't even need college for this shit smh. I know ppl with GED's making $90K+.
Yep. She's stupid.
BRAVO!!
I finally graduated from college at the age of 35, with a similar GPA, and make more money than a lot of 4.0 students at my day job and I have a business at the age 44. I was told several times I had no ambition in my 20s.
She said she's totally unfazed by the backlash and it doesn't bother her, but strangely needed to go back on-air to tell the world that she's unfazed by the comments that she's receiving .
If you're unfazed or unbothered by something then you're just that, you don't get back on TV to tell everybody, you wouldn't feel the need to, but for some reason she felt the need to do so .🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭
Trying to blame white supremacy 😂 like you’re the one who said it 😂 the delusion is real
I’m an EMT. I start Firefighter academy soon. I guess I’m not good enough for Eboni, even though she expects me to save her life smh. Sistas get it together
You gotta own the Fire Department 🤷🏿♂️
@@gravestone93 😂😂😂
@@gravestone93 right 😂
@@gravestone93 😂😂😂
@@gravestone93😂😂😂
The more she talks, the more she tells on herself. As far as Ms. Williams' dating/marriage preferences, her results and everyone's results ultimately speaks for itself. There are nearly 8 billion people in the world. If you can find what you are looking for, then you have realistic standards. If you can't find what you are looking for, then you don't have realistic standards. That being the case, look inward instead of being mad at the world. Lastly BW don't own the most homes, married black couples (a cohort which includes myself) owns the most homes in the Black community.
Fo real.......
No doubt. Eboni is loosely using “Homeownership” to refer to condo ownership, not single family. All women need most of the time is to earn $60k/yr to afford a 1bd condo for them and their dog.
@@usmanvcx she quoted the stats wrong which makes her a idiot. The stats don’t say black women own the most homes the stats say black women that bought their homes did so in the last 2 years (20%) which is horrible decision to do so!!! I believe the media let’s black women speak to show just how dumb they are!!!
You brought those recipts mam
@@usmanvcx They won't be able to buy their horse weave and fakeup if they do that, you know they gon be heated 😭
Every one can’t be a white collar worker. The bus operators, train conductors, linemen, gas techs, every utility worker, cashier, cable workers, plumbers, police, fire fighters, fast food workers, waiters, Chefs, cooks, custodians, etc… I appreciate everything you all do. Without you the wheel would not turn.
The white collar workers depend on fast food workers and bud drivers for their services. Eboni is not a boss. Real bosses own companies and employees. People need to get their mind right. Men and women need to stop calling themselves bosses if they don't own a company. Live up to the boss word you claim.
With the advancement of Generative AI, white collar jobs are in danger as well
These days there are plenty of blue collar workers who are making as much or more than the white collar jobs. That’s because we pushed college down everyone’s throats for the past 40-50 years that we neglected the trades.
But nobody disputed this though everyone is missing the point on purpose
So? What does that have to do with her dating them. They are important people who have their place in the world. She doesn't have to date them!
Her: "I'm a professional disrupter, so backlash is my business"
Translation: "I use my job as an excuse to be as messy, wrong, and unapologetic as I want to be, so there" 🤣🤣🤣
I got nothing but love and respect for all the blue collar workers for keep this country up and running
Agreed. Seems disrespectful to put bus drivers on blast like they’re losers. Not everyone can be “the owner.” Bus drivers do alright, last I heard. I’m tired of all the arrogance/entitlement in the world right now.
Amen!
When the power goes out during a storm, which of Eboni’s 12 cats is gonna restart the emergency generator?
RIGHT. THATS WHATS KEEPING THE WORLD GOING SO STRONG.BRO, IN THE NEAR FUTURE I SEE A SERIOUS DOWNFALL, FOR SO MANY WOMEN.
@@ronque23even them cats be tired dealing with her.
Women: We Demand Equal Pay!
Also Women: Why can't I find a Real Man who makes more money than me! =(
EXACTLY
These modern women delusional as hell!!!!
Yup lol
She’s a strong independent woman! She don’t need no man!
Give them a degree and a little money, and start thinking that the world is beneath them
I got a degree in Electromechanical Engineering and still working a manufacturing job and doing electrical work on the side. I'm glad I don't qualify for women like her.
You're over qualified. She doesn't measure up to you sir!
@@PatienceLove man, I'm stressed out hearing her here.😲😲😨😧
Keep it up brother. Know your worth
Engineering and bus driving are two different fields
I got a degree in business office information technology. And I don't want her nowhere my office💯
I love how you break things down and your prospective. In today's society it's very much needed.
I’m a white guy, I love this channel. Well thought out opinions, spends the time to really look into things and gets multiple sources, and doesn’t let people off on their bad behavior. Props to the creator, I think you’d be a really good journalist but having you on TH-cam is better because you can be you.
What bad behavior?
Do you watch many of her other videos?
Well said. Kudos.
@@christopherm202dcfinest2 Seriously Chris?
@@problactive285 yeah I’m serious, I wanna know what is the bad behavior he speaks of and why is his ⚪️ azz consuming this type of content.
I served a number years in the military and I drove Greyhound bus until retirement. And I still drive school buses part-time and I'm doing quite well for myself.
That's great but that doesn't mean that you're entitled to date every woman. Smh
And she is a tired lonely 304. She mentioned how she has rides the CC.
@@SunRiseEast365 damn he said that I didn’t read that did he say it in another comment or something 🤡
@@SunRiseEast365 Did he say that?? Smh
She doesn't need to date you. Who cares
The pill that is so hard for Eboni to swallow is that she has a preference, but she is no one's Preference. She cannot get a hug from her bank account.
Wow. Didn’t think of it that way. Well put.
Are you saying black women have no options?
@@lia-Hsr 35+, career driven, over assertive, masculine. Men are not looking for these qualities in women.
Summed up nicely. Well done
Beautiful
Damn!!! This commentary hits hard.
Eboni took a simple question and tried to make it about Black Men and Black People. Iyanla NEVER mentioned race. And given that Eboni has been in interracial relationships, it’s funny how she defaulted to assuming that the bus driver was a Black man lacking ambition in her eyes as the ONLY possibility. Shows what she really thinks of us.
Exactly that what I said …she never mentioned race ….but you know how they love to bring us down …they gotta find any means possible even if we are not in the conversation
I’m a 32 year old single mother and I just realized how much I’ve fed into this “toxic ambition culture”unconsciously. I’m a teacher and I do make enough to take care of me but I’m constantly trying to live up to expectations that I didn’t even set for myself🤯🤯
Good thing u can acknowledge that
As long you hold yourself accountable. It doesn't matter what other people think of you.
Take it easy. Try to do all you can for you and your kids not what other people want.
I am a married man. Before I was married. I was single, partying, living life. My goal/dream was to compete in bodybuilding and be pro! I sacrifice 7+ years to train and get there. Being big isn't enough. Moral of the story. To be content, you first have to accept we are where we are. Nothing less or more. Now much more mature. My content is seeing my daughter smile. And my wife happy and herself. All those expectations is to feed something we don't have or want. Once we have it. Then what. I believe expectations is self serving. Like the world owes you something. If we take expectations away. We get
"What is" with out meaning or definition.
Your honesty is much respected. In fact, as I like to say, a single mom who is self aware has a way better shot at getting a man than a single mom with a huge, misplaced ego
THANK YOU to all the bus drivers, sanitation workers, plumbers, electricians and other blue collar working men. My father was a school janitor. He and my mother were married for 60 years before he passed away in 2014. They put me AND my brother through college and today we are both doing extremely well by the grace of God. I am so grateful for my father who was a strong black man that took care of his family in every way. So Ms. Eboni is not a BOSS or someone to even give attention to in this matter. She is a mean-spirited, self absorbed, chameleon and yes a STRONG black woman trying to act as if she cares for men. Not impressed with anything about her. See, this is what is wrong when you get TOO strong as a woman. You don't care about anything or anyone. Her loathing, condescending attitude is nothing to be applauded in my opinion. Thank you Pink Book Lessons for this.
Thanks for sharing! Your father was an amazing man!
@Jennifer K thank you Jennifer. I miss my Dad so much. I appreciate your comment.
Facts and sorry for your loss sista
79 didnt feel right got it too 80 likes
@Dιᥲmoᥒd Gᥣᥲzᥱd Cᥱrᥲmιᥴs I certainly would if it was brought on as the same conversation. Oh yes, I would say the EXACT SAME THING, if the white woman moved the same way. I am all about holding ALL women accountable. And yes, it would be best for Eboni to move in silence and work on herself. We all need to work on ourselves.
The host is a beast! Thank you so much for being 100%
Truth sincerely matters
‘Trust me i’ve done them all’.....that is not a flex😂That facial expression she did after that ‘own the bus’ spoke VOLUMES!! They disregard the dudes that would LITERALLY bring them HAPPINESS and chase the dudes that will devastate them & DGAF. To be 1000%....That is one of MANY issues when someone doesn’t have a relationship with the LORD💯 Hope that EVERYONE has a blessed week🙏Appreciate you, PBL....so very much!!
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@imm85-yi4zp RIGHT!! 😂I ALMOST added that one too but I had finished the comment already but best believe it made me do a double take and think about adding that...HILARIOUS 😂Hope you and yours have a blessed one🙏
GOD ain’t god a thing to do with this. Either it’s in you or not to be a good person. The church is full of women just like her.
@@taharqa332 I didn’t say ANYTHING about ‘church’. I said a relationship with the LORD💯You know the saying....the family that prays together, stays together🤔When I look at TRUELY happy couples that have been together for over 25yrs an overwhelming number of them have a base in the LORD. ‘A peace beyond understanding’ is 1000% real and ONLY the LORD has that gift. Hope that you and yours have a blessed one🙏
AMEN
i was so proud of DJ Envy for finally speaking up, even his demeanor was on point
I was honestly shocked
Yeah we all were so proud to witness a man behave in an overly charged emotional manner towards a woman. He's such a man. Maybe he found manhood after dogging his wife out by cheating on her.
@@SunRiseEast365 youre right next time he should sit there and keep his opinion to himself. or if he has a different perspective swallow it and just agree with the WOMAN... true equality right?
Lol he getting ready to be back in the streets. We all know his wife leaving him just a matter of time
@@SunRiseEast365 So challenging a woman’s views makes him emotionally charged? Is he not allowed to disagree with a woman?
A lawyer on another channel said, this is how lawyers are trained to respond when they perceive they are losing an argument. He said he has the same training. She is entitled to have her preference but what she is not entitled to do is to look down and talk down on other people’s honest professions. She don’t give a damn about the ascension of black men.
Now, all sorts of men are looking at her like she's rotten milk.
Or she believes every bit of what she is saying because it makes sense. The dramatics over someone's preference is so deranged.
@@tnago916 Ha, tell that to all of the women who got mad at Kevin Samuels for asking about their dress size and weight.
The way you broke this down was amazing……Dj Envy crossed her up and broke her down like a shotgun!!! Excellent video!!!
As a BLACKMAN I really appreciate you making this video.
Thank you Pink, for bringing sensibility to the community with the work you’re doing. I’m so sick of the “toxic ambition” in our culture driving millennials and Gen Z (honestly, probably even a bit of Gen X) to depression, NEVER feeling content in life, always comparing ourselves to someone else and more often, to what someone else HAS. Our community is where it is, not because of lack of degrees or education, but misplaced priorities and materialism.
As a gen-xer, I appreciate this comment.
@@charlesr.dearsjr.3027 Facts
Toxic ambition. I like that term. Because that's exactly what it is.
Well said
Wow, great comment! Can you please say it louder for the slow ones in the back.
DJ Envy was on point. My friend's father was a teacher, and he owned several rental properties. My friend said he would work as a bartender on the weekends, too. Because of his hard work, her mother, my friend, and her sister benefited after his death. Plus, he was a military veteran.
No one is denying their work ethic or what they do, she simply said it’s not for her and she’s allowed to have that preference without being ostracized
@@juliusdv6657ebony is no different than the other group of so-called over educated professional women that used to call him to Kevin Samuels show. The fact is the men that ebony want do not want her plain and simple
@@juliusdv6657 It's the condescending and disrespectful way that she presents herself, and obviously her preference doesn't want her because she's single, childless and 40 is around the corner. Young girls need to listen to people who are successful in what they are selling. As in the words of Nelly, "why would I take business advice from a bum on the corner?'"
@Julius Dv That's true. However, when you're a public figure, you should think about what you say. "I said what I said" mentality is not for her.
When i met my wife, I was a truck driver with a g.e.d, she have a master's degree. Now married for 9 years, I'm still a truck driver with two degrees and she now have a doctorate, We both grew together. Just because i didn't have a degree didn't mean i wasn't intelligent and couldn't hold intellectual conversation, it just meant i haven't chosen that path as yet.
I'm an african american male who started out as a blue collar work after the military and pushed my way into white collar society. Blue collar workers possess a level of integrity, humility and intellectualism that many corporates have never usurped. It is their efficiency that allows both them and white collar workers to maintain their careers. My brothers are excelling in ALL fields. And im proud of every single one of them thats holding the culture and workforce on their shoulders. I hope they all find wives who love them for who they are and not what they make.
She was with a white guy for years , the he dumped her. Yeah, Miss " Black Empowerment".
@Janese724 then I wish her luck with finding her soul mate.
We already know what happened to Eboni's law degree. She graduated went to work,them student loan payments hit and she figured out that after all that college education she still brought home exactly what a bus driver brings home and then proceeded to pursue a career in entertainment to offset the difference.
The emotion because a woman said her preference and now you think you know her whole life. There hasn't been one attractive man bothered by this I noticed, rather than worrying about her degree you should be in the gym.
She’s worth 3 million I hope she paid off them student loans 😂
*”There hasn't been one attractive man bothered by this I noticed”*
Attractive men don’t give a crap because they are doing the pumping and dumping. Woman like Eboni will continue to bitch moan about wanting commitment from them and casually talk down on blue collar guys. We already check out the game because it’s rigged.
@@tnago916 “Attractive” men aren’t bothered because they don’t want a almost 40 something feminist who blames men (black men) for her decisions. Also that gym comment was interesting. I guess body shaming is only bad when it’s applied to women. I hope you don’t end up sad and lonely like Eboni K Williams.
@@tnago916If Eboni's mindset was right she wouldn't have needed to freeze her own eggs.
I’d Rather Be A Bus 🚌 Driver Over A Liar 🤥 Pardon Me, A Lawyer. It’s Little More Moral For Me. The Legal System Is Crooked.
LIES unless you’re LAZY AF and not ambitious like the men she’s speaking of
They still arrest dangerous criminals every single day and keep them off the streets.
😂
That's the main reason why being a lawyer was not the route for me!
@@ericp.7550 I HEAR 👂🏾 YOU
As a blue collar worker myself, I live a comfortable life, my kids are well taken care of and I continue to build on my career.
DJ Envy was on point!! I work for a airline I know people who load bags in planes traveled the world for free making 100k and still in there 30s... yet women won't give them a 2nd look..... Never judge a person's job...
The problem with her and women that think like her is, EVERYONE can't be a owner of something. That's like wanting everyone in the NBA to average 30 points per game
Great point
And even then, you gotta score 50
she truly meant what she said about the bus driver. As soon as she got backlash she brought race into it, thinking she can play black people to be dummies and actually believe her excuses. it's nice to see people calling her out instead of allowing her to cause division and go about her arrogant ways.
Why would she get backlash over a preference? Think about how insane that is. If a woman/man do not want to date a bus driver they can have that preference.
She was gaslighting and her fans know it.
@@tnago916lol you say tht but if a man say he don't want to date a chick who is fat or slept around he accused of fat or slut shaming. At end of day she can have whatever preferences she wants but ppl tht think like her are often habitually single 😂🤷🏽♂️
These divesters want massa
@@tdup191 Good to meet another fellow name.
Nobody is looking at the mailman, the garbage man, the subway man as low and mediocre.......nobody is! They are important in society!
Imagine if transit workers and truck drivers took a week off. The word would end in a week.
If not less
I wish I could thanos snap blue collar workers and men overall away for 6 months and let women see how important we all are when they need their car fixed, electricity for their wifi etc..
If ALL BLUE COLLAR workers Stopped working for a month her life would be in shambles. Women like her acquire the money and status and FORGET who rather keeps the economy going But that's her preference than the only thing we can do is leave her alone. Let her bed, money and status keep her warm an safe at night.
@@digfitness7598 Underclass? In the land of their haters? Oxymoron.
@@MsKolo90truck drivers make bank. You should research before running your mouth.
I’m laughing at Ebony because she gave a monologue about how she is unfazed by the criticisms against her because backlash is her business, and “the gag is” her Twitter is on private and protected. 😂
Exactly! If she really was "unfazed" and "not bothered," she would've moved on the next day instead of trying that weak double down. 💯
Why would someone be bothered by this? Most people are on her side, because it is her right as a human to have a preference. The usual angry unaccomplished people cried about it and it will happen to someone else next month.
YEAHHHH, she's A STONE CLOWN 🤡.....The LAUGHING STOCK Of The EARTH!!!!!!
@@tnago916 unacomplished?? A certificate from zaddy does not make you accomplished. Yall have adopted European standards of success and its really sad bc aint yall getting evicted and paid less than everyone else?? Even with your 6 degrees yall still can't catch up. Women lie men lie numbers DONT.
@eeesss23 obviously she got enough negative responses to warrant a silly monologue as well as a terrible showing following that on the radio show. Doesn't matter if 90% of the ppl agree with her; the right people being the 10% caught enough of her attention regardless.
Ebony says she’s a disrupter but she’s the same one that would have hated Kevin Samuels for saying a woman like her was average at best
A rich man with sense wouldn’t want her.
"I am completely unphased!" Proceeds to go on 5 minute rant addressing the comments. Make it make sense.
Im a City Employee my husband is a Mailman and we both accomplished alot. My Mailman husband is a kind loving and dedicated man. I get gourmet dinners and my laundry done. We are both hardworking individuals doing things together ❤ Women like you don't give men a chance you look down on them and yet you don't have what i have im a simple blessed woman with accomplishments. Recently closed past January on our Second Property. Education people is not the Trophy its a Status to say i went to College. Some died while there trying to fit in drug addiction and alcoholics. They program them to look down on people. It's not what you make it's what you do with your money. I live in both homes no Rentals.
I don't think she has much CLASS ,
DIGNITY , MORALS nor INTEGRITY
I DO KNOW SHE'S CLUELESS TO THE REAL WORLD OF PEOPLE'S
INSIDE SHE'S LONELY , CRYING 😢 LOST AND CONFUSED FROM HER DISOBEDIENCE
GOD MAY HAVE SET HER HUSBAND IN HER FACE 😔 AND SHE DECIDED TO WALK AWAY FROM HER OWN BLESSING'S BECAUSE OF HER OWN SELFISHNESS OF WHAT SHE WANTS AND NOT WHAT'S BEST FOR HER 😢
I do agree she will live a life of regrets , sorrows a lonely life she will have desperately seeking whatever she's looking for 😢 sad but true
Take a look Eboni. This is what success looks like.
@@Janese-ky8hy so she's for men from another race, no matter what their occupation is?🤔
@@Janese-ky8hy You don’t know? Weren’t you the moron who said she is too good to date a BM? Sounds to me like you had the inside scoop.
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AI isn't going to take away manual labor. I'm a Computer Engineer, that is the biggest myth of them all. AI is going to take away the small time tech jobs. AI can't fix an AC, AI can't fix a pipe, AI can't fix a rode, AI can't build buildings. AI can code, can tell the news, can make art, can make music, etc. The real people that should be scared of AI is the entertainment industry.
Especially Hollywood, a celebrity that passed away a while ago will be 100% back on TV or Movies in no time flat... Think Mahalia Jackson or Michael Jackson or even more... Or even singers like Whitney Houston for that matter, it's simple.
All you need to do, is vocal and human AI and it's GAME OVER.
I hate the fact that people misuse and misunderstand what being "equally yoked" means. It has nothing to do with finances. Being equally yoked means having similar upbringing, values, desires, motivations, lifestyles, etc. Equally yoked is a mindset.
Also a spiritual mindset as well
Ebony: it’s 2:1 black women graduating college over men
Meanwhile: my brother has no college degree but owns a high earning business with 0 college debt😅
😂😂😂
I was gonna say who hell told them there the most educated because they are not
As a truck driver, I’m genuinely GLAD Eboni K is getting all this smoke 😂😂😂
We should season some ribs, chicken and brisket. We can't let this smoke go to waste. 😅😅😅😅😅
I bet you have a big ass belly and hypertension. She wouldn’t look your way. Stay mad lol
It's coming from a certain disgruntled group of people. Most people agree with her and she is allowed to have her preference.
@@tnago916 “Most people agree with her…” that’s cap and the women (cause no man respects what she’s saying) listening will have a better chance of getting struck by lighting twice in the same exact place than marrying “the man who owns the bus”
I really hope we can transfer the smoke to the rest of these bitter influencers 😂😂😂😂
This was a GREAT breakdown. She's the type if you let her into your life she'd wreak havoc on your finances. Not once did she mention love or friendship. I can hear the sour buttermilk in her voice. Her ex fiance dodged a scud missile. Stay focused out here.
@@Janese-ky8hyWhy is still single?
@@ericbyrd1083 that’s a troll bro. They do it all the time to strike up arguments! 😂😂😂
' Have any of you women ever considered that those men you are going for would be settling for you?' That's gold right there. I'll be remembering that 1 thank you.
Hell most criminals get more respect than legit working class individuals.
And that's sad
sad
This is true. Especially in the black community
She lost her opportunity and now she’s trying to convince other women to do the same. Pure evil.
Misery loves company they say
Pure evil??? 😂
opportunity to…be with a bus driver?😂
@@lalaland7961 to be undesired and miserable. Enjoy lol
@@lalaland7961 your tag says it all. Hush dummy
We have 2 ears and 1 mouth for a reason.... We're supposed to listen more than talk...... But many refuse to grasp that concept. No man wants to come home to another battle to deal with.
Sis your advice and opinions are always on point and women like us are the women that are married and in successful marriages and lives!
I've been a blue collar worker since I was 16 yrs old, and now I'm pushing 40.
No shame in my game. 🤷🏿♂️
No one said there was literally no one
And I respect the hell out of you for that
Same here, Bank account is sitting right.
@@angelface101ful you didn't watch the video obviously
And it shouldn't be
Imagine putting yourself on a pedestal yet trying to convince everyone that the reason why you can’t find a man is because none of em are good enough for you 🤦🏾♀️ she’s speaking as if she just popped out with the titles and accolades and she didn’t start from somewhere. women like her are not looking for a partner. Nobody is saying black women need to date pookies and Ray rays. She definitely kept moving the goal post, as if a man having money means he won’t dog a woman out. Dj envy definitely said what needed to be said.
The more money men have the higher the chance of them cheating and leaving you for a hot 20 year old once you are 35
Working class black man matter. It's not about their money anyway, A man can prove a great life as a bus driver......This woman has problems..
They matter, and she still doesn't need to date them.
This is sooo good!! Thank you for your continuous perspective.
What’s crazy is the older lady never mentioned a black bus driver. She said would you date a “bus driver” and she made it about the black man.
YALL DID
You know you're lying, right?! Black folks who watched the clip made it about black men, she didn't.
If Eboni lost her platform/job tomorrow the world would keep spinning.
If the people she's putting down lost their jobs tomorrow, lives would be turned upside down.
This is insanity.
and she still doesn't need to date them.
@@tnago916 way to miss the point
True l.
My husband is a duel licensed water operator. He makes enough money for me to stay home and homeschool our son. Also, he makes more money than some people with degrees and he has no student loan debt. These women need to keep being loud and opinionated so the good working men can avoid them and get good women that will love and support them for who they are!
Amen! 👏 👏 👏
Well said my dear. Keep appreciating your man and let him know you appreciate him.
The way Eboni lowered her eyes when she said, “If he owns the bus 🚌” shows you how she’s ashamed of her response because she knows that she looks down on working class men who don’t approach her income level. 🤷🏻♂️🙄🤦🏻♂️
When PBL said the women that were saying, "ya telling black women to settle, have you ever stopped to realize for a lot of you, these men you want, when they get with you they will be settling!" Boy, I felt that one in my soul and was sipping slooowwwlllyyy😂👀🍵
she uses the “black” card when she is getting backlash smh but yet she is denigrating the black man based on status and education levels
I was an essential warehouse worker during the pandemic. We had all the supplies the world was dying to get their handswe on. Working 60 hrs a week. Meanwhile the 100k per year folks were in full panic mode.
Right smh
Speaking of pandemic, when it was going on you didn’t have all these women bashing men.
And we weren't getting a cent from that government unemployment because.. we were essential.
@@TrueProphitCrazy right? 😂
@@OddOtter707 Big McFacts
I loved the tall glass of misandry comment.😂😂
Another banger of a title ... Simple and straight to the point, and TRUE ... How men communicate! Good stuff, PBL.
I appreciate you! Thanks for watching 🙂
Shame, insults, guilt and the need (craving) 2 B right. (Kevin Samuels RIP) the late/great.
@@1968dogg She is right.
@@tnago916 she’s also aging, single, bitter and alone.
Ebony Williams: A LEGEND IN HER OWN MIND!!!!
the way she purses her lips after speaking fouly says everything about her.
Facts 😅,
She said, she did them all 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
The very same people she looks down upon are the reason society is functioning. They do the necessary jobs that aren't "pretty" that others don't want to do.
My cousin is a multi millionaire doing real estate. He worked as a bus driver until he retired in his 40’s because his real estate business was doing so well. Now he’s flipping office buildings.
My last two GF had Bachelor Degrees
I barely have a GED
And out earned both of them
And still do
I completely ignore women like this now
The disrespect because they’re educated is so annoying to deal with smh
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OMG!!! That savage transition. 😂😂 Had me hollering from the back of the classroom before the bell rings.
I married the man that use to ride the bus, who now owns the bus...
There's level to this. You never know, that "bus driver" may very well receive a blessing and become the CEO of the bus company the next day...never underestimate the everyday hardworking man. Shallow people like her can never understand this, unless they change . She needs prayer 🤲🏾
Facts Nia! She will never know how to keep a man talking like this. No matter what she says she always have to be right! I hope all of the other single ladies that see right through her BS.🤦🏽♂️
You're saying the same old thing. You are talkin about a woman investing in a man because he has potential. Please tell me how often that has worked for the black woman?! Please stop with these exceptions to the rule!
@@gisellekateerteatime no, I was fine with him riding the bus...didn't know he will one day own it...all I'm saying is ...there's nothing wrong with your average everyday harding working man. Mine just leveled up is all and I stuck it out with him through it all. I'm not saying what you're implying
@@gisellekateerteatime i works pretty often. Just like men marry to potentionally have a wife that can make a home a home. The gaslight is saying it " never" works. Thats negative thinking. And not everyone has to think like u do on that. But this is common sense. U vet to see who is ambitious enough to follow through, with what they say they are gonna follow through. This happens all the time. Some chick in school, makes fun of the nerd who says he will be something, and ends up supprised when he actually does? Yeah We love to prove those people wrong. Men opperate under one philosiphy. "If someone says u cant do it, prove them wrong." U just happen to be replying to this woman, who understands it. And she understands the potential of an ambitious man. Just because u think 90% of us arent that ambitious dosent disprove it. U have light bulb, u have technology, u have the world u live in, all built by men, and men who "potentially" ended up doing so. Building worth is a process, u dont just end up being successful over night. And u cant expect to share in a success, u were never apart of.
Naw... she need to stay single... God will show her
She said she been with all kinds of men across the spectrum but can’t seem to find one suitable one? Crazy
She can find one but does he want her with that mindset is the question lol
As a woman raised in the city they pushed college on us for a better life. Now as a mom in the suburbs these suburban schools pushing trades and town jobs in my kids school. That way when they’re 20-22 they will have a job and a mortgage while their counterparts are paying off student loans and paying high rents
That’s because those b*llshit degrees people are getting don’t actually teach you to do anything. Business, marketing, and history degrees (just to name a few) are useless. It’s funny how us plumbers, electricians, and welders are called ignorant white trash (not saying you said this) yet people love to move to our neighborhoods, go to our schools, and be around us in general first chance they get.
Yup you can retire early of a trade most start off at 100k
@@jay-kq5kv I wouldn't say that most start off at 100k but many will give a decent salary to start
I didn’t finish secondary school/high school here in Scotland and I got in to a trade doing asphalt/tarmac at 19 and I’m now making over 190k a year and I’m not at the top level yet.. Trades are amazing and the way to go.
@@SquareSausages almost 200k/yr doing asphalt?
This the very first time I’ve heard DJ Envy talk with a backbone 💯
Educated and intelligence are two different things. Someone that knows less than you can possess more intelligence, the great combo is having fuel to ignite the intelligence, education.
JAMES WHAT YOU JUST STATED REQUIRES A DOUBLE AMEN!
GOD BLESS
She changed the subject to race, mentioned a few good talking points based on the alternate subject and ran with it without addressing the issue at hand and without most people noticing. Typical lawyer move
I am a black man i have been a burger flipper. I am a vet. I have been a plumber l have been a bus driver, I have been homeless and currently an Uber driver and currently working on becoming a real estate business owner. Everything above is was my titles it is no reflection on my character I never cheated never beat my girl and am super loyal to my friends. No baby mama and a decent credit score and I can cook clean and do my own laundry. I am many things but interest in a chick like her or have her mentally is not one of them. Any person who talk like her is super basic and willing never be happy
Real Talk .shout out to you, Pink Book Lessons . Excellent delivery on your commentary in this video. You are spot on with everything you said about This toxic eboni k. This lady is not setting any examples at all for anyone to follow. All She doing is putting out gold digger vibes. She was very disrespectful not only to a bus driver, but to all of us working class citizens in general. I'm glad Dj Envy and Dr Umar Johnson checked her. Now she trying to backtrack and trying to save face saying she didn't mean it like that. These gold diggers are gonna learn the hard way. Because
they don't realize a tornado can come and blow their house down at anytime. what you got today can be gone tommorow . So you better learn how to appreciate what you have right now, and not take it for granite.
She should be the new spokesperson for “skittles”. She enjoyed “tasting the rainbow 🌈”.
What are you trying to say?
🤣🤣🤣
@@tnago916 she said she been with em all. It’s a joke on all the dudes she been with
What's funny is DJ Envy and the Breakfast Club didn't like Kevin Samuels but now they're seeing what Kevin Samuels and all of us saw and heard with modern women.
What's funny is everyone was okay with kevin samuels calling women and men "average at best" based on very shallow things such as jobs and looks. But when a woman like eboni has a preference and critiques things that are average at best (education) she has people in their feels.
@@tnago916 Kevin never shamed average. Please stop with the lies.
@@tnago916 I didn’t care for Kevin but let’s not act like he wasn’t dragged through life and death. When he died women were celebrating. Comparing Kevin to this makes no sense because Kevin Samuel was not left untouched. He called that women average at best because she acted like she was too good.
To the video we go!!! There's poof out there.... He never put anyone down just those who put themselves down and others he called out the BS
She just wants to date a man’s income, not the person themselves.
Facts . She's a golddigger
Social media has made it cool to talk down on blue collar people. It’s so horrible and dismissive.
She is definitely reading from a TELEPROMPTER!! 😂😂😂 .... ok on a more serious note... I agree with u Pinkbook! 🎉❤️🤗
Sad as hell this woman .
.go to hell
I been a bus driver for 11yrs. I live a great life too!
As long you’re going honest work, you’re fine and blessed
We need more women like you speaking over women like this. She is a cancer to the community. Smh
She's a cancer to men who hate to hear about themselves but love when kevin samuels calls women (and men) average. She has her preferences and you have yours.
@@tnago916 she Also has a date with a sperm donor lolololol