Loren Gray Opens Up About Past Miscarriage, Abuse & Mental Health Struggles | Just Trish Ep. 65
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 27 มิ.ย. 2024
- 🚨 CW: This interview contains discussions about miscarriage, SA, and ED.
On episode 65 of 'JUST TRISH', social media and pop music sensation Loren Gray bravely opens up to Trisha about overcoming her past struggles. From experiencing a miscarriage when she was just a teenager to surviving a physically violent SA, Loren hopes to encourage and empower younger viewers by sharing the traumatic details of her story. Plus, she reveals why she immediately forgave Trish for shading her in the past.
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CONTENT WARNINGS:
0:00 - INTRO
10:00 CW: OCD
12:30 CW: SA
18:00 CW: Depression
19:50 CW: SA
20:20 CW: ED
21:20 CW: Alcoholism
23:25 CW: Abuse
27:45 CW: SA
28:30 CW: Miscarriage
36:30 CW: SA & Violence
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Now, the meme queen is taking back the mic and truly telling it how she sees it-from the latest Internet drama to the hottest celebrity gossip. In this weekly podcast, Trisha gives her hilariously unfiltered take on the biggest headlines and trends currently taking social media by storm. Alongside her friend and co-host-Emmy-award winning entertainment news journalist Oscar Gracey-she provides her brutally honest, and sometimes highly controversial commentary on pop culture. It’s not personal, it’s ‘Just Trish’.
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Trisha this is WHY you were blessed with daughters. So unbelievably proud of you.
This is such a sweet and powerful point!!❤
Wait is she having another girl
@@mermaiddiyartist8119yesss she’s pregnant rn !!
@@mermaiddiyartist8119yup
we need to raise boys and girls and they/thems the same so the boys don’t grow up to be monsters lol
“ you are qualified to talk about it because you went through it. “ girl this has changed me
32:51 timestamp
Same
❤ thank you for this timestamp @@itsgiving3954
this was loren’s first therapy session without her knowing
trish is so good at being a safe place to disclose really bad trauma
Fr
and I think the fact Trisha says she's willing to cut stuff out on request is very comforting to people
❤❤❤ RIGHT ❤❤❤ I IMMEDIATELY KNEW THAT LOREN NEEDED HER , AS TRISH WAS ONE TO PROVIDE HER SPACE TO STAY SAFE ❤❤❤
She’s been through so much too and I’m sure wanted someone like her to talk to 😭
😅Si me imagino 😮😮
Oh this sweet girl. Makes me want to cry that she is only 21 and has been through so much.
Me too and also her apologizing for sharing her experience is so upsetting. Very brave and inspiring girl! ❤
then there’s people like me who are the same age, not famous, raped 3 times and more trauma I don’t have the comfort to name and don’t get a single hug for it
@@amyrose1592 sending you love even if that means nothing through the internet ❤ also if it makes you feel any better I'm a lot younger than 21 and went through everything without that too. also not invalidating and we're not alone in our heartbreak and struggles being a human is hard ❤
@@amyrose1592 this is not a competition. A lot of people went through that without fame or anything, but it doesnt make her trauma less bad or yours worse. Its a weird comment to left. I am glad they're people out there who have to platform to speak about those things.
She’s not special
i remember being sixteen and thinking “omg loren’s life is so perfect I wish mines was like hers” and this podcast just proves that you never know what the other person is going through so judging it in any sort of way is pointless 👏
Literally i looked up to her so much
no i deadass had a fanpage of her and thought she literally had THE life but well
“I’m not qualified because I’m not handling things by the book” “your qualified because you went through it” I LOVE TRISHAAAAA
This pairing was so unexpected, but so amazing.
thiss
I knew nothing about her, she's lovely.
Trisha is this young woman’s therapist in this, she needed to get all of this out. Bless them both ❤
Wait I need this Trish
100% Trisha is a safe space for her
Just because you carry your trauma well doesn’t mean that it isn’t heavy 😔 Loren if you’re reading this, from one survivor to another, you did not deserve any of the trauma and abuse you have suffered from such a precious age. You are so incredibly strong to even just wake up in the morning and continue to put one foot in front of the other every day. ❤❤❤
You are amazing. ❤
Well said
The way she kept saying sorry for her trauma breaks my heart. She deserves so much love and I wish her healing. I wish I could give her a hug.
Felt the exact same way about it
I had an abortion at 19, I couldn’t fucking possibly imagine having a miscarriage at the age of 13 and how mentally damaging it would be.
no seriously. i had an abortion at 20 and for loren to do it at 13 makes me cry
@@faedollsabortion and miscarriage are different things, albeit both resulting in the death of a child. miscarriage happens unintentionally and spontaneously, whereas abortion is intentional. both are very traumatic though, however miscarriage sadly can't be avoided most of the time
@@maisie1120 in her case tho, I think they are kinda the same because i can’t imagine her wanting a baby or her parents letting her have a baby
Use protection next time
@@maisie1120 i’m not dumb? i know that. my comment was like, damn if i had an abortion at 20. what did this 13 yo girl feel like during miscarriage? .. get it ?
When she said she experienced miscarriage as a child could not even fathom what she meant. That’s horrific and amazing she can talk about it.
Agree but isn’t weird for Trish to mention that in the title.. using that for views it’s just weird to me.
@@idgaf8389there is so much unnecessary hate towards Loren. I think people will have new perspective on loren. So it's for her good.
She would have asked Loren beforehand. @@idgaf8389
I never cared much about Loren Grey but I’m living for this interview!! Sweet, intelligent girl! I appreciate her transparency and authenticity. Loving this interview!
🧚🏼🌱💗💫🌞
I actually don’t know who she is and I usually don’t know who any of the guests are. In fact, I think I’ve skipped 90% of the guest videos. I’m only like 12 mins in but I’m absolutely loving the realness of this episode. It’s very interesting and relatable
for real I thought she had a perfect life with her parents but im still trying to process this. The internet is fake and its hard to believe.
@@gissellefunezshe’s been open about her life and struggles on her own platform for a while now
Same!!!
Whoever screamed F YOU to James Charles deserves to win the Powerball! You go girl!
That part was so funny😅
Fr
This comment took me out😂
Wait omg when did that happen im dead ☠️
@@allanthinkstwiceLoren tells the story at 1:09:49 😂!
Hearing Loren talk about having a miscarriage so young makes me feel not alone because I had a miscarriage as a teenager
hope you are doing well ml ❤❤❤
1 in 4 or 5 women have at least 1 miscarriage in their lives, so it is a sadly very common experience, and it happens at all ages. You're definitely not alone
I study journalism and how you (Trisha) ask the question but keeps the conversation going is so incredibly good!! I’m so proud of you Trisha! I don’t think people understand how difficult it is to talk about trauma and difficult questions and keep the conversation going and showing sympathy! I’m so proud!!
She pivots through everything and is so good at talking to people. She reminds me of me cause in bad at talking to people in real life too, but when I’m one on one with someone I always like them to feel heard and important
I feel her when she says she was looking for a safe space in boys after being SA. I was SA at 15 and i dealt with it the same exact way. Boys felt like a safe space for me. It wasnt until i turned 22 that i realized how much i was letting that experience dictate my perspective and therefore my decisions. I was 22 when I realized what was done to me wasn’t my fault. Till this day, I can’t speak about to anyone bc I’m still embarrassed it happened to me.
you are so not alone, there is absolutely nothing to be embarrassed about. abusers are the ones who should be ashamed of themselves. sending so much love your way. 🖤🖤
Wow I relate so deeply. You are not alone.
I'm 26 and carry that weight as well. Just know it isn't your fault and you do not need to tell anyone unless YOU decide you want to. ❤
Don’t be embarrassed. It’s shocking when you talk to another friend about this because they almost always say they went through something similar
please never be embarrassed, the person who did that to you should be. you deserve to be at peace with what happened - you are the victim. please dont be embarrassed.
this was honestly my favorite episode so far. it was raw, wholesome, and just unequivocally real! i could have watched hours more of this podcast!! i think it’s beautiful that loren trusted not only trish but her audience to be as honest and vulnerable as she was.
i have been following loren for YEARS she has grown into such an admirable young woman, so intelligent, so sweet, genuinely kind and considering the traumatic way she grew up, this truly shows how authentic and kind hearted she really is in her core. she actually needs to come back to the podcast in the future, we all love her very much!
I honestly used to not like her, of course I was 13 on music.ly and all of my “hatred” was 100% rooted in jealousy as a young girl seeing her and wondering how someone is THAT beautiful. But I was a kid and basically wrote her off because of my own insecurities and basically decided I didn’t like her which is TERRIBLE. Now turning 21 in a few days and watching this and hearing that this girl was going through the same exact thing at the same exact time as me while we were both putting so much pressure on ourselves and our appearance. It honestly hurts me looking back that I wanted what she had so bad but we were honestly the same. She is SO smart, so well spoken and this was such a reality check for me that even now to keep in mind that everyone else is struggling too in some way.
@@leahtorrence5276 I totally feel this and I think it’s the result of a society that loves to pit women (or even young girls) against each other based on beauty - it’s so amazing and healing to see us all come together as adults, overcome that conditioning, and truly empathize with each other. We got here in the end. :)
Trisha pls give us a Juno cosplay (baggy jeans with the skirt😂)
Yesss
THIS WOULD EAT!
AND MOSES AS BLEEKER😭😭
YOU KNOW THAT SONIC YOUTH ALBUM YOU GAVE ME? ITS JUST NOISE
@@lonnybreaux3078Yes this^
She's got trauma and when you have trauma it's hard to be in touch with your mind body and soul. So it makes a lot sense when she says she has emotions she just can't identify them
I have clinically diagnosed CPTSD and I genuinely had no self awareness of my emotions until about 6 years ago when I got off birth control and my hormones went nuts. I literally spent most of my life as an NPC. I was not there. It’s very difficult to accept that I became that dissociated from myself
This was such a vulnerable and sensitive episode. Trish, the way you are able to make a comfortable enough environment to allow for conversations like this, truly shows your skills as a listener and as a host. You are definitely fit to have your own television show one day.
She's a great interviewer!
My sister passed away this past New Year. She was only 23. I've never heard of Loren Gray but her stories reminded me of my sister.
Sadly, she also was SA young, in abusive relationships, eating disorders. She was finally healing with her kids. And decided to go out for New Year and was killed by a drunk driver. This broke my heart knowing there are so many young beautiful women who feel so badly about themselves. Please sweet girls Live for yourself, don't try to fit others' mold, you are beautiful and unique. What happened to you was never your fault! 💔🦋
So sorry for your loss
I’m so sorry for your loss. May your sisters beautiful soul live on with you forever. 🤍🕊️
I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. I hope when you guys reunite in the next life, that it is beautiful and peaceful and free of the pain and hardships. Sending you so much love and peace.
So sorry for your loss 😢
I’m so sorry for your loss and hope you’re able to deal with the grief, I lost many people in 2022 and it’s so difficult but I do feel it gets better.
Love that the national alliance for eating disorders number is under the video ❤
Fr
When she got to the miscarriage I started crying.. I can’t imagine… God bless this girl
Oh my goodness, I don’t know this young woman but I just want to give you a hug. You are here for a reason and I am sorry our society doesn’t do a good enough job protecting our youth both off and online. You are so forgiving and loving. I hope you are healing these kinds of trauma can bubble to the surface in later times in life. I myself dealt with similar issues and really lost myself. You do not have to be sorry about sharing your story. I am sorry you had to be alone at the time but I hope you read the kind comments and know you are no longer alone. Sending you healing and love.
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Love your comment 💜
I felt the same way like I hate that she was all alone and unprotected at such a young age. She did not deserve any of this, and she’s not the one to blame At all.
@@d.2542 I feel like it’s been something that she needed a comforting woman to talk to based on how quickly she opened up. I know Trisha isn’t perfect but I am so happy this young lady felt comfortable in her space to share her story and feel understood and safe.
i feel like loren blamed herself so much in this for OLDER GROWN MENS actions. you can’t “get urself into these situations” without older and toxic men agreeing to be in these situations with u
she was down right manipulated
for the last 7 years i have continuously thought “i seriously cannot love loren more.” and yet, with every passing year and every new song, interview, podcast, and even interactions/messages, i am proven wrong. this woman means the entire world to me. every single thing i learn about her, it just makes me look up to her even more. i am so happy i “grew up” with her. love you so much loren. forever.
agree with the part about growing up with loren, i’m only 2 years younger than her but it feels almost like watching a distant cousin growing up with a whole different life, loren is so strong
Honestly. This was the therapy I needed. I’ve gone through a lot of the simpler things Loren has gone through. this Podcast has hit me in ways u don’t even understand. And has open my eyes up by a lot.
❤
u got this
I came here to say the same thing. Not quite same things but very similar and just made me think.
Same
Ah yeah the violent/aggressive SAs are always a lot more subconscious on the trauma scale aha dang sorry they got you too LMAO didn’t realize the short term BS was from those and not just my adhd.
Loren is so sweet :( She's so strong for speaking about this!! DO COUNTRY! It suits you so well.
trishaaaa the bangs are too good 😫😫
this entire episode feels like a therapy session. trisha is so good at making her guests feel safe and letting them open up about their struggles. loren deserves the world! ❤️❤️❤️
I know so many girls just like her. Absolutely gorgeous on the outside but have been through unimaginable situations. She’s a strong girl for making it out especially with all the pressure from the public at such a young age. I never knew much about this girl but I must say she seems so lovely and genuine.
It’s so sad hearing how her parents failed her. Her dad blaming her when she was being taken advantage of by an ADULT? He should have beat his ass lol. I find it so troubling that her parents never put her in therapy when she was a teenager. I hope she receives help, because no one should have to deal with these things alone. Self awareness isn’t all it takes to heal and move on, but it is a huge step. Rooting for her!
so many beautiful girls get bullied about "being ugly," it makes me so sad. we learn to tear people down out of jealousy SO YOUNG. no girls should be told that growing up :( i know now that i am really beautiful actually, like i can acknowledge that intellectually, but i still have serious body dismorphia from it despite that.
this goes to show how quickly we are to judge whats on the outside. we assume things, me included. i never knew loren was this down to earth and had been through so much!
I don’t know her but it’s so true. Everyone probably had deep story
Did not expect this girl to have such a powerful and at times very dark story. I applaud her for going this deep into the struggles she’s had growing up. I’ve known of Loren because of her huge social media presence but never heard her interviewed before or even speak. I assumed she had this picture perfect existence and huge internet fame as a young girl which financially set her up for life. But she’s incrediby layered and complex and really has experienced much more than most people her age. Also Trish was spot on with the Britney Spears reference, but also Holy Hannah Montana. She could body double for Miley Cyrus circa 2010. The hair, the eyes, the makeup, the whole look. Now I can’t get the best of both worlds out of my head.
loren repeatedly apologizing for her own trauma :/ if she ever sees this : baby you are allowed to be open and vulnerable even though people in your life have taken advantage of that. what you have done is beautiful and how people have manipulated that is THEIRS to hold, not yours. she deserves everything good in the world ❤
This made me cry, I definitely grew up watching and admiring Loren having no idea she was experiencing thinking she was so happy and living her dreams. While she was actually living a nightmare the miscarriage really just shook me. God your in my prayers Loren I hope you continue to heel, grow and love yourself 🫶🫶
i grew up with loren too, looking up to her as almost a sister (because i’m only 2 years younger than her) and i totally idolised her, she was beautiful and had an amazing job, but looking at her life from her perspective is truly heartbreaking
loren should never feel the need to apologize if she feels like she’s making people uncomfortable when she’s talking about her own experiences and trauma 🥹♥️
I know therapy can be a lot to unpack but this is why trauma therapists exist! I would really think about it Loren.
I love how humble and genuine Trish is. She doesn’t realize how relatable and iconic she is. I’ll always love her for this. She’s grown so much.
Crying at my desk after Trish reminding us we’re all deserving of love
loren is incredible. she's well spoken, humble, and so insightful. i think survivors who listen to this will feel seen and heard -- we see and hear her. thank you trish and loren :)
Wow. The interview is a lot more introspective and deep than I expected. Trisha u really bring out a side to your guests that is never seen before :,)
It’s so nice to hear someone talk about short term memory loss. I feel like I’m the only one that has it (dx at 10, as well as “no working memory”) and it’s lonely. I’ve had mental breakdowns over it because I’m terrified I’ll wake up and not know who I am anymore.
Amazing episode once again Trish! I always leave a video liking someone new 🙂🖤
You should look into aphantasia.
I have it because I’m always in my head. I travel a lot and my boyfriend of 14 years has almost perfect memory and he always brings things up that I don’t remember. He remembers names, restaurants, and exact locations. Taking pictures helps but I forget so much
Trish I'm not even done with the video but you were absolutely what this girl needed at this moment. Im so so so incredibly proud to see you come this far and see you have this beautifully articulate conversation about such difficult issues. ily forever fr
loren seems so down to earth, and the way trisha guides such a sensitive conversation is so good
Dr. Trish over here getting deep with every guest almost instantaneously!
As dark as the subject matter was at times this was honestly so refreshing and I really think Loren and Trisha need more episodes together! To be able to go this deep in a very emotionally mature way for this length of time is a very good watch. Love seeing the women these two have grown into being 🥹🥹🥹
I’ll literally be a Loren stan forever. She’s so sweet
i just wanna give her a hug!!! i’ve been watching her since musically. such a sweetheart ❤
Trish is so good at interviewing and making people comfortable, she immediately started complimenting her to build her up and talk about some super easy things. I am so obsessed with her, she is so kind
this episode is so raw I relate to a lot of Lorens stories, it’s rare to hear people talk so openly about it. Makes me feel less alone
It’s sad her parents let her down even though her mom and her couldn’t live together she should’ve never left her alone in LA at 17 years old.
Trisha giving us the content we CRAVE
What was life before Just Trish
@@kay1552 I can’t remember
@@kay1552for me it was a insecure 13/14 year old and she made me feel confident and like I can get everything I want in life ❤🌺 as a now 27 year old
I love people getting so star struck around Trisha and then slowly getting comfortable bc she has such a nurturing energy. Side note my heart was breaking for Loren the more I listened. Ugghhh we have to protect young women!
When Loren said im scared to go to therapy that resinated with me so much but then i realised you talking to Trish, was like watching a therapy session, loran i commend you for being so open because it really does help people
Loren seems so genuine
this is so brave to come online and say, I am so proud of Loren right now.
it didnt take long for me to understand she had emotionally immature parents.. to feel that you had to help them navigate their divorce? her parents failed her.
Well their parents probably failed them and they did the best they can. The fact that she loves them so much means something. You don’t have to make everyone into a villain
@@ElliotNono "did they best they can" is an excuse. you dont know me enough off one comment to know I make everyone a villain.
@@OwnBestFriend you’re saying her parents are when she clearly respects them though
@@ElliotNonothat doesn’t mean anything lol. you can still love & respect your parents even if they treat you horribly.
Loren being so vulnerable and introspective and also just so eloquent and sweet about her life/story is so impressive and wonderful to hear. My heart goes out to her with all she’s been through and I’ve gained so much respect and admiration for her! 🤍
i've loved loren for a long time tho i dont interact w her content much but this made me happy, i could relate to a lot of her trauma (different, but similarly) and seeing her openly speak about it gives me more courage so thank you loren.
This was so unbelievably relatable. It saddens me how relatable it was because it's so common. I feel so understood.
This sweet girl works so hard. I’ve been seeing her for a while now. My advice for her is be careful who you hang around. Lots of creeps out there more than happy to take advantage and would enjoy taking her down. Lyla being one. I get wanting to see the best in people but take it from someone who’s been there… kindness can be seen as weakness to those that don’t have your heart. Protect it my love. Great interview. 🩷
WOW! I was not expecting this dynamic! I don't know much at all about Loren but her honesty, vulnerability and humility was such a surprise. I will definitely be following her more closely. TRISHA, you really, TRULY need a talk show... or a psychology degree. You handled Loren's story so well and gave her so much insight. I'm so proud of both of you and I hope you maintain some kind of relationship with her. This was a beautiful episode.
This is one of my fav episodes yet Loren is so sweet and well spoken for how much she’s been through
Had a similar situation to Loren..in dating a fucking predator (15-20) it’s so crazy their family will thank you for taking care of their predator ass- same shit happened to me.
Proud of you for opening up Loren and proud of you for doing self reflecting.
Side note,
Trisha I don’t think you understand the impact you’ve had on people.
You were the first person I saw that was like me online lol in terms of the trauma..especially, 10 years ago. Thank you for being you Trisha ❤
Literally dated a 27 year old at 17. Completely changed me and gave me so much trauma I still haven't worked thru. It's so sad how many of us have experienced nearly the same thing.
@@kayleehatfield7294same girl. I lost my virginity to a 30 yr old when I was 15. I have always been embarrassed to tell anyone and now I’m 30 and realize how traumatic & how much that effected me! 😩 I was such a good kid, never did anything bad.. was with that man & then the next guy I ended up 16 & pregnant & still with that guy.. but could never imagine my almost 14yr old daughter being with a grown ass man like I was! This world is scarier than it was 15 years ago. We gotta protect our daughters & children in general! ❤
I totally remember this when she first came out she never showed his face and I read a comment on his page about him dating a 15 year old at 21 and someone saying he likes young girls and she was dating him and he moved in when she was 17. She even made a comment saying he didn’t like his picture taken..and she made a post when people started talking to stop calling her bf a predator everything is legal and consensual. If knew something was up.
I relate to Loren's story a lot. Everything she says makes a lot of sense. She is so well articulated. As someone who's also been through a lot of shit, it is so painful, horrendous, violent, and scary. Acknowledging the things that have happened to you can be so difficult, let alone sharing them. What a strong, and beautiful woman. Inside and out!!! Trish you do an amazing job at giving your guests a safe space!! I know you are a wonderful mom💝
I'm so glad Loren talked about her experiences. I have nearly the same story as her (minus the fame and plus staying with my groomer til 23) and her saying "If someone has a lot of boyfriends etc there may be something more to it" so much, in my teens I would post so many raunchy inappropriate things looking for validation or attention because I thought I was an object unable to be loved and sooo many people relentlessly judged and bullied me and I wish people would think deeper about talking about lonely/insecure/traumatized little girls like that
Loren Gray is literally such an icon and such an amazing person to have on the podcast literally she deserves her flowers and she is so genuine ugh she’s an it girl for sure!!!!
I have to say I’m so glad you put out these podcasts, being able to see the real, raw, emotional side of things is awesome.
i loved this interview. Loren and i have such a similar story and im the same age as her and i just resonate a lot with what she said. i was SA’d and miscarried at the age of 14 and fell into eating disorders, drug and alcohol abuse, relationships with older men, domestic abuse, bipolar/ocd father, and now im in a healthy relationship and i just feel so much of what loren described. this episode was beautiful thank you trish and loren❤️
PLEASE HAVE MADDIE ZIEGLER ON
anyone from dance moms really!! besides jojo😭
We applaud the bravery of sharing your story Loren! What you did takes a lot of courage and vulnerability and I learned so much! Thank you again for sharing your story! I learned so much! Xoxo! Ian Graves!
She’s such a strong young lady!! I hope Trish gave her a big hug after this.
Loren is such a beautiful soul and so well spoken for her young age. Totally changed any perspective i had of her before! this was wonderful 💕
Loren is such a beautiful soul. She’s so passionate about what she does and she’s so kind. I feel so bad for what she went through but I’m glad she opened up and talked about this. She’s pushed through so much and I’m so proud of her!
i love how loren’s so true to herself. especially knowing her style (her farmhouse-style home is gorgeous) & even continuing school (her talking about writing papers is so cute). it’s really inspiring as an older teen to see how she views life and her aspirations. wishing the best for her & trisha as well
Wow, what a sweet guest! She’s been through a lot but still radiates. Trish is such a good interviewer and lets her guests speak so honestly. Love to both of you!
im honestly so proud of loren. like im not even a fan but it takes alot to be so open its admirable
I feel seen through her because I am the same, therapy didn’t help me but my therapist would always say she was surprised that I could be so self aware at such a young age, I psychoanalyze my life and the people in it which actually has healed me so much. She’s amazing honestly the first few minutes already made me realize she’s a great human.
I’m not a social media girl so I had to google who you were Loren and I saw that you said you were scared that you overshared on Instagram. As someone who used to drink a lot, I would wake up feeling that way all the time and it was so upsetting. Lots of people have felt that way for various reasons. You have nothing to feel bad about. You were honest about yourself and you honored your parents. People who want to be mean will do so no matter what you say. You just told your story and it was amazing and powerful. I never watch Trisha’s guest episodes but I gave this one a chance bc of all the positive comments and I’m glad I did
as someone that had a miscarriage as a teen, thank you loren. this made me feel so much less alone and seen
Loren is just such a beautiful and sweet person I really hope she can heal and just be truly happy ♡
Wow I follow Loren but had no idea she had been through all of this 😢 I’m sure her opening up will help more people than she realises but I hope she’s okay ❤
This was so relatable and SO transparent!!! I appreciated this conversation so much. Thank you Trish and Loren 🩷🩷🩷
Dear Trisha and Loren,
Thank you so much for this episode. Trisha, I have been watching you for a LONG time. Anytime you have even slightly mentioned your traumatic experiences, my heart has extended out to you. I feel as if I have been through this internet journey in a way with you and while there have been highs and lows you have always maintained the horribly experiences you've had. While I know you have a hard time remembering details (trauma response), you have always been so forthcoming about your experiences. It is a reason I felt less alone coming forward with my own story. Also, I am from IL too which sucks.
Loren, it was just the other day I came across your Pennsylvania house tour. It was the first time I had ever watched a video of yours. Your name sounded familiar but I just don't think the algorithm brought me your way until now. However, I am so grateful it has. I have LOVED every second of this episode. Your transparency and self-reflection are beautiful. As a survivor myself, I always encourage others to go to therapy but all things happen in the time they need to. Being a survivor is like being part of a club I wish people wouldn't keep joining. My heart extends out to you as well. I promise that talking about it is the most therapeutic thing you can do. When you bury, you are only adding more layers of trauma on top that will have to be sorted through later. I am currently in my phase of sorting through. My ed was directly related to the control I was seeking after being SA'd.
I am not writing this comment from my private account because of the subject of this episode. IT was said by both Loran and Trish that the subject of SA and ED are never talked about but it's also like we're all simultaneously dying to talk about them. That's why me and my friends who I met at S.A. Group Counseling started our podcast. This podcast is a safe space for survivors. It is a safe space for us to honor all parts of our lives - not just the comfortable ones. This is a place where we are transparent about our feelings, share helpful resources and information, work through our own symptoms of traumas, and hopefully spread a lot of joy to the people who sometimes have a hard time finding it. Before we even started to upload I said my dream guest would be Trisha because I adore her but I also know she has had her own experiences too.
I know this was long. I just really fell so in love with today's episode and because my whole life's mission is to destigmatize talking about our traumas and creating more safe places, I really felt the need to comment. Thank you both so much for sharing - the impact it will have on others in unmeasurable. It is one of my life's biggest goals to get onto the Just Trish!
-Talk About Traumatized
I’ve never been a huge fan of Loren (never disliked her, just didn’t watch her a lot) but I’m living for this interview. I think I have to follow her on everything now. She is truly the definition of “don’t judge a book by its cover.” I hate that she had to go through the things that she did. I LOVE that she has always been a fan of yours, I never expected that. Wishing her love and light in the future❤️
I also feel so bad that she kept apologizing. No need to apologize, this is why we watch Just Trish. We want the raw, unfiltered version; as long as you’re okay with sharing it.
Thank you for talking about miscarriage. I’ve had 2 this year as a 21 year old and although it’s a totally different situation than what you went through Loren, just knowing somebody else my age has gone through it makes me feel less alone. Everyone I know who’s had one is a decade older than me. Thank you for being so open 💛
Thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing your experiences. It really helps to know that so many of us struggle through these things in a similar way. And seeing more of us get to the other side of such things really means a lot. So much love for you both!
Listening to conversations like these is so healing for me❤
I’m being so honest I always thought Loren was so perfect. Watching this I can definitely relate with her so much more. I respect her for being vulnerable to tell her story.
oh this makes me cry, because i can relate on how Loren has gone through, im 40 now but when i was younger i did go through a wild phase because of experience when i was young i did have my wild phase, at some point went through different partners, possibly because then i wanted to take ownership of my own body, and the period that went so dark for me and seek for help when i had post partum and the floodgates opened. I did at that point seek therapy, that was 11 years ago. I have my life together now and think i was a functioning wreck back then..and i think her experience hit me hard because i was her once. And sometimes just opening up has to release the bad blood and someday, you will learn how to really love yourself..it took me a while. and i hope someday you will heal. sending my love.
I stopped following Trish for a long time until recently with this podcast and I have to say, I have been so impressed every episode I’ve watched. Trish opening up herself and also being a safe place for so many people. It’s been really nice to watch!
Wow this has been my favorite episode so far. Thank you for sharing this ❤
Omg this is THEE guest to get on!! Wow
loren is so well spoken and mature. it makes me happy to see her happy and growing.
Imagine being THIS GORGEOUS 😭 TRISH YOU ARE THE MOST BEAUTIFUL PERSON I HAVE EVER SEEN