For those of you making rude comments... I have extremely muscular thighs as a soccer player. It just how my body developed and I'm cool with that... So my thighs rub together and it annoying. I have abs and I still suffer from chub rub. Seriously, it not any woman's job to please you. If you don't like it, don't watch the video.
Unless you're morbidly obese, Not having a thigh gap doesn't equate to a person being overweight. Thigh Gaps or lack-thereof have more to do with bone structure of that of the pelvic girdle than anything.
Bone structure as well as muscle (look at Olympic gymnasts, for example.) I do have very little extra fat in my inner thighs but when I push that fat, I feel muscle and bone.
I honestly don't understand people telling her that she looks unhealthy. You don't actually care about her well-being. Y'all are just looking for an excuse to ridicule her. People are so quick to criticize someone who's overweight and tell them they're unhealthy, but y'all don't even blink when you see someone doing drugs, drinking smoking, exercising excessively etc. Any unhealthy thing that doesn't cause you to gain weight. You can clearly see that she's not suffering from any debilitating health problems, and she obviously exercises regularly. SHE'S FINE. She's happy, she's confident, and she's able to function properly as a human being. I've talked to medical professionals about this. They tell me that as long as you're happy and not suffering from diabetes and or any other serious health conditions, and not gaining weight at uncontrollable rate, it's not something to put high up on your list of worries.
that doesn't mean everybody else should stick their nose in her business, leaving thousands of comments rudely advising her to stop being unhealthy (which she is clearly not) or lose weight.
+Girthy Meat she shows herself working out several times throughout this video. that is more than a lot of thin people who sit behind their computers saying big people are unhealthy
+James Hurpa You clearly don't know anything about how weight works then. Yes, being extremely heavy or extremely thin can lead to health issues, but I know plenty of fat women, myself included, that have ZERO health problems. Being bigger than 100 pounds doesn't make you unhealthy. You're an idiot if you believe that bigger people can't be healthy.
If your body doesn't let you walk comftably because your chubs rubs every time you try to, then thats something not normal, because you're "designed" to go nude and be able to walk for periods of time, i'm a man, i used to be fat, i experimented chub rub, and althought i lose weight let me tell you that there´s nothing more stupid to me that hearing that not being able to walk, one of the most basic things, comftably and calling that healthy or normal is depressive.
i looovvee her confidence! Girls (and Guys too), as long as you're healthy and happy, there is absolutely👏NOTHING👏 wrong👏 with👏 your👏 body👏!!! love yourself and be good yall
No, meth heads, cigarette smokers, and heroin addicts get far more hate than fat girls. Fat women are constantly told to love themselves, the same cannot be said for drug addicts.
Am I the only person whose thighs always touch no matter how skinny they are? Like I'm currently not super skinny or anything, but I'm not overweight either - my thighs have always touched, regardless of my weight
Grow up. Geez. Thick thighs are hereditary. Also, you don't have to be "fat" to have thick thighs. A lot of people who exercise and body build have chafing issues too. Also, quit shaming overweight people. Don't like it? Don't look.
I did starve last year and my thighs were still pretty thick. I have a pear shape, meaning my lower body is thicker than my upper body so even when I looked like those typical skinny white girls, my thighs were still bigger than theirs.
i am a 110 pounds and my thighs rub together badly so i think i can confidently say that if you dont have a thigh gap it doesn't automatically make you fat or unhealthy :)
Anyone who knows her from Buzz Feed knows she does Salsa dancing and other activities. She health. not everyone should look like an stick model. THICK THIGHS SAVE LIVES
Some people are really mean. Do they really think by saying 'lose weight' she'll suddenly be like 'Out of all solutions, I never would have thought losing weight was the answer! Thank you so much person for this golden advice!'. She's a 20-something year old woman; she's not clueless. You can be in the process of losing weight and still be annoyed by that chub rub!
I have big tighs and I have a healthy weight, actually My best friend is super skinny and tall (she has tigh gaps) and for some reason has this too sometimes
We do know because there is a video and she mentioned her weight and how she is trying to lower it. Also, I hate when people say someone doesn't need to lose weight. If someone is unhealthy they need to lose weight because its unhealthy. Having health problem because of lack of discipline (if that is the reason and it isn't medical) is sad and they should receive help if they are not. Would I go around telling people they need to lose weight no because that is not my place to tell people about their health condition and i'm no doctor.
Actually, you can't lose weight if you just do diet, you have to exercise. BUT if you're in a weight you're comfortable with, you only have to watch your diet and you'll be fine :) I kept my weight for almost 7 years, and I ate what I wanted in small amounts without doing exercise.
Exercise has actually been proven to have the most impact on health and offsets most negative impacts done by food, someone who is overweight but exercises can be way healthier than someone who is of a healthy weight but doesn't. Also, extra weight isn't an indicator of loving junk food, healthy food can have just as many calories and portion is really everything. Health has a lot of factors, you can't judge someone just based on their weight
do they make noise when you walk?? .....i have super thick thighs lol and i notice sometimes when i wear stockings it makes a sound when the stockings rub together..
+Alice Gair - not like stocking- I think it's because of the lace.... Because of that they don't have full contact with each other all of the time, like stockings do ;)
My husband uses the body glide daily (he's a runner and gets mad chafing between his legs, and shoulders and sides). It worked so well he started using it daily during work hours because he's a maintenance man and it works amazingly for him. I'm wondering if there's something different about the formula for the "mens" and "womens" bars..
Actually, the formulas are the exact same, the women's one is just smaller and more expensive. (pink tax ): ) I use both, but I bought the "For Her" one because it's TSA friendly, and I use it daily now just because it fits in my purse for emergency reapplications.. It lasts me a whole day of walking/running and even through florida heat at the theme parks. I feel like she either didn't apply it correctly or got a defective batch.
MelAuiron and Cats I wonder about that too because I buy the regular body glide and use it all summer and LOVE it! honestly, I didn't even know the "for her" existed. 😂
I've always had chub rub. Even when I weighed 100 pounds, it was still an issue. I've never had a thigh gap, ever. I want to get me some of those lacy leg bands!
I absolutely love Dayshia so much. She's one of my top favorite Buzzfeed members. She's so free and unapologetic and beautiful. Thank you so much for making this video because the struggle of chub rub is real. Also, I actually use olive oil and Aveeno lotion to help. Sometimes I have to reapply it, but for the most part it really helps, plus it hydrates the skin so that it can heal faster from when I don't use it. =)
for me the worst chub rub ever is when your pants or shorts have a hole in the inner thigh part but only on one side its worse but both its still bad but thats the worst chub rub for me
Not to mention the blisters and the holes in your pants that come from the constant rubbing. And the always feeling fat even when you lose weight because your thighs STILL rub together!
+AliceLuna :3 As a guy with this problem, it costs a fortune in ruined pants (and the expensive ones wear faster), fortunately the pants get most of the damage, so at least it doesn't hurt.
I may have to get me some of those. I've always been afraid bandalettes were like thigh high stockings aka THEY DON'T STAY UP. But i'm glad to hear there was only minimal rolling and no straight falling off.
i dunno.. to me, they look just like the top part of thigh highs... which, for me, ALWAYS roll.. its annoying. those bandalette things even have the same tacky/sticky stuff on the opposite side as stockings so im still kinda skeptical =/
I've had the same issue with hold-up stockings, but bandalettes do stay up - it's probably because there is nothing pulling down on them every time you bend your knees. They occasionally need adjusting, but I've never had them feel like they were going to fall down.
cantankerousharridan oh, thats actually a good point.. i never thought of that.. yea, since there isnt anything tugging them down, perhaps they stay in place better like you said! ill have to give em a whirl then!
I find that using deodorant works really well but I'd have to say that my favorite to use is spray on antiperspirant. It works like heaven, it stays on, and your inner thighs get super smooth
that's what i use too. i use it on my thighs and under my boobs, cuz boob sweat is no joke lol. works like a charm every time! i even use my husband's spray on antiperspirant sometimes!
+zainsmommy1207 Lol I've always wanteded to use it on my underboobs but I've never been sure that it worked, but now that you've said, I'm probably going to try xD Men don't know the nightmare of boob sweat xD
my husband caught me using it under my boobs once and he laughed at me. they just don't understand! it's awful having those big ole sweat marks under the boobs! lol
This is so helpful oh my god. I have only recently started to get this issue, and unfortunately for me, mine can get especially bad because I am prone to stretch marks, the chaffing gets so bad that my legs will rub together and form nasty scabs along the stretch marks. It's really nice to see that I'm not the only one to experience 'chub rub' and that there are ways to prevent it. As a teen/young adult it is very important know that the issues I am experiencing are normal, I have never seen this issue adressed anywhere else. this video made me extremely happy and confident about my thick thighs.
I always get chub rub on my pants but when the inner part of my pants that stick out start to rub my thighs, I get a rash. It's only happened once though
It is possible that she did also have an allergic reaction by how bad that she said it was, but for someone who also experiences chub rub, it was probably just that it didn't work. That ish gets REAL irritated REAL quick if it's hot and your thighs are directly touching the entire time.
Am I the only person whose thighs touch (not that much but just like 3 inches of my thigh) but doesn't get chub rub even when they wear shorts or skirts
Deodorant, especially the sports kind, works best. It smells good, it doesn't stop working the minute you start to sweat and it doesn't stain your clothes. Plus most people already have it in their bathroom (hopefully).
+Dyani Moriah I didn't believe it until I tried it out when I went to an amusement park. I walked around for 7 hours and no chafe or discomfort! And that was after sweltering heat and water rides; deodorant is awesome.
+Autumn Rose yes! It works so well! I was a doubter before I tried it too. I just couldn't understand why I would put deodorant on my thighs. And then when I did, never going back. But those bandelettes look real cute too.
Thigh gaps aren't that fun when every time you drop your phone or your food or literally anything important and it just sails on through your legs to the floor. And it uuuuusually means prolonged sitting makes your legs fall asleep way faster. They aint that special
I saw body glide and immediately though "RUNNER"S HEAVEN"... But seriously I've never seen anyone actually use the "for her", another pointlessly gendered product
I had no idea these existed. Anyone have anything else to add about Monistat or whatever? Ya girl got some sweaty thickness goin on. And does anyone know how to stop getting holes in your pants from the thighs touching???
Actually, it doesn't tear easily- that was the point behind the fabric, that it is long lasting. Tearing in't the issue though- friction is. And unless you're wearing the very lightest of satins (which don't breathe well, BTW), you'll have friction issues. You could do what I did to my kids' jeans when they were little- I ironed on some iron-on fabric where they were likely to wear (for little boys esp, in the knees) the most. That gives you a double layer and you can get a bit more wear out of them.
Using products like this helps with the Jean problem as well. So does wearing panty liners regularly because sometimes discharge can make it worse because it's soaked into your panties and wears down your pants because vaginas are acidic
i always look for pants that don't have the seam right where your legs touch, but a little to the back. seams are points of weakness and the constant friction wears them down much faster than just uninterrupted fabric
You act as if 105 is a lot.... Try being 5'2 and 167 pounds. Maybe I'm being dramatic, which if I am I'm sorry, but please note that you are way under the weight a 5'5 person 'should' be. Anywho I hope you have a great day and please be considerate of other people's feelings since some people are more sensitive then other. Thank you ( ^ω^ )
Broseph Tails Im sorry! I have actually worked really really hard to get to the weight that I am. I did go to the doctors about it and they said I'm a healthy weight. I have an extremely slow metabolism so losing weight is very difficult for me. I hope you can love yourself no matter what, have an amazing day! :D
Ahh, okay well I'm glad you've gotten the weight you've worked for! I have a breathing problem so it's hard for me to exercise so I'm a bit sensitive on the subject of weight.... Anywho, thank you and have a great time. ^.^
This was so helpful. I wore a skirt the other day and got all sweaty and chaffed so much I had scabs the next day. Bless this video. I'm off to buy some Monistat.
Wow these products all seemed very expensive. I am an athlete with very thick thighs, but I just put Degree 48h Antiperspirant between my legs and it lasts ALL day. If it will last through a sweaty 5h bike ride, it will last through a day of walking. i would recommend to all the ladies out there! It's like 3.99.
I was pooping and I was looking through my phone and it slipped out of my hand and it went through my thigh gap I had a mini heart attack by I was sweaty so it stuck on the inside of my thigh while I was holding it too
Exactly! I may not be necessary "skinny" but people have to realize it also has do on how your body is shaped! People are saying she needs to lose weight but don't know many people can get this without being overweight!
I know it sounds weird but the Victoria secret dry oil spray works wonders for my chub rub. I have hella thick thighs (I was very much teased for it in highschool. So you know it's real.) and the oil makes it glide but it also left a really nice scent that didn't irritate my skin and left my thighs really soft. I highly recommend. But it DOES have a scent so it may not be ideal if scents irritate your skin.
Nope just means ya got wider hips. The opposite happens too with closed hips, even with teeny tiny thin legs, no thigh gap (google Ashton Locklear - a US gymnast). Thigh gaps are more about hip width than just thigh width.
+Ash - "we" who's we girl? you're speaking for yourself... I've seen plenty of comments on this video of people sati gong they're skinny and have this problem.
I love bandalettes! They revolutionised my wardrobe. I used to only go out in jeans and pants but after I bought the bandalettes I wear airy dresses all the time.
Gold Bond Friction Defense is one of THE best products ever made for this problem! After going to Disney World, riding their water ride (in jean capris) and walking around all day. Let me tell you, I was in tears the next day. We found a Walgreens (I was hoping for bandaids or ace bandages since it was day 2 of our trip) when I found this bar and it saved the rest of the trip! 🙌🏽 And for anyone hating on her and telling her to "lose the chub", I'm not a big girl or even a thick girl and my thighs STILL rub together. It's just a thing people, most of us don't have a gap or strive to get one. Get over it. She looks amazing and I love how much she loves her thighs!
It's horrible, especially when you have to keep on going through your day for hours on end with nothing to help. I actually have some scars from my inner thighs starting to form blisters once
Same here, my thighs touch each other and I never have this problem. It's a little uncomfortable at fist when I wear shorts but then I get used to it. No chafing or anything.
Just try normal deodorant!!! And for all of the people saying "just lose weight," there are so many girls and guys at the appropriate weight that get chub rub.
+Alex Davison Both can still get chub rub that's what I'm saying. You can be super healthy and your thinghs can still touch. Regardless if it hurts or not.
I love love love the monistat powder gel!! I once went hiking and my thighs were having none of it. when we finished our hike and got back to my friend's house, his mom gave me the powder gel and I've been using it ever since. 4 years later, and I'm still a happy paying customer ^^ (btw, you can get monistat powder gel at CVS!! If you have CVS where you live that is ^^ )
To the people talking about "Just lose weight" nah fam stfu. I've been skinny before just like a skinny string bean. And my thighs rubbed together then. I'm thicker now and my thighs still rub together now. I work out, and am hella healthy. Thighs rub together aand unless you have a thigh gap which most people don't , your thighs gonna rub. So get outta here with that judgmental shizz.
People telling her to lose weight are bullshitters because IM PRETTY SURE MOST OF THE REASON SHE HAS THICK THIGHS IS BECAUSE SHE DOES SO MUCH EXCERSISE
I have the Monistat powder gel for when I wear dresses without shorts underneath, and I love it. You'd think it would feel weird, but it really does feel like a powder. It smells good, so it doesn't matter that it gets on your fingers, and it is so silky smooth...and probably a lot cheaper than some of the solutions out there.
That monistat gel is life changing. It is unbelievable. I recommend it to everyone. I use it for my kids and husband too because my husband gets heat rash at work from his clothes rubbing and my daughter's get rub rash from running around sweaty and in shorts. I always have it in the house - and it is so cheap too.... fantastic!!
To the people that are staying that "she needs to loose weight": Having a thigh gap is actually not healthy, Her body and thighs are perfect just the way they are.
I have the bandelettes. They are amazing! I would guess the issue for the rolling is because the size is too small. The only thing I would say about this product is be careful when you wash them because they will get caught on anything. Invest in one of those bags you put your undergarments in to wash!
For those of you making rude comments... I have extremely muscular thighs as a soccer player. It just how my body developed and I'm cool with that... So my thighs rub together and it annoying. I have abs and I still suffer from chub rub.
Seriously, it not any woman's job to please you. If you don't like it, don't watch the video.
THANK YOU
I am a swimmer and i am the same way have a muscular legs and arms
Same
I am a gymnast and I have muscular legs
Thank you.
I'm the same and my thighs rub together but when i was fat af it hurt a lot more than now since I'm toned
all these comments saying "oh just lose weight" really make me question humanity
Same lmao
In order to get a thigh gap I would personally have to starve myself and maybe get surgery.
Natural selection
Dan..... CRUMPETS!
same omg
Unless you're morbidly obese, Not having a thigh gap doesn't equate to a person being overweight. Thigh Gaps or lack-thereof have more to do with bone structure of that of the pelvic girdle than anything.
Thank you. Finally Someone with brains.
Also, a lot of your thigh is made up of muscle. So you might have really strong legs, but still no thigh gap.
Or obese or over weight these are different stages of bascule being fat, which I don't think she is, maybe mildly over weight
Exactly. I'm a size uk 8/10 so considered thin but I still get the chub rub
Bone structure as well as muscle (look at Olympic gymnasts, for example.) I do have very little extra fat in my inner thighs but when I push that fat, I feel muscle and bone.
I honestly don't understand people telling her that she looks unhealthy. You don't actually care about her well-being. Y'all are just looking for an excuse to ridicule her. People are so quick to criticize someone who's overweight and tell them they're unhealthy, but y'all don't even blink when you see someone doing drugs, drinking smoking, exercising excessively etc. Any unhealthy thing that doesn't cause you to gain weight. You can clearly see that she's not suffering from any debilitating health problems, and she obviously exercises regularly. SHE'S FINE. She's happy, she's confident, and she's able to function properly as a human being. I've talked to medical professionals about this. They tell me that as long as you're happy and not suffering from diabetes and or any other serious health conditions, and not gaining weight at uncontrollable rate, it's not something to put high up on your list of worries.
She's clearly overweight
+Girthy Meat Okay, but she's clearly not dying or suffering from a serious medical condition
that doesn't mean everybody else should stick their nose in her business, leaving thousands of comments rudely advising her to stop being unhealthy (which she is clearly not) or lose weight.
This comment is the real MVP.
+Girthy Meat she shows herself working out several times throughout this video. that is more than a lot of thin people who sit behind their computers saying big people are unhealthy
I HAVE HOLES IN THE CROTCH AREA OF ALL MY JEANS BECAUSE MY THIGHS RUB TOGETHER ALL THE TIME.
Same
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same😭
I hear you 😭😏
me too!! also hyuna!!
My chub rub is the only reason I'd ever want a thigh gap.
xsilvermistx same..
people in the comments telling her to lose the chub and exercise SHE IS LITERALLY EXERCISING FOR HALF THE VIDEO HOW CAN YOU NOT SEE THAT
🙌 Thank you for being someone to finally say it!
I was just about to say this!
You can literally exercise until your body breaks and you will still not loose weight if you're eating wrong though...
Salsa dancing isnt that much of a workout, I do it 3-5 hours every other day.
She needs to eat healthier too if she wants to really see results
+Jessy B right. if she wants to. idk, she seems pretty happy with her body though.
All you people commenting on her weight. She probably does more exercise than you do! Having a stick for a body doesn't mean healthy after all
If you're fat you can't be healthy
Exactly. She clearly does a ton of exercise. We are all built differently, so why are people hating on her?
+James Hurpa actually you can
+James Hurpa You clearly don't know anything about how weight works then. Yes, being extremely heavy or extremely thin can lead to health issues, but I know plenty of fat women, myself included, that have ZERO health problems. Being bigger than 100 pounds doesn't make you unhealthy. You're an idiot if you believe that bigger people can't be healthy.
If your body doesn't let you walk comftably because your chubs rubs every time you try to, then thats something not normal, because you're "designed" to go nude and be able to walk for periods of time, i'm a man, i used to be fat, i experimented chub rub, and althought i lose weight let me tell you that there´s nothing more stupid to me that hearing that not being able to walk, one of the most basic things, comftably and calling that healthy or normal is depressive.
Does anyone else have this problem?: When your wearing Jeans and you walk you can hear the fabric rubbing against each other?
yes 😥
how is that a problem ??
Mystical Leviathan
Well in my opinion it gets annoying,plus the fabric wears out.
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i get this problem when i wear tights lmao it makes holes in my tights :(
Time for me to buy about 4 bottles of that Monistat powder gel.
girl same!!
Yesss girl!
Also works great as a primer!
Same!
right?!
i looovvee her confidence! Girls (and Guys too), as long as you're healthy and happy, there is absolutely👏NOTHING👏 wrong👏 with👏 your👏 body👏!!! love yourself and be good yall
But being fat (or overweight if you want to be kinder) is not healthy.
+Teknium lots of things are unhealthy but seems like far girls get the most hate.
No, meth heads, cigarette smokers, and heroin addicts get far more hate than fat girls. Fat women are constantly told to love themselves, the same cannot be said for drug addicts.
Nobody ever told me my body was disgusting when I publically did recreational drugs. Lol
Cevin Jemeyson Good for you, every heroin addict I've met (sadly, I've met many) have been ridiculed and treated like vermin.
Am I the only person whose thighs always touch no matter how skinny they are? Like I'm currently not super skinny or anything, but I'm not overweight either - my thighs have always touched, regardless of my weight
I used to be 103lbs and my thighs still rubbed!
It's your bone structure. I'm 103 Lbs and 5'4 and my thighs rub.
Yea i wheigh 110 pounds and im 5'6
A lot of people's thighs chaff regardless of weight. Ugh I hate chub rub xD
whatevershari mine tooo
Grow up. Geez. Thick thighs are hereditary. Also, you don't have to be "fat" to have thick thighs. A lot of people who exercise and body build have chafing issues too. Also, quit shaming overweight people. Don't like it? Don't look.
+Alex Davison Good job keyboard warrior. Gold star for you.
+Nikki K Don't get sarcastic just because he is right xD
I'd love to see how hereditary your 'thick' thighs are if you were forced to starve.
I did starve last year and my thighs were still pretty thick. I have a pear shape, meaning my lower body is thicker than my upper body so even when I looked like those typical skinny white girls, my thighs were still bigger than theirs.
xyOnThePrecipice21 No, it isn't.
i am a 110 pounds and my thighs rub together badly so i think i can confidently say that if you dont have a thigh gap it doesn't automatically make you fat or unhealthy :)
yessss
yes good observation ! 😊
right! i use to be big then i lost loads of weight and my thighs still rub together not as much that its a problem but i will never have a thigh gap
I'm pretty skinny but that also doesn't mean I'm healthy. I hate my thigh gap because it's really big and it makes me uncomfortable.
I'm 14 and overweight and I chafe a lot.
Anyone who knows her from Buzz Feed knows she does Salsa dancing and other activities. She health. not everyone should look like an stick model. THICK THIGHS SAVE LIVES
Some people are really mean. Do they really think by saying 'lose weight' she'll suddenly be like 'Out of all solutions, I never would have thought losing weight was the answer! Thank you so much person for this golden advice!'. She's a 20-something year old woman; she's not clueless. You can be in the process of losing weight and still be annoyed by that chub rub!
I have big tighs and I have a healthy weight, actually My best friend is super skinny and tall (she has tigh gaps) and for some reason has this too sometimes
even if your not overweight yo can have the same issue
She doesn't need to lose weight. You don't know if she even wants to.
True!
We do know because there is a video and she mentioned her weight and how she is trying to lower it.
Also, I hate when people say someone doesn't need to lose weight. If someone is unhealthy they need to lose weight because its unhealthy. Having health problem because of lack of discipline (if that is the reason and it isn't medical) is sad and they should receive help if they are not. Would I go around telling people they need to lose weight no because that is not my place to tell people about their health condition and i'm no doctor.
am i the only one whose thighs don't rub the part that touches they kinda just stick together while the rest of my legs move
Nope
Same my thighs just stick together. They do not move when the rest of my legs move. But I still hate wearing shorts, skirts and dresses.
it's a mix of rubbing and stationary for me 😂
omg same
oml i thought i was the only one
yall want a thicc girl but when she tells you that it can be annoying yall be telling her to lose weight?? wyd fam
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boi i see you everywhere! like are you youtube???
"She should lose weight" SHE`S EXERCISING IN THIS VIDEO, ARE YOU BLIND?
Plus, even if you don't have any problems with weight you may have this problem
Anna Markova Yes. I weigh 60kg, and I have this problem to a smaller degree.
You seem to know a lot about health... Calorie deficit?
Exercise is NOT the key to weight loss. It's diet.
Actually, you can't lose weight if you just do diet, you have to exercise. BUT if you're in a weight you're comfortable with, you only have to watch your diet and you'll be fine :) I kept my weight for almost 7 years, and I ate what I wanted in small amounts without doing exercise.
"she's needs to loose weight!1!!1!2"
did any of you watch the video?? Because she has shown herself doing multiple exercises . . .
she's obviously healthy, just has big thighs
+andyy.xpx you can exercise and be fat and unhealthy... maybe she eats a tonne of junk too?
+angelstouch92 she's not fat, and just because she's a little bit bigger doesn't mean she's unhealthy
she is not fat she is beautiful
Exercise has actually been proven to have the most impact on health and offsets most negative impacts done by food, someone who is overweight but exercises can be way healthier than someone who is of a healthy weight but doesn't. Also, extra weight isn't an indicator of loving junk food, healthy food can have just as many calories and portion is really everything. Health has a lot of factors, you can't judge someone just based on their weight
i've been using bandalettes for at couple of years and i LOOOOVE them - and bonus - so does my hubby ;)
That's awesome!!
i'm a size 14 and 6' tall, do you think i'm too big for them to work properly?
Polka Dots i'm gonna buy some! thanks!
do they make noise when you walk?? .....i have super thick thighs lol and i notice sometimes when i wear stockings it makes a sound when the stockings rub together..
+Alice Gair - not like stocking- I think it's because of the lace.... Because of that they don't have full contact with each other all of the time, like stockings do ;)
I love that woman! shes beautiful and ROCK Those cures!
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^
But she's fat, how can you be beautiful and fat?
Daysha is beautiful and she doesn't care about you haters
My husband uses the body glide daily (he's a runner and gets mad chafing between his legs, and shoulders and sides). It worked so well he started using it daily during work hours because he's a maintenance man and it works amazingly for him. I'm wondering if there's something different about the formula for the "mens" and "womens" bars..
I use the men's one! It's not sticky at all.
Actually, the formulas are the exact same, the women's one is just smaller and more expensive. (pink tax ): ) I use both, but I bought the "For Her" one because it's TSA friendly, and I use it daily now just because it fits in my purse for emergency reapplications.. It lasts me a whole day of walking/running and even through florida heat at the theme parks. I feel like she either didn't apply it correctly or got a defective batch.
Good point about the pink tax.
im a runner too and im probably gonna go buy that tomorrow
MelAuiron and Cats I wonder about that too because I buy the regular body glide and use it all summer and LOVE it! honestly, I didn't even know the "for her" existed. 😂
I get chub rub every now and then...And I'm 5'8 135 lbs....so yes you can get it even if you're skinny.
I'm 125 pounds I get the same thing lol
I get it too and I'm 100 pounds!!
OMG IM EXACTLY THE SAME
Same here I am 5'7 and 115 lbs and I get chub rub all the time
I've always had chub rub. Even when I weighed 100 pounds, it was still an issue. I've never had a thigh gap, ever. I want to get me some of those lacy leg bands!
I absolutely love Dayshia so much. She's one of my top favorite Buzzfeed members. She's so free and unapologetic and beautiful. Thank you so much for making this video because the struggle of chub rub is real. Also, I actually use olive oil and Aveeno lotion to help. Sometimes I have to reapply it, but for the most part it really helps, plus it hydrates the skin so that it can heal faster from when I don't use it. =)
Chrysantha Piano thank you!!
omg i remember my thighs started to sting bc of the constant rubbing when i was running
omg OW!
All I see in my recommendations is Kenny's why I left buzzfeed
same
Is This another army I see here,
Leemar Tuqan
yup ^^
+Joanna daaaamn im an sent and im starting to get annoyed too.. We are everywhere and that's probably why we are the most hated fanbase XD
+Leemar Tuqan army*
"if you have a strong relationships with jesus" omg i love her
for me the worst chub rub ever is when your pants or shorts have a hole in the inner thigh part but only on one side its worse but both its still bad but thats the worst chub rub for me
Yessssssssss that happened to me at work once and there was nothing I could do! It's so painful!
Best Way To Beat Chub Rub:
Climbing Trump Tower
just saying
free steve
What even
I'M CRYING
😂
Not to mention the blisters and the holes in your pants that come from the constant rubbing. And the always feeling fat even when you lose weight because your thighs STILL rub together!
This is the one BuzzFeed video I have found helpful.
Very true. Event when I lost weight it was still an issue for me.
UGH I feel you girl!! I'm *constantly* buying pants.
+AliceLuna :3 As a guy with this problem, it costs a fortune in ruined pants (and the expensive ones wear faster), fortunately the pants get most of the damage, so at least it doesn't hurt.
I may have to get me some of those. I've always been afraid bandalettes were like thigh high stockings aka THEY DON'T STAY UP. But i'm glad to hear there was only minimal rolling and no straight falling off.
i dunno.. to me, they look just like the top part of thigh highs... which, for me, ALWAYS roll.. its annoying. those bandalette things even have the same tacky/sticky stuff on the opposite side as stockings so im still kinda skeptical =/
I've had the same issue with hold-up stockings, but bandalettes do stay up - it's probably because there is nothing pulling down on them every time you bend your knees. They occasionally need adjusting, but I've never had them feel like they were going to fall down.
cantankerousharridan oh, thats actually a good point.. i never thought of that.. yea, since there isnt anything tugging them down, perhaps they stay in place better like you said! ill have to give em a whirl then!
This is the kind of content I like from Buzzfeed! Informative and funny
I find that using deodorant works really well but I'd have to say that my favorite to use is spray on antiperspirant. It works like heaven, it stays on, and your inner thighs get super smooth
that's what i use too. i use it on my thighs and under my boobs, cuz boob sweat is no joke lol. works like a charm every time! i even use my husband's spray on antiperspirant sometimes!
+zainsmommy1207 Lol I've always wanteded to use it on my underboobs but I've never been sure that it worked, but now that you've said, I'm probably going to try xD Men don't know the nightmare of boob sweat xD
Ooh I might try that thanks for the suggestion
+kara fedurek No problem! Happy to help
my husband caught me using it under my boobs once and he laughed at me. they just don't understand! it's awful having those big ole sweat marks under the boobs! lol
Plain, unscented, white, solid deodorant.
In my experience: White looks weird on darker skin and invisible does not last as long.
That's only gona work if your skin is white
then use clear deodorant. it is a game changer (adidas makes a great one)
+Helen L. so gel?
+victoria hale Just choose a different color stick, it's probably available somewhere.
This slays my life and you slay my life
+Girthy Meat why are you being so horrible to the poor girl what did she say wrong or do to you ??!
Yassss girl!
what about a product that absorbs the sweat too?? my thighs rub and soon starts to sweat badly
i use Sily Underwear by lush.
its a dusting powder, absorbs sweat and has a light frsh scent
Another vote for Lush's Silky Underwear! It's powder but it's soooo silky and absorbs the sweat.
use talc or baby powder work great !!
+Jenna Tait (Colourmenerdy) thank you!
+TeganxxxBobbyDazzler thank you!
This is so helpful oh my god. I have only recently started to get this issue, and unfortunately for me, mine can get especially bad because I am prone to stretch marks, the chaffing gets so bad that my legs will rub together and form nasty scabs along the stretch marks. It's really nice to see that I'm not the only one to experience 'chub rub' and that there are ways to prevent it. As a teen/young adult it is very important know that the issues I am experiencing are normal, I have never seen this issue adressed anywhere else. this video made me extremely happy and confident about my thick thighs.
I have a problem where my knees rub against each other, and it sucks!
You should probably see a doctor about that, that's NOT NORMAL
Me too!
Knock knees are a thing.
Woo my thighs felt chafed just watching this video. lol The struggle is real. my leggings get ruined, my jean, my pantyhose. I hate it
yah like after you wear them for a while the friction from your thighs start to rip throught the pants and stuff!!!
I refuse to spend more than 20$ for pants because I know my thighs will massacre them
+Iraida SAME there is no point anymore 😂😂😭😭
Never experienced a "chub rub" even though my thighs touch each other
Suga:'))))))
I know that I get chub rub because I sweat and run so my skin layers kinda chip off.
+뭔들낱알리아 is (낱알리아) have you tried running in compression pants or shorts? Those help me alot
I always get chub rub on my pants but when the inner part of my pants that stick out start to rub my thighs, I get a rash. It's only happened once though
You are one lucky human being girl. #blessed
Did she ever consider that she might have had an allergic reaction to the ingredients in that pink antiperspirant one??!
Doubt it cause the things she experienced was chub rub
It is possible that she did also have an allergic reaction by how bad that she said it was, but for someone who also experiences chub rub, it was probably just that it didn't work. That ish gets REAL irritated REAL quick if it's hot and your thighs are directly touching the entire time.
It is sticky, but it works fine for me.
Am I the only person whose thighs touch (not that much but just like 3 inches of my thigh) but doesn't get chub rub even when they wear shorts or skirts
Nah mine have only gotten chafft once in my life and i just put vaseline on it and was chill
my thighs are her size almost and I rarely do... so yeah.
I still get chub rub through tights fgs
maybe climate has something to do with it? Hot LA weather might make it worse? Idek
Maybe ya just have a wide gait????
these are the types of videos that actually helps to make my life easier. Thank You!
Deodorant, especially the sports kind, works best. It smells good, it doesn't stop working the minute you start to sweat and it doesn't stain your clothes. Plus most people already have it in their bathroom (hopefully).
Seriously, when my runner friends told me it was a life changer! I just hate when I forget to put it on. The chafing is gruesome!!
+Dyani Moriah I didn't believe it until I tried it out when I went to an amusement park. I walked around for 7 hours and no chafe or discomfort! And that was after sweltering heat and water rides; deodorant is awesome.
Definitely! I use sports deodorant for track then I discovered it would help with my thighs rubbing together during races. It works wonders
+Autumn Rose yes! It works so well! I was a doubter before I tried it too. I just couldn't understand why I would put deodorant on my thighs. And then when I did, never going back. But those bandelettes look real cute too.
+Mew some natural ones are quite sticky so I don't think making it yourself would be a good option
omg you are saving my life!
i wish i had a thigh gap
Ikr
Trust me, you don't.
Thigh gaps aren't that fun when every time you drop your phone or your food or literally anything important and it just sails on through your legs to the floor. And it uuuuusually means prolonged sitting makes your legs fall asleep way faster. They aint that special
Thigh gaps r not attractive at all lol
+Otaku Sims ???
Never knew this had a name or a solution but it's plagued me for years !!! Will definitely have to try out the two winners!
I use the blue one of the BodyGlide and for me it's a present from heaven! I'm really surprised it didn't do her any good. :o
I think the "for her" version is formulated differently. I do agree, BodyGlide is the best thing ever.
I saw body glide and immediately though "RUNNER"S HEAVEN"... But seriously I've never seen anyone actually use the "for her", another pointlessly gendered product
Ive tried booth original and "For Her" and the for her version is garbage. The blue body glide is OG.
I had no idea these existed. Anyone have anything else to add about Monistat or whatever? Ya girl got some sweaty thickness goin on. And does anyone know how to stop getting holes in your pants from the thighs touching???
the only thing I can think of is to buy pants that are made out of different materials than denim, denim tears easily
Actually, it doesn't tear easily- that was the point behind the fabric, that it is long lasting. Tearing in't the issue though- friction is. And unless you're wearing the very lightest of satins (which don't breathe well, BTW), you'll have friction issues.
You could do what I did to my kids' jeans when they were little- I ironed on some iron-on fabric where they were likely to wear (for little boys esp, in the knees) the most. That gives you a double layer and you can get a bit more wear out of them.
can you iron them on the inside without it being uncomfortable?
Using products like this helps with the Jean problem as well. So does wearing panty liners regularly because sometimes discharge can make it worse because it's soaked into your panties and wears down your pants because vaginas are acidic
i always look for pants that don't have the seam right where your legs touch, but a little to the back. seams are points of weakness and the constant friction wears them down much faster than just uninterrupted fabric
my thighs are scarred from chub rub
does deodorant really work tho? this is exactly what i needed
i always really want those Bandelettes
Yes!!
That's what I use, and it works for me even when I'm working out
It really does!
I used it and it works but not for long, but thats just my experience
I kind of don't like the Bandelettes because of how visible they are, but there super cute
I'm 5'5 and 105 pounds and I get this alll the time ugh, i need that monistat!
Lol girl sane 4'11and 130 tell me about it 😂
+Mary W My body fat is distributed in diff places so my legs are a bit thick
You act as if 105 is a lot.... Try being 5'2 and 167 pounds. Maybe I'm being dramatic, which if I am I'm sorry, but please note that you are way under the weight a 5'5 person 'should' be. Anywho I hope you have a great day and please be considerate of other people's feelings since some people are more sensitive then other. Thank you ( ^ω^ )
Broseph Tails Im sorry! I have actually worked really really hard to get to the weight that I am. I did go to the doctors about it and they said I'm a healthy weight. I have an extremely slow metabolism so losing weight is very difficult for me. I hope you can love yourself no matter what, have an amazing day! :D
Ahh, okay well I'm glad you've gotten the weight you've worked for! I have a breathing problem so it's hard for me to exercise so I'm a bit sensitive on the subject of weight.... Anywho, thank you and have a great time. ^.^
This was so helpful. I wore a skirt the other day and got all sweaty and chaffed so much I had scabs the next day. Bless this video. I'm off to buy some Monistat.
Wow these products all seemed very expensive. I am an athlete with very thick thighs, but I just put Degree 48h Antiperspirant between my legs and it lasts ALL day. If it will last through a sweaty 5h bike ride, it will last through a day of walking. i would recommend to all the ladies out there! It's like 3.99.
i wish my thighs were bigger bc things just keep falling through my tigh gap; my phone, food, keys etc 😧
you do not know how hard i just laughed
at least they don't get scabs after a day of chub rub
ugh saame
+Chloe i know, i wasn't saying my problem was worse lol
I was pooping and I was looking through my phone and it slipped out of my hand and it went through my thigh gap I had a mini heart attack by I was sweaty so it stuck on the inside of my thigh while I was holding it too
This girl is one of my favorite on buzzfeed! I love her!
girl where did u get the those bandeletes I'm thic in my thighs to and those were beautiful
No you're fat honey
+Girthy Meat and you're rude. How could you say that to someone in such a condescending way
+Tamyra molson (Tamyra2937) shut up
+Girthy Meat 🖕🏼🖕🏼🖕🏼🖕🏼
3:07
At amazon for $13-$18...Planning on getting some myself too, they look stunning!
I get this even when I sleep. I am 5'2 and 100lbs. even skinny girls get it
Exactly! I may not be necessary "skinny" but people have to realize it also has do on how your body is shaped! People are saying she needs to lose weight but don't know many people can get this without being overweight!
+Eva Barragan I'm 6'2 170 and a guy and i get "chub rub" but gold bond has been working for me
same I'm 14, 4'11 and 95lbs and i still get that
+Eva Barragan amen! doesn't help if you're also naturally hairy. prickle rub *cries*
I'm 5'4 and 120 pounds and I get It BAD GURL
Finally this video is out! I've been waiting for this forever!
For Her got me through the summer plus band camp
I wish they would just link the stuff they try in the description y'all feel me
I know it sounds weird but the Victoria secret dry oil spray works wonders for my chub rub. I have hella thick thighs (I was very much teased for it in highschool. So you know it's real.) and the oil makes it glide but it also left a really nice scent that didn't irritate my skin and left my thighs really soft. I highly recommend. But it DOES have a scent so it may not be ideal if scents irritate your skin.
I have big thighs but still a thigh gap.. Should i be worried? 😕
no, if you've always has the thigh gap (I have a natural one too) it's fine it's just the way your bone structure is
Nope just means ya got wider hips. The opposite happens too with closed hips, even with teeny tiny thin legs, no thigh gap (google Ashton Locklear - a US gymnast). Thigh gaps are more about hip width than just thigh width.
no, I have it the same!
No different body types bb
No, you should be grateful.
I think most women have this problem even if they are skinny. (But idk if people if a thigh gap have it)
nope, we don't really get that
+Ash - "we" who's we girl? you're speaking for yourself... I've seen plenty of comments on this video of people sati gong they're skinny and have this problem.
+brianna h lol chill hun she's speaking for all the women with thigh gaps you aren't that important to be included in "we"
if you have a thigh gap then you don't get it at all🙂🙃
I never get this problem, and I definitely don't have a thigh gap!!
I love bandalettes! They revolutionised my wardrobe. I used to only go out in jeans and pants but after I bought the bandalettes I wear airy dresses all the time.
I literally gASPED seeing this thumbnail, i've always been curious about bandelettes!!!!
Am I the only one knows what Chub Rub means bc of Shane Dawson?
Nope, and also because I get it, but didn't know it was called Chub Rub
yasss the nbhd
No me too
+Andrea Acosta sameeee
Yes in his book!!
Gold Bond Friction Defense is one of THE best products ever made for this problem! After going to Disney World, riding their water ride (in jean capris) and walking around all day. Let me tell you, I was in tears the next day. We found a Walgreens (I was hoping for bandaids or ace bandages since it was day 2 of our trip) when I found this bar and it saved the rest of the trip! 🙌🏽
And for anyone hating on her and telling her to "lose the chub", I'm not a big girl or even a thick girl and my thighs STILL rub together. It's just a thing people, most of us don't have a gap or strive to get one. Get over it. She looks amazing and I love how much she loves her thighs!
I use the For Her Body Glide and it dosnt give me any problem at all and it works very well. I dont know what shes talkin about
Im actually grateful I dont have chub rub- it sounds crazy annoying and painful :O
It is it's like an itchy hot painful sensation it's so weird you're very lucky my friend
+Faith Fakolujo Had this when I was bigger and I hated it
It's horrible, especially when you have to keep on going through your day for hours on end with nothing to help. I actually have some scars from my inner thighs starting to form blisters once
It is.. I get chub rub.. And I like to hike in shorts
IT HURTS SO MUCH YOU HAVE A GOD-GIVEN GIFT AND DO NOT TAKE IT FOR GRANTED
I need this in my life so bad. I didn't know there were products for this issue. Thank you so so much!
huh, my thighs touch other but they never cause chafing
Then you have soft skin, or wear soft clothes
When you sweat, or you are still wet, you are more likely to have it
Same here, my thighs touch each other and I never have this problem. It's a little uncomfortable at fist when I wear shorts but then I get used to it. No chafing or anything.
Same
I just use deoderaunt lol its cheap and smells good
Ty for the tip fam 😂
ah I wish; my skin is too sensitive between my thighs especially when they sweat
Yeah that's what my mom taught me to do
the deodorant irritates tf out of my skin
Alison Shields don't they cause darkening?
Man this helps me so much! I have scars from chaffing and i've tried so many things that don't seem to last that long. So thank you!
okay I needed this video in life bc god damn I hate chub rub and I did not know people discussed it
I just chop up some old tights to make some iddy biddy anti-chafe shorts, works like a charm!
Her laugh is so enchanting! ❤️
Just try normal deodorant!!!
And for all of the people saying "just lose weight," there are so many girls and guys at the appropriate weight that get chub rub.
OMG right look at the girls gymnastics team. They are the epitome of fitness an their thighs still rub together
Plus she's working out in the video
+Alex Davison Both can still get chub rub that's what I'm saying. You can be super healthy and your thinghs can still touch. Regardless if it hurts or not.
It Gets Worse anyone?
he was raised for the godssss
Yup
I LOVE YOUR PROFILE PIC |-/
Yeasssss
I just read that chapter omg
I love love love the monistat powder gel!! I once went hiking and my thighs were having none of it. when we finished our hike and got back to my friend's house, his mom gave me the powder gel and I've been using it ever since.
4 years later, and I'm still a happy paying customer ^^
(btw, you can get monistat powder gel at CVS!! If you have CVS where you live that is ^^ )
Dear ignorant people:
Chub rub does not just happen to people with thick thighs or 'fat' people!! If your thighs touch then it will happen.
To the people talking about "Just lose weight" nah fam stfu. I've been skinny before just like a skinny string bean. And my thighs rubbed together then. I'm thicker now and my thighs still rub together now. I work out, and am hella healthy. Thighs rub together aand unless you have a thigh gap which most people don't , your thighs gonna rub. So get outta here with that judgmental shizz.
I've never heard of bandlettes until now but I'm in love. and that blue dress is killer.
People telling her to lose weight are bullshitters because IM PRETTY SURE MOST OF THE REASON SHE HAS THICK THIGHS IS BECAUSE SHE DOES SO MUCH EXCERSISE
I'm only 120lbs and honey my thighs have ALWAYS gotten that damn chub rub burny feeling so go away chubby haters
Finally someone who experience the same struggle I have to experience everyday! I am actually gonna try the ones she suggested honestly
I clicked to see what chub rub really means
Same
I have so many ripped pants from the rubbing! 😩 so annoying.
I have the Monistat powder gel for when I wear dresses without shorts underneath, and I love it. You'd think it would feel weird, but it really does feel like a powder. It smells good, so it doesn't matter that it gets on your fingers, and it is so silky smooth...and probably a lot cheaper than some of the solutions out there.
I just use deodorant. The stick kind.
wears off too quickly
yup
I do to and usually have no problem
TFW people in the comments are telling her to lose weight and she's exercising in the video anyway .-.
Ikr like those people think they're geniuses when all they do is sound stupid
That monistat gel is life changing. It is unbelievable. I recommend it to everyone. I use it for my kids and husband too because my husband gets heat rash at work from his clothes rubbing and my daughter's get rub rash from running around sweaty and in shorts. I always have it in the house - and it is so cheap too.... fantastic!!
Buying the monistat tomorrow. Lol chub rub is too real! Thick thighs for the win tho
I have thick thighs but I don't get chaffing? I didn't know this problem existed before this video
lucky
Same here
You don't have sensitive or thin skin in between your thighs
Only my upper thighs touch so it doesn't rub much an less it's hot and I sweet AND I am wearing a dress or a skirt so most of the time they don't
+fofomoon maybe I have the same thigh type
I love the monistat one, used it in college when I had to walk a lot to class. Saved my life!
I went hiking in shorts 2 days in a row. The chub rub was real 😂
To the people that are staying that "she needs to loose weight": Having a thigh gap is actually not healthy, Her body and thighs are perfect just the way they are.
I have the bandelettes. They are amazing! I would guess the issue for the rolling is because the size is too small. The only thing I would say about this product is be careful when you wash them because they will get caught on anything. Invest in one of those bags you put your undergarments in to wash!
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