Being authentic in inauthentic spaces can really have you thinking you are crazy but eventually understanding that will liberate you in ways you never imagined.
That’s the thing… when you understand you in that inauthentic space you just have to go ahead and live in the world but not of it because it’s pointless. Nothing is ever really going to change in the macro world. You can only change your small part of the world.
It's true but the older you get you realize that and it gives stuff more context. I'm not saying you forget it, but it becomes less important sometimes.
@@Vizion-jp8zjno he tf wasn’t ! He just used to Fck white football coaches and white women so he doesn’t see any harm in his race play fantasies… at least that’s all I heard him say ..😭 Fck is yall talking about there’s only 1 truth.. THEE TRUTH ! Amanda’s truth who lived the experience. Yall always tryna give passes to mfs who would have you lynched a few years ago…
@@culturalresponse2447I think non academics agree that definition doesn't make sense in normal day to day interactions. If a white homeless person calls Obama the n-word, by their definition he can't be racist. It seems nonsensical.
@AaronVaal You are so foul and rude I wish you happiness. You don't have to like the person or all they say to find something to appreciate. My vocabulary is already well established... Unlike your manners.
Ignore Negative comments it's simply a reflection 🪞 of what has been said to that person. We just send them positive vibes because that is what secure beings do. Wish others well ♥️
Kids being taught to not speak up against adults is the main reason so many kids were molested and continued to be due to the fear of being molded to not speak up for themselves. I teach my daughter that you have the right to speak up for yourself as long as it’s done respectfully, even if it’s against me.
Something I have to do daily to narrow bias minded people. it's really exhausting, I truly get Amanda because we are the same far as big personalities and misunderstood
In the first 5 minutes of the conversation I knew Shannon was gonna have to come outta the shallow end and join her in the deep. She holds conversations on multiple levels, understanding her experience in the context of structurial, cultural, and individual. Initially he didn't realize it was gonna be at that altitude. But he stepped up. He got there. She has a stellar mind and that intimidates a whole lot of folks, especially white folk.
I feel like I understand Amanda. I know a loved one with similar traits. Super generous and genuine person but is often misunderstood and mislabeled. I learned a lot this interview. I respect and support Amanda.
So you going to argue with an 8 year old or are you taking it up with their parents? Exactly. Kids aren’t racist. Maybe when they become teenagers, but kids can’t be racist.
I’m 1000% the teacher was racist. The specific example that she gave about what the teacher was saying about indigenous people was an example of it. Also, his point about any adult at that time being p’d off about a kid correcting them was valid too.
I love unc, but I really appreciate how Amanda stood her ground. That’s maturity for her to keep her composure and continue to interview with how it began.
Yes he was definitely proving her point about being misunderstood. Even after explaining that she was recently diagnosed he challenged it as if she was just taking claim to it.
@@dutchdillinger3183exactly. And I think he’s right. No teacher is going to be ok with their students constantly correcting them in front of the class. Doesn’t matter if the teacher was right or wrong about the topic. The teacher would have complained either way. Amanda took it the wrong way. Amanda is one of those people who makes valid points a lot of the time but she lacks tact. She also doesn’t understand the concept of choosing your battles. Something that the op and so many other people in the comment section lack based on their interpretation of that conversation with her and Shannon.
I’m glad I preserved through this interview because the first 30 minutes were BRUTALLLLL!!!! Shannon just portrayed every negative situation that Amanda highlighted from her past. But I’m happy Amanda said her peace throughout the end.
Exactly, I'm glad I watched the end first..bc he was definitely trying to discredit her. A lot of times, men think women are just complaining, but she handled him well
After listening to the entire interview, this woman is awesome and should be not only protected but also preserved at all costs! Not only her, but others like her as well. 💯
If she was 10 years old and was able to recognize the other kids were wrong for callimg her the N word, then the other 10 year olds should have the capability to understand that them saying the word was wrong and excuses shouldn't be made for them.
Yeah I didn’t realize we were giving age minimums for racism lol. What age are racists allowed to be racists? 18? 21? 25? It’s not like these were 2 year olds repeating a word and not knowing its meaning. They’re no different from the kids hurling racial slurs at Ruby Bridges. Can’t believe he said that.
I think my perspective on Amand and Shannon changed multiple times during this discussion. Amanda was tough, then accepting. Shannon was confrontational, then understanding. They come from 2 different worlds, and its awesome when different worlds share the same orbit without colliding into each other.
Yea, he's from the world where I think he forgets who he is and what he looks like. He even challenged her on her diagnosis after she had already mentioned she was tested a few times! He was questioning her authenticity in that. Disrespectful.
@@aubhreypender3091 She literally said she was by a medical professional. Weird that people are saying she's lying about something they have no way of verifying, given medical files are private 🤷🤦
@@aubhreypender3091Go through the entire 3 hours to find out. I did 🤷 She said it two to three times as Shay was doubting what she told him and pretending like he didn't hear her when she said it the first time.
As a white male who grew up with a culturally diverse extended family . 100% Racism in all forms is LEARNED as is colourism within each race. I had friends of all colours and ethnicities and only understood is all to be different not “different” I do believe Children brought up in racist environment don’t understand the effect or impact of their behaviour being racist because it’s simply what they’re brought up with no less excusable but up to an age ( because if your not being educated at home it your being taught at school ) it’s about the fact that your hurting someone period regardless of context and correcting that behaviour immediately. You blame the upbringing not necessarily the product. Unfortunately it’s all learned behaviour … children are not born thinking their differences can be perceived as negative be it race lifestyle gender sexuality religion….. they are taught to be cogniscent of these perceptions based on things passed on . The hard part on both sides is just letting go. On one side it’s realizing your ancestors passed issues have nothing to to do with your current existence understand we are just people and differences are surface level in every way . On the receiving side it’s hard to let go of all the of the atrocities youre ancestors experienced as the hands of people with these issues , because while you’re world is different they went through it get you here and letting go may feel like you’d be denying their struggle so you end up carrying it forward in a way as well .
@@matthewlima7121but they are racist and are still racist and their adulthood! We can’t excuse it bc most never unlearn. So we have to judge them at face value, like actually guilty until proven otherwise like this justice system! We actually see the racism!
@@matthewlima7121 Racism is a form of otherism and humans are predisposed to some form of the latter. Studies have shown 1) We prefer people who look like us (or like someone in our family), 2) We prefer people we see as similar to ourselves, etc. So while a specific strain may be “learned”, we are easy to learn and apply it and in the case of “racism” of whites against non-whites, and for the former it has been immensely enriching and empowering as morally degrading as it may be, therefore it survives and perpetuates.
Amanda proves over and over again that when you are highly intellengent, speak clear, directly and assertively with excellent listening comprehension and responding skills most people ( Shannon ) do not have the best critical thinking, active listening, and high level comprehension skills! I just love her and feel blessed to have met and had a conversation with her recently. She is top tier! Love you Amanda!
Shannon: why was she racist? Amanda:she got mad because I corrected her in middle of the class . Shannon: interrupting a teacher as a student in middle of class is wrong though. You guys:😡😤🤬😤 Shannons okay with racism!
I see that Amanda shut it down when Shannon could not see her honestly.His listening skills are really on point.He didn't see or understand that the interview was about her viewpoint and understanding that. Power to you Amanda❤
I love how they maturely move past their differences and kept the interview going while still laughing and enjoying each other. I don’t see that enough.
I feel like she recognizes when people are stupid and she chooses to not get stuck there. She navigated multiple triggers with grace...because there were several times within the first 20 minutes where she could've (and should've) eaten him alive....not because she wanted to...but he was saying some really dumb things that were obvious and needed to be corrected. But I think she is starting to become exhausted with having to navigate other peoples improper thinking. Shes starting to choose her battles...almost seems like she is protecting her peace.
I've heard some bad things about Amanda, so I figured I'd check this out 2C and I'm really impressed, I think she's awesome in so many ways, I with that.
I really hope Amanda comes to look at the comments and sees how much love she’s getting and how she’s such a gem to our culture and should be protected at ALL costs!
In my opinion, Amanda is so self-aware and direct and a segment of the people who strongly don't like her or find her annoying are arguably uncomfortable because they don't have or have not personally reached her level of awareness, confidence, & unapologetic resolve to fight injustice. The mindset is "I can't silence my voice and saying the hard truths because of anyone else's discomfort" and I 100% understand it & support it. I am also appreciate Amanda's candidness and the visibility/representation of someone living on the spectrum.
She can effectively articulate her experience and stand it unapologetically because she's smart and educated, it's a threat to anyone else who can't🤷🏽♀️ it's an offense to those people. Salute Amanda!🔥
I deal with the same things, but somehow I still think her becoming famous and "successful" allowed a certain amount of arrogance that when added with her diagnosis could make her unbearable for a lot of people. In a way that people could easily dismiss her and make the claim that they don't "like" her, I also feel as though she needed to feel this way to become this self aware in a good way.
The fact that he did the interview speaks volumes to his desire to have dialogue and grow. People will rather criticize him for trying and opening his self up to criticism rather than respect and appreciate his vulnerability. I haven’t seen Amanda on any other platform outside of her own social media accounts. I’m glad she got to tell her story and engage in meaningful dialogue.
nope. if you wana grow than sit there listen and learn. growth doesn’t come from being antagonistic and challenging someone’s intelligence and experience. growth would be listening and learning.
Amanda spoke for a lot of women in this interview that don't have the platform or even the courage to speak up about things like this. One of the hardest things to navigate in life is being misunderstood. When your intentions and someone's perception don't align it is a perfect storm for these experiences. I absolutely loved this interview and the fact that she got to shine light on exactly who she is.
THISSSS I felt so seen in this interview. I communicate like her and often feel isolated. I want to reach out to her and tell her that I SEE HER AND ACKNOWLEDGE HER!
I LOVE how Amanda explains her point of view, her experiences, and her story; then when Shannon disagrees and attempts to discredit her she just stops talking and listens to him, then uses those moments intelligently in the conversation later to prove and support her point!
Loved this convo !!!! Thank You Amanda for keep going through it all !!! You have been given so many curveballs in life and steady defeating so many obstacles and challenges , I’m soooo proud of you !! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💐💐
Agreed! ESPECIALLY when a woman is speaking. People are not as particular about tone-policing men. Even another woman may give a man more grace if he's passionate vs a woman.
That about sums it up. Whenever you read critique of her 99.9% of the time it’s rooted in her delivery. Most people either just can’t get past it because society is brainwashed to like the fake or they simply don’t want to get past it. Gives them an excuse to dismiss what she’s saying. Smh.
Amanda guided this interview. She made sure she finished her stories and her current work was known. I see her in a new light. I enjoyed this interview.
@rla8713 Many people with autism have this experience where they are bullied, exploited, and ostracized! Even if people didn't like her, why are they comfortable at openly humiliating her, saying cruel things to and about her! That type of behavior is inappropriate regardless if they like a person or not! Even if I don't particularly care for someone, I don't need to gossip, slander, judge, or humiliate another human being because that isn't a reflection of that person, it's a reflection of me. Now, if someone does something to you, then you directly go to that person and address it. My heart goes out to autistic individuals because they aren't harming anyone. They just operate, process, and show up differently than mainstream society! But they deserve to be seen, heard, and respected as well!
Facts! Ppl with autism that are adults genuinely act just like her! They are very likable ppl. They just don’t fit the mold. Love that about them and Amanda. ❤️
@notthe1_orthe2 it helped me see my own biases with her and others. Life is about constant evolution + growth. I too followed narratives about her coming from some of those news outlets. But the more she explained, and the more I heard her I'm like......"that's me"! I can relate to almost all of what she said. And the *Insecure* sequence of events really changed my mind about Issa. She never seemed like a "girls girl" to me. And they painted Amanda's character in the worst light on the show. The energy was so telling through the screen. Her sides of the story made more sense!
Same here. Always felt like a circle trying to fit in a square box, so I twisted myself to fit it and is exhausting. Now I understand myself a little better!!
I learn sometimes when people are sharing their experiences, don’t play devil’s advocate, especially when it’s life experiences. You’re only hearing the story, they lived it
@@kenyafromcaliI don’t think you need to be an interviewer to say that. That’s a normal part of daily human interaction. I’ve actually had to learn and apply this when listening to people
I have to admit that Amanda is so good at handling this conversation. I would have blown up on Shay Shay so many times and left this interview. I have a hold new respect for her.
Like who? Shannon is from the dirt South with a degree... 14 years on TV debating...created his own channel, podcast, beverage etc. etc. What has she done? He's done 10x more than her and I heard her introduction by him.
@@dlkc2000Dear brother, you feel compelled to ask this question and attempt to compare them is problematic in and of itself. She has a Masters Degree that in and of itself sets her apart. IYKYK.
"People don't wanna let you grow. People don't wanna let you exist." I felt that in my soul. This is true personally and professionally for me. People want to keep you in whatever box they created for you. Stay woke.
Amanda is literally the best. So honest and authentic. Her industry doesn't like her because of that. She doesn't follow the crowd she follows whats right!! I LOVE HER!!
Growing up in the deep rural South and being an HBCU product, I’m sure he doesn’t have a problem identifying racism or racist behavior. Unlike a lot of blacks, I believe he’s not one to run the Victim Olympics
She is she made a IG video and thanked us. I’m so glad she saw the live she didn’t think it would happen. People are speaking up for her. Shannon owes her an apology.
TH-cam comments did NOT disappoint. Amanda, you are loved and your self love has opened so many doors for others in our community to embrace themselves as well. I'm so grateful to share community with you ❤❤
NOPE. Her interpretation of events is extremely narrow, the constant focus on others’ shortcomings and complaining and her brand of militarism rings so very false and unhealthy. She creates more battles than she actually has to fight. ALSO, autism spectrum disorder in ALL women is difficult to diagnose. It rarely happens. There’s enough racism out there not to attribute it to places where that isn’t the main cause.
Amanda showed great mastery in that interview. At the start, as her experience and her perceptions were in my opinion minimized, she patiently stood in her power and authority and scholarship. She also did not engage in an ego battle but continued through connection never wavering from her point of view. Shannon Sharpe also sets the tone and is willing to ask questions on behalf of his audience that maybe uncomfortable. It was refreshing to see them both work at and through this conversation.
I really appreciate your perspective. You didn't insult either party, instead you looked at their interview from a very mature and empathetic POV👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I'm autistic too. But still I'm aware enough to realise sometimes my words and behavior isn't appropriate. So yes represent but she should be more aware of her actions but because of her job I get it. I find it so hard to play different roles for fake people.
The most honest speaking person I ever saw on "TV ", you guys know what I mean, Thanks Shannon for giving Amanda the "space" to speak her mind. Thank you Amanda I love your character...
Amanda’s stare🤣🤣🤣🤣 She is articulate, educated, easy to talk to and composed! I loved it! This was a good look for her. I hope she feels loved and empowered viewing the comments. Plenty of people support her and love her for exactly who she is!
Yes indeed I have always loved how educated she was and just “woke “ for a lack of me being able to find a word. But I think folks willl understand 🤷🏾♀️
@@Bibibabies260me too. I think she has issue being challenged. I’ve seen this in her on other interviews with different people, whether she was interviewing or the interviewer.
Nothing more powerful than a woman who is smart , articulate and beautiful!! Always love Amanda and love seeing her growth and seeing her push through all the BS that is said about her! Love you Amanda.
Thank God for her mother. Amanda is really a gift I pray the world doesn’t ruin her spirit. I pray we all continue to grow and learn from people that are bold enough to share their stories.
15 minutes into the interview and I identify with Amanda so much. I recently learned that I am on the spectrum. I was also diagnosed with Adult onset ADHD several years ago. Learning about my neurodivergence was a sense of relief because I was exhausted from “masking”. I hope more neurodivergent and atypical people continue to shine a light on the difficulties of living in a society that always want you to “perform.”
The problem is that she lied and made that up. In her live about this interview, she admitted that she was not medically diagnosed. She self diagnosed herself. I was rooting for her until I saw that.
I identify with her so much too!! I didn’t realize she was autistic but now she makes even more sense to me 😂😂😂 Seeing her here, as well as how much Shannon doesn’t understand where she’s coming from, inspired me to come out on social media as autistic myself, and ask people to educate themselves more on autism. Most people are still thinking “Rain Man” and don’t know that autism shows up in all populations and that it can look a lot of different ways
This is the best Club Shay Shay interview, in my opinion. SO MUCH is on the table here which Amanda delivers with the patience of a teacher and passion of an artist. I've listened to it multiple times as I will never get bored with the twists and turns of the conversation - even Shannon himself misunderstands her (often) but she confronts it perfectly. I'm a big fan of hers.
I found myself resonating with Amanda and it scared me because I felt understood by someone who ain’t never known me. Amazing interview. I see Amanda and I understand her. She’s passionate and misunderstood alongside brilliantly intelligent
@@blewgrassboy8461it’s ok to be an abrasive personality, especially if you aren’t going out of your way to offend people. What is she supposed to do? Fake being meek and polite?
this was a masterclass of how to understand, misunderstand, stop, teach, listen, and learn all in one. Anybody that says I would've just left or Shannon should've kicked her off, you are the problem. Who you are isnt going to be instantly understood or accepted. through time and effort understanding can be gained. Great interview.
100 percent! I've always gravitated to Amanda Seales because she is so honest. And she's not brutally honest, but she's honest with empathy and with strong intentions to better people. It's crazy that it has been misunderstood for so long.
Same here gwuRL! She a reaL one, I feel I have autism spectrum too, im like too straight out where people can't handle it.. " they can't handle the truth!!!!! Lol
This interview helped me to see Amanda in a new light and it also shed light on how the industry wants you to be docile, silent, and keep your head down and will bully those who refuse to bow down.
I never knew people saw her in ANY type of negative light until reading comments on social media platforms about this interview. I thought we ALL f*cked with her! 🤷♂
“I’m a very very emotionally intelligent person, so a lot of times I end up having to do the emotional labor for other people to get us through. It’s exhausting”. YES!
She is extremely perceptive and highly intelligent. You aren't just going to say anything around her and try to sneak nonsense past her. I'm assuming this is why she butts heads with so many people in a world where everyone is dumbed down. People will resent you for your intelligence and awareness. Salute to her!
Is it autism spectrum or is it ADHD? Listening to this interview has me emotionally exhausted. It's like she pivots too much and tries to cram and can't stay on one track. @@clarissak.4587
Been watching this channel for a minute, but today i actually subscribe, and for the first time, also posting a comment! Only because of this interview! I can definitely see where she’s coming from! I’ve work retail and I’m always so happy and positive, and for whatever reason, that’s gotten me in trouble, not only there but any place I’ve worked. Regardless her stories where great, hate she’s been through all that but it only makes her a better person, also shows you people’s true colors and how unhappy successful people are all over. There’s issues you can’t escape no matter which level of live you’re living
Thank you Shannon Sharpe for this interview with Amanda Seales. Even through those rough patches, you both were committed to staying engaged and getting through what turned out to be a great and insightful interview. Kudos
Only 30 minutes in and I’m already sooo exhausted for Amanda. So glad she is not letting him go unchecked. She states her boundaries and instead of really listening he’s thinking of how to defend his own beliefs. When you’re so adamant about being RIGHT, you’re completely missing the opportunity to really hear someone and what a shame because you will never grow as a person if you aren’t willing to learn from other people.
Unc i said this earlier and I’ll say it again, this platform of a conversation and not an interview has opened my eyes in ways I never knew. I was one of the many who couldn’t stand this woman but today I listened. I listened even when I was getting irritated and then I saw her. I literally saw the human…the spirit. I’ve literally turned my entire view of her around and respect her. Dare I say I find her endearing. Thank you Amanda for being authentic. Abraham Lincoln has a quote”I don’t know that man….I must get to know him” I’m glad I did.
At the hour and 23 minute mark, when Amanda says "So you finally understand me, it took me a minute but we are here." I felt that. This entire TIME, two different individuals are trying to find a mutual understanding of each other and respect each other's differences. You can't TRULY know anyone until you understand what are the experiences that shape them.
Then one minute later her say but Amanda if u learn the rules. Then she interrupts and says I know I didn’t know back then.. which invalidates the very thing u pointing out
Thanks for the update! I had to pause at 30 min and again at 50 min cuz it was so difficult to watch Shannon interact with Amanda. He was coming across as disrespectful and I was getting upset on her behalf.
Some ppl think she’s combative. The real ones DO NOT. I adore this lady. ❤ I know it’s tiring explaining the same thing over and over and sometimes you feel like us in the audience don’t hear you and aren’t listening… but we are. We hear you we believe you and support you. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ Ty for doing this interview.
He tried to argue with perspective of her life.....she shut that down and made me proud. We are not protected, and she experienced that on a platform that millions can see.... yet, she held her own. By the way, she did it looking amazingly beautiful, calm, and well spoken!
Putting Amanda with Shannon revealed how obtuse he can be and is proven to be in these interviews. She did an amazing job of displaying grace and eloquently telling her truth.
Talk that talk Queen! We got you. He fumbled this one........ The fact of trying to argue her life as she's saying he's wrong is messed up beyond reprieve.
@@ATLCPAI'm watching now and my mouth is literally on the floor. I am so disappointed in Shannon and his lack of preparation. There is nothing that can necessarily be done about him lacking the intelligence to survive three hours with Amanda, but he could and should have been willing to give her the same open safe space as the rest of his guests and allow her to share her story and do what she sadly always has to do...explain herself to the world.
Regarding the kids using racist language part. It's intent vs impact. It doesn't matter if the kids "were just repeating what their parents said." What matters is the IMPACT of their words on Amanda. That's what we need to focus on, not making excuses for them. Calling her the n-word and minimizing her talent was racist. Period.
She uses a lot of emotional energy and I think it scares people, but it's refreshing to me. Everyone loves people that are perpetually unbothered. It's okay to be bothered about things that matter.
Funny you mention that, In astrology - she’s a cancer sun AND a cancer moon - it’s a lot of emotional energy, she loves deeply, is loyal but difficult for her to contain her emotions. She feels deeply.
Very articulate woman. Her truth really designated with my being. I have been misunderstood my whole existence and it hurts me to my core but I can't control the ignorance of others. I can only be me ( Passionate, Real, Vulnerable, and a lover of people). Great interview Ms. Seales I look forward to hearing more from you.
It took him over an hour to be self aware and to stop putting his thoughts of what’s right or wrong on Amanda. Kudos to her for setting him straight. The essence of a good interviewer is the ability to listen and hear
I thought those were just simple follow up questions that he usually asks people for clarification. Even if he made a mistake she just turned it around and used it as a knife to stab him with
This interview was necessary for him as well!! I knew Amanda is always going to stay true to herself, but I feel like he can listen and learn as well. This will help his platform and others who need to hear it and be challenged in this way.
@@spendleton79 what did he need to learn? Outside of Shannon learning how to identify her personality disorder (not autism as that is not a PD) there was nothing profound about what she said. Talking to her is a useless blank mission.
She resonates with people who see between the lines and speak up no matter how they are perceived or ridiculed. Free Thinkers are on the rise FINALLY and its REFRESHING
Yeah she needs a psychiatrist or therapist. I don’t think Shannon was prepared for her “perceived” slights. I personally believe that she has borderline personality disorder and not autism.
😂🤣yall have to understand that Shannon isn’t a journalist, a therapist, nor a psychologist… he’s a retired NFL player who build his own platform… that don’t mean his intelligence, comprehension or intellect is elite Give the man a break & give thanks that he’s creating a safe space for these celebrities
I have true appreciation and respect for Amanda. She is a self-confident, brilliant, sophisticated woman who understands her own power and value. She is a wonderful example of not "playing small" to become non-threatening to the insecure people around you.
Being authentic in inauthentic spaces can really have you thinking you are crazy but eventually understanding that will liberate you in ways you never imagined.
Beautifully said. 🎯♥️
That’s the thing… when you understand you in that inauthentic space you just have to go ahead and live in the world but not of it because it’s pointless. Nothing is ever really going to change in the macro world. You can only change your small part of the world.
YES
Oof, I'm stealing this. Love it!
The comment we needed to see 🙌🏾😩👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Racism is learned behavior by children, Amanda is actually correct with her assessment
Shannon Sharpe is also correct. Both can be true.
It's true but the older you get you realize that and it gives stuff more context. I'm not saying you forget it, but it becomes less important sometimes.
So in your experience did you not hear homophobic things, what about xenophobic, how about colorist things?
The only thing she's an expert of is NON-ACCOUNTABILITY ..with a Double Masters Degree in MANIPULATION
@@Vizion-jp8zjno he tf wasn’t ! He just used to Fck white football coaches and white women so he doesn’t see any harm in his race play fantasies… at least that’s all I heard him say ..😭 Fck is yall talking about there’s only 1 truth.. THEE TRUTH ! Amanda’s truth who lived the experience. Yall always tryna give passes to mfs who would have you lynched a few years ago…
Being called the “N” word by CHILDREN, qualifies as racism. They didn’t call EACH OTHER the same name; they knew who to direct the word to, Shannon.
💯 Especially because they were in a work environment, as well. They heard that directly from their parents about her specifically.
@@lynndwhoExactly..their parents…racism is learned behavior.
And I’ve heard her call white people crackers….🤷🏾♂️
I agree. A while child called me the same thing. He was too young to spell it
@@culturalresponse2447I think non academics agree that definition doesn't make sense in normal day to day interactions. If a white homeless person calls Obama the n-word, by their definition he can't be racist. It seems nonsensical.
Amanda's vocabulary is extensive! I love it. I have learned a lot of new words watching this.
@AaronVaal feeling brackish?
@AaronVaal You are so foul and rude I wish you happiness. You don't have to like the person or all they say to find something to appreciate. My vocabulary is already well established... Unlike your manners.
@AaronVaal 😂🤣
@AaronVaalsending you healing energy
Ignore Negative comments it's simply a reflection 🪞 of what has been said to that person. We just send them positive vibes because that is what secure beings do. Wish others well ♥️
Kids being taught to not speak up against adults is the main reason so many kids were molested and continued to be due to the fear of being molded to not speak up for themselves. I teach my daughter that you have the right to speak up for yourself as long as it’s done respectfully, even if it’s against me.
❤❤❤❤❤period
Reach
That’s a crazy example to use.
@@joelwhite616 a reach? Not speaking up can be a problem for so many things. Molestation isn’t that far of a reach.
Amongst other things
They will NEVER make me hate AMANDA! I LOVE HER!
DOWNNN I ZONT PLAY ABOUT HERRR
Ever in a million years
Not me, I hate her.
Lmao…
Same!❤
I have to give Amanda props for sticking through and helping Shannon understand her perspective.
Not Just Shannon...the audience as well
Facts!
Something I have to do daily to narrow bias minded people. it's really exhausting, I truly get Amanda because we are the same far as big personalities and misunderstood
I am glad she touched on having great educators who cared. So vital!
In the first 5 minutes of the conversation I knew Shannon was gonna have to come outta the shallow end and join her in the deep. She holds conversations on multiple levels, understanding her experience in the context of structurial, cultural, and individual. Initially he didn't realize it was gonna be at that altitude. But he stepped up. He got there. She has a stellar mind and that intimidates a whole lot of folks, especially white folk.
I feel like I understand Amanda. I know a loved one with similar traits. Super generous and genuine person but is often misunderstood and mislabeled. I learned a lot this interview. I respect and support Amanda.
Thank u ..i respect and support her..totally misunderstood..❤
Children are racists too. It’s a learned behavior
You are a product of your environment
Shannon act like he don't know this
It’s a learned behavior from there parents do u rlly think kids fully understand the meaning of there words?
...but I'm glad he said it just so they could have the dialog and we could hear both sides.
So you going to argue with an 8 year old or are you taking it up with their parents? Exactly. Kids aren’t racist. Maybe when they become teenagers, but kids can’t be racist.
The stare she gave when he was defending the white teacher is priceless
I love how she didn't say one word while standing on it! 🙌🏾
She definitely made her point and I sided with her immediately.
I’m 1000% the teacher was racist. The specific example that she gave about what the teacher was saying about indigenous people was an example of it. Also, his point about any adult at that time being p’d off about a kid correcting them was valid too.
@@TajCars no she wasn’t- You just hate white people
@@TajCarsExactly. Understanding both sides
I love unc, but I really appreciate how Amanda stood her ground. That’s maturity for her to keep her composure and continue to interview with how it began.
Yes he was definitely proving her point about being misunderstood. Even after explaining that she was recently diagnosed he challenged it as if she was just taking claim to it.
Shannon asked questions and gave his opinion...he wasn't attacking her so idk why you talking about stand her ground
Definitely was attacking her
@@dutchdillinger3183How they act man! Super defensive for no reason
@@dutchdillinger3183exactly. And I think he’s right. No teacher is going to be ok with their students constantly correcting them in front of the class. Doesn’t matter if the teacher was right or wrong about the topic. The teacher would have complained either way. Amanda took it the wrong way. Amanda is one of those people who makes valid points a lot of the time but she lacks tact. She also doesn’t understand the concept of choosing your battles. Something that the op and so many other people in the comment section lack based on their interpretation of that conversation with her and Shannon.
I’m glad I preserved through this interview because the first 30 minutes were BRUTALLLLL!!!! Shannon just portrayed every negative situation that Amanda highlighted from her past. But I’m happy Amanda said her peace throughout the end.
Exactly, I'm glad I watched the end first..bc he was definitely trying to discredit her. A lot of times, men think women are just complaining, but she handled him well
I lovedddd how she kept breaking stuff down from HER POV !!! She told her story , 🩷🩷
My thoughts exactly.
Not hugging people who don’t deserve a hug will never be petty.
Energy is real. I’ve sucked the energy out of an entire room before…You are spot on! 🎯
Thank you.
I really don’t like hugging people whom I don’t feel a connection to.
Neva ❤
I can't understand why Shannon bought this headache on his podcast.
This comment section made me feel so much hope for humanity. Seeing Amanda get all this love it’s so well deserved . Always love her ♥️
Same, same. Not going to lie, I was nervous that these comments might be hate filled. I was pleasantly surprised.
@@jeaninegriffin1196omg me too! I’m so pleasantly surprised 🙌🏾
Right bc if you go to the comment section on just the Issa Rae clip, it is not so nice!!! But on the full episode, Amanda is getting love
No one is willing to be weird in all this love. So beautiful. 🥰🥰🥰
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She was so patient and graceful for this interview. Love to Amanda 🫶🏾
After listening to the entire interview, this woman is awesome and should be not only protected but also preserved at all costs! Not only her, but others like her as well. 💯
After you heard the entire podcast you decided to comment what everyone else comments 😂
She's awesomely coo coo.
@@The_fashioner777Beautiful disasters are the movement of epic change and undeniable real life Art.
The way Amanda so eloquently gathered Shay Shay about undermining her experiences with racism is classic and I’m so here for it!
Agreed
😂😂
He actually made a fair point about the teacher though. Lots of adults don’t like to be constantly corrected by children.
@@riri_renee5550seems like an ego issue bc they are wrong. sounds like some aren’t doing their job well enough.
Hey that was beautiful. I didn’t know about her but u gain a fan today.
"I have rage." I felt that to my core, sis.
I felt this so well, I almost shed a tear
So this is an excuse to be a narcissis.. Gotcha..
@@julbri9069nope. You misunderstood.
💯 Felt that as well.
I call it passion .. can it be the same thing?
If she was 10 years old and was able to recognize the other kids were wrong for callimg her the N word, then the other 10 year olds should have the capability to understand that them saying the word was wrong and excuses shouldn't be made for them.
Exactly. Them White kids ain’t calling other white kids the n word. That’s cuz they know and they know it’s wrong and hurtful.
😂 she was autistic that’s why she understood
Girrrrrl, I LOVE ME SOME YOU! You are a BEAUTIFUL SOUL and Sister, WE NEED YOU HERE!!!!! Thank You! 🙏🏾🤗🥰💕💃🏾
Yeah I didn’t realize we were giving age minimums for racism lol. What age are racists allowed to be racists? 18? 21? 25? It’s not like these were 2 year olds repeating a word and not knowing its meaning. They’re no different from the kids hurling racial slurs at Ruby Bridges. Can’t believe he said that.
exactly!
I think my perspective on Amand and Shannon changed multiple times during this discussion. Amanda was tough, then accepting. Shannon was confrontational, then understanding. They come from 2 different worlds, and its awesome when different worlds share the same orbit without colliding into each other.
Yea, he's from the world where I think he forgets who he is and what he looks like. He even challenged her on her diagnosis after she had already mentioned she was tested a few times! He was questioning her authenticity in that. Disrespectful.
@@rogetrogetgiddythat’s because she was never diagnosed lmaoo. She diagnosed her self
@@aubhreypender3091 She literally said she was by a medical professional. Weird that people are saying she's lying about something they have no way of verifying, given medical files are private 🤷🤦
@@rogetrogetgiddy when did she say that?
@@aubhreypender3091Go through the entire 3 hours to find out. I did 🤷 She said it two to three times as Shay was doubting what she told him and pretending like he didn't hear her when she said it the first time.
As a POC educator, CHILDREN CAN BE AND ARE RACIST. It's a LEARNED mentality
If a white child isn’t racist then they are being taught values counterproductive to their people’s well being.
FACTS!!!
As a white male who grew up with a culturally diverse extended family . 100% Racism in all forms is LEARNED as is colourism within each race. I had friends of all colours and ethnicities and only understood is all to be different not “different” I do believe Children brought up in racist environment don’t understand the effect or impact of their behaviour being racist because it’s simply what they’re brought up with no less excusable but up to an age ( because if your not being educated at home it your being taught at school ) it’s about the fact that your hurting someone period regardless of context and correcting that behaviour immediately. You blame the upbringing not necessarily the product. Unfortunately it’s all learned behaviour … children are not born thinking their differences can be perceived as negative be it race lifestyle gender sexuality religion….. they are taught to be cogniscent of these perceptions based on things passed on . The hard part on both sides is just letting go. On one side it’s realizing your ancestors passed issues have nothing to to do with your current existence understand we are just people and differences are surface level in every way . On the receiving side it’s hard to let go of all the of the atrocities youre ancestors experienced as the hands of people with these issues , because while you’re world is different they went through it get you here and letting go may feel like you’d be denying their struggle so you end up carrying it forward in a way as well .
@@matthewlima7121but they are racist and are still racist and their adulthood! We can’t excuse it bc most never unlearn. So we have to judge them at face value, like actually guilty until proven otherwise like this justice system! We actually see the racism!
@@matthewlima7121 Racism is a form of otherism and humans are predisposed to some form of the latter. Studies have shown 1) We prefer people who look like us (or like someone in our family), 2) We prefer people we see as similar to ourselves, etc. So while a specific strain may be “learned”, we are easy to learn and apply it and in the case of “racism” of whites against non-whites, and for the former it has been immensely enriching and empowering as morally degrading as it may be, therefore it survives and perpetuates.
Amanda proves over and over again that when you are highly intellengent, speak clear, directly and assertively with excellent listening comprehension and responding skills most people ( Shannon ) do not have the best critical thinking, active listening, and high level comprehension skills! I just love her and feel blessed to have met and had a conversation with her recently. She is top tier! Love you Amanda!
Or maybe her personality shows clear disdain for others.
@@g.o.a.tsports2880for racists? Yeah. I hope so.
Shannon: why was she racist?
Amanda:she got mad because I corrected her in middle of the class .
Shannon: interrupting a teacher as a student in middle of class is wrong though.
You guys:😡😤🤬😤 Shannons okay with racism!
its like talking to a brick wall lol
I see that Amanda shut it down when Shannon could not see her honestly.His listening skills are really on point.He didn't see or understand that the interview was about her viewpoint and understanding that. Power to you Amanda❤
I love how they maturely move past their differences and kept the interview going while still laughing and enjoying each other. I don’t see that enough.
I feel like she recognizes when people are stupid and she chooses to not get stuck there. She navigated multiple triggers with grace...because there were several times within the first 20 minutes where she could've (and should've) eaten him alive....not because she wanted to...but he was saying some really dumb things that were obvious and needed to be corrected. But I think she is starting to become exhausted with having to navigate other peoples improper thinking. Shes starting to choose her battles...almost seems like she is protecting her peace.
@@jm3062 well said
@jm3062 She recognized that she was on HIS platform and that she should act like an adult if she wanted to be heard.
hope she's not welcomed back.
@@hammerg434 and that’s maturity 😂😂😂😂
Wow! Amanda's awareness is off the charts. Spitting truth. This explains her troubles in Hollywood. To be excepted you must be part fake on the reg.
I've heard some bad things about Amanda, so I figured I'd check this out 2C and I'm really impressed, I think she's awesome in so many ways, I with that.
All but self awareness
I really hope Amanda comes to look at the comments and sees how much love she’s getting and how she’s such a gem to our culture and should be protected at ALL costs!
Right❤😊.
She doesn't even like blk men, F you and her
I'm good...but you can
She's a misandrist
Right ❤❤❤❤😊
In my opinion, Amanda is so self-aware and direct and a segment of the people who strongly don't like her or find her annoying are arguably uncomfortable because they don't have or have not personally reached her level of awareness, confidence, & unapologetic resolve to fight injustice. The mindset is "I can't silence my voice and saying the hard truths because of anyone else's discomfort" and I 100% understand it & support it. I am also appreciate Amanda's candidness and the visibility/representation of someone living on the spectrum.
She is a critical thinker and that’s difficult for a lot of people to practice.
Shannon is being combative. It’s her experience he wasn’t there.
1000% agree.
She can effectively articulate her experience and stand it unapologetically because she's smart and educated, it's a threat to anyone else who can't🤷🏽♀️ it's an offense to those people. Salute Amanda!🔥
I deal with the same things, but somehow I still think her becoming famous and "successful" allowed a certain amount of arrogance that when added with her diagnosis could make her unbearable for a lot of people. In a way that people could easily dismiss her and make the claim that they don't "like" her, I also feel as though she needed to feel this way to become this self aware in a good way.
The fact that he did the interview speaks volumes to his desire to have dialogue and grow. People will rather criticize him for trying and opening his self up to criticism rather than respect and appreciate his vulnerability. I haven’t seen Amanda on any other platform outside of her own social media accounts. I’m glad she got to tell her story and engage in meaningful dialogue.
nope. if you wana grow than sit there listen and learn. growth doesn’t come from being antagonistic and challenging someone’s intelligence and experience. growth would be listening and learning.
so he can criticize all her experiences but we can’t criticize him back? if you can’t take the heat don’t come in the kitchen tryna cook.
Amanda has been on a lot of other podcasts in the past few months but, I agree. I enjoyed the conversation
She's crazy...
Truth is her morning radio show in Houston is so bosss ❤❤❤
Definitely a very intelligent woman, I love seeing someone who knows how to use critical thinking and effectively use language in a conversation
Amanda spoke for a lot of women in this interview that don't have the platform or even the courage to speak up about things like this. One of the hardest things to navigate in life is being misunderstood. When your intentions and someone's perception don't align it is a perfect storm for these experiences. I absolutely loved this interview and the fact that she got to shine light on exactly who she is.
I totally agree with you. I think this was such a great interview!
Exactly!
@@Las2ha3Confirmation bias all day.
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THISSSS I felt so seen in this interview. I communicate like her and often feel isolated. I want to reach out to her and tell her that I SEE HER AND ACKNOWLEDGE HER!
I understand Amanda frustration through this interview😩😩 I’m proud she kept going
He is not a journalist 😂😂
Seems he kept trying to make her situations about her attitude
Cause I would of left lol
@@piesboardsandbooks me too I got up like 4 times for my sister
He asked what he wanted to ask...it's his show...you mfs don't gotta watch.... ungrateful clowns... unsubscribe and never watch again then
I LOVE how Amanda explains her point of view, her experiences, and her story; then when Shannon disagrees and attempts to discredit her she just stops talking and listens to him, then uses those moments intelligently in the conversation later to prove and support her point!
I picked up on that also. My appreciation for her has grown through this interview but my God, this has to be exhausting for her.
Men get attacked for doing that exact thing every time though
That part..
Notice its a difference in what men and ladies think of this interview
Yes! Genius really 😊
Loved this convo !!!! Thank You Amanda for keep going through it all !!! You have been given so many curveballs in life and steady defeating so many obstacles and challenges , I’m soooo proud of you !! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💐💐
People are more attentive to tone than actual truth. Bravo sis!
This is the best succinct description of the awkward dynamics of this interview. Yes. 🎉
Agreed! ESPECIALLY when a woman is speaking. People are not as particular about tone-policing men. Even another woman may give a man more grace if he's passionate vs a woman.
u spittin.
But that's realistic
That about sums it up. Whenever you read critique of her 99.9% of the time it’s rooted in her delivery. Most people either just can’t get past it because society is brainwashed to like the fake or they simply don’t want to get past it. Gives them an excuse to dismiss what she’s saying. Smh.
Growing up in the deep South our teachers are often our first examples of Racism as a child.
Touche' simply put and yet so profound
I can definitely remember how I was treated and lied on by my 2nd grade teacher
Yes !!!!
Accurate
He completely gaslit her about that teacher!
I appreciate how she respectfully stood her ground.
That is Amanda. We have seen her do it time and time again (ask Katy Perry dinner party).
Listening to her speak to people especially when defending her position is a master class.
@@patienceanoe-lamptey7317agreed
Who is she fighting?
All ten toes!!!!!
Amanda guided this interview. She made sure she finished her stories and her current work was known. I see her in a new light. I enjoyed this interview.
Me too! This was so enlightening
She’s a horrible person. very vindictive
i see in the same light she always bee : a professionabl victim
yeah as a dumb narcissist
Her talking about Autism is going to help so many parents ❤
I hope she's not using it as a crutch to be rude and dismissive.
@@rla8713 definitely did, no self awareness but aware of everyone else's flaws
@@JaNeeDiahann1225Thank you!
@rla8713 Many people with autism have this experience where they are bullied, exploited, and ostracized! Even if people didn't like her, why are they comfortable at openly humiliating her, saying cruel things to and about her! That type of behavior is inappropriate regardless if they like a person or not! Even if I don't particularly care for someone, I don't need to gossip, slander, judge, or humiliate another human being because that isn't a reflection of that person, it's a reflection of me. Now, if someone does something to you, then you directly go to that person and address it. My heart goes out to autistic individuals because they aren't harming anyone. They just operate, process, and show up differently than mainstream society! But they deserve to be seen, heard, and respected as well!
Facts! Ppl with autism that are adults genuinely act just like her! They are very likable ppl. They just don’t fit the mold. Love that about them and Amanda. ❤️
Context is SO IMPORTANT. Gained a lot of respect for her in this interview. She literally spent at least 2.5 hours explaining my entire life. 😢
Same. It’s exhausting but validating to see we aren’t these aliens and that Amanda has pushed through. Gives me hope.
@notthe1_orthe2 it helped me see my own biases with her and others. Life is about constant evolution + growth. I too followed narratives about her coming from some of those news outlets. But the more she explained, and the more I heard her I'm like......"that's me"! I can relate to almost all of what she said. And the *Insecure* sequence of events really changed my mind about Issa. She never seemed like a "girls girl" to me. And they painted Amanda's character in the worst light on the show. The energy was so telling through the screen. Her sides of the story made more sense!
Same here. Always felt like a circle trying to fit in a square box, so I twisted myself to fit it and is exhausting. Now I understand myself a little better!!
SAMEEEE
Only girls saying this 😂 wonder why ya single or got aint ish men
I learn sometimes when people are sharing their experiences, don’t play devil’s advocate, especially when it’s life experiences. You’re only hearing the story, they lived it
Are you an interviewer? 😂
💯 Exactly this part!
@@kenyafromcaliI don’t think you need to be an interviewer to say that. That’s a normal part of daily human interaction. I’ve actually had to learn and apply this when listening to people
facts
This is an excellent observation (that u obviously are intelligent enough to realize that you don’t have to be an interviewer for 😂)
Adults can talk without agreeing on every topic.
Right. Otherwise it is servitude and slavery if you have to agree with everything you say and do.
Not in Amanda's eyes 😅
@@SeeingSebastian that wasn't what she was doing, he was invalidating her yall wild bruh
@@WAKEMUP_12 He was asking her basic follow up questions llike he did with Katt and Monique. She fell apart.
@rydz656 she did not. She spoke her truth and didn't let anyone put words in her mouth. She's very quick witted and observant.
I have to admit that Amanda is so good at handling this conversation. I would have blown up on Shay Shay so many times and left this interview. I have a hold new respect for her.
I agree. She did a great job!
lol me too. He was annoying me. But she definitely has a way with words!
Like who? Shannon is from the dirt South with a degree... 14 years on TV debating...created his own channel, podcast, beverage etc. etc. What has she done? He's done 10x more than her and I heard her introduction by him.
@@dlkc2000Dear brother, you feel compelled to ask this question and attempt to compare them is problematic in and of itself. She has a Masters Degree that in and of itself sets her apart. IYKYK.
She’s extremely aware and mindful of who tf she is
"People don't wanna let you grow. People don't wanna let you exist." I felt that in my soul. This is true personally and professionally for me. People want to keep you in whatever box they created for you. Stay woke.
✊🏾❤️🖤💚✊🏾❤️🖤💚✊🏾❤️🖤💚
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I live this everyday with my family.
The world wants us to play small so they won’t have to level up
LOVED: "Stay Woke"
Amanda is literally the best. So honest and authentic. Her industry doesn't like her because of that. She doesn't follow the crowd she follows whats right!! I LOVE HER!!
Facts!! I pray she stays true to her authentic self always!!
I always FEEL her. Her intentions are always pure, especially to people who actually listen to her and don’t tell her to stfu.
I love Amanda's honesty. They hate o her because she is candid, confident, honest and pro-empowering blackness.
They hate on her because she’s just a dumb as she is smart on certain issues but will never be intelligent enough to recognize that
She’s Rude. Intrusive. A bit contrived. And clearly agenda’d
@@MRLUTHOOORShe is a lot to unpack and I can see why she is single.
@40datboysha, yeah me too. Men are to simple-minded and dense to truly understand a complex but brilliant mind and soul like Amanda🙌🏽!
@@mirakings1867 only a dense minded person would generalize all men… check yourself
The best one yet. Shannon you have blinders on when it comes to analyzing and recognizing racism and racist behavior.
I think he’s trying to be PC. SMH
He’s from the south
Yep
Shannon is a dark skin man from the Deep South lol he has seen and heard the worst and has never appeared to be the tap dancing type
Growing up in the deep rural South and being an HBCU product, I’m sure he doesn’t have a problem identifying racism or racist behavior. Unlike a lot of blacks, I believe he’s not one to run the Victim Olympics
I hope Amanda is reading these comments & feeling ALL the love, validation, care, respect, admiration & protection we have for her ❤️🥰
*Vomits*
Yesss....Love Her!! ❤
@@VegasKandy48 🥰❤️
She is she made a IG video and thanked us. I’m so glad she saw the live she didn’t think it would happen. People are speaking up for her. Shannon owes her an apology.
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TH-cam comments did NOT disappoint. Amanda, you are loved and your self love has opened so many doors for others in our community to embrace themselves as well. I'm so grateful to share community with you ❤❤
Yess lol , I checked the comments JUST to make sure everyone saw this video the same way I was interpreting !
NOPE. Her interpretation of events is extremely narrow, the constant focus on others’ shortcomings and complaining and her brand of militarism rings so very false and unhealthy. She creates more battles than she actually has to fight. ALSO, autism spectrum disorder in ALL women is difficult to diagnose. It rarely happens. There’s enough racism out there not to attribute it to places where that isn’t the main cause.
@@tanja0411I could not have written it better myself. She’s the victim in every single story she tells. She’s insufferable.
AND SHE WANTS TO FREE PALESTINE 🇵🇸!!! She’s wearing a Keffiyeh 🎉
@@tanja0411😂😂😂 how utterly unsurprising that your profile pic is of a dog. So on brand.
One of my favorite interviews EVER - saying that with zero surprise. I expected nothing less, and STILL was quite enlightened throughout!
Really appreciate Amanda’s perspective and glad Shannon dialed back a bit to let her speak and understand the perspective. Human moment.
She holds every one accountable but herself. She doesn’t see herself at all. THAT is unfortunate for her bc that blind spot os holding her back
Amanda showed great mastery in that interview. At the start, as her experience and her perceptions were in my opinion minimized, she patiently stood in her power and authority and scholarship. She also did not engage in an ego battle but continued through connection never wavering from her point of view.
Shannon Sharpe also sets the tone and is willing to ask questions on behalf of his audience that maybe uncomfortable. It was refreshing to see them both work at and through this conversation.
Yes, definitely, was a conversation for people who understand the science of dialog. Just Amazing for the brain to process and understand.
I really appreciate your perspective. You didn't insult either party, instead you looked at their interview from a very mature and empathetic POV👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Exactly! I think that Shannon and Amanda conversed well. I did cringe a bit when they discussed her experience regarding childhood racism.
My thoughts! Very great lessons for them both conversationally
We ain't peoples; we ain't huggin. Agreed.
As a woman with Autism, I’m LIVING for Amanda representing! We can be so misunderstood
U ain’t lyin. I am on the spectrum as well
Same!!! People just have a hard time believing our truths.
I don't believe her and as a Healthcare professional the diagnosis is being thrown around too loosely
I'm autistic too. But still I'm aware enough to realise sometimes my words and behavior isn't appropriate. So yes represent but she should be more aware of her actions but because of her job I get it. I find it so hard to play different roles for fake people.
This comment alone let's me know I need to listen to this one. My daughter is Autistic and looked upon as misunderstood quite often.
The most honest speaking person I ever saw on "TV ", you guys know what I mean, Thanks Shannon for giving Amanda the "space" to speak her mind. Thank you Amanda I love your character...
Amanda’s stare🤣🤣🤣🤣 She is articulate, educated, easy to talk to and composed! I loved it! This was a good look for her. I hope she feels loved and empowered viewing the comments. Plenty of people support her and love her for exactly who she is!
She has an attitude and extremely combative.
@Roughdog86 insecure men use that excuse when a woman is intellectually superior, confident, and outspoken
@@Roughdog86totally agree. She was rude. If you don't agree with her it's a problem.
Yes!!!❤❤❤
Yes indeed I have always loved how educated she was and just “woke “ for a lack of me being able to find a word. But I think folks willl understand 🤷🏾♀️
My vocabulary increased by 15% following Amanda online 😆
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Facts
Mine as well😂😂😂
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The grace Amanda gave to Shannon is commendable.
Lol I was thinking just the opposite. 😂
I am not good with how he treated her. He just proved her point.
I see it the opposite way…
@@Bibibabies260me too. I think she has issue being challenged. I’ve seen this in her on other interviews with different people, whether she was interviewing or the interviewer.
@@stephanieevette291I agree.
Nothing more powerful than a woman who is smart , articulate and beautiful!! Always love Amanda and love seeing her growth and seeing her push through all the BS that is said about her! Love you Amanda.
Thank God for her mother. Amanda is really a gift I pray the world doesn’t ruin her spirit. I pray we all continue to grow and learn from people that are bold enough to share their stories.
The comments are passing the vibe check. We appreciate you, Amanda!❤
I was so hesitant to look! I'm very pleased with the responses 😊
Don’t look at the live chat 🥴
@@olamideidreez8872im not 😊
@@NebulaWILNIL I guess we're okay with staying in our bubbles. I guess it's cool to listen to certain perspectives but not others.
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15 minutes into the interview and I identify with Amanda so much. I recently learned that I am on the spectrum. I was also diagnosed with Adult onset ADHD several years ago. Learning about my neurodivergence was a sense of relief because I was exhausted from “masking”.
I hope more neurodivergent and atypical people continue to shine a light on the difficulties of living in a society that always want you to “perform.”
The problem is that she lied and made that up. In her live about this interview, she admitted that she was not medically diagnosed. She self diagnosed herself. I was rooting for her until I saw that.
@@artfulvariety1099yes if you were educated about autism you would know that self-diagnosis is widely accepted within the autistic community.
I identify with her so much too!! I didn’t realize she was autistic but now she makes even more sense to me 😂😂😂 Seeing her here, as well as how much Shannon doesn’t understand where she’s coming from, inspired me to come out on social media as autistic myself, and ask people to educate themselves more on autism. Most people are still thinking “Rain Man” and don’t know that autism shows up in all populations and that it can look a lot of different ways
But do you play victim in every situation like she does. Now even after this interview came out, she playing victim n hating on unc.
Everyone want to be autistic all of a sudden to have an excuse for their ill mannered behavior
This is the best Club Shay Shay interview, in my opinion. SO MUCH is on the table here which Amanda delivers with the patience of a teacher and passion of an artist. I've listened to it multiple times as I will never get bored with the twists and turns of the conversation - even Shannon himself misunderstands her (often) but she confronts it perfectly. I'm a big fan of hers.
nah she is just delusionnal manipulator and as a sheep you refuse to see she is just a clown
“What is it about me that makes you feel small” a powerful question for so many‼️
Yes, I loved this.
Have left several jobs for this VERY thing
And very appropriate for this interview!
This whole interview that was my thought. People were projecting their own insecurities on her for her entire life!
Yass!!!! its that positive energy!!! self awareness will make the lost ones feel inferior ...
This is an articulate educated and intelligent woman. She is truly remarkable!
Did she make an educated decision when she lied about being SA’d?
@iccld56, were you there?
She’s a PITA actually
@@iccld56you’re scum.
this is an articulate and intelligent woman? When she constantly utters curse words and refers to Shannon as "my n*gga?"
I found myself resonating with Amanda and it scared me because I felt understood by someone who ain’t never known me. Amazing interview. I see Amanda and I understand her. She’s passionate and misunderstood alongside brilliantly intelligent
She was awesome to get through this interview with no tears-many would have just walked away but she exposed who he really is and how he thinks
Totally!
She is abrasive and lacks accountability. Everything is someone's else's fault.
EXACTLY!
@@blewgrassboy8461it’s ok to be an abrasive personality, especially if you aren’t going out of your way to offend people. What is she supposed to do? Fake being meek and polite?
EVERYTHING about this Queen is AMAZING‼️💯💫🙌🏾🔥❣ One of the best interviews I have ever seen.
this was a masterclass of how to understand, misunderstand, stop, teach, listen, and learn all in one. Anybody that says I would've just left or Shannon should've kicked her off, you are the problem. Who you are isnt going to be instantly understood or accepted. through time and effort understanding can be gained. Great interview.
Well said
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I think this interview helped a lot of people understand "themselves" better. The world needs this.
So true 🫶🏽
Agreed, we always push the norms on everyone pretending we want people to show up as their authentic selves
100 percent! I've always gravitated to Amanda Seales because she is so honest. And she's not brutally honest, but she's honest with empathy and with strong intentions to better people. It's crazy that it has been misunderstood for so long.
Interview was dope. I applaud any platform that allows people to speak out their truths and mind, regardless of whether you agree with them or not.
100%% I know I did.
This woman is beyond intelligent and stands her ground and I LOVE IT
People have an issue with intelligence and confidence from a Woman.
Shes an inspiration to me.
Compared to whom or what? She can formulate a sentence! Look at the breakfast club interview where she told a story on Myron Rolle.
She’s literally so annoying
@@AficionadoOfArt are you looking for attention? Here it is.
I don't care how nobody feels about her, I love the great mind and spirit of Amanda Seals.
Same here gwuRL! She a reaL one, I feel I have autism spectrum too, im like too straight out where people can't handle it.. " they can't handle the truth!!!!! Lol
yea she's a great liar
It’s everyone’s fault and everything is racism. No accountability at all.
We are all autistic, and😮
Ofcourse she's single, gonna die along with a dog. Got too much going on. Driving me nuts just listening to her.
This interview gave me a whole new appreciation for Amanda Seales
Definitely ! She needed to get that weight off
And less for Shannon.
I'm in deep agreement
😒 Whatever! This Broad need a Muzzle💯
The way her mind works 😮 And the way she recalls Shannon’s “logic” to teach him 😮💨 That girl is brilliant!!
I doubt that even happened to her, she’s a race baiting narcissist
She’s not. She’s sensitive.
I don't know maybe because it's his job
GREAT INTERVIEW!!!!!!!!!!! I hope folks are REALLY LISTENING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
He was not ready for her level of intellect! Amanda we see you and never stop.
Yessssss! He was NOT ready
Thank you.
I had to find this comment. I was typing too much in frustration 🤪
Intellect? She’s rude and lies when questioned
Intelligence? You must have a GED
AT ALL!
This interview helped me to see Amanda in a new light and it also shed light on how the industry wants you to be docile, silent, and keep your head down and will bully those who refuse to bow down.
Same! She continues to surprise me and warm me over.
INDEED!!
I love these comments. We waiting for yall to join her patreon. SealesSquad
I never knew people saw her in ANY type of negative light until reading comments on social media platforms about this interview. I thought we ALL f*cked with her! 🤷♂
Amanda is so self aware and at the same time extremely vulnerable. I luv it❤❤
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I’m so glad that I took the opportunity to watch this interview. My perspective on Amanda is that she has been misrepresented in the media.
“I’m a very very emotionally intelligent person, so a lot of times I end up having to do the emotional labor for other people to get us through. It’s exhausting”. YES!
Then she needs a new crowd if that were true.
Asperger’s & emotional intelligence is contradicting
This is my experience
What a load of nonsense.
@@kevinbas6756 that’s a stereotype. Not always the case.
She is extremely perceptive and highly intelligent. You aren't just going to say anything around her and try to sneak nonsense past her. I'm assuming this is why she butts heads with so many people in a world where everyone is dumbed down. People will resent you for your intelligence and awareness. Salute to her!
She literally explained why. She is autistic and doesn’t understand social cues
@@clarissak.4587Exactly! I can see why she's single and "hard to work with". 😄
@@clarissak.4587 Yep, you gotta learn to pick your battles and not everything has to be WW3
ABSOLUTELY!!
Is it autism spectrum or is it ADHD? Listening to this interview has me emotionally exhausted. It's like she pivots too much and tries to cram and can't stay on one track.
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When you’re different you must have discipline because you’ll be standing alone most of the time. We love you sis 🫶🏾🌹🌹🌹
Been watching this channel for a minute, but today i actually subscribe, and for the first time, also posting a comment! Only because of this interview! I can definitely see where she’s coming from! I’ve work retail and I’m always so happy and positive, and for whatever reason, that’s gotten me in trouble, not only there but any place I’ve worked. Regardless her stories where great, hate she’s been through all that but it only makes her a better person, also shows you people’s true colors and how unhappy successful people are all over. There’s issues you can’t escape no matter which level of live you’re living
Thank you Shannon Sharpe for this interview with Amanda Seales. Even through those rough patches, you both were committed to staying engaged and getting through what turned out to be a great and insightful interview. Kudos
Totally agree with not hugging someone you don't vibe with. Not going to be fake or phony.
weird to ask for one later...
I’ll give you a hug
I don't hug people I do vibe with.
Not embracing that energy. Get tf back!
Right. I don’t want that energy to rub off on me. 😅
She won me over with, "what Amanda needs is information, so lets give her the information." Spoke to my core!!
I love hearing stories of people who weren't feeling her, who've listened to what she had to say and leaned into it and changed their minds.
But if you distort the information you receive, it's not productive tou you or those around you
❤ AMANDA!!!!
I love this interview and relate so much to Amanda❤👏🏾
Only 30 minutes in and I’m already sooo exhausted for Amanda. So glad she is not letting him go unchecked. She states her boundaries and instead of really listening he’s thinking of how to defend his own beliefs. When you’re so adamant about being RIGHT, you’re completely missing the opportunity to really hear someone and what a shame because you will never grow as a person if you aren’t willing to learn from other people.
I was at work watching yesterday, very exhausting 😢
I agree 100%
I thought it was just me. His intolerance of her personal experiences is disrespectful! I can't believe this!
Same 18:29 min in already taking a pause to go check the comment to see if I am bugging.
I agree. I thought he was challenging her playing devil’s advocate- asking what the audience might ask?
Unc i said this earlier and I’ll say it again, this platform of a conversation and not an interview has opened my eyes in ways I never knew. I was one of the many who couldn’t stand this woman but today I listened. I listened even when I was getting irritated and then I saw her. I literally saw the human…the spirit. I’ve literally turned my entire view of her around and respect her. Dare I say I find her endearing. Thank you Amanda for being authentic.
Abraham Lincoln has a quote”I don’t know that man….I must get to know him”
I’m glad I did.
thats beautiful
Same here! I was so over her, this interview definitely helped me see her for real!
I love to see her be able to explain herself so candidly!
This is one of Shannon's hardest interviews to me haven't watched em all yet but most definitely this is number 1 rn
i agree. they're definitely not on the same wave
At the hour and 23 minute mark, when Amanda says "So you finally understand me, it took me a minute but we are here." I felt that. This entire TIME, two different individuals are trying to find a mutual understanding of each other and respect each other's differences. You can't TRULY know anyone until you understand what are the experiences that shape them.
Then one minute later her say but Amanda if u learn the rules. Then she interrupts and says I know I didn’t know back then.. which invalidates the very thing u pointing out
Thanks for the update! I had to pause at 30 min and again at 50 min cuz it was so difficult to watch Shannon interact with Amanda. He was coming across as disrespectful and I was getting upset on her behalf.
That’s not true if the person is lying about experiences
Some ppl think she’s combative.
The real ones DO NOT.
I adore this lady. ❤
I know it’s tiring explaining the same thing over and over and sometimes you feel like us in the audience don’t hear you and aren’t listening… but we are.
We hear you we believe you and support you.
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Ty for doing this interview.
❤❤❤❤❤yaaaaayyyyyy😊😊😊😊exactly
Real eyes Realize real lies
If you are a woman that is in shape, a 5 or above, and SINGLE, then you are combative and difficult.
Exactly 💯 real ones recognize how Amanda is special and multifaceted. She is very intellectual
So true!!! I am happy to see the level of support she has cuz i am always here for her!!
He tried to argue with perspective of her life.....she shut that down and made me proud.
We are not protected, and she experienced that on a platform that millions can see.... yet, she held her own. By the way, she did it looking amazingly beautiful, calm, and well spoken!
We protect y’all when you allow us to.
Putting Amanda with Shannon revealed how obtuse he can be and is proven to be in these interviews. She did an amazing job of displaying grace and eloquently telling her truth.
Facts. Shay failed Amanda. He did not extend a safe welcoming space for her to share her experiences in life. 😮
Talk that talk Queen! We got you. He fumbled this one........ The fact of trying to argue her life as she's saying he's wrong is messed up beyond reprieve.
@@ATLCPAI'm watching now and my mouth is literally on the floor. I am so disappointed in Shannon and his lack of preparation. There is nothing that can necessarily be done about him lacking the intelligence to survive three hours with Amanda, but he could and should have been willing to give her the same open safe space as the rest of his guests and allow her to share her story and do what she sadly always has to do...explain herself to the world.
It's giving "chosen one..." we're gifted babe...
Regarding the kids using racist language part. It's intent vs impact. It doesn't matter if the kids "were just repeating what their parents said." What matters is the IMPACT of their words on Amanda. That's what we need to focus on, not making excuses for them. Calling her the n-word and minimizing her talent was racist. Period.
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Big Facts
That’s a good distinction 👌🏾
People defending shannon in the comments need to understand this perspective!! Those kids knew they was wrong they didn’t care
So right
She uses a lot of emotional energy and I think it scares people, but it's refreshing to me. Everyone loves people that are perpetually unbothered. It's okay to be bothered about things that matter.
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Well said!
Funny you mention that, In astrology - she’s a cancer sun AND a cancer moon - it’s a lot of emotional energy, she loves deeply, is loyal but difficult for her to contain her emotions. She feels deeply.
yess you’re right and you should say it, being emotional is healthy
I appreciate your comment! She resonates with people who see between the lines and speak up no matter how they are perceived.
I love Amanda. She keeps it REAL. We live in a world where people are selling their SOUL for a price and she’s not one of them
Oh yes she is. Everyone has a price. Everyone. And she's got hers.
Amanda better than me I would have ended the interview he is ignorant & clueless & not listening
Only 🌈 men love that misandrist
Very articulate woman. Her truth really designated with my being. I have been misunderstood my whole existence and it hurts me to my core but I can't control the ignorance of others. I can only be me
( Passionate, Real, Vulnerable, and a lover of people). Great interview Ms. Seales I look forward to hearing more from you.
Maybe your the problem...just like Amanda and no one will tell you...
It took him over an hour to be self aware and to stop putting his thoughts of what’s right or wrong on Amanda. Kudos to her for setting him straight. The essence of a good interviewer is the ability to listen and hear
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I thought those were just simple follow up questions that he usually asks people for clarification. Even if he made a mistake she just turned it around and used it as a knife to stab him with
This interview was necessary for him as well!! I knew Amanda is always going to stay true to herself, but I feel like he can listen and learn as well. This will help his platform and others who need to hear it and be challenged in this way.
@@spendleton79 what did he need to learn? Outside of Shannon learning how to identify her personality disorder (not autism as that is not a PD) there was nothing profound about what she said. Talking to her is a useless blank mission.
I can't wait for y'all to come back after being updated 😂. What y'all got to say about her now lol
She resonates with people who see between the lines and speak up no matter how they are perceived or ridiculed. Free Thinkers are on the rise FINALLY and its REFRESHING
Yesssssss
yes sir/ma'am we are here and we will protect Amanda
It's okay to be a free thinker however be mindful of what you say because there is repercussions for everything ....
@@alonalove3118 I agree with you. Also, be able to take criticism/pushback from others as you have criticized them.
Amen 🙏🏾 Amen 🙏🏾 Amen 🙏🏾
He wasn't ready. The more I hear Amanda, the more love and respect I have for her!
He was NOT ready.
BIG FACTS AND SHE IS TRIGGERING HIM SO SIMPLY!!!!
Yeah cause trained professionals are need to deal with folks with autism.
Amen!
Yeah she needs a psychiatrist or therapist. I don’t think Shannon was prepared for her “perceived” slights. I personally believe that she has borderline personality disorder and not autism.
😂🤣yall have to understand that Shannon isn’t a journalist, a therapist, nor a psychologist… he’s a retired NFL player who build his own platform… that don’t mean his intelligence, comprehension or intellect is elite
Give the man a break & give thanks that he’s creating a safe space for these celebrities
Exactly “ that doesn’t mean his intelligence, comprehension or intellect is elite” I was thinking the same lol. 😅
His intelligence is on a very high level. He just isn’t a panderer like the other podcasters. He also doesn’t show emotion. Yall just soft.
I have true appreciation and respect for Amanda. She is a self-confident, brilliant, sophisticated woman who understands her own power and value. She is a wonderful example of not "playing small" to become non-threatening to the insecure people around you.
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