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Optimizing Embryo Transfer and Dealing with the 2-week Wait
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 8 พ.ค. 2014
- I have received many questions about the best way to assure a successful embryo transfer. What activities can I participate in following ET, how long do I have to wait, what can I do to help the embryo "stick", etc. Also, dealing with the dreaded 2-Week Wait between transfer and the first beta hCG pregnancy test. In this blog post, I address many of those questions.
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Baby dust to all IVF girls !
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Thanks so much for your advice going through ivf and kept thinking about how to increase my chances of embryos sticking. I hope and pray everyone that watches this has a successful Ivf cycle. God bless
Kelly Marks amen
Kelly Marks Amen
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Amen in Jesus name AMEN.
Kelly Marks thank you 🙏
Just a small message to everyone over the world watching this, to say I am thinking of you and know what you're enduring x
You're a gem of a person. The consultation fees are sky-rocketing. You're giving out this info for free. What a lovely woman. Keep up the good work. Thank you so much for it. God bless you.
Thank you for sharing . Just had my FET and now just waiting for TTW. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻Prayers to all the IVF women❤️❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻
So how was your outcome ?
Was it successful??
You sold be 3month gone no
Transferring tomorrow! Ahhh so excited and nervous, more excited. Baby dust to all of you reading this. ❤️💫
Best wishes!! Baby dust to you too!
Apka sucsec hua
How did it go? How are you now?
Just today had my 1st IVF. Hearing patients were worried to pee out the embryo almost made me laugh as I thought exactly the same! Just an instant thought that enteredy mind! Of course I get it, its not possible, thanks for confirmation :) but looks like my husband is the one who will need to work on letting go. Love that quote. Good luck everyone on TWW🍀💕
Going through IVF now with my transfer set for 2 days from now. Wish I had found you early to listen at home while going through everything. Your way of explaining things and your delivery is a breath of fresh air. You seem like such a great nurse and I say that as an ER RN myself. Thank you for posting these videos.
So, 4th transfer for me ( today), 4th time I watch this video. I don't know what it is but her voice has the abilitiy to calm me. Thank you.
I love this! So true, the main key is to let go. We have no control over creating life. If the Lord wants baby to stick, baby will stick. :) Also the 2 week wait is basically what we go through every month when we are waiting to see if we are going to get our period. So just relax & let it happen. We will all be ok, no matter what.
Best Advice ever❤❤❤for all women going through the 2 -week wait!!!
Thank you!! My Dr said their was a study where there were
x number of embryos they took one group and had them jump up and down many times and another group who did not and there was no difference in the number of successful embryo implantation.. in other words the jumping up and down did not prevent or disable implantation. Now, of course she wouldn’t recommend you do that. But that information really gave me peace about the process..
This is exactly what I needed to hear. We can only do so much. We have to embrace Surrender and trust
Same here🙏
My first FET, I watched comedies during TWW just to keep me happy and stress levels down 😊
Love how you explained it all...especially saying it's not going to fall out- funny!
Lol. True
God bless you! My doctor said NO SEX 😢until they hear a heartbeat. All the hormones are making my libido go crazy and I just couldn’t take it anymore. I was worried I screwed up by having sex day 7 after embryo transfer and again a day after my positive HCG test. I appreciate your advice. You helped not worry so much. I’m hoping my 2nd hcg will be good 🙏🏻
Literally 2 days away from a fresh transfer... and this has been the most ... informative and inspiring video I have watched. I’ve read tons of articles and watches so many videos ... and in 14 min you have managed to calm all my fears anxieties!!!
@Abby Padilla, was it successful?!!
Hello! I honestly wish I could meet you in person and give you the world's biggest hug!!! Your words were so incredible and reassuring. This is exactly what I needed to see today!! In the middle of my 2ww - with no symptoms and just keep waking up feeling so defeated (especially when I did get pregnant with IUI I had symptoms immediately.) But I will choose to let it go until Saturday - test day!! THANK YOU!
Hello I just did my embryo implants eight days ago and I don’t have any symptoms well I have a little bit of sore breast and a little bit of aching cramping on my left side but I’m not sure if it’s my period because I’m supposed to start tomorrow and I’m getting really stressed about it did you ever have any symptoms and how many days did it take to get the symptoms??
Hope you got ur positive result and healthy baby
Thank you! I’m a very active person and I just had my transfer last Thursday. I was on bed rest that day and somewhat the next day. But after that I felt like I was going crazy just sleeping, reading and watching videos all day. By Saturday I went for a 2 mile walk and moved so much that I did 17k steps and Sunday I went golfing for two hours and by that night I felt like I must’ve over worked my body and it’s not going to work. I cried and told my husband I must’ve done something wrong. And then today I took a pregnancy test (even though I told myself I wouldn’t) and it was negative. I was heart broken but I know it’s only been 4 days. Your video has given me so much comfort! Thank you so so much
Great advice i just completed my transfer today - 2nd IVF cycle... praying for my rainbow
How did it go??
Hope it was a success
I SO needed to hear this. I’m a super active person and have been for a really long time. I lost my first transfer and was SURE it was because I did some
Moderate exercise. I just had my 2nd transfer and have been in my head about how not to F this one up. Hearing it really isn’t about me and it’s more about the embryo is JUST what I needed to hear ❤️
Im now on my first cycle of IVF and I have to say I sometimes find myself in my head just going through a numerous amount of scenarios. At times feeling like I got this and it’ll go smoothly and than other times feeling overwhelmed by the doctor visits, bloodwork and sonograms. I appreciate you doing this video, it’s very relevant now and you’re right, I come to the internet to seek information and support that I don’t want to force on others in my circle. I’m lucky I have my husband who is a nurse and is very patient and caring but this is a mental anguish on women. I want to be excited but not let my hopes give out if I get bad news. I’ll remain hope and I also hope everyone else that is going through an IVF procedures gets a chance to watch this video.
I watched so many videos truthfully but this is the best theurepatic video. It ic relaxing and calming so thanks..
I really like your advice, down to earth. Speak from experience as a patient and as a nurse. It has been 5 days after IUI and surprisingly feel very calm and I am not going to do home test, as you said nothing can change what ever is going to happen. Even before I found you, I act like it is going to happen, I know being positive helps for every thing. I took a couple of days off just to take it easy and I was having back pain. I am over 40 and I know the chance is low, but who knows... what God has for me. Thanks for your honest advice.....
Transfering tomorrow, please pray for me. Good luck to all the mom to be out there.
Just had embryo transfer yesterday! This was great to hear thank you ❤
AriFerrari how is everything?
Love this. I'm due to have embryo transfer in 5 weeks time. I will do my best to relax and let whatever will be, be. 🤞
My wife and I are currently going through IVF. Her embryo transfer is on Tuesday and this video helped us to release a ton of stress that might turn into major arguments.
Thank you for your time and kindness to post videos like this one.
Thank you for sharing the information. I'm in the 2ww now. My doctors said just do the normal activities but don't get too tired. Just keep on praying that this will work and keep on the positive mind. Let God do his job
Praying?
Debby Lastriani Your last sentence here has settled it for me. ‘ Let God do His job’ Amen! No more looking for vids. That’s the word I needed today. God bless.
Feeling better after watching you talk. You are like a parent giving me these comforting words. I love your practicality advice. I realised not to be too hard on myself because it is beyond our control. Thank you. God bless you. This is a gem!
Thank God I found you! You said everything I needed to hear and more! Made me laugh and overall took a weight off my shoulders. I had my day 3 transfer this past Monday Jan 12th, this is our 2nd IVF attempt. I am remaining as positive as possible yet realize there is absolutely nothing more I can or cannot do to make this successful. Thank you again for posting, you've helped a lot!
Roxanne Bishop how was yr cycle?
Just wanted to say thank you... i had a failed IUI just a few days ago.. and what you said is helping me, not just for the next IUI or IVF, but in general. Noone seems to understand the turmoil of the two week wait.
We're very happy to find the Sher NYC office. I'm in bed relaxing after my embryo transfer today with Dr. Cary Dicken..... Best Dr ever.
Thanks so much for your words. I am on day 6 after my ivf transfer and going nuts overthinking what can I do to increase chances of pregnancy, but you are completely right, is so much what we can do. Trying to relax is the best I can do right now
Thank you for sharing the information. i am going through ivf and kept thinking about how to increase my chances of embryos sticking. I'm in the 2ww now. My doctors said just do the normal activities but don't get too tired. Just keep on praying that this will work and keep on the positive mind. Let God do his job
Thank you so much for this video. I’m a surrogate and the first transfer didn’t stick. I was told to be on bed rest for 2 days, and you’re right! It does cause a fear that you might do something wrong. Thank you for the reassurance that I don’t have control either way.
This is so relevant in my life. Thank you for your videos. They are impacting women even 4 years later
Had my transfer yesterday! This was very realistic advice it’s in God’s hands woman stay pregnant doing all the “don’ts” and woman stay pregnant as a worry wart. Just stay positive and healthy
Thank you for sharing the information. I'm in the 2 weeks wait now. I couldn't conceive because of thyroid problem. My doctor suggested me to go for IVF. I chose frozen embryo process as it has a really high success rate. I had a wonderful experience! I'm so happy about it!!
OMG. I love this nurse! Just came back from my ET. Found myself getting caught up in people advising total bed rest, special diets, alternative medicine etc etc, all of which make you more stressed if you haven't done them. Thank you for a reality check. Great words. xx
I wish getting rid of the stress was easy. It is so far from easy when you are in the stages of infertility. To know that the stress could hurt our chances and knowing I cant really turn that part of myself off is impossibly hard and feeds the cycle.
Best advice ever... Stress free thats the key.
Worth watching. Thank u
I agree
I love this video, your statements express my sentiments exactly and this is by far he most helpful information that a woman going through IVF, IUI etc. can receive.
You're video is so refreshing!! I just had my embryo transfer yesterday and am worried sick and driving my husband nuts!
Thank you nurse Linda! 🙏🏻
Are you pregnant?
@@surprisenhien no unfortunately 💔
Fast saying,
Just be POSSITIVE...!
You know and you can feel what are the things you are capable to do after you have IVF transfer.
So helpful words from you dear.
Thank you so much for this, the wife and I just did our transfer 2 days ago and as soon as we got home we agreed on everything you just said! Thank you for the reassurance. They wanna test us 7 days after 😬 hope this is it!
It was nice reading your comment, any news?
I got horrible news during my only IVF cycle too and I just wish I had a money tree in my living room to do it until it works. I'm in the 2ww after using The Stork OTC. Praying that implantation is successful.
Needed this so much! I’m so far on day 6 transfer with almost no symptoms. I think I’m starting to feel a little now. The longest wait ever. God bless you and thank you again
Thank you! I just had my embryo retrieval yesterday and now I'm thinking about the next steps. Thank you for the reassuring information.
Even seven years later this is so reassuring and eases my worry. Thank you for your encouragement and candor. Love you for this!!
I needed to hear this as I’m preparing for my FET soon. Thank you thank you thank you! 😍 You’re an angel!
failed cycle from not resting as well, but 2 good cycles from resting as much as possible horizontally 48 hours. I ate pineapple core and kept my stres extremely low. It isn't the same as natural conception. I feel like the rest lowers your stress after the shots and stress of the cycle, so I'd do it if possible. acupuncture was awesome too.
Aleasa Green, I thought we're not to consume pineapple when potentially pregnant?
Ali Green I rest too. 3 out of 4 successes. The fourth I did not rest as much and unsuccessful. Who knows. But I'm in my mid forties it's different than 20 and 30 year olds who walk around like nothing happened.
Lying lower stress, so I guess anything that lowers stress is a must do.
Am going for transfer day after tomorrow, am intending on resting.
@@smangeledlamini58 good luck to you! Acupuncture really helped me. Worth every penny and I have 2 girls now. I followed a strict baby friendly diet of natural foods, black beans, natural fats, etc. There's a book called The Fertility Diet I used.
@@turkeeegal thank you very much
Thank you. They are great advices. I’m trying to let go and relax through the 2 weeks wait. Just had transfer today. Keep my fingers crossed.
I just had a 3day frozen transfer yesterday so it's a little comforting to hear this. thank you.
how was your transfer?
How was yr transfer ?
Awesome advice. I have had a transfer today and I feel a lot calmer after watching this. Thanks heaps.
Did our embryo transfer yesterday and this video was so helpful!!! Thank you!!!
The Upside good luck!
Thank you! Unfortunately it didn't stick, but we're not giving up hope!
@@francoisandjackievlogs5949 I'm so sorry to hear that! But glad you're trying again. I just did my embryo transfer yesterday 🙏🏻❤
@jo here No unfortunately I started to bleed 1 week after my embryo transfer 😭 It failed. To make matters worse, my only baby girl (chihuahua) past away last month. She supported me through everything and now she's gone. 😭😭💔
@jo here thank you 💕
Thank you very much! My transfer is scheduled for next month, and I’m a worrier. Making sure I’m doing everything correctly. I’m trying to decompress, and not stress, but it’s definitely challenging. Thanks again for the video 😊
Ladies please stay positive and stand on God’s word. As it is written in Psalms 127:3 KJV - Lo, children are an heritage of the Lord: And the fruit of the womb is His reward. Deuteronomy 7:13 And He will love thee, and bless thee, and multiply thee; he will also bless the fruit of thy womb, and the fruit of thy land, thy corn and thy wine, and thine oil, the increase of thy kine and the flocks of thy sheep, in the land which he sware unto thy fathers to give thee.
Also check out Supernatural Birth by Jackie Mize. She shares her real life experiences on conceiving and childbirth. It is an encouraging book.
Stay away from negativity and rebuke fear cause fear is of the enemy. For God did not give us the spirit of fear, but of power, of love and of a sound mind - 2 Timothy 1:7. 💕
WineInMy Sparetime Amen 🙏🏽
Thank you
Thanks so much for I needed this today
WineInMy Sparetime This was so timely. Amen. God bless you. 🙏🏽
Amen
Thank you for this post. It's so true, if it's meant to be it will work. There is nothing I can do, just stay relaxed, eat and sleep well, be happy and count the blessings I have. :)
dear nurse you're so honest and at the same time so warm and protective when you talk. thank you for your advise I absolutely agree on everything you say.. what may be may be. and there is nothing we can do to alter that. xxx
Great honesty and perspective. Thank you. I am currently 2 days post a day 6 embryo transfer and although I was initially thinking I would wait for the beta, my mind was recently considering an at home pregnancy test in a week. Your advice helped me reconsider this as there is no point in putting my mind in a dark place if it is a false negative.
Perfect explanation for those who r going through ivf process. Thanks mam.. Today is 9thday of my transfer and tested at home but negetive so was feeling down.. But after listening u I have hope.. Thanks mam
Really the best video I’ve seen on this subject so far and I’ve watched thousands. Thank you.
Hey there. How are you doing? I hope its all good. Thanks a lot for the video. I hope everyone sees his. This will help a lot of people. I wish everyone out there gets whatever they want. Good luck and take care. Lots of love and support.
I loved the way you tell things. Thank you.
SO refreshing from all of the other "advice" out there! Thank you so much.
Thank you so much for the truth and being realistic. You are absolutely spot on. Stressing over things we can’t control. What’s meant to be through god will and timing will happen. 🙏❤️🙏
I did my 5day FET 8 days ago in RMANJ and they told me not to do bed rest. They even gave me a sheet with a picture of the uterus facing down when you are laying down and it being horizontal when you are standing up.Good luck ladies! You are not sick, you are creating life!
I'm super late but I go to RMA NJ too. 👍🏽
Thank you so much I always find all your videos so encouraging, I just got my transfer 6 days ago and watching you has put my mind at rest thank you God bless you.
Hey, there. Thank you so much. This was a really nice video. My two weeks just began. I can confirm, it's horrible. It's so hard, my god. Keep up the good work.
Sher (that's your name right?), your advice is practical, assuring, guilt-removing and basically just awesome. Thank you!
She works with Dr.Geoff Sher, a wonderful doctor
This video is old, but it’s so helpful. Very straight to the point and exactly what I need to hear!
I appreciate this common sense reminder. Thank you so much!
Hey, there. Hope you're doing okay. This was a fantastic video. You answered them in a brilliant manner. I'm glad you're doing this. Keep up the lovely work. Thank you so much!
Thank you for this. It was like PULLING TEETH from my Dr this IVF round when I asked if I can at least walk a few days after my delayed FET. He sort of froze. It's like he was obligated to state "well we recommend that you don't do anything like that (WALKING????) until your Beta." and I said "really?" and he responded "well, it's more of a mental thing" ---- he was implying that I might feel awful if I did "SOMETHING" during the TWW and didn't get a positive result. My issue is THIS: Why aren't the nurses and Dr's saying what YOU ARE as standard protocol??? Particularly in my case I had a delayed FET, so I didn't have swollen Ovaries, no bleeding....I was perfectly fine before the transfer! It's garbage. Are specialists opening themselves up for liability exposures if they state the TRUTH which you so elegantly explained? It's either going to work, or it's not. I have my beta in two days and my fingers are crossed. But my realistic view of the situation has made my countless TWW's a little more tolerable. Thank You again for all that you do!!
Best video I have seen about restrictions and two week wait !! My transfer is in two days I will try and take this advice.
Thank you. I'm in my 2 week wait now after frozen 5 day transfer. Day 8. I feel like I'm pregnant half the time, feel like I'm not pregnant half the time. Going crazy....
I have done my embryos transfer on 5/11/20 have done Pt came out negative twice I know it’s too soon but I don’t want to give up hope once I done the beta it’s reality the results pray 4 me everything go’s well . I’m not young no more .
Thanks I really needed to "talk" to someone and listening to you helped. 9 days in on my 2ww and the cracks are beginning to show..lol..your words helped ground me. Thanks again.
Thank you thank you thank you, such sound advice. Guilt-free, mindful, science based and personal, you are a gem! So different to all the other websites where conflicting, unproven advice raises stress levels. My advice is to get a dog and love it like your child - it keeps your mind off things and helps you relax!
Your videos are the best. Thank you so much for being so positive and encouraging.
Thank you for your reassuring words. I wish I could cancel out all those videos I watch about symptoms in the 2 week wait
i am so grateful to this video. i am on day2 post transfer. you made me calmer.
You are a Godsent! Thanks for your wisdom and advice, this has helped my anxiety so much!
Thank you so much for making this video, I can't tell you how much it helps to hear what you just said, I don't have control over it and it's not my fault when the transfer doesn't work. I've saved this video so I can watch it back when I start thinking maybe it was something I did. Thank you 🙏 Xx
Thank you so much. I got 9 eggs out yesterday and I’m now waiting to hear about fertilisation and I’m researching what I can do as statistics say I’ll only get 1-3 viable blastocysts and I don’t want to waste them. But I realised that the worry is effecting me more. I think I’ll just go get a massage instead of panicking lol.
I did my egg retrieval and got 9 eggs a out as well. How many viable blastocyst did you end up with ?
@@LovelyAwesomePerson none in the end because the eggs were taken too early. :/ they say about 1/4 would make it to that stage usually xx good luck xxx
@@amberamber100 wow! Sorry to hear. You’re the second person that I know of whose had that in experience. The eggs should be taken when follicles are between 18-22mm at least 3 of them.. those are considered mature. Hopefully I get good news In 5 days .. sending love and light
I love how real she is, gold!
Thank you For this great vídeo! You gave me peace. I have my transfer Monday. ❤
I just want to say, i love ur videos and hope eu keep posting because its been a savior for me. Thank you again,lots of 💕
Thank you, I spoke about everything as if your were addressing my every concern, it’s nice to know I’m not going crazy
Thank you so much for that positive energy and advise you givin us 🌺
I am so glad I found this!
I needed this so badly!!! I am up for my first FET on August 16th....U just explained it so well!!!!...
Had mine last week.. All the best.
this was super helpful prior to my transfer. it took! but I had a chemical loss. I rested the 1st day and day #2 I went to the beach :) only lost because dr didnt have me on high enough estrogen
God bless you, these are one of the best words I have heard today
I'm so happy I found this video. Thank you so much for reassuring me.
Thank you for doing this video. Brilliant advice. I start my first IVF cycle next week.
Thank you so much for this great video!!! This really help me.im about to do my transfer this Wednesday.
Best ever talk I have heard about this topic❤❤❤
Thank you so much for this honest advice. I needed this so bad. I wish I could meet you.
Please pray for me.
This was very timely. Thank you for your time.