In traditional Chinese culture, it was believed that a man could return to his family after infidelity, but not a woman. This perspective contributed to the saying "Once a cheater, always a cheater," and led to the derogatory use of a term associated with a female dog to describe unfaithful women.
Seems like your marriage might survive. Everything about this story could easily be communication issues but it could also be the beginning of something nefarious. She danced inappropriately, kissed her first boyfriend on the lips while husband was in the bar, began a secret correspondence with him and agreed to a date after the ex made it plain what he wanted, then lied about dinner with girlfriends, while refusing to cancel for dinner with her husband then went ahead and met him making Barry an easy backup if her husband didn’t make dinner. After all that she got pissy with him and decided it would be a good idea to make him pay for spying on her bad behavior by making him relive the whole experience in the lead up to his birthday. How many stories on these sights show the same bad behavior before they cheat. First make sure the new baby is yours with a dna test after birth. Review all these behaviors and come to agreement on boundaries. No dances with other men unless hubby is near and approves. No kissing other men, do not go too lunch or dinner by yourself with other men. Track her location. Too many questionable decisions she needs monitoring at least for a year. Of course the boundaries include similar rules for hubby.
In traditional Chinese culture, it was believed that a man could return to his family after infidelity, but not a woman. This perspective contributed to the saying "Once a cheater, always a cheater," and led to the derogatory use of a term associated with a female dog to describe unfaithful women.
Beautiful, Love it.
WOW WHAT A STORY
Seems like your marriage might survive. Everything about this story could easily be communication issues but it could also be the beginning of something nefarious. She danced inappropriately, kissed her first boyfriend on the lips while husband was in the bar, began a secret correspondence with him and agreed to a date after the ex made it plain what he wanted, then lied about dinner with girlfriends, while refusing to cancel for dinner with her husband then went ahead and met him making Barry an easy backup if her husband didn’t make dinner. After all that she got pissy with him and decided it would be a good idea to make him pay for spying on her bad behavior by making him relive the whole experience in the lead up to his birthday. How many stories on these sights show the same bad behavior before they cheat. First make sure the new baby is yours with a dna test after birth. Review all these behaviors and come to agreement on boundaries. No dances with other men unless hubby is near and approves. No kissing other men, do not go too lunch or dinner by yourself with other men. Track her location. Too many questionable decisions she needs monitoring at least for a year. Of course the boundaries include similar rules for hubby.