I love this, thank you for speaking on a man who has good character and not completely overlooking him because he may not be fully enthralled in his Christian walk. I think it’s just more of a call on women to continue to seek God in this area of their lives rather than just trying to go out on dates that will more than likely lead to nothing. I appreciate this conversation, I hope everyone who needs to hear this and be open minded in Christ does ❤
This video blessed me.. I dread kingdom spouse videos, I literally seen you guys video last week and scrolled past it lol but here I am… I’m the woman who gave her life to Christ and been saving myself for marriage for 4 years now.. I always said I want my future man to be more saved than me lol I also can come across as “mean” and non approachable because I been hurt in the past , you guys made me realize that everyone is not perfect including me so thank you guys for this video ❤️
Thank you so much for this comment it lets us know that God truly helped us communicate this message that’s been on our heart! God bless you! Continue to work on the inner parts of you and you will have the marriage God wants for you.
I receive the point on continuing to seek God and develop the character of God in yourself and pray that your heart is in the right condition to see your spouse and be ready for what you’re asking for.. focus on your own spiritual maturity and pray for the man that you have not met yet 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
i’ve never heard anyone talk about how pride masked as “confidence” or “being a leader” can be attractive to women. This is a real thing and can be an issue
For sure which is why developing discernment is so important! Women and men have to get to the source of the confidence to understand if it is submitted to God.
I'm annoyed with the fact that the men I encounter are completely different from what I'm looking for in a partner. They no longer genuinely want to go out with you or get to know you. I constantly find someone who is more at ease texting me than actually meeting me and getting to know me, or I run into someone who portrays themselves in one manner and then attacks me emotionally and psychologically when they get close. I'm beginning to wonder what am I attracting.
This is the perfect time to read about what a wife is and be that. At its core, a wife is a virtuous woman. Focus more on learning about Jesus and on becoming a wife. Because in order for you to have more, you have to be more. Lastly, I would say that you should increase your expectations of God and work more on thinking about the outcomes you desire in dating. I know your past shows you that some men aren't good. Have faith and expect the next man you date to have good character and sound morals.
@I feel like my past has me in a chokehold. I fear rejection just because I was abandoned. I got used to disappointment. It started with my parents. I started seeing it in friendships. I experienced two relationships. I’m tired. I just want to be loved properly.
@@Sznofken we feel for your past what you’ve gone through wasn’t great at all. However, it has given you endurance and we can’t wait to hear your testimony. No one can love us as properly as God, so continue you to make Him the person where you get the most love from.
First time here. You all shared a lot of values here. I liked that you shared about be open to the package, meaning he may not have all the things and most likely, I probably won’t for him. I’m working on choosing my battles when it comes to having a conversation and with men as well. Knowing when to let it be or back out in a respectful way to a men. Do you already have content speaking to this subject?
For me, I think I wait too long to see if the potential will turn into something more productive. How long do you wait before you realize there is no potential here versus giving them grace for where they are in life.
To answer your question, no one can tell you how long to wait. However, continue to seek God and sincerely ask for wisdom and discernment with that situation. Make it apart of you daily devotion and prayer. I promise you’ll know the answer then.
I have a values checklist that I "grade" my prospects with...if they don't naturally have those top 5 values in their lifestyle, then there's no more grace for me to give, which is why all of my dates/conversations with them are about seeing more of their lifestyle...obviously this could take 2 weeks or 2 months to see (because I don't come at them like a drill sergeant), but either way I'm very observant of how they do everything. EVERRRRYTHING. Also, like the other commenter said, you can't want the thing more than they do. If all the initiative is from you, that's not a partnership. That's a mother/child dynamic.
I love this, thank you for speaking on a man who has good character and not completely overlooking him because he may not be fully enthralled in his Christian walk. I think it’s just more of a call on women to continue to seek God in this area of their lives rather than just trying to go out on dates that will more than likely lead to nothing. I appreciate this conversation, I hope everyone who needs to hear this and be open minded in Christ does ❤
Thank you so much for watching and for your perspective! Make sure you share with your friends or anyone who you think can benefit from this convo!
This video blessed me.. I dread kingdom spouse videos, I literally seen you guys video last week and scrolled past it lol but here I am… I’m the woman who gave her life to Christ and been saving myself for marriage for 4 years now.. I always said I want my future man to be more saved than me lol I also can come across as “mean” and non approachable because I been hurt in the past , you guys made me realize that everyone is not perfect including me so thank you guys for this video ❤️
Thank you so much for this comment it lets us know that God truly helped us communicate this message that’s been on our heart! God bless you! Continue to work on the inner parts of you and you will have the marriage God wants for you.
I receive the point on continuing to seek God and develop the character of God in yourself and pray that your heart is in the right condition to see your spouse and be ready for what you’re asking for.. focus on your own spiritual maturity and pray for the man that you have not met yet 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
That’s it sis 💙 only thing we can control and discipline is ourselves.
i’ve never heard anyone talk about how pride masked as “confidence” or “being a leader” can be attractive to women. This is a real thing and can be an issue
For sure which is why developing discernment is so important! Women and men have to get to the source of the confidence to understand if it is submitted to God.
I can't stop binging yall's videos keep up the great work and please post more!!!!
Thank you so much for watching! And we are fully committed to giving value every week 💙
I'm annoyed with the fact that the men I encounter are completely different from what I'm looking for in a partner. They no longer genuinely want to go out with you or get to know you. I constantly find someone who is more at ease texting me than actually meeting me and getting to know me, or I run into someone who portrays themselves in one manner and then attacks me emotionally and psychologically when they get close. I'm beginning to wonder what am I attracting.
This is the perfect time to read about what a wife is and be that. At its core, a wife is a virtuous woman. Focus more on learning about Jesus and on becoming a wife. Because in order for you to have more, you have to be more.
Lastly, I would say that you should increase your expectations of God and work more on thinking about the outcomes you desire in dating. I know your past shows you that some men aren't good. Have faith and expect the next man you date to have good character and sound morals.
@ Thank you so much🫶🏾
@I feel like my past has me in a chokehold. I fear rejection just because I was abandoned. I got used to disappointment. It started with my parents. I started seeing it in friendships. I experienced two relationships. I’m tired. I just want to be loved properly.
@@Sznofken we feel for your past what you’ve gone through wasn’t great at all. However, it has given you endurance and we can’t wait to hear your testimony.
No one can love us as properly as God, so continue you to make Him the person where you get the most love from.
This new camera is fire
Yes it is! 🙌🏾
What camera model is this?
I am taking everything to God in prayers
@@amablogreactions let’s go!! That’s a beautiful declaration 💙
It is Converse
Thank you 🙏🏾😂
First time here. You all shared a lot of values here. I liked that you shared about be open to the package, meaning he may not have all the things and most likely, I probably won’t for him. I’m working on choosing my battles when it comes to having a conversation and with men as well. Knowing when to let it be or back out in a respectful way to a men. Do you already have content speaking to this subject?
Thank you so much for watching! Check out 4,7,& 8
It’s “converse” 😊
Thank you!! 😅
@ you’re welcome. 🙏🏾
Hi! New subscriber here 😊 I love y’all’s content! What video did you talk about your list in?
Hello! Thank you for subscribing!! 💙 and its Episode 18
For me, I think I wait too long to see if the potential will turn into something more productive. How long do you wait before you realize there is no potential here versus giving them grace for where they are in life.
To answer your question, no one can tell you how long to wait. However, continue to seek God and sincerely ask for wisdom and discernment with that situation. Make it apart of you daily devotion and prayer. I promise you’ll know the answer then.
If the potential comes with them moving in action towards their goals then that’s something to give grace to and be patient with.
I have a values checklist that I "grade" my prospects with...if they don't naturally have those top 5 values in their lifestyle, then there's no more grace for me to give, which is why all of my dates/conversations with them are about seeing more of their lifestyle...obviously this could take 2 weeks or 2 months to see (because I don't come at them like a drill sergeant), but either way I'm very observant of how they do everything. EVERRRRYTHING. Also, like the other commenter said, you can't want the thing more than they do. If all the initiative is from you, that's not a partnership. That's a mother/child dynamic.
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