@@sorgii I think it's just a automatic reaction when you see or realize that someone wants to commit suicide. For a person, it's really hard to get out of that depression if you fell so deep and I think the human just recognizes when that happens to somebody and he reacts automatically.
I think hearing “I expect to hear from you in the morning” from an idol you think doesn’t know anything about you is possibly the greatest deterrent to suicide I can think of
@@keepitsecret-dl1pr now you see you could have just kept that to yourself and nothing would change but your hating ass just had to share your opinion and now you're going to hell
he might be just doing it out of genuine empathy, but actually he did waay more than just helping that individual. His positivity shines the entire humanity
I have to be honest. I used to think Lupo was kind of a douche. I made a premature assumption of him. But the more I watched his streams, especially when I came across this, I realized what a fantastic human being he really is. He always supports mental health. I suffer from depression and have been in this position before, and appreciate this and respect him immensely now. Love you Lupo.
I tend to have a good detector about people and I'm happy to say that Lupo seems to be exactly what I thought he was from the choice streams I've seen of his and on Doc's channel. He's a real human being; being a thinking and discerning original person who doesn't mold themselves to their peers and agenda driven culture is becoming a rare trait.
Hey bro, I know this comment was about Lupo and all, but I hope you are doing ok. It's been 2 months since you wrote this, but I hope your depression isn't overpowering you
We've been there before. But i think this serves as a good lesson to not judge people solely by assumptions, sometimes it takes giving them a chance to realize their potential. I hope you're doing ok!
You saved this persons life for sure And you confirmed their existence even the next day on stream Words like these from people you look up to can change your life
Every single soul on this earth matters. There are some nasty natured individuals but every life, every soul matters. And i care.. I care about every single soul. I understand how dark life can feel, trust me when i say i do... Alot of people say that, and i think in many ways its true, but not everyone quite gets it. But if u ever feel like that again... Come to this comment, I'll give u my details and we will talk. U matter
@@mkb6353 aww thank you so much, that really means a lot to me. I will for sure go back here and talk if I needed to, it's nice that you a stranger from the internet care more than the people who surrounds me daily, I really appreciate you so much.
I have been going through things, but u feel like no better what anyone says, such as “you are needed in the world”. I just feel like to me, it doesn’t help me,
In high school, I lost my best friend to suicide. Not a day has gone by over the past 5 years where I haven’t missed him. Seeing him. Doing things together. Playing video games. Hunting. Everything. Suicide is never an answer. It causes more damage than you can ever imagine. Someone somewhere will always love you. You are never alone in life, even if you believe you are. Everyone matters in some way to someone
As someone whose survived attempts, this brings a tear to my eye... Because people can and will take the time to speak to you, to make you feel cared for, to make you feel happy
i respect this guy straight up as someone who has been close to suicide myself i rate lupos courage and kind words wen i heard this on stream i cried BIG UP DR. LUPO
As someone who’s friend keeps trying to commit suicide, this make me ball my eyes out… Remember this: -you are worth it -We love you -If you are thinking about suicide, talk to someone. -Suicide is not the solution, it hurts your loved ones and the people around you. -If you die we will miss you -Even if I don’t know the people reading this, You are a humain being, you deserve to live like any other! I love you.
"Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem, that problem might seem like it'll be permanent and it may be difficult to change that perspective, but it is possible. Any little victory of the day is a victory, cleaning your room or even just getting out of bed to take a shower, when things are dark don't expect to know the path you're taking just take the best step you can to take the right path. Eventually, right path or wrong path, there will be light to help you see a new perspective. You'll see little things you can be happy for, or even just grateful for - you may even not want to be happy, rather just content. As difficult as it is, the rewards of overcoming that are equally worth the effort." I've attempted a lot, I learned a lot, and I can say I have moments I am happy. I'll say "you" just to make things a little easier for me here - not lecturing, just a comment on my experience with mental illness. I still have mental issues like bi-polar depression and some a couple other issues, the quote above my therapist told me. It helped me to think of that instead of suicide, then later on replacing that with more positive thoughts. I no longer have to go to therapy, I have a psychiatrist - it may be beneficial to consider some medicines especially if they're intrusive thoughts, my medicine targets specifically that which by itself is a huge relief and helps my focus on continuing to get better. You have your days still, but they're easier to deal with and they pass, plus if you get into a strong enough habit of thinking differently you may not even need the medicine. I needed mine simply for mania, hell I might even just have a ridiculous amount of energy even I don't know because ya boy be on the go no matter what Anyways, you both got this. Stay strong.
I tried talking to the one i love the most and she said she doesnt care and to fuck off .. sometimes its not that easy when you have nobody and dont wanna talk to random professionals.
no you dont love, u wont miss. you dont even know me. to me you are just a stranger on the internet, to you im just a suicidal stranger. we are not same. you probably love your life, enjoy it, could be sad but mostly happy. but im not like you. you are just trying to be a superhero who thinks can save everyone but thats not how that works. "Suicide is not the solution, it hurts your loved ones and the people around you" thats also bullshit. if you care somebody yeah thats true but most of suicidal person dont care cuz never loved by anyone like me. neither family, nor friends nor a gf or smth whatever you call. like my parents never loved me but only thing they said is: "why did i get pregnant for you", "why you...". never had friends who cares me. never had a gf who makes me love someone, makes life easier for me. for a person who never had these, can you say it hurts your loved ones? even if you say, you thinks that helps? simple answer: no. nobody loves, nobody cares and no one except you knows whats going on with you, with country... for a basic example you probably live in great country but for me i live in Turkey. thats not how things works here. you guys can have everything you have probably and make yourselves happy but to me you cant afford whatever you want and that doesnt help you. as a human, we all came to this world to be a worker. and thats just one option to suicide. there are more like i said before: never loved, havent got friends... you cant help or stop the suicidal person. even i cant stop myself. if thats gonna happen, theres nothing to do with that. sorry but thats the realistic one. stop thinking or playing as role of hero or humanist. we all came here for nothing and not by asked. we are just subjects like rats. nobody even greets someone. we became strangers and what happens on here is just jokes going around called memes. if someone died it become a meme, if someone sad it become a meme. we forgot who we are. and thats one of the point why everyone keeps thinking "where did i go wrong?", "if i do something wrong, they laugh at me?" and social anxiety. and by that people asocial. and by being an asocial you realize yourself and you hate every part of your body every movement what you done/do, everything you done/do will make no sense and you will hate yourself so you are going to end up your life. its that easy. but like you said you are worth it, we love you, if you die we will miss you... these are just lies to someone that you never met and probably never going to. probably you didnt even read this far. if you did thx but thats normal cuz people who dont care or could bore too easily, skip these messages but when someones about to suicide they say i love you dont. you probably never going to see me again (maybe suicide, maybe social anxiety...) but you (who reads this) got the point what i meant. I live for 19.5 years and never loved by someone, mostly hated person and since 4 years never became happy. but yeah. i understand you all too. living and being happy is also your right except me...
This brings emotion to me because two of my friends wanted to hurt or was suicidal and I was there to help them. They told me that I was a good therapist but I’m only just a child
Drlupo isnt really my cup of tea, but this has earned him so much respect from me. We need more people like this in the world who will care for others, even if they dont know who they are.
the worst part about the attempts is, when you do them wrong, eventually they put you in rehab. 5 attempts and I had a year in a rehab centre practically comatose on pills. The only thing my mother said when they found my mangled body from a RTA was "lemme know when IT dies." I drove at 60MPH into a solid wall, no seatbelt on, and was thrown through the windscreen, my skull hit the pillar and I popped my arm out. Died on route to hospital and was revived twice. I had short term amnesia and was actually alot happier and wasnt suicidal. Like I knew my name, that this is Earth and such, but I didnt know why I was in a crash, or where I worked, i didnt recognise the picture of my then partner in my wallet. Took a few months for my memory to return, by which point they put me in a mental institute because it was apparent I was a danger to myself. Mother never visited me in the centre, when i was released, i had to get my own taxi. When I got home, reaction was just "oh....your back. Pft, whatever." Im still suicidal, but as i told the therapist, unless its a 100% full proof way, I aint doing it. I dont wanna be comatose for life in a padded room. I go to sleep crying every night hoping I'll die, and cry when I wake up praying "maybe i'll get lucky and someone will hit me with their van, or I'll be stabbed in the back or shot. Maybe today is the day i get to finally die."
@@wondertriplover maybe, bro. But still, we can’t just assume that’s what it is. There’s so much gravity to a situation like this to just dismiss it. Sure, maybe it is attention seeking, that means there is a mental issue though. Someone who actively uses self harm as means to get attention wether physical or just verbal for attention seeking like you say, that person needs love. Something isn’t right for them to feel like they have to use something so grave and disturbing for attention. So they need help. Maybe they’re annoying, childish, whatever. Spread love regardless. I’d rather someone troll me, or seek my attention by lying about it than for me to just dismiss it outright and then find out later that they went and did something horrible to themselves. Anyone remember Etika?
One of the best things I ever heard when I was in that dark place, and depression had completely taken over, was this question. "Do you really want to die, or do you just not want to feel like this anymore?" That question changed my life.
I’m so thankful I came across your comment that question resonated with me so much I don’t want to die but it feels like it’s the only way to not feel this pain anymore I just want it to stop
@@kayla-the-rus-female-tbk-killr talk to someone please. A therapist, anyone. Trust me, if you get help, things get better. It takes time. but eventually, things will get better. idk if you are religious, but talk to God, put all your worries on him. He will help you find peace.
I feel like a lot of people would have seen that donation and just gone to bed and hoped it was a joke. Thank you for doing the right thing. No body is alone. Promise. Reach out to someone.
I lost my grandfather when I was just 3 years old.. when I found out he was dead at 5 years old I said, “he’ll come back right??” Then I started bursting into tears finding out he won’t.
As a suicidal person I can understand why you'd want to reach out like that to someone like a streamer that you watch and love, I feel like that acknowledgment and them caring can actually be enough to save someone's life. On the other foot though It isnt really fair putting all of that pressure on a streamer either. Imo you don't have the rights to take your own life if you haven't attempted to reach out and get help first.. Use the rule of "If I'm so willing to end my own life I at least owe it to myself to try getting help, If I'm going to die anyway then there is no reason to not try first"
The guy did reach out by making that donation. At least it's better than committing suicide alone without talking to anybody about it beforehand because it makes people uncomfortable and talking about it is not ok
...The second part, isn't how it works for a good portion of people. I get what you're trying to say. But, for some people the darkness can take you to some pretty nasty places. And also, I personally at least, don't think the pressure, is not worth trying to save a life. And that that is, quite the audacious, and slightly apathy ridden, statement. Because in factuality, these aren't 2 things of exact equal value. Lots of people have personal struggles, and people they know in their lives, and loved ones, who may go through similar things, or other kinds of struggle, pain, and just hard things. I wouldn't say its something far enough from relevance to people to be a blue moon rarity. We are all just in a way, doing our best to support each other. And lift each other up, in any ways that we can. Help isn't, like, a validation bomb, or a simple thing. Like come on, it goes deeper than, what, getting called by a famous streamer? Take it from stalkers, they seek their idolised person for the same thing, and after repeatedly desiring and searching for more and more of them, it doesn't help them, it just feeds them with a drug that they seek more of over and over and over again.
I’m sobbing so hard right now. Not many people would take that extra time, to check in, to care. As someone who’s attempted 3 separate times…I wish….I WISH I had someone like this streamer care this much back then. Fuck, I’m still crying.
I mean the obvious answer is to seek support from people who actually know you and can be with you, but I understand not everyone has people they feel like they can open up to in their personal life. It still creates and unbelievable and frankly kind of inappropriate amount of pressure on a stranger to do this…
I would be absolutely lost what to do in this situation. He handled that the best way possibly imaginable, and this man is a genuine hero for that. So much respect👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Sometimes all they need is a listening ear, or some act of genuine love and kindness. Just think about what Jesus would do for that person, and then do likewise ❤
@@the.seagull.35 no i had a weird glitch that I had a different comment section instead of the right one. And i thought huh what are you guys seeing in thos 20 second video. It does that often when i am screen casting to tv
This is why he will always be one of my favorite streamers. I respect him so much. A lot of people would disregard it or not pay it much mind, but he GENUINELY cares. You don’t see that every day
I lost a very good friend to suicide who I met in a program we graduated from, earned our diplomas in our 20s and took a trip to San Diego with the program to meet with others all over California who graduated from the same program. I'll never forget the memories. Rest in Peace Raymond Sanchez 🕊️ I miss you bro...
I expect to hear from you in the morning, this was so kind especially cause even he knew there was a possibility of being a troll, he tried to say whatever came to his mund in that moment to try to avoid that guy from ending all, I don't even know this streamer, but he is a good guy .
At 2:37 I just started crying a little. What he said about feeling like chat and DrLupo hated him now hit me so hard. I've felt that exact same feeling after having depressive episodes around close ones. It just hurts so much man.
I'm sorry you feel that way genuinely. You know its heartbreaking because its a vicious cycle. I don't like myself, so I isolate myself, so I feel lonely and like I'm not being there for my family, so I like myself even less... and on and on. The one constant through all of that, the one bright light that keeps shining for me no matter how I feel, is Jesus Christ. He really does love us and he never turns his back. He's always there to listen and he very often responds with mercy and kindness. He'll direct my attention to the exact right Scripture at the right moment. he does that for me all the time honestly. Its amazing. Especially knowing how little I deserve it... knowing the price he paid on the cross to forgive me, a sinner with such little faith. Jesus loves you the same way, too.
@@the.seagull.35will he give you the exact girlfriend you want when you ask for it? No? Didn’t think so. Heck, he won’t even give you any girlfriend at all.
he handled this so fckn well huge respect to Lupo for handling this tough situation, and I hope the guys doing okay and is feeling better. God bless anyone reading
its horrifying that he was placed in that situation i know exactly what it feels like, when the words you are saying are the deciding factor in wether or not somebody dies by their own hand and what to an extent feels like yours. he handled it so well and i hope he know how much of incredibly serious impact he had on somebodys entire life
I also know how it feels and while it is good and nice to help people, it creates an ungodly amount of pressure and even sometimes fear in the person who becomes the impromptu therapist.
Easy thing to do is ignore stuff like that in a chat. Might look bad on you. What my man did here was a risk for the betterment of a suicidal person because of the proper understanding that their life is far more valuable then even his reputation. I hope his actions are rewarded.
so heavy to watch but so beautiful - Lupo, been watching you with the Doc and always enjoyed the collabs but this shows me what kind of person you are. Doing great things, brother.
@@Ccubed92 sadly I thought this too tbh you cannot treat an Internet personality as a therapist. These parasocial relationships are getting a bit out of hand if you feel a man you don’t know and have never met is the only one in your life who truly “gets you” and can “save you”. People like that need connections in the real world not just online because what if the streamer is not online and this guy starts feeling slip n slidal again?
Army Vet here.. true words man.. thank you for just being a decent human being. One of my solders watch you a lot and showed me this video after giving an ACE speech. I don't know if you have any training for this situation that happened, but it just goes to show how just giving a crap matters and how you don't need to be a professor or have some degree of influence to just care about someone regardless of your personal gain. Those simple words you said carry tons of weight. I know being an influencer and having people look at you for help can be very tough and sometimes doesn't feel fair for you to have such a burden but that's just life if I can be so harsh to say. You made a decision as a human being and that's all you can do. Truley much love man.
Top respect for Lupo for going out of his way to ensure this one person, even if they were trolling, was safe. He acknowledged his existence and that's honestly all that most people ask for. To know that someone cares about you. We just need reminding every so often.
Depression is overwhelming. Sometimes people get too far gone and talking no longer becomes an option. Struggled with depression my whole life and was a very heavy drug addict for 12+ years. Survived....somehow and am better for it. It made me who I am today and I live regret free. For all of those who suffer never give up.
There are tons of trolls out there that would say things to prompt a reaction.. but Lupo takes it all seriously and willing to stop the stream to try and talk to the person. Respect.
Props to this drlupo for actually helping. So many would have just said a small talking piece at the best. One of the only heartwarming things I've seen
The fact that this persons name is only one letter off from mine and the pronunciation is the same... this fully convinced me not to end it all. Life's been tough, and I'm happy for this very lucky coincidence
There are 132 suicides per day...that doesn't include the ones who attempt...Ladies and gentlemen, you see someone who's feeling down or depressed, take 1 minute or more out of your day, and talk to them. That eye contact could possibly be enough to keep them in this world. Be kind to one another
Ill be honest, i dont know this guy and I'll probably never watch his videos but Dr. Lupo, you are an amazing person for saving that persons life. We need more people like him.
This video is so old, yet the topic is still so common. Guys, I and millions of others on this planet have tried things like that. Some succeeded in what they were trying, but for those who've survived, remember, it may never feel like it at times, but you ARE loved and cared about. Remember what Lupo said, you aren't alone, suicide is one of the most common killers on the planet, and I guarantee almost everybody has thought of it. There are so many things you can do instead, I was severely depressed and have hurt myself many times, yet I'm still alive and well, I found joy in what I love even after the burn out prior, if you can't enjoy what you used to, try something new! If that doesn't work, try something newer! But please, don't ever take your own life, there is so much to life you have yet to experience, don't let depression get the last laugh, kick it's ass and look back at these times with relief!
I don’t follow Dr Lupo but I am glad TH-cam recommended this to me because I was on the brink of ending it all as well… I’ll be following Dr Lupo from now on because he indirectly saved my life through his words… thank you for making us feel that we’re not alone.
The way he handled this is a masterclass I woulda just panicked and shut down the stream and not know what to so and prolly think about that for the rest of the day or week
I just found this video in my recommended and, although I don't have hugely positive opinions on how the person sending the message acted, the streamer's response is genuinely incredibly powerful and is fairly indicative of someone who cares a lot. Kudos to him.
I was suicidal during covid lockdown. I felt lonely and imprisoned in my own home, and on 21/07/2021, at 18 years old, I jumped off a bridge in an attempt to end my life. I instantly regretted my choice as I fell. I shattered my pelvis and the left side of my skull and have many more life long injuries. I was in a coma for 6 months. Since then, I've had surgery 8 times, and im not done yet. The doctor said I will be paralized from my waist down for the rest of my life. Don't make the same mistake I did. Get help, you're not alone.
Wow... I'm really sorry that happened. And this may sound insane, but it may actually turn out to be a blessing for you. Even through all these sufferings you've been through. God's given you a platform to touch many people's lives. You could go and talk to people and share your story. Just by your example alone God can use you as his instrument to save _many_ people's lives. There's actually no telling how much he could do. You'd be doing the Lord's work, helping to save depressed and suicidal people from death. Its just worth thinking about. "You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you so that you might go and bear fruit-fruit that will last-and so that whatever you ask in my name the Father will give you." John 15:16 🙏
@@shyguy85 have you ever seen a person who turned their suffering into a platform to inspire millions of people? Would you call them cursed? That would be way more disrespectful than blessing them for their work
@@the.seagull.35 you're calling him being paraplegic a blessing. Absolutely disrespectful. I understand it wasn't intended to be rude but that's what I see it as.
@@shyguy85 Idk- that wasn't what I intended at all. I meant it as a comfort, for OP to see that there's still a lot of hope, a lot of greater good that can come out of this ordeal. But if OP thinks I was being disrespectful I will delete it for sure.
Drlupo handled this so fucking well. I would have no idea what to do in his situation
Same. I highly respect people that find the right words on hard situations
His it a dr
@@GAMERGUY2686 what..
What an example right here!
@@sorgii I think it's just a automatic reaction when you see or realize that someone wants to commit suicide. For a person, it's really hard to get out of that depression if you fell so deep and I think the human just recognizes when that happens to somebody and he reacts automatically.
I think hearing “I expect to hear from you in the morning” from an idol you think doesn’t know anything about you is possibly the greatest deterrent to suicide I can think of
If someone had said that to me, I would've felt it as a challenge.
@@YourIQDoesntMeanShitToMe😂
@@YourIQDoesntMeanShitToMe the name is certainly accurate
touching, but it makes me laugh how anyone can think of a twitch streamer as an idol... they're all losers
@@keepitsecret-dl1pr now you see you could have just kept that to yourself and nothing would change but your hating ass just had to share your opinion and now you're going to hell
he might be just doing it out of genuine empathy, but actually he did waay more than just helping that individual. His positivity shines the entire humanity
I mean, no one wants that responsibility on them anyway.
It’s was fake
@@CrazyBoy-gd4wz how would you know
@@Rahn-ft6qo source: Trust me bro
@@manny101x LOL
I have to be honest. I used to think Lupo was kind of a douche. I made a premature assumption of him. But the more I watched his streams, especially when I came across this, I realized what a fantastic human being he really is. He always supports mental health. I suffer from depression and have been in this position before, and appreciate this and respect him immensely now. Love you Lupo.
I tend to have a good detector about people and I'm happy to say that Lupo seems to be exactly what I thought he was from the choice streams I've seen of his and on Doc's channel. He's a real human being; being a thinking and discerning original person who doesn't mold themselves to their peers and agenda driven culture is becoming a rare trait.
Hey bro, I know this comment was about Lupo and all, but I hope you are doing ok. It's been 2 months since you wrote this, but I hope your depression isn't overpowering you
@@haydenplayz9557 Doing well man. Thank you, I really appreciate that.
We've been there before. But i think this serves as a good lesson to not judge people solely by assumptions, sometimes it takes giving them a chance to realize their potential. I hope you're doing ok!
@@Noobnormality It definitely was a lesson learned. Thanks man, appreciate it!
I just had to see if Davy came back and I'm glad he did. Thanks Davy you are the greatest and thanks Dr.Lupo. Thanks for helping another person.
It always gets better. Always. Stay strong bro
@@waelrachid219 That's bullshit.
@@TH-camIsRetarded689 no its not
@@A7X062388 Yes it is, you can't prove it's not.
@@TH-camIsRetarded689 you have no life that's for sure
You saved this persons life for sure
And you confirmed their existence even the next day on stream
Words like these from people you look up to can change your life
🙏🙏🙏
@@federalagent7334 boii ur sad😕 don't no one care bout ya huh?
@@federalagent7334 how can you say this? I mean, it's just complete idiocy
@@federalagent7334 imagine unironically using the word cringe
@@federalagent7334 imagine not replying to the people calling you out
This literally made me cry, as someone who's been struggling for some time now. It really encourage me to see that some people do care.
Every single soul on this earth matters. There are some nasty natured individuals but every life, every soul matters. And i care.. I care about every single soul. I understand how dark life can feel, trust me when i say i do... Alot of people say that, and i think in many ways its true, but not everyone quite gets it. But if u ever feel like that again... Come to this comment, I'll give u my details and we will talk. U matter
@@mkb6353 aww thank you so much, that really means a lot to me. I will for sure go back here and talk if I needed to, it's nice that you a stranger from the internet care more than the people who surrounds me daily, I really appreciate you so much.
I have been going through things, but u feel like no better what anyone says, such as “you are needed in the world”. I just feel like to me, it doesn’t help me,
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In high school, I lost my best friend to suicide. Not a day has gone by over the past 5 years where I haven’t missed him. Seeing him. Doing things together. Playing video games. Hunting. Everything. Suicide is never an answer. It causes more damage than you can ever imagine. Someone somewhere will always love you. You are never alone in life, even if you believe you are. Everyone matters in some way to someone
I’m so sorry for your loss I also have lost a friend.
what if nobody loves you, who will miss you then?
@@iGoldenBen get a skill. Make something out of yourself
@@iGoldenBen Dont do it bro dont persue the same mistake i did
I lost my mother to it
As someone whose survived attempts, this brings a tear to my eye... Because people can and will take the time to speak to you, to make you feel cared for, to make you feel happy
did you actually try it..?
@@dafyddaz4859 why would you even ask that.. he just said that he has survived attempts.
@@dafyddaz4859 depends on the environment you’re in IG
@@dafyddaz4859 trust Jesus plan much love
I love you bro...i hope you're doing amazing brother❤
i respect this guy straight up as someone who has been close to suicide myself i rate lupos courage and kind words wen i heard this on stream i cried BIG UP DR. LUPO
hope ur alr mate ❤️
hope ur good bro.
What got you through
Honestly I feel like most dudes have considered it, we stand together. Stay strong!
Lol
As someone who’s friend keeps trying to commit suicide, this make me ball my eyes out…
Remember this:
-you are worth it
-We love you
-If you are thinking about suicide, talk to someone.
-Suicide is not the solution, it hurts your loved ones and the people around you.
-If you die we will miss you
-Even if I don’t know the people reading this, You are a humain being, you deserve to live like any other! I love you.
"Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem, that problem might seem like it'll be permanent and it may be difficult to change that perspective, but it is possible. Any little victory of the day is a victory, cleaning your room or even just getting out of bed to take a shower, when things are dark don't expect to know the path you're taking just take the best step you can to take the right path. Eventually, right path or wrong path, there will be light to help you see a new perspective. You'll see little things you can be happy for, or even just grateful for - you may even not want to be happy, rather just content. As difficult as it is, the rewards of overcoming that are equally worth the effort."
I've attempted a lot, I learned a lot, and I can say I have moments I am happy. I'll say "you" just to make things a little easier for me here - not lecturing, just a comment on my experience with mental illness. I still have mental issues like bi-polar depression and some a couple other issues, the quote above my therapist told me. It helped me to think of that instead of suicide, then later on replacing that with more positive thoughts. I no longer have to go to therapy, I have a psychiatrist - it may be beneficial to consider some medicines especially if they're intrusive thoughts, my medicine targets specifically that which by itself is a huge relief and helps my focus on continuing to get better. You have your days still, but they're easier to deal with and they pass, plus if you get into a strong enough habit of thinking differently you may not even need the medicine. I needed mine simply for mania, hell I might even just have a ridiculous amount of energy even I don't know because ya boy be on the go no matter what
Anyways, you both got this. Stay strong.
I tried talking to the one i love the most and she said she doesnt care and to fuck off .. sometimes its not that easy when you have nobody and dont wanna talk to random professionals.
@@maxlch5943 hope you’re okay
Hope your friend is ok and you too
no you dont love, u wont miss. you dont even know me. to me you are just a stranger on the internet, to you im just a suicidal stranger. we are not same. you probably love your life, enjoy it, could be sad but mostly happy. but im not like you. you are just trying to be a superhero who thinks can save everyone but thats not how that works. "Suicide is not the solution, it hurts your loved ones and the people around you" thats also bullshit. if you care somebody yeah thats true but most of suicidal person dont care cuz never loved by anyone like me. neither family, nor friends nor a gf or smth whatever you call. like my parents never loved me but only thing they said is: "why did i get pregnant for you", "why you...". never had friends who cares me. never had a gf who makes me love someone, makes life easier for me. for a person who never had these, can you say it hurts your loved ones? even if you say, you thinks that helps? simple answer: no. nobody loves, nobody cares and no one except you knows whats going on with you, with country... for a basic example you probably live in great country but for me i live in Turkey. thats not how things works here. you guys can have everything you have probably and make yourselves happy but to me you cant afford whatever you want and that doesnt help you. as a human, we all came to this world to be a worker. and thats just one option to suicide. there are more like i said before: never loved, havent got friends... you cant help or stop the suicidal person. even i cant stop myself. if thats gonna happen, theres nothing to do with that. sorry but thats the realistic one. stop thinking or playing as role of hero or humanist. we all came here for nothing and not by asked. we are just subjects like rats. nobody even greets someone. we became strangers and what happens on here is just jokes going around called memes. if someone died it become a meme, if someone sad it become a meme. we forgot who we are. and thats one of the point why everyone keeps thinking "where did i go wrong?", "if i do something wrong, they laugh at me?" and social anxiety. and by that people asocial. and by being an asocial you realize yourself and you hate every part of your body every movement what you done/do, everything you done/do will make no sense and you will hate yourself so you are going to end up your life. its that easy. but like you said you are worth it, we love you, if you die we will miss you... these are just lies to someone that you never met and probably never going to. probably you didnt even read this far. if you did thx but thats normal cuz people who dont care or could bore too easily, skip these messages but when someones about to suicide they say i love you dont. you probably never going to see me again (maybe suicide, maybe social anxiety...) but you (who reads this) got the point what i meant. I live for 19.5 years and never loved by someone, mostly hated person and since 4 years never became happy. but yeah. i understand you all too. living and being happy is also your right except me...
my brother hung himself in 2013, so from the bottom of my heart, thank you for doing anything you can to keep more people alive
Yea in 2016 my pop pops hung himself as well and I am so very thankful that there are people who actually try to save other peoples life.
I cant imagine how you felt... You are strong and i hope youre okay. May your brother rest in peace
I'm sorry man
Very very sorry man
RIP
Lupo is so wholesome and caring, there are the kinda people we need in the world 💜
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there are people like this in the world
@@sumaoncrack2251 ok clout
@@JeloOW rare ones
@@JordanWheeler1999 I don't believe that - Don't let the mainstream news lie to you; there is far more good in the world than bad.
This is why i watch him cuz he so so nice to others
Yesssirrr
This brings emotion to me because two of my friends wanted to hurt or was suicidal and I was there to help them. They told me that I was a good therapist but I’m only just a child
@@jair4187 Thank you for being who you are 🤍
Drlupo isnt really my cup of tea, but this has earned him so much respect from me. We need more people like this in the world who will care for others, even if they dont know who they are.
Hats off to Dr. Lupo for handling this touch situation as a professional & caring person!
Crowns down to him
As someone who’s tried it multiple times and lost someone to it… thank you.
You still there? I hope your doing better
We got this together, talk to someone. It really does help
I pray you are well. I never attempted suicide but I may have thought of it on some days. I wish you godsend and the best you can get
Bro i hope you're fine you deserve happiness
You still here bro? Please give us an update
As someone who’s considered suicide before, this made me cry.
hope youre doing ok bro and your family, stay strong 💪
the worst part about the attempts is, when you do them wrong, eventually they put you in rehab. 5 attempts and I had a year in a rehab centre practically comatose on pills. The only thing my mother said when they found my mangled body from a RTA was "lemme know when IT dies." I drove at 60MPH into a solid wall, no seatbelt on, and was thrown through the windscreen, my skull hit the pillar and I popped my arm out. Died on route to hospital and was revived twice. I had short term amnesia and was actually alot happier and wasnt suicidal. Like I knew my name, that this is Earth and such, but I didnt know why I was in a crash, or where I worked, i didnt recognise the picture of my then partner in my wallet. Took a few months for my memory to return, by which point they put me in a mental institute because it was apparent I was a danger to myself. Mother never visited me in the centre, when i was released, i had to get my own taxi. When I got home, reaction was just "oh....your back. Pft, whatever." Im still suicidal, but as i told the therapist, unless its a 100% full proof way, I aint doing it. I dont wanna be comatose for life in a padded room. I go to sleep crying every night hoping I'll die, and cry when I wake up praying "maybe i'll get lucky and someone will hit me with their van, or I'll be stabbed in the back or shot. Maybe today is the day i get to finally die."
hope you’re doing okay, idk you but i hope everything is getting better and just keep pushing through
🙏🏾
Never give up broski KEEP GOIINGG I BELIVE IN YOUU
As a person who is slowly losing one from suicide right now, I just want to thank you so much, really. ♥️
Hold him on tight bro, my Childhood bestfriend was always depressed, the day he looked "normal" Again, he runned infront of a truck
free nft
@@Ghostcraftful is he alive
You still here man?
@@sharpballer7751 nah he went through the truck
Dude saved someone's life, man. Big respect.
I'm bawling my eyes out. I've attempted a few times and these are words I needed to hear at that time.
It is good that you did not do it i hope you are doing fine
@@ContextExlusive I've come along way! Thank you for your kind words 😊.
Lil perogi i hope you doing fine my dude. There are People that love you never forget that!
@@Hema-mr3wx imagine being an asshole in the Internet
@@Hema-mr3wx imagine being so stupid that your cant is supposed to be can't , dumb fuck
I hope Davy is doing fine and safe
davy here, still rockin out wit my cock out
he wasn't gonna do it anyway, it's just attention seeking behaviour for sympathy.
@@wondertriplover bro delete this it’s disgusting
@@wondertriplover maybe, bro. But still, we can’t just assume that’s what it is. There’s so much gravity to a situation like this to just dismiss it. Sure, maybe it is attention seeking, that means there is a mental issue though. Someone who actively uses self harm as means to get attention wether physical or just verbal for attention seeking like you say, that person needs love. Something isn’t right for them to feel like they have to use something so grave and disturbing for attention. So they need help.
Maybe they’re annoying, childish, whatever. Spread love regardless. I’d rather someone troll me, or seek my attention by lying about it than for me to just dismiss it outright and then find out later that they went and did something horrible to themselves.
Anyone remember Etika?
@@wondertriplover Your parents will say the same thing about you when you're dead.
If only my friend Josh would have reached out. I miss you so much buddy.
😢 sorry for your loss.
im sorry to hear that..
o7 buddy…
o7
if only you reached out
One of the best things I ever heard when I was in that dark place, and depression had completely taken over, was this question. "Do you really want to die, or do you just not want to feel like this anymore?" That question changed my life.
I’m so thankful I came across your comment that question resonated with me so much I don’t want to die but it feels like it’s the only way to not feel this pain anymore I just want it to stop
@@kayla-the-rus-female-tbk-killr talk to someone please. A therapist, anyone. Trust me, if you get help, things get better. It takes time. but eventually, things will get better. idk if you are religious, but talk to God, put all your worries on him. He will help you find peace.
imagine if he never managed to see that
Would probably be blamed for inaction thanks to his fan’s trauma dump / donation
he might not have taken his life anyway.. people say all sorts of shit, whether they'll actually do it or not is another matter
2:33 I love how genuinely excited he is to see Davy there
I feel like a lot of people would have seen that donation and just gone to bed and hoped it was a joke. Thank you for doing the right thing. No body is alone. Promise. Reach out to someone.
I am so undeniably happy this dude is still here ❤️ thanks lupo, and thanks Davy wavy, you will never be along bro. ❤️
Alone*
@@bruzey7786 who?
@@rafe3028 hey..who is that guy on your profile picture?
@@sevay Mohammad Ali
@@terra3673 ok thats not muhammad ali
I lost my grandfather when I was just 3 years old.. when I found out he was dead at 5 years old I said, “he’ll come back right??” Then I started bursting into tears finding out he won’t.
oh my, i am so sorry, that happened with my dad and my brother, they died when i was four, yesterday it was my dad's birthday.
@@dekaah533 :( damn bro omg im so sorry for that as well, dude.
Funny
@@daswarzenschwein how the f is that funny?
@@SRGProductions how's it not
As a suicidal person I can understand why you'd want to reach out like that to someone like a streamer that you watch and love, I feel like that acknowledgment and them caring can actually be enough to save someone's life.
On the other foot though It isnt really fair putting all of that pressure on a streamer either. Imo you don't have the rights to take your own life if you haven't attempted to reach out and get help first.. Use the rule of "If I'm so willing to end my own life I at least owe it to myself to try getting help, If I'm going to die anyway then there is no reason to not try first"
The guy did reach out by making that donation. At least it's better than committing suicide alone without talking to anybody about it beforehand because it makes people uncomfortable and talking about it is not ok
It’s not that easy but I get what you mean to an extent
...The second part, isn't how it works for a good portion of people. I get what you're trying to say. But, for some people the darkness can take you to some pretty nasty places. And also, I personally at least, don't think the pressure, is not worth trying to save a life. And that that is, quite the audacious, and slightly apathy ridden, statement. Because in factuality, these aren't 2 things of exact equal value. Lots of people have personal struggles, and people they know in their lives, and loved ones, who may go through similar things, or other kinds of struggle, pain, and just hard things. I wouldn't say its something far enough from relevance to people to be a blue moon rarity. We are all just in a way, doing our best to support each other. And lift each other up, in any ways that we can.
Help isn't, like, a validation bomb, or a simple thing. Like come on, it goes deeper than, what, getting called by a famous streamer? Take it from stalkers, they seek their idolised person for the same thing, and after repeatedly desiring and searching for more and more of them, it doesn't help them, it just feeds them with a drug that they seek more of over and over and over again.
Guy literally reaches out
Moron: you don't have the right!!
@@dflaming1371 you're cancer.
I’m sobbing so hard right now. Not many people would take that extra time, to check in, to care. As someone who’s attempted 3 separate times…I wish….I WISH I had someone like this streamer care this much back then. Fuck, I’m still crying.
Hey . How are you holding up ?
I mean the obvious answer is to seek support from people who actually know you and can be with you, but I understand not everyone has people they feel like they can open up to in their personal life. It still creates and unbelievable and frankly kind of inappropriate amount of pressure on a stranger to do this…
Hey for what its worth. "Ominously baked art 1974" is an amazing screen name.
You're the hero, you saved a man trying to suicide. I almost cried
Cocaine
I cried. Dont even know why am i crying
for real
This is why we love DrLupo. You can see in his eyes he lost someone of suicide and that he doesn't want it to happen again. Mad love to him bro
I would be absolutely lost what to do in this situation. He handled that the best way possibly imaginable, and this man is a genuine hero for that. So much respect👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Sometimes all they need is a listening ear, or some act of genuine love and kindness. Just think about what Jesus would do for that person, and then do likewise ❤
I am so lost at to what i an searching for
@@Moreno6000 what do you think it is you're searching for?
@@the.seagull.35 no i had a weird glitch that I had a different comment section instead of the right one. And i thought huh what are you guys seeing in thos 20 second video. It does that often when i am screen casting to tv
@@Moreno6000 I gotcha, Your comment sounded like a very deep question 😂
This is why he will always be one of my favorite streamers. I respect him so much. A lot of people would disregard it or not pay it much mind, but he GENUINELY cares. You don’t see that every day
I remember watching this live on his stream
Same
@@elite_mackattack383 smd or ima end it
suicide isnt a joke fucktard. You’re unfunny.
@@xqhf who are you taking you lol?
@@user-gz2tm5rw1d you probably should with your shitty attitude
I lost a very good friend to suicide who I met in a program we graduated from, earned our diplomas in our 20s and took a trip to San Diego with the program to meet with others all over California who graduated from the same program. I'll never forget the memories. Rest in Peace Raymond Sanchez 🕊️ I miss you bro...
I expect to hear from you in the morning, this was so kind especially cause even he knew there was a possibility of being a troll, he tried to say whatever came to his mund in that moment to try to avoid that guy from ending all, I don't even know this streamer, but he is a good guy .
At 2:37 I just started crying a little. What he said about feeling like chat and DrLupo hated him now hit me so hard. I've felt that exact same feeling after having depressive episodes around close ones. It just hurts so much man.
I'm sorry you feel that way genuinely. You know its heartbreaking because its a vicious cycle. I don't like myself, so I isolate myself, so I feel lonely and like I'm not being there for my family, so I like myself even less... and on and on.
The one constant through all of that, the one bright light that keeps shining for me no matter how I feel, is Jesus Christ. He really does love us and he never turns his back. He's always there to listen and he very often responds with mercy and kindness. He'll direct my attention to the exact right Scripture at the right moment. he does that for me all the time honestly. Its amazing. Especially knowing how little I deserve it... knowing the price he paid on the cross to forgive me, a sinner with such little faith.
Jesus loves you the same way, too.
Your family doesn't hate you... They love you, even more so than the other people on this stream loved the donator. They care about you ❤
@@the.seagull.35 Thank you ♥️
@@the.seagull.35will he give you the exact girlfriend you want when you ask for it? No? Didn’t think so. Heck, he won’t even give you any girlfriend at all.
lupo is a great human. so caring, so genuine. never watched him before but i wanna check him out now because he warms my heart.
You could see tears in his eyes
Thanks for being here for this guy
he handled this so fckn well huge respect to Lupo for handling this tough situation, and I hope the guys doing okay and is feeling better. God bless anyone reading
I come back to this once in a while just to see an example of what it means to have faith in humanity. You saved a life Drlupo
This guy may have saved a life and ID a beacon of hope for our society.
He could have just ignored it but he legitimately cares about this dude. I hope his career grows
I fuck wit this dude. No clue who he is but he’s a real one for catching that and choosing not to ignore it.
its horrifying that he was placed in that situation i know exactly what it feels like, when the words you are saying are the deciding factor in wether or not somebody dies by their own hand and what to an extent feels like yours. he handled it so well and i hope he know how much of incredibly serious impact he had on somebodys entire life
I also know how it feels and while it is good and nice to help people, it creates an ungodly amount of pressure and even sometimes fear in the person who becomes the impromptu therapist.
Suicide doesn't ease the pain, it only passes it on to your loved ones, and those who hold you dearly.
this made me cry, i love how much of a genuine person lupo is
Easy thing to do is ignore stuff like that in a chat. Might look bad on you. What my man did here was a risk for the betterment of a suicidal person because of the proper understanding that their life is far more valuable then even his reputation. I hope his actions are rewarded.
Also so direct and demanding, almost made me call the suicide prevention line. It’s extremely respectable I don’t expect this from streamers
Might look bad on you? Never ignore shit like this.
@@michaelmonster Keep crying lmao
A truly suicidal person isn't the going to call a hotline.
how to i remove this fuking suicidal shit. i wan to see the video!
it doesnt work like that my brother
You never know what "a truly suicidal person" will do. The worst thing you can do is assume someone's not suicidal, _when they actually are._
Dr.Lupo is such a good guy it’s amazing
As someone who’s nearly lost a loved one to suicide I’m glad this story ended well and not tragically
He handled that perfectly.
Mad respect to this dude
so heavy to watch but so beautiful - Lupo, been watching you with the Doc and always enjoyed the collabs
but this shows me what kind of person you are. Doing great things, brother.
DRLUPO earned so much respect from me when I seen this video. Also watched the video you did for cancer and it hit me hard. Much respect.
Lupo handled this situation great, what a nice guy
Respect to dr lupo, he’s always been such a kind man
It's good to know that some twitch streamers are genuinely good people
Alot are but you can't expect them to baby people all day
@@Ccubed92 sadly I thought this too tbh you cannot treat an Internet personality as a therapist. These parasocial relationships are getting a bit out of hand if you feel a man you don’t know and have never met is the only one in your life who truly “gets you” and can “save you”. People like that need connections in the real world not just online because what if the streamer is not online and this guy starts feeling slip n slidal again?
Thank you Lupo you really seem like a good guy. You seemed to care about him and his well-being
Army Vet here.. true words man.. thank you for just being a decent human being. One of my solders watch you a lot and showed me this video after giving an ACE speech. I don't know if you have any training for this situation that happened, but it just goes to show how just giving a crap matters and how you don't need to be a professor or have some degree of influence to just care about someone regardless of your personal gain. Those simple words you said carry tons of weight. I know being an influencer and having people look at you for help can be very tough and sometimes doesn't feel fair for you to have such a burden but that's just life if I can be so harsh to say. You made a decision as a human being and that's all you can do. Truley much love man.
Top respect for Lupo for going out of his way to ensure this one person, even if they were trolling, was safe. He acknowledged his existence and that's honestly all that most people ask for. To know that someone cares about you. We just need reminding every so often.
Depression is overwhelming. Sometimes people get too far gone and talking no longer becomes an option. Struggled with depression my whole life and was a very heavy drug addict for 12+ years. Survived....somehow and am better for it. It made me who I am today and I live regret free. For all of those who suffer never give up.
Thank you for being a decent person. No joke that attention helped a lot.
respect man to this guy!
the way he handled it
I’m really happy to see how Lupo handled this. This is a scary situation to be in and I’m glad that he tried helping
Great streamer. Great guy. Handled this so so well. So proud!!!
Having that much pressure dumped into your lap out of nowhere must be overwhelming. He handled it well.
never seen this streamer before but I love this this is a true real friend. Hats off to you...
This made me cry pretty bad, it’s so many people suffering. Thank you for talking to that guy dude, you saved a life man.
I'm so glad he took the time to let him know it's all love good man I hope Davey is having a great Christmas today ;)
There are tons of trolls out there that would say things to prompt a reaction.. but Lupo takes it all seriously and willing to stop the stream to try and talk to the person. Respect.
Props to this drlupo for actually helping. So many would have just said a small talking piece at the best. One of the only heartwarming things I've seen
One of the best responponses i have ever seen. What a beautiful human being
The fact that this persons name is only one letter off from mine and the pronunciation is the same... this fully convinced me not to end it all. Life's been tough, and I'm happy for this very lucky coincidence
He is such a nice guy to others
There are 132 suicides per day...that doesn't include the ones who attempt...Ladies and gentlemen, you see someone who's feeling down or depressed, take 1 minute or more out of your day, and talk to them. That eye contact could possibly be enough to keep them in this world. Be kind to one another
Lupo:" I've been in dark places too man."
That shit hits me deep man .. and make me run tears down my face and hit on the Display of my Phone.
I don't know who this guy is, since I don't really watch streamers, but this guy absolutely has my respect.
this is actually amazing that someone cared for them :)
Whenever i’m feeling down I always come back to watch this video, it gives me hope in life. After all this time Dr. Lupo is still the goat.
Ill be honest, i dont know this guy and I'll probably never watch his videos but Dr. Lupo, you are an amazing person for saving that persons life. We need more people like him.
You definitely helped them! God bless you!!❤❤
This just made my day. So glad he ended up safe and made it into the chat ❤️ I hope he’s doing ok still
Wow. He handled this so wisely. God bless him.
"Suicide doesn't take the pain away. It just passes it on to someone else."
God, that's so true
This video is so old, yet the topic is still so common. Guys, I and millions of others on this planet have tried things like that. Some succeeded in what they were trying, but for those who've survived, remember, it may never feel like it at times, but you ARE loved and cared about. Remember what Lupo said, you aren't alone, suicide is one of the most common killers on the planet, and I guarantee almost everybody has thought of it. There are so many things you can do instead, I was severely depressed and have hurt myself many times, yet I'm still alive and well, I found joy in what I love even after the burn out prior, if you can't enjoy what you used to, try something new! If that doesn't work, try something newer! But please, don't ever take your own life, there is so much to life you have yet to experience, don't let depression get the last laugh, kick it's ass and look back at these times with relief!
I don’t follow Dr Lupo but I am glad TH-cam recommended this to me because I was on the brink of ending it all as well… I’ll be following Dr Lupo from now on because he indirectly saved my life through his words… thank you for making us feel that we’re not alone.
The person who once considered suicide I’m happy that they got the help they needed, and that they are healthy and happy
This guy handled this so well & most definitely saved that kids life
The way he handled this is a masterclass
I woulda just panicked and shut down the stream and not know what to so and prolly think about that for the rest of the day or week
I just found this video in my recommended and, although I don't have hugely positive opinions on how the person sending the message acted, the streamer's response is genuinely incredibly powerful and is fairly indicative of someone who cares a lot. Kudos to him.
The one who made a donation is so lucky to have a favorite streamer that’s actually a good person.
"wow bro, trauma dumping in my chat? banned"
Can you imagine 😆
This man is an absolutely amazing person. We seriously need more people like him.
Massive respect, sometimes you just wanna be heard and have your life mean something to someone 💜
I was suicidal during covid lockdown. I felt lonely and imprisoned in my own home, and on 21/07/2021, at 18 years old, I jumped off a bridge in an attempt to end my life. I instantly regretted my choice as I fell. I shattered my pelvis and the left side of my skull and have many more life long injuries. I was in a coma for 6 months. Since then, I've had surgery 8 times, and im not done yet. The doctor said I will be paralized from my waist down for the rest of my life. Don't make the same mistake I did. Get help, you're not alone.
Wow... I'm really sorry that happened. And this may sound insane, but it may actually turn out to be a blessing for you. Even through all these sufferings you've been through. God's given you a platform to touch many people's lives. You could go and talk to people and share your story. Just by your example alone God can use you as his instrument to save _many_ people's lives. There's actually no telling how much he could do. You'd be doing the Lord's work, helping to save depressed and suicidal people from death.
Its just worth thinking about.
"You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you so that you might go and bear fruit-fruit that will last-and so that whatever you ask in my name the Father will give you."
John 15:16 🙏
@@the.seagull.35"a blessing? That just sounds super disrespectful
@@shyguy85 have you ever seen a person who turned their suffering into a platform to inspire millions of people? Would you call them cursed? That would be way more disrespectful than blessing them for their work
@@the.seagull.35 you're calling him being paraplegic a blessing. Absolutely disrespectful. I understand it wasn't intended to be rude but that's what I see it as.
@@shyguy85 Idk- that wasn't what I intended at all. I meant it as a comfort, for OP to see that there's still a lot of hope, a lot of greater good that can come out of this ordeal. But if OP thinks I was being disrespectful I will delete it for sure.
I genuinely didnt expect to cry, he is genuine, his words touched everyone's heart who have been through it
This guy has truly inspired me. It's a relief that there are people who truly care for the well being for others.