Q2. Sister if your hubby is saying it often to others then most likely there's some truth to it. Don't rule out that he won't leave you if the right person comes along.
#1: addictions are very hard to overcome, especially when that person doesn’t admit to having it. Tell her to seek professional help or you are leaving. If she values going out and drinking more than your marriage, then there is nothing you can do to fix it. Save yourself the headaches and run. #2: it hurts more if he says those things behind your back than to your face. He’s a coward. He needs to be honest with you. A lack of communication will lead to a failed marriage.
Q2: your husband is lying to you. What he said to outsiders are his true feeling. Why dont you two look into adoption? Dont be close minding like a lot of hmong people. Open your arm to adoption. If you raise a child right he/she will love you
Q#2. Action speeds louder than words. Secret #2. You and your wife should never keep this secret. It would come back to bite you. One day she when she lose a lot of money and her sons are after her, she will say that she give the money to you and you use it.
Q: txhawb koj zog mog. Wb 2 niam txiv tsis muaj me nyuam tau ntau Xyoo. Doctor yeej hais li ko rau wb thiab. Nws hais tias yog wb xav tau menyuam ces adopt xwb wb yeej muaj tsis tau tiam no. Wb tsis tag kev cia siab yog li Kuv thiaj diet me ntsis, Kuv coj khaub ncaws zoo tuaj wb rov mus ua IVF dua wb yug tau wb tus me nyuam thaum Kuv muaj 40 Xyoo lawm. Don’t give up. Continue search for help. Koj yuav muaj ib hnub xwb.
Q1 I'm a woman that lives with an alcoholic. Put your foot down as let them know you can leave if they don't change. Give boundaries and expectations when they're beginning on their journey of alcoholism or already on the path. Tell them "no" and be motivated to leave. If there's no change, leave!! No need to waste more time.
Q2: sis, I hope you have plan A, plan B, and plan C in place and brace yourself should he leave you. Those who want children while their SO can't give will always end up leaving you. So, start planning the situations for each outcome.
txiv neej Hmoob ces yeej li ntaws os. Qhov nws hais rau sab nraus yeej yog qhov tseem lawm os tus me niam tsev. Koj yeej meem npaj koj tus kheej mog me koj niam aws. Nco ntsoov tias yus lub neej tsis yog tseev kom muaj txiv xwb es os muag. Txhua3 yam tshwm sim mus raws li yus txoj hmoo os mog. Muaj cov txiv neej uas muaj menyuam coo2 es xa yuav cov niam tsev uas tsis muaj menyuam o.
Nyob ntiaj teb no ces yus cov me nyuam thiaj hlub yus Cov txiv neej niam no ces dag noj dag haus xwb Lawv yuav ntxias noj xwb Yuav tsum pub thiab muab rau koj cov me nyuam thiaj yuav zoo dua.
2nd story question: if it was me i would tell her son about her sending money to her lover. She dont want to give thise insurance but rather give it to a man. That boyfriend is definitely cunning her.
Q 1. Thaum ub nej cov txiv neej yog cov muaj2 xiv muaj cai tawm rooj mus rau kev lom zem xwb ne. Txij no mus ces nej cov txiv tsev yeej meem uv cia cov niam tsev mus lom zem thiab es txhob chim2 vim thaum ub poj niam twb hais g tau nej cov txiv neej os.
Ntuj os teb aw, ib tug txiv neej yawg tais caus npaum li koj no es koj yuav ua cas ua taus ib tug poj niam twg tus txiv nawj. Tus poj niam twg tau koj ua nws tus txiv los koj yuav tsum mag tus poj niam ntawv nrauj koj ib hnub twg xwb vim koj lam ntshai tej yam tsis tsim nyog ntshais.
To the brother n sister of the lady with her life insurance please do let her kids know if ur a clean person n neeg dawb please do the right thing ur wife sister is getting play by her so call boyfriend who is using her for money sent overseas
Tus txiv tsev ua koj tus pojniam quav cawv ko nws yog ib yam tsis zoo kiag lawv aw xyov cov neeg zoo tau pojniam quav dej quav cawv ces kuv ntseeg tias xyov puas yuav muaj hnub tig rov qab los ua tau neeg zoo lawm os me phooj ywg aw koj sim ho sim li kuv hais no thiab saib puas yuav tau tab sis yuav yog koj pojniam kam thiab ov 1 ces koj muab coj khiav tawm ntawm lub zos ko xwb saib yog thaum nws tsis muaj phooj ywg lawm saib nws puas yuav pauv xwb kuv ntseeg tias cov neeg quav cawv yog ib yam nyuab vim tsis yog tim dab tsi tab sis yog tim tus neeg txhob txwm ua yuav yog nws kam tso dej cawv tseg mas thiaj tau xwb nawb.
1st question, brother, it is time for you to reevaluate your marriage. You may not want a divorce, but when it becomes such, you might have to choose what you don't want to. Sit down and have a heart to heart conversation with her. Tell her how you truly feel. Maybe video record her while she's intoxicated and her behavior while under the influence. Tell her you have had enough either she change or it's divorce. Only you can make that decision. You might want to do an intervention.
LMAO drinking has nothing to do with religion. I have a lot of Christian friends that are hardcore drinkers so stop blaming others beliefs for her addiction. Maybe you’re the problem, that’s why she drinks.
#3-life ins. Return all the money to her and let her manage her own. Do not get involved, you may be accused of her money going missing. Her husband will do his part if he did indeed left instructions.
To the brother's question at 21:00...please give the money back to the woman. Because if she is to turn on her kids, she can turn on you too. Like, she keeps asking for 5k. Eventually her 5k will run out and say you still owe her. Better to unfriend her if she doesnt understand moneywise is a sensitive topic and no one should trust anyone with their money. She can other ways to deposit her money such as hide it at home or invest it or open a CD etc.
Q1: take her to her parents and let them talk to her. If you live far away from them,.call your fil and mil and tell them. Have them take some sense to her
#1, your wife’s alcoholism has nothing to do with religion, more of her self control. Call your workplace “EAP” employee assistant program. Ask your HR manager. Let them know you need help for your wife’s alcoholism. They have programs to help. #2, he’s telling the outsider the truth- he is lying to you
Never trust him once he said it out his mouth he already has the intention… just be prepare and if that day comes you will be prepare and your heart won’t hurt as much … live your life and live it full love yourself too
Story 2 Yig koj muaj tsis tau me nyuam ce . 1 adopted 1..los yog tug me nyuam los xwb 2 Ce npaj ntseg naeb muaj ib hnub koj tus txiv yeej yuav yuav niam yau nawb ..me viv ncau . lis cas los nco ntsov hlub2 koj tus kheej nawb
#2 mi sister aw txhob ntseeg koj tus txiv tas2: nawb mog, txiv neej CES luag Twb yuav tso koj tseg los luag tseem hais Tias luag hlub2 yus no os mog, ua Neeg nyob CES lub sij hawm yuav hloov thaum twg Los Tau os mog , ua neej nyob nrog tej huab cua xwb os nawb
Ntuj aw...Cas peb ua neeg nyob mas cas yuav nyuaj ua luaj li os....tus me nus aw....Cas kuv es niam yog ib tug niam tsev Cas niam tau ib tug niag txiv quav beer quav cawv ua zoo kiag li koj hais koj niag poj niam ko thiab os...kuv los ham tsi mus nyob22 hauv tsheb tiv Cas tos2 ntshav mas siab tag ib yam li thiab.....thiaj li txawj dhuav cov neeg zoo li ua luaj li tiag....
1. Sounds like you're in a very difficult situation. Truly sorry, but if she respects you, she would at least do it less. I understand sometimes we can't force our spouse to do something we don't support in and it can lead to arguments. If arguing doesn't work, speaking nicely doesn't either, please reach out to professionals for help. It can be anyone you trust as a mentor like a pastor, relationship counselor, etc. 2. He didn't deny saying that? hrmmmmm, I don't blame you for overthinking it.
Q1: bro....there is nothing u can do to stop her from drinking alcohol. All u can do is let her be and let her learned the lesson or else u have let her go. Q2: sister...u need to be prepared and don't trust him 100 percent. Be ready when he cheated and txhob tso tso siab rau koj tus txiv. Your husband can change of heart anytime....be prepared.
2nd question, sister, so many story we've heard about these kind of stories. Have you thought about surrogacy? Using your eggs and your husband soerm and having someone carry your baby? Doctors can evn manipulate it and you can have twins, a boy and a girl. If not do not entertain the adoption because he'll only end up leaving and divorcing you because it's not his flesh and blood. Your husband is speaking the truth out in the public. He's planning on divorcing you. He wants to make you leave him so that he can save face, so that people wouldn't say he's the bad one. Prepared yourself for he'll soon start to ask you for a 2nd wife, and he'll promise and swear he'll love you both equally. Never trust or believe that or his words. It's all a lie. You need to love and respect yourself and most importantly you need to prepare yourself mentally and emotionally.
Story 2 what comes out of the mouth is from the heart. Don't trust your man too much and put your guards down. Otherwise, when the truth comes out it will break you heart. always be on guard, be watchful and don't believe everything he said.
Q1: Take her to her relatives & AA, if she doesnt change then u evaluate what is important for u, mb time to change spouse. Q2: He's changed & just softening the blow for u so u wont be heartbroken. Eventually, he's getting a 2nd wife so u need to prepare financially & emotionally for the future.
Q2. Sister if your hubby is saying it often to others then most likely there's some truth to it. Don't rule out that he won't leave you if the right person comes along.
Just show her your baby snake, everything should be fine 😂
#1: addictions are very hard to overcome, especially when that person doesn’t admit to having it. Tell her to seek professional help or you are leaving. If she values going out and drinking more than your marriage, then there is nothing you can do to fix it. Save yourself the headaches and run.
#2: it hurts more if he says those things behind your back than to your face. He’s a coward. He needs to be honest with you. A lack of communication will lead to a failed marriage.
Q2: your husband is lying to you. What he said to outsiders are his true feeling. Why dont you two look into adoption? Dont be close minding like a lot of hmong people. Open your arm to adoption. If you raise a child right he/she will love you
Q#2. Action speeds louder than words.
Secret #2. You and your wife should never keep this secret. It would come back to bite you. One day she when she lose a lot of money and her sons are after her, she will say that she give the money to you and you use it.
Yog tsi muaj menyuam ce lub neej yeej tsi tshuas mus kawg
Hais rau nws cov Tub zoo dua nawb. Tsam 1 pas nqus tsis tuaj ces nyuab nabw
Q: txhawb koj zog mog. Wb 2 niam txiv tsis muaj me nyuam tau ntau Xyoo. Doctor yeej hais li ko rau wb thiab. Nws hais tias yog wb xav tau menyuam ces adopt xwb wb yeej muaj tsis tau tiam no. Wb tsis tag kev cia siab yog li Kuv thiaj diet me ntsis, Kuv coj khaub ncaws zoo tuaj wb rov mus ua IVF dua wb yug tau wb tus me nyuam thaum Kuv muaj 40 Xyoo lawm. Don’t give up. Continue search for help. Koj yuav muaj ib hnub xwb.
Q1 I'm a woman that lives with an alcoholic. Put your foot down as let them know you can leave if they don't change. Give boundaries and expectations when they're beginning on their journey of alcoholism or already on the path. Tell them "no" and be motivated to leave. If there's no change, leave!! No need to waste more time.
Secret 1: koj ces hmoov tag lawm os
Q2: sis, I hope you have plan A, plan B, and plan C in place and brace yourself should he leave you. Those who want children while their SO can't give will always end up leaving you. So, start planning the situations for each outcome.
Story 1
Koj yeej yuav hais koj poj niam yeej tsis kam.npauv nawb..get ready for bad things will be happen to her..Before she stop drinking alcohol..
txiv neej Hmoob ces yeej li ntaws os. Qhov nws hais rau sab nraus yeej yog qhov tseem lawm os tus me niam tsev. Koj yeej meem npaj koj tus kheej mog me koj niam aws. Nco ntsoov tias yus lub neej tsis yog tseev kom muaj txiv xwb es os muag. Txhua3 yam tshwm sim mus raws li yus txoj hmoo os mog. Muaj cov txiv neej uas muaj menyuam coo2 es xa yuav cov niam tsev uas tsis muaj menyuam o.
Q1: As the old saying goes: "can't beat her, join her." 😂
Koj tus kheej yeej paub zoo lawm os tsis tas yuav qha Koj os mog
Nyob ntiaj teb no ces yus cov me nyuam thiaj hlub yus
Cov txiv neej niam no ces dag noj dag haus xwb
Lawv yuav ntxias noj xwb
Yuav tsum pub thiab muab rau koj cov me nyuam thiaj yuav zoo dua.
Saib seb nws cov tub puas Yog neeg coj zoo. Yog tias yeej coj zoo ntxim yuav hlub lawv niam rau yav laus ces tham nrog nws cov menyuam es Yog zoo los muab ib nrab rau lawv zoo dua nws muab pub hluas nraug
Life insurance questions. Return the money to the mom, and annouce the family that you no longer have it in your hands.
Oyo koj twb muaj ib tus nab thiab ne..koj tus nyab muaj sia nav nws 2 tus nyab yog teeb xwb naj bro Aw..koj ces pawv yaim laub...🥰
Yog kuv yog neb mas kuv tsi lav cia rhiab caws leej twg li nyiaj li nawb.
2nd story question: if it was me i would tell her son about her sending money to her lover. She dont want to give thise insurance but rather give it to a man. That boyfriend is definitely cunning her.
Q 1. Thaum ub nej cov txiv neej yog cov muaj2 xiv muaj cai tawm rooj mus rau kev lom zem xwb ne. Txij no mus ces nej cov txiv tsev yeej meem uv cia cov niam tsev mus lom zem thiab es txhob chim2 vim thaum ub poj niam twb hais g tau nej cov txiv neej os.
Hais txog ntawm qhov nyiaj uas yog tus txheeb ze muab rau neb tuav kod.
Kuv xav mas neb yuav tsum tau qhia rau nws cov me nyuam paub nawb.
Yog neb tsis qhia cov tub paub mas muaj ib hnub twg neb yuav raug teeb meem rau yav tom ntej nod nawb. Yuav tsum tau hais qhia rau cov tub mog.
Secret 1: I don't like snakes either.
Secret 2: give her money back. So she'll be responsible for her
own money.
Question 1 qhov nws mus hais rau sab nraum yeej yog qhov tseeb nawb.
Nws tsuas lam hais li ntawm rau koj kom koj tsis txhob tu siab xwb nawb tus me viv ncaus aw.
Ib hnub nram ntej ces nws yeej yuav mus nrhiav dua ib tug los yug me nyuam rau nws xwb nawb.
Thiab nws tsev neeg yeej yuav kom nws mus yuav dua ib tug xwb2 li nawb mog.
Nriav tug tshiab kiag xwb os
Story #2... soon, she will accuse you of stealing her money. Better return her money to her unless you want her money yourself.
Ntuj os teb aw, ib tug txiv neej yawg tais caus npaum li koj no es koj yuav ua cas ua taus ib tug poj niam twg tus txiv nawj. Tus poj niam twg tau koj ua nws tus txiv los koj yuav tsum mag tus poj niam ntawv nrauj koj ib hnub twg xwb vim koj lam ntshai tej yam tsis tsim nyog ntshais.
#1 yuav tsum Tau CIA NWS kawm Tau NWS Tus kheej xwb yog Dej😅 caw yog NWS Tus phooj lawm xwb CES yeej nyuab lawm os
Tus pog laus tsis kam faib nyiaj rau nws cov me nyuam ces lwm hnub nws tuag ces lawv tsis muaj nyiaj fais nws ces xwb ces Cias lis xwb los mas.
Q1..divorce her at once..lol
Q2: If your uterus is good then you should ask your sister for her egg.
Kuv mas ntshai nab thiab tsis nyiam nab Kiag li
Cov poj niam tiam no mas txawv dhau lawm
To the brother n sister of the lady with her life insurance please do let her kids know if ur a clean person n neeg dawb please do the right thing ur wife sister is getting play by her so call boyfriend who is using her for money sent overseas
Tus txiv tsev ua koj tus pojniam quav cawv ko nws yog ib yam tsis zoo kiag lawv aw xyov cov neeg zoo tau pojniam quav dej quav cawv ces kuv ntseeg tias xyov puas yuav muaj hnub tig rov qab los ua tau neeg zoo lawm os me phooj ywg aw koj sim ho sim li kuv hais no thiab saib puas yuav tau tab sis yuav yog koj pojniam kam thiab ov 1 ces koj muab coj khiav tawm ntawm lub zos ko xwb saib yog thaum nws tsis muaj phooj ywg lawm saib nws puas yuav pauv xwb kuv ntseeg tias cov neeg quav cawv yog ib yam nyuab vim tsis yog tim dab tsi tab sis yog tim tus neeg txhob txwm ua yuav yog nws kam tso dej cawv tseg mas thiaj tau xwb nawb.
1st question, brother, it is time for you to reevaluate your marriage. You may not want a divorce, but when it becomes such, you might have to choose what you don't want to.
Sit down and have a heart to heart conversation with her. Tell her how you truly feel. Maybe video record her while she's intoxicated and her behavior while under the influence. Tell her you have had enough either she change or it's divorce. Only you can make that decision. You might want to do an intervention.
Thaub aw! Qi hlo qhov muag ces rho hlo koj tus me nas ntsaws kiag qhov nas xwb mas. Cas yuav poob peev ua luaj naw.
?1. koj hais tsis tau either koj nrauj nws or txhob mus church lawm.2?. tus txiv no tej xaum nws yuav nrauj koj ib hnub kav tsij npaj koj lub plan b.
Omg I’m never a fan of snake 😮it’s such a turned off
Es cov tub puas yog nws yug mas. Yog no mas nws kuj yog ib leej niam siab phem kawg kiag . Thiab ua cas nws xum coj mus pub rau lwm tus siv es tsis pub rau yus cov menyuam siv mas. Tsis tas li ntawv neb tsis tsim nyog mus ris lwm tus tej nyiaj ntau npaum ntawv. Lwm hnub nws muab rho siv tas ces nws yuav liam rau neb tias neb muab siv tas.
LMAO drinking has nothing to do with religion. I have a lot of Christian friends that are hardcore drinkers so stop blaming others beliefs for her addiction. Maybe you’re the problem, that’s why she drinks.
#3-life ins. Return all the money to her and let her manage her own.
Do not get involved, you may be accused of her money going missing. Her husband will do his part if he did indeed left instructions.
To the brother's question at 21:00...please give the money back to the woman. Because if she is to turn on her kids, she can turn on you too. Like, she keeps asking for 5k. Eventually her 5k will run out and say you still owe her. Better to unfriend her if she doesnt understand moneywise is a sensitive topic and no one should trust anyone with their money. She can other ways to deposit her money such as hide it at home or invest it or open a CD etc.
To the one with the money issues- you should tell her kids bc their mother is selfish like those kids didn’t come out of her shame on her for!
Sister es… yus tsis muaj me nyuam ces thaum kawg tus txiv yuav tso yus tseg xwb os… Ntxhov tso ntxhov zoo xwb… cia nyias mus nyias thaum tseem hluas…
Q1: take her to her parents and let them talk to her. If you live far away from them,.call your fil and mil and tell them. Have them take some sense to her
#1, your wife’s alcoholism has nothing to do with religion, more of her self control. Call your workplace “EAP” employee assistant program. Ask your HR manager. Let them know you need help for your wife’s alcoholism. They have programs to help.
#2, he’s telling the outsider the truth- he is lying to you
Q#2
Save your money and start doing things for yourself. Don't always believe him because people will turned against you whenever the time comes.
Poj niam quav cawv mas nyuaj, ho coj mus rau neej tsa hais, txiv neej quav cawv mas zoo saib, poj niam quav cawv mas tsis zoo saib kiag
Last question. Give her back her money. One day she’s gonna use up all her funds and then come back and say you used it and not her.
Secret #1. I too scare of snake and caterpillars.
Qhov koj hais txog koj tsis muaj me nyuam es koj tus txiv hais li koj hais mas yog 50/50 os nawb
Teb txog ntawm tus txiv neej uas neb tuav cov nyiaj ntau2 ntawv mas yog ib qho nyuaj kawg, kuv tus kheej kuv xav mas ntshe yuav tau qhia rau cov me nyuam paub vim tsam tus hluas nraug ntawv dag nws cov nyiaj siv xwb tsis yuav nws, tsam lwm hnub cov tub paub ces cov tub yuav tsis txaus siab rau neb thiab
Never trust him once he said it out his mouth he already has the intention… just be prepare and if that day comes you will be prepare and your heart won’t hurt as much … live your life and live it full love yourself too
Story 2
Yig koj muaj tsis tau me nyuam ce .
1 adopted 1..los yog tug me nyuam los xwb
2 Ce npaj ntseg naeb muaj ib hnub koj tus txiv yeej yuav yuav niam yau nawb ..me viv ncau .
lis cas los nco ntsov hlub2 koj tus kheej nawb
What he said is truth. He just don't want to hurt u.
Question2 what your husband told people is the truth and he was lying to you about ok with Nooo kids n your future
Question#2 koj husband ntshais tsam koj tus siab ces txog ntawm koj ces lam nplig nplig koj xwb mas
#2 mi sister aw txhob ntseeg koj tus txiv tas2: nawb mog, txiv neej CES luag Twb yuav tso koj tseg los luag tseem hais Tias luag hlub2 yus no os mog, ua Neeg nyob CES lub sij hawm yuav hloov thaum twg Los Tau os mog , ua neej nyob nrog tej huab cua xwb os nawb
Tu txiv tsev ua noog tuaj tia nws tu poj niam yog ib tug alcohol addiction pua muaj kev pab nws no koj twb yog neeg ntseeg Vajtswv nes kuj thov Vajtswv pab thiab mus nrhiav perfectional help rau nws seb pua pab tau koj tu poj niam.
1..poj niam quav cawv quav beer quav yeeb ces tas li ntawm lawm xwb, vim neb twb mus ntseeg vaj tswv xib fwb cov txij laug cov niam tsev twb hais tsis tau lawm,
2.. thaum twg koj tus txiv nws ntsib ib tus poj niam zoo ces nws tso koj tseg lawm,
Ntuj aw...Cas peb ua neeg nyob mas cas yuav nyuaj ua luaj li os....tus me nus aw....Cas kuv es niam yog ib tug niam tsev Cas niam tau ib tug niag txiv quav beer quav cawv ua zoo kiag li koj hais koj niag poj niam ko thiab os...kuv los ham tsi mus nyob22 hauv tsheb tiv Cas tos2 ntshav mas siab tag ib yam li thiab.....thiaj li txawj dhuav cov neeg zoo li ua luaj li tiag....
Kuv los ntshai nab ib yam thiab Kuv pom leej twg tso nab rau Facebook ces Kuv muab lawv delete kiag xwb
Neb qhia kiag rau nws cov tub kiag xwb mas brother peb cov niam ruam es neb tsis qhia rau cov tub es ib pliag cov nyiaj tas lawm nes 😢
Tu niam tsev ua qhia nws qhov secret cub cereal noj nas koj pua kam qhia seb yog hom cereal twg thiaj li zoo cub noj os.
Question# 1 vajtswv lim koj poj niam xwb tabsis koj poj niam kom tsis yeej kev xum ua kev phem ces ua rau koj poj niam kaj kaj siab tabsis qhov tseeb koj poj niam yuam kev loj heev lawm
Yog thaum twg nej lub neej tawg lawm mam los nyob MN, yog lub neej Tseem zoo txhob los nyob MN 😂
Not your business. That's her money.
Tsim nyog neb yuav tsum qhia rau nws cov tub paub nawb..lwm hnub plaub ntug thiaj li tsis los raug neb os
Viv ncaus yog yus tsis muaj me nyuam ces txiv neej yeej tsis yuav yus txog hnub kawg li thaum hluas ces nws lam hais xwb txhob ntseeg
Mus adopt kid lo tu seb puas tshawb koj muaj tau menyuam in miracle.
To the sister who steams her cereal, what kind of cereal is it?😂
Twb tias nej cov mus church tsis haus cawv no sav 😅
1. Sounds like you're in a very difficult situation. Truly sorry, but if she respects you, she would at least do it less. I understand sometimes we can't force our spouse to do something we don't support in and it can lead to arguments. If arguing doesn't work, speaking nicely doesn't either, please reach out to professionals for help. It can be anyone you trust as a mentor like a pastor, relationship counselor, etc.
2. He didn't deny saying that? hrmmmmm, I don't blame you for overthinking it.
Q1: bro....there is nothing u can do to stop her from drinking alcohol. All u can do is let her be and let her learned the lesson or else u have let her go.
Q2: sister...u need to be prepared and don't trust him 100 percent. Be ready when he cheated and txhob tso tso siab rau koj tus txiv. Your husband can change of heart anytime....be prepared.
2nd question, sister, so many story we've heard about these kind of stories. Have you thought about surrogacy? Using your eggs and your husband soerm and having someone carry your baby? Doctors can evn manipulate it and you can have twins, a boy and a girl.
If not do not entertain the adoption because he'll only end up leaving and divorcing you because it's not his flesh and blood.
Your husband is speaking the truth out in the public. He's planning on divorcing you. He wants to make you leave him so that he can save face, so that people wouldn't say he's the bad one. Prepared yourself for he'll soon start to ask you for a 2nd wife, and he'll promise and swear he'll love you both equally. Never trust or believe that or his words. It's all a lie. You need to love and respect yourself and most importantly you need to prepare yourself mentally and emotionally.
Story 2 what comes out of the mouth is from the heart. Don't trust your man too much and put your guards down. Otherwise, when the truth comes out it will break you heart. always be on guard, be watchful and don't believe everything he said.
Q1: Take her to her relatives & AA, if she doesnt change then u evaluate what is important for u, mb time to change spouse.
Q2: He's changed & just softening the blow for u so u wont be heartbroken. Eventually, he's getting a 2nd wife so u need to prepare financially & emotionally for the future.