Thanks for being so open about body image and male validation. I’m feeling the same way now that I’m 28 and feeling nervous about 30 and questioning my body chafing. ❤ I needed this.
girl, you're not alone. i relate to everything you're saying. 💜 also hype in the chat for us less curvy girls, we're beautiful in every way. ✨ (i don't think i've ever commented on your videos but have been watching you for years. thank you for the relatable, chill content 🥰)
omG YES on the male validation talk. I feel like society conditions women to seek male validation and we've been conditioned through channels like movies, books, ads, etc. growing up so it's definitely not your fault or anyone's fault for feeling the need for it. I've also been trying to unwire my brain from seeking male validation but where's the instruction manual for this at bc I need it lol
I totally understand what you were saying about body image. When I was younger, I had an eating disorder, and it lasted for many years. Now, as I am older, the obsession with losing weight hit me again. I have basically starved myself for a year now, and I'm basically under weight again. Yet all the guys I used to date, that are on my social media, and haven't communicated with me in forever, are all like "you look great, keep it up". Just goes to show how they make it about the looks, instead of who you are. I'm single, and quite honestly, I don't go out looking for a guy. If I meet someone and we click, then great, but I need to be content with myself, and getting myself healthier!!
Its been 10 months ?!?!? I feel like it JUST HAPPENED! I def think living in Miami would take a toll on body image just because theres beautiful women everywhere but that doesnt take away from your own unique beauty ✨️ thats what helps me if i ever start comparing. Theres also lots of scripture on our beauty in Gods word and thats always grounding so you may enjoy that as well. Sending hugs 🫶🏼
I feel like hyping each other up as partners is really important for sure but deriving your confidence from your partner all the time is not healthy. You came to a really good realization. Love your vlogs Natalie ❤
Natalie, I am always in awe of how beautiful you are when I watch your videos... I don't even compare myself to you because you're in a whole other league ...It makes me sad to hear you doubt yourself
@@NatalieBarbu It's 100% honest, I promise. Also, you're not just beautiful. You're smart and driven and talented and most importantly spiritual. You're up there girl ❤
I just wanted to thank you for your honesty and role model you are setting up for others to truly be honest to yourself, admit maybe embarrassing things in your life but nevertheless being open, accepting and honest about what's going on your life. That will hopefully help others to do the same and help them become more mature and accepting of ourselves as a whole and focusing on self-development and things we have control over. We need more of this kind of content in general... ❤️ I also join your "little titties" community. 🎉😁
You are absolutely beautiful inside and out 🥰 You have such a nice smile and fit body ❤ and as for male validation; I think all women go through that at one point or another but remember most men have lust and p*rn addictions and nothing can satisfy them; they need help and recovery. We need to try to rewire our brain and not over sexualize ourselves. It’s tough especially for women in this society. Men are taught to be womanizers at such young ages and practice it for years and have lust addictions because of it. We need to realize this and it helps us love ourselves just a little bit more 🤍
Natalie…as boring as it sounds, maybe even consider oatmeal for breakfast and add berries and honey and such. If not, try Starbucks oatmeal with brown sugar, that’s usually good! As for body image stuff, we all go through it. You’re also at the point in your life where you want certain items in the next person since you’re a relationship girl. Easier to find hookups than long term. But, you are definitely in a town where there are many different kinds of pretty people. Don’t compare yourself. We all do but just rock your own confidence. It will be tough but once again, you will meet someone when you least expect it. 👍🫵
Thanks for being so open about body image and male validation. I’m feeling the same way now that I’m 28 and feeling nervous about 30 and questioning my body chafing. ❤ I needed this.
girl, you're not alone. i relate to everything you're saying. 💜 also hype in the chat for us less curvy girls, we're beautiful in every way. ✨
(i don't think i've ever commented on your videos but have been watching you for years. thank you for the relatable, chill content 🥰)
omG YES on the male validation talk. I feel like society conditions women to seek male validation and we've been conditioned through channels like movies, books, ads, etc. growing up so it's definitely not your fault or anyone's fault for feeling the need for it. I've also been trying to unwire my brain from seeking male validation but where's the instruction manual for this at bc I need it lol
YES. I feel like we are just wired to seek that and then we feel super ashamed when we admit it haha
I totally understand what you were saying about body image. When I was younger, I had an eating disorder, and it lasted for many years. Now, as I am older, the obsession with losing weight hit me again. I have basically starved myself for a year now, and I'm basically under weight again. Yet all the guys I used to date, that are on my social media, and haven't communicated with me in forever, are all like "you look great, keep it up". Just goes to show how they make it about the looks, instead of who you are. I'm single, and quite honestly, I don't go out looking for a guy. If I meet someone and we click, then great, but I need to be content with myself, and getting myself healthier!!
Its been 10 months ?!?!? I feel like it JUST HAPPENED! I def think living in Miami would take a toll on body image just because theres beautiful women everywhere but that doesnt take away from your own unique beauty ✨️ thats what helps me if i ever start comparing. Theres also lots of scripture on our beauty in Gods word and thats always grounding so you may enjoy that as well. Sending hugs 🫶🏼
i really like these chatty vlogs, so nice to watch when chilling or doing housework🥰 hope you’re having a great time in australia!!
I feel like hyping each other up as partners is really important for sure but deriving your confidence from your partner all the time is not healthy. You came to a really good realization. Love your vlogs Natalie ❤
I think we all should be kinder to ourselves and not let unfortunate little things get to us all the time.
Agreed !!!
💙💙 your honesty and how open you are with us your viewers
Natalie, you kind of just changed my life with your 'great day is in my control' manta, going to adopt that from now on!
*mantra
Aw I hope it helps!!
Thank you for being honest and taking a rest is a must! Could you link your necklaces? They are beautiful!
Ur startup series are super interesting to watch and how ur building it , but I liked watching this too ❤
Thank you for the honesty 💕
Thanks for watching!
Love your authenticity
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GIRL WE LOVE U!❤❤❤
& women need to continue uplifting other women in general!
Also, ill be in Miami in December and would love to meet u 😂❤
Natalie, I am always in awe of how beautiful you are when I watch your videos... I don't even compare myself to you because you're in a whole other league ...It makes me sad to hear you doubt yourself
🥹 this is so sweet thank you
@@NatalieBarbu It's 100% honest, I promise. Also, you're not just beautiful. You're smart and driven and talented and most importantly spiritual. You're up there girl ❤
Adorable thumbnail. Giving 2019/2020 vibes
Love it
it was the validation segment for me
Loved this! My best friend is the best at gassing girls up & it has made me try harder to do it for other people in my life :)
I love that
Hey! ☺️ I could be wrong but I think you have to wait a few days after the hair removal cream to get sun. Just thought I’d relay that! ☺️
Thank you for this
Hey Natalie! Where is the purple bikini top from? It looks so cute and chic
I just wanted to thank you for your honesty and role model you are setting up for others to truly be honest to yourself, admit maybe embarrassing things in your life but nevertheless being open, accepting and honest about what's going on your life. That will hopefully help others to do the same and help them become more mature and accepting of ourselves as a whole and focusing on self-development and things we have control over. We need more of this kind of content in general... ❤️
I also join your "little titties" community. 🎉😁
what are your other pass time or things to do
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Have you been told that you look like Rosalia?
Hello.
First
You are absolutely beautiful inside and out 🥰 You have such a nice smile and fit body ❤ and as for male validation; I think all women go through that at one point or another but remember most men have lust and p*rn addictions and nothing can satisfy them; they need help and recovery. We need to try to rewire our brain and not over sexualize ourselves. It’s tough especially for women in this society. Men are taught to be womanizers at such young ages and practice it for years and have lust addictions because of it. We need to realize this and it helps us love ourselves just a little bit more 🤍
Natalie…as boring as it sounds, maybe even consider oatmeal for breakfast and add berries and honey and such. If not, try Starbucks oatmeal with brown sugar, that’s usually good!
As for body image stuff, we all go through it. You’re also at the point in your life where you want certain items in the next person since you’re a relationship girl. Easier to find hookups than long term. But, you are definitely in a town where there are many different kinds of pretty people. Don’t compare yourself. We all do but just rock your own confidence. It will be tough but once again, you will meet someone when you least expect it. 👍🫵
Thank you!! This is so nice!