@@CoreyAnderson-l5y Most definitely. But still… ya know🤷🏽♂️ kinda dirty off principle. Can still get infections for not properly cleaning your private parts and what not.
@@CoreyAnderson-l5y His implication is... They get dirty a lot. Think about it... When they play outside (if they still do), when they soil themselves (if really young), and the list goes on. Childhood is a very messy stage is his point.
Musty kids aside, when they get older, she's going to be confused when she finally starts to try and parent them. "They just do what they want, and don't listen to me!" is what she'll end up saying.
@chrismargoni and they'll get they ass beat in prison for stanking up the place. You know you failed in parenting when convicts are the ones who teach your kids personal hygiene
As a white person, it absolutely does get talked about. You need hygiene for yourself but also out of respect for others around you. I bathe every day (usually 2x in the summer) with a washcloth. I bathed every night as a kid. And there are many of us whites who were raised the same way lol. This lady is wild saying kids have autonomy over their bodies when it comes to health & hygiene. Kids would literally do the most unsafe things if we let them do whatever they wanted. Have she met a toddler? I’m convinced a lot of people get on podcasts and say shit just for it to go viral. Kev, remember how you said podcasting equipment shouldn’t be sold to everybody? 😂 The crunchy, unbathed Caucasians embarrass the rest of us white folks, so the podcasting mics being $$$ should go for the the whole world imo.
I wonder if this is a new aged thing because growing up I was around a pretty mixed group of kids and I never knew a difference between hygiene of the white kids and black kids. Now on social media people are perpetuating this stereotype for some reason. It’s like they’re grouping it with “gentle parenting” like no hygiene is not abuse lol
Idk I’m also white and I know a lot of white people that are pretty casual about their hygiene lol like white men definitely don’t use lotion and it’s icky
@monicarenee7949 social media has just introduced you to the huge world outside of your community. It's all been there, each and everyone of these thoughts (& stereotypes) because trust they didn't come out the blue. They are generations deeply rooted!!
BP taught yt ppl proper hygeine/how to bathe and before that Europe was riddled with diseases,I guess their descendants is continuing the families legacy ut they think k weren't bathe cause our skin I'd brown 😅
I’m sorry, not sorry actually, but not keeping up with your kids’ hygiene should be considered neglect and they should at least pay a fine. Hygiene is important.
My son went swimming twice yesterday then to martial arts class. He was complaining that he had three showers in one day. Ummm yeah buddy. That's how we do.
I thought she was gonna say they bathe more because of that but she said that it was a bath... Confused me so much because every beach has showers because your supposed to at least rinse off
That part. Lol. That's a terrible odor and terrible for the skin. I guess it's harder to notice their ashy-ness. Maybe this is why caucasians age so rapidly. All this time, we thought it was the lack of melanin, but maybe it's just terrible hygienic practices.🤷🏿♂️
As a white mother, I don't claim responsibility over things other white people (or any people) do. I make my kids bathe because it's important to stay clean. This is human being 101. ❤
2 year Olds are germ factories by nature. They touch and eat everything. Some, and I am positive hers, are not potty trained and have accidents. House smelling like ammonia and poop
I did delayed bathing with my daughter because of the skin benefits. She went 1 week without a bath because she was a week old. She is now two and takes a bath almost every night. I'm mixed and my husband is white. Not bathing your children (who get dirty) is gross.
Delayed bathing for a newborn makes sense, even though they will at least wipe down a newborn. I’d even say toddlers don’t need a bath every night because their bacteria doesn’t smell yet. But once the kids are up in age they will definitely start smelling and we handle that accordingly lol. At my ripe age I have to take 1-2 showers a day for my own comfort because I like smelling fresh. I wonder what this is teaching her kids, they won’t even realize they smell bad but everyone else will.
Yeah, newborn skin is different. They spent their entire existence inside the womb with a protective layer on their skin. Once they get here, they don't have that anymore, so giving their skin time to acclimate to the new environment before subjecting it to tap water, washcloths, and soap, is part of how you car for a newborn. What _she_ described, though, is just bad hygiene, and I guarantee she thinks it's okay, because she's not bathing either--or does, because she is being forced to, but doesn't actually want to do it.
I'm Polish (white) and we were washed daily in hot ass water. Babies have to be washed daily, nevermind a 10 year old. We also weren't allowed shoes in the house and had to change from outside clothes. I think the white people that are dirty are more of the Western types 😅
IT IS. 🙄Y'all don't know what you're talking about. This is referring to not bathing a newborn the moment/day they are born to help them establish a microbiome. They are less likely to get sick, if they can get colonized with mom's bacteria rather than some random hospital bacteria.
Notice how it's only relatively privileged people who go around boasting about their and their kids' lack of hygiene. I think that's the issue here. On some level, they feel they're naturally cleaner than the rest of us and therefore think don't need to bathe as much....
No child protection officer is going to bother a family with happy, healthy, well fed and loved children just because they don't have a bath or shower everyday. Once puberty hits of course she will be teaching them to bath more.
That has more to do with the fact that many Europeans lived in relatively close quarters with their animals and picked up zoonotic diseases from them. Also, some of the diseases that wiped out large swathes of the Native population were already in the Americas before colonizers arrived. It was the destructive impact colonizers had on Native communities that made them more deadly. If Native peoples had been able to maintain their ways of life as before colonization, they would have been physically strong enough to fight both the old and new diseases and nowhere near as many would have died. It's colonizers' fault either way, but I think it's an important distinction.
My 9yo niece is visiting us this summer and we went to Sea World yesterday. The first thing I had her do when she walked through the door was TAKE 👏🏾A👏🏾 SHOWER👏🏾! Today, I got up and washed the clothes we wore to the park. As I put the clothes in the washing machine, all I could say was, "My God today! This child is growing!" 😮 we will definitely have the hygiene talk before she goes home. She's doing an ok job for a 9yo, but they're kids! You can't just let them do whatever like this crazy woman is talking about! Chileeeeee bye! 😅
"This child is growing!" Is the most gentle and HILARIOUS way to say that baby was stankin! Lmao I love us and I love that you won't let that baby be musty!
True, I left a used gym shirt over the weekend in the school lockers. Come Monday it's gym time, I sniffed the shirt, smelled fine, so I put it on. Booooy, I stank up the whooolle entire gym. People looking at me crazy and whatnot allll day.... even after I threw away the shirt and smell was gone. If looks could kill, I would have been 60 ft under. Next gym day, some girls told their friend to randomnly stand close to me to smell me. But because I always wash my axzz, there was no smell!! And all of this was an accidental smelly occasion because I didnt want to get detention for not changing into gym clothing, but these caucus mountain people are walking around smelly on purpose????
@@avanulaneway8418people from the caucus mountain look more middle eastern than a stereotypical white Person. Not to mention body odor doesn’t even appear until after puberty
But, she’s says this with such dignity!Whoever came up with the saying “you act like your shit don’t stank” had to be talking about THEM. How can you be snooty & proud when your entire house funky. The beds, sofas, the humans..
Thats crazy. My son has only missed an actual bath, submersed in water and with soap, 2x in his life and that's when he had the flu and Covid, and that was mostly bc I felt like crap. He still got a washup, though, with soa water and a rag. Bathing is also relaxing.
Have you rver heard the phrase: hiw you do anything is how you do everything? So her kids are learning in all areas of life to have a " do it when you want" attitude.
Can they PLEASE stop sharing with us???!!! We get it! I saw scrubs and had to ZOOM in. So...she works at somebody's healthcare facility? 👀🤢 Is it wrong if I ask for a nurse/doctor who is a POC? 😎
No, do it! Ask for a POC. I'm gonna ask for a POC at this point and I'm white. If I have to I might just pretend to be off white if it means I don't have to have this lady take care of me.
It makes you, and the rest of the commentators a bit weird if you believe that "POC"(stupid term, wtf does this even mean? "White" people don't have colored skin?) are the only ones who are bathing regularly or something. Also ironic since... Most of the "POC" I went to school with, would "bath" in the bathroom or take "AXE" showers. Hood kids didn't have the money to afford soap many times, let alone hot water. I had a kid join our little private school when we were in 4th grade(10ish years old), and I was told his family was very poor and couldn't afford hot water, so they didn't shower.
i know someone who was doing this. like the kids would be wearing clean clothes and be musty. like... that wasnt my family, but i put an END to that. I will never forget that. them kids coming home talking about ppl said they stink. YOU DO! i remember i would go over their house EVERY SINGLE EVENING to make sure them kids was in the tub. ridiculous.
It's my understanding that one must shower before and after using the swimming pool. Bathing once a week, if that, is neglect. She can justify and package that however she likes. If they haven't cultivated good hygiene practices, they won't suddenly when puberty hits. 😷
She said " maybe" once a week!!! Take the wheel lord! So if they don't want to shower at the end of the week its no big deal?? Can you imagine what the sheets & pil!ow cases look like?? And I guarantee if the kids aren't showering the parents aren't either!
When I hear someone has 4 dogs/cats, I automatically think, "their house probably stinks." Imma go out on a strong limb and say her house DEFINITELY stinks.
We had animals. Best believe they had a meeting with some soap and a water hose outside during the summer and a bathtub in the winter. Only thing worse than kids smelling like outside is when your inside animals smell like outside 🤮🤮🤮🤮 They also got bathed at the groomers.
I grew up with us having cats most of the time. As long as we kept the litter box changed, you never even knew an animal lived in our house unless you saw her. Apparently, dogs are different, and you have to actually give them baths--yet another reason I don't do dogs.
As a Black man living in the South, the most I’ve gone is a day and a half, and that was only because I was so tired that I fell asleep. Who in the…how…why?!! The STANK?! Won’t somebody thank of the STANK?!
Its this lady that my sister used to work with, she herself bathed on Tuesdays and Saturdays-on her menstrual she didnt even bathe at all. Same with her TEENAGERS. Her 16 yo son would doodoo on himself and literally pee in his closet… their school would always send him home because he smelt so bad. She also mentioned that they didnt like to take showers because they would itch in the water. Im like girl, those are the germs trying to escape from the soap 😂. Yes, they were from the caucas mountains also. 😅
I have heard of people who don't believe in full bathing on their menstrual. They still clean themselves but not full baths or showers. Something about pores being open, I never understood it and I don't practice it. I think it's an old wives tale from the south
My husband’s co worker rushed into work on his off day thinking he was late. He was sweating profusely, dizzy, and overall confused. My husband told him to check in. They work at a hospital. The staff did a whole work up because he was getting mentally worse and his fever was almost 104…. Well turns out he had sepsis. When asked about a very nasty looking cut on his foot, he didn’t know anything about it…. When my husband told me this, I just KNEW… that man NEVER washes his feet. I doubt he even bathes daily because, if he did, any soap, much less water, would’ve made him very aware of that cut on his foot by the burning/stinging sensations on contact. He damn near died…but this lady wanna know why bathing daily is important?
You're not funky until puberty, but once a week IF THAT is crazy work. Swimming as a bath is even crazier. We used to go to the community pool in the apartment complex and come home and go straight to the shower to get all that chlorine out of our hair and off our skin 😂
Kids are definitely funky way before puberty. Ask any Elementary Educator. Many of these lil chillen these days need deodorant before they loose baby teeth.
Lmao you must not care for kids daily bc yes they are FUNKY from sweat, dirt and grass if they actually play outside, eat, or use the bathroom daily. Now they don’t have that hormonal underpit smell yet but they still need bathing! I agree with everything else you said just chiming in as a mom of 3😂
Rich, white people in this country feel untouchable... because in many ways, they are. One justice system for them and their well-paid attorneys, another for the rest of us.
And no, not everyone. I went to either all Black schools, or Islamic schools growing up, so I was always in class with kids of people who do _not_ play around about hygiene and cleanliness.
My little one has eczema and her dermatologist said showering every other day was better for her skin. She’s 7 now and showers mostly everyday (doing more activities now). There is no excuse for not bathing if you have access to those facilities.
@@AlvinKazu oh believe me, I'm a mess and I have my days like that, but I also live in the south and this time of year and I sweat through my shirts. Seems unsanitary to go to bed like that. Sometimes I go a long time without showering and I just exist during the winter, but that didn't seem to fit the prompt of this post
Been through that and still going through it at times so I feel you. It was a struggle to practice self care but you have to do it to keep from falling in a pit of even more despair. Keep your head up. ❤
@@daustinrichardsthat other comment was weird, you don’t have to validate how bad you’re doing TF🙄 mental health can manifest differently for everyone, I’ve been depressed and actively in self delete mode but still showered and went outside daily, that’s not the diagnostic measurement for mental health
My parents divorced when I was two, I spent half my childhood with each, and it took me a long time to realize they're both trash. I grew up being the dumb smelly kid because my parents only cared about themselves. Both are lazy narcissists, and everything I have I've had to learn and earn from scratch. I am now the proud parent of twin toddlers and an teaching my kids all the hygiene habits I am still having to learn/practice myself.
Same. After having kids of my own, I marvel at the level of neglect me and my brother went through as children. My brother tries to explain it to his wife and she can’t believe it.
It's all fun and games until that 10 year old hits puberty and that hormonal funk gets added to the general accumulated funk that comes from never washing. All jokes aside, all that bacteria collecting in their nether regions could cause them to have irritation and infections. That's wild.
As a white woman, I make sure my daughter bathes daily, but her cousins are running wild and not being forced to bathe. It’s definitely a thing among white people to let it slide
@@rondas7772 well if you knew black history so well you would know black people ruled Europe and we had to teach white people how to bathe. So how are you acting so surprised when you’re such an expert in black history miss ma’am. 🤣😂😂😂
@@SugarBear74Chi I understand the point you're trying to make, but those aren't the diseases to use. Typhoid is a food- and water-borne bacteria--you don't get it from _not_ bathing; and the plague was transmitted by fleas on infected rats, so also not a bathing issue. You can bathe every day, and still get bitten by an infected flea; and if your water source is contaminated, then bathing actually increases your chance of contracting that illness. Valid point, but wrong diseases.
I think people really just take life for granted in America. We have too much. So people have nothing better to do than make up problems that don't exist. It's literally folks in countries that fight at water wells to be able to take a bath in a dribble of water. And she's got the nerve to have not one for four stank kids by choice. Chile.....
I looked up the podcast because i NEEDED to know her medical credentials.. holistic nurse practitioner.. she's a medical provider and refuses to provide HEALTHY CARE to her own children.. ya'll😑🙄
Narcissism is about self interest, not the interest of your spouse or children. At the same time... She doesn't think she's wrong, so why would she think anything is wrong with what she's doing? Dysfunctional.
White person here. My kids and I bathe everyday. There are the handful of times that somebody falls over exhausted each year, but outside of that, we’re clean. Also, swimming is definitely not bathing! If anything, make it more of a priority to bathe. Chlorine is an irritant.
Dentists recommend supervising teeth brushing until the child is completely proficient, which can take up to age 12. I'd guess she isn't doing that either.
My aunt (Caribbean descent), who is now in her 80's said when she and my uncle lived in the UK, back in the 50's and 60's they literally had to teach the folks from the UK how to bathe properly. Grown folks was just out there musty, dusty and crusty and wearing the same clothes weeks in a row without washing them and some of the folks worked outside in the muck and mire. I guess not much has changed.😖🤢 Notice I decided to use the regions of the world they're from rather than melanated/unmelanated... 😂😂😂 But I'm sure y'all get the picture. 👀
When I was a kid, our mom would bathe us with such hot water and hard scrubbing that we’d come out pink 😂 I can’t imagineeeee why this woman would be bragging about letting so many kids under 10 yrs old “do whatever they want.” Basically she’s bragging that _I choose not to parent my own children_
Well, as a kid I used to bath once a week on a Saturday. And then had a wash every other day. Nothing wrong with that. Nothing wrong with that in the seventies. We were much healthier then as well!
All the folks saying ‘kids don’t stink until puberty!’ Uhm … but the dust and dirt from them being outside is an issue? Them smelling like outside IS AN ISSUE??
“Have you met a children?” 😂 I loved that I laughed at the same time as Melissa in the background
Got me too 😂😂😂
I mean she’s right, body odor doesn’t appear until after puberty
@@CoreyAnderson-l5y Most definitely. But still… ya know🤷🏽♂️ kinda dirty off principle. Can still get infections for not properly cleaning your private parts and what not.
@@CoreyAnderson-l5y His implication is... They get dirty a lot. Think about it... When they play outside (if they still do), when they soil themselves (if really young), and the list goes on. Childhood is a very messy stage is his point.
@@makaumulli8778 yes if a child gets dirty they should be bathed. If not then there is no need to bath every day
"But as for me and my house, we shall praise the lord... and bathe.😅
Hallelujah 🙌🏾
Let the Chuuuuch say...Amen
AMEN 🙌🏾🤣🤣♥️
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AMEN AND AMEN
I have an even bigger issue that her scrubs say "health care" on it!!! WHO IS SHE CARING FOR DIRTY LIKE THIS????!!!!!!
I was thinking the same thing 🙆🏽♂️🙆🏽♂️🙆🏽♂️ like who do u "HEALTH" anything for????
Exactly my thoughts! 🤮
I was looking at this as well🤨 I think she’s wearing them to look professional. Knowing that they learn about hygiene in school😂
@cindyc12 These are the same type of nasty folks that didn't think handwashing was necessary before Covid.
Notice she doesn’t show her credentials. I hate when health care adjacent folks deliberately mislead their social media followers.
This is why the air freshener and febreze industry will never go out of business.
Aint this the truth
This is why AXE BODY SPRAY will never go out of Buisness.
And perfume/cologne is big business
Also shampoo?! Do they not wash their hair daily?! Especially after swimming‼️
Not really, body odor doesn’t even show up until after puberty
I miss shame and keeping things to ourselves.
😂 Ahhh, the Golden Years... I miss it too! Now, everyone wants to broadcast their random ways and create a movement behind it. Lol
#THIS
I was coming to say the same thing! This is so disgusting 🫣
I say this all the time, BRING SHAME BACK!!!!
AMEN! Preach! Hallelu-YURH!
“I’m not gonna fight with my kids over little, stupid things.”
And that’s how you end up with brats who cause issues when they go out in public.
That's why there are soooo many creams for rashes and diseases..ewww yuck
Musty kids aside, when they get older, she's going to be confused when she finally starts to try and parent them. "They just do what they want, and don't listen to me!" is what she'll end up saying.
Exactly 💯
This!
I see it all the time smh
She will be visiting them in prison on alternating weekends.
@chrismargoni and they'll get they ass beat in prison for stanking up the place. You know you failed in parenting when convicts are the ones who teach your kids personal hygiene
This is why i dont participate in potlocks at work
I’m weak 😂
FACTS!
Well well well 😂
This the one
Nor “community condiments” in the break room, gas stations, etc;…😂😂😂
As a white person, it absolutely does get talked about. You need hygiene for yourself but also out of respect for others around you. I bathe every day (usually 2x in the summer) with a washcloth. I bathed every night as a kid. And there are many of us whites who were raised the same way lol.
This lady is wild saying kids have autonomy over their bodies when it comes to health & hygiene. Kids would literally do the most unsafe things if we let them do whatever they wanted. Have she met a toddler?
I’m convinced a lot of people get on podcasts and say shit just for it to go viral. Kev, remember how you said podcasting equipment shouldn’t be sold to everybody? 😂 The crunchy, unbathed Caucasians embarrass the rest of us white folks, so the podcasting mics being $$$ should go for the the whole world imo.
I wonder if this is a new aged thing because growing up I was around a pretty mixed group of kids and I never knew a difference between hygiene of the white kids and black kids. Now on social media people are perpetuating this stereotype for some reason. It’s like they’re grouping it with “gentle parenting” like no hygiene is not abuse lol
Idk I’m also white and I know a lot of white people that are pretty casual about their hygiene lol like white men definitely don’t use lotion and it’s icky
@monicarenee7949 social media has just introduced you to the huge world outside of your community. It's all been there, each and everyone of these thoughts (& stereotypes) because trust they didn't come out the blue. They are generations deeply rooted!!
You sound suspect
Don’t believe you.
They not like us 🤦🏾♀️ "Sometimes you gotta Pop Out and Bathe'EM 🤣
😂😂
Lmao 🤣
"Sometimes you gotta pop out and shower niggas"😅😅
“Certified Boogeyman I’m the one bought the soap for them”
Say Drake, I hear you like em STANK
So she's okay with musty funky children? 😂😂😂
Right 😂😂😂😂
She probably doesn't 🚿 shower or take baths or use a wash cloth
She gonna have to explain to her kids why they don't have friends and everybody runs away from them like they are the plague.
@@emberskies999😂😂😂 "mommy what's wrong with us?!!" OMG
NOT THE MUSTY !!!!
Once a week during the Summer? That's not even musty territory anymore, that's straight up STANKIN!
Wrong! Body odor doesn’t show up until after puberty
@@CoreyAnderson-l5y That's dead wrong.
@guy above me: bait?
Once a week is a miracle for them! I’m sure their house stank!
😂😂
Smelling like onions and unwashed feet.
No it definitely doesn’t considering body odor doesn’t appear until after puberty
Yep musk, boo boo and fart fumes 😂
@@CoreyAnderson-l5y That's some BEWL. Plenty of kids play outside and smell like... OUTSIDE. Even if it's not hormonal musk, it still STINKS.
The older I'm getting the more I understand people who don't eat at other peoples houses. I get it now
Fr fr
If they ain’t bathing only god knows what that they do to their food when they are cooking lol
The blood of Jesus
The BLOOD!😂🙌🙏
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😂😂😂😂😂😂
Amen!🙏😭🤣
You are hilarious😂
My grandma always said cleanliness is close to godliness. Wash the spirit AND the body
Fight? It’s not a fight…YOU are the parent Veronica !!
And they swear up & down Blacks afraid of water but I can promise you, we shower the most.
I’ve never heard that! and I must be a different white person because I definitely bath daily, I can’t stand feeling dirty.
@@kyleegarcia5569I think the ones that don't wash are the different ones.
BP taught yt ppl proper hygeine/how to bathe and before that Europe was riddled with diseases,I guess their descendants is continuing the families legacy ut they think k weren't bathe cause our skin I'd brown 😅
He said do y’all not have these conversations over the green bean casserole 😂😂😂
"Do yall not have that conversation over the green bean casserole" almost took me clean out!!!!! 😂😂😂😂
I’m sorry, not sorry actually, but not keeping up with your kids’ hygiene should be considered neglect and they should at least pay a fine. Hygiene is important.
It 8s neglect
It is neglect I’ve had to report it before 🫠
I was thinking the same thing. It’s bordering abuse
It is. Especially for the 2 year old. At that age they're at least still in pull ups. If she's not washing that then that baby has sores.
@@LarisseMontrose I know this is not supposed to be funny, but I'm dying at, "that baby has sores" 😂
That lady is out of her mind 🤦🏽♀️
The 10yr old is getting close to puberty. That kid doesn’t have a habit of washing daily is going to be a problem
Facts
And it’s going to be a future AITA post with some one asking is it ok to leave they spouse over bad hygiene😂
Me and my husband are blackity- black😂😂😂... If you live in this house you get baths EVERYDAY. Not up for debate or discussion.
That part
My son went swimming twice yesterday then to martial arts class. He was complaining that he had three showers in one day. Ummm yeah buddy. That's how we do.
@@tnw4 😂😂😂
@@tnw4 😂😂😂😂😂😂 take them as needed ok
Well your blackity wrong, body odor doesn’t show up until after puberty
“Have you met a children?” I enjoyed the laugh in the background. That is pure D nastiness.
Chlorine fumes all over the house😂
Can you imagine what those sheets smell like!
What chlorine? You think that household believes in such a thing? 😩
I thought she was gonna say they bathe more because of that but she said that it was a bath... Confused me so much because every beach has showers because your supposed to at least rinse off
That part. Lol. That's a terrible odor and terrible for the skin. I guess it's harder to notice their ashy-ness. Maybe this is why caucasians age so rapidly. All this time, we thought it was the lack of melanin, but maybe it's just terrible hygienic practices.🤷🏿♂️
Chlorine, must, and wet pocket change 😭
You are the parent. There is no fighting with your kids. They should do what you say. And bathing should be the easiest win you ever have with them.
"have you met a children?"
Okay! Cause mine smell like a viking especially after sports.
Yes, body odor doesn’t appear until after puberty
@@CoreyAnderson-l5y Shut up.
@@CoreyAnderson-l5y shut up.
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As a white mother, I don't claim responsibility over things other white people (or any people) do. I make my kids bathe because it's important to stay clean. This is human being 101. ❤
They’re the first ones to say we are nasty lol😂 this woman said bathing once a week
She also said going for a swim is a bath.
@@selinadeloach6680 girl just nasty 🤮
If that!
@@selinadeloach6680🤮🤮🤮
That's the part that gets me. Quick to call us nasty and have the hygiene of cavemen.
Just know that 10-year-old (and maybe the 7-year-old) are the smelly kids at school. Poor babies.
Yes because at 6 my daughter started to need deodorant so the 7 year old definitely could be stinking now
At they private school with the other smelly kids
The 5 yo too. They all half wiping bc kids just do at that age. I made mine soak in the tub at that age to get all that old pee n booboo. 😦😭
2 year Olds are germ factories by nature. They touch and eat everything. Some, and I am positive hers, are not potty trained and have accidents. House smelling like ammonia and poop
Definitely getting bullied too
I did delayed bathing with my daughter because of the skin benefits. She went 1 week without a bath because she was a week old. She is now two and takes a bath almost every night. I'm mixed and my husband is white. Not bathing your children (who get dirty) is gross.
Yeah. Newborns and kids ain't the same. Like how does she come to this conclusion?
Delayed bathing for a newborn makes sense, even though they will at least wipe down a newborn. I’d even say toddlers don’t need a bath every night because their bacteria doesn’t smell yet. But once the kids are up in age they will definitely start smelling and we handle that accordingly lol. At my ripe age I have to take 1-2 showers a day for my own comfort because I like smelling fresh. I wonder what this is teaching her kids, they won’t even realize they smell bad but everyone else will.
Exactly that I understand. Kids are dirty. This is just child neglect.
Completely understandable when it comes to infants
Yeah, newborn skin is different. They spent their entire existence inside the womb with a protective layer on their skin. Once they get here, they don't have that anymore, so giving their skin time to acclimate to the new environment before subjecting it to tap water, washcloths, and soap, is part of how you car for a newborn. What _she_ described, though, is just bad hygiene, and I guarantee she thinks it's okay, because she's not bathing either--or does, because she is being forced to, but doesn't actually want to do it.
Do y’all have these conversations over the green bean casserole took me OUT! Legit almost choked 🤣💀🤣💀
Why would you say this publicly? This is truly a major cultural difference. And they don't use wash cloths either.
She's proud of it.
hey! some of us do use wash cloths. lol
I'm Polish (white) and we were washed daily in hot ass water. Babies have to be washed daily, nevermind a 10 year old. We also weren't allowed shoes in the house and had to change from outside clothes. I think the white people that are dirty are more of the Western types 😅
I wouldn't even insult the whites like that 😂😂😂
I heard one of them say on a podcast that wash cloths were for poor people. They use soap and their hands in the shower. Go figure!
I am disengaging from this discussion. Hypertension runs in my family.
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Weak genes
“I did delayed bathing with both of my kids. “ I love how she states it as if it is a proven parenting technique. 😂
lol right! wtf
IT IS. 🙄Y'all don't know what you're talking about. This is referring to not bathing a newborn the moment/day they are born to help them establish a microbiome. They are less likely to get sick, if they can get colonized with mom's bacteria rather than some random hospital bacteria.
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*delay
It is for newborns
People really be exposing their parenting so casually as if they are convinced that CPS nor close friends/family members are not listening.
Notice how it's only relatively privileged people who go around boasting about their and their kids' lack of hygiene. I think that's the issue here. On some level, they feel they're naturally cleaner than the rest of us and therefore think don't need to bathe as much....
@@jfm14how do you know she is “privileged”. Not to mention she’s actually right considering body odor doesn’t even appear until puberty
No child protection officer is going to bother a family with happy, healthy, well fed and loved children just because they don't have a bath or shower everyday. Once puberty hits of course she will be teaching them to bath more.
@@victoriasp41 finally someone with a functioning brain
@@jfm14 let me guess, you think she’s privileged because she’s white
And I bet she probably doesn't teach them about cleaning up behind themselves either... I bet you that house reflects them kids.
"Little stupid things like bathing" 😬
I didn't know learning good hygiene was stupid...
I know right, what a ridiculous comment 🙄 definitely shows you where her mindset is at
Except she’s actually right, body odor doesn’t show up until after puberty
@user-en7wl7nt8y Yeah, we all know that. Just because they don't stink doesn't mean they don't need baths... I bet you don't wash your legs...
@@you_can_call_me_T when did I or the woman say you don’t need baths?
@user-en7wl7nt8y They need baths more often than once a week. Unless your kids never play outside or do much of anything, they need regular baths.
She don't need kids
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She’s the reason why some people should be required to have licenses to have kids
That's why the Natives of America got sick from colonizers.
That has more to do with the fact that many Europeans lived in relatively close quarters with their animals and picked up zoonotic diseases from them.
Also, some of the diseases that wiped out large swathes of the Native population were already in the Americas before colonizers arrived. It was the destructive impact colonizers had on Native communities that made them more deadly. If Native peoples had been able to maintain their ways of life as before colonization, they would have been physically strong enough to fight both the old and new diseases and nowhere near as many would have died. It's colonizers' fault either way, but I think it's an important distinction.
@@jfm14That’s a lot of words to say it’s white ppls fault.
Actually no, body odor doesn’t even show up until after puberty
Yeah, that’s why 🤦🏼♀️🙄
@@someoneyoudontknow7705yes blondie. Literal germ warfare, amongst other horrific things
Y’all remember when people used to think about it before they say it, no?
My 9yo niece is visiting us this summer and we went to Sea World yesterday. The first thing I had her do when she walked through the door was TAKE 👏🏾A👏🏾 SHOWER👏🏾! Today, I got up and washed the clothes we wore to the park. As I put the clothes in the washing machine, all I could say was, "My God today! This child is growing!" 😮 we will definitely have the hygiene talk before she goes home. She's doing an ok job for a 9yo, but they're kids! You can't just let them do whatever like this crazy woman is talking about! Chileeeeee bye! 😅
You went to sea world? You have them your money?!
"This child is growing!" Is the most gentle and HILARIOUS way to say that baby was stankin! Lmao I love us and I love that you won't let that baby be musty!
@@courtneywitherspoon8584 🥰 we have to make them feel comfortable and confident, yet know "hey, that ain't right!
I remember being in actually trouble for being musty. 😂
😂😂😂 my 12 year old is in real trouble right now for being musty!
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@@SheisB515😂😂😂😂😂
Me too tf 😂
I love to smell clean
...My dad didn't play. He always said "y'all smell like outside go take a bath"
My baby brother hated baths.
What's wild to me, is that she extrapolated the newborn delayed bathing out to mean not bathing _forever._
Why we keep having to have this conversation every 6 months 🤦🏾♀️ I'm tired
Because they want to convince us to be nasty like them.
I know right, it's ridiculous
It's getting to the point where it's happening every 6 days.
I’m guessing it’s an issue in your guises community
Like Kendrick Lamar said they not like us
AND the women tried to shame the man for bathing every day. 😂😂😂
Well she’s right, body odor doesn’t show up until after puberty
Get caught stinking once and that's your whole identity 😂
True, I left a used gym shirt over the weekend in the school lockers. Come Monday it's gym time, I sniffed the shirt, smelled fine, so I put it on. Booooy, I stank up the whooolle entire gym. People looking at me crazy and whatnot allll day.... even after I threw away the shirt and smell was gone. If looks could kill, I would have been 60 ft under. Next gym day, some girls told their friend to randomnly stand close to me to smell me. But because I always wash my axzz, there was no smell!! And all of this was an accidental smelly occasion because I didnt want to get detention for not changing into gym clothing, but these caucus mountain people are walking around smelly on purpose????
@@avanulaneway8418 ", but these caucus mountain people"
Wtf?
"People looking at me crazy "
Yeah........
@@AlvinKazu what don't you understand about the comment?
@@avanulaneway8418people from the caucus mountain look more middle eastern than a stereotypical white Person. Not to mention body odor doesn’t even appear until after puberty
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But, she’s says this with such dignity!Whoever came up with the saying “you act like your shit don’t stank” had to be talking about THEM. How can you be snooty & proud when your entire house funky. The beds, sofas, the humans..
Thats crazy. My son has only missed an actual bath, submersed in water and with soap, 2x in his life and that's when he had the flu and Covid, and that was mostly bc I felt like crap. He still got a washup, though, with soa water and a rag. Bathing is also relaxing.
Have you rver heard the phrase: hiw you do anything is how you do everything? So her kids are learning in all areas of life to have a " do it when you want" attitude.
That's a good line
Can they PLEASE stop sharing with us???!!! We get it! I saw scrubs and had to ZOOM in. So...she works at somebody's healthcare facility? 👀🤢 Is it wrong if I ask for a nurse/doctor who is a POC? 😎
No, do it! Ask for a POC. I'm gonna ask for a POC at this point and I'm white. If I have to I might just pretend to be off white if it means I don't have to have this lady take care of me.
It's not wrong at all. I hope you zoomed in and saw how oily she looked too. Tells you all you need to know
I did the same thing and was sickened. People like her make me dread the hospital.
It makes you, and the rest of the commentators a bit weird if you believe that "POC"(stupid term, wtf does this even mean? "White" people don't have colored skin?) are the only ones who are bathing regularly or something.
Also ironic since... Most of the "POC" I went to school with, would "bath" in the bathroom or take "AXE" showers.
Hood kids didn't have the money to afford soap many times, let alone hot water. I had a kid join our little private school when we were in 4th grade(10ish years old), and I was told his family was very poor and couldn't afford hot water, so they didn't shower.
i know someone who was doing this. like the kids would be wearing clean clothes and be musty. like... that wasnt my family, but i put an END to that. I will never forget that. them kids coming home talking about ppl said they stink. YOU DO! i remember i would go over their house EVERY SINGLE EVENING to make sure them kids was in the tub. ridiculous.
"Have you met a children?"
They say that’s how the native Americans knew the caucasus mountains ppl were coming by their smell
It's my understanding that one must shower before and after using the swimming pool. Bathing once a week, if that, is neglect. She can justify and package that however she likes. If they haven't cultivated good hygiene practices, they won't suddenly when puberty hits. 😷
She said " maybe" once a week!!! Take the wheel lord! So if they don't want to shower at the end of the week its no big deal?? Can you imagine what the sheets & pil!ow cases look like?? And I guarantee if the kids aren't showering the parents aren't either!
When I hear someone has 4 dogs/cats, I automatically think, "their house probably stinks." Imma go out on a strong limb and say her house DEFINITELY stinks.
We had animals. Best believe they had a meeting with some soap and a water hose outside during the summer and a bathtub in the winter. Only thing worse than kids smelling like outside is when your inside animals smell like outside 🤮🤮🤮🤮 They also got bathed at the groomers.
I grew up with us having cats most of the time. As long as we kept the litter box changed, you never even knew an animal lived in our house unless you saw her. Apparently, dogs are different, and you have to actually give them baths--yet another reason I don't do dogs.
Don't get me wrong, I've known homes that had dogs and cats that didn't smell. I haven't known homes that had 4+ and didn't smell.
@@younglaster 🤣
Most times it does stinks and it can be very strong.
But of course the pet owners wouldn’t be able to smell it because they are use to it lol
As a Black man living in the South, the most I’ve gone is a day and a half, and that was only because I was so tired that I fell asleep. Who in the…how…why?!! The STANK?! Won’t somebody thank of the STANK?!
The fact that she said that she let her kids do what they wanna do is the FIRST red flag 🚩🤦🏿♀️👎🏿!
Its this lady that my sister used to work with, she herself bathed on Tuesdays and Saturdays-on her menstrual she didnt even bathe at all. Same with her TEENAGERS. Her 16 yo son would doodoo on himself and literally pee in his closet… their school would always send him home because he smelt so bad. She also mentioned that they didnt like to take showers because they would itch in the water. Im like girl, those are the germs trying to escape from the soap 😂. Yes, they were from the caucas mountains also. 😅
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That is nasty
Now that’s extreme and can lead to disease omg
I have heard of people who don't believe in full bathing on their menstrual. They still clean themselves but not full baths or showers. Something about pores being open, I never understood it and I don't practice it. I think it's an old wives tale from the south
My husband’s co worker rushed into work on his off day thinking he was late. He was sweating profusely, dizzy, and overall confused. My husband told him to check in. They work at a hospital. The staff did a whole work up because he was getting mentally worse and his fever was almost 104…. Well turns out he had sepsis. When asked about a very nasty looking cut on his foot, he didn’t know anything about it….
When my husband told me this, I just KNEW… that man NEVER washes his feet. I doubt he even bathes daily because, if he did, any soap, much less water, would’ve made him very aware of that cut on his foot by the burning/stinging sensations on contact. He damn near died…but this lady wanna know why bathing daily is important?
You're not funky until puberty, but once a week IF THAT is crazy work. Swimming as a bath is even crazier. We used to go to the community pool in the apartment complex and come home and go straight to the shower to get all that chlorine out of our hair and off our skin 😂
Kids are definitely funky way before puberty. Ask any Elementary Educator. Many of these lil chillen these days need deodorant before they loose baby teeth.
Lmao you must not care for kids daily bc yes they are FUNKY from sweat, dirt and grass if they actually play outside, eat, or use the bathroom daily. Now they don’t have that hormonal underpit smell yet but they still need bathing! I agree with everything else you said just chiming in as a mom of 3😂
This is their norm! It’s A historical fact!
Nothing but the truth
That right 😂
*Not* an opinion.
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Not true, it just can't be..naw nope, is that really true!?!??
😂😂😂 Conversations over the green bean casserole. I've heard when they can visibly see the dirt it's time for a bath.
Whole house smelling like outside and dog 🤢
I bet the dog smells better in this situation
And pork
and buttcrack fron not cleaning their behinds
The person laughing in background after "have you met a children" is wholesome
How is CPS not called in this situation 😢😮
They in on it 😅
🤣🤣😂dont make no sense the way i screamed at this comment an, proly is.
They're not going to do anything about that
Rich, white people in this country feel untouchable... because in many ways, they are. One justice system for them and their well-paid attorneys, another for the rest of us.
😂 everybody had that jit in class. The boy from Peanuts with the squiggly lines and ringworms
Pigpen
And no, not everyone. I went to either all Black schools, or Islamic schools growing up, so I was always in class with kids of people who do _not_ play around about hygiene and cleanliness.
The way I hollered when me & Kev said at the same time when you go swimming you just got wet! You aint clean in musty and pee pee water. 🤣🤣🤣
I paused the video, got up, and washed my face and hands.
My little one has eczema and her dermatologist said showering every other day was better for her skin. She’s 7 now and showers mostly everyday (doing more activities now). There is no excuse for not bathing if you have access to those facilities.
I'm a depressed adult, And still I make myself take at least 4 showers a week with wash ups in between.
I'm not understanding
I know exactly what you mean and same
@@AlvinKazu um, what?
@@AlvinKazu oh believe me, I'm a mess and I have my days like that, but I also live in the south and this time of year and I sweat through my shirts. Seems unsanitary to go to bed like that. Sometimes I go a long time without showering and I just exist during the winter, but that didn't seem to fit the prompt of this post
Been through that and still going through it at times so I feel you. It was a struggle to practice self care but you have to do it to keep from falling in a pit of even more despair. Keep your head up. ❤
@@daustinrichardsthat other comment was weird, you don’t have to validate how bad you’re doing TF🙄 mental health can manifest differently for everyone, I’ve been depressed and actively in self delete mode but still showered and went outside daily, that’s not the diagnostic measurement for mental health
My parents divorced when I was two, I spent half my childhood with each, and it took me a long time to realize they're both trash. I grew up being the dumb smelly kid because my parents only cared about themselves. Both are lazy narcissists, and everything I have I've had to learn and earn from scratch.
I am now the proud parent of twin toddlers and an teaching my kids all the hygiene habits I am still having to learn/practice myself.
Same. After having kids of my own, I marvel at the level of neglect me and my brother went through as children. My brother tries to explain it to his wife and she can’t believe it.
It's all fun and games until that 10 year old hits puberty and that hormonal funk gets added to the general accumulated funk that comes from never washing. All jokes aside, all that bacteria collecting in their nether regions could cause them to have irritation and infections. That's wild.
Especially if it's a female!!
As a white woman, I make sure my daughter bathes daily, but her cousins are running wild and not being forced to bathe. It’s definitely a thing among white people to let it slide
Wow! I had no idea! Gosh that's terrible
@@rondas7772how did you have no idea do you not know history?
"running wild" 😂😂😂😂
@@KingRose339 I'm black, I know black history not white folks history, what's your point???
@@rondas7772 well if you knew black history so well you would know black people ruled Europe and we had to teach white people how to bathe. So how are you acting so surprised when you’re such an expert in black history miss ma’am. 🤣😂😂😂
This why they had the bubonic plague
I mean. Modern public health is based on bathing. Remember Thyphoid Mary? SMH.
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@@SugarBear74Chiyes but she didn't wipe good, u could bath, but it u don't wipe good and wash your hands even after a bath, yuucckk
Yup!
@@SugarBear74Chi I understand the point you're trying to make, but those aren't the diseases to use. Typhoid is a food- and water-borne bacteria--you don't get it from _not_ bathing; and the plague was transmitted by fleas on infected rats, so also not a bathing issue. You can bathe every day, and still get bitten by an infected flea; and if your water source is contaminated, then bathing actually increases your chance of contracting that illness. Valid point, but wrong diseases.
Hol' up... I WAS gon' assume she means GET into a BATHTUB 🛁 but they SHOWERED the other 6 days but it seems like she... don't mean that! 😬😳
😭😭 so generous of you to think that highly of her lol
Sis....she don't mean that lol.
@@shewhosucceeds - Thank you! 😇😂😭
@@courtneywitherspoon8584 - Chiiiiiiiiiiile, I kep' on watchin' while typing my comment and...she sho don't! 😳😬😂🤣🤣
These are the children who grow up to be funky ass adults.
This is why diseases is rampant it starts at home 😂
I think people really just take life for granted in America. We have too much. So people have nothing better to do than make up problems that don't exist. It's literally folks in countries that fight at water wells to be able to take a bath in a dribble of water. And she's got the nerve to have not one for four stank kids by choice. Chile.....
Not “green bean casserole”. 😂
I looked up the podcast because i NEEDED to know her medical credentials.. holistic nurse practitioner.. she's a medical provider and refuses to provide HEALTHY CARE to her own children.. ya'll😑🙄
She gonna be wondering why they cussing her out in a few years, cause she let them do what they want
This is why Kendrick Lamar made that song.
TNLU
Wasnt that about drake being a culture vulture and a creeper towards children?
She don’t think that her kids’ classmates would watch this knowing whose mom she is?? Why set your kids up like that? 💀
Trust me, her kids' classmates already know because they STINK 😂
Narcissism is about self interest, not the interest of your spouse or children. At the same time... She doesn't think she's wrong, so why would she think anything is wrong with what she's doing? Dysfunctional.
10,7, 5, 2..... those babies stank!
These children will be adults got damn
You'll be musty forever = You'll be 45 y/o and people will still say, "Uh oh, here come Musty Kev!" 😂😂😂😂
Very true, I know some grown musty folks in their 40s
@@rondas7772 me too!🤣🤣🤣
White person here. My kids and I bathe everyday. There are the handful of times that somebody falls over exhausted each year, but outside of that, we’re clean.
Also, swimming is definitely not bathing! If anything, make it more of a priority to bathe. Chlorine is an irritant.
Dentists recommend supervising teeth brushing until the child is completely proficient, which can take up to age 12. I'd guess she isn't doing that either.
My aunt (Caribbean descent), who is now in her 80's said when she and my uncle lived in the UK, back in the 50's and 60's they literally had to teach the folks from the UK how to bathe properly. Grown folks was just out there musty, dusty and crusty and wearing the same clothes weeks in a row without washing them and some of the folks worked outside in the muck and mire. I guess not much has changed.😖🤢
Notice I decided to use the regions of the world they're from rather than melanated/unmelanated... 😂😂😂 But I'm sure y'all get the picture. 👀
Her kids might be getting bullied at school because they out here stankin' up the place. 😷
When I was a kid, our mom would bathe us with such hot water and hard scrubbing that we’d come out pink 😂
I can’t imagineeeee why this woman would be bragging about letting so many kids under 10 yrs old “do whatever they want.” Basically she’s bragging that _I choose not to parent my own children_
#wypipo
Well, as a kid I used to bath once a week on a Saturday. And then had a wash every other day. Nothing wrong with that. Nothing wrong with that in the seventies. We were much healthier then as well!
Now we know the moors definitely talk them how to wash 🤣
Being Musty in the pool is wild😅
This really makes me think twice about any public pool or water park 😕
All the folks saying ‘kids don’t stink until puberty!’
Uhm … but the dust and dirt from them being outside is an issue? Them smelling like outside IS AN ISSUE??
And that's a nurse😂😂😂