Yes! Honestly haven’t seen much people appreciating the humour that is Shun!! I’m sure the cameras and edits made him out to be more of a princess than he really is. Also with that face card he can literally get away with bad behaviour lol
I agree. And I think it's actually heartbreaking to know how many people judge him just to see 10hrs or whatever of month. Also everybody praises Dai how amazing,capable he is, so I don't understand why people judge somebody who he chose and actually spend time with.
Some comments seem to suggest that Dai and Shun were an official couple at the time, but that wasn’t the case-they were exploring their feelings. It’s important to remember that everyone approaches love differently, with varying personalities and paces. While Dai was immediately drawn to Shun, Shun, being serious about finding ‘The One,’ was more guarded with his heart. His first impression of Dai was influenced by his reputation as a playboy, especially reinforced by Alan’s arrival. Dai himself acknowledged that he used to run away when things got tough, but in the Green Room, he was forced to confront his fears. Certainly, some of Shun’s choices caused Dai pain, which is regrettable, but Shun was always honest with him. When Shun suggested they remain friends, it was because he felt Dai’s feelings were too intense for someone he had just met, making him doubt their genuineness due to his past experiences. However, when Dai took a step back, Shun became more comfortable and began to accept that Dai might truly care for him. Shun initially questioned why Dai would even like him. Other issues, such as Shun not raising his hand to work with Dai (for which he later apologized), showed that he learned the importance of acknowledging not just the choice but the impact that choice had on someone’s feelings. The incident with the t-shirt, though it might seem minor to others, was significant for Shun-it was his way of expressing love, and when Dai didn’t wear it, he felt rejected. While some of Shun’s actions hurt Dai, love isn’t always neatly packaged-it often comes with challenges and growth. By the end of their journey, Shun was certain about his feelings for Dai and was the one to suggest dating after the show ended. Now, seeing how both have grown over the past 10 months is truly remarkable! Shun’s love has made him more open and affectionate, while Dai’s love and patience have made him more confident in expressing himself. Dai is flourishing in this love, and Shun is protective over him. People can judge Shun as they wish, but the reality is that Dai fell first, and Shun fell even harder. May their love continue to blossom and make a positive impact on the world!
Ikr I will not have that patience but dai really is keep on coming back but I like the he said “don’t take for granted that I will be always coming back “I small little heart I never saw a manly man but so cute at the same time
It’s a defense mechanism. Shuns personality type needs someone with Dai’s personality to be strong enough to deal with him. He will push until they walk away and then he will say to himself see? Everyone I love leaves me in the end. Dai staying proves to Shu that he is lovable to himself and others. Dai is very strong and mature to get that. Once the honeymoon phase wears off I hope Dai will stay strong enough to stay ❤️
Yes it's true.... I need people to stop defending every decision or reaction of shun..... Dai feeling matters too I truly feel bad for him.... I love both and at the end of the day they're together so I hope both understand eo feelings and live together forever❤
Ngl while watching the show I was about to throw hands. But after it’s ended and know the entire shun and Dai dynamic, it’s cute how he wanted attention but couldn’t ask for it so he was pushing him more. Idk how to explain this but I’m also kinda like shun but less meaner and a little more holding back the words type 😭🤣
Cast and Crew of the Program The Boyfriend you were absolutely Amazing 😍❤❤❤❤ thank you wish for a second program of the Boyfriend Guys you are really amazing thank you very much Love 💕 from South Africa
As much as I love them together now, Dai's situation was extremely hard to watch. Watching him fight day in and day out and getting rejected the way he did hurt. 😢 People excuse Shun's behavior, and perhaps some day I will understand... but part of me hated knowing that many viewers thought it was okay to act that way. I could only think many excused it because he's a handsome person. I know he has some pretty bad trauma in his life, but he's been in love before and has been hurt. He has experienced not having family around as well. So he knows the feeling of being tugged around constantly and the feeling of rejection. It burns a hole through your heart. I hope they remain healthy, in love, and respect each other for lifetimes to come.
I was feeling the same way but if you tried to defend Dai or said anything about Shun’s behavior, then people started saying you hated Shun and I was like: what?😂😂😂 The reason so many thought it was ok is because I think a lot of these people are very young and can’t be objective when it comes to Shun. They don’t seem to understand you can like someone but not everything they say or do. I was actually shocked at the way Shun treated Dai on the show and even more shocked that Dai allowed it and kept coming back! I don’t think any of the other cast members would have put up with that. Even the panelists on the show were surprised at his behavior towards Dai. But, I don’t think Shun knew how to handle his feelings for Dai and as I got to understand him better he was just very blunt - not excusing his behavior. I don’t think he was trying to be malicious but he and Dai were total opposites. But, somehow, it all worked out in the end.
Istg, he’s so funny. When he said he needed space from ‘that person’ ikuo was just looking between them like a third wheel. The whole The Boyfriend show was just everyone third wheeling DaiShun
Oh my God,afterI watched all the episodes of The Boyfriend so I understand why I'm still single, it turns out I have the same personality as Shun, maybe even worse, I want to find a Dai in my life 😊
I think he has insecure attachment style. I do. Everyone I loved kept dying, disappearing or breaking my heart so by 22 I just stopped trusting relationships. I hope I can change and find a Dai as well.
Shun had Dai wrapped around his little finger. And Dai is absolutely happy being wrapped around Shun's pinky finger and dancing to his tunes. It is probably true ALL PERFECT MEN ARE GAY. Where should straight girls go to find such men?
Shun’s treatment of Dai in these videos was NOT funny and it’s amazing people think him being rude and humiliating Dai in front of others is. If Dai had acted that way to Shun you’d be all over him. All Shun did was show he was petty and insensitive and to see him now all over Dai is sickening at times. Dai once said if he’d met Shun somewhere else he’d have left him. Acting like a school girl because Dai didn’t wear a t-shirt like his cheating ex!
Shun: I need some space.
Others: from us?
Shun: from that person.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂was hilarious 😂😂😂😂😂
Shun best words is " it's a hassle _ 😂😂
Yes! Honestly haven’t seen much people appreciating the humour that is Shun!! I’m sure the cameras and edits made him out to be more of a princess than he really is. Also with that face card he can literally get away with bad behaviour lol
I agree. And I think it's actually heartbreaking to know how many people judge him just to see 10hrs or whatever of month. Also everybody praises Dai how amazing,capable he is, so I don't understand why people judge somebody who he chose and actually spend time with.
Some comments seem to suggest that Dai and Shun were an official couple at the time, but that wasn’t the case-they were exploring their feelings. It’s important to remember that everyone approaches love differently, with varying personalities and paces. While Dai was immediately drawn to Shun, Shun, being serious about finding ‘The One,’ was more guarded with his heart. His first impression of Dai was influenced by his reputation as a playboy, especially reinforced by Alan’s arrival. Dai himself acknowledged that he used to run away when things got tough, but in the Green Room, he was forced to confront his fears.
Certainly, some of Shun’s choices caused Dai pain, which is regrettable, but Shun was always honest with him. When Shun suggested they remain friends, it was because he felt Dai’s feelings were too intense for someone he had just met, making him doubt their genuineness due to his past experiences. However, when Dai took a step back, Shun became more comfortable and began to accept that Dai might truly care for him. Shun initially questioned why Dai would even like him.
Other issues, such as Shun not raising his hand to work with Dai (for which he later apologized), showed that he learned the importance of acknowledging not just the choice but the impact that choice had on someone’s feelings. The incident with the t-shirt, though it might seem minor to others, was significant for Shun-it was his way of expressing love, and when Dai didn’t wear it, he felt rejected.
While some of Shun’s actions hurt Dai, love isn’t always neatly packaged-it often comes with challenges and growth. By the end of their journey, Shun was certain about his feelings for Dai and was the one to suggest dating after the show ended. Now, seeing how both have grown over the past 10 months is truly remarkable! Shun’s love has made him more open and affectionate, while Dai’s love and patience have made him more confident in expressing himself. Dai is flourishing in this love, and Shun is protective over him.
People can judge Shun as they wish, but the reality is that Dai fell first, and Shun fell even harder. May their love continue to blossom and make a positive impact on the world!
Loving your comment❤
"he will choose me" this line I was like, isn't it from playfull kiss kdrama dialogue 😂😂😂😂😂
If you put yourself to Dai's shoes, some of these are rather heartbreaking than funny. 🥺
Exactly
Ikr I will not have that patience but dai really is keep on coming back but I like the he said “don’t take for granted that I will be always coming back “I small little heart I never saw a manly man but so cute at the same time
I honestly would have cried a bit if someone i liked was avoiding me 🥲
It’s a defense mechanism. Shuns personality type needs someone with Dai’s personality to be strong enough to deal with him. He will push until they walk away and then he will say to himself see? Everyone I love leaves me in the end. Dai staying proves to Shu that he is lovable to himself and others. Dai is very strong and mature to get that. Once the honeymoon phase wears off I hope Dai will stay strong enough to stay ❤️
Yes it's true.... I need people to stop defending every decision or reaction of shun..... Dai feeling matters too I truly feel bad for him.... I love both and at the end of the day they're together so I hope both understand eo feelings and live together forever❤
Ngl while watching the show I was about to throw hands. But after it’s ended and know the entire shun and Dai dynamic, it’s cute how he wanted attention but couldn’t ask for it so he was pushing him more. Idk how to explain this but I’m also kinda like shun but less meaner and a little more holding back the words type 😭🤣
Cast and Crew of the Program The Boyfriend you were absolutely Amazing 😍❤❤❤❤ thank you wish for a second program of the Boyfriend Guys you are really amazing thank you very much Love 💕 from South Africa
These 2 made me laugh so much!😅😂
As much as I love them together now, Dai's situation was extremely hard to watch. Watching him fight day in and day out and getting rejected the way he did hurt. 😢 People excuse Shun's behavior, and perhaps some day I will understand... but part of me hated knowing that many viewers thought it was okay to act that way. I could only think many excused it because he's a handsome person. I know he has some pretty bad trauma in his life, but he's been in love before and has been hurt. He has experienced not having family around as well. So he knows the feeling of being tugged around constantly and the feeling of rejection. It burns a hole through your heart. I hope they remain healthy, in love, and respect each other for lifetimes to come.
I was feeling the same way but if you tried to defend Dai or said anything about Shun’s behavior, then people started saying you hated Shun and I was like: what?😂😂😂
The reason so many thought it was ok is because I think a lot of these people are very young and can’t be objective when it comes to Shun. They don’t seem to understand you can like someone but not everything they say or do.
I was actually shocked at the way Shun treated Dai on the show and even more shocked that Dai allowed it and kept coming back! I don’t think any of the other cast members would have put up with that.
Even the panelists on the show were surprised at his behavior towards Dai.
But, I don’t think Shun knew how to handle his feelings for Dai and as I got to understand him better he was just very blunt - not excusing his behavior. I don’t think he was trying to be malicious but he and Dai were total opposites. But, somehow, it all worked out in the end.
Shun is adorable 😍
Funny how shun wanted space at 2:22 but ain't giving it to Dai anymore currently😂😂😂
That's make them very INFp and INTJ. Making them the golden couple since this MBTI coupling are rare to happen.
Istg, he’s so funny. When he said he needed space from ‘that person’ ikuo was just looking between them like a third wheel. The whole The Boyfriend show was just everyone third wheeling DaiShun
He is sooooo gorgeous it’s ok to act that way 👌🤣
Oh my God,afterI watched all the episodes of The Boyfriend so I understand why I'm still single, it turns out I have the same personality as Shun, maybe even worse, I want to find a Dai in my life 😊
I think he has insecure attachment style. I do. Everyone I loved kept dying, disappearing or breaking my heart so by 22 I just stopped trusting relationships. I hope I can change and find a Dai as well.
Funny that everyone knew a thing as silly as t-shirt would get him mad.
where can i watch this?
Shun had Dai wrapped around his little finger. And Dai is absolutely happy being wrapped around Shun's pinky finger and dancing to his tunes.
It is probably true ALL PERFECT MEN ARE GAY. Where should straight girls go to find such men?
Very INFP!
Shun’s treatment of Dai in these videos was NOT funny and it’s amazing people think him being rude and humiliating Dai in front of others is. If Dai had acted that way to Shun you’d be all over him.
All Shun did was show he was petty and insensitive and to see him now all over Dai is sickening at times. Dai once said if he’d met Shun somewhere else he’d have left him. Acting like a school girl because Dai didn’t wear a t-shirt like his cheating ex!