They were very uncomfortable with Rachel at the beginning, it's like they were told to be easy on her. Rachel needed Amanda Seals. But great job Jeannie for getting her to admit
Rachel trying to challenge Tamera about being biracial was so outta pocket. Tamera has a white father and a dark skin Black mother and she owns it, you two are not the same Rachel!
Tamera doesn’t own it, though. She only refers to herself as a black woman, and got pissed at Loni when Loni had mentioned that Tahj was half black and not just “black”.
@@parisgreen6737 you can’t “act” white and who cares on the color of the person she marries? What I said is true. She considers her marriage “interracial” which, its not because she, again, is half white, and calls her children black -_- and whenever referring to herself, is almost always as black unless referring back to her roots.
Come on Jeannie with the "what box would you check" question and getting Rachel's admission out of her. Proud of the ladies for even accepting this interview, it made headlines after it originally aired.
@@lindarodriguez8225 because it only works one way. If it’s a universal feeling everyone could do. If I check a box that say white and I walk in the building dark asf there’s an issue.
Hi edagdwg knowing you are a real white person you can't change that useing black to get were you want to get what you want sad you lied tell the truth she is still doing it Linda j. Peace sad She didn't like hearing Loni saying her baby would be black sad.Linda .peace
Hi edagdwg after she have her baby she will say what ever he wants to be is up to them boy or girl sad god is real can't run from yourself Linda j. Peace
You can’t just identify as being black because you feel like it. Me as a dark skin black woman cannot just identify as white when I want to have certain jobs, if I get pulled over by the cops, etc. Or even coz I’ve been raised around them my whole life, it doesn’t work like that. I really wish they had stronger opinions as they do in the later seasons in this interview coz they were definitely holding back a bit. Or even an Amanda Seales, coz chileeee!! 😒
@@jadeconstantine699 lol, same as a biological man wears a fake boobs and say i identify as a woman and you cheer for him and call him a she. Both are fake and not biologically born with that gender or race, why accept one and not the other when both as fake as each other?
@@lindarodriguez8225 how is it mean? Many people want to identify with being black for cultural purposes but do not want to endure our pain nor agony. They can go back to being whatever race they identified with before but I will always be black period. I am a brown skin black woman and I can’t identify as anything different if I wanted to.
@@CherenaDPPain & agony??? We're in the year 2023! Not trying to sound ignorant but u can't compare the way things were back then to now. True, ethnically u can't, but if u feel better identifying as a different race why not? Trans women identify as women when they're actually men
@@lindarodriguez8225 exactly pain, agony, and unfair treatment is still effective today. I’m not sure what you identify with but if you are not a black woman you can’t identify nor justify our experience through a perspective that you believe of what’s fair and what’s not. What’s Changed and what’s not. Sure we had a painful past but many of those things are still implemented today (ie social injustice, gentrification, etc). Read a newspaper, watch the news. Look how black woman are still paid less than a white woman. In conclusion because I don’t have time to walk you through the black experience, the person with the experience (ME) is not at the mercy of the person with the argument (YOU) My experience validates my feelings and why I said exactly what I said.
@@CherenaDPThe pain, agony, & unfair treatment was ages ago though. The African American community has evolved & u guys don't get treated like before. I'm Latina. What about Black Lives Matter? If u guys were still treated that way, Black Lives Matter wouldn't even exist. Black women are paid less?? Where do u live?? I do watch the news. News from this generation. U probably watch news from the 90's where those things were around. Why you're so angry from what I said I have no idea.
she cant win either way. claiming another race is considered "racist" while claiming proud to be white will more than likely get her called "racist". I think she was ashamed of her roots. While on the fake they tell her to embrace her roots, the REAL world will constantly remind her how evil her roots are.
tamera: just get out !! she is me 😭😂 like it really is THAT simple unless you got a gun being held to your head. too many people are in relationships with partners they can’t stand, who do things they don’t like, when they can literally just leave. y’all be choosing misery.
@@marcibailey6839 maybe not always but most of the time it is, like i said unless it’s an abusive situation. any attachment, emotional or mental, that you have for a person can be broken. and i don’t wanna hear “what about the kids” and marriage..
@marcibailey6839 it is though. Unless you're in an abusive relationship. Even if you have kids you can leave. If they're the breadwinner you can find a job
Right, smh like we a damn costume or unreal.. cosplay tuhhh like they treated us. We weren't even considered human at one point, but cattle. Chal... So much insanity, delusion and disrespect. She damn sure wouldn't be treated like us, she needs to be committed & this is literally white privilege the fact that she is even president of the the organization 🤢🤕 Ppl like her and those who allow this are soooooooo exhausting
Right, smh like we a damn costume or unreal.. tuhhh like they treated us. We weren't even considered human , but cattle. Chal... So much insanity, delusion & disrespect .. she needs to be committed & it's even crazier she's the president of the NAACP , that is white privilege at its finest, tf 🤦🏾♀️
Rachel needs to realize she can be more effective as an ally than she can as identifying as a black woman. If she would just say “ hey I’m white but I really enjoy AM culture” she would get more support.
They really delegitimized open relationships & they ppl that r happy in them. Not ever open relationship is bore from distain, obligation, cheating, or fear of leaving. Also, Loni was describing a polygamist relationship, not an open one.
Open relationships, You just have to make sure you have love and be in love with each other, that’s just it. It’s really boils down to communication, and respect. And if everyone involved wants to make it work then be together then they’ll find a way and be together.
Open relatioship will never work. Humans are not made for this kind of relationship concept . Humans need security and protection to have kids (biological goal)
Its insane to me they feel its ok to keep reminding rachel " you were born biologically white " , but its not ok to keep reminding a trans person "you were born biologically man/female". The hipocrisy. Lol. It amazes me how people pick and choose what to be angry at.
Well, in order to transition, you have to have a therapist sign you off, you can’t do that with your race. She chose to lie, and pretend and didn’t physically put in the work like a trans person has.
@@mykoniichistorychannel thats not true. there are plenty of people who have transitioned without therapy. Trans people also lie and pretend by disguise before surgery.
Truth just be honest about it how they feel give us your truth and we would pl accept we are all beautiful ppl,we were created to love and embrace,so naturally we will accept it
It’s not like she wasting it or doing messed up things she’s actually claiming to be black and educating people and making something of her self while claiming to be black
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I kind of feel bad for Rachel. I think she has severe identity issues and it’s deep. She finds herself more accepted by the black community and apart of it. I think that’s beautiful but obviously she could never walk in a black woman’s shoes and I think that’s the point. I hope one day she accepts herself for who she is.
An open relationship will never ever work! The only logical concept would be marriage. With the addition that the husband is able to marry a second, third wife only with the consent of the first wife! men have special urgent while woman can live be 40 years without a man. To prevent infidelity thats the most logical and beste solution, because the responsibility and commitment are is there
Question Ma'am: This is in English for your team, why does each Tribe have a language under one Tribe in Religion or Business in North America. Can you Respect each of your teammates beyond this Podcast?
She is mixed.she may have Caucasian by birth but she is Black . Are her parents really her biological parents. Lonnie cool down Dont get so aggressive. 18:23
They have a very huge misunderstanding on what an open relationship is and why people engage in them. It's not for everyone but also it's clear that they simply just don't understand it. Commitment is still there, boundaries are still there LOVE is still there. People don't engage in them because they don't want the other person. Not saying that never happened, but those who do it for that reason give open relationships a bad rep.
@@lindarodriguez8225 its not about wanting someone else. People in healthy ORs still experience the love your referring to. Their deep love for one another isn't centered around sex or possession of a partner. A lot goes into an OR. People know when they are really in love. Only the people experiencing the love know how real it is. It's not for you to decide the state of their experience just because its not the kind of relationship you understand, or the type of relationship for you.
@@selinacox2404It's not possession of a partner at all. Being monogamous Is respect! Love is meant for 2 people not 3. Ever heard of the saying "if you're in love with 2 people at once, choose the 2nd one, because if u really were in love with the first, u wouldn't feel the need to fall in love with the 2nd?" if they really "know" when they're in love then they wouldn't feel the need to have an open relationship. I'm not trying to decide. Just expressing my opinion. Aren't I allowed to do that?
@Linda Rodriguez There is respect and boundaries in open relationships too. Sex and love are different things. And there are a lot of sayings out there, doesn't make them the default or the only correct option. Just because a saying exists, doesnt make it true or universal. But You did decide. You said that if you really love someone you wouldn't want an open relationship meaning you alluded to the idea that if anyone is in an OR, they don't truly love their partner. That may be true for someone in a monogamous relationships, but you can't take the constraints/boundaries of a monogamous relationship and apply them to an OR. You can'tt disrespect someone by having more then one sexual partner IF that value aligns with your current partner. You're taking ideology from monogomy and trying to apply it to ORs. Repect, boundaries, love all exist in healthy ORs is just not defined by holding one sexual partner. Again sex and love are not the same. In a monogamous relationship you set a boundary stating you are eachothers only partner. Therefore, having another would be disrespectful. However if two consenting adults agree that they are ok with having multiple partners that boundary isn't broken, therefore there was no disrespect made. However other boundaries can exist and if those boundaries are broken then that's disrespectful. Boundries in an OR are different depending on the type of OR and the people involved. But for example one boundry might be that the couple can have multiple sexual partners, but not with complete strangers. (Just an example). If a partner in that OR breaks that boundry, that disrespectful/cheating. There is ALOT of trust that is needed for ORs. You may not get it, and thats ok they just aren't for you, but that doesn't give you the right to say that they don't work, or the love really isn't there. It's there, it's just not for you. And that's ok.
I don't like or never have been in a open relationship it's not for me but you born white but you identify as black that is insane too me how is this soooo 11/22/22 ????
Today I actually have to say that if we can accept and allow a man to “identify” as a woman. Then I don’t think anyone should criticize Rachel Dolezal for “identifying” as a black. I think it was an issue because of her race and the history of black people. But woman also have strong history and a man shouldn’t be allowed to identify as one and not go through what we have to on a daily basis.
Totally unrelated. Gender is our internal sense of self, whether that be man, woman, neither or both. Unlike gender, race is physical traits that are socially constructed and understood. You can’t inherit your gender, this is internal and something individual to you but you do inherit the social construct of race. There is also much more to one’s racial identity than physical appearance , it’s also about culture, community, connection and even trauma. Someone cannot make themself more likely to experience the intergenerational health and economic impact of systemic racism simply by identifying as Black
@@gabyirigoyen2836 You do realize "race" is ACTUALLY an entirely manmade concept, right? The race is human, we are all in it. There is only one race. Being black, white, yellow etc etc was made to categorize everyone as much as possible so they could be judged a certain way (mainly in the U.S). Go to other places in the world and ask them if they're white, they might not even understand the question. Also, to your point about it being "so much more" than appearance. The exact same could be said about being a man or a woman. A woman could never know what it's like to have testicular or prostate cancer the same way a man could never know what it's like to have a period. A woman will never know what it's like to be assumed to be a predator or someone with ill-intentions simply for being a man and so on and so forth.
@@gabyirigoyen2836 Completely incorrect. We all have male or female body parts that determines our gender. Your gender is determined from birth. You can't just decide whether you want to be male or female contrary to what our messed up society is saying. Anyone who does is trying to play God.
I love you Tamera but sometimes you be trying to act TOO wholesome, you know damn well you know what swingers are🤣🤣🤦🏽♀️ you might not have actually met them in person but cmon you've heard about it or saw on TV or something
I know that this is an old episode but as an older woman who was born with both physical and developmental disabilities I wouldn't have an issue with being in an open relationship simply because I'd want my partner to be as happy as possible and if that involves him having numerous side chicks then so be it
people comparing her to trans people need to realize: for reasons we dont yet fully understand, during the pregnancy, the fetuses brain developed according to the opposite gender of the fetuses body. this happens because the brain develops in the earliest stages of pregnancy, and the outer sexual organs develop later. mri scans show that. and since you can change the body/appearance and cant change the brain, there is only one way to achieve an alignment of the brain structure and the body.
This doesn't apply because there's nothing biological about gender, it's entirely a social construct. So the brain isn't developing opposite to anything
I understand what everyone is saying about Rachael but I think its very hypocritical to come down so hard on a white women identifying herself as black meanwhile many men and women are out there identifying themselves as the opposite gender and or none at all calling themselves they, them and non binary what is the difference??? I know she has white skin but I know two bi-racial people who are basically her color way lighter than me and I’m Hispanic… black people come in all shades look at Mariah Carey. I’m not saying she should or shouldn’t call herself black I’m just calling out the hypocrisy…
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“Yeah but which one you check tho?” 😂😂😂 Tamar ain’t wit the long winded educated and elaborate responses ma’am! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
They were very uncomfortable with Rachel at the beginning, it's like they were told to be easy on her. Rachel needed Amanda Seals. But great job Jeannie for getting her to admit
Amanda would have made that lady cry
I agree with up top she’d be bawling😂😂😂😂I wish they had guest co-hosts at this time
LOL Amanda would have gathered her
If she's happier that way, so be it
Ok Amanda would’ve read her ass from A to Z!!!
Loni, Tamar and Tamera absolutely CHECKED her!! Jeannie and Adrienne also supported so well! Great stuff ladies!!
Jeanie was really keeping Tamar calm 😂❤
For real, Tamar wanted TO GET HER ASS. 😂
Rachel trying to challenge Tamera about being biracial was so outta pocket. Tamera has a white father and a dark skin Black mother and she owns it, you two are not the same Rachel!
and I
and I'm glad Tamera let her know what it was.
Tamera doesn’t own it, though. She only refers to herself as a black woman, and got pissed at Loni when Loni had mentioned that Tahj was half black and not just “black”.
my exact thought!!!
@@hannahwalmer1124she married a white man and acts as white as can be…be Fr
@@parisgreen6737 you can’t “act” white and who cares on the color of the person she marries?
What I said is true. She considers her marriage “interracial” which, its not because she, again, is half white, and calls her children black -_- and whenever referring to herself, is almost always as black unless referring back to her roots.
Come on Jeannie with the "what box would you check" question and getting Rachel's admission out of her. Proud of the ladies for even accepting this interview, it made headlines after it originally aired.
Why? It's really not that different from being trans. Ethnically yes, but it deals with the same issue
@@lindarodriguez8225 because it’s lying
@@Eleven1of1How?
@@lindarodriguez8225 because it only works one way. If it’s a universal feeling everyone could do. If I check a box that say white and I walk in the building dark asf there’s an issue.
@@Eleven1of1 this lady is literally arguing with everyone on an issue everyone sees wrong except for her smh
I DIED laughing about the expressions they made when rachel said that the police wrote black on them tickets😂😂🤣🤣specially TT got me cracked up
I mean, if a transgender female can identify as female why not a white girl identify as black girl? 🤷
Tamera screeching “ JUST GET OUT ”took me out!! 😂😂😂😂😂
“hi Towanda, don’t be mad at me, you spilled the tea, I’m just repeating it” 😅😭
The audience silence was so louddddd until she said both her parents were white😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Tamar is fuming. I can't blame her. She is dancing around every question. I am surprised she even accepted coming on the show.
Tamar: “yea but which one you check tho?” 😭🤣
Tamar was about to slap Rachel
Hi edagdwg knowing you are a real white person you can't change that useing black to get were you want to get what you want sad you lied tell the truth she is still doing it Linda j. Peace sad She didn't like hearing Loni saying her baby would be black sad.Linda .peace
Hi edagdwg after she have her baby she will say what ever he wants to be is up to them boy or girl sad god is real can't run from yourself Linda j. Peace
This was a therapy session for Rachel 😂they made her admit she’s white
The Real was great with Tamar on it.
Yes! Can we have her back? :/
it was good but she could have just not bullied the other girls, she was a mean girl
@@Jazmin-ce3dg Your proof?
@@Jazmin-ce3dgmaybe not “ mean “ but definitely wasn’t flattering sometimes but I think that is her “ humor/character “
She be turning around these questions to damn much. Good Job TT. She be like " but what you choose though"
Looking back Tamar and Jeanie didn’t have a problem cause Tamar treats everyone the same 🤣
She never answered their questions because she didn’t want to admit the truth ! But Loni Tamar and Tamera read her her rights.
The audience's adlibs are hilarious when each host asks the question😅😅😅😂😂
TAMAR GIVES SO MUCH LIFE IN THIS EPISODE 😂😂😂😂😂
The Rachel interview was intense 🤭
Good for her though
bruh, tamar pointing to her hand is equal parts annoying and equal parts HILARIOUS lmaoooo
Wow, yall really pulled that interview TOGETHER Wow yup, there's Emmy award winning talent teams
The Rachel Dolezal interview is officially here 🔥🔥🔥
SAME FEELINGS MYRONN ♥️
You can’t just identify as being black because you feel like it. Me as a dark skin black woman cannot just identify as white when I want to have certain jobs, if I get pulled over by the cops, etc. Or even coz I’ve been raised around them my whole life, it doesn’t work like that. I really wish they had stronger opinions as they do in the later seasons in this interview coz they were definitely holding back a bit. Or even an Amanda Seales, coz chileeee!! 😒
She just said the cops assumed she was black and was treating her as such. Y’all don’t hear that part
I AGREE!!!
Trans people identify with the opposite sex because they feel like it, so why not Rachel?
@@Chelsealove316because she is wearing black face which is extremely derogatory.
@@jadeconstantine699 lol, same as a biological man wears a fake boobs and say i identify as a woman and you cheer for him and call him a she.
Both are fake and not biologically born with that gender or race, why accept one and not the other when both as fake as each other?
they were WAAAAY to easy on her.all of them, including rachel, knew she was lying through her teeth for the whole time.
What do u mean?
How about you all just bring back this show online with season 9
Thank you
@@OnlyAl3x yes we need season 9 not recaps
@Silvio Grandal we should Do something about it and try too get them back Do they even Read our comments?
Adrienne says she's not up for another run. She says she'd wanna get replaced.
@@hannahwalmer1124 okay cool Replace her anybody else who wanna go but bring back the show
That interview was chaotic asfffff
How can people argue about her identifying as a different race when they accept people arguing about being a different gender ?!
this!!
Jeannie questions break Rachel to tell her truth hahah
Tamar was like "girl please" side eye 😂
Tamera was definitely tipsy or something here! She’s being really talkative and giggly 😂😂
Rachel identifies as orange.
Lolll!!! This will always be one if my favourite episodes... Tamar, Tamera, Jeannie, everyone with their facial expressions 😂😂.
Loni was so much more friendly and sociable in these earlier seasons
I miss this panel! Tamera and Tamar. And Garcelle was and still amazing. Everyone is just amazing
None of us have to identify it ourselves as black or white. It’s how people perceive us however, she didn’t correct peoples assumptions.
Tamars face at 17:32! LOL
Lonnie looking at Racheal like she stole a couple shade of black from her skin .Ridiculous!!!!!!!🤣🤣🤣
"some times what you feels is more important as what you born..." No! its not
you should say in the title that this includes the rachel dolezal interview as well, many more would click and watch
Nah sis!! You can say you white PERIOD!! No need to identify with us
That's mean. If trans people can identify with the opposite sex, why not for a different race?
@@lindarodriguez8225 how is it mean? Many people want to identify with being black for cultural purposes but do not want to endure our pain nor agony. They can go back to being whatever race they identified with before but I will always be black period. I am a brown skin black woman and I can’t identify as anything different if I wanted to.
@@CherenaDPPain & agony??? We're in the year 2023! Not trying to sound ignorant but u can't compare the way things were back then to now. True, ethnically u can't, but if u feel better identifying as a different race why not? Trans women identify as women when they're actually men
@@lindarodriguez8225 exactly pain, agony, and unfair treatment is still effective today. I’m not sure what you identify with but if you are not a black woman you can’t identify nor justify our experience through a perspective that you believe of what’s fair and what’s not. What’s Changed and what’s not. Sure we had a painful past but many of those things are still implemented today (ie social injustice, gentrification, etc). Read a newspaper, watch the news. Look how black woman are still paid less than a white woman. In conclusion because I don’t have time to walk you through the black experience, the person with the experience (ME) is not at the mercy of the person with the argument (YOU) My experience validates my feelings and why I said exactly what I said.
@@CherenaDPThe pain, agony, & unfair treatment was ages ago though. The African American community has evolved & u guys don't get treated like before. I'm Latina. What about Black Lives Matter? If u guys were still treated that way, Black Lives Matter wouldn't even exist. Black women are paid less?? Where do u live?? I do watch the news. News from this generation. U probably watch news from the 90's where those things were around. Why you're so angry from what I said I have no idea.
so self identity does not apply racially, but it does apply to gender?
tamar is funny as hell for the stripper comment.
She was ahead of her time. Now a days everyone identify as any & everything.
At least, I don’t have any friends or couples that are in open relationships nor have any experiences.
I’m only watching because TAMAR IS IN THE BUILDING
“Loni so I guess the baby is black” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Is it just me or what cuz I feel so bad for her, I get her point but also understand where people is coming…it’s just…idk I just feel for her.
I feel for her because just like trans people she wasn't happy with who she was. I get why she compared her situation with trans :/
she cant win either way. claiming another race is considered "racist" while claiming proud to be white will more than likely get her called "racist". I think she was ashamed of her roots. While on the fake they tell her to embrace her roots, the REAL world will constantly remind her how evil her roots are.
tamera: just get out !!
she is me 😭😂 like it really is THAT simple unless you got a gun being held to your head. too many people are in relationships with partners they can’t stand, who do things they don’t like, when they can literally just leave. y’all be choosing misery.
It’s not always simple
@@marcibailey6839 maybe not always but most of the time it is, like i said unless it’s an abusive situation. any attachment, emotional or mental, that you have for a person can be broken. and i don’t wanna hear “what about the kids” and marriage..
it’s just that people would rather sit and go through it instead of changing the situation..toxic
@marcibailey6839 it is though. Unless you're in an abusive relationship. Even if you have kids you can leave. If they're the breadwinner you can find a job
Another great episode of the real my opinion about an open relationship is no no and no no thank you very much
Same! Call me ole fashion
14:03 - That’s Right, Jeannie 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AMEN 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Being black isn't a feeling.
Right, smh like we a damn costume or unreal.. cosplay tuhhh like they treated us. We weren't even considered human at one point, but cattle. Chal... So much insanity, delusion and disrespect. She damn sure wouldn't be treated like us, she needs to be committed & this is literally white privilege the fact that she is even president of the the organization 🤢🤕 Ppl like her and those who allow this are soooooooo exhausting
Right, smh like we a damn costume or unreal.. tuhhh like they treated us. We weren't even considered human , but cattle. Chal... So much insanity, delusion & disrespect .. she needs to be committed & it's even crazier she's the president of the NAACP , that is white privilege at its finest, tf 🤦🏾♀️
Rachel needs to realize she can be more effective as an ally than she can as identifying as a black woman. If she would just say “ hey I’m white but I really enjoy AM culture” she would get more support.
They really delegitimized open relationships & they ppl that r happy in them. Not ever open relationship is bore from distain, obligation, cheating, or fear of leaving. Also, Loni was describing a polygamist relationship, not an open one.
Open relationships, You just have to make sure you have love and be in love with each other, that’s just it.
It’s really boils down to communication, and respect. And if everyone involved wants to make it work then be together then they’ll find a way and be together.
Open relatioship will never work. Humans are not made for this kind of relationship concept . Humans need security and protection to have kids (biological goal)
Its insane to me they feel its ok to keep reminding rachel " you were born biologically white " , but its not ok to keep reminding a trans person "you were born biologically man/female". The hipocrisy. Lol. It amazes me how people pick and choose what to be angry at.
Well, in order to transition, you have to have a therapist sign you off, you can’t do that with your race. She chose to lie, and pretend and didn’t physically put in the work like a trans person has.
@@mykoniichistorychannel thats not true. there are plenty of people who have transitioned without therapy. Trans people also lie and pretend by disguise before surgery.
Exactly
“We don’t like each other anymore”. “Cheating is inevitable”, “Im just raising my kids and already knew it was going to get old.”
I like relationships but I don’t let it get serious.
She never dealt with the struggle.... She needs a reality check frfr
I think it works if you're long distance
Give us season 9 online please
14:37 tamar always makes me laugh.
Truth just be honest about it how they feel give us your truth and we would pl accept we are all beautiful ppl,we were created to love and embrace,so naturally we will accept it
27:28 LONIIII!!!
she did not like that!!😭😭
Am done, it's the beginning of the end from here
She should of just said I know I'm not black I just wish I was lol
People like Rachel Dolezal really pissed me off smh
I loved this season.
Would they ask this kind of thing to a Transgender??
Love ❤ the show ladies
Tamar handled this conversation very well.
It’s not like she wasting it or doing messed up things she’s actually claiming to be black and educating people and making something of her self while claiming to be black
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I don't care about state of mind just as long as I don't get Nossie ones to see what up Nossie.😎😃
I kind of feel bad for Rachel. I think she has severe identity issues and it’s deep. She finds herself more accepted by the black community and apart of it. I think that’s beautiful but obviously she could never walk in a black woman’s shoes and I think that’s the point. I hope one day she accepts herself for who she is.
But we don’t accept her though cause we know she’s a fraud .
An open relationship will never ever work! The only logical concept would be marriage. With the addition that the husband is able to marry a second, third wife only with the consent of the first wife! men have special urgent while woman
can live be 40 years without a man. To prevent infidelity thats the most logical and beste solution, because the responsibility and commitment are is there
Middle Eastern men do it 😆
Question Ma'am: This is in English for your team, why does each Tribe have a language under one Tribe in Religion or Business in North America. Can you Respect each of your teammates beyond this Podcast?
Yeah they clearly didn’t know all the topics 😂the all know their alter ego names without a second thought
She is mixed.she may have Caucasian by birth but she is Black .
Are her parents really her biological parents.
Lonnie cool down
Dont get so aggressive. 18:23
I couldnt do an open marriage.. i dont get how ppl can be in one but thats just me...
They were all so cute! This is during the time I loved this show. And I love Tamar with dark hair. She looks much younger
I actually understand her!
You all look amazing 0:52 😀
They have a very huge misunderstanding on what an open relationship is and why people engage in them. It's not for everyone but also it's clear that they simply just don't understand it. Commitment is still there, boundaries are still there LOVE is still there. People don't engage in them because they don't want the other person. Not saying that never happened, but those who do it for that reason give open relationships a bad rep.
When you're REALLY in love, u should never want someone else :/
@@lindarodriguez8225 its not about wanting someone else. People in healthy ORs still experience the love your referring to. Their deep love for one another isn't centered around sex or possession of a partner. A lot goes into an OR. People know when they are really in love. Only the people experiencing the love know how real it is. It's not for you to decide the state of their experience just because its not the kind of relationship you understand, or the type of relationship for you.
@@selinacox2404It's not possession of a partner at all. Being monogamous Is respect! Love is meant for 2 people not 3. Ever heard of the saying "if you're in love with 2 people at once, choose the 2nd one, because if u really were in love with the first, u wouldn't feel the need to fall in love with the 2nd?" if they really "know" when they're in love then they wouldn't feel the need to have an open relationship. I'm not trying to decide. Just expressing my opinion. Aren't I allowed to do that?
@Linda Rodriguez There is respect and boundaries in open relationships too. Sex and love are different things. And there are a lot of sayings out there, doesn't make them the default or the only correct option. Just because a saying exists, doesnt make it true or universal. But You did decide. You said that if you really love someone you wouldn't want an open relationship meaning you alluded to the idea that if anyone is in an OR, they don't truly love their partner. That may be true for someone in a monogamous relationships, but you can't take the constraints/boundaries of a monogamous relationship and apply them to an OR. You can'tt disrespect someone by having more then one sexual partner IF that value aligns with your current partner. You're taking ideology from monogomy and trying to apply it to ORs. Repect, boundaries, love all exist in healthy ORs is just not defined by holding one sexual partner. Again sex and love are not the same. In a monogamous relationship you set a boundary stating you are eachothers only partner. Therefore, having another would be disrespectful. However if two consenting adults agree that they are ok with having multiple partners that boundary isn't broken, therefore there was no disrespect made. However other boundaries can exist and if those boundaries are broken then that's disrespectful. Boundries in an OR are different depending on the type of OR and the people involved. But for example one boundry might be that the couple can have multiple sexual partners, but not with complete strangers. (Just an example). If a partner in that OR breaks that boundry, that disrespectful/cheating. There is ALOT of trust that is needed for ORs. You may not get it, and thats ok they just aren't for you, but that doesn't give you the right to say that they don't work, or the love really isn't there. It's there, it's just not for you. And that's ok.
Rachel isn't appealing to me I had to fast forward it bothered me
Ms. Tamar!! Not the stripper names!!!! 😩
When THE REAL fired Tamar, the show went downhill, for REAL.
it really didn't. they won an Emmy and ended in 2020? they went down AFTER Tamera left not Tamar.
I don't like or never have been in a open relationship it's not for me but you born white but you identify as black that is insane too me how is this soooo 11/22/22 ????
She's happier that way. Shouldn't we all have the right to be happy even if it's a different race/sex than us?
She ain’t disrespecting them
Today I actually have to say that if we can accept and allow a man to “identify” as a woman. Then I don’t think anyone should criticize Rachel Dolezal for “identifying” as a black. I think it was an issue because of her race and the history of black people. But woman also have strong history and a man shouldn’t be allowed to identify as one and not go through what we have to on a daily basis.
Totally unrelated. Gender is our internal sense of self, whether that be man, woman, neither or both.
Unlike gender, race is physical traits that are socially constructed and understood. You can’t inherit your gender, this is internal and something individual to you but you do inherit the social construct of race. There is also much more to one’s racial identity than physical appearance , it’s also about culture, community, connection and even trauma.
Someone cannot make themself more likely to experience the intergenerational health and economic impact of systemic racism simply by identifying as Black
@@gabyirigoyen2836 periodt
@@gabyirigoyen2836 You do realize "race" is ACTUALLY an entirely manmade concept, right? The race is human, we are all in it. There is only one race. Being black, white, yellow etc etc was made to categorize everyone as much as possible so they could be judged a certain way (mainly in the U.S). Go to other places in the world and ask them if they're white, they might not even understand the question. Also, to your point about it being "so much more" than appearance. The exact same could be said about being a man or a woman. A woman could never know what it's like to have testicular or prostate cancer the same way a man could never know what it's like to have a period. A woman will never know what it's like to be assumed to be a predator or someone with ill-intentions simply for being a man and so on and so forth.
@@hannahwalmer1124 perfectly said
@@gabyirigoyen2836 Completely incorrect. We all have male or female body parts that determines our gender. Your gender is determined from birth. You can't just decide whether you want to be male or female contrary to what our messed up society is saying. Anyone who does is trying to play God.
Amazing artwork
I love you Tamera but sometimes you be trying to act TOO wholesome, you know damn well you know what swingers are🤣🤣🤦🏽♀️ you might not have actually met them in person but cmon you've heard about it or saw on TV or something
If a man can say he is a woman and can define what a women is, why can she identify as black?
I know that this is an old episode but as an older woman who was born with both physical and developmental disabilities I wouldn't have an issue with being in an open relationship simply because I'd want my partner to be as happy as possible and if that involves him having numerous side chicks then so be it
Huney…no
If he has side chicks, he’s cheating. In a open relationship, you have partners.
Idk what Adrienne talking bout if she honest people will embrace her more no I'm not I still think her and other people like her are giving black face
people comparing her to trans people need to realize: for reasons we dont yet fully understand, during the pregnancy, the fetuses brain developed according to the opposite gender of the fetuses body. this happens because the brain develops in the earliest stages of pregnancy, and the outer sexual organs develop later. mri scans show that. and since you can change the body/appearance and cant change the brain, there is only one way to achieve an alignment of the brain structure and the body.
It's ethnically different but deals with the same topic
This doesn't apply because there's nothing biological about gender, it's entirely a social construct. So the brain isn't developing opposite to anything
I understand what everyone is saying about Rachael but I think its very hypocritical to come down so hard on a white women identifying herself as black meanwhile many men and women are out there identifying themselves as the opposite gender and or none at all calling themselves they, them and non binary what is the difference??? I know she has white skin but I know two bi-racial people who are basically her color way lighter than me and I’m Hispanic… black people come in all shades look at Mariah Carey. I’m not saying she should or shouldn’t call herself black I’m just calling out the hypocrisy…
However once you understand you are smart enough to get their game. You go like kindly deal with your mess😀😁😄😅😅🤣😂
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