@@franciscoferraz6788 I’m just saying that in general, modern day women are walking contradictions. They seem to very consistent on one thing……which is say something, but then mean the exact opposite. Women say they want a nice guy but then get turned off and are instantly bored once they do have one, women say they’re fine when they’re actually feeling angry, women get mad as us for having preferences but then it’s ok for them to want a top tier guy that’s in the less than 1% category, women lie even when they’re wrong because they want to win every argument, etc. I can go on and on but I’ll be here all day! And the reason for this is because they’re never held accountable.
Yes, but that isn't what's at contention here Here, the issue is that women WANT a man who loves her BUT treats her indifferently - THIS is what is "Exciting" to women
no, I've seen boring people, they exist. And it's irregardless of whether I'm boring or not. It's largely a question if ppl choose to communicate or not. If all you give is high school, one word replies, and you don't bring interesting questions to the table ...you are socially "boring". You can improve, being social is a skill, but boring ppl certainly exist
@@rohan7212yeah I had that same issue. I even told her she likes toxicity and is toxic herself. So I'm not really shocked that she went away to see this guy again after fighting with him 😂
They do too. My ex told me she wanted to marry have a family life and home with me, but would lambast me for not wasting funds on her, doing frivolous activities, show my care with gifts, and the relationship only seemed going “well” when there was a constant up and down of unhealthy emotions. Point in case she claimed she wanted a healthy growth relationship, but consistently showed everything against that. There are women who do want a healthy growth relationship and their actions show this. But the majority of women SAY they want a healthy stable relationship, but they want that WHILE having turmoil and chaos, which no man of character and value is going to want to be apart of.
It's not possible for a person to be boring. Boredom comes from within the person who is bored. It's a symptom of their own lack of interest or effort.
If you think about it, little kids want everything exciting, etc. all the time from their parents and others. As they get older the levels of excitements decreases gradually, and is harder to get excited about something, and isn't the same when they are 30, compared to when they were 10. Don't focus too much on excitement, focus on bettering yourself, become better, instead of expecting the men to to most to all the work, show most to all men appreciations. Women have to be held very highly accountable until the toxic dating no longer exists and becomes healthy dating, not just in words, but also in practices in motions too, and anything with toxic dating has got to be frowned up on.
No they want your position in life.. Women in this day of age want the man’s role and what he has in position.. If your the type of guy who has something going for you but also very easy for them to get access to than they look at you as an easy pray. Those type of women are reprobated to the maximum power. A righteous woman wants a man that isn’t weak or fall pray to the norms of the world or try to stoop down to the levels of the world by trying to duplicate everything to be secured.. Best way to win the game is to not play it at all.. Choose wisely and substation yourself to true value and don’t go for women who want or envy your position as a man.
The secret to a long-lasting relationship is knowing how to manage and navigate the journey once the honeymoon is over. All relationships are exciting at the beginning but gradually and surely oneday it will reach to the monotonous, boring and predictable phase. Only the relationships of most disciplined, determined, dedicated couples with strong willpower will survive.
What happens is one person or the other stops acknowledging the other persons humanity. You stop seeing one another as humans and instead see one another as things. You lose appreciation and sight of what's most important. And many people do not want to put in the effort to be creative together to keep the spark going and to protect what you held most dear together. People are very selfish and weak but I think that's because selfishness is what we are taught. We're not taught to love properly
I'd add adventurous to that list of traits for longevity. Lots of people are boring and they make for boring couples. And finally, the less jealousy the easier it is to indulge harmless flirtations that let off steam, indulge ego, while being true to any value accurately retained in the primary relationship.
What’s sad is that we are not on earth forever, the fact that they will waste time for someone who wouldn’t choose them over someone who would is frightening.
Exactly. It’s best to learn to be comfortable being single for awhile. You’ll get plenty of suitors anyways if you’re well put together. But it’s up to you to decide if they’re worth wasting your time, money, or seed on. Currently I am single and have multiple would be suitors vying for my time and s3x, but I am against it all at the moment because I see through the looks and see the character and home life and drama and it repulses me. It’s not worth my time to even fornicate with women who I don’t respect or see some promise in. It’s crazy because you know as a young male you feel you’ll never be the man women desire and then when you wake up one day as that men you don’t even want that. You see a lot of these ladies for who they are, and if it wasn’t for their looks, you’d see them for the undisciplined, roller coasters they are. A disciplined, honorable, respectable woman does exist, but it is true there is a lot of journey to find that. The key is to be ok with that taking a while, the key is to be comfortable with that and not sell your self short and give your time or s3x away to these wrecks just because they tickle your fancy looks wise.
@@Adrian-zu6tm Well if men are losing interest in dating that's great news: Less guys to compete with lol. Just because there are a lot of stupid women out there doesn't mean they're all like that. Matter of fact, the worthy girls are the reward for the men who didn't give up on trying to find the right woman. Simple as that. I don't have a wife yet but throughout the years I have moved out of the way of quite a few women who I just didn't consider a good choice. If I just wanted a relationship, I could've jumped in with one of them but then I would be ending on a bad relationship and then complaining that "it's impossible to find genuine mature women" just because I didn't have the balls to wait longer and look better.
Let's flip the script. Only boring people get bored because they don't have the imagination to do something so they aren't bored. So they go for the bad boys whom are narcissistic in nature because they are so boring.
when someone says your boring really that means their a boring person who does not know how to entertain themselves without someone else doing it for them
Anyone else tired of having the (probably) most advanced brain species-wise, but only using it for metaphors and high school level logic? Me too. Stay single.
Facts. I can offer loyalty, attention, consistency and stability because...I have nothing ELSE to offer. By definition all of those things are BORING. I have quit the game.
it wouldn't hurt, as a personal growth thing, and not just for women but for conversations with men as well, to practice becoming more interesting. Doesn't mean you have to be it all the time. But standing out is helpful, as naturally our brains tend to not remember things that are always the same and life would be boring for anyone, if say you always used salt and pepper as your only spices for food. Shake it up occasionally
No they are not…that statement reeks of living in a bubble. Drugs are extremely-dangerous…even marijuana. Have fun taking something, then finding out you have schizophrenia, or something.
You can do anything you want to a woman, but don’t bore her. They are like toddlers mixed with sorority girls. They have to be entertained at all times.
If you’re looking at these lunatics on the net, yes, these woman are incredibly low value and are broken beyond repair. There is something powerful in the idea that a man who is focused on his health, mind and purpose is attractive to a woman. Im currently noticing this at my place of temporary work while pursuing my career as a fire inspector; the two girls that i walked away from without saying a word why are head over heels for me now and one of them is dating a co-worker who’s almost four years younger than her. Stop chasing women who dont show you interest and make it clear on some level that they like you and start looking for the hot girl who does respect and want to be with you
@@Jadty physically attractive is not necessarily a requirement for women. Just look at who they choose… The reason they like bad boys because they march to the beat of their own drum. They don’t follow the rules. They could even be complete morons but they’re always exciting, I was bringing some level of drama. Guys, I think it’s about money or looks are completely ignorant to reality.
@@Jadtythis, you could be Chad who just stays at home all the time and screws her brains out and never goes out because you work minimum wage but at the end of the day you’re still Chad.
As someone who has had many ups but even more downs in life, predictable and stable sounds good to me. These kinds of women are just like spoiled brats. If their lives were actually difficult, they wouldn't be pining for additional adversity.
0:34 it's like saying that taking a candy it's not because you want some sweet taste but the unpredictability if it will taste sweet or salty or something else. It's amazing the mental gymnastic of toxic people.
It would be like a scrawny, blue haired, limp wristed guy with a feminine voice telling you " _I'm a pacifist_ " Now imagine a woman hearing (what she perceives to be) a below average guy telling her that he'll be _loyal_ , _honest_ , and _unapologetically loving_ to her *always* In both cases, it means nothing to say these things when you have no capacity to do otherwise; they phrase their inability to do the opposite as if it is a choice they are able to make.
Yeah, that was a strange stretch. The meaning of an expression lies in its intent. If you intend to be genuine, then you’re being genuine, regardless of whether it appeals to her or not. It’s not trickery.
I mean, you can wait a little until you've created a better connection with her. It has always been like that. First you meet them and treat them like a friend (not for too long) and when they're comfortable enough around you to not think you are just a creep, you can tell them. Usually this happens quite quickly but not upfront like on the first day you met.
Secondly, this lady is perfectly rational to say she wants a mature and emotional stable man, while also recognizing that such a man may not be as "exciting" as the other abuse bad boys. Too many other bad points here
1:15 i think the point of her video is that she* is trying to help men and women. She did do something. She educated women on why they arent satisfied.
I find this video to be as disturbing as watching an interview with a psychotic serial murderer. It makes no sense and it never will. I’ve been through too many games and bullshit and I’m so tired of all this WASTED time and foolishness! I’d rather run through a minefield and if I live then I win the girl. You know I’ve fantasized about a reality show where 20 men fight, one by one, until only one remains; then HE wins the bachelorette. I’d sign up tomorrow!!!
You make good points. I just have one objection: You said "If you withhold in order to display value you're no better than a snake oil salesman." but also gave the example of diamonds being valuable earlier in the video. The thing is: diamonds aren't actually that rare. So they actually are made valuable by artificially *withholding* them from availability, ironically contradicting the exact point you made after.
Well they can actually tell if you're for real or not or to put it in your words they know whether your actually valuable or just pretending to be valuable, people will still buy diamonds even if it's artificially made valuable, BUT when you (a person) pretends to be valuable they will not buy it.
I read that title and thought " as someone who's considered good looking but also spent living 5 years as a hare krishna monk" I can't help but view most women as extremely boring materialistic children in adult bodies.
There's too many false dichotomies here. The biggest one being that value is determined by scarcity. It's not necessarily true, and is a bit of an oversimplification. If an item has zero practical use or quality to it, it doesn't matter how scarce it is, it is going to have zero value. Only things with actual value regardless of their scarcity, does scarcity become a factor. There is also plenty of things that aren't scarce, but are valuable. To use your car example, Toyota's are the most profitable car company that exist, despite Lamborghini's being more rare. The real truth has nothing to do with this. I understand the rationality being used here, and it logically makes sense. But there are plenty of other views to have. Good men should stay good men out of their own principles. Those aren't the men who submit. The actual men who submit, are men who change their core principles and integrity to acquiesce to appeal to women. If you as a good man change who you are to become a dog just to appeal to women, you have submitted to their terms on what's desirable. Not yours. Somewhere along the line, men have convinced themselves that making their core personality all about appealing to women is the real dominant, when it's the complete opposite, they have submitted and changed everything about themselves to land women. At the end of the day, the prize isn't worth it. These women are toxic. It is not worth losing your own integrity and principles for these women. What do they bring to the table other than sex? These women are just as immature and toxic as the men - that's why those men appeal to them. Because most are in arrested development themselves.
Do women apply this same logic to other relationships? I love my children more when they ignore me. The best friendships are with toxic people. My parents treated me badly and that's why I love them. That doesn't make sense, does it?
It's not even about being toxic or anything but from what I've experienced is that when *they see or you prove* that you have more value than them & show a little bit of interest they will chase hard, you just have to be very careful of how much you validate them or strip away validation when needed. Ofcourse there are some exceptions like when you're dealing with a bratty girl or a girl who has really high standards but there's also a way to deal with these archetypes.
Feminine characteristics are ruled by chaos(it's in their nature) and so the opposite(masculine) is about self mastery/control, order....Your job as a man is to understand this and work on mastering yourself first. Once you have mastery of yourself and understand that she needs you to balance out her chaotic nature, she will be yours. Most men have zero clue what they are supposed to do but the fact remains that if you don't have mastery of yourself first, no woman will be attracted to you...Women can feel weakness, lack of confidence, etc, a mile away.
I always do this and it works like a charm. However, it's very difficult keeping the momentum going. It's so easy to fall into the trap of becoming submissive and chasing her back when the energy depletes.
Yeah, basically its not a strategy for long term relationships, the only way would be to pick a woman that is a lot more into you than you are into her (my case rn), then you are that way without having to play any roles but at the same time its still an L situation
What if im starting to feel like ma girl getting boring but rlly like her? like i dont wanna end it for real but things dont just catch me the same way...
I was guilty of this with my preference for pursuing toxic and/or damaged women. Then I realised this was a me problem and how moronic this terrible preference of mine in women was and deliberately have mentally weened myself off being interested in women like this. It really is akin to having a drug addiction. It technically feels “good” to get your “fix” from toxic people, but it’s an ultimately cheap and gross high that makes you feel worse and worse overtime from repeated abuse of this “drug.”
It’s insane how many ladies have this mentality. Like besides being everything a quality man should be, you also have to be the CONSTANT source of entertainment. Yeah I’m good. I’d rather wait quite a while to find a worthwhile woman with interests and goals that doesn’t need a court jester
Strive to be the ideal form of a man from your own perspective as a man. In other words, those male figures you see as your heroes or what you want to become, strive to be those things, your own version of such. Don’t strive to be the man you think someone else is looking for. Be the man YOU want to be. You will then attract souls that aspire to the same things you aspire to, personalities that are compatible with your own, that appreciates concepts that you appreciate. The vision of the ideal male figure you aspire to as a man is the same as that which you’d find most attractive if you were a women. In your next life, should you incarnate as a women, you’ll seek the same vision, just from a different point of relation. You’ll seek to *be with* that vision rather than to *be* that vision. So, become your own personal ideal and you’ll attract your own personal polarity.
I work with someone that's exactly like her. She loves having toxicity or drama. She hates not having that from other dudes. Even worse she is married so still likes getting hit on or even flirts with toxic guys. Ans then she complains she has fights with her husband all the time.
How to win women attraction Find a woman friend who is attractive Go to your date Said to your friends to come and fake like "hey how are you it's good to see you" Then let her go away and explain to your date this girl was a short term gf but I broke up cause she was too much running into me Then 5 min later you say to your date "sorry I should go " Then you go home and wait for her text and it's in the pocket My best friend is an attractive woman and she used to be my co-pilot in clubs or pubs and it's very often Working Women want men who are already in relationships especially when the woman is pretty
Lamborghini is an interesting comparison. The company was started by a man that got dissed by Ferrari. Interesting part though was that in later years it got passed around a bit, first to Chrysler, then to the Volkswagen/Audi Group. Now it's really something else under the skin. On top, exotic, underneath basic. It only looks Italian but it's not....just like a lot of modern women
I'm hearing from her that texting has them spoiled. You're walking around with an electronic leash, so she can interrupt and/or get an attention-fix all day. A sentient gal really can be told that's her damn problem, that the 30-60 second availability isn't good for either of you, and that it should often or even usually fail. 5 days? Meh, maybe the line's about there, maybe not. Gonna move on over 5?
Did anyone listen to what she actually said, or just hear the trigger words? She didn’t “expose her nature”. She wasn’t hiding it. She said it out loud up front. She’s actually trying to help . She clearly says the old pattern of “dopamine hits” isn’t healthy and is high school level maturity. She is saying a mature relationship *seems* a bit more boring at first if you haven’t had one before. There are stupid women (and men) on the internet giving bad advice but give this one a break. Remember her audience is 30-ish women who have been fucked up by dating, not healthy well-adjusted women who married young and have families.
Part of the reason this works a lot less in Western countries(and way better in Eastern) is social media and other crap kids are being taught from start...There's no wokeness and such in good portion of East(even though it's reached parts of those nations too) and so women and men just behave how they're meant to and there is this attraction with no bs games...In the West so many are confused and need "lessons" on how they should behave.
Once you go through a tumultuous relationship and fight to make it work even though it’s a sinking ship, those “boring” nights alone at home are so peaceful. It’s like what, I can explore my interests without being lambasted and called “boring” because I’m not shelling out money on you only to have you constantly tell me I do nothing for you?! Madness 😂
@jamalydude i can completely relate. Enjoy the peace alone at home. But its a two sided sword. Sometimes its also boring and you'll feel lonely. Especially after some time of being alone, when you came down from the stress of a toxic relationship, had x alone nights and got used to it
@ yeah it definitely can be lonely at times. I try to supplement by occasionally visiting friends, my family, or other hobbies that can give me some social time.
If you are adjusting any of your actions, activities, behaviors or speech to try to win over or attract anybody, then you're doing it wrong. Live your life for yourself, doing what you were put here to do. Chasing other people and trying to get other people to chase you is not what you were put here to do.
Every one of you are misinterpreting what she said. She's agreeing with you, but you're so hostile toward women that you can't see it. And, you're boring.
I opened the vid cos I thought that she might actually tell me something important , cos maybe it is me who is doing something wrong when interacting with a woman. One minute into the video: nah, I am good. I am just sane.
Being clear with your intentions isnt submissive lol if anything i would say its the opposite. You tell it like it is and if they dont like it you go your own way. As far as i can tell thats being assertive.
A real man doesn’t have time for childish games! Modern day women have literally turned into walking contradictions 😂
If you listen to the video, you realize it's not that much of a contradiction actually.
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They are walking Alcoholic Adult Children
They always have been this way. Social media has helped them “tell” on themselves more frequently 😂😂😂
@@franciscoferraz6788 I’m just saying that in general, modern day women are walking contradictions. They seem to very consistent on one thing……which is say something, but then mean the exact opposite. Women say they want a nice guy but then get turned off and are instantly bored once they do have one, women say they’re fine when they’re actually feeling angry, women get mad as us for having preferences but then it’s ok for them to want a top tier guy that’s in the less than 1% category, women lie even when they’re wrong because they want to win every argument, etc. I can go on and on but I’ll be here all day! And the reason for this is because they’re never held accountable.
because projection...
only boring people think other people are boring
Other than their box, most are banal and uninteresting. No hobbies, goals, or pursuits. Just idiotic celebrity gossip and dumb relationship advice.
They are waiting for someone who can fill their emptiness. They can’t stand it
The 2nd part is not true.
Yes, but that isn't what's at contention here
Here, the issue is that women WANT a man who loves her BUT treats her indifferently - THIS is what is "Exciting" to women
no, I've seen boring people, they exist. And it's irregardless of whether I'm boring or not. It's largely a question if ppl choose to communicate or not.
If all you give is high school, one word replies, and you don't bring interesting questions to the table ...you are socially "boring". You can improve, being social is a skill, but boring ppl certainly exist
Yep. Female coworker admitted to wanting a man who ignores her.
I have females directly admitting they want guys who are not so nice. Some even admitted to liking toxic bad boys
@@rohan7212 🤣🤣🤣🤣
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A woman I knew said she wouldn't want to be part of any club that would want her as a member. She was a car crash.
@@rohan7212yeah I had that same issue. I even told her she likes toxicity and is toxic herself. So I'm not really shocked that she went away to see this guy again after fighting with him 😂
They're litrrally saying that want an unhealthy relationship.
like a drug addict wanting more drugs
They do too. My ex told me she wanted to marry have a family life and home with me, but would lambast me for not wasting funds on her, doing frivolous activities, show my care with gifts, and the relationship only seemed going “well” when there was a constant up and down of unhealthy emotions. Point in case she claimed she wanted a healthy growth relationship, but consistently showed everything against that. There are women who do want a healthy growth relationship and their actions show this. But the majority of women SAY they want a healthy stable relationship, but they want that WHILE having turmoil and chaos, which no man of character and value is going to want to be apart of.
And then they complain about their narcissistic exes…
Start talking about yours to balance it out😂
Who they are probably totally still ok with screwing
And they are only narcissists because they didn't play they're games and put themselves first. Having dignity as a man is seen as toxic. Sad world.
sometimes I feel like apart from running their mouth 24by7, watching drama these girls are Hella boring, lazy and that's why they had exes.
Don’t forget about “abusive”….thats their go to
If she thinks im boring, it shows that shes a boring person herself and only depends on others to make her laugh.
You keep telling yourself that excuse.
@@JohnCarterRocks It's not an excuse, it's the truth
It's not possible for a person to be boring. Boredom comes from within the person who is bored. It's a symptom of their own lack of interest or effort.
Correct.
That’s not true. There are definitely boring people out there. Being nice is not boring though, I do agree on that.
@@lhays117 Not true. You think they are boring because their interests don't match with yours.
An immature child
Yeah a middle schooler is going to tell me how to get 🐱 😂
Shes explaining why that happens how is that immature dummy
If you think about it, little kids want everything exciting, etc. all the time from their parents and others.
As they get older the levels of excitements decreases gradually, and is harder to get excited about something, and isn't the same when they are 30, compared to when they were 10.
Don't focus too much on excitement, focus on bettering yourself, become better, instead of expecting the men to to most to all the work, show most to all men appreciations.
Women have to be held very highly accountable until the toxic dating no longer exists and becomes healthy dating, not just in words, but also in practices in motions too, and anything with toxic dating has got to be frowned up on.
So she DOESN'T want stability and security...
No they want your position in life.. Women in this day of age want the man’s role and what he has in position.. If your the type of guy who has something going for you but also very easy for them to get access to than they look at you as an easy pray. Those type of women are reprobated to the maximum power. A righteous woman wants a man that isn’t weak or fall pray to the norms of the world or try to stoop down to the levels of the world by trying to duplicate everything to be secured.. Best way to win the game is to not play it at all.. Choose wisely and substation yourself to true value and don’t go for women who want or envy your position as a man.
The secret to a long-lasting relationship is knowing how to manage and navigate the journey once the honeymoon is over. All relationships are exciting at the beginning but gradually and surely oneday it will reach to the monotonous, boring and predictable phase. Only the relationships of most disciplined, determined, dedicated couples with strong willpower will survive.
What happens is one person or the other stops acknowledging the other persons humanity. You stop seeing one another as humans and instead see one another as things. You lose appreciation and sight of what's most important. And many people do not want to put in the effort to be creative together to keep the spark going and to protect what you held most dear together. People are very selfish and weak but I think that's because selfishness is what we are taught. We're not taught to love properly
I'd add adventurous to that list of traits for longevity. Lots of people are boring and they make for boring couples. And finally, the less jealousy the easier it is to indulge harmless flirtations that let off steam, indulge ego, while being true to any value accurately retained in the primary relationship.
But how do you manage and navigate the journey once the honeymoon is over? Was hoping you would expound upon that in your comment
Got to love it when people who have never had a real normal positive relationship, tell you have to have one.
She's gaslighting everyone according to her own warped standards
As if they knew one. (shakes head)
With them😂 Only to find out what they really want is what this woman is explaining
She is not self-aware enough to understand that the high school mentality she is talking about is her, and women who think as she does.
It's natural human nature for women and what they respond to. They are never going to be what your idealist expectations are
What’s sad is that we are not on earth forever, the fact that they will waste time for someone who wouldn’t choose them over someone who would is frightening.
Thats why every single long lasting civilized people had tradition to Never and I mean ever have the daughter choose their partner, ever.
She now has a record of bad behaviour online for everyone to see. The curse of social media.
Man, trying to find a girl who’s actually genuine, mature and shares the same mindset as u is scary nowadays.. it’s like just stay single bro
Good luck on that lol their literally all like this until they get older
Exactly. It’s best to learn to be comfortable being single for awhile. You’ll get plenty of suitors anyways if you’re well put together. But it’s up to you to decide if they’re worth wasting your time, money, or seed on. Currently I am single and have multiple would be suitors vying for my time and s3x, but I am against it all at the moment because I see through the looks and see the character and home life and drama and it repulses me. It’s not worth my time to even fornicate with women who I don’t respect or see some promise in. It’s crazy because you know as a young male you feel you’ll never be the man women desire and then when you wake up one day as that men you don’t even want that. You see a lot of these ladies for who they are, and if it wasn’t for their looks, you’d see them for the undisciplined, roller coasters they are. A disciplined, honorable, respectable woman does exist, but it is true there is a lot of journey to find that. The key is to be ok with that taking a while, the key is to be comfortable with that and not sell your self short and give your time or s3x away to these wrecks just because they tickle your fancy looks wise.
scary? more like impossible and a huge waste of time. you wonder why dudes are losing interest in dating and women altogether
@@Adrian-zu6tm Well if men are losing interest in dating that's great news: Less guys to compete with lol. Just because there are a lot of stupid women out there doesn't mean they're all like that. Matter of fact, the worthy girls are the reward for the men who didn't give up on trying to find the right woman. Simple as that. I don't have a wife yet but throughout the years I have moved out of the way of quite a few women who I just didn't consider a good choice. If I just wanted a relationship, I could've jumped in with one of them but then I would be ending on a bad relationship and then complaining that "it's impossible to find genuine mature women" just because I didn't have the balls to wait longer and look better.
@@zahkilovettI've seen women like this in their 50's
Let's flip the script. Only boring people get bored because they don't have the imagination to do something so they aren't bored. So they go for the bad boys whom are narcissistic in nature because they are so boring.
when someone says your boring really that means their a boring person who does not know how to entertain themselves without someone else doing it for them
Anyone else tired of having the (probably) most advanced brain species-wise, but only using it for metaphors and high school level logic? Me too. Stay single.
Facts. I can offer loyalty, attention, consistency and stability because...I have nothing ELSE to offer. By definition all of those things are BORING. I have quit the game.
Snap brother, snap. I'd rather be alone and unloved than disrespected
it wouldn't hurt, as a personal growth thing, and not just for women but for conversations with men as well, to practice becoming more interesting. Doesn't mean you have to be it all the time. But standing out is helpful, as naturally our brains tend to not remember things that are always the same
and life would be boring for anyone, if say you always used salt and pepper as your only spices for food. Shake it up occasionally
Drugs are extremely predictable. I always know whats going to happen every time I take shrooms
Weed is also very predictable
No they are not…that statement reeks of living in a bubble. Drugs are extremely-dangerous…even marijuana. Have fun taking something, then finding out you have schizophrenia, or something.
@@viniciusdacidadezinha3334 Weed is more predictable than sobriety, it’s actually pretty crazy how predictable weed is. I am so glad I’m done with it.
You can do anything you want to a woman, but don’t bore her. They are like toddlers mixed with sorority girls. They have to be entertained at all times.
If you’re looking at these lunatics on the net, yes, these woman are incredibly low value and are broken beyond repair.
There is something powerful in the idea that a man who is focused on his health, mind and purpose is attractive to a woman.
Im currently noticing this at my place of temporary work while pursuing my career as a fire inspector; the two girls that i walked away from without saying a word why are head over heels for me now and one of them is dating a co-worker who’s almost four years younger than her.
Stop chasing women who dont show you interest and make it clear on some level that they like you and start looking for the hot girl who does respect and want to be with you
They key is to have them entertain themselves. 😊
They’re never bored with Chad. Bored is normietalk for “you’re ugly”.
@@Jadty physically attractive is not necessarily a requirement for women. Just look at who they choose… The reason they like bad boys because they march to the beat of their own drum. They don’t follow the rules. They could even be complete morons but they’re always exciting, I was bringing some level of drama. Guys, I think it’s about money or looks are completely ignorant to reality.
@@Jadtythis, you could be Chad who just stays at home all the time and screws her brains out and never goes out because you work minimum wage but at the end of the day you’re still Chad.
Well if someone expects you to be entertaining 24-7, then look for someone else. They aren't worth it and entertaining 24-7 is completely unrealistic.
Everything I needed to know from high school to life,is in a 4 second video.
Thank you!
I wish my dad would have told me this earlier.
when did we stop shaming people for being perverts, male OR female?
When civilization got feminized.
As someone who has had many ups but even more downs in life, predictable and stable sounds good to me. These kinds of women are just like spoiled brats. If their lives were actually difficult, they wouldn't be pining for additional adversity.
Emotional Damage
0:34 it's like saying that taking a candy it's not because you want some sweet taste but the unpredictability if it will taste sweet or salty or something else. It's amazing the mental gymnastic of toxic people.
Even if I am boring, I'll choose myself over pretending to be something I'm not...
So telling a woman upfront what you want is cheap trickery?
It's not cheap but it definitely doesn't work in current time
It would be like a scrawny, blue haired, limp wristed guy with a feminine voice telling you " _I'm a pacifist_ "
Now imagine a woman hearing (what she perceives to be) a below average guy telling her that he'll be _loyal_ , _honest_ , and _unapologetically loving_ to her *always*
In both cases, it means nothing to say these things when you have no capacity to do otherwise; they phrase their inability to do the opposite as if it is a choice they are able to make.
Yeah, that was a strange stretch. The meaning of an expression lies in its intent. If you intend to be genuine, then you’re being genuine, regardless of whether it appeals to her or not. It’s not trickery.
i never thought i'd be called manipulative for admitting my crush on a woman straightaway
I mean, you can wait a little until you've created a better connection with her. It has always been like that. First you meet them and treat them like a friend (not for too long) and when they're comfortable enough around you to not think you are just a creep, you can tell them. Usually this happens quite quickly but not upfront like on the first day you met.
A lot of different things are being conflated here. First, A mature and emotionally stable man is not the same as a nice guy.
Secondly, this lady is perfectly rational to say she wants a mature and emotional stable man, while also recognizing that such a man may not be as "exciting" as the other abuse bad boys. Too many other bad points here
Chad doesn’t need to be any of those. He just needs to lay good pipe and everything is perfect.
"A mature and emotionally stable man is not the same as a nice guy."
It's exactly the same.
OP... they find you ugly. It's that simple. They want a guy who looks like Chad. That is exciting
@@oemj7147 what exactly do you think a nice guy, as used in internet lingo, is? A weak guy who feigns goodness.
What....The....Actual...........................?
I'm confused too 😅
Eeeeyup…..
1:15 i think the point of her video is that she* is trying to help men and women. She did do something. She educated women on why they arent satisfied.
How can you help anybody by lying? Everything she said is bullshit, because it doesn’t apply to Chad.
I agree. People aren’t listening to what shes saying. They’re just hearing the trigger words.
I find this video to be as disturbing as watching an interview with a psychotic serial murderer. It makes no sense and it never will. I’ve been through too many games and bullshit and I’m so tired of all this WASTED time and foolishness! I’d rather run through a minefield and if I live then I win the girl. You know I’ve fantasized about a reality show where 20 men fight, one by one, until only one remains; then HE wins the bachelorette. I’d sign up tomorrow!!!
You make good points. I just have one objection: You said "If you withhold in order to display value you're no better than a snake oil salesman." but also gave the example of diamonds being valuable earlier in the video.
The thing is: diamonds aren't actually that rare. So they actually are made valuable by artificially *withholding* them from availability, ironically contradicting the exact point you made after.
Well they can actually tell if you're for real or not or to put it in your words they know whether your actually valuable or just pretending to be valuable, people will still buy diamonds even if it's artificially made valuable, BUT when you (a person) pretends to be valuable they will not buy it.
They seriously need to get over themselves
They won't. There's always going to be a line of dudes out the door winning to kowtow.
What entertains these women is rather concerning.
if you don't look like Chad (top 3% of men in LOOKS), she will find you boring
Pierre's look at 0:15 had me CREASING. 😂
Lmao!!!!🤣🤣🤣
Bruhh, he got my like just for this hahaha
I read that title and thought " as someone who's considered good looking but also spent living 5 years as a hare krishna monk" I can't help but view most women as extremely boring materialistic children in adult bodies.
She is not wearing her hijab or burka. That is a red flag to me.
Yeah that’s the part of Islam i actually do like modesty and hijab.
This Is Them Setting The Rules You Have To Follow. So Who’s Leading Again?
So immature.
His grin throughout 💀 I knew exactly what was going on in his head
Nooooo...I can't! The side-eye at the beginning 😭
There's too many false dichotomies here. The biggest one being that value is determined by scarcity. It's not necessarily true, and is a bit of an oversimplification. If an item has zero practical use or quality to it, it doesn't matter how scarce it is, it is going to have zero value. Only things with actual value regardless of their scarcity, does scarcity become a factor. There is also plenty of things that aren't scarce, but are valuable. To use your car example, Toyota's are the most profitable car company that exist, despite Lamborghini's being more rare.
The real truth has nothing to do with this. I understand the rationality being used here, and it logically makes sense. But there are plenty of other views to have.
Good men should stay good men out of their own principles. Those aren't the men who submit. The actual men who submit, are men who change their core principles and integrity to acquiesce to appeal to women. If you as a good man change who you are to become a dog just to appeal to women, you have submitted to their terms on what's desirable. Not yours. Somewhere along the line, men have convinced themselves that making their core personality all about appealing to women is the real dominant, when it's the complete opposite, they have submitted and changed everything about themselves to land women.
At the end of the day, the prize isn't worth it. These women are toxic. It is not worth losing your own integrity and principles for these women. What do they bring to the table other than sex? These women are just as immature and toxic as the men - that's why those men appeal to them. Because most are in arrested development themselves.
Agree
What a nightmare we live in.
This is why the most honest relationship a man can have with a modern woman is an escort.
Na, the most honest relationship is with a platonic friend. No bs expectations among my friends, just enjoying each other's company.
@@thedude8526 You clearly don't get the post. You one of those people who just like to hear yourself talk?
@ethansnyder3401 I get it. An escort isn't a relationship. It's an exchange for goods.
Do women apply this same logic to other relationships? I love my children more when they ignore me. The best friendships are with toxic people. My parents treated me badly and that's why I love them. That doesn't make sense, does it?
It's not even about being toxic or anything but from what I've experienced is that when *they see or you prove* that you have more value than them & show a little bit of interest they will chase hard, you just have to be very careful of how much you validate them or strip away validation when needed. Ofcourse there are some exceptions like when you're dealing with a bratty girl or a girl who has really high standards but there's also a way to deal with these archetypes.
@@saurabhdey4014 Nobody should compromise their values just to entertain another person.
Feminine characteristics are ruled by chaos(it's in their nature) and so the opposite(masculine) is about self mastery/control, order....Your job as a man is to understand this and work on mastering yourself first. Once you have mastery of yourself and understand that she needs you to balance out her chaotic nature, she will be yours. Most men have zero clue what they are supposed to do but the fact remains that if you don't have mastery of yourself first, no woman will be attracted to you...Women can feel weakness, lack of confidence, etc, a mile away.
Yeah thats exactly why good men r single now. Ive been rejected by every woman cause im actually a good person thats loyal 😂
With the way bro was roasting nice guys, one would think he lost his soulmate to a nice guy 😅
Roasting?
How is stating facts roasting?
You think you are a nice guy?
Can you see how your statement could be interpreted?
i dont know, you can be something in between. or maybe women like extremes.
Maybe you can be in between by going into extremes while dating her?
Lack of maturity
Structure, routine, dedication, commitment, accountability, responsibility...heck say these words to ANY w & see how fast she walks away😂
Yeah, they see men as sources of entertainment like movie characters.
Is her how is her relationship going into her '60s?? Oh wait, she's just a kid....
I always do this and it works like a charm. However, it's very difficult keeping the momentum going.
It's so easy to fall into the trap of becoming submissive and chasing her back when the energy depletes.
Yeah, basically its not a strategy for long term relationships, the only way would be to pick a woman that is a lot more into you than you are into her (my case rn), then you are that way without having to play any roles but at the same time its still an L situation
@@filazkeita2272 I think long term it's best,choose one that is a more into you,that way you are Gona get a lot of drama out of the way
Gee, she doesn't realize modern dating and hookup culture, BECAME her drug of choice.
“If you’re bored then you’re boring…”
What if im starting to feel like ma girl getting boring but rlly like her? like i dont wanna end it for real but things dont just catch me the same way...
I was guilty of this with my preference for pursuing toxic and/or damaged women. Then I realised this was a me problem and how moronic this terrible preference of mine in women was and deliberately have mentally weened myself off being interested in women like this. It really is akin to having a drug addiction. It technically feels “good” to get your “fix” from toxic people, but it’s an ultimately cheap and gross high that makes you feel worse and worse overtime from repeated abuse of this “drug.”
She’s boring 😅
Job 39:17 € Because God hath deprived her of wisdom, neither hath he imparted to her understanding.
It’s not my job to entertain you. Isn’t that why you have a Netflix account? Life isn’t always exciting and full of thrills. Grow up.
It’s insane how many ladies have this mentality. Like besides being everything a quality man should be, you also have to be the CONSTANT source of entertainment. Yeah I’m good. I’d rather wait quite a while to find a worthwhile woman with interests and goals that doesn’t need a court jester
Their opinion Don't count is what the king wants
Strive to be the ideal form of a man from your own perspective as a man. In other words, those male figures you see as your heroes or what you want to become, strive to be those things, your own version of such.
Don’t strive to be the man you think someone else is looking for. Be the man YOU want to be.
You will then attract souls that aspire to the same things you aspire to, personalities that are compatible with your own, that appreciates concepts that you appreciate.
The vision of the ideal male figure you aspire to as a man is the same as that which you’d find most attractive if you were a women. In your next life, should you incarnate as a women, you’ll seek the same vision, just from a different point of relation. You’ll seek to *be with* that vision rather than to *be* that vision.
So, become your own personal ideal and you’ll attract your own personal polarity.
I work with someone that's exactly like her. She loves having toxicity or drama. She hates not having that from other dudes. Even worse she is married so still likes getting hit on or even flirts with toxic guys. Ans then she complains she has fights with her husband all the time.
How to win women attraction
Find a woman friend who is attractive
Go to your date
Said to your friends to come and fake like "hey how are you it's good to see you"
Then let her go away and explain to your date this girl was a short term gf but I broke up cause she was too much running into me
Then 5 min later you say to your date "sorry I should go "
Then you go home and wait for her text and it's in the pocket
My best friend is an attractive woman and she used to be my co-pilot in clubs or pubs and it's very often Working
Women want men who are already in relationships especially when the woman is pretty
We don’t know how to feel about ourselves, it’s always a matter of how things and people can fix or fulling ourselves. It won’t work
Lamborghini is an interesting comparison. The company was started by a man that got dissed by Ferrari. Interesting part though was that in later years it got passed around a bit, first to Chrysler, then to the Volkswagen/Audi Group. Now it's really something else under the skin. On top, exotic, underneath basic. It only looks Italian but it's not....just like a lot of modern women
Skills required to get into a relationship aren’t the skills required to maintain one
Id argue the boring guy is more masculine b/c he's not controlled by his emotions giving her the feminine emotional roller coaster she loves.
Listening to her reminds me why i stay single😊 thanks young lady.
I'm hearing from her that texting has them spoiled. You're walking around with an electronic leash, so she can interrupt and/or get an attention-fix all day. A sentient gal really can be told that's her damn problem, that the 30-60 second availability isn't good for either of you, and that it should often or even usually fail. 5 days? Meh, maybe the line's about there, maybe not. Gonna move on over 5?
What is cheap and easy to get is actually what you need bruh
My options are unbelievable, out of this world. Yet I want a normal, clever, nice woman. I do not play games.
Food is cheap and easy to get but extremely valuable.
And this is why I married a Japanese woman. She may of had a fiery temper, but she wasn't insane... Well there was that one time....
Did anyone listen to what she actually said, or just hear the trigger words? She didn’t “expose her nature”. She wasn’t hiding it. She said it out loud up front. She’s actually trying to help . She clearly says the old pattern of “dopamine hits” isn’t healthy and is high school level maturity. She is saying a mature relationship *seems* a bit more boring at first if you haven’t had one before. There are stupid women (and men) on the internet giving bad advice but give this one a break. Remember her audience is 30-ish women who have been fucked up by dating, not healthy well-adjusted women who married young and have families.
Part of the reason this works a lot less in Western countries(and way better in Eastern) is social media and other crap kids are being taught from start...There's no wokeness and such in good portion of East(even though it's reached parts of those nations too) and so women and men just behave how they're meant to and there is this attraction with no bs games...In the West so many are confused and need "lessons" on how they should behave.
The product of bad parenting and societal collapse. We need Christ and discipline
I wish I could see the non edited version of his monologue
Why would you want to see that?
@ I just thought it would be interesting to see vs the cut between each statement version that was posted.
Merry Christmas Pierre
She deliberately “exposed herself”, with honesty and self awareness. She was trying to communicate awkward truths about dating more mature men.
Agree. People just heard the trigger words.
I dont need a woman explaining to me why im boring...i already know im boring myself 😂❤
Once you go through a tumultuous relationship and fight to make it work even though it’s a sinking ship, those “boring” nights alone at home are so peaceful. It’s like what, I can explore my interests without being lambasted and called “boring” because I’m not shelling out money on you only to have you constantly tell me I do nothing for you?! Madness 😂
@jamalydude i can completely relate. Enjoy the peace alone at home. But its a two sided sword. Sometimes its also boring and you'll feel lonely. Especially after some time of being alone, when you came down from the stress of a toxic relationship, had x alone nights and got used to it
@ yeah it definitely can be lonely at times. I try to supplement by occasionally visiting friends, my family, or other hobbies that can give me some social time.
Yup men are always boring when you not attracted to him.
Focus on yourselves brothers
Wtf emotionally available even means
If you are adjusting any of your actions, activities, behaviors or speech to try to win over or attract anybody, then you're doing it wrong.
Live your life for yourself, doing what you were put here to do. Chasing other people and trying to get other people to chase you is not what you were put here to do.
Every one of you are misinterpreting what she said. She's agreeing with you, but you're so hostile toward women that you can't see it. And, you're boring.
Agree. Your last sentence doesn’t help though.
No one wants a partner with this mindset.
I opened the vid cos I thought that she might actually tell me something important , cos maybe it is me who is doing something wrong when interacting with a woman.
One minute into the video: nah, I am good. I am just sane.
Everyone watching I can't stop it so let's make it boring no money helps with that that you
First mistake in being a simp- giving a shit what women or other people think abou you
I don't care what vvomen think. I only care if the vvoman takes it upon herself to be an interesting person and not be boring herself.
On the Hunt for the Stronk BARBARIAN!!!
Then they get left and complain about how bad men are😂😂
Being clear with your intentions isnt submissive lol if anything i would say its the opposite. You tell it like it is and if they dont like it you go your own way. As far as i can tell thats being assertive.
They’re just bored and want to feel emotions
You're boring until you've💸💸💸💵💵💵
Not even that. Only Chad is not boring.