As a psychotherapist Cliff you are 100% doing the right thing. No one can deal with that sort of thing 24/7. Your heart is beautiful to offer support, but this can drive you to burn out really quickly. You're an amazing guy, and your videos are so uplifting. You need these boundaries set, and you did it with such compassion and understanding. Sending love
I'm a Substance Use Disorder Professional and I concur with you. Burnout and compassion fatigue are very real. Please take care of yourself, my guy. AOD 4 Life! 👊👊👊
Apparently, her comment was deleted!! She can still see it on her computer, but I have scrolled through the list of comments 4 times and it's not here. So I will share it now.... Dude! Hotlines do NOT help! From personal experience, I've been shuffled off the line with them saying they have to keep the lines open for those who are actively s*icidal. And, if you are active, they direct you off the line to call 911. Then, when you do, you end up on a legal hold only to be abused and witness abuses of other patients by hospital staff! THIS is part of why the mental health system is FARKED beyond belief--family and friends pass you off onto 'professionals' and 'professionals' only make it worse. And, no, these feelings aren't temporary for many of us. I've been chronically s*icidal since I was 14 years old. And, you're incorrect that there are no enemies but you, when you come from a scapegoating family. The FSA continues to occur in the PRESENT. And, do NOT tell me and others we haven't listened or tried hard enough. For 30 years I've taken all the page-long list of meds--old, new, experimental--all the therapies, none of it worked and they talked me into TWELVE SHOCK TREATMENTS!!! I've been cooperative AND compliant with all the suggestions and prescriptions! I will offer some unconventional possible solutions for others who have had the same experience with trying to get help: escapedgoats.org/unconventional-mental-health-resources-healing-trauma-and-abuse/
My former wife and partner commented this and it was deleted!! WHY???? Her comment contained a link and apparently links are not allowed in the comments on this page. So here's her comment without the link... Dude! Hotlines do NOT help! From personal experience, I've been shuffled off the line with them saying they have to keep the lines open for those who are actively s*icidal. And, if you are active, they direct you off the line to call 911. Then, when you do, you end up on a legal hold only to be abused and witness abuses of other patients by hospital staff! THIS is part of why the mental health system is FARKED beyond belief--family and friends pass you off onto 'professionals' and 'professionals' only make it worse. And, no, these feelings aren't temporary for many of us. I've been chronically s*icidal since I was 14 years old. And, you're incorrect that there are no enemies but you, when you come from a scapegoating family. The FSA continues to occur in the PRESENT. And, do NOT tell me and others we haven't listened or tried hard enough. For 30 years I've taken all the page-long list of meds--old, new, experimental--all the therapies, none of it worked and they talked me into TWELVE SHOCK TREATMENTS!!! I've been cooperative AND compliant with all the suggestions and prescriptions! I will offer some unconventional possible solutions for others who have had the same experience with trying to get help:
Yeah, never mind what i said. Her comment as well as MINE that I copied and pasted her comment without the link were ALL NOT ALLOWED for whatever reason. Apparently Cliff doesn't like hearing the truth.
Therapist here: helpers have to keep boundaries or we will not be able to help anyone for very long. Please, everyone, take care of your people…and sometimes that care is pointing them to a professional resource. 988
The carers need caring for as well. And when I became a social worker I got told to know when to refer is so important. When clients would tell me they're wanting to get themselves or others I would tell them I'm happy to keep chatting but I have to tell their case worker & psych. And I did, quite a lot. I think of the ones lost along the way but I like to think that some of the hard chats lead to good things
My mom passed in April. Cliff was very gracious to me. He’s a good human. Cliff carries a heavy burden just trying to help people. He’s a good man. I hope people respect what he’s saying. Respect Cliff.
Hearing about your mom's passing and the few details you shared was truly heartbreaking, Chris. In all honesty, I think about it far more than I likely should (due to the fact we know each other just from Cliffs chats and discord) ... but you and your mom, and i guess your loss, it just comes to mind often ... I was, and still am, so floored by it all, that it's left me literally speechless (which is a pretty hard feet tbh ... bc I'm NEVER at a loss for words lol). Sorry to ramble, but I just wanted to let ya know you're in my thoughts (even though I haven't been able to put those thoughts into any resemblance of a supportive message) ... I hope you're doing well .
I'm schizophrenic and I've never reached out to you for help...but...the fact that you offer help has actually helped me and my mental state. It's a good feeling to know that someone out there (you) actually cares and is willing to 'deep dive' into a random viewer's mental struggle in order to help. Thank you.
Love you Marv. You're stronger than you think. Other people haven't survived what you HAVE already. I know what it's like to struggle with something painful that may well never end. I've spent a lot of time in the pit over it, but when that first ray of proverbial sunshine hits your face after coming out of a coma-like depression... There is no greater source of serotonin. It's worth living to feel that happiness, and if you're down far enough and survive it, you WILL feel it again.
My buddy has schizophrenia and just checked himself in to a psych ward for a week. He goes 2 or 3 times a year when he’s in a bad state and it helps him when it’s needed
Sir, I work at a crisis center as one of the suicide line operators, and you are 100% right to set these boundaries. You aren't trained to help with issues like suicide, and it is not your burden to carry. Something I frequently have to remind myself of, is that suicide is a choice. It is up to that person to choose life, and nobody else has the ability or the right to choose for them (even though, professionally, I have to do everything within my power). Anybody who has asked you for help, and threatened or completed suicide, is NOT your responsibility.
Thank you for what you do @frostiestark9533. You are such a kind soul. ^_^ I've ran into a few guys too myself that I've encountered that wanted to 'off themselves' that I knew from my college days and messaged me about it and I was just so tired of the drama they brought to my life and blocked them from my social media platforms because there was not much I could do for them and it seemed like all they wanted was attention. I just wanted out of that negativity and hope they themselves get the help they properly need for my peace of mind. So I understand what Cliff was going through as myself has been there always wanting to help people but not everyone could be saved and could help themselves if they need the help from the suicide line operators.
Former military first responder here. Just wanted to say what you are doing for other people with your platform is incredible and selfless. That said, boundaries are important, and YOU HAVE GOT to take care of yourself. Much love, much respect, and I sincerely hope things get better for you and for everyone else for that matter.
I hope you're doing alright Cliff, being the shoulder for THOUSANDS of people to lean on must be SO HARD. I'm sorry to hear about those two people who ended things im sending my thoughts and prayers to their families. Much love Cliff ❤️🙏
My best friend deleted himself when we were in 8th grade, over a girl. He told me he was going to do it several times, at that age I could only do what my maturity allowed. I’m 56 years old now, I still think about if I could have done things different, but a friend from my HS days told me, “Bob, you’re the nicest guy we know, but you can’t save everybody.” (Remember, this was the 80s when “mental health” was taboo, we were not supposed to ask for help). I’m a Veteran, I see a doctor every year; there’s help out there, don’t be ashamed, we all have something that bothers us, ask a pro, figure it out, and stay here with us! ❤❤❤
I'm a psychotherapist and did on-call psych crisis duty for 8 years so I get what you are going through. It got to be that my phone ringing during off hours was trigging PTSD. Really proud of you for setting the health boundaries you need. Remember, you are no good to anyone if you don't take care of yourself first and roll modeling healthy boundaries and self-care does more than you might think. Much love and appreciation for your kind presence.
You're a lighthouse in this world brother, but it takes a lot of energy to keep that light on 24/7. You gotta do what's right for you, and for the people reaching out, and that's exactly what you have done.
I attempted "self deletion" 7 times from my mid-teens until my late 20s. Had I actually succeeded, NONE of the wonderful things that have happened to me since, would have happened. I'm 57 now, I have a wonderful wife to share my life with, and that's something I thought I would never have. So, speaking from experience, I can honestly say that "It's not worth it, things WILL get better, you just need to give it time." You're a good dude, Cliff. What you do can change lives.
@@tanishachoudhuri Thank you! I only share that, in hopes of letting someone who is as desperate for a way out as I was 30 years ago, realize that you CAN go on, and have a good life. Ending it when you are "down", is just a bad idea. Hell, I honestly didn't really know what "depression" was until I held my first wife's hand when she took her final breath. I thought I did, but that became my lowest point, ever. She fought cancer for nearly 3 years. I stayed by her side, even though she offered to "break up" with me, to save me the heartache she knew was coming. As I said to her, "I can't claim to love you as much as I do, if I'm willing to walk away when you need me the most." As strong as that woman was, she broke down and cried when I told her that. I stayed with her from diagnosis, until the day she died. I regret nothing, except that she DID die from it. She was actually more worried about me, than she was about her own impending death. Especially when she was deemed "terminal". Before she passed, she had promised me that "when the time is right, I'll send you someone so that you won't be lonely for the rest of your life." The number 3 had surrounded her when she died.... and it was 3 years and 3 months after she died, that I reconnected with a woman whom I had known back in school. We "hit it off", and I somehow knew.... THIS was who Rose (my first wife) had sent to me. She even came to me in a dream and told me so. Katina (my current wife) and I have been together for 15 years, and married 13 years next Monday. I know that every day, Rose looks down on me and smiles. But NONE of that would have happened, meeting Rose, marrying her, going through cancer with her, re-meeting Katina, marrying her, and being happy now... had I been successful in ANY of those 7 attempts. I'm in a good place, mentally.... even though I have lived a life filled with traumas. If I can find happiness.... anyone can. THAT is the message I want to pass on to others who might be thinking of ending themselves. I've been there, done that, and worn holes in the t-shirt.
Cliff, you've been here for all of us. Taking on that stress is too much. You don't need to apologize for that. You're a good man and we all know that. ❤
Bro you’re a very compassionate man. It’s tough to try to take on everyone else’s troubles. You’re a sweetheart. No diddy. No bullshit I understand you it’s hard to be everything for everyone. God bless you and your good intentions.
I have a friend who was very suicidal. If I tried to beg him not to he would only get more aggravated because it wasn’t respecting his decision. So I just told him thank you for all the differences made in my life for me. That he made my world a better place and I’ll always love him for it. I was at work and couldn’t stay texting him as I was a raft guide. He ended up moving across the country to where I had moved to when I offered him a ride there and a place to stay for a month. Now he’s a new man. Sooo wise and smart. That was 4-5 years ago. Now fast forward to this year, I had another friend back home telling me he was gonna kill himself. All my energy for this was given to the first friend. It was too much for me. He ended up doing it and I’m beside myself. I tried telling him to move out west too. I really wish there was someone other than me to be there for him because I couldn’t
This should be a given. I have actually worried about the toll this could have on you. Setting boundaries is a healthy component. I absolutely love how compassionate you are to your fans. Lots of love to all!
You’re a good man. I remember when back in the 1980s in Fairbanks Alaska we started a crisis line and trained people how to deal with this subject. It’s very difficult techniques used need a steady practiced mind. But the turnover in people who volunteered as crisis line workers was extremely highbecause of this subject. I did it for over 10 years and had to walk away to save my own sanity to make space for myself again and to mourn. Many blessings to you young man.
Everyone needs a shoulder Cliff. We love you and are honored to have your shoulder if we need one. Don't forget that there are probably 300,000 that watch this that would have no issue flipping that. Love you brother, keep your head up and stay positive.
So sorry you were put in that position. It sucks. It's hard feeling so helpless. We love you man. I hope that everyone feeling that way can get the help they need.
So sorry for the loss of your followers who were in crises🙏it is a sad situation and most definitely not your burden to carry! The caring you always show and continue to show has helped many get through! That's worthy of thanks❤❤❤
As a former psychiatric nurse I knew this would crop up and I did fear you would have been overwhelmed with the kind offer to help others and lend time and an ear to people experiencing difficult times . This was a genuine kind act however the floodgates opened for the above of self harming and worse you are right to speak off the inadequate responsibility and training you have to deal with same it's a difficult task for professionals who have back up support and conceling for this difficult subject matter keep doing what you do best and to keep yourself safe to be you be honest as you are and withdraw the kind offer to help it's a unsurmountable can off worms that good intention can affect your own life and lifestyle take care and a do love your channel
You are a good man Cliff, kudos to you for actually putting up some boundaries, you need to keep your mental health in check too :) glad you always keep it real.
I've been through that with a friend, he kept saying he was gonna do it and I was younger and really wanted to help him. But it broke me, and it destroyed the friendship we had. I have 100% respect for how much you do at your level. What your saying is 100% right, and such constant negativity isn't healthy at all and effects us more than we know. I have even more respect for you speaking on this to your audience, as most people would not. Just like you have are backs I have yours too! Stay positive brother 🫡
Hay bro, we understand, as a person that struggles with PTSD I understand what your saying take care of yourself cause without you we wouldn't have this great channel
Dude, I’ve been on both ends of that stick. I’ve been suicidal and I’ve tried to help people who were suicidal to the point where family had to step in and tell me I needed to worry about picking myself up and keeping myself going before others. Your doing the right thing. It won’t help anyone if you aren’t properly equipped and it’s putting you in a worse position with yourself and the people around you. It takes balls and honesty to make this video and your heart is in the right place it seems. Lots of respect to you dude cause just the fact that you do as much as you do is more than a lot of people can say.
I made it 4 minutes into this video, and I'm already feeling your struggle. Before I finish it, let me say, that out of all my subscriptions, you, Upchurch, and Uncle Ray are some of the most influential. That's just me. You chose to put yourself on this platform, but you are not responsible for anyone's decisions. Don't carry that weight. Of those I've mentioned, I've never been anything but uplifted by your content, whether I relate to it or not. I still watch and enjoy, just because of y'all. For instance...I don't care for Harry Mack. But I watch you all anyway. Some of us are here for you guys, not just the reaction. Stay strong, my friend. HB from Maine. #creeksquad
I reached out to you once at my lowest point. I didn’t expect answers or even that you’d respond, but you did. No solution just kind words of support. It did help knowing somebody cared and I thank you, but you’re doing the right thing. I can’t imagine feeling the weight of so many strangers that you aren’t equipped to handle. You might appreciate Guns for Hands by Twenty-One Pilots. Tyler wrote it after talking to fans who wanted to unalive themselves. He wanted to help them and settle his own mind. Take care of yourself ❤
I also have mental health issues and I am lucky to be seeing a psychiatrist and taking medication. I appreciate your support and your reaching out to those who really need it.
Cliff, you are a good man. Thank you for letting me and all of your subscribers know you care. That's a HUGE help. We need you to do what's good for you so you can keep doing what you do. Love you.
Cliff you are a compassionate man whom cares for mankind. We will support you in any way possible, as you do when life permits. Prayers, Love and Strength for all.❤️🙏🌹
I struggle with these thoughts everyday... it's difficult to talk about, but it's more difficult to listen to it. It puts a lot of pressure on the listener unless they're a professional. No one deserves to think about offing themselves and it's also unfair to feel like someone's life is in your hands. Love you Cliff.
Thank you so much Cliff for protecting your heart and your peace - knowing what you are and are not equipped for and setting those boundaries is so important for your own wellbeing. I work in s prevention and I definitely agree with redirecting those in serious crisis to a professional hotline for those heavy crisis moments and conversations. They can come back and talk to friends more safely once the peak of the crisis has settled and they have been supported by someone equipped to handled that type of situation. You are doing an amazing thing for so many people Cliff!
I adore you Cliff. We all support you. The fact that you are always offering to be there for people to be listening ear is one of the most selfless things! It shows your true character. You always say that you are no doctor… People should not be abusing your kindness and putting so much on you. It is a heavy burden to carry which is unfair for someone to pile on you. It’s generous of you to offer your time to listen to people and be there for people, but I think you need to draw firm boundaries to protect your own mental health ! That is just too much! ❤️I love you- you have one of the biggest hearts. ❤ sending you a big hug, brother❤❤❤
Oh man, Cliff, you know we are here for you as well. Totally agree that if they want to harm themselves, they really should be seeking help from a doctor.
Sending you so much·love, not only for being there willing to help help whoever is willing to help themselves...but I appreciate you doing this for YOU ❤ because You are Worthy of nothing less. Thank You
Your health is priority. Take time for self care. Support and provide contacts/suggestions for professional who can help. Thank you for all the support you give the community. We appreciate the honesty and support tou provide .We support tou and are blessed to have you and tour channel. Hope you feel better soon.
I myself deal with depression and have had those thoughts but through watching your videos i realized that there are people who care and who love me i have a 2 year old son and without your videos and your positive attitude and love for people my son wouldn't have a father so I just wanted to say thank you and I love you your a good dude
These wonderfully supportive comments just tell me what I already knew: that you have grown a great community here. The fact so many are willing to bear you up should show you how admirable and commendable you are. When the internet can be such a place of hatred, you have cultivated a place where people can be themselves and enjoy things they love with other people. You're a standup dude, man. Take care of yourself and your girl, and let her take care of you back. Do what you gotta do, we got you.
You strike me as being a kind person. That doesn't change because you draw boundaries to protect your own mental health. Boundaries are good and when it comes to managing thoughts and threats of self-harm, they are really important. I'm glad you've done this.
Just keep your chin up brother. Taking on the responsibility of being there for strangers is unbelievably commendable. But that doesn’t make their decisions or even their circumstances your actual responsibility. You’ve shown yourself to be a genuinely good dude and you’ll find that balance as you keep going. Take care of you first or you won’t be any good to anyone else brother. Luckily I’ve been able to work through my past issues but to everyone who hasn’t yet just know: you can do it. I’m 11 1/2 years sober and I’d have told you 12 years ago it would never happen. Stay strong. Have faith in something. (I am a Christian but I understand religion isn’t everyone’s thing). Keep your eyes and your heart focused on the future and you can get through whatever you’re dealing with. Thanks Cliff and to anyone who may read this: you are loved and this world needs you.
Congrats on your sobriety, that’s huge. I’ve been clean about the same amount of time (11 years and 2.5 months) and I’m humbled every time I think about how many days that is.
I’m so sorry man.. That’s a huge burden to bare.. I know you are here for all of Us.. I hope people can get the help that they need .. The ones who ended their life doesn’t fall on you man.. I know you feel a certain way but that’s not on you.. We love you man..
They can walk into a fire station, a hospital, a police station, call emergency 911 all of the hotlines I have been there just get up and get help any help go to your neighbor you need professional help and they MUST talk the truth be real and say it what you are thinking thats the only way is to be honest .......so Cliff great message and God Bless
Thank you for the empathy , kindness & integrity for those with mental & physical pain. We are human (as you definitely put it) We need to be human for each other. I am 68 and was raised to help my neighbor. I too had issues and I think of those (even strangers) saved me. Thank you again, it really does make a difference today. Love your insight 🙏❣️
You are a good guy Cliff. That is too much of a burden for one person. You are doing the right thing by directing them to get help from professionals. Take care.❤
That’s a huge responsibility to shoulder brother. You can only do so much. You’re just another guy. I respect you for all you’ve done to help as many as you can. Just do what’s best for you. You’ve already done more than most. Much love brother
Have a hug. When people are that desperate, boundaries sometimes no longer exist. Don't feel bad, you do what you can do and I am sure you have helped many to cope a bit better. It's more of an indictment of support services than a reflection on you.
I am 55 years old and I found your TH-cam videos a couple years ago and I have always thought that your honesty about whether it’s Music or your talks about other subjects have been enjoyable and I’ve learned so much. This video broke my Heart for you , I am one of those people ( have 4 son’s that I’ve raised alone that are now 39,35,17&18 … But my life has not been the easiest , from a young abusive marriage that gave me PTSD , never knew what Anxiety or A Panic attack so severe that without someone knowing, completely passed out. Yes I sought help over the years so I could survive and be there and raise my children. ( yes the are about 20 years apart ) I did try again with a relationship that ended badly then my mother passed away 4 months later and it was the first time I wanted to just give up. We all walk this road in life though we may all have different paths and many similar paths ( stories) I understand what it’s like to feel completely alone in a room filled with people. I am the one people always come to for help or advice but like you there are just some subjects that I have not been able or thought I should give advice of any kind and as you tell them I can be here for you , listen and help in certain ways but as you said I am No Dr , and you put out there how much you care about your followers and many you’ve even developed a relationship with and that makes people feel not only seen but heard that you show that you care not for just an act for ratings or followers but truly give a dam. But the toll it takes on one’s emotional and mental Soul is crushing. I like to fix everything and i have learned I cannot and like you , not because we don’t care or what’s happening to each individual isn’t affecting you it’s the total opposite. It’s ripping you apart because there are no simple wise words or talking to anyone that is that depressed and truly feels that they are better off not being here anymore. If it’s even hard for professionals, us just caring but regular not trained in the way of truly helping and making a difference, all we can do , what you do is Listen and you told your truth so that whomever does need help in ways that you are not equipped to deal with and every person has a different story , but not one is less meaningful than the next. But I hope people realize that you are Human and as admitted going through your own bumpy road and also have a history . No one I’m sure that watched this and not only heard your words but felt each one hit them with all the care and love and understanding that you expressed. I hope as it is watched and shared people take your honesty and love filled message and decide to get the help they need and deserve , and next reach out to you and share how much his video gave them the courage, the spark that they deserve to be heard , receive help and you cared enough to put it all on the line and when they reach back out , they can reassure you that they are still here , still fighting for themselves because you gave a dam. You truly are a Special Man and I always feel better after watching you on here in whatever platform you are using to get music , stories, news , debates, personal stuff , it has made my life so very different because you have cared . Thank you 🌟🫂🌟 Dee Scarsilloni
I’ve been following you for a year or so now. Found you through Knox Hill…your other boo 😂 This is my 1st time commenting and I want to let you know your humor and warmth radiate from you. I appreciate how genuine and transparent you are. I am glad you are setting boundaries and recognizing how you need to care for yourself. This will also help you to continue being a light and support to others ❤
dude respect to you in the highest level.. best words to say.. also remember when and if you need a ear just message...keep on living, loving and making a differance.
I can't imagine having to read this stuff again and again like you have. Props to you for enduring as long as you have and also for pulling the break, when you couldn't handle it anymore. The fact that there are so many people out there, who are this miserable, is more alarming than anything going on right now. A lot of people are on the edge and for what? So a few people don't have to share their endless wealth? We need to change things and fast or we will never see the end of this... You are doing a lot of good here, my friend and we got your back as much as you have ours.
No apologies needed. You are amazing. You offer your shoulder, and that's an awesome thing. People who get to that point need to get help for their souls and not put it out to you. It can't be easy getting messages from people who are at the end of their rope. You care, and you love us. That is clear. I love your channel, and do I get down sometimes? Yes, but I also appreciate every day that I wake up and can start my day. 70 years old is not too far off, and I'm thankful for all I am enjoying and thankful that there are people like you in this world. Love you, young man.
There with you. 69. I've been stuck at home a lot lately taking care of a sick puppy which can feel a bit isolating, but it's temporary. My sister puppy sat so I could go for a walk today and all I could think while I was out is that this is enough, just to be on this amazing planet. Life is a struggle but we often forget that it's a miracle, too
@cathywethington5913 Hope your puppy gets well soon. I lost my 15 yr old girl in February. I know that I can't have another pet. Issues getting around wouldn't make me a good pet parent. But I have a great friend group and enjoy life. Take care........
@@DonnaShank-fj9cj He will be fine. He just has to be kept calm while he's going through heartworm treatments. I had concerns about adopting this late in life, but I'm lucky in being pretty healthy. The animal shelter was getting desperate and they aren't really puppies
Its not worth it. I followed that trail. Just short of the end, i was told, clear as day, i didnt get to do that until i was done. I hope more people get that message. Love you, Cliff. You're amazing. Big hugs.
I can tell you this, when i was in a dark place, it was around the time Eminem just whacked his songs out, and your comments and personality made me smile. You do more by just being yourself, making your vids, and making people smile. Never stop being you.
You're a good human, but you should not set yourself on fire to keep others warm. I'm glad you're setting a boundary. Protecting yourself doesn't make you any less of a good person. ❤
You can't carry the burdens of the world, it's enough that you're real enough to stand together with the rest of us as we all struggle through life together. You're more than enough, you're a legend.
As a minister and life coach we cannot be a Savior for people’s personal behavior. We are always there to be a hand up not a hand out. Some people don't want to fix themselves because they like the attention. But there are those who are at the end of there rope. Thanks for being a listening ear. It's sad when people don't realize that it's up to them personally to change. Keep doing what you're doing Bro. 🙏 💪 🫂 🤗
I don’t even watch that many of your videos, but I just have to tell you, I think you’re an absolutely amazing human being! Keep it up, we all love you too ❤
I couldn't have said it better!! Unfortunately, I've been put into that situation with a couple of friends. You are doing the right by making this video Cliff. You can't take the world on your shoulders, my friend. Life is hard for everyone right now ,and some all the time Unfortunately. Beautifully said !👏👏👏👏💙💙💙
You are absolutely right to set this boundary. Self care. You are a wonderful human being and more generous with yourself than most but this kind of thing is dangerous. ❤❤
G’day Cliff. As a veteran who suffers from multiple severe chronic mental and physical conditions, I just want to say thank you for everything that you’ve done and continue to do,what you’ve done today takes courage and a true love of your fellow man and from the bottom of my heart and with all sincerity if YOU EVER need someone to talk to or to lean on I’ve got you brother I’ve been doing this for many years now ever since I came to an understanding within myself and stopped trying to end my own suffering. I truly believe that what I’ve been and continue to go through is so that I can help others in any way I can. Shooter.
ur doing the right thing cliff, nobody can take this sort of pressure day after day, not even trained people can its alot to deal with, an ur have such a large caring heart, bless u for it. but u need to set boundaries for ur own mental health, stay safe, sending luv.
Oh, Cliff! I am so very sorry that this happened! You’re a good guy, and this community supports you. But the burden you were carrying was too much. Your advice is excellent. You are doing the right thing. 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
Oh, that is awful. I am sorry that you had some people threaten that and then go through with that. I had some of those dark thoughts as a teen, and I feel like it's easier to go to dark places mentally once you've been to dark places in the past. I think it is a wonderful thing that you are always there for your community as a supportive ear and friend. That's really all anyone can ask. Also, please take care of yourself 🙂
That is such a hard thing to have to deal with. You are such a beautiful soul with so much compassion. And it's absolutely wonderful what you do. I have had a lot of mental health issues but I just found out about a program that could really benefit a lot of people who are willing and ready on their recovery journey. It's called peer support and its having someone there who can support and provide resources for those who are looking for the help. I am currently going through classes for it and it is a wonderful program with amazing people.
As a psychotherapist Cliff you are 100% doing the right thing. No one can deal with that sort of thing 24/7. Your heart is beautiful to offer support, but this can drive you to burn out really quickly. You're an amazing guy, and your videos are so uplifting. You need these boundaries set, and you did it with such compassion and understanding. Sending love
I'm a Substance Use Disorder Professional and I concur with you. Burnout and compassion fatigue are very real. Please take care of yourself, my guy. AOD 4 Life! 👊👊👊
Here in the comments, take a look for CelestiaQuixs and see what SHE has to say.
Apparently, her comment was deleted!! She can still see it on her computer, but I have scrolled through the list of comments 4 times and it's not here. So I will share it now....
Dude! Hotlines do NOT help! From personal experience, I've been shuffled off the line with them saying they have to keep the lines open for those who are actively s*icidal. And, if you are active, they direct you off the line to call 911. Then, when you do, you end up on a legal hold only to be abused and witness abuses of other patients by hospital staff! THIS is part of why the mental health system is FARKED beyond belief--family and friends pass you off onto 'professionals' and 'professionals' only make it worse. And, no, these feelings aren't temporary for many of us. I've been chronically s*icidal since I was 14 years old. And, you're incorrect that there are no enemies but you, when you come from a scapegoating family. The FSA continues to occur in the PRESENT. And, do NOT tell me and others we haven't listened or tried hard enough. For 30 years I've taken all the page-long list of meds--old, new, experimental--all the therapies, none of it worked and they talked me into TWELVE SHOCK TREATMENTS!!! I've been cooperative AND compliant with all the suggestions and prescriptions! I will offer some unconventional possible solutions for others who have had the same experience with trying to get help: escapedgoats.org/unconventional-mental-health-resources-healing-trauma-and-abuse/
My former wife and partner commented this and it was deleted!! WHY???? Her comment contained a link and apparently links are not allowed in the comments on this page. So here's her comment without the link...
Dude! Hotlines do NOT help! From personal experience, I've been shuffled off the line with them saying they have to keep the lines open for those who are actively s*icidal. And, if you are active, they direct you off the line to call 911. Then, when you do, you end up on a legal hold only to be abused and witness abuses of other patients by hospital staff! THIS is part of why the mental health system is FARKED beyond belief--family and friends pass you off onto 'professionals' and 'professionals' only make it worse. And, no, these feelings aren't temporary for many of us. I've been chronically s*icidal since I was 14 years old. And, you're incorrect that there are no enemies but you, when you come from a scapegoating family. The FSA continues to occur in the PRESENT. And, do NOT tell me and others we haven't listened or tried hard enough. For 30 years I've taken all the page-long list of meds--old, new, experimental--all the therapies, none of it worked and they talked me into TWELVE SHOCK TREATMENTS!!! I've been cooperative AND compliant with all the suggestions and prescriptions! I will offer some unconventional possible solutions for others who have had the same experience with trying to get help:
Yeah, never mind what i said. Her comment as well as MINE that I copied and pasted her comment without the link were ALL NOT ALLOWED for whatever reason. Apparently Cliff doesn't like hearing the truth.
You can't pour from an empty cup man, and you're right, you're not a professional to deal with crisis situations... Thanks for being genuine man
Boundaries are important and you set them gracefully and respectfully. Don't worry man, we feel the love. Keep being a beautiful human.
Therapist here: helpers have to keep boundaries or we will not be able to help anyone for very long. Please, everyone, take care of your people…and sometimes that care is pointing them to a professional resource. 988
The carers need caring for as well. And when I became a social worker I got told to know when to refer is so important. When clients would tell me they're wanting to get themselves or others I would tell them I'm happy to keep chatting but I have to tell their case worker & psych. And I did, quite a lot. I think of the ones lost along the way but I like to think that some of the hard chats lead to good things
My mom passed in April. Cliff was very gracious to me. He’s a good human. Cliff carries a heavy burden just trying to help people. He’s a good man. I hope people respect what he’s saying.
Respect Cliff.
Hearing about your mom's passing and the few details you shared was truly heartbreaking, Chris. In all honesty, I think about it far more than I likely should (due to the fact we know each other just from Cliffs chats and discord) ... but you and your mom, and i guess your loss, it just comes to mind often ... I was, and still am, so floored by it all, that it's left me literally speechless (which is a pretty hard feet tbh ... bc I'm NEVER at a loss for words lol). Sorry to ramble, but I just wanted to let ya know you're in my thoughts (even though I haven't been able to put those thoughts into any resemblance of a supportive message) ... I hope you're doing well .
I'm schizophrenic and I've never reached out to you for help...but...the fact that you offer help has actually helped me and my mental state. It's a good feeling to know that someone out there (you) actually cares and is willing to 'deep dive' into a random viewer's mental struggle in order to help. Thank you.
Love you Marv. You're stronger than you think. Other people haven't survived what you HAVE already.
I know what it's like to struggle with something painful that may well never end. I've spent a lot of time in the pit over it, but when that first ray of proverbial sunshine hits your face after coming out of a coma-like depression... There is no greater source of serotonin.
It's worth living to feel that happiness, and if you're down far enough and survive it, you WILL feel it again.
My buddy has schizophrenia and just checked himself in to a psych ward for a week. He goes 2 or 3 times a year when he’s in a bad state and it helps him when it’s needed
Sir, I work at a crisis center as one of the suicide line operators, and you are 100% right to set these boundaries. You aren't trained to help with issues like suicide, and it is not your burden to carry.
Something I frequently have to remind myself of, is that suicide is a choice. It is up to that person to choose life, and nobody else has the ability or the right to choose for them (even though, professionally, I have to do everything within my power). Anybody who has asked you for help, and threatened or completed suicide, is NOT your responsibility.
Thank you for what you do. 🙏🏼❤️
Me too!!
Thank you for what you do @frostiestark9533. You are such a kind soul. ^_^ I've ran into a few guys too myself that I've encountered that wanted to 'off themselves' that I knew from my college days and messaged me about it and I was just so tired of the drama they brought to my life and blocked them from my social media platforms because there was not much I could do for them and it seemed like all they wanted was attention. I just wanted out of that negativity and hope they themselves get the help they properly need for my peace of mind. So I understand what Cliff was going through as myself has been there always wanting to help people but not everyone could be saved and could help themselves if they need the help from the suicide line operators.
Former military first responder here. Just wanted to say what you are doing for other people with your platform is incredible and selfless. That said, boundaries are important, and YOU HAVE GOT to take care of yourself. Much love, much respect, and I sincerely hope things get better for you and for everyone else for that matter.
I hope you're doing alright Cliff, being the shoulder for THOUSANDS of people to lean on must be SO HARD. I'm sorry to hear about those two people who ended things im sending my thoughts and prayers to their families. Much love Cliff ❤️🙏
Elastic bands only stretch so far and then snap 💙
You put your own mental health above anything Cliff! We got you 💙
I’m so sorry this happened Cliff. You’re a great person for offering to be there at all but this is soul crushing 😢
My best friend deleted himself when we were in 8th grade, over a girl. He told me he was going to do it several times, at that age I could only do what my maturity allowed. I’m 56 years old now, I still think about if I could have done things different, but a friend from my HS days told me, “Bob, you’re the nicest guy we know, but you can’t save everybody.” (Remember, this was the 80s when “mental health” was taboo, we were not supposed to ask for help). I’m a Veteran, I see a doctor every year; there’s help out there, don’t be ashamed, we all have something that bothers us, ask a pro, figure it out, and stay here with us! ❤❤❤
We love you man, you're only one person. You deserve the world for even tryin to hold all that weight.
I'm a psychotherapist and did on-call psych crisis duty for 8 years so I get what you are going through. It got to be that my phone ringing during off hours was trigging PTSD. Really proud of you for setting the health boundaries you need. Remember, you are no good to anyone if you don't take care of yourself first and roll modeling healthy boundaries and self-care does more than you might think. Much love and appreciation for your kind presence.
I can’t imagine the mental and emotional wear on you. Thank you for all you do. ❤
You're a lighthouse in this world brother, but it takes a lot of energy to keep that light on 24/7. You gotta do what's right for you, and for the people reaching out, and that's exactly what you have done.
I attempted "self deletion" 7 times from my mid-teens until my late 20s. Had I actually succeeded, NONE of the wonderful things that have happened to me since, would have happened. I'm 57 now, I have a wonderful wife to share my life with, and that's something I thought I would never have. So, speaking from experience, I can honestly say that "It's not worth it, things WILL get better, you just need to give it time."
You're a good dude, Cliff. What you do can change lives.
Pleased to know you are still here, thank you for sharing this
@@tanishachoudhuri Thank you! I only share that, in hopes of letting someone who is as desperate for a way out as I was 30 years ago, realize that you CAN go on, and have a good life. Ending it when you are "down", is just a bad idea. Hell, I honestly didn't really know what "depression" was until I held my first wife's hand when she took her final breath. I thought I did, but that became my lowest point, ever. She fought cancer for nearly 3 years. I stayed by her side, even though she offered to "break up" with me, to save me the heartache she knew was coming. As I said to her, "I can't claim to love you as much as I do, if I'm willing to walk away when you need me the most." As strong as that woman was, she broke down and cried when I told her that. I stayed with her from diagnosis, until the day she died. I regret nothing, except that she DID die from it. She was actually more worried about me, than she was about her own impending death. Especially when she was deemed "terminal".
Before she passed, she had promised me that "when the time is right, I'll send you someone so that you won't be lonely for the rest of your life." The number 3 had surrounded her when she died.... and it was 3 years and 3 months after she died, that I reconnected with a woman whom I had known back in school. We "hit it off", and I somehow knew.... THIS was who Rose (my first wife) had sent to me. She even came to me in a dream and told me so. Katina (my current wife) and I have been together for 15 years, and married 13 years next Monday.
I know that every day, Rose looks down on me and smiles.
But NONE of that would have happened, meeting Rose, marrying her, going through cancer with her, re-meeting Katina, marrying her, and being happy now... had I been successful in ANY of those 7 attempts. I'm in a good place, mentally.... even though I have lived a life filled with traumas. If I can find happiness.... anyone can. THAT is the message I want to pass on to others who might be thinking of ending themselves. I've been there, done that, and worn holes in the t-shirt.
@@IggyStardust1967 wow as a Gen Z whose life just barely started, you have been through shit. Stories like this truly inspire.
If there’s one thing we have learnt from life is there’s always change. 😊
whats self deletion? i thought deleting your social media or something but you're 57 ? did you mean suicide? something we already have a word for?
You're good man. Don't worry we support you
Cliff, you've been here for all of us. Taking on that stress is too much. You don't need to apologize for that. You're a good man and we all know that. ❤
Bro you’re a very compassionate man. It’s tough to try to take on everyone else’s troubles. You’re a sweetheart. No diddy. No bullshit I understand you it’s hard to be everything for everyone. God bless you and your good intentions.
Damn man, you’re such. Good hearted dude, I’m sorry for that toll, I’m also sad for those people, sad world. Your a bright spot in the darkness man
I have a friend who was very suicidal. If I tried to beg him not to he would only get more aggravated because it wasn’t respecting his decision. So I just told him thank you for all the differences made in my life for me. That he made my world a better place and I’ll always love him for it. I was at work and couldn’t stay texting him as I was a raft guide. He ended up moving across the country to where I had moved to when I offered him a ride there and a place to stay for a month. Now he’s a new man. Sooo wise and smart.
That was 4-5 years ago. Now fast forward to this year, I had another friend back home telling me he was gonna kill himself. All my energy for this was given to the first friend. It was too much for me. He ended up doing it and I’m beside myself. I tried telling him to move out west too. I really wish there was someone other than me to be there for him because I couldn’t
This should be a given. I have actually worried about the toll this could have on you. Setting boundaries is a healthy component. I absolutely love how compassionate you are to your fans. Lots of love to all!
You’re a good man. I remember when back in the 1980s in Fairbanks Alaska we started a crisis line and trained people how to deal with this subject. It’s very difficult techniques used need a steady practiced mind. But the turnover in people who volunteered as crisis line workers was extremely highbecause of this subject. I did it for over 10 years and had to walk away to save my own sanity to make space for myself again and to mourn. Many blessings to you young man.
Good for you, Cliff
Everyone needs a shoulder Cliff. We love you and are honored to have your shoulder if we need one. Don't forget that there are probably 300,000 that watch this that would have no issue flipping that. Love you brother, keep your head up and stay positive.
Oh man I dont need any help but I wanna thank you for what you do it's way above and beyond it's sad it has to come to this
So sorry you were put in that position. It sucks. It's hard feeling so helpless. We love you man. I hope that everyone feeling that way can get the help they need.
That's not fair to you bro. We are always here to support you Cliff.
So sorry for the loss of your followers who were in crises🙏it is a sad situation and most definitely not your burden to carry! The caring you always show and continue to show has helped many get through! That's worthy of thanks❤❤❤
As a former psychiatric nurse I knew this would crop up and I did fear you would have been overwhelmed with the kind offer to help others and lend time and an ear to people experiencing difficult times . This was a genuine kind act however the floodgates opened for the above of self harming and worse you are right to speak off the inadequate responsibility and training you have to deal with same it's a difficult task for professionals who have back up support and conceling for this difficult subject matter keep doing what you do best and to keep yourself safe to be you be honest as you are and withdraw the kind offer to help it's a unsurmountable can off worms that good intention can affect your own life and lifestyle take care and a do love your channel
Respect bro, gotta make the best decision for you, you can't bear the weight of the world
You are a good man Cliff, kudos to you for actually putting up some boundaries, you need to keep your mental health in check too :) glad you always keep it real.
I've been through that with a friend, he kept saying he was gonna do it and I was younger and really wanted to help him.
But it broke me, and it destroyed the friendship we had. I have 100% respect for how much you do at your level.
What your saying is 100% right, and such constant negativity isn't healthy at all and effects us more than we know.
I have even more respect for you speaking on this to your audience, as most people would not.
Just like you have are backs I have yours too! Stay positive brother 🫡
Hay bro, we understand, as a person that struggles with PTSD I understand what your saying take care of yourself cause without you we wouldn't have this great channel
Dude, I’ve been on both ends of that stick. I’ve been suicidal and I’ve tried to help people who were suicidal to the point where family had to step in and tell me I needed to worry about picking myself up and keeping myself going before others. Your doing the right thing. It won’t help anyone if you aren’t properly equipped and it’s putting you in a worse position with yourself and the people around you. It takes balls and honesty to make this video and your heart is in the right place it seems. Lots of respect to you dude cause just the fact that you do as much as you do is more than a lot of people can say.
You are such a kind, compassionate guy and i had a feeling this was coming. You are doing the right thing. ❤
You are only one person, not a doctor/professional, and everyone has their breaking point and you setting boundaries is super healthy!!
I made it 4 minutes into this video, and I'm already feeling your struggle. Before I finish it, let me say, that out of all my subscriptions, you, Upchurch, and Uncle Ray are some of the most influential. That's just me. You chose to put yourself on this platform, but you are not responsible for anyone's decisions. Don't carry that weight. Of those I've mentioned, I've never been anything but uplifted by your content, whether I relate to it or not. I still watch and enjoy, just because of y'all. For instance...I don't care for Harry Mack. But I watch you all anyway. Some of us are here for you guys, not just the reaction. Stay strong, my friend. HB from Maine. #creeksquad
Cliff it's wonderful that you want be there for people but if you don't look after yourself, you'll be no good for anyone. Take care, please🌻
I reached out to you once at my lowest point. I didn’t expect answers or even that you’d respond, but you did. No solution just kind words of support. It did help knowing somebody cared and I thank you, but you’re doing the right thing. I can’t imagine feeling the weight of so many strangers that you aren’t equipped to handle. You might appreciate Guns for Hands by Twenty-One Pilots. Tyler wrote it after talking to fans who wanted to unalive themselves. He wanted to help them and settle his own mind. Take care of yourself ❤
I also have mental health issues and I am lucky to be seeing a psychiatrist and taking medication. I appreciate your support and your reaching out to those who really need it.
Cliff, you are a good man. Thank you for letting me and all of your subscribers know you care. That's a HUGE help. We need you to do what's good for you so you can keep doing what you do. Love you.
Cliff you are a compassionate man whom cares for mankind. We will support you in any way possible, as you do when life permits. Prayers, Love and Strength for all.❤️🙏🌹
I struggle with these thoughts everyday... it's difficult to talk about, but it's more difficult to listen to it. It puts a lot of pressure on the listener unless they're a professional. No one deserves to think about offing themselves and it's also unfair to feel like someone's life is in your hands. Love you Cliff.
Thank you so much Cliff for protecting your heart and your peace - knowing what you are and are not equipped for and setting those boundaries is so important for your own wellbeing.
I work in s prevention and I definitely agree with redirecting those in serious crisis to a professional hotline for those heavy crisis moments and conversations. They can come back and talk to friends more safely once the peak of the crisis has settled and they have been supported by someone equipped to handled that type of situation.
You are doing an amazing thing for so many people Cliff!
I adore you Cliff. We all support you. The fact that you are always offering to be there for people to be listening ear is one of the most selfless things! It shows your true character. You always say that you are no doctor… People should not be abusing your kindness and putting so much on you. It is a heavy burden to carry which is unfair for someone to pile on you. It’s generous of you to offer your time to listen to people and be there for people, but I think you need to draw firm boundaries to protect your own mental health ! That is just too much! ❤️I love you- you have one of the biggest hearts. ❤ sending you a big hug, brother❤❤❤
It’s ok man the community will support you because you have such helpful people I’m here for you too if you need support.
Well said. You’re a helluva good guy.
Thank you for navigating these strange new times in communication.
Your health matters too man, it take a real one to make a video like this.
Keep being real and true!
its ok to make sure your mental health is taken care off. totally support your decision
For what it's worth, I agree with your decision. You're a caring human being. Much love and support.
My heart breaks for the ones who were lost. Much love & healing to the AOD Fam. I'm so sorry Cliff.
Oh man, Cliff, you know we are here for you as well. Totally agree that if they want to harm themselves, they really should be seeking help from a doctor.
Sending you so much·love, not only for being there willing to help help whoever is willing to help themselves...but I appreciate you doing this for YOU ❤ because You are Worthy of nothing less.
Thank You
Your health is priority. Take time for self care. Support and provide contacts/suggestions for professional who can help. Thank you for all the support you give the community. We appreciate the honesty and support tou provide .We support tou and are blessed to have you and tour channel. Hope you feel better soon.
I myself deal with depression and have had those thoughts but through watching your videos i realized that there are people who care and who love me i have a 2 year old son and without your videos and your positive attitude and love for people my son wouldn't have a father so I just wanted to say thank you and I love you your a good dude
These wonderfully supportive comments just tell me what I already knew: that you have grown a great community here. The fact so many are willing to bear you up should show you how admirable and commendable you are. When the internet can be such a place of hatred, you have cultivated a place where people can be themselves and enjoy things they love with other people. You're a standup dude, man. Take care of yourself and your girl, and let her take care of you back. Do what you gotta do, we got you.
You strike me as being a kind person. That doesn't change because you draw boundaries to protect your own mental health. Boundaries are good and when it comes to managing thoughts and threats of self-harm, they are really important. I'm glad you've done this.
Just keep your chin up brother. Taking on the responsibility of being there for strangers is unbelievably commendable. But that doesn’t make their decisions or even their circumstances your actual responsibility. You’ve shown yourself to be a genuinely good dude and you’ll find that balance as you keep going. Take care of you first or you won’t be any good to anyone else brother. Luckily I’ve been able to work through my past issues but to everyone who hasn’t yet just know: you can do it. I’m 11 1/2 years sober and I’d have told you 12 years ago it would never happen. Stay strong. Have faith in something. (I am a Christian but I understand religion isn’t everyone’s thing). Keep your eyes and your heart focused on the future and you can get through whatever you’re dealing with. Thanks Cliff and to anyone who may read this: you are loved and this world needs you.
Congrats on your sobriety, that’s huge. I’ve been clean about the same amount of time (11 years and 2.5 months) and I’m humbled every time I think about how many days that is.
I’m so sorry man.. That’s a huge burden to bare.. I know you are here for all of Us.. I hope people can get the help that they need .. The ones who ended their life doesn’t fall on you man.. I know you feel a certain way but that’s not on you.. We love you man..
They can walk into a fire station, a hospital, a police station, call emergency 911 all of the hotlines I have been there just get up and get help any help go to your neighbor you need professional help and they MUST talk the truth be real and say it what you are thinking thats the only way is to be honest .......so Cliff great message and God Bless
Thank you for the empathy , kindness & integrity for those with mental & physical pain. We are human (as you definitely put it) We need to be human for each other. I am 68 and was raised to help my neighbor. I too had issues and I think of those (even strangers) saved me. Thank you again, it really does make a difference today. Love your insight 🙏❣️
Cliff, you're doing the right thing. I couldnt imaginehaving that happen. Im praying for you.
I support you for your own mental health. I hope you do what you feel is right with you.
You are a good guy Cliff. That is too much of a burden for one person. You are doing the right thing by directing them to get help from professionals. Take care.❤
Youre a good man... thanks for being here for us.... RESPECT 💯💯💯💯
That’s a huge responsibility to shoulder brother. You can only do so much. You’re just another guy. I respect you for all you’ve done to help as many as you can. Just do what’s best for you. You’ve already done more than most. Much love brother
Have a hug. When people are that desperate, boundaries sometimes no longer exist. Don't feel bad, you do what you can do and I am sure you have helped many to cope a bit better. It's more of an indictment of support services than a reflection on you.
I am 55 years old and I found your TH-cam videos a couple years ago and I have always thought that your honesty about whether it’s Music or your talks about other subjects have been enjoyable and I’ve learned so much. This video broke my Heart for you , I am one of those people ( have 4 son’s that I’ve raised alone that are now 39,35,17&18 … But my life has not been the easiest , from a young abusive marriage that gave me PTSD , never knew what Anxiety or A Panic attack so severe that without someone knowing, completely passed out. Yes I sought help over the years so I could survive and be there and raise my children. ( yes the are about 20 years apart ) I did try again with a relationship that ended badly then my mother passed away 4 months later and it was the first time I wanted to just give up. We all walk this road in life though we may all have different paths and many similar paths ( stories) I understand what it’s like to feel completely alone in a room filled with people. I am the one people always come to for help or advice but like you there are just some subjects that I have not been able or thought I should give advice of any kind and as you tell them I can be here for you , listen and help in certain ways but as you said I am No Dr , and you put out there how much you care about your followers and many you’ve even developed a relationship with and that makes people feel not only seen but heard that you show that you care not for just an act for ratings or followers but truly give a dam. But the toll it takes on one’s emotional and mental Soul is crushing. I like to fix everything and i have learned I cannot and like you , not because we don’t care or what’s happening to each individual isn’t affecting you it’s the total opposite. It’s ripping you apart because there are no simple wise words or talking to anyone that is that depressed and truly feels that they are better off not being here anymore. If it’s even hard for professionals, us just caring but regular not trained in the way of truly helping and making a difference, all we can do , what you do is Listen and you told your truth so that whomever does need help in ways that you are not equipped to deal with and every person has a different story , but not one is less meaningful than the next. But I hope people realize that you are Human and as admitted going through your own bumpy road and also have a history . No one I’m sure that watched this and not only heard your words but felt each one hit them with all the care and love and understanding that you expressed. I hope as it is watched and shared people take your honesty and love filled message and decide to get the help they need and deserve , and next reach out to you and share how much his video gave them the courage, the spark that they deserve to be heard , receive help and you cared enough to put it all on the line and when they reach back out , they can reassure you that they are still here , still fighting for themselves because you gave a dam. You truly are a Special Man and I always feel better after watching you on here in whatever platform you are using to get music , stories, news , debates, personal stuff , it has made my life so very different because you have cared . Thank you 🌟🫂🌟 Dee Scarsilloni
I’ve been following you for a year or so now. Found you through Knox Hill…your other boo 😂
This is my 1st time commenting and I want to let you know your humor and warmth radiate from you. I appreciate how genuine and transparent you are. I am glad you are setting boundaries and recognizing how you need to care for yourself. This will also help you to continue being a light and support to others ❤
Good for you bud. It’s admirable to want to help everyone, but not at your own expense. There are professionals out there for just this purpose.
We got you buddy
Do What makes you happy ❤
"I told myself that I don't mind
But words like that won't help
'Cause you can't tell lies to yourself" -Ren
Laurin
dude respect to you in the highest level.. best words to say.. also remember when and if you need a ear just message...keep on living, loving and making a differance.
You already know how I feel. I'm glad you have addressed it. ❤️
Cliff. Please take care of yourself. How can we support you? Love you mad big bro...
I can't imagine having to read this stuff again and again like you have. Props to you for enduring as long as you have and also for pulling the break, when you couldn't handle it anymore. The fact that there are so many people out there, who are this miserable, is more alarming than anything going on right now. A lot of people are on the edge and for what? So a few people don't have to share their endless wealth? We need to change things and fast or we will never see the end of this... You are doing a lot of good here, my friend and we got your back as much as you have ours.
No apologies needed. You are amazing. You offer your shoulder, and that's an awesome thing. People who get to that point need to get help for their souls and not put it out to you. It can't be easy getting messages from people who are at the end of their rope. You care, and you love us. That is clear. I love your channel, and do I get down sometimes? Yes, but I also appreciate every day that I wake up and can start my day. 70 years old is not too far off, and I'm thankful for all I am enjoying and thankful that there are people like you in this world. Love you, young man.
There with you. 69. I've been stuck at home a lot lately taking care of a sick puppy which can feel a bit isolating, but it's temporary. My sister puppy sat so I could go for a walk today and all I could think while I was out is that this is enough, just to be on this amazing planet. Life is a struggle but we often forget that it's a miracle, too
@cathywethington5913 Hope your puppy gets well soon. I lost my 15 yr old girl in February. I know that I can't have another pet. Issues getting around wouldn't make me a good pet parent. But I have a great friend group and enjoy life. Take care........
@@DonnaShank-fj9cj He will be fine. He just has to be kept calm while he's going through heartworm treatments. I had concerns about adopting this late in life, but I'm lucky in being pretty healthy. The animal shelter was getting desperate and they aren't really puppies
@@DonnaShank-fj9cj I'm sorry about your puppy. I lost my two babies in 2022 and 2023. They were both thirteen. Still miss them like crazy
Its not worth it. I followed that trail. Just short of the end, i was told, clear as day, i didnt get to do that until i was done. I hope more people get that message. Love you, Cliff. You're amazing. Big hugs.
I can tell you this, when i was in a dark place, it was around the time Eminem just whacked his songs out, and your comments and personality made me smile. You do more by just being yourself, making your vids, and making people smile. Never stop being you.
One love, Cliff.
We’re here for you, as well.
Be well.
♡
You're a good human, but you should not set yourself on fire to keep others warm. I'm glad you're setting a boundary. Protecting yourself doesn't make you any less of a good person. ❤
You can't carry the burdens of the world, it's enough that you're real enough to stand together with the rest of us as we all struggle through life together. You're more than enough, you're a legend.
As a minister and life coach we cannot be a Savior for people’s personal behavior. We are always there to be a hand up not a hand out.
Some people don't want to fix themselves because they like the attention. But there are those who are at the end of there rope.
Thanks for being a listening ear.
It's sad when people don't realize that it's up to them personally to change.
Keep doing what you're doing Bro. 🙏 💪 🫂 🤗
I don’t even watch that many of your videos, but I just have to tell you, I think you’re an absolutely amazing human being! Keep it up, we all love you too ❤
Love you Cliff, don't let it get to you brother. We're here for you just like you're here for us❤
I couldn't have said it better!! Unfortunately, I've been put into that situation with a couple of friends.
You are doing the right by making this video Cliff. You can't take the world on your shoulders, my friend. Life is hard for everyone right now ,and some all the time Unfortunately. Beautifully said !👏👏👏👏💙💙💙
It’s great that you have a heart of gold We all need a friend to talk to every once in a while. Thanks brother
I agree 100%... triggers can cause action... and actions can cause triggers... it is a cycle you need to break...
You're a good man, Cliff.
Taking care of yourself always has to come first.
You are absolutely right to set this boundary. Self care. You are a wonderful human being and more generous with yourself than most but this kind of thing is dangerous. ❤❤
G’day Cliff. As a veteran who suffers from multiple severe chronic mental and physical conditions, I just want to say thank you for everything that you’ve done and continue to do,what you’ve done today takes courage and a true love of your fellow man and from the bottom of my heart and with all sincerity if YOU EVER need someone to talk to or to lean on I’ve got you brother I’ve been doing this for many years now ever since I came to an understanding within myself and stopped trying to end my own suffering. I truly believe that what I’ve been and continue to go through is so that I can help others in any way I can. Shooter.
ur doing the right thing cliff, nobody can take this sort of pressure day after day, not even trained people can its alot to deal with, an ur have such a large caring heart, bless u for it. but u need to set boundaries for ur own mental health, stay safe, sending luv.
Oh, Cliff! I am so very sorry that this happened!
You’re a good guy, and this community supports you.
But the burden you were carrying was too much.
Your advice is excellent.
You are doing the right thing. 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
Oh, that is awful. I am sorry that you had some people threaten that and then go through with that. I had some of those dark thoughts as a teen, and I feel like it's easier to go to dark places mentally once you've been to dark places in the past. I think it is a wonderful thing that you are always there for your community as a supportive ear and friend. That's really all anyone can ask. Also, please take care of yourself 🙂
Peace and blessings from the UK Cliff 👍🏾🇬🇧
All good, remember to take care for yourself too
That is such a hard thing to have to deal with. You are such a beautiful soul with so much compassion. And it's absolutely wonderful what you do. I have had a lot of mental health issues but I just found out about a program that could really benefit a lot of people who are willing and ready on their recovery journey. It's called peer support and its having someone there who can support and provide resources for those who are looking for the help. I am currently going through classes for it and it is a wonderful program with amazing people.