i love the last line of the bridge " last year i felt suicidal this year i might something different like talking to God more" as a Christian who has been there and done that let me tell you that it help a lot thanks guys for the awesome reaction much love 👌
We always enjoy NF and can't wait for more either!!! We are glad we didn't stop too😁 It's great people like you that make it so fun!! Thanks for watching! -D
“Wow the sun is bright.” Tell me why I didn’t notice the sun til right after the video but before you said that Andrea 😂 I was like I would be blind lol. Anyways, I have a couple things to say about this song. For one, I’ve listened to it before but never paid much attention to it I guess until literally just now. Maybe it’s because of what I’m currently going through. One thing I love about NF is that he isn’t afraid to be vulnerable, which is something I’ve always feared. I’ve been slowly learning that it’s okay to be that way, and in fact it’s a lot healthier for your mental state. It’s just a matter of letting yourself be that way. I find it interesting about the mention of not doing drugs, yet comparing his feelings to as if he had been doing them. Which is definitely an accurate analogy as to how it can feel when it comes to mental illness and trauma. But, to show my own vulnerability, this song itself hits hard, cause yeah change is very difficult, but even though he states his personal experience of not doing drugs, it still alludes to the effects of abusing them, which is why it hits hard for me because on the 5th I’ll be 2 months clean of cocaine and amphetamines, and because of that this lyrical content really hits home. I don’t mind sharing my story, especially at this point because I care about other people and want them to know they’re not alone in something like this. But also because of my family and friends who have reassured me and told me how proud they are of me for wanting to make this major change in my life. Through you guys I’m glad to have met Charlotte because she has been so encouraging throughout this process as well and hearing from her that she’s proud of me means a lot. I know she kinda mentioned that in other comments before without context, but knowing what she meant and her telling me while we text has been an immense help, so I know this part isn’t directly related to you guys, but I at least wanna give her a shout out for being there. Anyways, this song really does strike a chord, and as y’all probably have already noticed I am not religious and don’t have the same beliefs as you do so the mention of god in this doesn’t quite ring true to me in a literal sense, but I take god to be anybody who has ever supported and helped me throughout my struggles because without them, I wouldn’t be where I am in this current moment in time. Okay I’m done with trauma dumping lol this song has officially found a way into my heart and I probably would’ve never made that connection if it wasn’t for y’all reacting to it. I do think certain things happen for a reason, no matter how small it might be like this. Anyways, love you guys and as always I’ll see you in the next one!
Being vulnerable without expectations is honestly so freeing, like just being able to talk openly about how you feel and what you’re going through without expecting anything from the people around you is supreme freedom. Sometimes just having someone that lets you be yourself and be vulnerable is helpful since it clears your mind of all the constant worrying about making sure you don’t say too much or that you don’t give any indication that you’re struggling. I wish more people felt comfortable being honest about how they are, but I think it takes people genuinely reaching out to those around them and checking in for people to see that others really care about them. As for being proud, anyone with half a brain should be proud of you lol You’re pushing through something that is insanely difficult and I am glad that you feel comfortable talking about it because it is important for others to know that they aren’t alone. It also helps to not give false expectations if people are more aware of how the experience was for others since I feel like TV shows and movies portray addiction in a weird way where it’s almost like all of a sudden they are clean and they go off to live their happy life, but it’s not like that at all. Anyone I’ve ever met that has talked to me about the topic, I told them straight up that it’s difficult as hell to get clean and that it never really goes away either. It’s always something that you will go back to, like when stuff gets difficult you will want the drugs again, even years later, but that’s why it’s important to find healthy ways to cope because it does get easier. As cringe as it sounds, I am a big supporter of healthy coping skills lol I feel like I lost track of what I was saying about 13 times writing this, but my point is that you are very much appreciated, you are one of the most understanding people I have ever met, you are strong as hell, and I am 100% here for you if you ever need anything, even if you do have too much cat hair on your hats.
@@_HolyHell_ I agree with you 100% on everything that you said. Unfortunately there’s still a huge stigma around addiction and mental illness and because of the pressures that come from that it makes it really hard for people to talk about or reach out for help. I hope that continues to change over time. Thank you, Charlotte 🖤 you’re the best. I got your back too. But just know, if you ever do help me with something it’s not just the hats that are covered in cat fur, it’s everything sis.
I love that this song struck a cord with you and at this exact time in your life!! So proud of you for being sober now for almost 2 months, that is amazing!!!! You got this Becca, and Charlotte being there along side you as someone to talk with and help you through those tough times is so incredibly cool. Just bringing you two together like that makes creating this channel so worth it for me😊!!! -❤️Dallas P.S. And Charlotte you are such an amazing person too, you guys have both been through so much and it's great that you are able to lean on each other!
@@dna2001 Thank you so much 🖤 it’s been really hard but it’s all been so worth it. And yeah Charlotte’s alright I guess 🤷🏼♀️😂 But nah for real, I definitely have you guys to thank for bringing her into my life. It’s crazy how one thing can lead to another great thing. Plus I’m glad to have you guys in my life of course too! Nothing but love 🖤
i love the last line of the bridge " last year i felt suicidal this year i might something different like talking to God more" as a Christian who has been there and done that let me tell you that it help a lot thanks guys for the awesome reaction much love 👌
Yes!!! Love this line so much!!! Thanks for the kind words😊 -D
I really appreciate y’all doing NF. It’s how I found y’all :)
The wait for more NF has been killing me!! Btw, so thankful yall didn’t call it quits on the channel!
We always enjoy NF and can't wait for more either!!! We are glad we didn't stop too😁 It's great people like you that make it so fun!! Thanks for watching! -D
“Wow the sun is bright.” Tell me why I didn’t notice the sun til right after the video but before you said that Andrea 😂 I was like I would be blind lol.
Anyways, I have a couple things to say about this song. For one, I’ve listened to it before but never paid much attention to it I guess until literally just now. Maybe it’s because of what I’m currently going through. One thing I love about NF is that he isn’t afraid to be vulnerable, which is something I’ve always feared. I’ve been slowly learning that it’s okay to be that way, and in fact it’s a lot healthier for your mental state. It’s just a matter of letting yourself be that way.
I find it interesting about the mention of not doing drugs, yet comparing his feelings to as if he had been doing them. Which is definitely an accurate analogy as to how it can feel when it comes to mental illness and trauma. But, to show my own vulnerability, this song itself hits hard, cause yeah change is very difficult, but even though he states his personal experience of not doing drugs, it still alludes to the effects of abusing them, which is why it hits hard for me because on the 5th I’ll be 2 months clean of cocaine and amphetamines, and because of that this lyrical content really hits home. I don’t mind sharing my story, especially at this point because I care about other people and want them to know they’re not alone in something like this. But also because of my family and friends who have reassured me and told me how proud they are of me for wanting to make this major change in my life. Through you guys I’m glad to have met Charlotte because she has been so encouraging throughout this process as well and hearing from her that she’s proud of me means a lot. I know she kinda mentioned that in other comments before without context, but knowing what she meant and her telling me while we text has been an immense help, so I know this part isn’t directly related to you guys, but I at least wanna give her a shout out for being there.
Anyways, this song really does strike a chord, and as y’all probably have already noticed I am not religious and don’t have the same beliefs as you do so the mention of god in this doesn’t quite ring true to me in a literal sense, but I take god to be anybody who has ever supported and helped me throughout my struggles because without them, I wouldn’t be where I am in this current moment in time.
Okay I’m done with trauma dumping lol this song has officially found a way into my heart and I probably would’ve never made that connection if it wasn’t for y’all reacting to it. I do think certain things happen for a reason, no matter how small it might be like this. Anyways, love you guys and as always I’ll see you in the next one!
Being vulnerable without expectations is honestly so freeing, like just being able to talk openly about how you feel and what you’re going through without expecting anything from the people around you is supreme freedom. Sometimes just having someone that lets you be yourself and be vulnerable is helpful since it clears your mind of all the constant worrying about making sure you don’t say too much or that you don’t give any indication that you’re struggling. I wish more people felt comfortable being honest about how they are, but I think it takes people genuinely reaching out to those around them and checking in for people to see that others really care about them. As for being proud, anyone with half a brain should be proud of you lol You’re pushing through something that is insanely difficult and I am glad that you feel comfortable talking about it because it is important for others to know that they aren’t alone. It also helps to not give false expectations if people are more aware of how the experience was for others since I feel like TV shows and movies portray addiction in a weird way where it’s almost like all of a sudden they are clean and they go off to live their happy life, but it’s not like that at all. Anyone I’ve ever met that has talked to me about the topic, I told them straight up that it’s difficult as hell to get clean and that it never really goes away either. It’s always something that you will go back to, like when stuff gets difficult you will want the drugs again, even years later, but that’s why it’s important to find healthy ways to cope because it does get easier. As cringe as it sounds, I am a big supporter of healthy coping skills lol I feel like I lost track of what I was saying about 13 times writing this, but my point is that you are very much appreciated, you are one of the most understanding people I have ever met, you are strong as hell, and I am 100% here for you if you ever need anything, even if you do have too much cat hair on your hats.
@@_HolyHell_ I agree with you 100% on everything that you said. Unfortunately there’s still a huge stigma around addiction and mental illness and because of the pressures that come from that it makes it really hard for people to talk about or reach out for help. I hope that continues to change over time. Thank you, Charlotte 🖤 you’re the best. I got your back too. But just know, if you ever do help me with something it’s not just the hats that are covered in cat fur, it’s everything sis.
I love that this song struck a cord with you and at this exact time in your life!! So proud of you for being sober now for almost 2 months, that is amazing!!!! You got this Becca, and Charlotte being there along side you as someone to talk with and help you through those tough times is so incredibly cool. Just bringing you two together like that makes creating this channel so worth it for me😊!!! -❤️Dallas
P.S. And Charlotte you are such an amazing person too, you guys have both been through so much and it's great that you are able to lean on each other!
@@dna2001 Thank you so much 🖤 it’s been really hard but it’s all been so worth it. And yeah Charlotte’s alright I guess 🤷🏼♀️😂 But nah for real, I definitely have you guys to thank for bringing her into my life. It’s crazy how one thing can lead to another great thing. Plus I’m glad to have you guys in my life of course too! Nothing but love 🖤
That is my number 1 NF song for me because it is the most related to me
Love the last part of this song. WHATS UP GUYS. lol.
Hey Ryan, hope you are doing well!!! -D