Hallelujah ..God doesn't come against His word ..I choose to stay single after divorce ..I fear God and I obey His word ..He loves us so much He only wants the best for us ..Amen🙏🙏🙏
This is so true, I’m currently separated from my husband and he is living with another woman. The Lord showed me that my husband can divorce me because of his harden heart but he can’t marry someone else while I’m still alive. I’m also left with 1 option if I don’t want to be single, I must reconcile with my husband. It’s not easy 🤣🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️ to follow Jesus Christ. He even showed me how adulterous Israel has been to Him as our Lord yet he has never divorced us as Israel. So for as long as he has not divorced Israel, so we are not to divorce our spouses. He even said I am my husband’s rib and when he doesn’t forgive me, he doesn’t forgive himself. We are not 2 people but we are 1
@@TomudaMhlanga-e8lThorn in the flesh. Just like she said: the woman is his rib, so he must forgive her, and then take it to God and tell Him, the woman is dishonouring him as the head of her and tgeir home but what she is doing, so God can deal with her Himself.
@@UnaMudau-n1x That's why you must remain single, and not get involved with anyone else. And it will be like a thorn in the flesh. However, once you want to reconcile, and he too, then the Lord must forgive and cleanse him of the evil he brought on himself when he defiled his marital bed and went into an adulterous relationship. He must wholeheartedly repent and it must be evident, before the wife can take him back.
Very true, i have read my Bible from Genesis to révélation there's not place that God allowed us to remarried only if your spouse died , God help us.only Marriage will take some many peoples to hell 😢father have mercy on us
Jesus says in Matthew 5:32 "anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, makes her the victim of adultery, and anyone who marries a divorced woman commits adultery." Divorce is permitted when one commits any sexual immorality. Why specifically sex, because it makes you one. POV: Divorce can also be permitted if there's extreme abuse, all aspects of abuse. Abuse is contrary to love and marriage is love.
1 Corinthians 7:15 [15](But if the husband or wife who isn’t a believer insists on leaving, let them go. In such cases the believing husband or wife is no longer bound to the other, for God has called you to live in peace.)
We must read the Bible very, very well. Divorce is allowed where there's unfaithfulness or one spouse not helping another to fulfill God's plan and purpose here. The word of God clearly says that it is better to take one woman than to burn with passion. Even in the OT with the harsh law there was divorce and remarrying. Heaven is Jesus Christ and not any one's works. Our works here on earth are for rewards in heaven and not being with God. By grace through faith (and not your works) you are saved. Please, please let's not in any way undermine the finished work of Jesus Christ.
The bible doesn't say "it is better to take ANOTHER PARTNER than burn with passion". Please read it again as to why should you marry, "Not re-marry".. Also ,Jesus commandment is very clear on a condition of re-marrying. It is not different from the one of Moses. Only if your partner is dead, NOT after divorce. After divorce, you remain unmarried. Please read that scripture again and again.
I have my life, you have your life and so is this teacher of yours. We came individually and so shall we depart and judged. All I can say is many have erred in/with the word -trying to chain ppl to their own beliefs/traditions -ref 2Pt3:16-18; Mt22:29. There's liberty in Christ Jesus, mind you. Know Him for more and more grace and peace to be given to you -2Pt1:2, which some who have sneaked in try to intimidate many believers to stay in toxic and painful marriages that aren't even anywhere near fulfilling their Godly calling. Mind you, read very well, Paul, some of his writings were personal, not straight directed by the Lord. The very father of faith, Abraham, led us now to be fighting Ishmaelites and not even speaking of papa Jacob -just imagine his concubines children are part of the 12 Israel patriarchs. Come to Solomon, Lord have mercy, the very son out of wedlock, chosen as successor to David. And, how about king David's story, surely, if you were God, you wouldn't have forgiveness him. That's how merciful the Lord God Almighty is -He has sufficient grace
I love brother Enigma's teachings and messages but the problem arises when he doesn't quote bible verses to back up his statements. As a listener sometimes I will struggle to separate his point of view from the genuineness of the message sent by God
I heared brother Enigma saying we can't be married because our marriages has been stolen from fornication, so if a man wants to marry me after all this things is it acceptable to the Lord?
I have few questions? What is the process of marriage according to the Bible? Is it biblical to pay dowry lobola? If so why do white not pay lobola to each other whist the bible recommends that? What about african culture that chooses a man for you to be your husband because of wealth or some past issues (forced marriges) married off to polygamy. I know it is not that bad as before has freedom to choose but its still happening on a minor note in other countries The Bible talks about what God has joined no man should separate ..doesnit mean marriages that happend in church only are God involved or even when it happens outside church? Does the marriage of people not born again apply the command of divorce or it doesnt because God was not there or involved But how does God choose a partner for you or it is us who chooses a partner and in most cases we choose wrong which end up in divorcing whne you find out he peros is not what he potrays to be he is an abuser ..serila cheater etc so how does God choose a partner for you? What happens to girls that get raped by their boyfriend then get pregnant and she is not ready for marriage then parents chase her away to go to the man who gave her pregnancy against her will isnt marriage has to be the two people agreeing they want and love each other so in cases of being forced to be with someone because of circumstance is that a marrge
@@Eli-iz9nv it's not an acceptable marriage before God...the main thing is that there is still a chance. Better be sorted ..God has warned on the issue of dowry many times.
What is an acceptable marriage before God. Is A marriage for papers valid if they didn't live together, or have sex? There was only an exchange of money.
Hhhmmm, here i was praying for a Godly spouse... I'm not too sure where it is in the Bible but, I read that divorce is ONLY allowed on the basis of adultery by the husband... Then the wife should give him a document (to my understanding a decree) and she could leave... Then, where I get confused is when The Word talks about "we are allowed to marry (or remarry is excluded)? when we are burning with an itch... Kindly correct me servants of the Most High God... Hell is real and, I wanna see heaven...
You are right, however it's not the wife that divorces, it's the husband. He is the head of the house and of his wife, and the reason why he is allowed to divorce her only because of adultery, and not things like laziness, barreness, gossiper, bad attitude etc, is because she dishonours her husband by giving another man way with her body like she does her husband. That's why he is allowed to divorce her for that, and marry another, and God will not find him guilty. That is also the only time God will separate them in heaven, once the divorce is finalised on earth.
@florianaaibes5728 I still fail somewhere... If a husband commits adultery, does it mean the wife cannot divorce him? That's what I did and have been praying for a Godly spouse? Does it mean I should forget about remarrying? Bear with my many questions, I'm still on milk - in the Body of Christ...
@@theeactivist7996 It's okay, I don't mind the many questions. Yes, it means you must forget about remarrying, as long as he is alive, and you still want to believe in and follow Jesus. You were not supposed to be the one to divorce him in the first place. Let me explain: 1. The man is the head, he has the authority over the wife, thus wives are called to submit to their husbands. 2. It is unforgiveness that you ended up divorcing him, which God hates. God has bound you together in heaven as well, when you got bound on earth at the altar and swore to till death did you apart. God was your witness. He made you one. Whenever he sin's (adultery) he sin's against God, himself, you, and your marriage bed. Because although you got separated in the court of law, you aren't separated in front of God. And you will do the same against God, your husband, your own body and your marriage bed if you get involved with another man. 3. The problem is not your husband, but the devil who came against your marriage. I know it may sound unbelievable or even delusional to hear this, but it is the truth. There are always spiritual forces busy in the background against people and their good gifts, and marriage is a good thing. If you get married, you obey God and escape the sin of fornication, which angers the devil. If you marry, God favors you, because you obeyed Him, and then He opens doors of blessings for you. Marriage is an institution established by God, and thus the devil fights marriages and causes divorces, so as to make the couples dishonour God. The most effective way to cause divorce is to make a spouse cheat. Then the enemy brings up a spirit of anger, pride and unforgiveness in the other spouse, plaging that one with thoughts of hatred and anger against the other one for cheating, whereas the other one also only fell in the devils trap. Thoughts of low self-worth, shame, humiliation, constant voices in your head, which play out as your own summations of your situation, but are actually from the demon assigned to cause your divorce. Constant reminders of the cheating and the broken trust. You then end up divorcing. 4. It's not a joke when they say, you need to be grounded in God, very deeply, so as to recognize the enemy's ploys and to fight and overcome, when strong winds come. 5. My advice for you would be to pray rather for God to heal your marriage. Before that, to heal your heart and mind, make you strong to fight off the devils influences, and also to restore your marriage. To give you back the man whom He bound you with, and to do the same healings in him. Ask God to make your husband the godly man you need, because that man is yours, no matter where you go in life or what you do. It may seem hard, because the enemy may come against you for this, since it's a good thing, but once you involve God and give it to Him, He will deliver. 6. Don't pray for another husband, and just focus on your daily walk with Christ. Get yourself involved or busy with godly matters often, use your freedom of singlehood with God. 7. Another husband, chances are he might do the same, and how many divorces would you have then? But if you still want to go ahead, God has given us free will. We just have to choose wisely every second of every day. 8. Whenever thoughts of "no reconciliation with my husband ever" comes to your mind, try rebuking the devil out loud, and just see what happens. Just try and say something like "Satan, I rebuke you in the name of Jesus. So and so is my godgiven husband and we obeyed God when we entered marriage. Your time in my mind and heart has come to an end." Furthermore, remember the many good times you had with your husband. Your aspirations and memories you shared. And don't focus on this one thing he did.
@@theeactivist7996 It's okay, I don't mind the many questions. Yes, it means you must forget about remarrying, as long as he is alive, and you still want to believe in and follow Jesus. You were not supposed to be the one to divorce him in the first place. Let me explain: 1. The man is the head, he has the authority over the wife, thus wives are called to submit to their husbands. 2. It is unforgiveness that you ended up divorcing him, which God hates. God has bound you together in heaven as well, when you got bound on earth at the altar and swore to till death did you apart. God was your witness. He made you one. Whenever he sin's (adultery) he sin's against God, himself, you, and your marriage bed. Because although you got separated in the court of law, you aren't separated in front of God. And you will do the same against God, your husband, your own body and your marriage bed if you get involved with another man. 3. The problem is not your husband, but the devil who came against your marriage. I know it may sound unbelievable or even delusional to hear this, but it is the truth. There are always spiritual forces busy in the background against people and their good gifts, and marriage is a good thing. If you get married, you obey God and escape the sin of fornication, which angers the devil. If you marry, God favors you, because you obeyed Him, and then He opens doors of blessings for you. Marriage is an institution established by God, and thus the devil fights marriages and causes divorces, so as to make the couples dishonour God. The most effective way to cause divorce is to make a spouse cheat. Then the enemy brings up a spirit of anger, pride and unforgiveness in the other spouse, plaging that one with thoughts of hatred and anger against the other one for cheating, whereas the other one also only fell in the devils trap. Thoughts of low self-worth, shame, humiliation, constant voices in your head, which play out as your own summations of your situation, but are actually from the demon assigned to cause your divorce. Constant reminders of the cheating and the broken trust. You then end up divorcing. 4. It's not a joke when they say, you need to be grounded in God, very deeply, so as to recognize the enemy's ploys and to fight and overcome, when strong winds come. 5. My advice for you would be to pray rather for God to heal your marriage. Before that, to heal your heart and mind, make you strong to fight off the devils influences, and also to restore your marriage. To give you back the man whom He bound you with, and to do the same healings in him. Ask God to make your husband the godly man you need, because that man is yours, no matter where you go in life or what you do. It may seem hard, because the enemy may come against you for this, since it's a good thing, but once you involve God and give it to Him, He will deliver. 6. Don't pray for another husband, and just focus on your daily walk with Christ. Get yourself involved or busy with godly matters often, use your freedom of singlehood with God. 7. Another husband, chances are he might do the same, and how many divorces would you have then? But if you still want to go ahead, God has given us free will. We just have to choose wisely every second of every day. 8. Whenever thoughts of "no reconciliation with my husband ever" comes to your mind, try rebuking the devil out loud, and just see what happens. Just try and say something like "Satan, I rebuke you in the name of Jesus. So and so is my godgiven husband and we obeyed God when we entered marriage. Your time in my mind and heart has come to an end." Furthermore, remember the many good times you had with your husband. Your aspirations and memories you shared. Ans don't focus on this one thing he did.
The bible says nothing! We need to grow from this "small" talk. Then, we need to look carefully at that law: The law of divorce is for men, not for women. You can easily verify this by listening carefully at the argument presented by the pharisees to Jesus about it from what Moses wrote > the problem being "for whatsoever reason". The curse of staying 'unmarried' till your spouse dies is upon a woman, not a man. There are things you need to collect between the lines when reading the scriptures. There's a wise reason why we aren't given plainly all things: TO KEEP EVERY SOUL BUSY SEARCHING FOR DEVINE TRUTHS. 🙏
It is also upon a man. The only time he can remarry is when he divorced his wife due to ADULTERY, which would dishonor him as the head. That's the only grounds for divorce Jesus gave the man. If he divorces her for other reasons such as barreness, bad attitude, laziness, talks to much etc, then he too should reconcile with her when he needs sexual satisfaction, companionship and attention, for as long as she is alive, for they are still bound in heaven, and are still one, till death do them apart. And yes, women are made lower than men, and have no authority to divorce the husband. In her case, her husband is like the anointed one. She must take it to God, if she is not being treated well by her husband and is not happy in her marriage, so that God can deal with the man He put over her as her head.
Hallelujah ..God doesn't come against His word ..I choose to stay single after divorce ..I fear God and I obey His word ..He loves us so much He only wants the best for us ..Amen🙏🙏🙏
True .stay single until he or she dies even if you are left alone
This is so true, I’m currently separated from my husband and he is living with another woman. The Lord showed me that my husband can divorce me because of his harden heart but he can’t marry someone else while I’m still alive.
I’m also left with 1 option if I don’t want to be single, I must reconcile with my husband.
It’s not easy 🤣🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️ to follow Jesus Christ. He even showed me how adulterous Israel has been to Him as our Lord yet he has never divorced us as Israel. So for as long as he has not divorced Israel, so we are not to divorce our spouses. He even said I am my husband’s rib and when he doesn’t forgive me, he doesn’t forgive himself. We are not 2 people but we are 1
Ma ungu nguwe ndoda uhlukumezwa nomufazi lo umutshadileyo kusebenzeka njani?
But now you're going to defile your body if you go back to him😢coz he moved on and decided to not listen to God 😢you still going to cry
And what if one gets married to a guy divoced guy?
@@TomudaMhlanga-e8lThorn in the flesh. Just like she said: the woman is his rib, so he must forgive her, and then take it to God and tell Him, the woman is dishonouring him as the head of her and tgeir home but what she is doing, so God can deal with her Himself.
@@UnaMudau-n1x That's why you must remain single, and not get involved with anyone else. And it will be like a thorn in the flesh. However, once you want to reconcile, and he too, then the Lord must forgive and cleanse him of the evil he brought on himself when he defiled his marital bed and went into an adulterous relationship. He must wholeheartedly repent and it must be evident, before the wife can take him back.
Truly the LORD has blessed us with this man. There is now no excuse fot the children of God.
The Lord's word does not change. One must also not marry a divorcee even if one's spouse is dead. Amen Brother Enigma.
Amen.No divorce no remarried
Very true, i have read my Bible from Genesis to révélation there's not place that God allowed us to remarried only if your spouse died , God help us.only Marriage will take some many peoples to hell 😢father have mercy on us
Amen no divorce under the sun
That's why the bible says narrow is the way to life broad is the way to destruction let's pray for one another
It's not Enigma who says that it is the Bible that's not a Revelation❤
True. I like that.
VERY TRUE. Even if the other spouse still has intensions to stay in the marriage they must not re-marry
HALLELUJAH HALLELUJAH yilo iVangeli no excuse thina singofakazi brother Enigma.
Jesus says in Matthew 5:32 "anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, makes her the victim of adultery, and anyone who marries a divorced woman commits adultery."
Divorce is permitted when one commits any sexual immorality. Why specifically sex, because it makes you one.
POV: Divorce can also be permitted if there's extreme abuse, all aspects of abuse. Abuse is contrary to love and marriage is love.
True brother Enigma
True that.
I agree with you 100%
That's true, the Bible says so
He is right
I’m Namibian
I keep hearing nkulunkulu 😅
What’s the meaning pls ❤
Nkulunkulu means God
Means God@@millicentmbonxa405
Yah
Nkulukulu means God
I think it's derived from the word Omkhulukhulu! The greatest! The greatest!. Or Majestic!
Yes l once thought of the bible says so but l was never heard anyone telling people this truth
It is true ❤
1 Corinthians 7:15
[15](But if the husband or wife who isn’t a believer insists on leaving, let them go. In such cases the believing husband or wife is no longer bound to the other, for God has called you to live in peace.)
This man ❤
If they want answers about marriage and divorce the must read the book of Timothy
Thats true 🙏
We must read the Bible very, very well. Divorce is allowed where there's unfaithfulness or one spouse not helping another to fulfill God's plan and purpose here. The word of God clearly says that it is better to take one woman than to burn with passion. Even in the OT with the harsh law there was divorce and remarrying. Heaven is Jesus Christ and not any one's works. Our works here on earth are for rewards in heaven and not being with God. By grace through faith (and not your works) you are saved. Please, please let's not in any way undermine the finished work of Jesus Christ.
The bible doesn't say "it is better to take ANOTHER PARTNER than burn with passion". Please read it again as to why should you marry, "Not re-marry"..
Also ,Jesus commandment is very clear on a condition of re-marrying. It is not different from the one of Moses. Only if your partner is dead, NOT after divorce.
After divorce, you remain unmarried. Please read that scripture again and again.
I have my life, you have your life and so is this teacher of yours. We came individually and so shall we depart and judged. All I can say is many have erred in/with the word -trying to chain ppl to their own beliefs/traditions -ref 2Pt3:16-18; Mt22:29. There's liberty in Christ Jesus, mind you. Know Him for more and more grace and peace to be given to you -2Pt1:2, which some who have sneaked in try to intimidate many believers to stay in toxic and painful marriages that aren't even anywhere near fulfilling their Godly calling. Mind you, read very well, Paul, some of his writings were personal, not straight directed by the Lord. The very father of faith, Abraham, led us now to be fighting Ishmaelites and not even speaking of papa Jacob -just imagine his concubines children are part of the 12 Israel patriarchs. Come to Solomon, Lord have mercy, the very son out of wedlock, chosen as successor to David. And, how about king David's story, surely, if you were God, you wouldn't have forgiveness him. That's how merciful the Lord God Almighty is -He has sufficient grace
Brother Enigma said God does not change because of situations He stand by His word🙏
Ohh this is very true bazakuphikisa kwezi comments
Pray for him to Repent for that women he have now and live her so you can have peace in your marriage with a godly husband
Very true only if one of you has passed then you can marry
Enigma ❤ brother
Dats true brother eish sathola obambo abangayisibo kodwa Jesu
Amen
But again if you find your wife or husband cheating you divorce and marry again.
No ,moses allowed that because of rebellious Israelites that was not what Yah' rule in the first place
Read Matthew ch.19:1-12
One can not marry another,
Until death do you part
Read 1 Corinthians ch.7 :39
I love brother Enigma's teachings and messages but the problem arises when he doesn't quote bible verses to back up his statements.
As a listener sometimes I will struggle to separate his point of view from the genuineness of the message sent by God
God said "divorce i hate"
It's true
I heared brother Enigma saying we can't be married because our marriages has been stolen from fornication, so if a man wants to marry me after all this things is it acceptable to the Lord?
You will never hear pastors preaching such in churches instead thy marry divorced couples
How can i find Brother Enigma on whatsup
The true interpretation of the bible
I have few questions?
What is the process of marriage according to the Bible?
Is it biblical to pay dowry lobola? If so why do white not pay lobola to each other whist the bible recommends that?
What about african culture that chooses a man for you to be your husband because of wealth or some past issues (forced marriges) married off to polygamy. I know it is not that bad as before has freedom to choose but its still happening on a minor note in other countries
The Bible talks about what God has joined no man should separate ..doesnit mean marriages that happend in church only are God involved or even when it happens outside church?
Does the marriage of people not born again apply the command of divorce or it doesnt because God was not there or involved
But how does God choose a partner for you or it is us who chooses a partner and in most cases we choose wrong which end up in divorcing whne you find out he peros is not what he potrays to be he is an abuser ..serila cheater etc so how does God choose a partner for you?
What happens to girls that get raped by their boyfriend then get pregnant and she is not ready for marriage then parents chase her away to go to the man who gave her pregnancy against her will isnt marriage has to be the two people agreeing they want and love each other so in cases of being forced to be with someone because of circumstance is that a marrge
Injalo nje ayidingi kutolikwa.
Can you please speak English for those of us outside South Africa
🤣😂💪💪
If a man didn't pay the full dowry for a woman, is that a marriage? Please help me brother Enigma, i want to know
Brother Enigma said that Jesus Christ says they must finish that debt
If the don't finish, is that still not a marriage?
@@Eli-iz9nv it's not an acceptable marriage before God...the main thing is that there is still a chance. Better be sorted ..God has warned on the issue of dowry many times.
@@Eli-iz9nvbefore God it's not an acceptable marriage..the main issue is that the person still has a chance to sort it out...Let it be sorted.
Ayikho ley
Unamanga lomkhulu wenu .Uma ephingile angashada
Ke gore Bogafi bo gola everyday....tja!
What is an acceptable marriage before God. Is A marriage for papers valid if they didn't live together, or have sex? There was only an exchange of money.
Unyanisile ke kuleyo
Hhhmmm, here i was praying for a Godly spouse... I'm not too sure where it is in the Bible but, I read that divorce is ONLY allowed on the basis of adultery by the husband... Then the wife should give him a document (to my understanding a decree) and she could leave... Then, where I get confused is when The Word talks about "we are allowed to marry (or remarry is excluded)? when we are burning with an itch... Kindly correct me servants of the Most High God... Hell is real and, I wanna see heaven...
You are right, however it's not the wife that divorces, it's the husband. He is the head of the house and of his wife, and the reason why he is allowed to divorce her only because of adultery, and not things like laziness, barreness, gossiper, bad attitude etc, is because she dishonours her husband by giving another man way with her body like she does her husband. That's why he is allowed to divorce her for that, and marry another, and God will not find him guilty. That is also the only time God will separate them in heaven, once the divorce is finalised on earth.
It's written in the 4 gospels I think, you can google it.
@florianaaibes5728 I still fail somewhere... If a husband commits adultery, does it mean the wife cannot divorce him? That's what I did and have been praying for a Godly spouse? Does it mean I should forget about remarrying? Bear with my many questions, I'm still on milk - in the Body of Christ...
@@theeactivist7996 It's okay, I don't mind the many questions. Yes, it means you must forget about remarrying, as long as he is alive, and you still want to believe in and follow Jesus. You were not supposed to be the one to divorce him in the first place. Let me explain:
1. The man is the head, he has the authority over the wife, thus wives are called to submit to their husbands.
2. It is unforgiveness that you ended up divorcing him, which God hates. God has bound you together in heaven as well, when you got bound on earth at the altar and swore to till death did you apart. God was your witness. He made you one. Whenever he sin's (adultery) he sin's against God, himself, you, and your marriage bed. Because although you got separated in the court of law, you aren't separated in front of God. And you will do the same against God, your husband, your own body and your marriage bed if you get involved with another man.
3. The problem is not your husband, but the devil who came against your marriage. I know it may sound unbelievable or even delusional to hear this, but it is the truth. There are always spiritual forces busy in the background against people and their good gifts, and marriage is a good thing. If you get married, you obey God and escape the sin of fornication, which angers the devil. If you marry, God favors you, because you obeyed Him, and then He opens doors of blessings for you. Marriage is an institution established by God, and thus the devil fights marriages and causes divorces, so as to make the couples dishonour God. The most effective way to cause divorce is to make a spouse cheat. Then the enemy brings up a spirit of anger, pride and unforgiveness in the other spouse, plaging that one with thoughts of hatred and anger against the other one for cheating, whereas the other one also only fell in the devils trap. Thoughts of low self-worth, shame, humiliation, constant voices in your head, which play out as your own summations of your situation, but are actually from the demon assigned to cause your divorce. Constant reminders of the cheating and the broken trust. You then end up divorcing.
4. It's not a joke when they say, you need to be grounded in God, very deeply, so as to recognize the enemy's ploys and to fight and overcome, when strong winds come.
5. My advice for you would be to pray rather for God to heal your marriage. Before that, to heal your heart and mind, make you strong to fight off the devils influences, and also to restore your marriage. To give you back the man whom He bound you with, and to do the same healings in him. Ask God to make your husband the godly man you need, because that man is yours, no matter where you go in life or what you do. It may seem hard, because the enemy may come against you for this, since it's a good thing, but once you involve God and give it to Him, He will deliver.
6. Don't pray for another husband, and just focus on your daily walk with Christ. Get yourself involved or busy with godly matters often, use your freedom of singlehood with God.
7. Another husband, chances are he might do the same, and how many divorces would you have then? But if you still want to go ahead, God has given us free will. We just have to choose wisely every second of every day.
8. Whenever thoughts of "no reconciliation with my husband ever" comes to your mind, try rebuking the devil out loud, and just see what happens. Just try and say something like "Satan, I rebuke you in the name of Jesus. So and so is my godgiven husband and we obeyed God when we entered marriage. Your time in my mind and heart has come to an end."
Furthermore, remember the many good times you had with your husband. Your aspirations and memories you shared. And don't focus on this one thing he did.
@@theeactivist7996 It's okay, I don't mind the many questions. Yes, it means you must forget about remarrying, as long as he is alive, and you still want to believe in and follow Jesus. You were not supposed to be the one to divorce him in the first place. Let me explain:
1. The man is the head, he has the authority over the wife, thus wives are called to submit to their husbands.
2. It is unforgiveness that you ended up divorcing him, which God hates. God has bound you together in heaven as well, when you got bound on earth at the altar and swore to till death did you apart. God was your witness. He made you one. Whenever he sin's (adultery) he sin's against God, himself, you, and your marriage bed. Because although you got separated in the court of law, you aren't separated in front of God. And you will do the same against God, your husband, your own body and your marriage bed if you get involved with another man.
3. The problem is not your husband, but the devil who came against your marriage. I know it may sound unbelievable or even delusional to hear this, but it is the truth. There are always spiritual forces busy in the background against people and their good gifts, and marriage is a good thing. If you get married, you obey God and escape the sin of fornication, which angers the devil. If you marry, God favors you, because you obeyed Him, and then He opens doors of blessings for you. Marriage is an institution established by God, and thus the devil fights marriages and causes divorces, so as to make the couples dishonour God. The most effective way to cause divorce is to make a spouse cheat. Then the enemy brings up a spirit of anger, pride and unforgiveness in the other spouse, plaging that one with thoughts of hatred and anger against the other one for cheating, whereas the other one also only fell in the devils trap. Thoughts of low self-worth, shame, humiliation, constant voices in your head, which play out as your own summations of your situation, but are actually from the demon assigned to cause your divorce. Constant reminders of the cheating and the broken trust. You then end up divorcing.
4. It's not a joke when they say, you need to be grounded in God, very deeply, so as to recognize the enemy's ploys and to fight and overcome, when strong winds come.
5. My advice for you would be to pray rather for God to heal your marriage. Before that, to heal your heart and mind, make you strong to fight off the devils influences, and also to restore your marriage. To give you back the man whom He bound you with, and to do the same healings in him. Ask God to make your husband the godly man you need, because that man is yours, no matter where you go in life or what you do. It may seem hard, because the enemy may come against you for this, since it's a good thing, but once you involve God and give it to Him, He will deliver.
6. Don't pray for another husband, and just focus on your daily walk with Christ. Get yourself involved or busy with godly matters often, use your freedom of singlehood with God.
7. Another husband, chances are he might do the same, and how many divorces would you have then? But if you still want to go ahead, God has given us free will. We just have to choose wisely every second of every day.
8. Whenever thoughts of "no reconciliation with my husband ever" comes to your mind, try rebuking the devil out loud, and just see what happens. Just try and say something like "Satan, I rebuke you in the name of Jesus. So and so is my godgiven husband and we obeyed God when we entered marriage. Your time in my mind and heart has come to an end."
Furthermore, remember the many good times you had with your husband. Your aspirations and memories you shared. Ans don't focus on this one thing he did.
The bible says nothing! We need to grow from this "small" talk. Then, we need to look carefully at that law: The law of divorce is for men, not for women. You can easily verify this by listening carefully at the argument presented by the pharisees to Jesus about it from what Moses wrote > the problem being "for whatsoever reason". The curse of staying 'unmarried' till your spouse dies is upon a woman, not a man. There are things you need to collect between the lines when reading the scriptures. There's a wise reason why we aren't given plainly all things: TO KEEP EVERY SOUL BUSY SEARCHING FOR DEVINE TRUTHS. 🙏
It is also upon a man. The only time he can remarry is when he divorced his wife due to ADULTERY, which would dishonor him as the head. That's the only grounds for divorce Jesus gave the man. If he divorces her for other reasons such as barreness, bad attitude, laziness, talks to much etc, then he too should reconcile with her when he needs sexual satisfaction, companionship and attention, for as long as she is alive, for they are still bound in heaven, and are still one, till death do them apart. And yes, women are made lower than men, and have no authority to divorce the husband. In her case, her husband is like the anointed one. She must take it to God, if she is not being treated well by her husband and is not happy in her marriage, so that God can deal with the man He put over her as her head.
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