It's called a caring and nurturing person. Probably been starved of that kind of affection his entire life. Most men are. Of course someone like you would never fill that role. So many women these days are the complete opposite of caring and nuturing, supportive. It's no wonder no one wants to date them. Good luck later in life btw, you're going to need it with this attitude.
Okay but why is it the girls fault for having daddy issues like I will never understand that especially when a guy can be her chance at having a good relationship with men because her father failed to do so
Hey, It's not their fault, and its not something the woman can control, but it is well researched to show that women with poor relationships with their fathers have a much higher likely hood of cheating, mental health issues, depression, bpd, and suicide. They also have higher rates of post-partum depression, and are actually more likely to be infertile. There are a variety of factors for this, but it's mainly due to how women's brains develop, especially in their pubescent years. Their view of their fathers is what their brain uses as a guide for what men should be like. Causing women to get into toxic relationships similiar to the toxicity recieved by their fathers. So essentially, it's not the woman's fault, but there are still disadvantageous results, causing men to try and avoid those disadvantages. Please correct me if anything i said wasn't correct though, although this data is quite widely backed by most long-term studies.
Well depending on the woman she can be incredibly jealous overly needy and just extremely….extra. And irrational hatred of men. It’s not all women with daddy issues but there are some extreme cases. I’ve dated women with awful dads and they were not such great women, but I’ve dated women from single moms who were pretty cool but they had pretty stand up chicks for moms. I’m familiar with the red pill and it deals in some creepy extremes to say the least.
@planetofthelivingsandman3862 yeah cause people want a partner to fuck and hang out with but if there's any issue they leave. you are supposed to work things out with people you love, if you can't work it out or there's no way to meet in-between or their issues or too much or you cannot work things out you break up and move one, but daddy issues doesn't = a horrible person, just means they have some different issues from you that yall can work on. nobody wants to bond and work through issues with their partner anymore we just want cookie cutter perfect partners
This whole alpha male movement is very sickening. Every guy that I know hasn’t even hinted a single word stating they’re an alpha until these recent years. Now it’s “You’re an alpha, I’m an alpha, everyone is an alpha, we deserve respect for treating women like absolute shit.” Also keep in mind these same type of people also have an issue finding “good” women. I wonder why.
@@edreynolds8721 I'm sorry to hear about your past experiences. You are definitely not alone on that one. As far as the "roles" or things in general that each sex is expected or supposed to do, i believe that's just a person's character. The list of things you said an "alpha" should be doing is pretty much what I believe a decent man or woman should be doing as well. I am happy you brought those ideas up because it shows you are one of those decent or good people. Don't apologize for something as basic as typing up what you feel. I agree with you completely and also hate the misuse. That is why i made my first comment.
@@PercocetProphet like I wish that there were more healthy spaces like that for people to want to have like this ‘big and strong and cool and awesome’ inspiration for how they want to be, without SOOOOOOO SO SO SO *SOOOO* much batshit crazy misogyny, fatphobia, homophobia, transphobia, (probably racism as well though I haven’t seen a direct example but like… it fits in line with their character of being the worst possible person), promoting being a s*xual predator and like basically training and encouraging s*x tr*fficking … like it’s just so unbelievably twisted and heinous and the way that SOOOO many young boys and men and sucked into that pipeline make me very sad and also very very scared. Like you mentioned in the past year or so I’ve seen seemingly normal acquaintances fall into that pipeline and start spewing misogynistic and transphobic things and NO JOKE literally seen a group of them chanting “free Andrew tate!” And saying “top g” or whatever when the substitute left the classroom. Like. It’s just so wild and terrifying that so many impressionable people are consuming that content and seeing nothing wrong with it and then taking on that way of thinking for themselves, not get challenged on it, and only make it worse by finding a little alpha echo chamber of women hating peers. Crazy time to be alive I wish that they took after that ‘Warrior Male’ tumblr page thing who still has all the stuff about being courageous and brave and manly or whatever but includes women and trans folk in with it and talks about how greed and misogyny ruins people and that blaming others for things is not cool
5:46 Fun fact: As a small child/infant, if you would put me anywhere NEAR a man with a moustache, I would begin sobbing INSTANTLY. (This fear carried over to my life now, too, because if you have any kind of facial hair I will always feel uncomfortable around you no matter what. Still don't know why I'm scared of it though.)
I love how he's all like "she needs to cook, clean and do my laundry because I offer things a woman cant" and then if you did make him say what those things are he'd be all like "money" probably, because hes the only one with a job in this theoretical household, but then hes also the one who says that he _wants_ a woman without a job. Like do you see the issue here? You say a woman should cook and clean by herself because she doesnt have a job but then when she says she wants a job youre like nu-uh Honestly all they vibe like to me is people who wanna keep living their whole lives like they lived through the school system, when all they had to do was go to school and then when they came home their mom would have lunch made and done their laundry. But replace school with a job and mom with their wife.
If men aren’t going to hunt women shouldn’t have to be homemakers. I don’t get why societal and technological progress are so hard to grasp for these incels. Like hundreds years ago men might’ve been the ‘alpha providers’ and women the ‘docile baby makers’, but hundreds of years ago we didn’t wash our hands or wipes our asses either. If you want to go back to the stone ages then give up all your modern privileges like basic health care and access to the internet… lmao.
I was unsure if I'd stick around since what brought be in was the true crime doc type vidoes, but that was honestly pretty silly of me to even have a doubt about staying. The way you write videos as well as just you'd personality overall is just so fun. I'm pretty sure you could make anything sound interesting and entertaining:)
No, but if you still have daddy issues it means you never dealt with it properly. Never learned from it. Seek therapy and counselling. Better yourself.
@@sefff.isboring Lol, sure thing mate. This is what's called an 'Excuse'. People who don't want to put in the hard effort of improving themselves make excuses. You absolutely can change. You have to want it though.
@@sefff.isboring No, you don't. You're sitting here making excuses and blaming someone else. If you wanted to work on yourself, you would. If you didn't, you would say "I can't, my Dad really fucked me up." You are responsible for who you are, and how you act. Trauma is something others give to us, It's up to you how you decide to proceed through life afterwards. Yes, Trauma's make it hard. But you can still change. Blaming others doesn't help you in the least, it's a victim mindset and gets you stuck doing no self improvement.
omg so they want me unmedicated? hahahahaha are you sure about that?? also i’m dying bc what if he looks in her medicine cabinet and there’s a bunch of medication and she just has a medical condition that she needs medications for
In a committed relationship only, I agree with the sick thing, but here's the real question - are you going to do the same??? So many men want to be treated like they're the most important thing in a women's life, yet cant be bothered to do the same These guys should really flip half this stuff and you dont think it should apply to you but it should apply to women? Gtfo
I have an obsession with 90 Day Fiance (red flag according to him), but I'm a little atypical nuerologically lol and I need to watch bad relationships to recognize actual red flags. I have a great relationship btw but I've been using 90 Day for years to study humans 😂😂😂 My mom likens it to her obsession with hoarder shows. She isn't a hoarder, but it makes her want to clean. 90 Day makes me want to maintain a healthy relationship.
Trauma's are out of your control. What you do after them is. Do you seek help and guidance, do you grow and improve? Or do you fall into the rabbit hole of toxic feminism and mental health issues? Do you start using/abusing men because of it? If you're on this video commenting. Pretty sure I know what one most people are picking.
Petition to start ironic Alpha Female community. Spread love and support, encourage indiviudality, treat everyone as equals. Pretty much the opposite of “aLphA MalEs”
I won't need to worry about any of this. If my wife passes before I do I'll be devastated and probably never date anyway. Who would want a man who does as many chores as possible plus I cook all the meals but I have Bipolar and Autism? I'll be alone for the rest of my life. I love Nikki's content. BTW- this guy doesn't have the most masculine voice or way of speaking.
10:20 taking care of your partner is a green flag, why does he point it out, is it not basic standard for him to take care of somebody who loves him or who he loves?
Wait so he wants a girl who cares for him when he's sick, cooks his meals, cleans up after him and does his laundry. Seems like he wants his mom
@@edreynolds8721just say ur into ur mom
Awww he just wants his mommy and his binky! It's all so clear now!
@@edreynolds8721womp womp
It's called a caring and nurturing person. Probably been starved of that kind of affection his entire life. Most men are.
Of course someone like you would never fill that role. So many women these days are the complete opposite of caring and nuturing, supportive. It's no wonder no one wants to date them.
Good luck later in life btw, you're going to need it with this attitude.
@@edreynolds8721it’s called a mom.
Okay but why is it the girls fault for having daddy issues like I will never understand that especially when a guy can be her chance at having a good relationship with men because her father failed to do so
Bc men never want to take responsibility and never want to hold other men accountable for problems they cause. In short misogyny and sexism.
Literally men will blame women for their failures
Hey, It's not their fault, and its not something the woman can control, but it is well researched to show that women with poor relationships with their fathers have a much higher likely hood of cheating, mental health issues, depression, bpd, and suicide. They also have higher rates of post-partum depression, and are actually more likely to be infertile. There are a variety of factors for this, but it's mainly due to how women's brains develop, especially in their pubescent years. Their view of their fathers is what their brain uses as a guide for what men should be like. Causing women to get into toxic relationships similiar to the toxicity recieved by their fathers. So essentially, it's not the woman's fault, but there are still disadvantageous results, causing men to try and avoid those disadvantages. Please correct me if anything i said wasn't correct though, although this data is quite widely backed by most long-term studies.
Well depending on the woman she can be incredibly jealous overly needy and just extremely….extra. And irrational hatred of men. It’s not all women with daddy issues but there are some extreme cases. I’ve dated women with awful dads and they were not such great women, but I’ve dated women from single moms who were pretty cool but they had pretty stand up chicks for moms. I’m familiar with the red pill and it deals in some creepy extremes to say the least.
@planetofthelivingsandman3862 yeah cause people want a partner to fuck and hang out with but if there's any issue they leave. you are supposed to work things out with people you love, if you can't work it out or there's no way to meet in-between or their issues or too much or you cannot work things out you break up and move one, but daddy issues doesn't = a horrible person, just means they have some different issues from you that yall can work on. nobody wants to bond and work through issues with their partner anymore we just want cookie cutter perfect partners
Instructions unclear, couldn't become neurotypical and found a girlfriend instead
This whole alpha male movement is very sickening. Every guy that I know hasn’t even hinted a single word stating they’re an alpha until these recent years. Now it’s “You’re an alpha, I’m an alpha, everyone is an alpha, we deserve respect for treating women like absolute shit.” Also keep in mind these same type of people also have an issue finding “good” women. I wonder why.
@@edreynolds8721 I'm sorry to hear about your past experiences. You are definitely not alone on that one. As far as the "roles" or things in general that each sex is expected or supposed to do, i believe that's just a person's character. The list of things you said an "alpha" should be doing is pretty much what I believe a decent man or woman should be doing as well. I am happy you brought those ideas up because it shows you are one of those decent or good people. Don't apologize for something as basic as typing up what you feel. I agree with you completely and also hate the misuse. That is why i made my first comment.
@@PercocetProphet like I wish that there were more healthy spaces like that for people to want to have like this ‘big and strong and cool and awesome’ inspiration for how they want to be, without SOOOOOOO SO SO SO *SOOOO* much batshit crazy misogyny, fatphobia, homophobia, transphobia, (probably racism as well though I haven’t seen a direct example but like… it fits in line with their character of being the worst possible person), promoting being a s*xual predator and like basically training and encouraging s*x tr*fficking … like it’s just so unbelievably twisted and heinous and the way that SOOOO many young boys and men and sucked into that pipeline make me very sad and also very very scared. Like you mentioned in the past year or so I’ve seen seemingly normal acquaintances fall into that pipeline and start spewing misogynistic and transphobic things and NO JOKE literally seen a group of them chanting “free Andrew tate!” And saying “top g” or whatever when the substitute left the classroom. Like. It’s just so wild and terrifying that so many impressionable people are consuming that content and seeing nothing wrong with it and then taking on that way of thinking for themselves, not get challenged on it, and only make it worse by finding a little alpha echo chamber of women hating peers. Crazy time to be alive
I wish that they took after that ‘Warrior Male’ tumblr page thing who still has all the stuff about being courageous and brave and manly or whatever but includes women and trans folk in with it and talks about how greed and misogyny ruins people and that blaming others for things is not cool
Hey girl, just wanted to say we love you. Hope you're staying safe and healthy!!!
5:46 Fun fact: As a small child/infant, if you would put me anywhere NEAR a man with a moustache, I would begin sobbing INSTANTLY.
(This fear carried over to my life now, too, because if you have any kind of facial hair I will always feel uncomfortable around you no matter what. Still don't know why I'm scared of it though.)
im super excited for the new direction of this channel!! im here for you and everything you do, and im LOVING it so far!! hope youre doing well ^^
I love how he's all like "she needs to cook, clean and do my laundry because I offer things a woman cant" and then if you did make him say what those things are he'd be all like "money" probably, because hes the only one with a job in this theoretical household, but then hes also the one who says that he _wants_ a woman without a job.
Like do you see the issue here? You say a woman should cook and clean by herself because she doesnt have a job but then when she says she wants a job youre like nu-uh
Honestly all they vibe like to me is people who wanna keep living their whole lives like they lived through the school system, when all they had to do was go to school and then when they came home their mom would have lunch made and done their laundry.
But replace school with a job and mom with their wife.
If men aren’t going to hunt women shouldn’t have to be homemakers. I don’t get why societal and technological progress are so hard to grasp for these incels. Like hundreds years ago men might’ve been the ‘alpha providers’ and women the ‘docile baby makers’, but hundreds of years ago we didn’t wash our hands or wipes our asses either. If you want to go back to the stone ages then give up all your modern privileges like basic health care and access to the internet… lmao.
you’re my favourite person ever, and i’m so happy you’re making content you’re happy with now 💒💗
if the spelling mistake in the title was on purpose you’re a genius LMFAO
we stan the new commentary nikki♥️
Need the review of the audiobook yes. Not only for the content, but for who the hell does the narration for that horror.
I was unsure if I'd stick around since what brought be in was the true crime doc type vidoes, but that was honestly pretty silly of me to even have a doubt about staying. The way you write videos as well as just you'd personality overall is just so fun. I'm pretty sure you could make anything sound interesting and entertaining:)
No bc why are you actually the funniest person on TH-cam ? Can’t wait for your new channel to take off xoxo
I'm happy your taking the channel in the direction you want to go!
if your happier making this content, I'm glad! ❣
@@MichaelJCervantes you're an embarrassment
@@MichaelJCervantes you are the wrong direction! I'll never find my way home if I follow you.
love this editing style, it really suits your personality
I'm hating the anti-daddy issues shit. I didn't choose to have a terrible father JFC
No, but if you still have daddy issues it means you never dealt with it properly. Never learned from it.
Seek therapy and counselling. Better yourself.
@@truckywuckyuwuthat’s doesn’t work,as a girl all you want is your dad and when their shit it ruins you in a way that never goes away
@@sefff.isboring Lol, sure thing mate.
This is what's called an 'Excuse'. People who don't want to put in the hard effort of improving themselves make excuses.
You absolutely can change. You have to want it though.
@@truckywuckyuwu I do want to I really but the things he put my thru not only gave me daddy issues but trauma out of that
@@sefff.isboring No, you don't.
You're sitting here making excuses and blaming someone else.
If you wanted to work on yourself, you would. If you didn't, you would say "I can't, my Dad really fucked me up."
You are responsible for who you are, and how you act. Trauma is something others give to us, It's up to you how you decide to proceed through life afterwards.
Yes, Trauma's make it hard. But you can still change. Blaming others doesn't help you in the least, it's a victim mindset and gets you stuck doing no self improvement.
awesome vid!!! thought this video had like a million views, your editing and story telling is awesome!
You're really good at this style of content!! Ilysm
omg so they want me unmedicated? hahahahaha are you sure about that?? also i’m dying bc what if he looks in her medicine cabinet and there’s a bunch of medication and she just has a medical condition that she needs medications for
In a committed relationship only, I agree with the sick thing, but here's the real question - are you going to do the same???
So many men want to be treated like they're the most important thing in a women's life, yet cant be bothered to do the same
These guys should really flip half this stuff and you dont think it should apply to you but it should apply to women? Gtfo
i love commentary and i love nikki this is the perfect pairing
I love the new style of this channel! thnx for the 1 serotonin:)
This is seriously what we needed tbh
THE EDITING IS GODDESS TIER
I have an obsession with 90 Day Fiance (red flag according to him), but I'm a little atypical nuerologically lol and I need to watch bad relationships to recognize actual red flags. I have a great relationship btw but I've been using 90 Day for years to study humans 😂😂😂
My mom likens it to her obsession with hoarder shows. She isn't a hoarder, but it makes her want to clean. 90 Day makes me want to maintain a healthy relationship.
this video was uploaded on my birthday. thanks for the present nikkie
Amazing video with so many zingers, I laughed my tail off 😂 Thank you!
that hot topic banner is dope
"defiently not worse" oh this shouldd be fun
MIKKI OMFG I LOVE YOUR SHIRT SM THATS MY FAV BAND
This background is 10/10
legitimately thought when he was talking about the opposite of daddy issues he was going to say that mommy issues is a green flag
I'm glad you were on Deranged DMs. there are some serious comedy nuggets in here.
16:38 “Perky boob-ah!” OMFGGG I CAN’T STOP LAUGHING 🤣🤣 Love you, Nikki! 💖
The hereditary song when Nikki googled notch count I cried
I just know this video was going to be a banger when I clicked on it
We need the audiobook review!!💞
It’s the father’s fault for a daughters daddy issues, so it’s a man’s fault how would it be the women’s fault?
Trauma's are out of your control. What you do after them is. Do you seek help and guidance, do you grow and improve? Or do you fall into the rabbit hole of toxic feminism and mental health issues? Do you start using/abusing men because of it?
If you're on this video commenting. Pretty sure I know what one most people are picking.
@@truckywuckyuwuyou must love this idiots book
@@Evan-k You had a choice here today. Self reflection. Or projecting your insecurities onto someone else.
Unfortunate that you chose the latter.
@@truckywuckyuwu the one projecting is you with that "if you're on this video commenting" shit is rude af, grow up and get medicated
@@truckywuckyuwuyou're also on this video 💀
literally slayed
"Magnificent Mustie" is my new catchphrase
I literally love her 🥹
Love your content!!
i love this content so much! keep going
Petition to start ironic Alpha Female community. Spread love and support, encourage indiviudality, treat everyone as equals. Pretty much the opposite of “aLphA MalEs”
YOO YOURE HELLA FUNNNNYYYYYYYYY😭😭😭😭😭💀💀💀💀
Here for the one and only Rooms essentials branded serotonin! Lol
Also, you never look like shit. That's what those men would say and fuck em and their gaze!
watched two full ads on this video just for u
PLEASE I NEED TO KNOW WHERE YOU GOT THE HOT TOPIC RUG FROM💔
ANYTHING U MAKE MAKES MY DAY ❤️❤️❤️
Love you dude!!
Thank you for my serotonin ❤
In Britain this bald bros' name would kinda be "Dick Dick" since that's what a Cooper means. And it is Sooo befitting here.
WHAT?! A cooper is a barrel maker lmfao wtf is wrong with britain
Le cordón bleu drop out here! I did in deed learn to cook hot chip 😩😩😩
i feel like i’ve seen this video ??
I FAILED EVERYTHING HE SAID LETS FUCKING GOOOO
No lie it actually took me 20 seconds to realise it wasn’t HIM in front of the whiteboard and you just doing a voice over wow hahahahahaha
oh my santa, not bringing up victorious like that 💀💀💀💀
ik that sweater makin him itchy asf
dude literally described me to a T. I'm scared hahaha!
You are hilarious 😂😂😂
This video is fire!
Nah you comments crack me up ❤️😂😂😂
18:12 full stomach, empty balls, empty head
hii i think we need an unplugged review of the unhinged alpha!! I love u
what the eff where did u get mbv sweatshirt
i love this
Omg, "keep the balls dry" 💀💀💀💀
Ily Nikki
during the green flag review i genuinely thought it was him at first lmaoooo
One time I made a video about rich and I had an army of incels after me for weeks so stay safe
I won't need to worry about any of this. If my wife passes before I do I'll be devastated and probably never date anyway. Who would want a man who does as many chores as possible plus I cook all the meals but I have Bipolar and Autism? I'll be alone for the rest of my life. I love Nikki's content. BTW- this guy doesn't have the most masculine voice or way of speaking.
i missed u bae
Intro giving huge Chad Chad vibes
Thanks ♡
He literally contradicts himself multiple times😭😭
Chuur got me a serotonin
i fully believe nikki when she says shed have a magnificent musty as a man
I love u Nikki !,!,!,,11!!!
really good video :D
I wouldn’t dare force you to read this atrocity. Lol
Chirping is just british and Australian slang for mouthing off/having a go/telling you off.
Brandon(the only sane reviewer) ate with that ngl, especially since the name connotes being a man😌✋🏽 8:15
Hell nah.
She found Rich Coper. LOL
He's a meme in the pill community.
As a man I can 1000000000% admit that I am jealous of how cool and pretty women are
Every word that man spoke hurt my soul.
The way I unsubscribe just to subscribe again 😂
LÖL at 21:10 it took me awhile to realize that it was you and not him.
ntm on the knives out sweater
7:45 Thank God, it’s not procreating.
Dudes sitting there saying all this bullshit while wearing an American eagle tight fit knit cardigan lmao
Definitely not worse! Yup!
Didn’t someone already do this? Or was it your video?
10:20 taking care of your partner is a green flag, why does he point it out, is it not basic standard for him to take care of somebody who loves him or who he loves?
GWWWUUUROOLLLDD I LOVEYOH
Killer My Bloody Valentine sweatshirt.
Also love that Sonic Youth T.
I thought she was quitting..
I'm pretty sure she just quit making true crime videos
@@ava6028 oh
He roasted tf out of me :(
Nice house 😁
I love My Bloody Valentine ♥