Igor Delov well Igor it’s been 5 yrs since you wrote this comment, hopefully you got rid of the relationship that made you feel lonely.... But if ya still in that toxic relationship then grow a hump and ring some church bells!!!
I've been a girl interrupted too. I guess I still am but I'm healing. My life like a rollercoaster, flying and crashing the whole time. Bipolar disorder, borderline issues, five attempted suicides, hard drugs abuse, ptsd, anxiety and depression. Writing healed me, my family did, found real love cleaned my broken soul and heart. I know there's always a chance to be not perfect but just a bit happy. I know and this is happiness already. I can feel my heart so I know I'm alive. And maybe is true that damanged people are dangerous or maybe is not. I only know that damaged people will always listen to you.
Because maybe its dumb to look for signs from the universe..maybe the universe has better things to do. Dear God, I hope it does. Do you know how many signs I've gotten that I should or shouldn't be with someone..and where has it gotten me? Maybe there aren't any signs. Maybe a locket's just a locket..a chair is just a chair. Maybe we don't have to give meaning to every little thing. Maybe we don't need the universe to tell us what we really want. Maybe we already know that..
Asmi parikh u r spot on. Being alone is having no one around, even if it is through self imposed isolation. Being lonely is the negative feeling that one experience in such a state. But man is a social animal. The only way u can be alone and not feel lonely is when u r occupied by an idea. when that idea is you yourself u become the mythical narcissist loving his own image. when that idea is someone else u become an obsessed lover popular in myths like Romeo, Meerabai etc. When that idea is a purpose u become a man on a mission... a mission of never ending pursuit. And the idea of "lone wolf"- i am alone because i don't care about others- is itself imperfect. Every warrior needs a camaraderie, every Dark knight needs an 'Alfred', and every sherlock needs a watson.
you cant fight it....it just becomes the norm. ive been on my own scince around 2003. I used to be able to meet/talk to peeps soo easy. Now i cant wait to get home by myself. The loneliness becomes a part of you. its amazing how if anyone pays me attention, even a real nice lookin gal, u just think inside 'ohhh fuck off n leave me alone'. I just thank god i was in my 20's when it happend. Having no-one to talk to as a kid i cant even bear to imagine.
I can't keep fighting like this all alone, ever since my guy lost his battle with depression in front of me, it's been an unbearable battle just to wake up. I haven't said anything in a while but I'm losing and it's not good at all where the constant smiling is leading me.
I recommend Buddhism to all those lonely people out there, it changed my life with an improvement starting from the inside out. I've been more alone these last few years than ever, but I haven't felt lonely.
i think there is a HUGE difference between loneliness and solitude. what you meant is prolly solitude. loneliness feels like hell, been there done that. solitude, on the other hand, is a blissful state when you just enjoy your own company.
Wth I know the book, I've checked songs from it but actually I'm here because of Girl, Interrupted. That's funny that I didn't notice this song while reading that book but actually after more than a year after movie
Got here bc of Taylor. Yeah, THE Taylor, the one and only goofy little geek who dreamed about being an astronaut all the time but is stuck in space now. Miss him:(
I've been a loner from the very day I was born to this day forth. I'm glad I am. I'm perfectly happy not to be part of this modern and ill society. I'm fine on my own as long as my mind is clear and I can read. I don't see why I should socialize myself and become close to the people I despise. In fact, I think I wouldn't be able to stand without having these huge periods of time during which all I do is let my thoughts drift and make me fly away into fantastic worlds I imagine.
@@FrostySoprano which is why this person felt it necessary to make that statement. If they TRULY felt like they were happy not being part of society, they wouldn't have bothered sharing their feelings. 😊🙏💯❤
@heronmusic2000 been in there, dude. I'm currently on my 20's and, i just hate the feeling of alone, im unnable of fight it. Always try to pull apart the people, dunno why. But its just like u said, the loneliness becomes a part of you.
@Paranoidrobo i hear ya man, but remember, you are still young & have the world at ya feet (even though u may not think that). Your 20's are the BEST TIME IN YA LIFE!!! Even though you feel alone/distant, always keep an eye out for that special someone who could change ya world....remeber, there are plenty of other 'loners' out there just like us....i really hope you get past this phase of your life & then become a better man for it. PEACE, LUV & HAPPINESS BEING SENT YOUR WAY...XXX
@heronmusic2000 I feel same way , been alone since my divorce , men pay me attention and I just say , hell I can't do it anymore , I am always anxious to get home from work so I can be in my own world. I used to stay on the go constantly and always happy in arelationship now its like I can't do it anymore.
It's hard to let go of someone who abused you when they're part of your family and you still fucking care about them, it's hard to let go of all the ppl in your small town when you don't fit in anywhere else, even though most of them never gave a shit about you unless they wanted something to talk about, it's hard to let go of ppl who don't view you as another human being when you realize that's been about 95% of the ppl in your life
@tflemoful listen hun, i was really wasted when I wrote that comment. Pleeease, don't lock yourself off from the world like I did. Don't become a loner like I did. Just interact with peeps, cause then you will stay in the habit. Don't become like me, alone by choice for years so you don't even know how to interact with peeps. I BEG U HUN, JUST KEEP INTERACTING/MINGLING with others.... cause you never know who ya might meet....PEACE, LOVE & A MASSIVE AMOUNT OF GOOD ENERGY IM SENDING YA..XXX
It is so strange because, logically, I realize what is going on but I just can't shake it. Sick of feeling bad for myself. Lonliness has to be one of the most debilitating effects on a human body. I wish I knew how to shake it.
Ofcourse you can fight loneliness. First, there's a lot of lonely people out there, and if you put them all together, no ones lonely. But that's a hard thing to do since it's a big world out there and the number of lonely people may not me equal. But you can still fight it. I used to be lonely, then I pulled myself together and made som friends. I even got a girlfriend for a while. Keep fighting
drag addiction sought mother chant forget to no hold the substances sense important to clean as pencil start vast exercise white unknown headrace void dull less ...next
hhhhhhhmmmmm loneliness? no such thing since everything comes from nothing. so when you think your lonely! you actually are not alone, even atoms aren't alone.
@heronmusic2000 I feel same way , been alone since my divorce , men pay me attention and I just say , hell I can't do it anymore , I am always anxious to get home from work so I can be in my own world. I used to stay on the go constantly and always happy in a relationship now its like I can't do it anymore.
It`s better being alone and single, than alone in a relationship. That`s how I am feeling at this moment.
Igor Delov well Igor it’s been 5 yrs since you wrote this comment, hopefully you got rid of the relationship that made you feel lonely....
But if ya still in that toxic relationship then grow a hump and ring some church bells!!!
I feel u my man
U r not alone this only takes u great things in life
damn straight
“The first thing that you want will be the last thing you will ever need.”
That hits home.
I've been a girl interrupted too. I guess I still am but I'm healing. My life like a rollercoaster, flying and crashing the whole time. Bipolar disorder, borderline issues, five attempted suicides, hard drugs abuse, ptsd, anxiety and depression. Writing healed me, my family did, found real love cleaned my broken soul and heart. I know there's always a chance to be not perfect but just a bit happy. I know and this is happiness already. I can feel my heart so I know I'm alive. And maybe is true that damanged people are dangerous or maybe is not. I only know that damaged people will always listen to you.
I wonder how you're doing right now
Because maybe its dumb to look for signs from the universe..maybe the universe has better things to do. Dear God, I hope it does. Do you know how many signs I've gotten that I should or shouldn't be with someone..and where has it gotten me? Maybe there aren't any signs. Maybe a locket's just a locket..a chair is just a chair. Maybe we don't have to give meaning to every little thing. Maybe we don't need the universe to tell us what we really want. Maybe we already know that..
Deep down
I have thought about this a lot, and I have my own ideas if you want to hear them.
ted got me here too
Maybe nihilism is not the right way
Ted got me here 3
I hate how society pushes on this idea that you gotta have someone other than yourself around. If you are alone, enjoy it. Love it.
Well buddy u r right. Being "lonely" is 'not bad'. But being "not lonely" is 'good'.
+Manit Dhir that is deep bro
there's a difference between being alone and lonely.
Asmi parikh u r spot on. Being alone is having no one around, even if it is through self imposed isolation. Being lonely is the negative feeling that one experience in such a state.
But man is a social animal. The only way u can be alone and not feel lonely is when u r occupied by an idea. when that idea is you yourself u become the mythical narcissist loving his own image. when that idea is someone else u become an obsessed lover popular in myths like Romeo, Meerabai etc. When that idea is a purpose u become a man on a mission... a mission of never ending pursuit.
And the idea of "lone wolf"- i am alone because i don't care about others- is itself imperfect. Every warrior needs a camaraderie, every Dark knight needs an 'Alfred', and every sherlock needs a watson.
I do, seem society, family thing I'm ole lonely person. Introvert
I smile all the time & it doesn't fight the loneliness BUT it does help to a certain extent.😊
Thanks to HIMYM, I found this beautiful song! So much emotion!
Himym ??
@@Tyjumli2pac how I met your mother
Samee ive been looking for this song
@@Tyjumli2pac How I met your mother it’s a sitcom
@@Tyjumli2pac how i met your mother
I'll admit that House brought me here, but now I'm addicted to Wilco
also just heard this on House and loved it
Raven Nurble Marie me too.
@@calmshorefilms1960 Me too.
Just smile all the time
:)
:(
but every smile i put on my face is forced
How
Girl, interrupted...
kacodamn that movie's great!
yeah, for sure!!!
The deleted scenes are even better, they're on TH-cam aswell so if you're a fan I'd take a look!🙂
I love u
you cant fight it....it just becomes the norm. ive been on my own scince around 2003. I used to be able to meet/talk to peeps soo easy. Now i cant wait to get home by myself. The loneliness becomes a part of you. its amazing how if anyone pays me attention, even a real nice lookin gal, u just think inside 'ohhh fuck off n leave me alone'. I just thank god i was in my 20's when it happend. Having no-one to talk to as a kid i cant even bear to imagine.
The only person you want will be the last person you’ll ever need... can’t help but believe that it’s going to be true.
I just love google and youtube for this. JUST heard this on house. So melodious and beautiful. Thank you House, google and TH-cam!
me too
Sonali Thatte Me too :)
me too! #house
Girl ,Interrupted brought me here ❤️
Me too... 2 years to find a Therapist/ Psychiatrist. But I just found one the other day
Cheers to all the fan of How I Met Your Mother !
believe it or not, himym has brought me here
how
it's the song when robin's searching her locket in season 8
+Bella Hisham oh really? lmao i came bc of Hayden but now wooooah
same here. and ted mosby always makes me cry
you're gross
I just found this song on an old er show,an fell in love with it,thanks wilco,for a lovely an meaningful song!!!♥️
I can't keep fighting like this all alone, ever since my guy lost his battle with depression in front of me, it's been an unbearable battle just to wake up. I haven't said anything in a while but I'm losing and it's not good at all where the constant smiling is leading me.
Just somewhere to cry our eyes out means a lot doesn't it?
a beautiful soul sent me this ... GENN
I recommend Buddhism to all those lonely people out there, it changed my life with an improvement starting from the inside out. I've been more alone these last few years than ever, but I haven't felt lonely.
Because you smile all the time
@@rumyad7483 and because he gave up on his heart
Ming
妳是那麼的高貴勇敢堅強，那麼的有想法，才華洋溢的一位女生，而我只是一個庸俗的男子，一個只會讓妳抽泣的男人，我真的完全不認為，妳會喜歡上我，特別是在妳和ㄧ位跟妳一樣多采多姿的男人剛結束一段戀情，還是妳的初戀，妳說妳是破碎的，沒有喜歡一個人的能力，只想要別人對妳好，而我，也有不能愛上妳的理由，最重要的是，我不想耽擱妳找尋真正的幸福，不想把自己想的太驕傲，並不是只有我能給妳這些，一定會有人做的比我更好，更浪漫、溫柔，只奢求以後的妳能把我放在心裡某個小小角落，會不會太多...?
我想妳可能沒有辦法接受我這種庸俗，只想霸佔全部的男人
可能是因為成長環境，外表看起來大剌剌，我的自卑感卻很重很重，所以我也害怕我比不上妳、不喜歡妳談論別的男性、不喜歡他(雖然我現在跟他一樣爛)...
想太多了
未來會怎麼樣也不一定 誰都說不準， 只期望妳寫給我的祝福都會成真。
....如果我們是同時被劈腿就好了，有時候我不禁這樣想。
i think there is a HUGE difference between loneliness and solitude. what you meant is prolly solitude. loneliness feels like hell, been there done that. solitude, on the other hand, is a blissful state when you just enjoy your own company.
I think this is a how to guide on how to turn loneliness into solitude.
thanks Hayden!
"in solitude, where we are least alone"
These comments and song made me sad, yet thankful to feel less alone quite ironically.
Is that Arwin in your pfp?
best song ever
Am I the only one who got to know about this song through house md . Such a great show .
This song is so sweet and cruel.. I have loved this film.. So much..
beautiful pictures to illustrate loneliness
*And the first thing that you want
Will be the last thing you ever need
Thats how you fight it*``... ♥
Shine your teeth to meaningless, and sharpen them with lies... ♡
"Sometimes to love someone,you gotta be a stranger"
Thank you Taylor for finding melanies loney astronaut playlist
Love that acoustic guitar.
love this song
Anyone here from playlist for the dead?
Just a girl trying to live with music Yes!
Yes
Wth I know the book, I've checked songs from it but actually I'm here because of Girl, Interrupted.
That's funny that I didn't notice this song while reading that book but actually after more than a year after movie
Yes chapter 20 😂😂❤️ it’s a good book
Mee
Hayden brought me here. Thanks, bro.
Got here bc of Taylor. Yeah, THE Taylor, the one and only goofy little geek who dreamed about being an astronaut all the time but is stuck in space now. Miss him:(
I've been a loner from the very day I was born to this day forth.
I'm glad I am. I'm perfectly happy not to be part of this modern and ill society.
I'm fine on my own as long as my mind is clear and I can read.
I don't see why I should socialize myself and become close to the people I despise.
In fact, I think I wouldn't be able to stand without having these huge periods of time during which all I do is let my thoughts drift and make me fly away into fantastic worlds I imagine.
GeddoeBlake sometimes its nice to share your thoughts with others and know they share the same thoughts
@@FrostySoprano which is why this person felt it necessary to make that statement. If they TRULY felt like they were happy not being part of society, they wouldn't have bothered sharing their feelings. 😊🙏💯❤
are you even still alive, mr. imaginary?
Missing out on soulmates and vibrations share your love
Amazing song
Good,,,, no more is needed to be said
I’m here after watching House, Remember This
I heard this song from the Girl Interrupted, and I'm loving itttt
@heronmusic2000 been in there, dude. I'm currently on my 20's and, i just hate the feeling of alone, im unnable of fight it. Always try to pull apart the people, dunno why. But its just like u said, the loneliness becomes a part of you.
True
9 people don't know how to fight loneliness
@Paranoidrobo i hear ya man, but remember, you are still young & have the world at ya feet (even though u may not think that). Your 20's are the BEST TIME IN YA LIFE!!! Even though you feel alone/distant, always keep an eye out for that special someone who could change ya world....remeber, there are plenty of other 'loners' out there just like us....i really hope you get past this phase of your life & then become a better man for it. PEACE, LUV & HAPPINESS BEING SENT YOUR WAY...XXX
This song is accurately the soundtrack of my life for the past 4 years.
@heronmusic2000 I feel same way , been alone since my divorce , men pay me attention and I just say , hell
I can't do it anymore , I am always anxious to get home from work so I can be in my own world. I used to stay on the go constantly and always happy in arelationship now its like I can't do it anymore.
Here because I was an uncle tupelo fan and later Wilco and son volt.
I don't watch TV or Hollywood movies.
deep dude.
It's hard to let go of someone who abused you when they're part of your family and you still fucking care about them, it's hard to let go of all the ppl in your small town when you don't fit in anywhere else, even though most of them never gave a shit about you unless they wanted something to talk about, it's hard to let go of ppl who don't view you as another human being when you realize that's been about 95% of the ppl in your life
bite into those 5%. don't let them go
@tflemoful listen hun, i was really wasted when I wrote that comment. Pleeease, don't lock yourself off from the world like I did. Don't become a loner like I did. Just interact with peeps, cause then you will stay in the habit. Don't become like me, alone by choice for years so you don't even know how to interact with peeps. I BEG U HUN, JUST KEEP INTERACTING/MINGLING with others.... cause you never know who ya might meet....PEACE, LOVE & A MASSIVE AMOUNT OF GOOD ENERGY IM SENDING YA..XXX
You wrote this comment 8 years ago , I hope you have found happiness , love and solace .
Taylor from space who was in a black hole brought me here! ^_^
It is so strange because, logically, I realize what is going on but I just can't shake it. Sick of feeling bad for myself. Lonliness has to be one of the most debilitating effects on a human body. I wish I knew how to shake it.
S8E23 Maybe we know it deep down
Reminds me of my crusshhhh!! And my sister 😥
House brought me here
House md bought me here
My mate grant brought me here.
Solid mate.
Ted and Robin
Ofcourse you can fight loneliness. First, there's a lot of lonely people out there, and if you put them all together, no ones lonely. But that's a hard thing to do since it's a big world out there and the number of lonely people may not me equal.
But you can still fight it. I used to be lonely, then I pulled myself together and made som friends. I even got a girlfriend for a while. Keep fighting
You can also still feel lonely. Even though you have a lot of good friends who care about you.
I think this song is better appreciated by those who always feel lonely.
shut it
Playlist for the Dead, Track 20.
House MD. Season 7 Epi.12
Ted and robin ❤
Girl, Interrupted
lol beleieve it or not i don't have himym as a partner thats what brought me here aka im fighting my loneliness.
The drummer.....
bu şarkı ağzıma ediyor
House M.D. played it first!
No girl, interrupted definitely on that soundtrack first
💜
😍
ROBIN AND TED....
❤
So did I ..
🌠🌠🌠🌠🌠
HIMYM *u*
i'm the 1k like
2023...
Im here because of HIMYM
Here from girl interrupted
same
Maybe I was just a girl... interrupted.
drag addiction sought mother chant forget to no hold the substances sense important to clean as pencil start vast exercise white unknown headrace void dull less ...next
[Taylor is listening]
hhhhhhhmmmmm loneliness?
no such thing since everything comes from nothing.
so when you think your lonely! you actually are not alone, even atoms aren't alone.
My parents brought me here
👍😎
2024?
i’m here because, girl interrupted
"Girl, Interrupted"brought me here....
I just came from house.md
@heronmusic2000 I feel same way , been alone since my divorce , men pay me attention and I just say , hell
I can't do it anymore , I am always anxious to get home from work so I can be in my own world. I used to stay on the go constantly and always happy in a relationship now its like I can't do it anymore.